@@tshivhalavhalakhangwelo3731 your children should come before your spouse and what kind of partner would not understand that you had other kids before them unless you lied about the situation.
I feel I have to speak for Zanele , she is not rude as most of you proclaim her to be .The poor girl is pouring her heart out and she will be able to forgive the father in the end cause she spoke her heart out
Portia Hlela and all I can see from the father is that he is arrogant and he didn’t even offer her to come in, how do you greet your child at the gate and start talking everything, yeyeeni phela
Zanele is rude. Her mother knew where her father lived but never took her there. She is not all innocent. Her attitude is what makes the step father to resent her
Zanele my sister your voice was heard. Thank yourself for pouring your heart out. it was necessary since it seems like parents have to be taught how to be parents.
Zanele sis thank you for being real,,, you are angry and that is allowed,, but dont let your anger destroy you. Honestly i dont see any disrepect here.
Zanele uluhlaza hlaza mayeeh😢😢the way she talks to her dad amboni bezoba lobudlelwan obuhle..she must be happy she found her dad bakhohlwe ngento zakudala angazazi.Ngoba kuyacaca unina wamtshela amanga ngebirth langezinye into ezinengi azitshela uZanele Sibusiso if you happen to read this comment...mina ngithi khohlwa ngomamakho akakunikezanga uthando impilo yakho yonke lamanje uqala kukubona ngemva kweminyaka uyehluleka kukupha ihug elothando. Ayikho nje indaba kamamakho.....
Zanele is not rude, disrespectful nor acting like a bully, she is displaying behaviours which are shows abandonment issues which are anger, aggression, hurt, lack of trust to name a few. In our African Culture we are expected to respect our elders irregardless hurt and despair. When one ☝️ has been abandoned they are hurt hence display anger issues and behaviours and will act like wounded animal. These kids needs to do some therapy work with therapist or psychologist in order to address these abandonment issues just to make sense why they were left and not being loved or cared for . I hope Zanele will heal and they will work with dad to better their relationship. When a child is left in vulnerable positions they will build up ways to protect and defend themselves that’s they came across rude and having an attitude.
27 years ago there were no condoms and Zanele is number 6 and this is a black man around that time a man could have multiple partners and it was nothing
In thant way sisi ebengeke akwazi ukuthi ekgcineni amxolele bekakhuluma okusenhlizweni futhi osekuhlale isikhathi eside she had rights ukuthi akukhiphe noma ikanjani ukuze Axole naye ngaphakathi
I feel you..But Zanele has every right to be upset.She needs to let it all out.The guy failed her...Seriously, some people don't deserve to have kids..Why have kids if you can't take care of them?.You're ruining their lives...
@@CarterSeapiII I didn't say she can't be upset,but at the end of the day she wanted to find the guy and she found him,she can express herself but still be respectful because all that had happened cannot be taken back. Nobody said she can't be upset.
Zanele has abandonment issues. She is carrying a lot of pain and it's coming out as anger. She has every right to be angry but allowing that anger to make her disrespectful is unnecessary. The next thing when she visits her father's family and she acts like this they are going to say that she is disrespectful like her mother. They will also say that her mother didn't raise her right.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 thank you for understanding what I'm trying to say. She had a very hard life,no doubt about that but she must be respectful because her father is not denying anything and he is remorseful you can tell. Unlike other parents who show no remorse whatsoever.
Angimsoli u step father wakho cc Zanele awunayo inhlonipho cc umzali ngumzali noma angakuphoxa kanjani uzohlala engumzali akekho u step father ongamela ukudelelwa yingane angayizali💔💔💔
I met my dad 2years ago I didn't give him any attitude I didn't want to know the fight between him and my mom it doesn't help to bring the past in the future 😀she should be happy she found him alive some people never had this conversation with their dad nor see them, she is 27 she should learn to address matters in a polite way and she is questioning her father like he is her bf, the stepfather didn't want her because of her attitude
I am 28 and I do not wish to meet my father. My father is my grandmother who took over whilst my dad enjoyed his life. Kids do not ask to be in this world as adults we make decisions and thus I must respect my dad's decision to abandon me. I am at peace and I thank God for my grandmother.
Blame the father, he was supposed to be the one teaching her all the manners. Right now she can't respect any man because the father failed her. In psychology we blame the parent not the child. In most cases our children are what they are or what they become because of us parents. Children who grow up in a disfunctional home tend to be like that
Where was the father to teach her respect? Look she's still angry pouring out her heart.... its easy to judge people if you haven't lived their lives. Some people get raped by stepfathers because their fathers do such nonsense
Thabo Morudu uyacasula.ngoba uhluleka ukubona kuthi lengane ikhule ihlukmezeka, "so called babawayo" akayfunanga zisuka isencane cos akayzali anyway i dnt blame him! mama wayo decided to put her man's wants 1st before her child's needs akazihluphi ekhombise ngane kubo coz okuxakayo yonke lemnyaka uyazi kubo kwalengane wayefika ahlale !! but ufuye ingane nendoda engayifuni for 27 years abe ebona iyahluknezeka! Secondly: ingane zonke zikhule zithi baba kobaba bazo that alone create a great void in a child's upbringinging!! Manje wena awuboni ke lengane she is been suffering from emotional abuse? uqhamuka usuthi fanele ingafunwa iyadelela! really?
Thabo Morudu of course not! the anger of 27 years is boiling her brains, mind you! dhe had so many questions nobody answered! Lets allow her to pour out! sekocaca after uyinfane enjani ngempela! okwamanje ubaba wakhe zange ambona! behlukunyezwa munyu baba maar ekhona ubio.baba obehlezi naye engafu i ngane ome ngokuthi mama wayo was changing places! Khumbulekhaya is been around more that 7 yrs if am right!
Khumbul'ekhaya resources were wasted with this Zanele ,what kind of attitude is that? Forget the step father,after watching this no man will bring you home as umakoti🙅♀️ never.Your mom told you lies wathi your birth certificate was used ukungcwaba eyinye ingane !
Lalelani!! UZanele was rude because ukhule engamazi babakhe efuna ukuba seduze nobabakhe eyngane, but found herself next her stepfather who doesnt like her because akamzali, FACT!!! Zanele's mother chose to put her marriage before her child because she knew where Zanele's father was and still is but chose to look after his man, not her child's needs first!! Ubethule ethini yena lomama yonke leminyaka? bengahambi ngani to Ladysmith ngoba kuthiwa wayefike ahlale laphaya wazi kahle! By the time she saw her man that he hates her child why at least she didnt try to take a child to her father? Why? Bethuleleni for 27 years? Second family yakaSbusiso, mama Thembeka is not well psychologically, uhambe ezala ashiye and she is laying ngapha! However, still today sisenabo abantu abanjalo in our Black society, akuqali ngaye futhi akugcinanga ngaye!! I have sister onjalo, she has 4 children bonke ufike ashiye ekhaya bengathi ukhona nimbone senyamalele Then after 2 years njalo ubuya nenye to dump abaleke! My mother and my other siblings we raising these children! She is 26 years, iskole akasfuni sonke ekhaya we have qualifications because our parents made sure all of us siyaphumelela, but yena uyabaleka akfuni nix emhlanganisa neskole nokuhlala ekhaya! Naye uzobuya one day sezohlala ekhaya like Thembeka! So please let us stop judging! Lento lena its not about a certain tribe, I am Zulu but buka, my sisters wenzani! Buka baba ka Zanele wenzani!
If Ever There's No Sickness That Needs A Ritual From Your Fathers Side Theres Totally No Need To Look For Your Father Who Doesn't Care And If It Took Almost 20 Something Years Without Him In Your Life I See No Reason To Look For Such An Ignorant Parent As Long Your Mother Told You Who Your Father Is That's Enough . I Don't Know My Dad And I Don't Even Wanna Know Him I'm Good , My Mom Raised Me Well Without Him So Looking For Him At The Age Of 25 Is Totally Rubbish
you dont have respect Zanele yooo uluhlaza your father is your father no matter what ,ur dad is ur dad you owe him respect. Bad attitude ntombazane....
Zanele is a B.... dude athi umumithisa kanjani ukuntu ongenandawo youhlala ,,i wonder if she asked her mom that...yena uzele but she act like a saint...disguisting
Omg i haven’t finished watching this episode and yet uZanele irritates the heck out of me. Mina nje my dad was a moron and even after my mother passed away he didn’t even bother to ask my sibling and I how we were coping. I’m grateful for my Queen/mom for never bad mouthing my dad ngoba ngabe ngiyawuzonda manje. It wasn’t until my mom was gone to find out ukuthi how he treated her . I am independent and fortunately I found someone who’s totally opposite to my dad. Whatever misfortune I have encountered through this life I will never blame my dad for that .
I was cringing the whole time while watching Zanele. The man admitted that he made a mistake but she kept being rude. Yes you angry but you must not forget that he's your father.
it's not our place to police how people react to their pain. She is angry at her father, she is honest enough with her emotions (which is far more healthier than what everyone on here is suggesting -- that she represses her anger an humble herself) to allow herself to react the way she feels will bring her healing.
Lol madala be counting his kids just like that using his fingers lol what's the answer, okay he got the answer 6 kids, hope he won't forget. Nawe zanele respect nyana hle don't act like a gogo stop complaining 27 is not 57 you still young Nana.
Zanele has abandonment issues. She is carrying a lot of pain and it's coming out as anger. She has every right to be angry but allowing that anger to make her disrespectful is unnecessary. The next thing when she visits her father's family and she acts like this they are going to say that she is disrespectful like her mother. They will also say that her mother didn't raise her right.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 mina I personally think her mum didn't raise her well & she fed her many lies ngobaba wakhe that's why she was so disrespectful lebirth nanso ibonakele but her mum told her yasetshenziswa kungcwaba eyinye ingane We have seen many people kuKhumbulekhaya abalendaba ezibuhlungu kudlula ezakhe but bahlala bezehlisa ma bethola abazali babo.Zanele uyadelela struuuue
mxmxmxmx I hate woman like Zanele's mother, she knew where the father was and never bothered to take her child to her father, and on the other hand she was feeding this Zanele with wrong info making the father look bad, this guy remained calm all the way, well done Ntokzen
I wish parents should be the ones searching for their children not the other way around.
Amen 🙏
Is not that easy because most of them are married so if they start to look for their kids it can destroy their married
@@tshivhalavhalakhangwelo3731 your children should come before your spouse and what kind of partner would not understand that you had other kids before them unless you lied about the situation.
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@@ramoshabaramoshaba9561 the kind that will leave you for it!...e.g Zanele's mother
I can see how Zanele's dad was able to have 8 kids. He was so calm during Zanele's tantrums, natural charmer.
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I feel I have to speak for Zanele , she is not rude as most of you proclaim her to be .The poor girl is pouring her heart out and she will be able to forgive the father in the end cause she spoke her heart out
Exactly, abantu bafuna abe lovey dovey akhohlwe kalula kanjalo, she won't heal that way, she has to voice her anger and pain
Portia Hlela and all I can see from the father is that he is arrogant and he didn’t even offer her to come in, how do you greet your child at the gate and start talking everything, yeyeeni phela
But it's not her father's fault, her mother is the one who chose to raise her alone as she explained
exactly. zanele is holding this man accountable ✔️
This is beautiful. So happy for Sibusiso. You have found your family now, they were all there to welcome you njengonyana wabo.
this man is really humble. and I like the fact that she forgave him. well done and I love the ending
Zanele is rude. Her mother knew where her father lived but never took her there. She is not all innocent. Her attitude is what makes the step father to resent her
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Sibusiso is a real gentleman.
I admire him .
Stay Happy Family.
Zanele my sister your voice was heard. Thank yourself for pouring your heart out. it was necessary since it seems like parents have to be taught how to be parents.
gosh I just love the way ubaba kaZanele aphendula ngakhona 💪
Thembeka hug and Sibusiso hayi khona hle....
Masimbone Mtshotshisa that was not a hug, I don’t know what to call that
So cold
Zanele sis thank you for being real,,, you are angry and that is allowed,, but dont let your anger destroy you. Honestly i dont see any disrepect here.
Zanele uluhlaza hlaza mayeeh😢😢the way she talks to her dad amboni bezoba lobudlelwan obuhle..she must be happy she found her dad bakhohlwe ngento zakudala angazazi.Ngoba kuyacaca unina wamtshela amanga ngebirth langezinye into ezinengi azitshela uZanele
Sibusiso if you happen to read this comment...mina ngithi khohlwa ngomamakho akakunikezanga uthando impilo yakho yonke lamanje uqala kukubona ngemva kweminyaka uyehluleka kukupha ihug elothando. Ayikho nje indaba kamamakho.....
It's good to see Sbu's mother not trying to blame anybody but herself. She owned up. We need that in order to heal
Zanele is not rude, disrespectful nor acting like a bully, she is displaying behaviours which are shows abandonment issues which are anger, aggression, hurt, lack of trust to name a few. In our African Culture we are expected to respect our elders irregardless hurt and despair. When one ☝️ has been abandoned they are hurt hence display anger issues and behaviours and will act like wounded animal. These kids needs to do some therapy work with therapist or psychologist in order to address these abandonment issues just to make sense why they were left and not being loved or cared for . I hope Zanele will heal and they will work with dad to better their relationship. When a child is left in vulnerable positions they will build up ways to protect and defend themselves that’s they came across rude and having an attitude.
Zanele akana respect at all. Ngeke ahlale ne step dad.
weekly dose yesssss...thanx admin watching from Botswana. .😚
Zanele uyambona mos tatakho Zange akushiye qha use uzixelele uba uzozihlanyisa.... hyi wethu I drama inabantu bayou.
Men like Ntokozo who have 10000 kids lack self-respect. How do you do this to your children. It's very selfish 😒😣😔
Lol bengithi ngidli khekhe nje heheheeee lyf neh
Those days there was no protection we all know.
@@y2k339 that father doesn't look old and there was protection back then! This man is selfish and he was a hoe!!
27 years ago there were no condoms and Zanele is number 6 and this is a black man around that time a man could have multiple partners and it was nothing
they're a hot mess!
Thic is the humble man
Khululekhaya ngyamthanda. Nibe nosuku oluhle. Syababongela nabathole izihlobo zabo. I love y'all
Kuyinkinga ukufuna umzali umthole maqede umthethise umhlaba ubuka kanti ubumfunelani???
In thant way sisi ebengeke akwazi ukuthi ekgcineni amxolele bekakhuluma okusenhlizweni futhi osekuhlale isikhathi eside she had rights ukuthi akukhiphe noma ikanjani ukuze Axole naye ngaphakathi
We understand that Zanele is upset but she still needs to be respectful. This guy is older than her,there's no need to be rude.
I feel you..But Zanele has every right to be upset.She needs to let it all out.The guy failed her...Seriously, some people don't deserve to have kids..Why have kids if you can't take care of them?.You're ruining their lives...
@@CarterSeapiII I didn't say she can't be upset,but at the end of the day she wanted to find the guy and she found him,she can express herself but still be respectful because all that had happened cannot be taken back. Nobody said she can't be upset.
Zanele has abandonment issues. She is carrying a lot of pain and it's coming out as anger. She has every right to be angry but allowing that anger to make her disrespectful is unnecessary. The next thing when she visits her father's family and she acts like this they are going to say that she is disrespectful like her mother. They will also say that her mother didn't raise her right.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 thank you for understanding what I'm trying to say. She had a very hard life,no doubt about that but she must be respectful because her father is not denying anything and he is remorseful you can tell. Unlike other parents who show no remorse whatsoever.
Maybe the tone is not right but she is asking all the right questions
Yi Charmer ubaba. Wakhuluma no Zanele ngathi uyashela lol. No wonder he has 8 children from outside😂
Uthi unina wamthatha umntwana wayòzokhulisela
Angimsoli u step father wakho cc Zanele awunayo inhlonipho cc umzali ngumzali noma angakuphoxa kanjani uzohlala engumzali akekho u step father ongamela ukudelelwa yingane angayizali💔💔💔
I met my dad 2years ago I didn't give him any attitude I didn't want to know the fight between him and my mom it doesn't help to bring the past in the future 😀she should be happy she found him alive some people never had this conversation with their dad nor see them, she is 27 she should learn to address matters in a polite way and she is questioning her father like he is her bf, the stepfather didn't want her because of her attitude
I am 28 and I do not wish to meet my father. My father is my grandmother who took over whilst my dad enjoyed his life. Kids do not ask to be in this world as adults we make decisions and thus I must respect my dad's decision to abandon me. I am at peace and I thank God for my grandmother.
Mama kaZanele uzala kanjan ingane ungenakhaya ayi Zanele respect utatakho uMamakho ubazi kin so wayengabuyisi ngan
Your stepfather doesn't want you maZet ngoba ugreeen cc,hlisa mntasee
Thank you Admin for the good job.
Yhooohhh waze wamthethisa no ubaba wakhe lo sisi. Ukhuluma nobabalhe engathi ukuluma nendoda yakhe ayibambe i cheater Mncihh. Ungenza ngingamzweli
Yooh lentombazane Zanele hlonipha cc. Zifundise noma ungakwata kanjani, he is still your father boo.
Sis Zanele with this attitude you wont go far Sis. Uzehlise he is still your father regardless of what happened..
true. I can't deal at the moment. Her attitude is too nasty
Blame the father, he was supposed to be the one teaching her all the manners. Right now she can't respect any man because the father failed her. In psychology we blame the parent not the child. In most cases our children are what they are or what they become because of us parents. Children who grow up in a disfunctional home tend to be like that
You are not God
@@jabulilekumalo5149 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😜😜😜😜
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Meaning .. I have a right to share my view. Hence its shared public for us to have opinion and learn
Zanele respect cc iyafuneka
This anger should be between the mom and dad.This child is angry because of the way she was raised.
Zanele your dad loves you and u are so blessed to find your dad. Please forgive him🙏♥️ Nkosi Ngwane wena wokunene
i understand Zanele's anger, however, when a person acknowledges their mistakes it's something else
on the second part, I understand that they are not used to each other but they could have hugged a long loving hug but anyway,it was great episode
Zanele hlonipha abantu abadala, yebo ukushiyile but respect him cc
Zanele uluhlaza, akaphekiwe 😁
Ubezophekwa ubani uyise engekho
Bayangidina abantu abafana noThembeka abalahla abantwana and complaining about not having money while she is busy slaying
Yaziii laba yibo abafazii abayenza singathathwa serious
Uthi amaxeba ngutata akhe maka fela, look her lips she drinks too much but sibusiso is a good boy and respect
Yuh ayi lomama Thembeka mjongile yambona kanakwathando lengane Sbusiso nenhlonipho shame kodwa mama wakhe yuh kanathando tuh well ke ngcon ngoba mfumane saphila
Zanele ga o tsebe go bolela sesi
Where was the father to teach her respect? Look she's still angry pouring out her heart.... its easy to judge people if you haven't lived their lives. Some people get raped by stepfathers because their fathers do such nonsense
Waze wangdina zanele ngokthatha kanje ubabakho ,kazi yobanayo yini indoda wuu
Yooo amacici Ku mama ka sbusiso Jesu umazala ashiye .
Zanele calm down don’t allow anger to blind you
Sisi zanele uyakhuluma shame 👌
Ungichazile
I'm sure he had MANY children after zanele. He's probably pushing 30 kids. NO WAY six baby mamas when zanele's mom was pregnant.
Batho ba busy
The stepfather didn't want u bcos u dont hv respect. Ur attitude says it all🤣🤣
Thabo Morudu Uxolo bhuti. Uyanya!!!
@@lillyxanga7395 vele uyantuka for ntoni? Nxa uya boreka neh
Thabo Morudu uyacasula.ngoba uhluleka ukubona kuthi lengane ikhule ihlukmezeka, "so called babawayo" akayfunanga zisuka isencane cos akayzali anyway i dnt blame him!
mama wayo decided to put her man's wants 1st before her child's needs akazihluphi ekhombise ngane kubo coz okuxakayo yonke lemnyaka uyazi kubo kwalengane wayefika ahlale !!
but ufuye ingane nendoda engayifuni for 27 years abe ebona iyahluknezeka!
Secondly: ingane zonke zikhule zithi baba kobaba bazo that alone create a great void in a child's upbringinging!!
Manje wena awuboni ke lengane she is been suffering from emotional abuse?
uqhamuka usuthi fanele ingafunwa iyadelela! really?
@@lillyxanga7395 do u see how she Question her father without respect
Thabo Morudu of course not! the anger of 27 years is boiling her brains, mind you! dhe had so many questions nobody answered! Lets allow her to pour out! sekocaca after uyinfane enjani ngempela! okwamanje ubaba wakhe zange ambona! behlukunyezwa munyu baba maar ekhona ubio.baba obehlezi naye engafu i ngane ome ngokuthi mama wayo was changing places! Khumbulekhaya is been around more that 7 yrs if am right!
Khala ma Z Z 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅
#Thembeka.!! Thembeka.!!
Lonto umoya wakho cc uphantsi, and kuyacaca ba uSbu wawumlahla but umlahlela kowabo.. Indenza Dom ke xa inje...
Uyadakwa wena Zanele unyoko wayekwazi lakuhlala khona ubaba wakho
Zanele's father can calm a woman down! Slick tongue that one yerr
If mbhede uyajika was a person 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mam Thembeka zanele is coming for u 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Abamkhuze nango uSIBUSISO eqeda usofa ngenzipho
🤣🤣🤣 i actually went to look for sbusiso's part
Nervousness
Don't be surprised people ,Zanele mybe don't have Matric
How does that have to do with the issue at hand?
Aluta sambo 😂😂😂
Zanele hlonipha cc ngeke uganwe le attidute yakho leyo
Ukukhuluma manje noyihlo,uyasho nje ukuthi 1 wrongs never make 1 right ntombi
Khumbul'ekhaya resources were wasted with this Zanele ,what kind of attitude is that? Forget the step father,after watching this no man will bring you home as umakoti🙅♀️ never.Your mom told you lies wathi your birth certificate was used ukungcwaba eyinye ingane !
Zanele was badly brought up and she has exposed her bad attitude to the nation. No family would ever like to have her as umakoti.
You're not God
@@jabulilekumalo5149 i don't need to be God to smell a stinking attitude!!!!
Zanele s mother was supposed to go with zanele haaai maan
Awna nhlonipho dot ifundiswanga ukhlonipha nomawakho ushilo ukuthi walahla lendodangoba ibinezingane eziningi akuyenalobaba owashiya lomama
AwuzwWena ngane uyislima shid
Awbuzingani umawakho ngoba wayazi ukuthi ukuphi iyahlanyA dot
Abo mama ba hug kanjn hhayi duduza umtwana wakho uthi ukumhlikihla emhlane show some love
Zanele wa telela sesi yooh...you can't be talking to your dad like you talking to your boyfriend.
Lol kagisho akere zanele said she's 27 she feels like she's 57 re tla reng lol
Even if it was a boyfriend she don't have to act like that
Sibusiso my boy, oouhh💔... mamakhona ngathi ngunontyintyi owaziwayo... I hope she really tried to be a better mom
Ijongo lase mnambithi leli liyachatha ei strong le mbiza ka nyanga yezizwe
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Lalelani!! UZanele was rude because ukhule engamazi babakhe efuna ukuba seduze nobabakhe eyngane, but found herself next her stepfather who doesnt like her because akamzali, FACT!!!
Zanele's mother chose to put her marriage before her child because she knew where Zanele's father was and still is but chose to look after his man, not her child's needs first!!
Ubethule ethini yena lomama yonke leminyaka? bengahambi ngani to Ladysmith ngoba kuthiwa wayefike ahlale laphaya wazi kahle!
By the time she saw her man that he hates her child why at least she didnt try to take a child to her father? Why? Bethuleleni for 27 years?
Second family yakaSbusiso, mama Thembeka is not well psychologically, uhambe ezala ashiye and she is laying ngapha!
However, still today sisenabo abantu abanjalo in our Black society, akuqali ngaye futhi akugcinanga ngaye!!
I have sister onjalo, she has 4 children bonke ufike ashiye ekhaya bengathi ukhona nimbone senyamalele
Then after 2 years njalo ubuya nenye to dump abaleke! My mother and my other siblings we raising these children!
She is 26 years, iskole akasfuni sonke ekhaya we have qualifications because our parents made sure all of us siyaphumelela, but yena uyabaleka akfuni nix emhlanganisa neskole nokuhlala ekhaya!
Naye uzobuya one day sezohlala ekhaya like Thembeka!
So please let us stop judging!
Lento lena its not about a certain tribe, I am Zulu but buka, my sisters wenzani! Buka baba ka Zanele wenzani!
Sisi Zanele uvisana buhlungu hlonipha cc uwufundziswanga uyohamba ucede umhlaba because of respect
Well done
Gal yes u kwatile kambe e tatana wa wena.Ngu hloniphi kaa.Mita va na vu xaka bya njani loko u ngu khoma
ku fana na xihlangi..
Mmm Thembeka bakithi yaze yakhula isono ingane yakho 😭😭nokhulu kasbusiso akakho mdala why evumele umntana alahle ingabe thixo💔
Respect pliz Cc ufundisani ezinye ingane nxaaa mani
If Ever There's No Sickness That Needs A Ritual From Your Fathers Side Theres Totally No Need To Look For Your Father Who Doesn't Care And If It Took Almost 20 Something Years Without Him In Your Life I See No Reason To Look For Such An Ignorant Parent As Long Your Mother Told You Who Your Father Is That's Enough . I Don't Know My Dad And I Don't Even Wanna Know Him I'm Good , My Mom Raised Me Well Without Him So Looking For Him At The Age Of 25 Is Totally Rubbish
Zanele zehlise ngu yihlo lo life is to short use this day wise other's are not lucky to get their dads or mum's you are lucky ntombi
Cha uyeyisa Zanele hawuu🙄wazisiza nobaba wakho wahamba vele uyasangana cc
CHA UTHI IBIRTHDAY YAKHE AKAYAZI KAHLE NKANTI UMAMA WAKHE UBENGEKHO YINI EZALWA
you dont have respect Zanele yooo uluhlaza your father is your father no matter what ,ur dad is ur dad you owe him respect. Bad attitude ntombazane....
Rubbish
Supa strikas
Ijoo Zanele and her father ijoooo 👊👊
Hayi no waze wadelela lo sisi
Uyadelela Zanele, indaba zabantu abadala akaziyekele kubo.
Ngubani umuntu ongangichumanisa no Zanele.... ngyamudinga shem
Zanele is a B.... dude athi umumithisa kanjani ukuntu ongenandawo youhlala ,,i wonder if she asked her mom that...yena uzele but she act like a saint...disguisting
Ha ha ha ha ha he doesn't even know how many kids he has
what an attitude 😥😥😥
kunabantu abakwaziyi ukwenza yaz mina eyam ingane ihlala ekhaya nomama kudwa aypheli inyanga singabonananga nayo,umzala udla kanjan ingane yakho ungaz noma idli ay ngiyanisaba bantu besfazana.
Omg i haven’t finished watching this episode and yet uZanele irritates the heck out of me. Mina nje my dad was a moron and even after my mother passed away he didn’t even bother to ask my sibling and I how we were coping. I’m grateful for my Queen/mom for never bad mouthing my dad ngoba ngabe ngiyawuzonda manje. It wasn’t until my mom was gone to find out ukuthi how he treated her . I am independent and fortunately I found someone who’s totally opposite to my dad. Whatever misfortune I have encountered through this life I will never blame my dad for that .
He had 6 other children how did she think he'd look for her out of his many other children yoh lmao
jooo Zanele
Wena uzalwa ubani??? Like really??? Kanti akamazi yini umama wengane lobaba
Wayezalisa ashiye, into eyenziwa amadoda vele
uthi umgcine ala3 kodwa akasazi wamzala lobani😢😢😢sad
basekhona abafana abayizilima abahambe bezala ngesikhathi samanje mina ngiyaxolisa kodwa ngazi umuntu omusha womfana ozalisa ngapha nangapha naye akaxumani nezingane zakhe mangimbuza uthi wandisa isizwe,uthi nobaba wakhe unezingane kuwo wonke amaprovince zizokhuliswa onina, haikhona umuntu omusha enze leyento ongaphansi ka35years ziyobuya ingane zakhe zilwa uyothi ziyadelela njengoba washo kimi ngamtshela mina ukuthi akabagqondo futhi akananlutho oluhehayo ukuthi angahambe ezalisa , bantwana bakwethi ngicela sizame ukwenza abantwana nabantu esibaziyo,ngiyaxolisa ukukhupha imfihlo yomuntu ukuthi uyafihla ukuthi uhamba ezalisa usho ma sekukubi
I was cringing the whole time while watching Zanele. The man admitted that he made a mistake but she kept being rude. Yes you angry but you must not forget that he's your father.
well, the father forgot that he's the father WHEN HE LEFT HER AT 2 YEARS OLD
@@aquilogy the man was humble and showed that he cared the disrespect wasn't necessary.
it's not our place to police how people react to their pain.
She is angry at her father, she is honest enough with her emotions (which is far more healthier than what everyone on here is suggesting -- that she represses her anger an humble herself) to allow herself to react the way she feels will bring her healing.
Bona I said what I said! I wasn't opening a debating show. You're also allowed to have your views don't involve me there.
LOL, I guess
Lol madala be counting his kids just like that using his fingers lol what's the answer, okay he got the answer 6 kids, hope he won't forget. Nawe zanele respect nyana hle don't act like a gogo stop complaining 27 is not 57 you still young Nana.
Bonzatee Bonzatee 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
ma usuka eKhumbulekhaya uhambe uyofunda ukuhlonipha badala siswam..... we were so uncomfortable watching your segment.
I understand where she is coming from and she is asking all the right questions.
The problem its not asking questions its her attitude, very rude...
Zanele has abandonment issues. She is carrying a lot of pain and it's coming out as anger. She has every right to be angry but allowing that anger to make her disrespectful is unnecessary. The next thing when she visits her father's family and she acts like this they are going to say that she is disrespectful like her mother. They will also say that her mother didn't raise her right.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 mina I personally think her mum didn't raise her well & she fed her many lies ngobaba wakhe that's why she was so disrespectful lebirth nanso ibonakele but her mum told her yasetshenziswa kungcwaba eyinye ingane
We have seen many people kuKhumbulekhaya abalendaba ezibuhlungu kudlula ezakhe but bahlala bezehlisa ma bethola abazali babo.Zanele uyadelela struuuue
Attitude sticks,a lot of us have gone through this but Zanele hlonipha uyihlo nonyoko
Zanele ga o na maitseo sisi.Your father is tyring to explain to you but wena you are disrepecting him no no no ga e bereke jalo mme.
Zanele there is always 1 dad nd many attitudes....o rude...kahlekahle uyadelela...ai man
mxmxmxmx I hate woman like Zanele's mother, she knew where the father was and never bothered to take her child to her father, and on the other hand she was feeding this Zanele with wrong info making the father look bad, this guy remained calm all the way, well done Ntokzen
u rude shame uZanele
Uyabheda nyan nyan
I THINK BECAUSE SHE IS HURTING AND ANGRY AT HER FATHER... BUT STILL, DOESNT JUSTIFY HER DISRESPECTING HER FATHER
U rude ngempela yikho engazwani nane stepfather
Senzi Xulu 😂😂😂 exactly what I was thinking
So rude dear
Cha ngeke lo Zanele akanayo inhlonipho ,indelelo le .
Naye lobaba uneskhathi mina bengingavele ngimshiye kanjalo
But bafethu sometime nomama bethu basitshela okungeyikho
Yo wawuqeda usofa uSbusiso nkosi yami ,ubuhlungu ubukhiphela osofeni😓
Baba ubuyisoka lamanyala
Nje finish
What kind of father is this one, not even sure how many children he has. Its annoying
THIS IS REALY SHOCKING
Impilo isazomkhombisa lontombazane akazi lutho
Bacaniya! Mashayashaya... Zanele! Poisoned 🤢, at least you found your dad.