Fe vs Fi in real life
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Fe: "You don't get to decide what hurts people." Me: "True, but I do get to decide if I care."
Yep. Fe tyranny only works if you let it.
"Political correctness is the oppression of our intellectual movement so no one says anything anymore just in case anyone else gets offended. What happens if you say that and someone gets offended? Well they can be offended; can’t they? What’s wrong with being offended? When did stick and stones may break my bones stop being relevant? Isn’t that what you teach children? He called me an idiot! Don’t worry about it, he’s a dick.
Now you have adults going “I was offended; I was offended and I have rights!” Well so what, be offended, nothing happened. You’re an adult, grow up, and deal with it. I was offended! Well, I don’t care! Nothing happens when you’re offended. “I went to the comedy show and the comedian said something about the Lord, and I was offended, and when I woke up in the morning, I had leprosy."
Nothing Happens. “I want to live in a democracy but I never want to be offended again.” Well you’re an idiot.
How do you make a law about offending people? How do you make it an offense to offend people? Being offended is subjective. It has everything to do with you as an individual or a collective, or a group or a society or a community. Your moral conditioning, your religious beliefs. What offends me may not offend you. And you want to make laws about this? I’m offended when I see boy bands for God sake.
It’s a valid offense, I’m offended. They’re corporate shills, posing as musicians to further a modeling career and frankly I’m disgusted."
- Steve Hughes
My exact response
It's true that you can decide if you care. However, if you hurt people, you will have to own up to the repercussions. You may or may not come out on top.
@@cathyhart3946 That is what Fi is about. You will do emotionally hurtful things, both to you and others. Collect responses from that situation. And then you make your own decision about how you act towards people
I never realized how stressful Fe is.
Preach, it's a double edged sword to have at times. On one hand, it makes me more empathetic and aware of other people's feelings. On the other hand, it means that I'm prone to Overthinking their reactions all the time!
@@trinaq oh so true. I come home after every social event wondering if I said a wrong thing or acted in a way that was misunderstood. It's very stressful.
Thank you!!!!!
Yeah I know! And it doesn't help I'm an ennegram type 9 😭
now you do.
there are many days i wish i had Te-Fi rather than my Ti-Fe
Fe: get along at any cost
Fi: it’s not always worth the cost
💯
I'm such an Fe lmao
Ti: cost doesnt always compute, value less than self. Unless value subject to self.
100% agree with Fi
@@condotiero860 thats really confusing and values are associated with feelings not thinking
As an ENFP, I’d describe Fi like this: when you fly on an airplane, the flight attendant instructs you to “put your oxygen mask on first,” before helping others. Why? Because if you run out of oxygen yourself, you can't help anyone else with their oxygen mask. It’s the same with Fi: if I don’t prioritise my well-being first, I won’t be able to help others.
And we help others through Te not Fe. Everyone is responsible for their own feelings. I'll only solve problems for you and nothing more.
@@pterygopalatine What do you mean? It sounds like you have an example in mind and it piqued my interest.
@Mia Han I mean that we are not obligated to do Fe for others. It doesn't matter if what I do would causally affect your emotions. If something isn't Fi true, then I would be willing to wreck the tribe Fe vibe and point it out. If you get hurt, that's just your own responsibility to process. Fi people like us are default to not giving a shit about biotic causality. On the other hand, we would be willing to solve problems with you the Te way. Just don't expect us to care about how you feel.
I really confirmed my Fe-Ti axis with this video, while the mbti community and explanations made me understand some things aren't good or bad and they're just consequences of how every mind works, I just can't understand how a person would priorize their own well being over others in order to help them, sometimes I realise we have a lot to learn from other perspectives and Fi is a really interesting one
@@pterygopalatine As someone with Fe-Ti I understand what you are saying because it is exactly the opposite for me. I generally don't care about what someone thinks about something, all that matters to me is what are my thoughts about it but when it comes to emotions I just can't not be there with someone when they are down.
And the true tragedy is that this conversation is taking so long that the corn flakes are losing their crunch and becoming a soggy mess at an alarming rate.
😂
RIGHT? It's basically papier-mâché at that point.
Underrated comment. Once the milk hits the cereal, you're on the clock. Every second counts. Corn Flakes are great. Soggy Corn Flakes, not so much.
@KarlJeager Guys, we found the Se user.
Just how i like them
Corn flakes: contains iron (Fe)
Sally: uses introverted feeling (Fi)
Fe vs Fi = Kellogg's and Sally are enemies
Little do we know that Kristin is truly one step ahead of us
Hey, she can also use her Ni function sometimes, always thinking ahead.
Kristinception
LOL. You are definitely a creative soul. hahah
HAHAHSHAHHAHAJAH
This gives me Ne vibes from you.
Fi: I'm not gonna stop living my life just because someone may or may not get hurt.
Also Fi: How could you do this when you know how it hurts me?
Fi: I know it hurts you but I prioritize myself more
As far as Fe being less selfish than Fi. I don't think that's true. As lead Fe, I mainly care about the FEELING of lack of harmony. When I'm in a situation where I see someone upset, hurt, etc., I see and feel it all around me and it's soooo uncomfortable. I'll do and say anything to avoid this feeling. I would argue that my actions could be coming from a "selfish" place of not wanting to be uncomfortable.
Selfishness is not about Fe or Fi. Selfness is a character flaw that can exist in ANY type.
Totally agree.
I agree, this is a great point. I think this video does a great job of showing how the Fe has the need to change behaviors and situations entirely based on the feelings of others because OTHERWISE, the harmony will be broken and therefore they can’t feel ok about things. As an Fe user it’s quite impressive to see Fi people that aren’t bothered by this 😆
@@addisonhorsell5544 My daughter is Fi (ENFP) and before I understood cognitive functions I kept thinking she was a thinker because she seemed relatively unbothered about hurting others feelings. 😆
@@cathyhart3946 i totally get that!! I’ve seen similar people
Thank you! You put into words something that hurt me but never knew what it is.
"Of course I care about you. But I care about myself more." This sums up FI in a nutshell, they're so in tune with their own feelings. I hate when some people associate FI with selfishness and FE with unselfishness, when that isn't always the case.
I would disagree with the "I care about myself more" comment, actually. I will sacrifice my own well being for others. I just wouldn't do it over stupid corn flakes because Sally works at a competing Sanitarium? Dude, I'm not even sure Kellogg's is still in the sanitarium game to BE competition. That they were competition 150 years ago is really not registering in my books as a valid reason to not eat cornflakes.
Meanwhile, something like Chik-Fil-A and Hobby Lobby donating to anti LGBT causes to the point that they've affected the government of some nations in Africa, and gotten laws passed to stone LGBT people to death, that one registers as even though I'm LGBT, I have a problem with my money ending up supporting that cause because innocent people could directly die due to it. My liking for quick chicken or craft supplies does not balance on the scales versus something like that.
Though, back to the skit, I think if an Fe user ever tried something like taking my food away from me, I'd have to ask why she was trying to make me sad and give me eating issues and doesn't she care about me? Just a sort of taste of their own medicine.
As a entp, I eat I want..when and how as long as my ti says it makes sense..
I donate to animal shelters , that's important to me , way more then stupid what a persons eating .
True, but the video is meant to show the extreme which can make any type appear in unhealthy ways. “Set in their ways”, I suppose. Healthy or developing types can usually come to a compromise after discussing it, but we’re also human so there’s going to be conflict. You mentioning Fe users sometimes be manipulative is also true, I’ve seen that in unhealthy Fe types. It really depends on the person
Wow....I was with you until "some FE users just know how to manipulate people more".
Anyone with any personality type can be manipulative.
Fi users also manipulate people well.
But fi and fe users can also be non-manipulative (probably not an actual phrase, but oh well).
Stereotypes are manipulative.
I associate Fi with the rise of cancel culture. Used to be that when someone came at you demanding that you adopt their personal values, you could laugh or shrug them off.
Then we made the mistake of creating the internet and people learned that they could gang up on and bully people into submission for eating the wrong chicken sandwich.
I have seriously had to wrestle with this very issue my entire life. I have now gotten to the point where I am very comfortable saying, "Sally, that's your problem, not mine. I am sad you feel the way you do, but I'm not sorry."
Good for you.
-ENTP
That's a brilliant distinction to make. You can empathize but not regret your decision. And you can only make that distinction when you've had enough self growth to understand that feeling hurt isn't necessarily a bad thing.
I think Fe expects u to say that. Like.... we take it for granted that u would stick up for yourself diplomatically
Boundaries baby!
Oh my. This is too real.
I had a friend who worked in the corporate part of a grocery store chain, and she would take personal offence whenever someone in her fam would shop at any other grocery store. Unless it was an Asian food mart (Because her family are missionaries to that part of the world.) Weird thing was, when she got fired (or let go as she puts it) she was still madly loyal.
That is legit insanity
What kind of missionaries?
corporate religion
she sounds nice
i don't understand getting so loyal about a company you work for anyway. it's stupid. companies don't care about you, they are using you for what you offer to them, and pay you accordingly (or sometimes, they underpay you).
so I'm sorry, I'm going to eat the cornflakes because 1. i shouldn't cater my entire life around other people's feelings, because no one is ever satisfied with anything. there will always be people who are upset with you, people who will find fault in anything you do. this is the big picture problem. 2. your getting pissy about me eating stuff from another company is silly, because they can easily replace you znd you can end up working for Kellog's the week after.
Ah yes, the duality of Fi - one caring about their values over others and the second getting REALLY offended if someone managed to (sometimes accidentally) find that specific "enemy" of a Fi user, no matter how small or big it is. It's too valuable to them! Yep, that's me as a Fi dom!
Also, the accuracy of the sudden switch of both Fi users when the Fe user wants to get out of the discussion. I feel seen lol
I had a good laugh. I dont think Fe will ever truly understand Fi and how Fi deals with other Fi users. I myself have Fi and live in a house of Fi people. We are all opinionate and can at times create conflict but, in the end, we understand that it is just our own opinions and work through it. It is entertaining watching Fe people come into the situation of Fi people and trying to smooth things over and at some point, they even become visibly uncomfortable.
Glad if you live with mature Fi users who can simply move on with their own opinion but it's just not always the case for every Fi sadly. I'm sure any Fe knows fare too well those situations where everyone is confident everything will be ok in the end until it isn't and someone can't. In those situations it's always up to the Fe to fix relationships of others by initiating contact and make an agreement occur which is honestly exhausting and could be avoided pretty easily by preventing unecessary conflicts. It makes Fe users very uncomfortable for sure to watch two Fi users arguing and hope it will not end badly with broked long term relationships because of very selfish reasons. But watching the Fe having to do so much effort so things can go well was definitely very funny, a thing Fi users probably will never actually understand either though.
For me, its more offensive when an Fe user always questions my decision rather than a fellow Fi user contradicting my beliefs. Because we (fellow Fi user) know to each other, at the end of the day, we can't change each other's believe so we just agree to disagree at the end and still the respect is there. Unlike an unhealthy Fe user who always question my ethics, saying that Im selfish, gets annoyed by my "me" talk, expecting me to be "considerate" to others just like how she does it, combine it with Ni dominant, JUST AN UNHEALTHY INFJ. -NFP.
@@annepaulinetiu4036 that's exactly me(infp) with my infj friend
It's entertaining? Well unhealthy Fi detected. Also I see Fi users communicating without conprehenting the other because they are more bussy with their own feelings. They feel attacked but don't think in solutions to fix it for the next time so in the end it's actually Fi users that are often longer unhappy. And if I was as unhealthy as you I could say it is entertaining to see how they keep huring eachother without having the intelligence to understand they keep their selves in that pattern. It's actually Fi users that feels the most seen when they meet a healthy Fe user and that's defenatly not the opposite but Fe users can learn from Fi users by understanding that they need to care about their own feelings and needs more.
@@user-js4mt1nr2y Is that your final diagnosis Dr. Fleur 😂
INTP Fe is kinda funny. As much as we want to act like the Fi user.... deep down we all feel like the Fe
Wtf that's actually on point. I always thought to myself "I agree more with Fi but I think I may be more Fe".
Like, by watching this video, I agreed mostly with the girl who doesn't give a crap about eating cornflakes, and disagreed mostly with the girl being offended by her friend for eating the cereals. Although I didn't relate to the Fe much, I know that I would probably eat the cereals less often for the sake of a friend, and find something else to eat for personal or healthy reasons. Do you think this can be 4th slot Fe or something? I'm still unsure of my type, many of my traits seem contradictory...
Yes!! I'm in INFP with dominant Fi and my sister is an INFJ with secondary Fe. A lot of our conversations are similar to this, because I want to do something and she worries about what other people will think or how they'll feel, and I'm usually (depending on the circumstances) just like "I don't care, I want to do my thing," and she's all like "what?!" Lol
Ha, same with me (ENFP) and my sister (INFJ)! Me: "let's do x!" Her: "but what if people think that blah blah blah?" Me: "it's not our business what they think. They can think what they want! If they think bad thoughts that's on them, not us."
But she's often right. I trust her judgement, as I've gotten it very wrong before! On the other hand, if I weren't there to influence her, she might just get completely paralyzed and do nothing fun, because it might offend somebody.
@@er6730 Precisely! It can be annoying on both ends, but it can also be helpful on both ends.
@@er6730 my siblings and i are all awful with Fe 😭 im an ENFP, my sister is an INTJ and my brother is an INTP, and we ALL make each other upset (mostly my sister makes me and my brother upset though) cause there isnt a single Fe user who isnt bad at it in the family 😭😭😭
@@synbioshoshone745 INTJ are Fi users..the thing is INTJ aren't dominate feelers so basically they will hurt you Bec Fi works as helping functions and care more about How the users feel then others..INTP have Fe inferior so they may hurt people Bec of lack of understanding and knowledge on how people feel but after they bond with people they may start acting like INFJ and care too much about others feeling even if it means losing what you live and values..I DID THIS BEFORE HACK I GAVE UP MY FAVORITE seat FOR my friend overall comfort.. DISPUTE that's not logical but to me .. she is good friend who listens and generally nice and i don't mind switching and i should adpat.. anyway that's an example of Fe does work.. i see ITTT .. and yeah INTJ usually will value themselves above others needs But they do feel.. But if it doesn't go with there values then No
@@synbioshoshone745 LoL, my husband is INTP and we have these confused conversations about messages. "Do you think this is offensive to write? I want to be careful." "I dunno, it seems okay to me, but people do like to get upset." "Yes they do"
The "404 ERROR" was priceless. 🤣
As an INTP:
1) I probably wouldn't've noticed the Corn Flakes and thus wouldn't've recognized the impending conflict.
2) Unless there's a specific reason I NEED to step in between two Fi-types, I'm going to just quietly walk away and let them work it out on their own.
3) Yes, I'd love a bowl of Corn Flakes, thank you very much! Lemme just take it with me to the other room so I can eat it in peace while you two... um... talk.😁
My reaction to people inflicting their Fi on me is usually anger. I'm supposed to respect your Fi, but you don't respect mine? I'm quite content with "live and let live" most of the time. I don't get your Fi and I don't need to. You go live your life and we can agree to disagree on some stuff... but then you decide your Fi trumps mine, for "reasons" you "feel" are valid... and I just don't have patience for that.
I think low Fe users may actually encounter the 404 Error a lot more hahahah
Oof that's frustrating. One of my strongest Fi values is to *NOT* inflict or impose my values onto another person! I wish more Fi-users would adopt this policy. It makes no logical sense that forcing one's own beliefs upon someone else would cause them to be attracted to your beliefs?!?!? That's obviously going to cause the opposite reaction and make the person averse to whatever that forceful and self-righteous person stands for. I'm sorry to hear that you've encountered so much unhealthy Fi! We are not all like that! (And hopefully this doesn't come off like I'm trying to elevate myself above other Fi users, I'm simply trying to represent an alternate manifestation of the function.)
@@emilys3638 No worries. I know it's not ALL Fi-users who do that... well, not to any great extent or abusively, usually... but yeah, I've seen the dark side of NeFi up close and personal and it left me with a great mistrust of Fi in general.
That said, I've met some GREAT Fi-users over the decades, and I don't think poorly of people just because of their MBTI tendencies. I just like to check my footing a little more closely with Fi-types most of the time...
I agree
i’m an INTP myself and usually struggle with whole Fe/Fi blunder myself. but i learned over time there are times where you must enforce your boundaries and not worry abt others.
so i kinda just go back and forth with that. it’s so frustrating sometimes
@@delusionalfan I'm an INTP too and I disagree, when we are in that situation and we actually care about that person, is more likely that we think "this person is mentally weak, I have to FIX that weakness by hammering some logic in there", usually we just end up arguing without "fixing" anything =(
I mean yeah, that's pretty accurate. As an ISFJ, I would have taken Sally into consideration and just not bought them at all; food isn't worth a lost friendship. But as a Ti user, I'd also ask why they're her enemy when its just a job and none of it matters in the long run. Unless they'll be taking her job from her soon, but corporations are just corporations.
My ISFJ mother would do much the same as you... unless she really wanted Corn Flakes, in which case she'd make a point of mentioning how she went and catered specifically to Sally's preferences, martyring herself and guilting Sally into relenting. She'd be just subtle enough that most people wouldn't even notice it. It might take time, but eventually, she'd wear Sally down and get her way. Mom almost always wins in the end.
Weaponized Fe and caring in the hands of a master are dangerous.
If my "friend" is offended by something like that, I would like to lose him asap
As a Ti aux, I would calmly munch on those cornflakes just like the Fi user because all corporations are corrupt
- ESTP
Wouldn't your "friend" just be a good friend and accepts your own choices? In case, they quit your friendship for something like that then... well... it wasn't a healthy friendship anyways.
- I love ISFJs btw, my friend is one haha
ISFP here. Any friendship that can be ruined by _food_ is not a friendship I'm interested in maintaining. Seriously, Sally needs to get a grip, build a bridge, get over it, make like a tree and...okay, maybe I ran out of metaphors.
I think this is more Fe versus Te rather than Fe versus Fi. The difference between Fe and Fi is more that Fe directly empathizes with the other person whereas Fi thinks more of how they would feel if put in the same circumstances. Fe is more, "I thought of how awful that person would feel," and Fi thinks, "I would feel awful if I were in that person's shoes." I think you caught the Te that goes along with Fi rather than Fi.
No, I think it's pretty accurate for an fi dom. Personally, this depicted my fi very well. The only thing I would maybe change is that most high fi users usually aren't as blunt, but they still can be. It's true that they try to put themselves in other poeple's shoes but usually if the other person isn't making any sense they will think their reason for feeling bad is stupid.
@@toutito2298 To be fair, my perspective could be a bit skewed because I was brought up by Te-doms!! 🤣 -INFP raised by wolves!!!
@@nerysghemor5781 Damn that’s gotta be something. Although it’s interesting because I would think that being raised by te doms would make you a bit more blunt and logic oriented maybe? Or it could have the opposite effect, I guess it depends.
@@toutito2298 I think it has, over time, sharpened my Te. I definitely am still an Fi-dom and hold to my principles but Te is very much there to stop and question whether a solution that sounds good on paper is actually going to have the desired effect. It makes me VERY irritated with the current culture of virtue signaling where people are either a) being manipulative or b) have been manipulated to think that what they are doing will actually serve the people they think it will. People assume Te-doms, or anyone who even ENGAGES their Te, are cold but when you’re really using both functions together it’s about making sure you have both the right goal AND the right path to get there and not one that is going to backfire.
@@nerysghemor5781 Yes I completely agree. Te is after all the most action and goal oriented function. While bluntness is a part of it it’s definitely there because it’s necessary. And yes, having developed both ends of the axes is the most valuable thing for both ixfps and extjs, as it’s the only way you’re gonna get fulfilment out of your life instead of just saying things with no inherent purpose or just doing things without knowing the reason.
This is hilarious. Actually even as an ENFJ, I most resonate with the Fi user. Especially for the first minute. Unfortunately, I am the kind that is like, "Eh, what Sally does not know, won't hurt her."
But I think Fi users are the ones who are more consistently "considerate" even in secret. I could see my ISFP wife being more like the Fe Dom in this video, whereas for me I would just make sure Sally does not find out. Cause it is not actually hurting her unless she knows, but that is my Ti logic whereas for my ISFP wife she would feel like whether or not Sally knows, it is betrayal and her Fi would want that consistency even in secret.
But this is just me! Lol great video nonetheless!
So fun reading your observations! I'm an ISFP married to an INFJ and I think in our case, we would both just secretly eat the cereal and hide it whenever Sally came around -- and it might even cause us to not want Sally to come over very often, because both he and I strongly value authenticity and freedom and don't like hiding things from others... We also both hate feeling controlled, so we naturally avoid bringing people into our lives who try to restrict us too much. We sure wouldn't impose our values on others that way! (At least in most cases we don't tend to interact that way. No one is perfect though!)
@@emilys3638 ha! Yeah. Totally relate to that actually. But I know I have seen many Fe Doms, especially ESFJ imo impose their value on others so I know this does hold general truth. But for sure, this doesn’t fit every case (which I’m sure Kristin knows but I wanted to mention anyway).
Cornflakes though? Ha! This is just too funny.
Make sense!
Knowing my mum is (probably) an ESFJ helps me appreciate how traumatic her childhood probably was for her - being a child in a broken home with domestic violence must have been especially bad for someone who absorbs others' feelings and needs a sense of harmony. It explains a lot about her, and it helps me empathise with her more because I realise, "HOLY SHIT, no wonder she gets triggered".
"of course i do..! but i care about myself more" killed me
The 404 reference was awesome! I work in tech and do a lot of code writing and love to sprinkle 404 jokes in my code all the time, because that’s how ENFP code monkeys roll
Actually an INTJ commented saying it’s actually error 500, and omg it’s true😂😂😂
This is SO me (INFP) and my ESFJ mother! I'm just like "lemme enjoy the cornflakes man!" Meanwhile, she hurriedly hides the box in a cupboard 😂
My mom is ISFJ and i am an INFP. My mom is also like that😂
Key lines:
"You don't get to decide what hurts people."
"I'm not going to stop living my life just because it may or may not hurt someone."
I am on the Fi side of the argument and I feel really restricted by all these Fe arguments.
Fe has always come across to me as so judgmental. Extremely restrictive.
Precisely, even though I'm an auxiliary FE user myself, and I'm proud of it, I admire FI users for being true to themselves, and not being easily swayed by other people's opinions.
as someone w inf Fe, I agree. I do use the cognitive function often but there are times where it is a bit much. Like I can't imagine changing everything just for the comforts of other ppl. for example, in this video, I sided with the Fi argument bc if you get offended by something like that, that's between you and your problem bud 💀 my lifestyle will not be changing based on your preferences
Heck yes dude.
@@vjforsythe2198 Agreed. The irony is that in the efforts to 'Fe' so much. They end up hurting others by being judgemental to an Fi's beliefs...
Interesting, as an INTP, if someone had told me that someone would've been offended by the corn flakes like that I'd just be like "Oh, sorry, I didn't really think about it. Does it really matter though? I'll stop if it bothers my friend but, I still think that they're overreacting and being silly."
I don't think I would have stopped eating them unless the drama was rising fast, to the point of having no better choice other than seeking harmony and stop eating them
@@pyxn420 Without a type attached, your opinion is worthless.
Don't pollute with worthless garbage like that, bro.
Having an ESFP sister and INFP best friend is wild when you have Fi in like, the seventh slot. But is also inspiring, they are the most loyal of people, loyal to themselves and what they feel and believe in. They always give me a nice perspective on things
ENTP or ESTP
The way Kristin says "are those Corn Flakes?" kills me every time. The melodrama is real and I love it.
"You don't get to decide what hurts people" - Love the moral superiority here! :D
As an ESFJ, the “I’ve got to get out of here” is incredible 😅 it’d either be that or immediately jumping between the two of them to fix it XD
The great part about these videos is that everyone has exactly one of these two functions
Cornflakes are great, but Frosties are grrreat!
As an Fi user I do get this with the cornflakes thing, but as an ENFP Fe is still present as a critic- it just wouldn’t be my first thought. So like when I found out I’d be like “ok your feelings are valid” and the Fe would click in, I just wouldn’t consider sally initially. It’s very much “I like cornflakes Si I’ll eat cornflakes”. Then if she was like that hurt me I’d be like “ok sorry your feelings are valid. That was wrong of me, I wasn’t considering them in my decision to eat these cornflakes. At the same time I do really like the cereal so maybe you could recommend an alternative under your brand”- in my experience there nearly always is an alternative. I do feel bad for fe users sometimes when I end up accidentally stressing them out by either saying what I feel or just going with my own flow and not really considering the feelings of the “group” first- more of an afterthought. Rather it’s my “I want to eat cornflakes” side first, then the “oh no I’ve hurt someone, now I need to consider their feelings”. Like it genuinely wouldn’t even cross my mind that a friend would be upset by it, But when it comes to it I can click into it.
as an ENFP, I'd probably just not eat cornflakes around her lol. if it's not within my morals to not eat cornflakes because Kellogg's is a horrible company that uses child labour or something, then I'd continue eating cornflakes. or unless someone close to me is allergic to it. it's a pretty mundane thing to be upset about otherwise.
Can confirm. My wife is ENFP, and this is exactly what she would do. To her credit, if she were particularly on her Si game she would have identified the potential conflict, and already done the research to find an alternative.
-ENTP
Nope. I am definitely not going to keep a running log of everything that might not set right with everyone I know. Screw that. Do you people have nothing else to do?
@@larsswig912 my Fe senses that it's about loyalty for the Fi user. My Ti thought in the moment that the term enemy was a bit strong for a corporate competitor, but that's how she feels. That's money that could have gone to her company and very indirectly, to her. Buying cornflakes from her competitor felt like a betrayal.
As an Fe user, I'd find it easier to just buy her company's cereal than talk her out of this deep attachment. I also don't care about cereal that much, so, I have no aversion to switching brands to spare her feelings.
We also don't have full context for why she feels that way. Been eating this other brand since she was a child and it's her dream job to work for them? Then it makes a little more sense.
-INFJ
@@edennis8578 not for everyone I know, no. Just for people I care about and conversely, people I know that I have to walk on eggshells around.
A little help for my fellow Yankees, Sanitarium is an Australian cereal company, been around for over a century.
Usually I think dear kristin is right about function usage, but I think this example is too simple as to make others confuse functions Fi and Ti, for example. As a female INTJ who has worked on her emotions for quite a few years now married to an ENFJ, I see the Fi / Fe distinction a lot. The difference is NOT whether Fi or Fe cares or even prioritizes the needs of others (either an Fi user or a Fe user could just buy the silly corn flakes because MBTI is NOT behavior) but the DIRECTION of caring. Empathy in an Fi user would mean visualizing what I would feel like if I lived the life of Sally and adjusting accordingly. If the corn flakes company, say, murdered Sally's family and used the law to get away with it or they excluded her and others because she was / they were autistic or something equally horrifying) then I, based on my own internal values, would staunchly never eat Corn Flakes again, almost irrespective of Sally's presence, because the direction of the emotion comes from me - not from another person. Fe, meanwhile would see that keeping the relationship involved not eating Corn Flakes and might not eat them / or not without even necessarily knowing or valuing the reason but by valuing that person / relationship with that person more. But if an Fe user really wanted to do something (and didn't / couldn't fully understand my reasoning for doing something), they might focus on changing MY RELATIONSHIP with Corn Flakes, so they could eat them, or keep a secret box of Corn Flakes in their room / only eat them at work, so I / Sally didn't see the food and couldn't be bothered.
For this reason ENFJ and I will often come to the same conclusion about behavior but from very different directions initially.
This 💯
Interesting but I still had a hard time understanding
Thank you Krista! I liked the way you explain it and finally discovered whether I am Fe or Fi. Can you explain Te and Ti to me? if you can
@@marii1697 Ti is about planning, analyzing, and thinking, while Te is about DOING fast, smart, and productive as best as possible.
Explains my Fi as an ENFP too! That’s how I dissociate with things or people that had caused misery to the people I care about from my Fi values. Not because of what they feel, but what I would feel in their situation, and whether they deserved that experience. Which to me that is a deeper empathy because we make it personal.
Thank you! I still don't know whether I'm INTJ with developed Ti or just an ISTP in his Ti-Ni loop, so I'm trying to identify my sensing and feeling functions first. Your Se vs Si and this video is really helpful! You're fr my fave mbti content creator, thank you for contributing greatly to the community
Try finding out your type grids. Both intj and istp are direct, responding, movement and progmatic. The differences are that intj is abstract, systematic and istp are concrete, interest.
You could also look into INTP, I agree her videos are the best. But it's probably helpful to read something about the functions themselves even though it's the most boring way. If you're into movies like myself you could also think of the characters you relate to the most and look up their type, at least for me it's mainly my type. All these types can be "nerdy" and want knowledge but the ISTP will generally have a hard time with theoretical stuff for the sake of theory, like it has to have real world value and use.
if u have trouble fitting into the grant ieie function stack u could look into the jung iiee function stack !!
Ti is INTP.
@@NinjaRunningWild ISTP is also Ti-dom.
I'm Fe dom and I would not think it was wrong to eat the Corn Flakes, but I would DEFINITELY hide this from Sally.
"It's kind of silly if she gets hurt over this" is a sentence tgat Fe user would use. We need reasons (Ti) to feel emotions. Fi is "just because" when it comes to liking things.
And the response "You don't get to decide what hurts people" i something that Fi user would use 😆
I actually agree with you on these statements! I thought the same. (I am an ISFP.) But I also felt resentment that Sally was trying to control other people this way! My own personal Fi is very much "live and let live", so I would expect Sally to allow me to make whatever choices I wanted without guilt, just as I would in turn never dream of forcing my own preferences or values onto her! There was entirely too much manipulation all around in the interactions between this trio of characters! (Although I do realize it was exaggerated for fun.)
@@emilys3638 I find it suprising how Fi dom people are skilled at Fe. You may not always be willing to use it but the more I know of you people the more I see how mature your feeling is. Even though it prefers the feeling of self it's also very accepting and considerate about what others feel.
PS Im a Fe (2nd) user and my attitude is that everyone can feel whatever they feel freely because it doesn't really matter in reality. I wouldn't ever think of invading someone like the Fe user from video. The most I would do would be informing this person that Sally will be mad (and let them do whatever they want with that information)
@@askarufus7939 Interesting that you mention this, because when I was first trying to confirm my type by learning about the cognitive functions, I was absolutely certain I was Fe rather than Fi, because at first glance by the definition, I resonated much more with the values of harmony and peace-loving typically associated with Fe. My INFJ husband helped me understand, through some anecdotal examples, that I actually am an Fi user when it all comes down to it. And I know this now to be true. But at the time, I wasn't satisfied, so I dug deeper and found an article that described how an ISFP can fuse together their Fi + Se to synthesize a pseudo-Fe.... That made total sense to me, because I know that my empathy starts with a very Fi question: "how would I feel in that situation", but then I back it up with data from my Se observations: "how does this person appear to feel about this situation", and round it up with some additional assistance from my Ni: "how have I observed that people typically feel in this situation"... And then, having Te in 4th slot makes me avoid pushiness, causing me to resist imposing my own viewpoints or experiences and instead accept whatever the person expresses to me. So it's a lot heftier of a process because I have to call all of my functions into play, but I told my INFJ friend, "I'm using 3 functions to read people the way you can do with only two!" Haha! I really do love comparing the two feelings functions. I also suspect I have a tidbit of access to real Fe due to having it in 5th slot, versus a type that has it further down the line would resist it more. But it's a love-hate relationship because I feel smothered if I'm forced to use pure Fe and just continually sacrifice my own well-being for the sake of another without it being reciprocated. I find myself a firm believer in the compromise situation where both my own feelings and that of the other person or the group can be considered simultaneously and reach a solution where everyone is taken care of! (An idealistic fantasy situation, I'm fully aware, but many times it can be possible!)
@@askarufus7939 To further agree with your statement, I think I've also observed that it's the lower-Fi users (3rd or 4th slot) that actually manifest the more distilled and clarified Fi of "my way or the highway" and "your feelings don't affect me" because their Fe would be way down at 7th or 8th slot, virtually inaccessible in most cases. This isn't to try and build a case that they are more selfish and less capable of empathy, but I would argue that they aren't nearly as likely to reach for empathy in a situation of conflict, since they are prioritizing Te and preferring logic-based solutions. Again, not a bad thing, just not very empathic. There are definitely times where objectivity is more useful and necessary than subjectivity, but that's definitely not where my mind goes first.
I will add, though, that a person will often lean upon their 4th function in times of stress, so an Fi-dom can be remarkably clear-headed in a situation of emergency using their Te to sort things out, whereas a typically-logical Te-dom would find themselves suddenly stuck in Fi-mode and have difficulty remaining objective (I've observed this happen to my ESTJ aunt on a number of occasions). I've also seen my ISTP mom (a Ti-dom) get stuck in Fe-mode under stress and try to solve everyone's problems and save the day at the expense of her own needs. It's so fascinating to observe how the functions interact with one another in different situations -- they rarely operate in isolation.
@@emilys3638 Thats the first time I get to know succesful sfp-nfj relationship. You two must be very mature. To me presonally sfp's have always been a mystery, and from what I talked with my ENFJ and INFJ friends, they got the same feeling. Fi and Se seems a very conflicting combination and therefore hard to understand for us. A very strict moral code, delicate inside and at the same time being very bold in enjoyance of physicality and taking pleasure swimming in hard reality
Not only is this a great comparison of Fi vs Fe, but it's great social commentary too.
Everything isn't as unimportant as corn flakes
I've never even heard of Sanitarium. I instantly thought of the Metallica song and was very confused for a solid 5 seconds.
"but I care about myself more" omg I can't even listen to this!!!😭
I don't think eating the cornflakes is the issue here but that Fi is happy to do this in front of Sally who they know it will annoy (despite how silly they may feel this view is) while Fe may well be privately stuffing themselves with cornflakes every day but, crucially, they won't do this in a way that will be discovered by Sally in case it upsets her. Both types may be engaging in selfish behaviour but the crux is whether they allow it to impact others or not.
As a Fi aux, hiding is like lying, like I’m doing something wrong, which is false, because I’m not doing something wrong.
@@miahan8988 but it's not like anyone is asking. And you're not lying to yourself. You know what's what.
And you are doing something wrong. You're causing harm.
@@zzzcocopepe Getting upset over something stupid isn't harm. Getting upset in general isn't harm. I'd eat those cornflakes all day long.
As an ENFP I reaaaally related to Fi in this video. It's not that Fi is selfish, they just don't feel right to not be oneself.
This Fi-Fe conflict was prominent with two of my INFJ friends. We are OK now, thankfully, but I just hated when they didn't say something I was doing was actually bothering them, and instead, they would bottle those feelings until they explode awfully. Take in consideration I'm autistic, and I always say to whoever is becoming my friend that indirect communication, non-verbal cues, sarcasm, certain jokes, double entendre and especially silences DON'T work on me, sometimes at all. So, it's actually easier to be direct with me, and that doesn't mean being rude. I know they don't speak up because they are trying to care about me, don't like conflict and they also don't want to upset me, but the conflict generated by being direct with me will be much much more minor than keeping it in silence, and I will be much more upset if I find about those feelings later because I will feel like if the other person knew I was making a mistake but let me continue doing it anyways until it was almost beyond repair.
Also, empathy works different in both types. I think Fe-users not only UNDERSTAND but also FEEL DIRECTLY what the other person is feeling. Meanwhile, Fi-users' empathy process is like this: "So you are going through this difficult situation. I was once to a somewhat similar or analogue situation. In that time I felt this way. So, you probably are feeling a similar way. Therefore, I RELATE to your feelings". Fi-users can care about someone just as much as Fe-users, and not every Fe-user care all the time precisely because their empathy are ON almost all the time. In the case of INFJ, I usually see this is a reason why they need their alone time and space, because it's difficult for them to ignore their Fe-empathy.
Finally, I don't know if Fi-users (dominant and auxiliary) feel the same about this, but I actually prefer individuals over groups. Since as an ENFP I value authenticity more and I like to know about other people's selves, I find easier to know about that when talking to one on one than being in a group conversation.
This video was hilarious, I actually laughed a lot with Fe-user being wrongly caught XD XD
Yay, next time is Te vs Ti! While Si is the most difficult cognitive function to understand especially being my inferior 4th function, the difference between Te and Ti is for me the most difficult to grasp.
Enjoyed the oratory, please drop them often in future too😊
@@callmeproteus392 An Honor! n.n
Agreed on individuals over groups. I can't connect to groups, but I can connect to one person and discuss ideas.
I would watch you even if the video would be hours long, you are brilliant!!
What do you mean even? That'd be pure luxury :)
@@jashepoon true, my bad!!!
@@mihaelaclaudiap..2 well now we do have a compilation that's an hour long! =)
I suppose this is what happens when all the other functions in stack leave to holiday. I think that Fi is usually moderated by Te and Fe by Ti (hence why INTPs weave their intellectual frameworks of morality).
lmao
As an INTP myself, "morality" is something that I never really understood
@@Catralasarguido I would like to help, but I would have to know what particularly is not understandable about it.
Basically it is philosophy (ethics) or belief of good and wrong behavior which I believe can be founded either on experience, intuition, logical analysis or all above in attempt to steer away from misery and bad outcomes for individual and society.
@@Catralasarguido morality often involves helpful(good) and harmful(evil)
@@Catralasarguido it's like "the ground". It's a base concept. It's so basic, that it seems weird if u think about it. Because the ABSOLUTE TRUTH is that good is good and evil is evil. It REALLY IS that simple.
Ppl add different things to it. They say women are evil, or men are evil, or sex is evil, etc. And that has confused the matter. False definitions don't change the true definitions. If everyone does a math equation, and they all do it wrong, and they all agree on the wrong answer, that doesn't change the real answer. It's the same with morality. They say math is the language of the universe. They also say the same thing about love. Math is love. Lol.
Allow your logic to work for your emotions. Allow your emotions to work for your logic.
Is a tree wrong? Is moss wrong? Are they unfit? No, they just grow. Eschew rot and simply grow.
I can't wait until the Ti vs Te video! That should be interesting. A Te going on a "Butterfly Effect" story to get to the point of a story. While the Ti tunes out because they only care about the ending/solution.
It would be a pretty one sided conversation. Lots of rambling interspersed by, "And? So what?"
Idk if that's how it works. INTJ and INFJ have Ti and they like to think extendedly about things
Edit: actually they both have Ni, nvm. Lol
the way this solved my issue of understanding cognitive functions. thank u dear kristin Please make more i enjoy them very much!!
As an INTP, that Fe is the bane of my life. I have my antennas for others' feelings, but I would rather not deal with them. Don't come close to me with those stuff.
The weirdest thing is that being 'selfish' takes a conscious decision for me, while my INFP sister just does it naturally. So I just retreat to my dark room, and to hell with others - if they don't know what I'm doing, then they cannot have negative feelings of what I'm doing, and I don't have to deal with them. I can even eat Kellogg's.
I also prefer to do things on my own without external judgement. Sometimes I'm enjoying a movie or whatever, talk about it excitedly to someone, they call it crap, and then my excitement fades quite a bit. Is this an example of Fe or not quite?
you empathize, but don't sympathize; you understand their feelings, but don't (always or often) share their feelings
Well, that's the best way to be. That's actually one of your greatest strengths.
And if someone calls you a psychopath (which people will think from time to time), they're wrong, and dumb, emotionalists. 😁
LOLLLL This is totally me (FE) and my FI buddy of 20 years. Love your videos so much. Through your MBTI comedy, you're helping me be a better person to accept everyone's faults and the many I have myself as well. We're only human, but possibly the most hilarous creature on earth. 🤣🤣
lol the way Sally looks like she's going to fall against the wall with sadness is my favorite part of this. SO funny.
like intp my biggest fear is to be hated FE is so stressful 😖
Oof. As an Fe inferior user this really just exhibits how ridiculous Fe can be at times. Wish I could just ditch that function.
thank you so much for giving us a REAL life example. People explain theory and that´s okay, but sometimes we need real life experiences, even the little details matter!
I can't believe I was annoyed by this situation. 😂 I resonate completely with the Cornflakes eater as an ISTJ.
Ikr?? It's just corn flakes man. This video made me annoyed tbh xD ~ISTJ
I love these so much, they help me understand cognitive functions better
This is really on point 😭😭😭 this is so funny
I hate to play the INTJ here, but that would be a 500 Error :D
Right!😂
@@SimoneEppler love your accent btw :)
@@alex.does.comedy Ha, thank you! I don’t really like to hear it myself, so that feels nice! :)
Just checked, and you're right.
@@a_randomuser4 and how does that make you feel? :)
It’s funny how defensive most people get. You need both sides. Both have strengths and weaknesses. Being defensive probably is a sign of something you need to deal with for yourself.
Would you consider doing this again, and showing the difference between how the Fe/Ti and Fi/Te axises give advice, and the way they would both care and invest in others uniquely? I think that would help clear things up alot!
Love your videos kirsten you are such a good person love you so much awesome video
Not related to this content but recently I have been seeing Kristin's Ur My Type Ad on other non-Kristin related videos I am watching - pretty cool hahaha
Now I understand what is the difference between Fi and Fe. Thank you, Kristine. Made my day!
About right, my mom is and ESFJ and I’m an ISTJ, this sounds like conversations we’ve had lol.
Thanks for the Advertising. Sincerely yours Kellog's. We can now again increase the price.
as an ENFP who recently had a similar discussion with my ISFJ friend, I can say that you nailed it!
My thoughts on the skit, as an INFJ
First to kinda go over the way I see the function theory: Fe/Ti and Te/Fi don't exist by themselves, but as package deals. The ways these functions manifest isn't just about their existence but their strength relative to each other. People who lead with an external judging function (Fe and Te) will correspondingly have a very weak internal judging function (Ti and Fi respectively) and so will be quite at the mercy of judgments made based on external stimuli.
Thinkers will be able to strongly use both thinking functions, same with feelers - they'll just prefer one. However, both are going to have at least one 'opposite' function theyre super weak in. If a function is their 3rd/tert function, the I/E opposite of that function is their big weakness that they're bad at and don't value in others.
So I agree with other comments that the first Fi user is IxTJ. ISTJs and INTJs both have tert Fi, which means Fe is their point of least resistance. Not only do they suck at Fe, but they hate it (it's the true opposite of Te, too).
I think the Fe user is an ExFJ. Fe first means weak Ti, which means- well, let's just say her logic in confronting someone about the cornflakes was not very well thought out. Weak Ti, entirely dependent on external factors.
BTW, the difference between unvalued weak Fe and valued weak Fe is that an IxTP might still totally operate by their internal logic, but they'd likely appreciate the ExFJs Fe being inserted into that logical structure.
As an INFJ, Fe would be my 'creative' function that I just use to support my Ni. I wouldn't make a ruckus abt it like the Fe user here, but I'd probably end up paralyzed by indecision at the grocery store deciding what to buy. If I saw p2 eating cornflakes, I might join them if I was nervous but liked cornflakes, but I'd probably end up just observing whatever happens and incorporating that into my framework of social dynamics in the house.
Oh, all this rambling, it must be because IxFJ's enemy function is Te 😅
@Annie Driller I'm glad you liked the explanation!
You bring up an interesting point, and the 7th function's dynamic is most likely altered by whether it's a judging or perceiving function, but I'd have to disagree that a perceiving function makes it valued. However, the dynamic you mentioned - of one's own weakness being valued in others - is one that definitely exists, but that would be for... *drumroll* the 4th function :D and so an ESxP values Ni and an INxJ values Se, and so on, making a lot of 'opposite' types actually appreciate each other quite a bit. This is because Se and Ni are packaged together, and same with Si and Ne. (For a Si/Ne appreciation example - an ISxJ, leading with Si, will be quite bad at coming up with new ideas - meaning an ENxP covers for them quite well, and they help the ENxP take care of their own Si!)
I think, however, there is some confusion among types about being P or J, especially introverts (who's P/J letter is actually opposite of their first function). An INxJ will appreciate Se, but an INxP will be deeply confused by it/why others use it and probably have a strong distaste for it. An ESxP will appreciate others' Ni, but an ESxJ will likely see it as useless, overly abstract pondering completely divorced from the real world (as they perceive it).
At least, that's the way I (my Ti?) sees it :D
@Annie Driller just a guess, but are you an xxTP? (I'd assume a xxTJ becoming more in touch with their F function would be more focused on Fi, the development of their own values/morals etc while later Fe development would probably be more concerned with the development of ethics/how actions (and Ti-ness in general) impact others)
@Annie Driller oh cool 😎
I've been thinking about P 7th functions and I wanna add a few more things - how one person interacts w/ another person's function def depends on How that other function is in someone's type. Also, we need every function capability to help the world spin, but the 7th one in particular can be stressful (bc it's incompatible with the 1st thru 3rd function schema we seem to naturally use to perceive+judge the world). So I totally admire INTJs and respect their Te ability, but I also want to step in and shake them when they make particularly stupid 7th-Fe decisions 😭 cmon INTJs, I know your Fi guides you but sometimes good Fe is literally the difference between life and death... anyway. The INTJ would probably be very confused by my terrible Te as well and how I suck at budgeting and paperwork. But the 2nd function is more of a support for our 1st one, which we share, so we'd end up complimenting each other, I think. (Although we'd still both need someone else to bring the Se 😔)
So if you're an ISTP, you and an INTP might totally respect the perspective/abilities each other's 2nd function brings... but if an ISTP is in a Ti-Ni loop about other people's intentions, they need Fe reassurance; Ne by itself just gives them more problems to perceive. Likewise, using direct Se on an INTP is likely to freak them out - like an ISTP they also need Fe reassurance. (But an INxJ, despite having Se as an equally weak function, will appreciate it bc it balances out their Ni!)
Basically, it's not an antipathy towards the function in the abstract, but just a combined weakness in it as well as sense of discomfort when someone else applies it too directly - in contrast w/ the 4th function, which is still weak, but valued.
Re: tests, I've actually pulled a lot of this theory from socionics. The theory is great imo, complex but in a Ti way. Just one thing: introverts have their P and J letters swapped, and it also uses in tandem a 3 letter system.
You're the first person I've seen to pick up that we INTJs don't just have blind Fe but hate Fe, it's so true. I can't bear how dependent it feels, how it seems to give up individuality and make people blind to who they are.
THIS. IS SOO ACCURATE
Thank you for this video
I had to watch that twice in a row it was so accurately funny 😂
Great video! Could you do one for Te vs Ti, please? 🙏
This was awesome! And congrats on the corn flakes sponsorship!
This explains a lot thank u 😅
heyy please do more videos on Ni vs Ne, Si vs Se and Ti vs Te.... those are helping a lotttt than you know..
💘💘 That was awesome and terrifying too (I'm an INFJ). lol! I love it! I truly do! Kudos!!
these skits are so funny lmao im crying
Can’t wait for the Te Ti one
Great content. And Beautiful haha
The paralysis at the end of the Fe personality was gold. I soo relate to that impossible tug of war where you have to meet you need but actually can’t because you have to meet the other person’s needs but you can’t 😳
😂😂😂 This is so accurate, especially showing the two sides of Fi😂👌As an Fe-dom myself (Enfj) I've had that same look on my face at 1:36-1:48 plenty of times when listening to others talk in an emotionally fragile situation! 😂
HAHAHAHAHA
Weird how I relate much more to the (first) Fi than to the Fe. Are you sure it's not actually Ti? 😉 On the other hand I don't relate to the second Fi at all.
[ISTP, for context]
Yeah, I thought the same thing (I'm ENTP, high Ti, low Fe and nearly non-existent Fi).
The girl who bought the cornflakes did just what I would, and said just what I would (ironically, I also might do and say what the Fe girl did, but only to prevent the last girl from seeing the cornflakes and disturbing the peace)
The last Fi girl seemed spot on Fi to me though.
My guess is first Fi user is T dominant, while second Fi user is F dominant. I'm an INTJ (Te-Fi) and the first Fi user, that would totally be me. The second one? No way am I walking in and being upset over someone eating cornflakes. If we swap it out for Chik-fil-A, which has given money to groups that kill LGBT people, I'd be disappointed in someone eating that, but I'm not inclined to start a fight with them over it. I'm just going to think less of them for it.
I guess it depends, if the first Fi user highly valued eating cornflakes as a personal thing, they could easily get like this lol.
I also thought that the first Fi user is like an ISTP totally XDDD
Anyway my ISFP boyfriend with the blind Ne is also similar to the first Fi user, more than to the second one, but not exactly. The first Fi user is more ISTP XD
@@jenniferhanses7064 Ooh, yeah, good observation, I think you're right. I also just noticed the first Fi girl puts her feels above others' which I would not do, not 'cause I'm selfless really, but cause I don't really even recognize my feels, so I differ to others' feels as long as they make sense to me, 'cause it does matter to them.
Also, who's getting paid to kill LGBT people?
-ENTP
This summarizes why my ISTP husband and I (INFJ) need marriage counseling
Both of you are Fe users though
Istg I had a bad day, but with this video!! 😭🦋🥰 NOT ANYMORE 🤣❤️❤️
The "404 error" was perfect Kristin !
Having aux Fe, I can totally relate! It's like "I can't win here. What am I supposed to do now?"
Just breathe
@@zzzcocopepe Not gonna lie, that's very good advice in that situation!
stop caring about others
LOL. I further guess initial Fi user is a XXTJ type, and Sally is a straight up F type.
Yep, I'm guessing that FI Number 1 is an ISTJ, Sally is an ISFP or INFP, and FE could be an ESFJ.
Oo good point, I forgot about the xxTJ’s have Fi too 😂 I was about to be like “this IxFP is kind of harsh” then I realize Fi 1 is a xxTJ
Wow... this is so accurate... and part of this dialogue was the exact quoting of the breaking up fight with 2 of my 3 XNFP best friends...
...404 Error...
(ISFJ)
Very helpful thank you. I cannot understand why people just don't consider other people. Well, now I can
Have you ever wondered which color each personality type would be? I’d love a video on that 🥰
I think they would each have various colors. INFJ would be deep purple and indigo, soothing gray blue, verdant green and brown. INTJ would be stark colors, like crimson red and black, deep poisonous green, but also maybe a pale blue and soft gray. Intp would be murky and dark, but alternatively amber reddish brown, maybe also an acid green, maybe a burnt orange.
@@weDie-tomorrow oh how I long to slap you lol
@@zzzcocopepe as an INTJ that sounds terrible. I just wanna be a human, not a color
@@hidum5779 okay but the comment that you left here matches the colors that I described for intj
I work for a mid-sized grocer and still leave bags from competitors in our break room. I shop wherever has the best prices in general or, if I’m pressed for time, wherever is closest.
I AM STRESSED.
Ti: Gets upset when you are misinformed.
Fi: Gets upset when you won't let them be true.
Te: Gets upset when you address the emotions of the crowd before you address the task at hand.
Fe: Gets upset when you address the task at hand before the emotions of the crowd.
good oneee
Facts!
Ti don't care really much if you are miss informed (they are more than willing to "inform you"), they freak out when you are being "illogical"
@@Catralasarguido Ti are secretly Vulcan.😂
@@Catralasarguido Well, misinformation IS illogical, so it's definitely one of my pet peeves... And other Ti dominant users I know, as well as myself are not really "willing" to inform others, it's just better to correct misinformation before it spreads and causes a bigger mess, because some gullible people might not do their research and blindly believe anything presented to them (which sadly more than often is the case).
Lmaooooo I'm screaming at the sanitorium vs Kelloggs dichotomy, amazing
I love these skits cognitive function vs. skits because it gives that Se ideas that makes us rethink about how we can understand people better in actualized reality than just theory or concepts. Also, very funny and relatable. I have a friend who is INFJ and has Fe as 2nd func and I have Te as 2nd and Fi as my 3rd so when I told him I cut people off completely if I don't like them or they're making me inefficient or act unhealthily he said, kindly: "i dont think thats... the best way to do it." I just laughed because I knew it'd freak him out if I kept off the detail that it's usually mutual and communicated that I cut them off.
I hope that I can one day understand high Fi users but alas I don't know that I ever will. Seems freeing (yet isolating) to just do whatever you want whenever you want without having to think about other people, though.
I assume Te vs Ti is next, can’t wait!!
I am waiting for Ti Vs Te videoo♡
INTP here and I'm thinking, "Seriously? This is cereal!" :D
Ahh yes, Ti vs Te up next... I can sense the fun coming
That explains some of the interactions in my house...
brilliant
Fe's expressions are so spot on 😭 "you don't get to decide what hurts people"
Sure, but I _do_ get to decide to just not care.
So good to finally see two people with the same functions corn-flake (conflict) with each other.
As an Esfj with an Isfp younger brother I can confirm that we get into debates almost exactly like this on a very regular basis😂