Have you ever been rejected from an interview and/or job offer from a company that you would've LOVED to work for?....I can understand how heartbreaking that is 💔. Let me know your experience below and what steps you took to do better next time!
Linda Raynier Had a interview last month and was led on to believe that I was getting the job and they just needed some time to get paperwork done, then the sole HR guys wife had a baby so I gave it more time (2 weeks) and waited as the recruiter told me. I was told by the recruiter that “they want to hire you, it will just take some weeks to get paperwork done so they just want you to hold on”. During this time my good friend and coworker resigned, I was happy for him and figured I would ask him later where he was going etc etc cause we are friends. 30 minutes before he was saying his goodbyes someone asked him where he was going and he said Company X for position Y. I had to put a smile on my face and wave him goodbye to my new job. And then I had drive home to start my family vacation. This job was going to propel me to the next phase of my career. I have been rotting at my current job for 9 years, everyone I started with has left but God just wants to torture me and make me watch while someone else gets the job that I was told I was getting. I was on top of the world during this whole time, I was going to FINALLY move on, I had cleaned my desk and bought a new wardrobe and ALL ALONG the person sitting next to me was filling out new HR paperwork. Then I tried to go online and ask for help and people criticized me for “not being happy for my friend”. I am not going to be happy for him and as of yesterday I don’t plan on being friends with him anymore, he took something right from under me and God gave it to him. EVERYONE WAS LYING TO ME! EVERYONE! INCLUDING GOD! and to rub salt on my wounds God made me watch and find out that this guy had taken my job. My first job interview for a risk analyst position was given to a bank teller (call me rude but that’s exactly what happened) because head of HR cannot keep his hands off a certain profile of woman and always needs them around. My second job interview made me wait 50 minutes for an accountant position and then put the position on hold. My third job interview asked me if I could behave like a mature adult because that’s how toxic their workplace is that they have to ask this question to candidates and my fourth interview lead me on and then gave the job to my ex friend. Life is great! Nothing like going back to work and seeing the empty desk next to you is because the guy got your dream job that he wasn’t even qualified for, because you know his work profile. YAYYYYY time to get hit by a bus! 👍🏽
I just got a rejection email from a place I was really hoping would work out. This was after multiple tests and interviews with them, which makes this a hard rejection to take. I was one of four selected for the final round. Anyways... watching your video did help me somewhat. Thank you for your advice.
I just got rejected from a job that I applied and interviewed with previously, and this is my second rejection. This second time around, I thought I'd land it for sure because of how much I practiced, prepped, and the interview went so well to the point that I had a follow-up phone interview. The phone interview was about 2 weeks later, and the nerves were kicking in, which makes me believe I didn't get the job because of my lack of confidence via phone call. Today, I received a call from the HR manager who let me know I wasn't selected for the position, however, she wants to keep my records on file for another position that will be opening in the near future. If this wasn't God given, I don't know what is, but it's just so crazy to me that she thought of me personally for the new marketing role that sounds more in my field, and not to mention, the pay is much higher than what I initially had been applying for. I just wanted to share my story/experience that has been bittersweet, but I also wanted to ask for any uplifting advice or what you think I should focus on going forward? I really want to work for this company, and it hurts to know I've been rejected twice. Maybe I need to cry it out, but the last thing I want to do is give up.
@@eastcoastguy7914 I wish you succeed in your carrier, I wish to know what happened next.. Are you in a better position then him... Sometimes all you need to be patient.. Just smile. And let it all go.. God is not injust.. He is the most just.. "Patience is the Key" One day you will shine like no other, Keep working, Keep develeoping.. Ciao :)
Michael, how's the job search? Hang in there if you're still searching. I have found over the years that rejection can be a helpful friend. Didn't think so years ago, but I know better now.
Just got rejected from a job today through email. It really hurts because I seriously thought that I would get the job and that I was a perfect fit. I felt super confident that I would get it. My interview even went very well but I guess that wasn’t enough for them. I just don’t understand. It’s really hitting me hard. But this video made me feel a little better about it so thanks.
Same thing happened to me. I had three two hour group interviews, one week apart. During each interview I 'd hear comments like "awesome" or "perfect" after I'd answer some questions. I sent thank you notes to everyone I interviewed with and actually got a couple of responses saying things like "I'm so happy someone qualified for the job applied and was brought in". I've done EVERY aspect of this job for eleven years! I should have been offered this job. I was rejected and it makes no sense, being 58 years old I can only assume I was again, a victim of age discrimination. . . something I can never prove, but its the only thing that makes sense. This one hurt alot.
I think you nailed it when you said "if it wasn't yours, it wasn't meant to be. Have the faith that there is something better for you out there'. That is my takeaway from my interview experience
To be honest I have been trying to make a career change and I am discouraged. My resume get me an interview but I don’t get an offer. It messes with your esteem
Rejected is tough, but it's also necessary. Sometimes you need to be rejected in order to get what's best for you. I've had to keep this in mind after being rejected from job I thought I'd be the best match for earlier this year, but then I ended at a better company.
I didn't get the job. And honestly I worked hard on that interview. I had resumes prepared, and gurus that told me I did excellent on my practice interview. I even sent out thank you e-mails, and did a follow-up with no response. I can handle rejection. And if I didn't get the job, okay I'll apply elsewhere. But don't keep me waiting nearly a month. And the only way I find out is when I reach out to the HR by phone call.
I’m trying to start my career in marketing out of college and it’s so frustrating getting rejection after rejection. I’ve been rejected to 5 in person interviews, 15 phone screenings, and dozens of applications. I’ve gone to my school’s career counselor for multiple resume reviews, cover letter reviews, and mock interviews. The only critiques I get are super minor and they say otherwise I’m doing a good job. Some days I just want to give up. I can’t even see where I will be in a month. It’s so disheartening especially when ALL of my peers already have jobs waiting for them after graduation. And I have to say to them “still looking” with a plastered on smile on my face pretending it’s ok but it’s not ok. It’s really not. I hate the looks of pity I get so much. I just want some company to want me. I feel worthless.
Welcome to the club. I’m a law school graduate who passed two bar exams. I have two part time jobs, one of which is at a law firm where I’m making minimum wage as a glorified paralegal. Sometimes, life just isn’t fair. The only advice I can give is to do temp gigs (ie. poll worker, seasonal sales at department store). Also, volunteer and accrue potential references.
You're not worthless. You're AWESOME! That right marking position is waiting for you. It's just waiting for you to find it. Those other companies that rejected you wasn't worth you time anyways. DON'T GIVE UP BECAUSE YOU GOT THIS!!!
At least you’re getting interviews and phone screening. I’ve been rejected for approximately 50 Graduate jobs from the initial CV/CL/Online testing phase. I customise all my CV’s and CL’s for positions and my marks in online applications are above average. Those three alone take hours to do and it’s so Frustrating when you get that rejection and it’s the usual “thank you, but no” with no feedback, and in my case, like today, usually given on a Friday evening... yay weekend. I’ve also been to career consultants and they say my CV is well written and appealing and they always say “can’t believe you haven’t been hired yet” I appreciate the comments but that doesn’t exactly help my situation?! Best course of action is to keep applying... hope for t best.
After reading the responses below it actually helped me realize I’m not the only one. It really cuts at your self esteem especially when you think you have a connection and you feel it’s a good fit.
Doesnt help when they dont give you any feedback or even get back to you! I put it back on them... if they didnt think I was the perfect fit for their team then so be it. It also means they werent perfect for me either! All meant to be. Thanks Linda for your awesome helpful videos!!
Yes sometimes the interviewer doesn’t give you any feedback on how you did and what you could’ve done better or made yourself more clear while speaking
A lot of the time, people are rejected simply for just that: Rejection. A lot of the time, they perform extremely well in all aspects but for reasons beyond their control, they’re still rejected. I just think it’s important to mention in these types of videos that the job market can actually be extremely unfair and that sometimes it really is just about luck!
Another rejected here. Just got an e-mail from a company I interviewed at the other day that I wasn't selected. I can totally understand that one might not be a good fit for the team, lack some technical or interpersonal skills, etc. However, I really don't understand, and never will, how the companies indicate that the reason for your rejection was a specifil skill they KNEW you did not have. In my case, I applied for a role in administration and have said within the first 5 minutes of the phone screening that I did not have scheduling experience. However, they still invited me to the second interview, which lasted 2 hours (plus all the time I spent on preparation), just to e-mail me and say that they needed someone with scheduling experience! Why are you wasting my time and creating false expectations, when you probably have me as a 2nd choice at best?.. I'm upset because I really wanted to move to that city. But oh well, life goes on, and I guess it just wasn't meant to be. Let's not give up :)
I got rejected after the final interview after a long interview process by a job that I wanted so much. My family was really looking forward to me getting the job. It hurts so so much. I was only a step a way from reaching my dreams. I'm friends with someone who passed and I'm so jealous of them. I really don't know where to go after this.
I hate when people act like getting a job is so easy because they're obviously still living in an optimistic mindset about an economy that ended 20 years ago. The job market can be extremely competitive at times, I'm a current job seeker so I would know. Even some minimum wage jobs are hard to get because employers want someone with experience but there's little to nothing for people with no experience.
But seriously, sometimes it is not because of fair reasons. Sometimes it is something minor that could be changed quickly and it is puffed up into something big.
I'm now going through something similar. With only three days left until the end of my seven-day probationary term, I was in the middle of my fourth training day. As I woke up, I was surprised to receive a message from my supervisor informing me that my employment would be terminated immediately. I was quite perplexed because I'd like to believe that in addition to being competent for the position, I've also been careful in following all requirements and shown my enthusiasm throughout the training. In our most recent activities, she praised me. I'm assuming I may have made some mistakes or something, but I was hoping for at least some feedback so I'd know what to work on. I'm feeling so down right now, and it stinks because I can't help but question my abilities. As they value feedback, I had hoped to at least receive some from them, but sadly, I haven't even received that.
@@cammiemariepontillas3207 sorry to hear that ☹️ sounds very upsetting and I hope you will get at least some feedback. I am sure there is something great out there for you
I got rejected from a job today. My heart sank during the call when she said 'unfortunately, we can not appoint you for the position.' I was sad, hurt and disappointment. I am reflecting back at the interview questions so that I fix my mistakes and prepare better.
Love your point about reflecting on whether you perhaps could have done something better, or whether it was out of your control. Every failure/rejection is a learning experience! Cheers!
I had the interview today. I thought it went really well, it was the perfect role and I was so excited. Unfortunately they called me a few hours after the interview to tell me I didn't make it. They've hired a girl whose got a lot more experience. Congrats to her no doubt! But that has killed my motivation as I particularly liked that role. I've been in my current role for 3 years now and it looks like I'm going to have at least another sad 3 more ☹
My summer internship wasn't just a normal job rejection, it also destroyed my dream of me meeting my long distance love and among other things. I was going to gain freedom but look what happened ... I have great skills, experience and qualifications. Never understood why they did not picked me. I was looking forward to this amazing opportunity but they never told me why. I think discrimination has something to do with it and the fact that I have an hispanic accent maybe. But I'm talented and will continue to study for my masters and get the CPA. I have goals in life but if only I knew what I did wrong...
I was just rejected. I lost enthusiasm after the 3rd interview and by the 4th I was gassed. I learned a lot . I almost had it. Need to work on a few interview skills
I just found out that I’ve been rejected from getting a job. My heart shattered as I never worked before and it’s something that I really really want to do. It kind of made me lose motivation to do anything...especially looking for another job 😞 not a nice feeling at all
I have had a really tough start to my career even though i have progressed well theres either office politics or people with more experience beating me to jobs. It hurts because as a young individual you can only hope you get someone to give you an opportunity to gain that experience. Feel like i am nearly there but this last push is painful. I know i will get there and one day you all will whoever is reading this ❤️
Thank you Linda. This video really helped me. I was recently rejected for a job earlier this year and never felt so hurt and disappointed in myself. I'm going to get that job one day.
It’s hard to work on something when the company doesn’t respond back. There is no feedback on what to work on. I’ve had my resume reviewed by friends and resume gurus. I think there are some resume gurus are helpful and some resume gurus are in it only for the money and not truly out there to help. The focus should be to stay positive and do your best to learn from your interviews if you ever get one.
I was rejected from my 5th interview with this company yesterday. I’ve always wanted to work with them (they’re an airline I have a strong connection to)! I was so upset, it hurt so so much because they’ve failed to see what I can bring to them. I cried the whole day. I felt like I disappointed my mum. I want to earn enough to give back for all she has done before it’s too late. They won’t even give me feedback and it’s just so frustrating
Truly, if it is meant to be, it will be. We have an idea of what we think we want or what we think is best for us. God or the universe or whatever you believe has a completely different perspective and a rejection is meant to push us in the correct direction that is meant for us. We had down the path we want, when we get rejected, we get pushed down another path and that rejection was meant to happen or we would’ve continued down the path that wasn’t truly part of the bigger destiny meant for us.
I just hate it when people tell me to think positive and keep my head up when getting rejected feels like someone hitting me with a metal baseball bat multiple times. I just don't care anymore.
i got rejected a few weeks ago and I never felt so heartbroken over not getting the job. maybe it’s just because it’s a dream job on a dream company. Also, I kinda was expecting I’m gonna get it because I thought i was doing so well, even on the final interview with the company’s COO he even shared his feedback “i like the maturity and professionalism” etc plus he said he believes I can be a good addition to the company. 💔 after the video call i was so happy and excited then after a few days i got a message saying that I didn’t get the job and they considered hiring another candidate 😞
Ive been depressed and stressed these past few weeks because I feel like my family is pressuring me to get a job.I already applied more than seven times and the more days passed the more my hope becomes lower and lower.Fortunately,I got a call a few days ago for a job interview.I was really happy but still I ready myself for the possibility that they might not give me the job offer. I was really excited though. Today supposed to be my interview but when I got there they said the person who will interview me wasn't there. I tried to call the person who called me and they said the person who supposed to interview me had quit so my interview will not gonna happen.I was really disappointed and devastated.Im crying right now in my room😢 Its really heart breaking
This is an important topic. As I mentioned in a comment below, I think we make the mistake of confabulating reasons for rejection, but the way I've learned to think of it is (metaphorically), if ten actors read for one part, nine aren't gonne get picked and it means nothing about their value and worth. Don't get picked this time, read for the next one. As long as we know it doesn't mean anything about us, we'll be able to do that.
I'm a recent college grad and the future looks bleak. I've already been rejected after interviews five times from pretty entry level roles, and I study up on interview tips all.the.time. It's hard not to get discouraged- really, really hard. Especially after this most recent rejection.
Got the rejection email 2 days ago.. after the final stage and long process.. I'm so excited for the process,. And I take it very seriously.. Talking about the jobs with my family and turn out I'm failed.. It's put me down and I will stop looking any job soon.. still need time to think what I done wrong😢 and need to more qualifying me...
An employer actually called after a long interview process to tell me I did not have the skill set. No details even after I asked politely. Of course I would take something like that personally. I did not end the call very politely.
Some employers have not learned things the hard way and were given the easy route to their position. Let people know that person was a jerk and put that company out of business!
Thank you for this video I just got rejected from yet another job I have my Masters Degree in Criminal Justice and no one will hire me IT HURTS!! I'm a single mom of 3 kids and I just want to take care of them with a career, get us a nice home etc I feel like a failure
Can you make a video about whether it's okay to re-apply for the same job? If so, how long should I wait to re-apply? What would the next steps be? Thanks so much for your inspirational videos! I love watching.
I just got knocked back after being short listed from 30. Did good in the interview but not my turn. Just staying focussed on taking the feedback on and moving forward.
Faced two rejections in a week, both from really top notch firms that I wanted to work for. It hurts a lot because I had 7-8 rounds of interviews with both, meeting everyone in their teams and truly felt like they saw me as one of their own. It feels like all the time I had invested was for nothing. More than feeling hurt, I am overwhelmed by exhaustion both from the long processes I’ve been through but also the thought of having to start from scratch. Learning from failure is important, but it makes it even more painful when you have to rethink and analyse the moments you failed!
I am offered to a job before four days and today, I am rejected, it is the second job that I have offered, so I am feeling so sad and I felt that I had not enough skills to get a job.
I have been rejected way too many times. It’s very discouraging when you’re trying to make a career change and when you try to continually improve yourself in an interview (hence why i’m watching these kind of videos). I am now suffering from depression and my confidence is now rock bottom and it just messes up with your mental health. Am I simply not just good enough to move forward in my career? You know what they say “the squeakiest wheel gets the grease” only those who best sell themselves in an interview are the most successful in this step of the hiring process.
Thank you, Linda for your video...I've gone to so many interviews for the last 2 months and somehow didn't get the job and I wonder why. After watching your video, I gain clarity and see a pattern of why I didn't get the job. Now that I know it, I will work on how to improve. Fingers crossed, hopefully the next job interview will be my next job.
Although I didn't get the promotion I initially wanted, I realised that I preferred my previous position (directly teaching kids as opposed to being an assistant director). I'm also grateful that my boss offered to meet me halfway with tons of skill development training. He loved my positive response at the face of rejection, and wanted me to have as many additional traits under my belt. What struck me as the most heartwarming was him (and his gf - she specialises in startup) having my back should I pursue my own career. All this from working part time in an after school job teaching little angels. What I'm also saying is, thank you Linda for your videos. I used a lot of the tips you gave regarding resume prep, networking, interviews (making a strong impression and answering the infamous "what's your weakness" question), and asking for a promotion. This channel is a goldmine.
Thank you so much for this video it lighthens my mind and realize eveything that maybe i was rejected because there is a better job waiting for me out there...i mean the best is yet to come...thanks💓💓
You're the only and I say the only one who I listen to tho I always follow my intuitions and my bravery also risk taker power to deal with the situation but since I started watching your videos I feel better and do better.
I've gained international work experience in the last 2.5 years and upon returning to my hometown, I've been seeking work related to my previous job experience abroad. I've been rejected at least 8 times in the last 3 months. I never had this problem in my life. A part of me feels like prospective employers view international work experience as a bad thing, even though I was working for reputable companies.
I just got rejected after 5 rounds ... It hurts because I really connected with the people that I met at the company. I REALLY WANT TO STAY OPTIMISTIC BUT ITS SO HARD
Something that helps me is comparing interviews to auditions. In many dance/acting auditions, they already known what type of performer they’re looking for. Sometimes employers already have someone in mind for the position but they’re keeping an open door for someone else who stands out or has better qualifications. So if you don’t land it, that’s OKAY! Just treat it like an audition and TRY AGAIN! 😃
my lesson is: find happiness withing yourself and create your own sustainable business (self love) dont look for validation like a junkie (next job/hit)
Never even got the official rejection email/phone call from a job interview 5 months ago. Had another opportunity in the meantime so I didnt follow up. Their loss ;)
@@sergiorobles7169 I did not get the promotion but I was hired by a different company with a higher position and salary rate than my prev job. So I think you just have to try and try and learn from prev mistakes and to find every opportunity to improve.
Today I got rejected from a job I wanted to get. I am about to graduate with my diploma in HR management and that job description really suits my level, education and experience. I am not desperate but still feel really defeated. This video is helpful for me to process that frustration. Thanks 😊
I spent two whole days trying to perfect my answers and the presentation they tasked me with. The interview went pretty well I didn't stutter. I even asked questions at the end. They told me the result would be out today. I stayed up till 2a.m the next day and still no email. They didn't even bother to give me any sort of closure. It hurts so bad. Now I can't even sleep. Whenever I try to close my eyes a thousand questions flood my mind. What did I do wrong? Was I that bad? Do I even have a chance getting a job? I know this is a part of the recovery process and that it'll get better, but still I'm feeling terrible now.
I went to 1 interview which I find im good fit and contribute more, lot of time preparation 3-4 hours before starting, then 30-60 mins face to face sharing. Got the rejection email today. I feel so sad as i thought we were right for each other. Upset, angry, hit my confident hard
Gurl you read me. I agree with you. We need to accept it and think did I really give my 100% and I think every rejection in life is not just a rejection but a chance to learn and avoid those mistakes again. Like for this company I have been interviewing past few years and everytime I get one more round close to the final round. Hopefully I will get it once. Sometimes things happens for a reason.
I just got rejected by two different companies on the same day. Even though I was a perfect fit for the qualifications they required. All good tho, I got this!
I got rejected from 4 interviews😔graduated and still unemployed..All of my batch mates are doing jobs now it really hurts a lot..feeling depressed,hopeless all the time..Thank you so much for making this video for us
I've been rejected from a job that I really wanted to work for three times a few months ago. It's just unacceptable that I got failed because it is too personal which my gender preference matters for them in order for me to be not qualified. I always lived my life, embracing the traditional values that my family taught me up to my upbringing. With that experience, the fundamental value of having fairness upon selecting their employees by how they perform is what truly matters. After watching this, I've had a reflection towards myself that I should keep going no matter how hard to enter my true passion in teaching and make a difference in a child's life. Thank you so much. 😊💖⭐
I was rejected again today. This is my 16th interview. Most of the interviews I went, I will receive good feedback but wont get a call or an email that I was rejected. However today the response really hurt me. She told me that I was not excited when talking about my role, the last interview that I went, I was told I was excited when I talked about my role hence I was rejected. I don't understand what they want. I was trying to move out from the company since last year but they told me I'm still young, my experience are the same as junior executive but how I'm going to improve if no one gives me an opportunity. I keep on thinking what went wrong, I asked my friend who is an HR about my resume but she said my resume is okay. I wonder what I should do to be accepted.
Same here. I'm young and have consulted for year's. I have the same experience as someone twice my age but I have a seeking suspicion that's why I keep getting rejected since everything else is great...
I was rejected for a job today that I really wanted. I was led to believe that I had the job, but interviewing was a formality. Obviously, that wasn’t the case. I am heartbroken, more heartbroken than I ever thought I would be from not getting a job. Since I thought I would get this position, I messed up my other employment (scheduling issues). I am feeling overwhelmed with emotion, and I really don’t know where to go from here, or if I should even continue to apply for similar jobs. This was really crushing for me.
Sameew they I interviewed for a job a few months ago. They didn't give it to me because they wanted me for a different job because they liked me so much and I was told that this Jon was basically mine. But I didn't get it
As a 16 year old shelter kid. I just got rejected though email. Stuff hurts. As a car guy wanting his first job for a car wash. Hits even harder. Been dreaming what I'll do with that money. Invest and everything. My self esteem is low now. This hurts harder then getting rejected by a girl. Well that's life. Thanks for the video imma keep my head up, thanks to you.
I was told that they will let me know. later after a job interview in being a coach. I'm pretty sure this is a no thank you message to offer me the job, but that's okay, this is normal to feel down and depressed. What I need to do now is work on my interview questions based on what they ask in how my current job is helping me to prepare the qualifications I need to become a more suitable Life Coach.
I completed an interview and I thought it went really well and the interviewer said it went well and the same day they updated me to not selected so I guess it didn’t go as well as I had thought. That really hurt especially considering it was the job I really wanted and put time into the interview prep and my qualifications. I guess the only thing I can do now is move forward and keep trying but man does it feel bad right now
It's all about gaining experience through other jobs that you can only gain through experience that you get from a job that requires experience from what experience of whatever job that offers experience but only if you're experienced with it first. See the impossible pattern here?
yes AGREE 100 PERCENT ... THE BS OF IT ALL....IT HAS ME STRESSED THAT I WANT TO CONT. TO GAIN HR EXPERIENCE. BUT NO ONE WILL GIVE ME THE CHANCE TO GAIN THE EXPERIENCE.
@@user-vc9or5uc4x one thing I did to gain experience was literally working for a company in the HR department for free for around 1 month. I worked roughly 2-3 days/week and it ranged from 5-7hr shifts. I was working part time at a Casino during this as well. I know some people don't have time on their hands but when you do, give it a try. I just got rejected from a "no-experience required" job knowing damn well I was qualified. It's their loss. You are valuable. A lucky company would witness that when they hire you.
I always get rejected every time I have a job interview, like a gazillion times times that I don't even know what is like to be hired or what is like to have a job. I once got unemployed for 3 f*cking years for always being rejected. I hope I won't be unemployed for the next 3+ years again or I'll have depression or anxiety attack.
Hello, i feel the same, i just get rejected today, i've been unemployed for 3 years too, i'm so sad, I cried secretly becoz I don't want my family to see me crying like a fool, it feels like I'm a failure. But i always said to myself that, they lost me. Hope we will find the right job for us😊
Is it possible to get rejected for being pretty? 😬 my outer appearance does not reflect what’s on the inside of my mind. I’m very innocent looking, but my mind is very analytical & deep. My innocent demeanor fools people. At least if i get invited for an interview, i get a chance to show them my capability & seriousness. This is frustrating!
"God will bless those who are rejected right in front of people who rejected!" All success stories have 1000s of rejection... Still they didn't loose hope n moved on..... Moving on and trying is quintessential in life but one needs God to support, to wipe tears n encourage as well...!! Be positive ... Somewhere your dreams are fructifying for a better n higher self but it is invisible right now!!
I wasn’t rejected from a job but I’m honestly preparing for my rejection form the opportunity to go overseas for 4 months, and I just wanna prepare myself
Have you ever been rejected from an interview and/or job offer from a company that you would've LOVED to work for?....I can understand how heartbreaking that is 💔. Let me know your experience below and what steps you took to do better next time!
Linda Raynier Had a interview last month and was led on to believe that I was getting the job and they just needed some time to get paperwork done, then the sole HR guys wife had a baby so I gave it more time (2 weeks) and waited as the recruiter told me. I was told by the recruiter that “they want to hire you, it will just take some weeks to get paperwork done so they just want you to hold on”. During this time my good friend and coworker resigned, I was happy for him and figured I would ask him later where he was going etc etc cause we are friends. 30 minutes before he was saying his goodbyes someone asked him where he was going and he said Company X for position Y. I had to put a smile on my face and wave him goodbye to my new job. And then I had drive home to start my family vacation. This job was going to propel me to the next phase of my career. I have been rotting at my current job for 9 years, everyone I started with has left but God just wants to torture me and make me watch while someone else gets the job that I was told I was getting. I was on top of the world during this whole time, I was going to FINALLY move on, I had cleaned my desk and bought a new wardrobe and ALL ALONG the person sitting next to me was filling out new HR paperwork. Then I tried to go online and ask for help and people criticized me for “not being happy for my friend”. I am not going to be happy for him and as of yesterday I don’t plan on being friends with him anymore, he took something right from under me and God gave it to him. EVERYONE WAS LYING TO ME! EVERYONE! INCLUDING GOD! and to rub salt on my wounds God made me watch and find out that this guy had taken my job. My first job interview for a risk analyst position was given to a bank teller (call me rude but that’s exactly what happened) because head of HR cannot keep his hands off a certain profile of woman and always needs them around. My second job interview made me wait 50 minutes for an accountant position and then put the position on hold. My third job interview asked me if I could behave like a mature adult because that’s how toxic their workplace is that they have to ask this question to candidates and my fourth interview lead me on and then gave the job to my ex friend.
Life is great! Nothing like going back to work and seeing the empty desk next to you is because the guy got your dream job that he wasn’t even qualified for, because you know his work profile.
YAYYYYY time to get hit by a bus! 👍🏽
I feel the pain and the next morning I go for a jog in the hill
I just got a rejection email from a place I was really hoping would work out. This was after multiple tests and interviews with them, which makes this a hard rejection to take. I was one of four selected for the final round. Anyways... watching your video did help me somewhat. Thank you for your advice.
I just got rejected from a job that I applied and interviewed with previously, and this is my second rejection. This second time around, I thought I'd land it for sure because of how much I practiced, prepped, and the interview went so well to the point that I had a follow-up phone interview. The phone interview was about 2 weeks later, and the nerves were kicking in, which makes me believe I didn't get the job because of my lack of confidence via phone call.
Today, I received a call from the HR manager who let me know I wasn't selected for the position, however, she wants to keep my records on file for another position that will be opening in the near future. If this wasn't God given, I don't know what is, but it's just so crazy to me that she thought of me personally for the new marketing role that sounds more in my field, and not to mention, the pay is much higher than what I initially had been applying for.
I just wanted to share my story/experience that has been bittersweet, but I also wanted to ask for any uplifting advice or what you think I should focus on going forward? I really want to work for this company, and it hurts to know I've been rejected twice. Maybe I need to cry it out, but the last thing I want to do is give up.
@@eastcoastguy7914 I wish you succeed in your carrier, I wish to know what happened next.. Are you in a better position then him... Sometimes all you need to be patient.. Just smile. And let it all go.. God is not injust.. He is the most just.. "Patience is the Key" One day you will shine like no other, Keep working, Keep develeoping.. Ciao :)
I was rejected for a job today and I was really hurt, sad and disappointed. Never felt such heartbreak. But optmistic that one I will get a good job.
Michael, how's the job search? Hang in there if you're still searching. I have found over the years that rejection can be a helpful friend. Didn't think so years ago, but I know better now.
@@timothy2336 not bad still searching and still optimistic.
I was rejected too
interested to hear how your getting on? Just got rejected for the third time for an internal position i am currently working.. time to take a hint.
Hey. I got a new job a year ago. It has been a journey.
I was rejected for a job today. They lost me. 😊 They don't know how talented I am. 😁
Fabulous mindset!
I agree they lost a talented person
Same!
💕🙏🏽
Yes. Same vibes here
Just got rejected from a job today through email. It really hurts because I seriously thought that I would get the job and that I was a perfect fit. I felt super confident that I would get it. My interview even went very well but I guess that wasn’t enough for them. I just don’t understand. It’s really hitting me hard. But this video made me feel a little better about it so thanks.
I feel the same I just found out 10
Mins ago I had the same situation
Same thing happened to me. I had three two hour group interviews, one week apart. During each interview I 'd hear comments like "awesome" or "perfect" after I'd answer some questions. I sent thank you notes to everyone I interviewed with and actually got a couple of responses saying things like "I'm so happy someone qualified for the job applied and was brought in". I've done EVERY aspect of this job for eleven years! I should have been offered this job. I was rejected and it makes no sense, being 58 years old I can only assume I was again, a victim of age discrimination. . . something I can never prove, but its the only thing that makes sense. This one hurt alot.
I felt the same. I thought I nailed the interview. I thought I was the best candidate. 💔
Sometimes it has more to do with them and less with you
@@zeke6690 me too! I just got rejected today.
I think you nailed it when you said "if it wasn't yours, it wasn't meant to be. Have the faith that there is something better for you out there'. That is my takeaway from my interview experience
To be honest I have been trying to make a career change and I am discouraged. My resume get me an interview but I don’t get an offer. It messes with your esteem
Same problem
same here!
Hurts badly!!! Update us when you get a job:)
Same issue. It had taken a hit on my confidence.
Right!
Rejected is tough, but it's also necessary. Sometimes you need to be rejected in order to get what's best for you. I've had to keep this in mind after being rejected from job I thought I'd be the best match for earlier this year, but then I ended at a better company.
What’s for you will not pass you
Lex Nicole thanks I needed this
Lex Nicole I hope that’s true
I love that. Thank you I needed that
Thank you for that 👍
Thank you Lex this was so needed. I appreciate it.
I didn't get the job. And honestly I worked hard on that interview. I had resumes prepared, and gurus that told me I did excellent on my practice interview. I even sent out thank you e-mails, and did a follow-up with no response. I can handle rejection. And if I didn't get the job, okay I'll apply elsewhere. But don't keep me waiting nearly a month. And the only way I find out is when I reach out to the HR by phone call.
IndigoMoon7 I’m sorry :( that sucks so much
Yup I feel you
Yup, this is so real. Some Hiring Managers lack the simple respect to follow up promptly no matter if there's an offer or not.
This is the truest post ever posted on UA-cam.
There a words they saying we "will" contact you in 2-3weeks, but then after 2month still no phone call.
I’m trying to start my career in marketing out of college and it’s so frustrating getting rejection after rejection. I’ve been rejected to 5 in person interviews, 15 phone screenings, and dozens of applications. I’ve gone to my school’s career counselor for multiple resume reviews, cover letter reviews, and mock interviews. The only critiques I get are super minor and they say otherwise I’m doing a good job. Some days I just want to give up. I can’t even see where I will be in a month. It’s so disheartening especially when ALL of my peers already have jobs waiting for them after graduation. And I have to say to them “still looking” with a plastered on smile on my face pretending it’s ok but it’s not ok. It’s really not. I hate the looks of pity I get so much. I just want some company to want me. I feel worthless.
Welcome to the club. I’m a law school graduate who passed two bar exams. I have two part time jobs, one of which is at a law firm where I’m making minimum wage as a glorified paralegal. Sometimes, life just isn’t fair.
The only advice I can give is to do temp gigs (ie. poll worker, seasonal sales at department store). Also, volunteer and accrue potential references.
You're not worthless. You're AWESOME! That right marking position is waiting for you. It's just waiting for you to find it. Those other companies that rejected you wasn't worth you time anyways. DON'T GIVE UP BECAUSE YOU GOT THIS!!!
At least you’re getting interviews and phone screening. I’ve been rejected for approximately 50 Graduate jobs from the initial CV/CL/Online testing
phase.
I customise all my CV’s and CL’s for positions and my marks in online applications are above average. Those three alone take hours to do and it’s so Frustrating when you get that rejection and it’s the usual “thank you, but no” with no feedback, and in my case, like today, usually given on a Friday evening... yay weekend.
I’ve also been to career consultants and they say my CV is well written and appealing and they always say “can’t believe you haven’t been hired yet” I appreciate the comments but that doesn’t exactly help my situation?!
Best course of action is to keep applying... hope for t best.
Any update? I'm in the same boat as you 😞
Praying that something comes your way! Hang in there and keep the faith 🙏
After reading the responses below it actually helped me realize I’m not the only one. It really cuts at your self esteem especially when you think you have a connection and you feel it’s a good fit.
Doesnt help when they dont give you any feedback or even get back to you! I put it back on them... if they didnt think I was the perfect fit for their team then so be it. It also means they werent perfect for me either! All meant to be.
Thanks Linda for your awesome helpful videos!!
Great points!
Timothy Howard thank you!
Yes sometimes the interviewer doesn’t give you any feedback on how you did and what you could’ve done better or made yourself more clear while speaking
Best response I have heard
I just got rejected from a job interview today. Hugs 😢
A lot of the time, people are rejected simply for just that: Rejection. A lot of the time, they perform extremely well in all aspects but for reasons beyond their control, they’re still rejected. I just think it’s important to mention in these types of videos that the job market can actually be extremely unfair and that sometimes it really is just about luck!
Another rejected here. Just got an e-mail from a company I interviewed at the other day that I wasn't selected. I can totally understand that one might not be a good fit for the team, lack some technical or interpersonal skills, etc. However, I really don't understand, and never will, how the companies indicate that the reason for your rejection was a specifil skill they KNEW you did not have. In my case, I applied for a role in administration and have said within the first 5 minutes of the phone screening that I did not have scheduling experience. However, they still invited me to the second interview, which lasted 2 hours (plus all the time I spent on preparation), just to e-mail me and say that they needed someone with scheduling experience! Why are you wasting my time and creating false expectations, when you probably have me as a 2nd choice at best?.. I'm upset because I really wanted to move to that city. But oh well, life goes on, and I guess it just wasn't meant to be. Let's not give up :)
It’s their loss
Don’t fret about it
I got rejected after the final interview after a long interview process by a job that I wanted so much. My family was really looking forward to me getting the job. It hurts so so much. I was only a step a way from reaching my dreams. I'm friends with someone who passed and I'm so jealous of them. I really don't know where to go after this.
1 year later, how are you? How had your journey been?
How is it going now
I hate when people act like getting a job is so easy because they're obviously still living in an optimistic mindset about an economy that ended 20 years ago. The job market can be extremely competitive at times, I'm a current job seeker so I would know. Even some minimum wage jobs are hard to get because employers want someone with experience but there's little to nothing for people with no experience.
I have the same struggle
The term “dream job” shouldn’t be used these days. Nowadays people just want to land a god damn job to pay bills.
💯💯💯💯
100% agree. just need money to live man
Deadass
Agreed
But seriously, sometimes it is not because of fair reasons. Sometimes it is something minor that could be changed quickly and it is puffed up into something big.
That or they already chose someone from the start like someone's friend or family member. Im
@@amdl270 This is so true.
I'm now going through something similar. With only three days left until the end of my seven-day probationary term, I was in the middle of my fourth training day. As I woke up, I was surprised to receive a message from my supervisor informing me that my employment would be terminated immediately. I was quite perplexed because I'd like to believe that in addition to being competent for the position, I've also been careful in following all requirements and shown my enthusiasm throughout the training. In our most recent activities, she praised me. I'm assuming I may have made some mistakes or something, but I was hoping for at least some feedback so I'd know what to work on. I'm feeling so down right now, and it stinks because I can't help but question my abilities. As they value feedback, I had hoped to at least receive some from them, but sadly, I haven't even received that.
@@cammiemariepontillas3207 sorry to hear that ☹️ sounds very upsetting and I hope you will get at least some feedback. I am sure there is something great out there for you
I sgree
I got rejected from a job today. My heart sank during the call when she said 'unfortunately, we can not appoint you for the position.' I was sad, hurt and disappointment. I am reflecting back at the interview questions so that I fix my mistakes and prepare better.
Rejected here. Helped me alot. Thank you linda, i love your video so much!
Love your point about reflecting on whether you perhaps could have done something better, or whether it was out of your control. Every failure/rejection is a learning experience! Cheers!
I had the interview today.
I thought it went really well, it was the perfect role and I was so excited.
Unfortunately they called me a few hours after the interview to tell me I didn't make it.
They've hired a girl whose got a lot more experience.
Congrats to her no doubt!
But that has killed my motivation as I particularly liked that role.
I've been in my current role for 3 years now and it looks like I'm going to have at least another sad 3 more ☹
My summer internship wasn't just a normal job rejection, it also destroyed my dream of me meeting my long distance love and among other things. I was going to gain freedom but look what happened ... I have great skills, experience and qualifications. Never understood why they did not picked me. I was looking forward to this amazing opportunity but they never told me why. I think discrimination has something to do with it and the fact that I have an hispanic accent maybe. But I'm talented and will continue to study for my masters and get the CPA. I have goals in life but if only I knew what I did wrong...
I was just rejected. I lost enthusiasm after the 3rd interview and by the 4th I was gassed. I learned a lot . I almost had it. Need to work on a few interview skills
I just found out that I’ve been rejected from getting a job. My heart shattered as I never worked before and it’s something that I really really want to do. It kind of made me lose motivation to do anything...especially looking for another job 😞 not a nice feeling at all
I have had a really tough start to my career even though i have progressed well theres either office politics or people with more experience beating me to jobs. It hurts because as a young individual you can only hope you get someone to give you an opportunity to gain that experience. Feel like i am nearly there but this last push is painful. I know i will get there and one day you all will whoever is reading this ❤️
I hope you have made a lot of progress since then
Thank you Linda. This video really helped me. I was recently rejected for a job earlier this year and never felt so hurt and disappointed in myself. I'm going to get that job one day.
It’s hard to work on something when the company doesn’t respond back. There is no feedback on what to work on. I’ve had my resume reviewed by friends and resume gurus. I think there are some resume gurus are helpful and some resume gurus are in it only for the money and not truly out there to help. The focus should be to stay positive and do your best to learn from your interviews if you ever get one.
Literally got a call today saying I was unsuccessful. Words cant describe how gutted I am. Really knocks confidence
Unfortunately racism and unconscious bias are prominent factors of rejection for high paid client facing jobs.
Baka Loko yup I agree , if the face doesn’t fit they won’t hire you..
Same I am Hispanic and I notice how people treat me different
And age discrimination!
I was rejected from my 5th interview with this company yesterday. I’ve always wanted to work with them (they’re an airline I have a strong connection to)! I was so upset, it hurt so so much because they’ve failed to see what I can bring to them. I cried the whole day. I felt like I disappointed my mum. I want to earn enough to give back for all she has done before it’s too late. They won’t even give me feedback and it’s just so frustrating
Truly, if it is meant to be, it will be. We have an idea of what we think we want or what we think is best for us. God or the universe or whatever you believe has a completely different perspective and a rejection is meant to push us in the correct direction that is meant for us. We had down the path we want, when we get rejected, we get pushed down another path and that rejection was meant to happen or we would’ve continued down the path that wasn’t truly part of the bigger destiny meant for us.
I just hate it when people tell me to think positive and keep my head up when getting rejected feels like someone hitting me with a metal baseball bat multiple times. I just don't care anymore.
i got rejected a few weeks ago and I never felt so heartbroken over not getting the job. maybe it’s just because it’s a dream job on a dream company. Also, I kinda was expecting I’m gonna get it because I thought i was doing so well, even on the final interview with the company’s COO he even shared his feedback “i like the maturity and professionalism” etc plus he said he believes I can be a good addition to the company. 💔 after the video call i was so happy and excited then after a few days i got a message saying that I didn’t get the job and they considered hiring another candidate 😞
In the same boat
I was rejected from my dream company yesterday and I felt really hurt and confused. Thank you for this.
Learning something from it makes it not a waste. Don’t forget to Remind myself of the qualities I have. Have faith! I’ll say those to myself.
I hate when people say “it’ll be alright don’t worry” when it feels like a kick in the teeth because I’ve been wanting this job since I was a kid..
Get in line it sucks for us all!!!!!
@@rjtheripper931get a grip dude!!!
Ive been depressed and stressed these past few weeks because I feel like my family is pressuring me to get a job.I already applied more than seven times and the more days passed the more my hope becomes lower and lower.Fortunately,I got a call a few days ago for a job interview.I was really happy but still I ready myself for the possibility that they might not give me the job offer. I was really excited though. Today supposed to be my interview but when I got there they said the person who will interview me wasn't there. I tried to call the person who called me and they said the person who supposed to interview me had quit so my interview will not gonna happen.I was really disappointed and devastated.Im crying right now in my room😢 Its really heart breaking
This is an important topic. As I mentioned in a comment below, I think we make the mistake of confabulating reasons for rejection, but the way I've learned to think of it is (metaphorically), if ten actors read for one part, nine aren't gonne get picked and it means nothing about their value and worth. Don't get picked this time, read for the next one. As long as we know it doesn't mean anything about us, we'll be able to do that.
I'm a recent college grad and the future looks bleak. I've already been rejected after interviews five times from pretty entry level roles, and I study up on interview tips all.the.time. It's hard not to get discouraged- really, really hard. Especially after this most recent rejection.
Got the rejection email 2 days ago.. after the final stage and long process.. I'm so excited for the process,. And I take it very seriously.. Talking about the jobs with my family and turn out I'm failed..
It's put me down and I will stop looking any job soon.. still need time to think what I done wrong😢 and need to more qualifying me...
An employer actually called after a long interview process to tell me I did not have the skill set. No details even after I asked politely. Of course I would take something like that personally. I did not end the call very politely.
Some employers have not learned things the hard way and were given the easy route to their position. Let people know that person was a jerk and put that company out of business!
@@JacksonDupreyyes!
Thank you for this video
I just got rejected from yet another job
I have my Masters Degree in Criminal Justice and no one will hire me
IT HURTS!! I'm a single mom of 3 kids and I just want to take care of them with a career, get us a nice home etc
I feel like a failure
I'm sorry to hear I hope you find an excellent job soon 😢 🙏
Can you make a video about whether it's okay to re-apply for the same job? If so, how long should I wait to re-apply? What would the next steps be? Thanks so much for your inspirational videos! I love watching.
I just got knocked back after being short listed from 30. Did good in the interview but not my turn. Just staying focussed on taking the feedback on and moving forward.
After I was lost a job last year due to Pandemic its hard to find a job right now and I'm always rejected.
I've been rejected today and feeling disappointed but I still believe I will get a job very soon.
Faced two rejections in a week, both from really top notch firms that I wanted to work for. It hurts a lot because I had 7-8 rounds of interviews with both, meeting everyone in their teams and truly felt like they saw me as one of their own. It feels like all the time I had invested was for nothing. More than feeling hurt, I am overwhelmed by exhaustion both from the long processes I’ve been through but also the thought of having to start from scratch. Learning from failure is important, but it makes it even more painful when you have to rethink and analyse the moments you failed!
I am offered to a job before four days and today, I am rejected, it is the second job that I have offered, so I am feeling so sad and I felt that I had not enough skills to get a job.
Loved it. Thanks for making this video. I was really depressed due to rejection.
I have been rejected way too many times. It’s very discouraging when you’re trying to make a career change and when you try to continually improve yourself in an interview (hence why i’m watching these kind of videos). I am now suffering from depression and my confidence is now rock bottom and it just messes up with your mental health. Am I simply not just good enough to move forward in my career? You know what they say “the squeakiest wheel gets the grease” only those who best sell themselves in an interview are the most successful in this step of the hiring process.
Thank you, Linda for your video...I've gone to so many interviews for the last 2 months and somehow didn't get the job and I wonder why. After watching your video, I gain clarity and see a pattern of why I didn't get the job. Now that I know it, I will work on how to improve. Fingers crossed, hopefully the next job interview will be my next job.
Got rejected by the fire department that I wanted so bad. Thought I did good on the interview but guess not enough. Just hurts
Although I didn't get the promotion I initially wanted, I realised that I preferred my previous position (directly teaching kids as opposed to being an assistant director). I'm also grateful that my boss offered to meet me halfway with tons of skill development training. He loved my positive response at the face of rejection, and wanted me to have as many additional traits under my belt. What struck me as the most heartwarming was him (and his gf - she specialises in startup) having my back should I pursue my own career.
All this from working part time in an after school job teaching little angels. What I'm also saying is, thank you Linda for your videos. I used a lot of the tips you gave regarding resume prep, networking, interviews (making a strong impression and answering the infamous "what's your weakness" question), and asking for a promotion. This channel is a goldmine.
Thank you so much for this video it lighthens my mind and realize eveything that maybe i was rejected because there is a better job waiting for me out there...i mean the best is yet to come...thanks💓💓
I’m waiting for an answer from my interviewer, please have me in your thoughts. 🙏🏻
Sending good vibes to all of you ❤️ ☀️🤓
You're the only and I say the only one who I listen to tho I always follow my intuitions and my bravery also risk taker power to deal with the situation but since I started watching your videos I feel better and do better.
I've gained international work experience in the last 2.5 years and upon returning to my hometown, I've been seeking work related to my previous job experience abroad. I've been rejected at least 8 times in the last 3 months. I never had this problem in my life. A part of me feels like prospective employers view international work experience as a bad thing, even though I was working for reputable companies.
I just got rejected after 5 rounds ... It hurts because I really connected with the people that I met at the company. I REALLY WANT TO STAY OPTIMISTIC BUT ITS SO HARD
Something that helps me is comparing interviews to auditions. In many dance/acting auditions, they already known what type of performer they’re looking for. Sometimes employers already have someone in mind for the position but they’re keeping an open door for someone else who stands out or has better qualifications. So if you don’t land it, that’s OKAY! Just treat it like an audition and TRY AGAIN! 😃
That's actually a very helpful way to look at things. Thanks for sharing!
I appreciate the fact that the first step to deal with rejection is to let one's feelings out. That way, one's mind is going to clear up.
Thank you ..i just got hired from work yesterday after i watch this..Godbless you and more power..💓💓💓
my lesson is: find happiness withing yourself and create your own sustainable business (self love) dont look for validation like a junkie (next job/hit)
Never even got the official rejection email/phone call from a job interview 5 months ago. Had another opportunity in the meantime so I didnt follow up. Their loss ;)
I had an interview today for a promotion and I think I did not get the job that's why I'm here.
did u find a job yet?
@@sergiorobles7169 I did not get the promotion but I was hired by a different company with a higher position and salary rate than my prev job. So I think you just have to try and try and learn from prev mistakes and to find every opportunity to improve.
I have been rejecting every interview around 5 months.
Same 😅
At least you're still breathing.
Ashit Debdas the same for me too , I have many years of experience And degree too . I guess maybe because of my race I get rejected.
Today I got rejected from a job I wanted to get. I am about to graduate with my diploma in HR management and that job description really suits my level, education and experience. I am not desperate but still feel really defeated. This video is helpful for me to process that frustration. Thanks 😊
I spent two whole days trying to perfect my answers and the presentation they tasked me with. The interview went pretty well I didn't stutter. I even asked questions at the end. They told me the result would be out today. I stayed up till 2a.m the next day and still no email. They didn't even bother to give me any sort of closure. It hurts so bad. Now I can't even sleep. Whenever I try to close my eyes a thousand questions flood my mind. What did I do wrong? Was I that bad? Do I even have a chance getting a job? I know this is a part of the recovery process and that it'll get better, but still I'm feeling terrible now.
I went to 1 interview which I find im good fit and contribute more, lot of time preparation 3-4 hours before starting, then 30-60 mins face to face sharing. Got the rejection email today. I feel so sad as i thought we were right for each other. Upset, angry, hit my confident hard
Very Informative. Thanks for sharing the valuable information
I liked the shine of positive and optimism in your eyes 🙂🙂🙂
Gurl you read me. I agree with you. We need to accept it and think did I really give my 100% and I think every rejection in life is not just a rejection but a chance to learn and avoid those mistakes again. Like for this company I have been interviewing past few years and everytime I get one more round close to the final round. Hopefully I will get it once. Sometimes things happens for a reason.
i feel like i just got impaled through the stomach just now. and my interview went well...
Same here. They loved my energy and liked my questions about the company all of a sudden I get an email saying it’s not a good fit ctfu I hate it here
I just got rejected by two different companies on the same day. Even though I was a perfect fit for the qualifications they required. All good tho, I got this!
It just hurt so bad when the company asked me to have 3 rounds of interview and I wasn’t selected in the end.......
I got rejected from 4 interviews😔graduated and still unemployed..All of my batch mates are doing jobs now it really hurts a lot..feeling depressed,hopeless all the time..Thank you so much for making this video for us
I’m so sorry you went through this, I hope you have a job now 🙏🏾
I just got rejected from jobs I truly needed and depression getting me. Or if I do get jobs, it's dead-end jobs that doesn't help me at all
Thank you for this “Pick me up” video, I really needed that. 🙏.
I've been rejected from a job that I really wanted to work for three times a few months ago. It's just unacceptable that I got failed because it is too personal which my gender preference matters for them in order for me to be not qualified. I always lived my life, embracing the traditional values that my family taught me up to my upbringing. With that experience, the fundamental value of having fairness upon selecting their employees by how they perform is what truly matters. After watching this, I've had a reflection towards myself that I should keep going no matter how hard to enter my true passion in teaching and make a difference in a child's life. Thank you so much. 😊💖⭐
i just have today 4 job interviews i don't know how they come all together and i get rejected from them all , lol
I was rejected again today. This is my 16th interview. Most of the interviews I went, I will receive good feedback but wont get a call or an email that I was rejected. However today the response really hurt me. She told me that I was not excited when talking about my role, the last interview that I went, I was told I was excited when I talked about my role hence I was rejected. I don't understand what they want. I was trying to move out from the company since last year but they told me I'm still young, my experience are the same as junior executive but how I'm going to improve if no one gives me an opportunity. I keep on thinking what went wrong, I asked my friend who is an HR about my resume but she said my resume is okay. I wonder what I should do to be accepted.
Same here. I'm young and have consulted for year's. I have the same experience as someone twice my age but I have a seeking suspicion that's why I keep getting rejected since everything else is great...
I was rejected for a job today that I really wanted. I was led to believe that I had the job, but interviewing was a formality. Obviously, that wasn’t the case. I am heartbroken, more heartbroken than I ever thought I would be from not getting a job. Since I thought I would get this position, I messed up my other employment (scheduling issues). I am feeling overwhelmed with emotion, and I really don’t know where to go from here, or if I should even continue to apply for similar jobs. This was really crushing for me.
Sameew they I interviewed for a job a few months ago. They didn't give it to me because they wanted me for a different job because they liked me so much and I was told that this Jon was basically mine. But I didn't get it
As a 16 year old shelter kid. I just got rejected though email. Stuff hurts. As a car guy wanting his first job for a car wash. Hits even harder. Been dreaming what I'll do with that money. Invest and everything. My self esteem is low now. This hurts harder then getting rejected by a girl. Well that's life. Thanks for the video imma keep my head up, thanks to you.
How do you get over not even being able to give your labor away as a volunteer?
I was told that they will let me know. later after a job interview in being a coach. I'm pretty sure this is a no thank you message to offer me the job, but that's okay, this is normal to feel down and depressed. What I need to do now is work on my interview questions based on what they ask in how my current job is helping me to prepare the qualifications I need to become a more suitable Life Coach.
I completed an interview and I thought it went really well and the interviewer said it went well and the same day they updated me to not selected so I guess it didn’t go as well as I had thought. That really hurt especially considering it was the job I really wanted and put time into the interview prep and my qualifications. I guess the only thing I can do now is move forward and keep trying but man does it feel bad right now
It's all about gaining experience through other jobs that you can only gain through experience that you get from a job that requires experience from what experience of whatever job that offers experience but only if you're experienced with it first. See the impossible pattern here?
Riley Scott like when an entry level position require 3-5 years of experience or when an internship wants 2 years of other internship experiences.
yes AGREE 100 PERCENT ... THE BS OF IT ALL....IT HAS ME STRESSED THAT I WANT TO CONT. TO GAIN HR EXPERIENCE. BUT NO ONE WILL GIVE ME THE CHANCE TO GAIN THE EXPERIENCE.
@@user-vc9or5uc4x one thing I did to gain experience was literally working for a company in the HR department for free for around 1 month. I worked roughly 2-3 days/week and it ranged from 5-7hr shifts. I was working part time at a Casino during this as well. I know some people don't have time on their hands but when you do, give it a try. I just got rejected from a "no-experience required" job knowing damn well I was qualified. It's their loss. You are valuable. A lucky company would witness that when they hire you.
Sometimes is because they’re not even hiring spams or they’re just making us waste our time
It's not about rejection.. atleast someone should tell the reason for rejection..so that we can improve
2.5 years on the phones with this company and I was rejected for lead position 5 times. I’m so sad rn.
I always get rejected every time I have a job interview, like a gazillion times times that I don't even know what is like to be hired or what is like to have a job. I once got unemployed for 3 f*cking years for always being rejected. I hope I won't be unemployed for the next 3+ years again or I'll have depression or anxiety attack.
Hello, i feel the same, i just get rejected today, i've been unemployed for 3 years too, i'm so sad, I cried secretly becoz I don't want my family to see me crying like a fool, it feels like I'm a failure. But i always said to myself that, they lost me. Hope we will find the right job for us😊
I blew man, I blew big time on the question about how to create donut chart.
I swear I am never having donuts again!
This Help me a lot.I was rejected on the job that I wanted.
Is it possible to get rejected for being pretty? 😬 my outer appearance does not reflect what’s on the inside of my mind. I’m very innocent looking, but my mind is very analytical & deep. My innocent demeanor fools people. At least if i get invited for an interview, i get a chance to show them my capability & seriousness. This is frustrating!
"God will bless those who are rejected right in front of people who rejected!" All success stories have 1000s of rejection... Still they didn't loose hope n moved on..... Moving on and trying is quintessential in life but one needs God to support, to wipe tears n encourage as well...!! Be positive ... Somewhere your dreams are fructifying for a better n higher self but it is invisible right now!!
I wasn’t rejected from a job but I’m honestly preparing for my rejection form the opportunity to go overseas for 4 months, and I just wanna prepare myself
I don't apply to dream jobs for this reason
Got rejected for applying for one of the positions.
Just for rejected from my job within my company. I’m ready to peace out