Khumbul'ekhaya one must commend you for uniting the country as you do. From Venda or Johannesburg to Peddie is no child's play. Driving on that perilous road especially the Coombs mountain range where the clouds sit on top of the mountains, u go all out to unite South Africans. My Word i cried at these two stories. You are a great show and no wonder this programme has lasted many years. Really commendable work and thank you will never be enough for all the sacrifice done to unite South Africans of all races. 🥰
@@rabelaniramulumisi4417 Not the usual prefix but I think it's still appropriate, I don't think Basotho/Batswana/Bapedi have a V letter. We have to make do with our limited letters. We even call the Xhosa and Zulu Maxhosa and Mazulu.
The mama in the first story is a clear example of childhood trauma and abandonment. It's like she has never known what it's like to be loved by her parents. She doesn't know what that looks like and her children paid the price. She couldn't give to her children what she herself didn't have. She's carry so much pain it's a wonder she can get up in the morning. Rather than judging her we can pray that she gets the healing that she needs. Everything she said was a cry for help.
This Woman is no different with the man who doesnt take care of their children,This Woman has no emotions,After 32years her Son came looking for her,there was no hug no nothing,everything was and is still about her...The Father and Stepmother did a great job on him....
The mama in the first story is a clear example of childhood trauma and abandonment. It's like she has never known what it's like to be loved by her parents. She doesn't know what that looks like and her children paid the price. She couldn't give to her children what she herself didn't have. She's carrying so much pain it's a wonder she can get up in the morning. Rather than judging her we can pray that she gets the healing that she needs. Everything she said was a cry for help.
I understand the mom's pain. The man kicked her out and never even gave her money to buy diapers. That alone is sufficient to understand how this woman suffered
I think she only accepted Manqoba but she is not welcoming and loving to this son. Maybe she is embarrassed by appearing on the same show twice from the same mistakes
This woman didn't want to be found! "I didn't go to Khumbul'ekhaya to look for my father" Wiiybo mfazi, that was, and still is your choice of not doing that.
first episode, I don't judge that woman...the looks in her eyes, one can tell she's been through hell. She needs intense counselling to deal with the trauma she experienced. But I believe her boys will help with that, they're both so calm.
Leaving behind a 3 months old behind is being cruel. After leaving her did she ever went back to check for him , no . A normsl mother does no take such actions.
So this lady(first episode) doesn’t see any importance of the other son to know about his father since he’s born out of wedlock? She might have been through a lot and what not kodwa she can’t be this selfish unless she wants her son to be a bitter parent like her
This lady not listening to her son at all. It’s all about her. She’s too broken I suppose. Oh my days she threw her other son under the bus like that 😂
This culture things must tell the people truth, you can't abondand your kids and keep on saying culture this culture that, every kids deserve to know where they are coming from
l do understand her as well. That man wants to give some picture, but one would ask what makes a woman leave a 3 months old at someone's workplace. Man should learn not to always shift blame. For God's sake He couldnt provide for diapers and food etc hey mani
@Kiki M And the man is a dad as well. My statement points to 'they were both wrong' and you repeat that as well. It boggles the mind when the blame is given to one party when it took two to tango
I relate. Looking for a father at 35 years old it's difficult especially when one has a sickly life. We r black n for sure we need our both families maternal n paternal
Very selfish she is saying nami nginje angimbazi utata wami , really ? So the boy shd aceept that , is it his fault the she doesnt know her father ? Wickedness at its best .
First story: Mam' uNontobeko hlukana ne nzondo, hlukana ne kratshi. Umphefumlo wakho uwurhuqela esihogweni. Let go of the anger and bitterness so that ube ngu mama ongcono ebantwaneni bakho. Wanga uThixo angakunceda. Udinga ukwamkela uYesu ebomini bakho.🙏🏽
Bongi Zim I live in USA my husband and I are actively working on taking a vacation there next year. We are into aIT and China is the IT capital of the world Korea is not too far behind.
Mme o wa first story is carrying a lot of pain and trauma. You can see it in her eyes and hear it in her voice. What she did to her kids is wrong but at the same time non of us know what she has been through.
She used to fool around thinking the world only revolves around her and lying to herself that she's beautiful forgetting that in life every mess has a sour ending
aibo lomama this is the second time evela ku khumbula ekhaya ukhona umfana wakhe ongu manqoba ohlala germistin ihlazo leli uzala ashiye bese ekhuluma ngezinqukuuu
Kanti wayezalela bani ngempela😳 ngabe phela wayohamba waya emtholampilo.Sad thing to have broken parents sometimes it seems like its children's fault.Bonke nathi utata wakho wayengihlukumeza😌
She is a clear example of unresolved childhood trauma and abandonment. It's like she has never known what it's like to be loved by her parents. She doesn't know what that looks like and her children paid the price. She couldn't give to her children what she herself didn't have. She's carrShe is a clear example of unresolved childhood trauma and abandonment. It's like she has never known what it's like to be loved by her parents. She doesn't know what that looks like and her children paid the price. She couldn't give to her children what she herself didn't have. She's carry so much pain it's a wonder she can get up in the morning. Rather than judging her we can pray that she gets the healing that she needs. Everything she said was a cry for help. She's carrying so much pain it's a wonder she can get up in the morning. Rather than judging her we can pray that she gets the healing that she needs. Everything she said was a cry for help.
LOL, watching the first mother, tjoh! She has so many excuses and makes it as if her child asked to be brought in this world. There was no sympathy nor sadness from her, she's too bitter and as much as she went for healing after being sick, hayi khona she needs counselling.
Hee sana kuba bindim lo uze kulo andenzele le attitude bendzobuza nguban sduko sakhe usixela kwakhe ndithi kugqityiwe masihambe tata... just kuba ndingalali ne relative yam usile rhaaa
After getting healed she never bothered about her child ohhhh shameless woman. The way i love my kids i will never leave them with anyone yoooo.l will die along with them.If people can't take care of their children they mustn't go around getting intimate true.
Khumbul'ekhaya one must commend you for uniting the country as you do. From Venda or Johannesburg to Peddie is no child's play. Driving on that perilous road especially the Coombs mountain range where the clouds sit on top of the mountains, u go all out to unite South Africans.
My Word i cried at these two stories. You are a great show and no wonder this programme has lasted many years. Really commendable work and thank you will never be enough for all the sacrifice done to unite South Africans of all races. 🥰
Hello Khumbulekhaya, I think that lady needs professional counseling, please assist her. The one in the first story.
I totally agree she is angry and bitter its sad. i hope she get the help she needs.
yah she is not shame with what she has done.
Khumbulekhaya im Johan Nicholas i need help finding my mother's people i only have her ID as i dont know where shes from can you please help me
She really needs help. How come she hasn't told her other kid that she has another child? She's bitter shame.
Oh Lord, I pray for healing for everyone who is involved in the 1st story. So much pain and anger :( I commend both sons, they are beyond mature.
This mother is a serial child deserter, she's in season 15 episode 13
The stepmother did well to raise Tshilidzi Phadagi,I'm so close with the family,u cant even differentiate that Mrs phadagi is his step mum.
Livhuwani Mukwili is that his house?if it is I’m happy he did well for himself even though he grew up without his biological mother
Nop,that's where he works but his other children are so successful where he lives in venda. He is a good father to his children.
MaVenda build beautiful houses. I like how they stick together. Big up Vendas
*vhavenda
@@rabelaniramulumisi4417 Not the usual prefix but I think it's still appropriate, I don't think Basotho/Batswana/Bapedi have a V letter. We have to make do with our limited letters. We even call the Xhosa and Zulu Maxhosa and Mazulu.
Nndaa
VhaVenda*
@@kgothatsomoiloa1784 lol let them be they shall remain so after all it was a compliment. Y act like it's an insult they trippin
The first woman left one son and refuse to tell the other son who his father is. She is heartless that it
The mama in the first story is a clear example of childhood trauma and abandonment. It's like she has never known what it's like to be loved by her parents. She doesn't know what that looks like and her children paid the price. She couldn't give to her children what she herself didn't have. She's carry so much pain it's a wonder she can get up in the morning. Rather than judging her we can pray that she gets the healing that she needs. Everything she said was a cry for help.
Cha lomama ngiyambonga bafethu umuntu o defensive kanje uhlulwa nje ukuxolisa ezinganeni unehlazo nje mama ongakwazi ukuzehlisa
I just love the Free State seSotho accent the way their women talk
Ke kgahlegile thata😅
Be careful sotho women can turn you on by just listening to them🤣🤣😭😭
It takes a great man like Mr Sejake to admit his faults, not pointing fingers. Ntate your daughter is very humble and loving shem.
He did try to put the blame solely on the mother tho!
Thakane is a straight talker.
Mama on the 1st story has sweet boys.
This Woman is no different with the man who doesnt take care of their children,This Woman has no emotions,After 32years her Son came looking for her,there was no hug no nothing,everything was and is still about her...The Father and Stepmother did a great job on him....
Umama bekhala esithi akamazi utatakhe yena usenesingqukru kodwa umfana ufuna kulotatakhe eish!! Kubuhlungu kodwa.
The mama in the first story is a clear example of childhood trauma and abandonment. It's like she has never known what it's like to be loved by her parents. She doesn't know what that looks like and her children paid the price. She couldn't give to her children what she herself didn't have. She's carrying so much pain it's a wonder she can get up in the morning. Rather than judging her we can pray that she gets the healing that she needs. Everything she said was a cry for help.
😅@@lilianzumani467
That lady will b like "iyhoo ntate Sijake"
ke wena ntate Sijake?🙈🙈
Uyandchaza yhazz oko embiza ngo ntate Sijake😁😁
Very sweet Mosotho lady. Mature..
That Xhosa woman is original Xhosa usile gqithi😂😂😂😂
Aaaaaaa VhaVenda. I salutes you guys. Ngoo nde ngooo. Vendas are doing the most higher
I like how that lady kept on repeating ntate Sijake's surname 🙈
😅😅
Aaaaaaa mara! These boys do have respect yo!
Thanks a million. This is my favourite South African show. Keep them rolling! Have a blessed day in Mzansi.
I understand the mom's pain. The man kicked her out and never even gave her money to buy diapers. That alone is sufficient to understand how this woman suffered
Uyavutha loMama womxhosa akafuni ukuchaza kahle izinto mmh kunzima NKOSI JESU!!!
Thos lady is just self centered and just blames everybody but self.
Some women don't deserve to be mothers, excuses excuses excuses
I think she only accepted Manqoba but she is not welcoming and loving to this son. Maybe she is embarrassed by appearing on the same show twice from the same mistakes
Yaa Mihle why Xhosa women bring .and.do
such misfortune to their kids a..they simply don't care
Imagine... some of us struggle for years to conceive. This life mara yohhh😢😢😭😭
U are sooo true
She's too clever this woman. Xhosa woman😂😂😂😂, sis'kelem' somfazi esi🏃♀️
Lol😂😂😂😂😂
Lol ndidikwe ngulomfazi,she s a goat leaving children every where after birth,this is so painful 😢😢
sukuthi Xhosa women srhama sdingi izinja
True ayi ixoki lomfazi and unamanga lomfazi
Kkkkkkkkk ewe
The lady in the first story needs to do for counselling, she has so much anger and is really hurt.
How was her behavior 32yrs ago if she's still bitter like this😌.May she find peace within seriously🙏🙏🙏
She is stupid running away from all kids aaa disgusting
Thakane so sweet! Love her💕
Thank you very much Admin.
Second story the girl o calm just like her father.
Omg the xhosa lady is so rude,she's suppose to greet first and then take them to the other house
Guilty conscious
The lady is angry and yet seems she forgets it's not all about her.She needs counselling!Ntate Sejake and his daughter was so sweet...ha monate fela😊!
2nd story the women was well raised she is so calm and respectful not focusing to much on the past 😍😍😍
After watching the 1st story💔💔💔,the 2nd story just warms my heart...
Looks like the future is promising❤❤❤
This woman didn't want to be found! "I didn't go to Khumbul'ekhaya to look for my father"
Wiiybo mfazi, that was, and still is your choice of not doing that.
first episode, I don't judge that woman...the looks in her eyes, one can tell she's been through hell. She needs intense counselling to deal with the trauma she experienced. But I believe her boys will help with that, they're both so calm.
She really need counseling,her anger yooo
Karma 4 different fathers hay why not using family planning.
Yhoooo u don't even paid a 10 cent for family planing for Uba umntu abena banwana abane different fathers woow
This woman is so selfish, she's me me me, woman wake up this is your son
Oscn Mls no she’s not. She had no means , so she took her child to the father , what’s wrong with that?
Leaving behind a 3 months old behind is being cruel. After leaving her did she ever went back to check for him , no . A normsl mother does no take such actions.
She should be happy for her after 32 years iyooo
@@girlygp3491 you can say that again
Some other mother's don't care at all please If you are not ready to have kids stop fucking without condoms ladies
So this lady(first episode) doesn’t see any importance of the other son to know about his father since he’s born out of wedlock? She might have been through a lot and what not kodwa she can’t be this selfish unless she wants her son to be a bitter parent like her
This lady not listening to her son at all. It’s all about her. She’s too broken I suppose.
Oh my days she threw her other son under the bus like that 😂
The 2nd story, I really love how humble and calm the woman was, I hope her relationship with her father sparkles!
Indeed she is down to earth. May God bless their reunion 🙏
I like how Andile reads a letter, it's like she will break into tears
I pray for this lady you can see here soul is Broken she is in deep pain I hope she can get help!!!
This culture things must tell the people truth, you can't abondand your kids and keep on saying culture this culture that, every kids deserve to know where they are coming from
True yaz culture ayingen ndawo
Moloko Mkhonto amen
Excactly
The mother in the first story is actually being honest and I fully understand where is she is coming from.
No matter where u come from u can't do that to a 3 months old I'm sure the grannies aunts ,sisters would have taken that baby
It was painful that time,I also understand what she was going through that time
l do understand her as well. That man wants to give some picture, but one would ask what makes a woman leave a 3 months old at someone's workplace. Man should learn not to always shift blame. For God's sake He couldnt provide for diapers and food etc hey mani
Go watch another episode of khumbul ekhaya. Just type nontobeko khumbu ,you will see that she abandoned another one
@Kiki M And the man is a dad as well. My statement points to 'they were both wrong' and you repeat that as well. It boggles the mind when the blame is given to one party when it took two to tango
Second story... Soo this father can't even say Sorry 😢😢😢😢
Guys check season 15 episode 13...this lady has been here before kanti keng ka Ena
I noticed I've seen her from somewhere 😬
haha did you have to remove cocacola brand label......happy for both children
Mama suxoka umdala ukhohlise ingane zakho ubungundinga sthebeni xelela abantwana inyani Nova uzalele ekhaya kufuneka bazazi ngabaphi suvika ubuhule bakho apha nini abantu basibizisa kakubi ezizweni ngoxoka suka
1st story she needs help
Ntate Sejake🙌🙌🙌🙌
Smart move boy by taking him with u
I relate. Looking for a father at 35 years old it's difficult especially when one has a sickly life. We r black n for sure we need our both families maternal n paternal
Very selfish she is saying nami nginje angimbazi utata wami , really ? So the boy shd aceept that , is it his fault the she doesnt know her father ? Wickedness at its best .
I have never come across a beach like this woman in my life she's too rude she need to fuck for funny not having kid's.
Mr sejake looks like her dota n dis lady s very respctfully.
Eish!! Bophelo bo boima ka nnete.😅😅
A woman will never admit she is wrong and just apologize , other people are always to blame .
First story: Mam' uNontobeko hlukana ne nzondo, hlukana ne kratshi. Umphefumlo wakho uwurhuqela esihogweni. Let go of the anger and bitterness so that ube ngu mama ongcono ebantwaneni bakho. Wanga uThixo angakunceda. Udinga ukwamkela uYesu ebomini bakho.🙏🏽
Thakane you have the voice of Radio and Television. Try your luck.😘😘
Lol now thats being rude 😂im Tshilidxi who are you😂😂😂😂😂
First viewer 😍😍love from China 🇨🇳
Bongi Zim I live in USA my husband and I are actively working on taking a vacation there next year. We are into aIT and China is the IT capital of the world Korea is not too far behind.
@Bridget Nkuna where about spain?
HI I''m in Iceland
@@trucap6458 Thought you are in Valencia or Madrid
@@mdungethulile Enjoy yourself... Just commenting coz we have the same last name😊😊😊
Mme o wa first story is carrying a lot of pain and trauma. You can see it in her eyes and hear it in her voice. What she did to her kids is wrong but at the same time non of us know what she has been through.
She used to fool around thinking the world only revolves around her and lying to herself that she's beautiful forgetting that in life every mess has a sour ending
i am happy for the brothers abamyeke lo bitter mama ayy
Hehake mama kaManqoba! Uyinyoni uyakaka ushiye!
😂😂😂 kodwa nawe Ayanda hle
Uyibhokwe 😢😢hayiboo she s not normal and une anger she need counseling
aibo lomama this is the second time evela ku khumbula ekhaya ukhona umfana wakhe ongu manqoba ohlala germistin ihlazo leli uzala ashiye bese ekhuluma ngezinqukuuu
Yo she's Angry still May God touch her so she can find peace within 🙏🙏🙏🙏
search khumbulekhaya season 15 episode 13 which was uploaded in June the first story is the same mother ai uyabashiya abantwana bakhe lomama
Kanti wayezalela bani ngempela😳 ngabe phela wayohamba waya emtholampilo.Sad thing to have broken parents sometimes it seems like its children's fault.Bonke nathi utata wakho wayengihlukumeza😌
Life is not easy shm
Lo mama wokuqala shame ngyabonga....she is something else ngabe muntu muni ongafuni ingane zakhe zazi obaba bazo...
Yhuuu cc nontobeko ulahla bantwana abathobekileo kangaka yhoo hai sisono.
Uyacasula lomama akanama hloni namancqne nje ayisuka mani
This women ...God help her ..in the first story .....l saw her in the first show ....ummmmm her attitude still sucks
Yooh lomama unjani vele 🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
Hahahahaha
Well come back khumbulekhaya
Wena. Mama landa abanyeabantwanaowabalahla ngoba shukuty baseza abanye kwakhumbulekhaya yeke nekanileonayo
Is this woman for real? Can someone be this nonchalant and wicked to a child she abandoned? Wow!
She is a clear example of unresolved childhood trauma and abandonment. It's like she has never known what it's like to be loved by her parents. She doesn't know what that looks like and her children paid the price. She couldn't give to her children what she herself didn't have. She's carrShe is a clear example of unresolved childhood trauma and abandonment. It's like she has never known what it's like to be loved by her parents. She doesn't know what that looks like and her children paid the price. She couldn't give to her children what she herself didn't have. She's carry so much pain it's a wonder she can get up in the morning. Rather than judging her we can pray that she gets the healing that she needs. Everything she said was a cry for help. She's carrying so much pain it's a wonder she can get up in the morning. Rather than judging her we can pray that she gets the healing that she needs. Everything she said was a cry for help.
Lo Mama hayi 🤪
1st Scene : Xhosa Mom she's something else.... Her attitude its dangerous like a weather
Danferous and destructive
Did you realy have to mention Xhosa
@@nobuzaswayena7119 l dont se any problem with that , that is who she is , a xhosa .
@@nobuzaswayena7119 yeah I see nothing wrong about that.....
do you have to mention Xhosa
The first episode the woman disgusts me with all her excuses... She is selfish, she is not welcoming to her child
She's from the Eastern coast,
Xhosa haaa always run away 🤣🤣
It's heartbreaking yaz 😭
Nontobeko is the mother of the nation, Vendas, Xhosas, Zulus.
I've meet this type of mothers before it makes me sad looking at her face.
Thanks
LOL, watching the first mother, tjoh! She has so many excuses and makes it as if her child asked to be brought in this world. There was no sympathy nor sadness from her, she's too bitter and as much as she went for healing after being sick, hayi khona she needs counselling.
Ndingumxhosa I dont think lomama graduated ebuqgirheni lento anayo yinkenqke kusafuneka asetyenzwe aphile uyagula.....
second time this woman appears here, she was nicer to her other son
I haven’t had that good upbringing but I told myself that I’m not going to bring my children the way I was brought up
No, her mother is not at fault. Actually no one is at fault. I like her father when she calls her nana.
she didn't even heard a tear
Hee sana kuba bindim lo uze kulo andenzele le attitude bendzobuza nguban sduko sakhe usixela kwakhe ndithi kugqityiwe masihambe tata... just kuba ndingalali ne relative yam usile rhaaa
So according to the Xhosa culture you are not supposed to know your father because you were born out of the wedlock, this woman is nuts
Ntate Sejake!
i wanna go home thats all
Lu mama just talk talk nje
Haibo this women she's making all this by herself.
This woman she's rude meuzala uhlupheka hlupheka nabantwana bakho,
First lady is angry as hell at the world ,she is really into sangoma thing.
Haibo Leeroy😂😂😂😂
@@preciousrampeta3472 THEY HAVE ANGER ISSUES MOS LOOOL
@@bakeNGQOL4765 😁😁😁
The excuses kulabafati💔
Hayini uNtopsie😪 so cold towards the son....
THIS LADY KEEPS ON LEAVING HER CHILDREN ALL OVER AI NONTOBEKO YOH
Waze wanonya uMom yaz😕😕
After getting healed she never bothered about her child ohhhh shameless woman. The way i love my kids i will never leave them with anyone yoooo.l will die along with them.If people can't take care of their children they mustn't go around getting intimate true.
Silindiwetshuma Silindiwe depression
Ntate Sejake 😂😂,
I love how this women calls her dad.
She's very calm
The mom with a red doek aykhona🤔
Not even a "I'm sorry" from this women
Lomama sies man ikaka lomfazi ukhuluma doti akana mahloni she must apologize to her son
Ntt Sejake ke u hlomphile re hloka ntt ea tjena.
They r so calm both of them ka nnete
The Xhosa mom yooooh no joy no accountability nothin