The Female Narcissist in Your Family.

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  • @kathismith2865
    @kathismith2865 21 день тому +38

    Girl tell the truth and shame the devil‼️💯

  • @Teddybeloved
    @Teddybeloved 20 днів тому +9

    Indeed, you know what you're talking about. Thank you

  • @elizabethjarrett8473
    @elizabethjarrett8473 20 днів тому +11

    Yep Jill, you're absolutely dead on !!!!I don't have to deal with this BS anymore but I SO feel for people who do; Do whatever you can to take REALLY GOOD care of yourself, whatever that means for you. Find support in mental health care if you can, family and friends to talk to who will actually LISTEN AND HEAR YOU !!! Best of luck to all empathy out there, with love from a survivor who still to this day attracts narcissists. STAY STRONG, HOLD YOUR BOUNDARIES, YOU CAN DO THIS, DEEP BREATHS !!!!! 😊❤❤❤

    • @cristinalz9395
      @cristinalz9395 19 днів тому

      Keeping you in my prayers!! I am constantly being targeted! Real stuff!!!

  • @Cassie-pt7mt
    @Cassie-pt7mt 20 днів тому +17

    I'm her little sister. I've been in her sights since the day I was born. It's been a bumpy life.
    She loves drama, cruelty and raging. I'm so tired.

    • @marcinance9586
      @marcinance9586 19 днів тому

      It’s the opposite for me. I’m the older one (just two of us) by 5 years, but because our Mom raised her MUCH DIFFERENTLY from the way raised me, she believes she can do absolutely anything she wants without suffering any consequences whatsoever.
      My life has been made a living hell because of her narcissism.

    • @No-BS1369
      @No-BS1369 5 днів тому

      I’m the little sister too. I’ve been no contact with her majesty since shortly after our mother died in 2022. She was able to steal my small part of my inheritance and I ended up homeless during Covid and the housing crisis. I’m disabled as of 2020, so that didn’t help matters.
      I have always known the hatred she has for me and I’m grateful to be away from her. I’m in an apartment now and it’s my 2nd year leasing it. The thing that bothers me most is that our relatives, our mother’s family members, have never had the guts to even say anything to her about what she did, even though they don’t agree with what she did and they know it’s wrong.
      That’s the problem with narcissists. Too many people are just sitting around keeping quiet about the horrendous things they’ve done to their own family members, let alone others. This is where it needs to stop.

  • @catherineclinton911
    @catherineclinton911 20 днів тому +14

    Female family members: 💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @fifilafleur5555
      @fifilafleur5555 20 днів тому +2

      Amen!!! I’ve had quite a few of these on both sides of family… as well as my dad’s wives. Family members just go along and believe all their lies. It’s devastating and so so painful.

    • @catherineclinton911
      @catherineclinton911 19 днів тому

      @@fifilafleur5555 Yes!

  • @tbgreenthumb5162
    @tbgreenthumb5162 20 днів тому +9

    Thank you Jill for your insightful talks. They help me so much! I am forever grateful and thankful for your great devotion to serve humanity against narcissistic abuse!

  • @navydogsadventures3500
    @navydogsadventures3500 21 день тому +11

    Drama momma, you got that right

  • @maggieekane7845
    @maggieekane7845 21 день тому +13

    Yes, I have experienced this in my family and with a co-worker, who is worse than my sister with her sneaky, spying behavior and fabrications. Also they are both like broken records, repeating their grievances and thoughts constantly. Gets so boring. 👍👏

  • @HarryBarker-yp1xv
    @HarryBarker-yp1xv 18 днів тому +4

    They often tell you other people are jealous of you or using you, reality is it's them who are jealous and using you. They are trying to isolate you.

  • @fifilafleur5555
    @fifilafleur5555 20 днів тому +6

    Oh yes… this is my dad’s wife “to a T.” Sadly their daughter, half sister, has grown into a woman much like her. What a nightmare for me. My dad is in complete denial about their behavior towards me. I am now no contact with this woman and her daughter after all their cruel stunts. The lies & games never end. Many of my family relationships were either harmed or destroyed by their smear campaign of me. Family friends were told lies as to why I was no longer around in order to hide their abuse & ostracism of me. I eventually completely lost my health due to all the stress and heartbreak. I’ve not seen most of my family in 14 + years because of the lies told about me. These types of women are pure evil. The harm & destruction they cause knows no bounds! Beware.

  • @barrymchugh5612
    @barrymchugh5612 20 днів тому +5

    Sounds like my sister geeze!

  • @sandrashevel2137
    @sandrashevel2137 20 днів тому +2

    One family member that was passed away. Now i have 3 more members, it sucks😢

  • @wayneelliott1180
    @wayneelliott1180 20 днів тому +6

    I was the scapegoat child. Terrible constant wondering what I’d done wrong. Achievements belittled, shamed for daring to succeed. Realised much later it was an educational experience, but it’s awful for a child to go through.

    • @monabarber2335
      @monabarber2335 18 днів тому

      Realized

    • @wayneelliott1180
      @wayneelliott1180 18 днів тому

      @@monabarber2335 Not in the UK, Canada, New Zealand or Australia where i live. There are many things that are not Americanised.

  • @ebonypierce5976
    @ebonypierce5976 18 днів тому +1

    This is my mother. Its disgusting. My family of 7 lives with her. Its been nuts, however, through Spirit and wonderful people like you guiding me have built up my resilience and strength to take her on everyday❤ Thank you

  • @user-hi8hn9fn3m
    @user-hi8hn9fn3m 18 днів тому +1

    You just described My Aunt.

  • @elizabethjarrett8473
    @elizabethjarrett8473 20 днів тому +4

    P.S . "F OFF." also works with the right facial expression in the appropriate moment and WALK AWAY or "You need to leave now, I will not tolerate this behavior."

  • @kaystephens2672
    @kaystephens2672 20 днів тому +3

    You know, when they’ve passed on for a few years, there’s just this peace that’s indescribable. If you’re with anyone like this is your life, it’s ok to say, “Hey, you’re just a pain the ass and your behavior will never get better. To yourself. Silently decide, don’t feel guilty, and if you have kids, no contact. The heck with the court system, the heck with what other people think, have fun, load up the car, and God will guide you in the right direction, eventually. 23 years free of this person who always interfered in my having fun. I’m old now and really see this after 23 years of no contact. When I was a kid, I told myself to never forget how to play. That’s because, I had a family who always stopped me from having fun, and made all the rules as who was To have fun, I never forgot Jill, and I’ll never forget you and your help to gettin there. I don’t care how old you are, go outside, act silly, and take back your fun. Your happiness, and if somebody doesn’t like that you laugh at another’s jokes, that’s too bad. It takes time, but no one gets to be the author of your feelings. But you and God. You can feel the jealousy and learn to see it in their words and behavior. Thanks again, Jill. Still on my way but much happier. We can never forget how to play nicely. 🏄🏻‍♂️

  • @louisehroncich281
    @louisehroncich281 20 днів тому +3

    Thank you. My sister was jealous I have children.She does not.

  • @expeditenow3664
    @expeditenow3664 20 днів тому +2

    😮

  • @pavla2055
    @pavla2055 18 днів тому +1

    My mother was covert - now I have next door neighbour that's one .

  • @dougstobaugh376
    @dougstobaugh376 12 днів тому

    Thanks for your educational experience and resources, and support. Yes, I'm the only man on my ex side of the family and the only man on my ex-wife's side of the family, and the rest of them are narcissistic women. I hope that explains everything in that old situation that I'm completely out of time for their discarded. God-bless.

  • @emmajean-ub6sh
    @emmajean-ub6sh 3 дні тому

    I’ve had to distance myself from my whole family it’s so painful

  • @cristinalz9395
    @cristinalz9395 19 днів тому +1

    Unfortunately I am the target! She's cruel beyond sick!!

  • @mongoose59
    @mongoose59 18 днів тому +1

    They do seem to need so much attention and will do anything to get it. They certainly hate it if someone else gets the attention.

  • @Melva-Tjong
    @Melva-Tjong 20 днів тому +1

    It’s so true. Thanks for sharing this ugly side to the whole world. Problem is people tend to believe in what the narcissists say than what the victims say.

  • @cookiemama4
    @cookiemama4 20 днів тому +2

    How do I get to the full video of this clip? Ty

  • @valeriehoward7847
    @valeriehoward7847 20 днів тому +3

    Trifling Trolls is what they are!!!!😂😂😂😂

  • @MadManInMyVisions
    @MadManInMyVisions 20 днів тому +1

    I left her. She lived across the street and was a vile person.

  • @7632ant
    @7632ant 20 днів тому

    Mine is a mother in law. No contact now. She thinks she's the most stylish woman on the planet and behind others backs she was cruel to me. I tried for years to make things better but at the end when I finally challenged her she went into a rage and I saw how she had felt all along......

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 14 днів тому

    Writing my book ❤they soulless

  • @kathy7124
    @kathy7124 14 днів тому

    😳🥺😔my youngest sister (half-sister) A therapist, WOW, my mom 💔died two yrs ago, youngest sister got custody of our severely disabled middle sis 😢, youngest sis constantly verbally attacks our dead mom , my mom loved us , I loved her she was my best friend, I miss mom and middle sis 🥺.....

  • @nancytwigg4631
    @nancytwigg4631 18 днів тому

    Real or perceived, jealousy and pathological envy....so true.
    Sneaky, that's it....

  • @clairesweeney4334
    @clairesweeney4334 18 днів тому +1

    My cousin

  • @alimccreery755
    @alimccreery755 16 днів тому

    Absolutely 👍 time to distance from the Queen Baby/Queenzillasourus 🦖you can say that name really fast and give yourself a chuckle 🤭 😂

  • @izzy4575
    @izzy4575 20 днів тому +1

    Sounds like Meghan Markle

  • @marcusxsara8896
    @marcusxsara8896 20 днів тому +1

    L🤎🪷E💡

  • @regocyrus
    @regocyrus 18 днів тому

    So what do you do? (Help)..