This is one of the reasons why l am always a nice person when l meet people. Some people are dealing with real life problems and we deny them of a smile, a decent conversation or grab a bite and separate without asking anything from them. That gesture on its own consoles hearts be it they show appreciation or not you would have done your part
Ist episode, the hate the mother have for her ex prevent her to even pretend to love her kids. Men abuse ruin people's hearts and brain.But this woman usile cos she continued making kids for other man while she abandoned elder ones. She is now comfortable with a new man in better environment so she see her kids as threath to her new family. So heartless 💔😪
I love the way they welcomed the old man in the second family..They do not have much but they are a very big, loving and caring family .. They've just made me to notice how much I miss my late grandfather ..NdingumXhosakazi nam, ndiyawuthandwa lomzi mkhulu wakwa Xhosa ..asilahlani thina ..I soooo love this family ..especially the younger brother Tatu Makwedini yuuuh uthando lwenu bethunani
Wow so heartless, she doesn't regret, what picture is she painting for women who have sacrifice for their kids. Very sad moment indeed, khumbulekhaya thank to the field team, camera crews and top management, thumbs up
What an amazing 2nd family 😭😭😭😭🙏🏾. No questions asked, just a warm welcome home! Awhhh he still sees his siblings as they were in the 80’s when he left! So cute at his surprise that they’re now grannies as he is💕💕💕. This made me cry. Truly beautiful.
Its so sad to see your parent not welcoming you with excitement after such a long time. Those girls are traumatised and they need counselling after what their mother told them she doesn't regret leaving them with their grandmother. On the second episode, it was so good to see the younger brother welcoming his elder brother with love and so much happiness. I really applaud the family for accepting the old man and how i wish i had such a family. I miss my late brother when i see such love and its so emotional. Big up Khumbulekhaya for a job well done.
Mmmmmm what a welcome home,is so nice to see the whole family's gather together and welcome one of their members,that last seen 40 years ago,and he came back empty handed,and they still accept and welcome him
Lyf is difficult we need family when we are old, please Lord shows us the right way,be with us all da way,We worship You, thank You Lord for everything,we need you Jesus
Dudu is adding fuel to the fire 😂😂😂😂stepfather fanele kuthi umphethe kabi lomama sengathi she is so scared of him.It's painful to be rejected by your parent especially a umama twice😢😢😢
hebanna uthi why they didnt call her first!!!!??????????? or ugogo Dlamini???????? uRight upstairs lo mama???? me I would have turn back and left....tsek
Nombulelo hates her abuser and everything from him (ie ‘his’ kids). She’s dead inside in relation to anything that has to do with him. I mean from first words out of her mouth my jaw dropped! “Why didn’t you tell me ur coming?” Seriously!!?? 😳😳😳😳😲🙊
This woman first story is so cold Honestly some women don’t deserve to be mothers Sad part is so many would love to be called mom but they can’t Then you get this It’s too upsetting
The first family broke my heart, It is clear that these girls are deeply hurt, to add on that I believe the mother could have handled the situation much better so as not to add on the pain her kids have endured for all these years of her absence. i trust the Lord to grant these girls strength and power to forgive for their own benefit ... kuzolunga guys.
Thats why l say everytime , don't waist your time to want or to check your beloved wants stay home safe your energy If you forced you will going to be heart broken
Wow this made me cry!!! Tjo! That’s just sad. Okay let’s say Dudu didn’t show up...she wouldn’t have apologized or hugged them!! Shu!!! No matter what a man does to you, don’t reject the fruit of your womb. I think it happened according to God’s will that they grew up with their Grandmother.
I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 I agree. I also feel like the world shames women for leaving their kids with father's. Father's are parents too, if she's incapable of raising them the father should. I don't understand why they had to make her feel like she wasn't supposed to leave them behind only because she's a mother.
The second story made me so emotional I cried throughout. Wish them all the best As for the first story I realy dont think the mother meant what she said. Maybe she s one of these people who cant express their feelings well. And I think she shoved off the feelings for her kids for a long time as a way of Dealing with the pain.
I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them.
Nombulelo might be needing psychological evaluation, she could have suffered too much abuse & she doesn’t look normal or act it , people are harsh on her behaviour but she could be mentally challenged
My dearest sister,spot on!!!Even the current one,to me is WORSE although I don't have enough details!!! Having her exposed with raw and inappropriate reaction, I'm tented not to use hard language like RUDE,many will disagree with me BUT she is still in an abusive relationship. You know in this case the song" Mam to man "" applies like a glove. Dress code and conduct should be taken into consideration!! She is yearning for something we may take for granted, it may not have been given to her, " LOVE " Apartheid was a psychological practice and to the weak meant to control,remove you're self love ( selfesteem)But its not the appropriate term I was looking for!!!Bloodline cannot be removed because of anger,a century from now ,one of her grandchildren might be caught in this raw,needing to trace bloodline and DNA will unfortunately revert to her!!!I respect the view's of everybody, through shock for some,anger,disgust for some BUT the eldest daughter is determined to see it work.
@@NomfundoV8 l agree. the current partner wants to appear good but why on earth would he say the girls see the mother outside. The mother is not in her right mind.
@@anniendhluli2790 Both of them will be. I feel like what she said jeopardized their relationship, it created a lot of anger and trust issues. Khumbulakhaya should get a psychologist for these people, some of they need help shame
Well done to SANCO for taking care of their community members, well done to Khumbulekhaya for serving the nation in such a powerful way, God bless you always. Just a little correction: Makwedini and not makhwedini, also Tshawe and not Chawe. I also think that Baloi is spelt as "Baloyi" though not 100% sure (I'm not Tsonga but I have a Tsonga best friend here on Campus). Sorry for correction just thought I should try and voice it out, hope no one will get offended, Otherwise good job, I highly appreciate Khumbulekhaya and the Team. Lots of blessings!
I cried 😢 out cos wow the pain of child to force Love from a mother I know it cos I know the pain as for me I think I'm much batter on my own God will comfort me How can a mother fail to love your children because of their fathers behaviour 😢
I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them.
Joooooo,1st story, what can we say💔💔💔💔💔💔,is this what trauma is like?Jaaaaaaaa,sorry babies,we don't choose our families BUT hei the elder daughter is convinced they will fix it in her own words!May God change their mother for the better. Even the current relationship is still abusive!!! I feel sorry for the heartless mother anyway!!! He I,jaaa,maybe with a little education things might have been different!!!
The first family the step father makes them meet their mother outside as if he doesn't want to be on camera so was surprised seeing him showing himself again,looks like he didn't want the kids in his compound also but the wife told him about them,I just wish the girls can move on without their mother am so pissed with the way she welcomed them and her feels no regret at all on why she did to her kids.wish you all the best girls 🙏
This is one of the reasons why l am always a nice person when l meet people. Some people are dealing with real life problems and we deny them of a smile, a decent conversation or grab a bite and separate without asking anything from them. That gesture on its own consoles hearts be it they show appreciation or not you would have done your part
No sign of remorse of this woman on this first episode😢😢😢 and the mama with red cap is good mediator 🙌🙌🙌 God bless you
The second family made me cry... I'm happy that tamkhulu found his brother and you can tell they really love each other.
Mxxxm akaphelelanga
First family the girls are better off without the mother she's rude and the husband it's so painful girl's be strong and forget about her 🙏
Seems she is mentally disturbed
Akekho mama onje mara uhamba ezala ayi ezinyen ihlanya god have fovour on them
@@zulujanet6090 shes not usile qha .....ungcolile lo mama skaa
Ist episode, the hate the mother have for her ex prevent her to even pretend to love her kids. Men abuse ruin people's hearts and brain.But this woman usile cos she continued making kids for other man while she abandoned elder ones. She is now comfortable with a new man in better environment so she see her kids as threath to her new family. So heartless 💔😪
Baza khawula , ufune umama kho noma ubaba wakho yena ukube akaku funi - then uthole onunye ubuhlungu
Nabo labantwana baza khawula ....
The lady in red cap.
Thanks for trying 💖
I love the way they welcomed the old man in the second family..They do not have much but they are a very big, loving and caring family .. They've just made me to notice how much I miss my late grandfather ..NdingumXhosakazi nam, ndiyawuthandwa lomzi mkhulu wakwa Xhosa ..asilahlani thina ..I soooo love this family ..especially the younger brother Tatu Makwedini yuuuh uthando lwenu bethunani
Wow so heartless, she doesn't regret, what picture is she painting for women who have sacrifice for their kids. Very sad moment indeed, khumbulekhaya thank to the field team, camera crews and top management, thumbs up
What kind of a mother is this just rubbish heartles kind of a person nonses mother 💔💔🙊🙊🙆🙆😭😭👊
Beauty ❤️❤️💖her approach is 👌enjoyed watching this episode
What an amazing 2nd family 😭😭😭😭🙏🏾. No questions asked, just a warm welcome home! Awhhh he still sees his siblings as they were in the 80’s when he left! So cute at his surprise that they’re now grannies as he is💕💕💕. This made me cry. Truly beautiful.
1st story, heart breaking 💔 de girls ar better off without de so called mother. 2nd story ✊brothers for life, I luv it👏
2ND Story, God really kept this people for him. The whole family are senior citizens.
Girls forgive and forget and move on girls.thank you for sharing this khumbulekhaya, love it from Botswana
Its so sad to see your parent not welcoming you with excitement after such a long time. Those girls are traumatised and they need counselling after what their mother told them she doesn't regret leaving them with their grandmother. On the second episode, it was so good to see the younger brother welcoming his elder brother with love and so much happiness. I really applaud the family for accepting the old man and how i wish i had such a family. I miss my late brother when i see such love and its so emotional. Big up Khumbulekhaya for a job well done.
I really need a neighbor like Dudu. The 1st story is really sad. Some mothers shame
Eish it's sad neh, maybe is PTSD- who know what kind of abuse she endured from their father, shame.
@@nomxhosapekani7966akekho right umama Lona but she should have tried to make abantwana to feel better yoh
Mmmmmm what a welcome home,is so nice to see the whole family's gather together and welcome one of their members,that last seen 40 years ago,and he came back empty handed,and they still accept and welcome him
Nombulelo’s husband is not better either, very unwelcoming to his wife’s children up until Dudu intervened...The daughters are so mature
i loved that "That's good!"...from the old man
Second family they are very kind loving family the brother welcomed his long lost brother with open arms I wish my family are as loving as that family
Nami ngithandile kakhulu ukubona uthando olungaka.
That was great happy people love them @@p.k.2220
The second family, when the brother cried, I cried along with him 😪😪😪😪😪
I smiled the whole second story... Uncle is still full of jokes..😊😊😊
that woman is just crazy... kudoz to the neighbor... she should've been the mother🎉
That woman in the first case is just something else. No remorse, no regret..... Sending those girls hugs! God's got you. Leave it to Him.
Happy for the second family ,God is great 🙏🙏🙏
Lyf is difficult we need family when we are old, please Lord shows us the right way,be with us all da way,We worship You, thank You Lord for everything,we need you Jesus
Ndiyavuya ukubona utamkhulu eyifumene ifamily yakhe yonke. Wafika no brother wakhe esaphila. GOD is good. Siyabulela.. Camagu!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yoh this Nombulelo women is heartless💔🥺😭 shuuu..... Sies.
Wow, brothers for life. We salute them
I can watch the second families story over and over again
Dudu is adding fuel to the fire 😂😂😂😂stepfather fanele kuthi umphethe kabi lomama sengathi she is so scared of him.It's painful to be rejected by your parent especially a umama twice😢😢😢
hebanna uthi why they didnt call her first!!!!??????????? or ugogo Dlamini???????? uRight upstairs lo mama???? me I would have turn back and left....tsek
Nombulelo hates her abuser and everything from him (ie ‘his’ kids). She’s dead inside in relation to anything that has to do with him. I mean from first words out of her mouth my jaw dropped! “Why didn’t you tell me ur coming?” Seriously!!?? 😳😳😳😳😲🙊
She likes abuse ngoba the new husband as well he seems abusive he was so rude
Am hurt😭😢😭 how can a whole Mother say such things to her daughters
She' s a disgrace Thabang trust me
I don't think she is normal
@@pumla7manclcebza73 big one she doesn't deserve these girls akahlale nje lePantyhose alisentanyeni
I sense depression kulomama
Ey abanye abazali yoo andaz nokba ndingathin nje kungowam lomama
The old fella has a very good memory.
😂😂uGogo wam azong Avasa😂😂ayi lomam udakiwe yaz
Nombulelo iphutha lani ayi kukhona lokwamam suka, ngine sure kuyaphuza😂😂😂😂
This woman first story is so cold
Honestly some women don’t deserve to be mothers
Sad part is so many would love to be called mom but they can’t
Then you get this
It’s too upsetting
she's irresponsible and not ready to be a mother
makhelwane of dis family she is has gud heart
khumbulekhaya team we love you
So the husband went to change clothes for the camera,😅 anyway this first lady is hurt deep down naye ulimele lo mama
Sinazo Dlanjwa Ayi wena🤣🤣🤣 maybe ubesebenza then wayogeza after.
😭😭😭 nkosi yam. This is heartbreaking
Wahlukumezeka kakhulu lo mama walabantwana... nasekhanda ngat alisebenzi
The first family broke my heart, It is clear that these girls are deeply hurt, to add on that I believe the mother could have handled the situation much better so as not to add on the pain her kids have endured for all these years of her absence. i trust the Lord to grant these girls strength and power to forgive for their own benefit ... kuzolunga guys.
To c Mdala met his br0ther,how they greeted each other.make me cry😭😭💕
Ipart ka tamkhulu 😭😭😭 tearing apart. Inene ukhululekile mkhulu. And the warm welcome at home
The brothers 😭😭❤❤
THIS MOTHER IS HEARTLESS
and they forced her to apologise and i was hurt by those words , it was like your mother saying she regrets giving birth to you
The first mechanic guy, I think he has stolen cars in his yard! The way he chased the cameras away!!!!!!!!!!!! Hai
🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Zinhle ingane shame nibahle bocc ngiyanithanda unkulunkul Abe nani❤️💕💕
i think nombulelo she's got mental disturbance a biological mother won't talk like that
🤣🤣🤣easy tiger
I won't even hug her sis 😭
She was forced to apologise
Thats why l say everytime , don't waist your time to want or to check your beloved wants stay home safe your energy
If you forced you will going to be heart broken
Tjoo first episode the step father is vomiting fire ey mamelani yekelani shooter la and lento yenu niyenze le emgaqweni.
The husband seems to have a good heart. He was ambushed by strangers with cameras, maybe that's why he reacted the way he did.
Wow this made me cry!!! Tjo! That’s just sad. Okay let’s say Dudu didn’t show up...she wouldn’t have apologized or hugged them!! Shu!!! No matter what a man does to you, don’t reject the fruit of your womb. I think it happened according to God’s will that they grew up with their Grandmother.
I love you guys from Easter cape they did welcome there brother in warm hands realeboga yoooooohhh
Mam Dudu in the first story :"-( I wish she was their mom
akekho right lomama 1st episode
I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them
First episode Cha Shem umama onjan lo uthwale ingane izinyanga eziw 9 kodwa ungazisoli ngokuyshiya ikhule ingakwaz unesibindi mama ndin
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 I agree. I also feel like the world shames women for leaving their kids with father's. Father's are parents too, if she's incapable of raising them the father should. I don't understand why they had to make her feel like she wasn't supposed to leave them behind only because she's a mother.
Struu uyagula shame angisadiniwe
@ramoshabaramoshaba9561 hebanna wena. Such nonsense. It's okay for woman to be deadbeats simply because there's another parent available? Uyahlanya
The second story made me so emotional I cried throughout. Wish them all the best
As for the first story I realy dont think the mother meant what she said. Maybe she s one of these people who cant express their feelings well. And I think she shoved off the feelings for her kids for a long time as a way of Dealing with the pain.
Severe trauma will make you do that.
Thats very true.
Uyinja lomama
wow the second story😍 shame💞
So admin is taking forever to upload last Wednesday episode.
The second family. 😢When the brother was crying. I couldn't yho...!! But thank God they found one another 🙏
This woman is saying she is not even remorseful for leaving her children behind 🤔 They are better off without her.
I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them.
Nombulelo might be needing psychological evaluation, she could have suffered too much abuse & she doesn’t look normal or act it , people are harsh on her behaviour but she could be mentally challenged
I agree, something is off with her.
Exactly. She could be severely traumatized or this could be the results of untreated post natal depression.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 This woman has a lot of issues. Not to mention the fact that the current partner seems abusive as well.
My dearest sister,spot on!!!Even the current one,to me is WORSE although I don't have enough details!!! Having her exposed with raw and inappropriate reaction, I'm tented not to use hard language like RUDE,many will disagree with me BUT she is still in an abusive relationship. You know in this case the song" Mam to man "" applies like a glove. Dress code and conduct should be taken into consideration!! She is yearning for something we may take for granted, it may not have been given to her, " LOVE " Apartheid was a psychological practice and to the weak meant to control,remove you're self love ( selfesteem)But its not the appropriate term I was looking for!!!Bloodline cannot be removed because of anger,a century from now ,one of her grandchildren might be caught in this raw,needing to trace bloodline and DNA will unfortunately revert to her!!!I respect the view's of everybody, through shock for some,anger,disgust for some BUT the eldest daughter is determined to see it work.
@@NomfundoV8 l agree. the current partner wants to appear good but why on earth would he say the girls see the mother outside. The mother is not in her right mind.
That mother is not mentally stable 🤞🏾🤞🏾
Kuthiwa nanku untodo.... Subtitle: This is Ndondo😂😂😂😂.... Elixhego lithetha ingathi nguPhekeza weTyala lamawele. Ngutsotsi wetshipha.
Geez 2nd fam is blessed so many family members in one place alive 🤗😊
The effects of the apartheid's forced removals on the second part
That’s good washo tamkhulu😂😂❤️
Thanks to khumbulekhaya
Nombulelo is hurt shame, she hasn't healed. She's taken out her anger on her kids
& her 2nd daughter will be emotionally disturbed like her becoz of what she said
@@anniendhluli2790 Both of them will be. I feel like what she said jeopardized their relationship, it created a lot of anger and trust issues. Khumbulakhaya should get a psychologist for these people, some of they need help shame
Ke nagana gore mme yo breng ke Dudu o hlakahlakane, ebileo kare ba mo jesetse korobela ,ka gore le go nyalwa aowa ke vat and sit jooowee.
I'm chopping onions with the first 2 daughters
Abanye omama banenhliziyo ezimbi yaz uzale ushiye ingane awunandaba waze wanescefe lomama
Gotta love Dudu
The lady in the 1st story i don't think she's 100% ok upstairs.
Somethings wrong
BIG- MIKE I think she’s detached herself from her kids emotionally dats why there’s no remorse on her side
Ya true... but i think by the time she left them she got new love that was driving her crazy
Well done to SANCO for taking care of their community members, well done to Khumbulekhaya for serving the nation in such a powerful way, God bless you always. Just a little correction: Makwedini and not makhwedini, also Tshawe and not Chawe. I also think that Baloi is spelt as "Baloyi" though not 100% sure (I'm not Tsonga but I have a Tsonga best friend here on Campus). Sorry for correction just thought I should try and voice it out, hope no one will get offended, Otherwise good job, I highly appreciate Khumbulekhaya and the Team. Lots of blessings!
I cried 😢 out cos wow the pain of child to force Love from a mother I know it cos I know the pain as for me I think I'm much batter on my own God will comfort me
How can a mother fail to love your children because of their fathers behaviour 😢
Bekuzoba ngcono ngabe bamthole ebhubhile umama lo , ku first story
So touching, abantwana bayisipho
We worked from farm to farm no property no land nothing😢😢😢
I think mam Nombulelo has distanced herself emotionally from her 2 daughters. Also this was probably the psychological response to the abuse she says she endured. She was probably traumatized and then took her trauma out on innocent children. I don't think she allowed herself to love those kids because of who their father is. I feel like had she kept them she would've inflicted the worst abuse on them.
she used distancing as a healing strategies i guess....
Exactly!!! I also think she reacted that way because the kids resemble their father aswell
I see mental disorder here. How v
Can she be so conformable to say she doesn't regret what she did to her children. She is insane
That's very true, she would've been a horrible mother
trust a woman to support and justify amanyala enziwa abanye besifazane.... abekho abantu ababole njengani
Mhmmm"naba bezondithwalisa lomthwalo besendisithi ndiwohlule" sad
true love between those brthers..i pray God him sight
Dudu you the boss😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Dudu libhoza
Joooooo,1st story, what can we say💔💔💔💔💔💔,is this what trauma is like?Jaaaaaaaa,sorry babies,we don't choose our families BUT hei the elder daughter is convinced they will fix it in her own words!May God change their mother for the better. Even the current relationship is still abusive!!! I feel sorry for the heartless mother anyway!!! He I,jaaa,maybe with a little education things might have been different!!!
Dude salvaged the situation
The first part of the show😢may the children forgive their mother for what she did and also said when they met💔
Tamkhulu 😍❤
2nd family
The first family the step father makes them meet their mother outside as if he doesn't want to be on camera so was surprised seeing him showing himself again,looks like he didn't want the kids in his compound also but the wife told him about them,I just wish the girls can move on without their mother am so pissed with the way she welcomed them and her feels no regret at all on why she did to her kids.wish you all the best girls 🙏
This is sad really sad left me with tears
Uyanyanyisa lo mama futhi akasile nj ekhanda..bengzovele ngimshiye kanjena mna😢😢
Ewu, sishi lomfati who abandoned her children for so many years. I'm pretty sure they are better off without her😞
Yoh UYANYANYISA LOMAMA AKAXOLISE NGOBA KUSUKA KUYE USEGCINA ICALA NJE AKANAMAHLONI SHAME ON HER.
Akaphili ekhanda lomama😢😢😢😢
Ubaba yena who couldn't see well, that story made me realize ukuthi sociopaths don't only exist in American movies. I'm happy he found his family
Nabantwana abadingi ukubuyelana nomama wabo. Ngoba usho kahle ukuthi akazisoli ngikushiya abantwana bantombhazana
Dudu is sick guys
She doesn't show any remorse at all ☹️ She's not normal at all
Mnxm ukuzalisa isiphukuphuku kunje in 1rst story
Nalomakhelwane weRed cap uthanda izindaba
Second story. Umakhelwane uhleli ngeschitho 🤣
Ugogo azokhona uku awaiza akathathi kahle lomama, ufuna iplan emtwaneni
cha ukhohlakele mama ngokthi ubuziphephisa wena wakhetha ukulahla ingane zakho
I love my kids to the moon n back
This woman on the first episode uyanginyanyisa yezwa!!!! Eish!
Ngaze ngacasuka Nxihhh !!!!
Yhini kumbulekaya e
Somerset umakazi wam uphaya bt andimazi igamalakhe ngu
Eunice
Mzilili mam chawe yhuu kdala ndimfuna
Ngyalibona ke iphutha lika Nombulelo kodwa ke uGugu uhlanganaphi omakhelwane
🤣🤣🤣awzazi ngisho amagama inganezakho mama!!!