Saying things ive always been afraid to say
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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Whole house tour, please!
Us cancers are such emotional creatures. My son has mild autism he's 8. He started talking talking at 5 , he's different to say the least. He cares about shit way too much , like he stresses out if we're late going some place. He hates being dirty, he only eats like 2 things he doesnt eat nothing but those 2 things. He's just different & theirs nothing wrong with that . We just have to be there to support and treat them as if theirs nothing wrong. It can be stressful but God won't give you nothing you can handle
I don’t know what it is but Domo is glowing and I’m loving it ❤️
Domo, I am an older woman who has been following you for Year's and let me say to you that you are a very intelligent, capable, loving young woman.
I was just watching all your old videos… Not for any other reason then: I love watching Domonic when he was a baby. He is such an incredible boy!! 🤍 You’re so blessed to have him pick you as his Mother.
it’s not about being smart!! anything you want to be good at you just need to practice, especially when it comes to the sciences. find study habits that work for you and study/practice a little every day. find people who are in the same major and form a study group. get tutoring if you need to. you got this, i promise!!
Thank you for opening up Domo! Also I work in the behavioral health field & I’ve learned that it’s harder to diagnose adults with autism because a lot of the diagnosis is centered around how someone was throughout their childhood & such & it looks different/is harder to know once someone is older.
You’re not weird you’re VERY UNIQUE and so is your son ❤️❤️
I'm glad this home makes you feel happier & that it's closer to Wick's school!!! So happy for y'all!!! He is growing up so fast!!!
I love this for you! Cheers to making your heart that much lighter and reclaiming your power! Congratulations on finding a home that suits you and your son!
I understand where you're coming from with concerning the way you're treated with regarding women and men. Go after who ever treats you properly! Period💯
Domo,watching you grow is just as exciting as watching Wick grow…..Keep digging and growing and being the best advocate for your baby! I am so very proud of you 👏🏾
I swear, I’ve been telling my mom since I was a little kid that I feel “different” and I still feel the same as an adult. My brain just processed things ENTIRELY DIFFERENT. I’m going to get evaluated be fire the end of the year.
I love difference in ppl, it what makes you, you. That’s so beautiful to me. Girl, you are smart (apple don’t fall far from the tree) you just think differently and you will have to learn what helps you gasp the information. It will be a self learning journey for you and your going to see how capable you really are KEEP GOING! It’s set in her heart ❤️ to do this, so you won’t be satisfied until you do.
Hey domo and wicky I’m so in awe for your growth and youth 🙏🏽🥺
It’s okay to be emotional!!! I think I’m in the spectrum too so in a way I know what you mean completely. It’s hard but it’s not, it’s amazing to finally have answers and I think you can handle as many kids as you want!! I feel like I am also autistic and no one around me agrees.
Honestly autism and adhd have so many similarities , you should see if you have adhd if you haven’t. It was such a relief to realize “why” I am the way I am and how to move through life easier knowing what areas you struggle with.
Girl please know that you are smart enough!! You can do this!!! Take it semester by semester!! There will be ups and downs. Don't quit! Just keep going. You got this!!
I just love your personality and your energy is awesome it’s a breath of fresh air. Love peace and Blessings to you and Wick 😍😍
i love you domo🤍 you’re literally a goddess ! i really enjoy watching your videos cause your vibe is enthusiastic and idk how to explain it but its like always being interactive without getting bored yk. Anyways i have faith in you that you can finish nursing school without any problems 🙃
We definitely notice and appreciate the consistency Domo!! Glad to have you back here 😊
Increments babe… step by step. You’ll get there🙏🏾❤️
I LOVE THIS VIDEO DOMO!!! BUT SHIT WE ROCKIN REGARDLESS OF ANY CONFESSION AND IT'S NORMAL TO FEEL THE WAY YOU DO!!! I AGREE WITH YOU 100% ON MANY TOPICS AND I'M ALMOST 40!!! LIFE IS CRAZY AND CAN BE SO SCARY ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU NEVER KNOW ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON!!! BEEN HERE SINCE DAY 1 AND NOT GOING ANYWHERE!!! PART 2 PLEASE💛
Yes we want a room tour AND a house tour!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Girl yess!!🙌🏼 live in your truth & release fear based thoughts that limit your evolution. Living in Authenticity is far more rewarding. 🖕🏼 the haters… & use UA-cam videos to study. I dropped out of 7th grade… & I am also studying to become a dr. Study in your own unique way… trust me I’m getting As & Bs in college. You got this!
Take them out. Take them out of you mind and vocabulary. The words Can’t, I’m not smart enough, I don’t think I can make it. Stop using them words and you will make it. Keep pushing and stay focus. You most definitely got this. Love and Blessings 🤞🏽💪🏽💯😉💕
You are so smart Domo and can do anything you set your mind to, we've seen it !!! I'm soooo proud of you, keep following your dream and get out of your head !!!!
Thank you for sharing your secrets with us. I want to catch a video on what was happening in your "Merica" neighborhood. My brother just told me how horribly his neighbors have been treating him and his girlfriend (interracial relationship) and it was so.... eye opening. I never actually gave much thought about how many of us live in neighborhoods where we aren't wanted and the experiences we may have while there.
I’ve been watching you since the beginning and my brother has cerebral palsy he is in a wheelchair just turned 19 and my mother have an amputation just did a 360 in life just to take care of both and I can’t with people are all judgmental I dead give you props because you are so brave to talk about these things
Always be yourself and stay true, The hell with everybody else, it's your life.
I am the same way. I cannot be in a public setting and be social unless I am around people I know and comfortable around. I barely even go to family functions because there are some people in my family I don't feel comfortable around.
You are not alone with the attachment issues, I'm the same way that's why I've been celibent for over 8ys because I develop a connection to people who don't deserve my Love or energy.
You are awesome ur great ur lady u have me cry 😢 😭 your so smart u have it all.......... I'm 42 and trying to start over.... I'm nobody
Domo. I completely understand mom guilt. As a mom who has two children on the spectrum I get the guilt. you are more than smart enough for med school you have to work at your pace and online school is not for everyone. you may breeze right through in person. due to the way thing happened with past you being terrified to have a child with another person make sense. Addictive personality is a real thing. I'm celibate by choice as well because being a mom I can't deal with any extra energy and I'm too attached then things don't work out like I want them too in my head. you got this Domo you are amazing and if people feel you extra send them my way
we love you domo, you can do whatever you set your mind to I’m going through the same thing with school. 🥺💕
I love you & your son. Your relationship with him is BEAUTIFUL! 💖😍
I completely understand why I don’t have a bunch of friends. I literally lost one this past week because she couldn’t deal with how real I am and apparently she was only my friend out of pity. I honestly have the same feelings about myself that you expressed in this video. I get not wanting to date because I also fall for the person quickly and feel like I’m annoying to them. I would always be open to making new friends but fr a lot of people can’t handle me.
I love this video because you can just see that you are a genuine person and you are real and don’t have any fakeness in your blood, I can’t believe how much we have in common starting off with having a son with autism I agree with everything you said 10000% from blaming yourself to being scared to have more children just everything ! I wish I had friends like you because you understand and been through so much like me 😓 by the way I’ve been a supporter since day 1 ❤️ love you 😘
You are smart enough what your thinking is what alot of ppl think even me I have school in September and I'm low key asking myself what are you doing what if you fail but then I remind myself that sitting down thinking what If isn't going to help me trying is the first step to success just remember that
I love this video!!! Thank you for doing this! This video was so great! I have no words! I appreciate your honesty. You are inspiring! Thank you.
Thank you for sharing. That's growth. You are Self Loving on You...that is powerful Domo... We are our own worst critic but something is changing and I love how you are taking your time. Our like (s) of/about self is the one that should matters the most. the likes others give is are extras okay. the other likes are extras... I love your growth and your honesty...It really looks good on you Domo....Keep doing Domo cause she is the most important every time👏👏👏
I really appreciate and love you and all you accomplished.my daughter actually turned me on to your channel.and I have been watching every since.keep on shinning
This was so relatable and some I feel like I have also, love you Domo!!!
Heyyyyy girlll love the glow up 🥺🥰😝
Welcome back babygirl we understand you i feel you on what you mean sometimes it hard to do or say what you really wanna do in rhat time bc your mood ways change at times but when it come to work you got to do your best has you can and thats all that matter you got this babygirl
"yall are ignorant. dont know too much"🤣
Can’t wait to watch !
I already collected one big a** comment about your first confession, but now that I’m watching more, I gotta comment more. On Confession #2, girl you CAN do it!!! You might not be smart enough right now, to be honest but that’s wtf college is for. That’s why it takes so long because there’s so much to LEARN!! By the time you’re done, you WILL be smart enough!! DO NOT GIVE UP!!!! Plus, I can definitely see you as a doctor!!! Stick with it, girl! YOU CAN DO IT!!! For Confession #3, is completely normal to be afraid of having a second child due to fears of not loving it like your first. My first pregnancy was twins and when I found out I was pregnant again, I literally spent most of the 9 months with the MOST guilty feelings. Like, guilty that my twins world feel some type of way about me giving my attention to another baby. Guilty that there was NO WAY I would be able to love this one as much as I loved them. But, the millisecond they are born, ALL those feelings go away! I promise!! You were literally born to a Mom, girl. You have nothing to worry about! 💗
He has you for a mother, so he will have an amazing life and be very, very loved.
U can do it girl!!! Don't doubt yourself please go thru with it domo
Continue being you Domo, no matter what!!!!
You saying I ain’t got it I ain’t got it shorty 😭😂 your personality is everything
You’re smart baby! It’s normal to doubt yourself I’ve been there but we got this boo!
My best advice would be to get a full genetic markup!!
I did it when I was diagnosed with cancer (cancer free for 3 years now WHOOP WHOOP) And, I’m so glad I did! You’ll be able to actually see everything you can possibly pass down to your babies: and, don’t ever BLAME YOURSELF: even if you passed something down to Domonic; SO WHAT! He is perfectly perfect! I don’t want to invalidate your feelings but sweetheart, you are amazing!
You remind me of a Gypsy! You need to move- any time you’re in a space to long you get stir crazy; and you always need something different. That doesn’t make it wrong, it makes you YOU! And, I’m so sorry that people don’t want to get past their own ignorance- I have ZERO neighbors: and I wouldn’t want it any other way!
Definitely do a part 2!! The growth is amazing. I would just tell you, don’t stunt yourself- if an opportunity comes your way, grab it with both hands and RUN! Having babies is what you were probably meant to do- and I mean that in the most positive and loving way. And stopping yourself because you’re afraid: you’re stunting yourself. 🤍
I love you girl i’ve been watching you for a very very long time and you are amazing and your son is absolutely amazing also very much just like the “r” word and also using the medical term drives me insane ! I’m on Spectrum and I’m always told I’m to much and I have learn to love my extra, loud ass ❤️😂😂💓😘😘 I have a son and he’s 2 and I have a lots of fears and if he ends up on the Spectrum it will still never change your son will always be your son no matter what and you know that love u lots !
My oldest is on the spectrum and I want encourage you to not let those negative thoughts prevent you from having more kids. I had my 2nd son before my oldest was diagnosed. It's challenging, but my oldest is slowly starting to show interest in his brother. He sits with him, reallyvbehind him but doesn't play with him. I don't force it but I try to have them play together in things like our ball pit or tunnels. They are 14 months apart, 2yrs 3 months and 13 months so they are interested in the same kind of things. His brother is good for him in teaching flexibility. His brother messes with his stuff and breaks his repetitveness. Thankfully my oldest is mild mannered enough and doesn't harm his brother. I say all that to that it is possible to love Wick and have other children. I do have a village, and you seem to have one too. If the timing is right, have all the babies that you can accommodate! It's a lot of time and work but it's so worth it!
Dømø you see that attached thingggg
Yup you’re not the only one
😅😅😅me too sis
I can relate To a lot of things you are saying and I really appreciate you for doing this video Ms.Domo🫶🏽🤍🪬🫶🏽✨thank you for this 👏🏽🙏🏾✨
Yay!!!! Domo!!! Thank you for the video sis!!! ❤️
You are so intelligent. You can do it! So many supportive things to get you through the classes now and help you learn and retain the information. Take advantage of the various class support stuff out there! Everyone should, it's not about smarts, it's about the tools to unlock people's learning brains in a way that works for individuals. Example. I suck at tests. And spatial relations. Big time. But learning, writing, analyzing, I got it. Needed help with test taking methods. Figure out where you need some extra support and GO FOR IT. I can't wait for you to be in a medical field!!! You'll be amazing with patients.
Have you ever been evaluated for ADHD? I've had the same issues as you and it made me hate school. Didn't get diagnosed until 27.
i can relate that I use to care about how many likes, comments, & followers I had on IG but now that i’m older I could care less. I actually jus deleted my IG & FB, I found them to be too distracting
Domo, I LOVE your personality 💕 you are extremely talented, gorgeous inside and out, confident, passionate, and energetic ❤️ Wick is your greatest inspiration 💙 ❤️ 💯
Much love and respect to the both of you ❤️ 🙏 💛 ✝️
I was the same way when I went to medical school m.. I felt like I was not so smart and was always making things complicated.. but when it came to the work I was like man this is easy I can do this as long as I’m by myself.. I can’t work in groups, it’s a very big distraction for me.
😎 the day someone comes to catch these eyes.
Love the consistency Domo keep it up ♥️🇿🇦
You look beautiful! Love the honesty and your nails 💅🏾
It’s eye opening to know how many ppl are on the spectrum and don’t know it, or was misdiagnosed with ADHD. I didn’t know I was on the spectrum til recently, & I’m 2 months away from being 30 🤦🏽♀️🤣
I don’t allow the S word or the R word around me either. I’ve never liked the two words and I’ve never allowed my kids to say them either. I don’t have anyone in my family that disabled (differently-abled is what I like to call it because “dis” is usually a negative), but I have worked in a hospital that specialized with children with all forms of mental delay, from just ADHD to being on the spectrum to being severely mentally handicapped (I hate saying that too) and I’ve also worked as a preschool teacher for MANY years with different forms of mentally delayed children and they were ALL my babies. I formed such special bonds with some of them. One of them, a beautiful little 4 year old with Down’s Syndrome named Olivia (but, I called her Livvy) and she trusted absolutely NOBODY but her Mama. She would SCREAM if anyone tried to touch her or talk to her. But, for whatever reason, she trusted me. I had the MOST special bond with her. I’ve got so many pictures of her hugging me with a huge smile on her face. Her Mom told us one day that it would be their last day in the preschool, as they were moving. I would be gone before she was picked up, so I left a note on the back of one of our pictures and put it in Livvy’s book bag telling her how much I loved her and would miss her. I left my number and added that I hoped they would keep in touch. I cried my eyes out when I left that day and off and on all day at home. She’s 13 years old now. And although they don’t reach out often, they still keep in touch (maybe once a year) and I’m so thankful for it. That girl REALLY changed me!! Not that I was ever bad towards “disabled” people, I just never really payed any mind. But, because of little Livvy, I’ll forever have a special place in my heart for anyone that has ANY sort of delay, PERIOD!! I cried writing this, just thinking of her and the bond we had and she had to have her McDonald’s Sausage McMuffin EVERY morning for breakfast with no cheese and no bun (yes, just the sausage. Lol. Her sister ate the bun 😂). I miss her. Anyway, I just thought I’d share my own little Story Time for my reasons for also hating the S word and the R word. Honestly, just from working with these kids for over a decade, I’ve noticed since Wick was VERY little, that he’s SUPER freaking smart. And you knowwwww, a lot of people on the spectrum high-key end up being geniuses. You might just have you the next Albert Einstein on your hands. Lol. Plus, needless to say because like DUH, but he’s completely adorable!! And also needless to say because like DUH, but you are AN AMAZING Mom!!! Don’t EVER question yourself for one f*cking second!!! God literally HAND PICKED YOU to be Wick’s Mommy because He KNEW nobody else in the universe could have been a better Mother to him. Whether you were blessed with this job or not, He still would have picked you, because I KNOW you’re a** would have hustled working 4 jobs to make sure he had the best life possible! But, you deserve to hear how GREAT you’re doing and I REALLY DO mean that nobody could have been a better Mommy. I just know y’all will be best friends when he grows up, just like I am to my sons. 💙
P.S. I wish we had the option to like a video more than once because I would have tapped the absolute H*LL outta that Like Button!!!
The attachment part! Same!
I loved this domo. ❤
Yesss I always ask God to not allow me to ever get THAT obsessed with no one
I felt the same when i found out my son was on the spectrum too but ur a great mum xx
20:22 lol that high pitch made me laugh so much 🤣🙂
DOMO we are so much the same. I saw you through all your pregnancy and 1.5 years before you got pregnant but girl…. My daughter has autism….. I use so many different words now!!! I don’t like the word “normal” it makes me so mad but then I realized some people don’t mean it but I say “neuro typical”; also my daughter is unique…. But every child is unique!! Heck my oldest who is “neuro typical” (which I don’t even like that because aren’t we all just kinda unique), but my oldest is unique in her way. Both my girls are so smart and so talented and yes my youngest has sensory issues; behavioral issues; speech issues; eye twitches/contact but she’s amazing and honestly I love her stubbornness and I love her outlook on life! It helps me!! My nephew is on a different part of the spectrum and I’ve always said he’s brilliant!!! Our kids are just made by God to be our angels on earth to teach others how to be kind…. Love you so much!! I’m also a sensitive; social anxiety; isolated emotional cancer sign person. I’ve been struggling I’m really depressed and isolated but I give my kids all of me; I don’t know how to even give myself any time but im going to start trying. Domo you have done it all your so smart, so successful; so amazing; don’t ever put yourself down! You can conqueror anything!
Also the multiple children; honestly it’s been so hard for me. My first is 7 and she was by herself for 4 years; then her sister comes along and she has autism so she does get more attention with her therapy etc. but we go out of our way to make time 1/1 with my oldest and do special stuff for her. She has her things too. It works out don’t worry your love just grows. 🙏🏼
Im 28 and was just diagnosed with adhd along with rejection sensitivite dysphoria, it all makes sense now 🥴
Have you considered getting evaluated for ADHD?
We definitely going to need a whole house confession🙄🤷🏿♀️
I love your energy I have no friends I would love a positive best friend like you!!!!
Domo you are very smart, you got this! Also, your hair looks very pretty
Giirrrllla I feel the same with confession number 2. I'm 33, have a 2 year old and trying to get my 2nd one in motion (through ivf again) and I have my GED but I'm thinking about medical school. 😑 I don't know but I'm trying to get out of my way
Come on domo u can can this mama. I'll be praying for u. U got this
House tour yesss
Were so alike Domo. I don’t feel alone. I have a 3 year old daughter and her dad just dipped randomly so that was traumatizing. I hope I can find a woman like you. Maybe I need a mom in my life😂
this is off topic but i noticed that you aren’t wearing make up & your natural beauty is absolutely stunning 😍😍🥰
Domo I completely understand where you coming from because I am too also on the Spectrum so you're not weird your fabulous love you❤❤❤❤❤❤you're a awesome and amazing person the of you❤❤❤❤
I'm no doctor at all and I've never been diagnosed honestly because I'm too nervous to even see if I am but maybe Domo it could be you have social anxiety? I'm the say way where I barely go out, I love being at home. If I'm out I am usually quiet unless like you said it's with someone I know who makes me comfortable. I even hate ordering food on the phone bc I get nervous. I usually always feel like in public someone is saying something about me when they aren't.
You would be a great doctor 👩⚕️ you smart, beautiful and loving. Keep working hard
Domo… smart enough??? Listen…. You can do it… just take yo time there is no rush and don’t be so hard on yoself.
I see you got the other side of your nose pierced !!!😍 I LOVE IT DOMO .
Love your transparency
This video was very relatable. And Let us feel connected. 👍
NOOO don't ever change stay celibate bc yes ppl be tripping soon as we touch someone they start playing with our emotions and we be ready to go crazy like why I didn't deserve that...don't do it I ain't been in love ever ...I've done it all though gotten ,married and he played me ..I been single for a while I just date and flirt hard af 🤣
You definitely look amazing 🥰
Enjoyed this! Thanks for sharing!!
Hey Domo! I work in the behavioral health field & I just wanted to say maybe look into assessment for ADHD, some of what you were describing sounds more related to ADHD than autism.
Heyyyy love ♥️♥️♥️♥️
He is growing to be a young man and he is very smart
domo is too fine for no reason
Yea do a part two please very interesting ❗️
I get the guilt I have diagnosed adhd and they think I have autsim too just never been tested for it my daughters 5 and she’s been diagnosed since she was 3 they think she has adhd too but don’t test for that till 7 in the uk I’ve always felt guilty and blamed myself for why she has it it’s a mum thing