The lady "eldest daughter" is more educated than her school grades. I mean when she speaks there is so much sense and braveness.... And the story is very touching.... But God's ways are not man's... So i believe they should use their second chance together in the best way they can.... Wish you all the best from now onwards❤️❤️❤️
The second mother has obviously been through a lot of things and has learnt to rely on alcohol and a defence mechanism to survive. She's void and needs counseling herself. She can't express the love and embrace she's feeling because she doesn't know how. All of them need counseling but I'm happy the young man was smiling in the end
Jha neh life is very hard, I don't understand umama weyingane avele ahambe nje Nkosi zwela abantwana bakho Sbongile God may bless u Sis ukuty ungalahle izingan zakin👏👏
Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. Self awareness first before you decide to bring someone in this world. I can never understand how u bring a child to this world and expect other people to raise your child while you still alive. Children get abused due to growing up in places where they were never planned. They get abused when the people you left them with feel the pressure of raising your children.
The second story realy made me cry. Il never ever in my life leave my children nomater what. This mother is selfish. I hope they get proper counseling.
Mme wa no 2, aikhona xem , u left ur children with people shame on her, she says it was far ijo🙆🏻♀️she want to blame other people for her drinking ijo wa tena xem, ,i wouldnt stay in an abusive relationship but i wnt leave my children with people never
How bathong Andile, please buy more of d thing you are wearing on your head. U look wow. The clothes you are wearing today suits your body n your character
I DISAGREE,,THAT MOTHER IS HEAVILY SCARED PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY,,AFTER YEARS OF ABUSE,,SOME PEOPLE MIGHT NOT SEE IT BUT I FELT THAT SHE WAS TRULY REMORSEFUL
Circumstances forced her hand. She had no choice. Today she is alive because she chose to leave. Her only fault was allowing her children to be taken from her.
Oh well,so he said Nelson Mandela,I'm going to paraphrase, of All the sins in this world,there is no Worse sin like depriving a person education!!! They are children their anger is understood BUT respect for you're parent should be key. You Don't on national TV tell you're mother to stop drinking!!! You then contradict you're self to say you're there because of her?Really.Those physical scars will never heel.you still children I wish you well But learn to hold you're horses,they easily get astray. I'm happy for mom,maybe through the program counselling could be organized for you!!Social I'll in this Country are insurmountable!!! I'm with you mom,financially you we're not in a position to move around and look for you're children in a far off and maybe very deep and rural area!I wish you well and hope God heals the scars and deep seated wounds in you that only He can see and heal.
How dare this woman blame a 4 year old😞😞 for failing her children not 1 not 2 but 3 of them... Instead of coming clean that she wasn't ready and stable Seriously
Tjeer second episode muur it's very painful and i pray God to bless this siblings more especially the old girl she's got a strong character or balls of steel.
Second story sizwisa nhlungu lomama uty saphuza kuyacaca lengane bezizikhathaza zifuna lomama kakashitshi kayikho yuh kubuhlungu zalwa mama phuzayo ngenakwathando lengane fanele kunilahla bezosela kanjan nikhona wabona kungcono anilahle so sad mama ngenakwathando nganeni zakhe yamuzwa kwangoku story sakhe asivakali yuh. Mama nika ngane thando wena yeka sela yini thixo
fathers of the olden days would take kids away from mothers and poor mothers would just give in to lose their kids.....i know kids suffer but i understand the powerless mothers whose kids are taken away...xolani bantwana ubaba laye kazange alitshele iqiniso....futhi uyezwa bethi umtwana ngokayise....physical abuse is painful...eish laye umama lowu ngubhudwetshwaleni mani...uwisa isithunzi sabomama
Lomama ozala omkhaya she still doesn't deserve these humble kids lah bazifunele inkinga as long esaphuza never ebathande basazohlukumezeka leli yilo izanka ilema likamama.How can you listen to a 4 year old I believe the story that she signed those kids away epolice station
What was she to do?? ...go.look for the husband's out of marriage child truth be told no one can do that.At least she confessed that her husband told her about the child engomunye ubezoyenza ngathi akakwazi
Antie tell me, what do you do when your husband cheats on you, and doesn't even bother to condomise, impregnate another woman, comes and tell you she made another woman pregnant? Are you gonna go out and look for your husband 's illegitimate child? What was this woman suppose to do? Put yourself in her situation first before you throw stones please sisi.Tomorrow you might find yourself in the same situation!!!
Why is it always the childrens are the ones to suffer wen the parents separated 😭😭😭the second family eish the mother is busy telling the kids about how their father used to beat her ,were did the kids fits in there,that was the fight between the parents she is not supposed to use that as an excuse 😡😡😡 all these years and they separated long long back without her try and look for her kids, whenever the alcohol is involved there is always a problem.
@@ramoshabaramoshaba9561 and again in this case the father was also a drunker so like the mother that's why I said were there is alcohol involved you can not expect good outcomes
The first story this woman looks exactly like her father and her older sister (judging from that I.d photo). Imagine meeting a sister you never knew as an adult. I wish her all the best.
The problem with this mum is that she takes zero responsibility for her part in this! Yes the father was wrong for abusing her. Being beaten affects you emotionally and psychologically. I hope they move on and heal....😭☹️
The 1st family, they are not open at all..am sure the Lady would have wanted to know what kind of person was He, and what happened to him. But they did not touch that part.. She's still having lot of unanswered questions I guess
Queen Thako.. what do you wanna know? You want them to tell this young woman that his father was a married man who went to Lusikisiki for work but ended up cheating on his wife by impregnating someone else other than his wife that he left at home? They don't wanna talk about those things on a national television. Anyway it's all in the past now what's done is done. They wanna move on.
First lady sounds bit angry but she doesn't blame her mother and her mother knew that her boyfriend has a wife at home thats why she was quite about it. I'm proud of the wife she welcomed her as her husband's daughter
The mother on part 2 is remorseful. Only thing is she’s still bitter over how their dad treated her. She’s still drinking her sorrows away. She’s stuck in the past. She’s clearly hurt to hear how her kids grew up. Especially the son who lived on alcohol at 4years. It’s really hard to humble yourself. I’m glad the older sister took an initiative and hugged her first. Hoping and praying for the best for them from now onwards. Really hope they can all get professional psychological help. Heal them Jesus! 🙏🏾
This second mother does not care about kids how can a 4 yr old give you rules.A child always goes where they find love and happiness you don't have that mama.mwana webenzi haana mufaro .
Laba bafuna induku abazali abakhohlakele sis mani bring kids in this world to make them suffer, and labo mama balamanga stupid, even ushayiwa marriage injalo baleka nengane zakho
I can't bet the aunt in the second story is still making excuses for her sister. Having drunkards as parents is a curse shem. This woman wronged her children but she doesn't want to be accountable instead she blames everyone else but herself . SMH
They should just be grateful that they found their mother alive and not killed by their father. African men love showing their kids just to show that they can produce babies and they never love and respect their wives. They make wives baby producing machines and take the babies to their parents cause their parents are happy to have grandkids. These kids must just be thankful and consider themselves lucky that they found their mother alive.
Uyabheda ke mina ngikutshele uma ungawafuni ama Xhosa hamba la. Nxa nizenza engathi umhlaba owenu. Uyithathaphi indlela yokuthi ukhulume so ngabanye abantu? Who are you? Mina ke ngingu Mzulu ongavumelani nalombhedo yenu we nzondo.
@@p.k.2220 Hahahaha l am actually Xhosa. I have been observing that almost on all the episodes of Khumbulekhaya this season there is a Xhosa person featured.
Second story l respect the oldest girl by being brave. Very courageous girl indeed.
The lady "eldest daughter" is more educated than her school grades. I mean when she speaks there is so much sense and braveness.... And the story is very touching.... But God's ways are not man's... So i believe they should use their second chance together in the best way they can.... Wish you all the best from now onwards❤️❤️❤️
The second mother has obviously been through a lot of things and has learnt to rely on alcohol and a defence mechanism to survive. She's void and needs counseling herself. She can't express the love and embrace she's feeling because she doesn't know how. All of them need counseling but I'm happy the young man was smiling in the end
Thanks admin.... You deserve promotion this year. We are no longer begging for episode to be uploaded.
LABA NTWANA ABATHATHU, ENKOSI KUNGANI JEHOVA UMUNTU WESIFAZANE ASHIYE IZINGANE ZAKHE ZIKHULISWE ABANYE ABANTU.YABONA KUBHLUNGU,KWAMINA NGIYAKHALA MANJE NGEDLELA OKUBUHLUNGU NGAYO AY KUNZIMA EMHLABEN.
The 2nd story is so sad. I blamed her at first but now I realise that her life was difficult. I don't know what I would've done in her situation.
Thanks for the first father even if he's no more at least he talked to his wife about the kid he left behind. He was honest,
He was "honest" but not man enough to be a part of his child life. Maybe his wife is the one who forced him to tell her the truth.
Jha neh life is very hard, I don't understand umama weyingane avele ahambe nje Nkosi zwela abantwana bakho
Sbongile God may bless u Sis ukuty ungalahle izingan zakin👏👏
Thank you very much Admin.
It's the first time crying kuKhumbulekhaya the second episode is very emotional😢
hello khumbulekhaya fam😘..thanx admin
Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. Self awareness first before you decide to bring someone in this world. I can never understand how u bring a child to this world and expect other people to raise your child while you still alive. Children get abused due to growing up in places where they were never planned. They get abused when the people you left them with feel the pressure of raising your children.
WELL SAID MUM , U SO KIND N RESPONSIBLE THANK YOU .
Second story..I think thy need counselin espicially the young man.anger is written in his face.may god bles them.
kere ,mathlo agae gajike nex,oshebile mmage
Velaphi
The second story realy made me cry.
Il never ever in my life leave my children nomater what.
This mother is selfish.
I hope they get proper counseling.
I'm originally from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 l relate to these stories very sad
1st story. I kind'a have a feeling her stepmother was telling the deceased Father not to look for her daughter. This is just an act for the camera.
Coz that's what you would have done if you were her?
@@thabuneni26nxaa Yes Dr Phil, thank you for questioning my intelligence.
True
True
Wena mama lomyeni wakho lifuna induku ,lalidakwa nobabili lizelilibale izingane zenu ,what a sad story
Mme wa no 2, aikhona xem , u left ur children with people shame on her, she says it was far ijo🙆🏻♀️she want to blame other people for her drinking ijo wa tena xem, ,i wouldnt stay in an abusive relationship but i wnt leave my children with people never
❤❤❤❤Ngaze ngamthanda umama ka andiswa unomoya omnand nkosi imbusise
🙌🙌🙌
Second family the young man never blink his eyes thru out the whole time.
Hes
angry
He is suprised by seeing his mum who doesn't look happy & remorseful who is not even making sense by her excuses
How bathong Andile, please buy more of d thing you are wearing on your head. U look wow. The clothes you are wearing today suits your body n your character
Thanks admin.....As for this mother in the second story "no sign of remorse "😢😢😢😢😢
I DISAGREE,,THAT MOTHER IS HEAVILY SCARED PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY,,AFTER YEARS OF ABUSE,,SOME PEOPLE MIGHT NOT SEE IT BUT I FELT THAT SHE WAS TRULY REMORSEFUL
This woman is giving excuses there is no excuse in leaving your children behind as a mom you struggle with your kids😢
Circumstances forced her hand. She had no choice. Today she is alive because she chose to leave. Her only fault was allowing her children to be taken from her.
Umama we episode yesibili ufuna induku nje kwaphela, usazoyisutha induku kuMthuliseni indlela ambuka ngayo ugcwele inzondo
It's saddening to see how womxn abuse affects families
So sorry for the second family children always are the victims anyway god bless them hope they're going to enjoy with mum and will for give her
My sentiments also mam.
Thanks admin, uma ngibukela sicephu sekucala sivisana buhlungu ngoba bomake bafanele bati kutsi umuntfu labatsandzana naye ulichamukisaphi nekutsi uhlalaphi likhaya likuphi, kute kutsi uma ngabe sekunetinkinga nemntfwana akhone kumikisa lowomntfwana ekhaya kubo. Sicephu sesibili sibuhlungu ngebantfwana labakhuliswa bogogo batali bobabili babe baphila kepha Baphilela tjwala nje. Inkinga yebantfu bati kutsi tjwala bucedza tinkinga kantsi cha buyatibanga
Oh well,so he said Nelson Mandela,I'm going to paraphrase, of All the sins in this world,there is no Worse sin like depriving a person education!!! They are children their anger is understood BUT respect for you're parent should be key. You Don't on national TV tell you're mother to stop drinking!!! You then contradict you're self to say you're there because of her?Really.Those physical scars will never heel.you still children I wish you well But learn to hold you're horses,they easily get astray. I'm happy for mom,maybe through the program counselling could be organized for you!!Social I'll in this Country are insurmountable!!! I'm with you mom,financially you we're not in a position to move around and look for you're children in a far off and maybe very deep and rural area!I wish you well and hope God heals the scars and deep seated wounds in you that only He can see and heal.
How dare this woman blame a 4 year old😞😞 for failing her children not 1 not 2 but 3 of them... Instead of coming clean that she wasn't ready and stable Seriously
Lomama yooooh
Bonke omama abavela kukhumbulekhaya bavika ngokuty abobaba ababenza bashiya ingane zabo,ngoba bebashaya yoo ungashiya njn umntwana wakho iminyaka ?ayy suka mina ngeke bantu besfazane ake sibe nenyani phambi kwa Jehova .
thats a sad story indeed parents should take care of their children regardless of what chalenges
Tjeer second episode muur it's very painful and i pray God to bless this siblings more especially the old girl she's got a strong character or balls of steel.
Second story sizwisa nhlungu lomama uty saphuza kuyacaca lengane bezizikhathaza zifuna lomama kakashitshi kayikho yuh kubuhlungu zalwa mama phuzayo ngenakwathando lengane fanele kunilahla bezosela kanjan nikhona wabona kungcono anilahle so sad mama ngenakwathando nganeni zakhe yamuzwa kwangoku story sakhe asivakali yuh. Mama nika ngane thando wena yeka sela yini thixo
fathers of the olden days would take kids away from mothers and poor mothers would just give in to lose their kids.....i know kids suffer but i understand the powerless mothers whose kids are taken away...xolani bantwana ubaba laye kazange alitshele iqiniso....futhi uyezwa bethi umtwana ngokayise....physical abuse is painful...eish laye umama lowu ngubhudwetshwaleni mani...uwisa isithunzi sabomama
Inimba
Ausi Puleng and her children need serious counselling.All the best to them!
How can a 4 year old refuse to go anywhere with his mum. Lomama naye ubeleProblem. Bekumele nje ahambe nengane zakhe ayeke ukusela
Lomama ozala omkhaya she still doesn't deserve these humble kids lah bazifunele inkinga as long esaphuza never ebathande basazohlukumezeka leli yilo izanka ilema likamama.How can you listen to a 4 year old I believe the story that she signed those kids away epolice station
Lomama akanathando labantwana bakhe akajabulanga too ufisa ngabe bafile
Welcome home dadewethu uzophathwa kahle kaSikhosana koMhlanga koMusi koNovaphi .....ngithi nje welcome Khosana omuhle
It's not a myth that zimbabwe is miles ahead in terms of education
women hayi khona this woman knew about this gal and now she says ndiyakwamkela esmdala kangaka we are wrong sometimes
What was she to do?? ...go.look for the husband's out of marriage child truth be told no one can do that.At least she confessed that her husband told her about the child engomunye ubezoyenza ngathi akakwazi
@@anniendhluli2790 you sound like an evil stepmother
Antie tell me, what do you do when your husband cheats on you, and doesn't even bother to condomise, impregnate another woman, comes and tell you she made another woman pregnant? Are you gonna go out and look for your husband 's illegitimate child? What was this woman suppose to do? Put yourself in her situation first before you throw stones please sisi.Tomorrow you might find yourself in the same situation!!!
Why is it always the childrens are the ones to suffer wen the parents separated 😭😭😭the second family eish the mother is busy telling the kids about how their father used to beat her ,were did the kids fits in there,that was the fight between the parents she is not supposed to use that as an excuse 😡😡😡 all these years and they separated long long back without her try and look for her kids, whenever the alcohol is involved there is always a problem.
Do you know how being beaten affects you emotionally. Instead of blaming the mum how about men stop abusing women!
Abuse or not i will go with my kids no matter what i rather die i can't leave them
@@ramoshabaramoshaba9561 and again in this case the father was also a drunker so like the mother that's why I said were there is alcohol involved you can not expect good outcomes
@@ramoshabaramoshaba9561 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍💓💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
@@girlygp3491 my mom did that💕
yeboo ngisaphuzaa hmmm ei notshwala kodwa ai
The first story this woman looks exactly like her father and her older sister (judging from that I.d photo). Imagine meeting a sister you never knew as an adult.
I wish her all the best.
The mother in the second story is herself so broken. She needs to heal. They all need to heal. Wishing them Godspeed.
Khumbulekhaya wawukubonile ekuqaleni ukuqakatheka kwemuli
They can not blame her either I can hear that her life was in danger under that monster and his family but nevertheless the children knows nothing
she look like her siblings, so sorry you didn't meet her dad but I am happy that they accepted her
2nd Fam: The boy is gonna kill his mom the way he stares at her🙇🙇🙇
lol
I see anger
He seemed dazed and trying to process everything😥.But,his stares and he hardly blinked🙈😂!
The mother is not even remorseful
For the first time i see a grave with a tombstone ok KE😏😔
Please admin the new episode can you make it available in the UK as well , I can't view it, thank you
The problem with this mum is that she takes zero responsibility for her part in this! Yes the father was wrong for abusing her. Being beaten affects you emotionally and psychologically. I hope they move on and heal....😭☹️
Mthuliseni anger ibhalwe ebusweni
The 1st family, they are not open at all..am sure the Lady would have wanted to know what kind of person was He, and what happened to him.
But they did not touch that part.. She's still having lot of unanswered questions I guess
Queen Thako.. what do you wanna know? You want them to tell this young woman that his father was a married man who went to Lusikisiki for work but ended up cheating on his wife by impregnating someone else other than his wife that he left at home?
They don't wanna talk about those things on a national television.
Anyway it's all in the past now what's done is done. They wanna move on.
First lady sounds bit angry but she doesn't blame her mother and her mother knew that her boyfriend has a wife at home thats why she was quite about it. I'm proud of the wife she welcomed her as her husband's daughter
The mother on part 2 is remorseful. Only thing is she’s still bitter over how their dad treated her. She’s still drinking her sorrows away. She’s stuck in the past. She’s clearly hurt to hear how her kids grew up. Especially the son who lived on alcohol at 4years. It’s really hard to humble yourself. I’m glad the older sister took an initiative and hugged her first. Hoping and praying for the best for them from now onwards. Really hope they can all get professional psychological help. Heal them Jesus! 🙏🏾
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1 story abekho opened. But ke sothin akeze ngaye akasekho
MTHULISENI FULL OF ANGER
He can’t even
At least the boy was smiling bt they need counseling
2nd story broke my heart but l'm glad the 3 siblings got to meet their Mom.
They are such beautiful and grounded kids 💕💕
Admin we are not able to view Episode 19 in the UK. Please sort us out
The hole family is from Zimbabwe
On time admin
second story is so sad...
Maiguru musanyepa mai ava kuchema apa vachiri kungodhakwa. Go back to Bulawayo guys there is home for you there.
Mmm the second story is so sad😢😢
This second mother does not care about kids how can a 4 yr old give you rules.A child always goes where they find love and happiness you don't have that mama.mwana webenzi haana mufaro .
Taura hako & vanha avha vatswaga problem nhenge vagara zvavho nhenge nherera
@@anniendhluli2790 amai vepi vakadaro ivavo chisvinnu chiri kutaurwa hapana ndozvavari vanhu verudzi urwu ini ndinonorara mu bridge ne mwana wangu .
Lokhe esanatha
Not true. She could not take the child by force with an abusive husband.
2story Angaz urban uyosula inhlungu enhlizwen yalabantwana coz loMama umbona ebuswen kuth usabudla
Why not clear the yard of weeds. Laziness at its best.I mean the first family.
😂😂😂😂
Laba bafuna induku abazali abakhohlakele sis mani bring kids in this world to make them suffer, and labo mama balamanga stupid, even ushayiwa marriage injalo baleka nengane zakho
Ilukhuni lena yokushiya ingane 3 wonke ku though .
I wish those kids could go back to school 💔
I can't bet the aunt in the second story is still making excuses for her sister. Having drunkards as parents is a curse shem. This woman wronged her children but she doesn't want to be accountable instead she blames everyone else but herself . SMH
Second family. What a selfish mother. Drinking is fun nxa. She makes me sick
everytime i watch Khumbulekhay i need tissues
Le nna hle 😭😭ebile my friends they dnt asked me anymore what I'm watching when they see me crying they know ke khumbul'ekhaya
@@kgotsi_gadiseema3005 hahahah hey mma!
Yhooooo akunzima JESUS
Who is Ivan Cloete mother?
Lo mama kule episode yesibini lento ayithethayo ayivakali,makavume qha ukuba khange akhathale ngabantwana bakhe.
Monkeo's story though,,,,
Let's get this 2 1000k subs and more
They should just be grateful that they found their mother alive and not killed by their father. African men love showing their kids just to show that they can produce babies and they never love and respect their wives. They make wives baby producing machines and take the babies to their parents cause their parents are happy to have grandkids. These kids must just be thankful and consider themselves lucky that they found their mother alive.
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Unembeko lo sisi
the second story is painful yoh
2nd Fam, Heartbreaking the Mother is just giving them lame excuses.. She never loved Her kids @all
you are wrong,if their father killed her maybe they would be happy
Its abt fucken time
Another Xhosa
Hlalanathi George so what...?
Enzeni kwaaaaaa
Uyabheda ke mina ngikutshele uma ungawafuni ama Xhosa hamba la. Nxa nizenza engathi umhlaba owenu. Uyithathaphi indlela yokuthi ukhulume so ngabanye abantu? Who are you? Mina ke ngingu Mzulu ongavumelani nalombhedo yenu we nzondo.
@@p.k.2220 Hahahaha l am actually Xhosa. I have been observing that almost on all the episodes of Khumbulekhaya this season there is a Xhosa person featured.
you have serious issues
.
A mother leaving her 3 kids and never turn back. There is no love you will get from her, forget.
K
205 or 2005?
The fact that she became an adult while is very young is confused
😂 mara
@@girlygp3491 kkkkkk
I'm
spring
It's the first time crying kuKhumbulekhaya the second episode is very emotional😢