If she hadn’t have taken the animals to begin with, Rarity wouldn’t have ran out the door. Environmental changes have massive effects on animals ESPECIALLY cats.
@oceangravy799 and with out any chip or collar its going to be next to impossible to find her. She should of got them chips and id tagged as doon as she knew she was going to tommys
@Controversialopinions69 for real , this is the MOST frustrating part of it all! the fact she couldn't be bothered to do so while she spent money on all this other junk she didn't need for her "trip" just goes to show she doesn't care about her animals as much as she claims to.
How is she not ashamed of herself? Every “relationship” she’s ever had has started like this. She barges in and settles right down and refuses to leave. She manipulates and guilts people into letting her stay and calls it true love. Have some dignity!!! 😤
It's one thing to do that routine. It's a whole other embarrassment to have recorded each and every one love bombing and breakup, upload on UA-cam, and KEEP them up for nearly a decade 😬
I remember right when Rarity went missing, everyone was like “she’s going to use that as an excuse not to leave Wisconsin” and here we are. As for the constant reorganizing, I’ve always believed she does it to make herself feel like she’s doing something important that “needs to be done”. It’s nonsense.
The only ending to be expected is the same as slommys last wife unfortunately. Ambers not strong enough to save herself and loves the attention to much.
In my town, a family's dog dug under their fence and got out. The difference in their approach from Amber's was shocking. They were out on foot and by car. They contacted the humane society for assistance. They posted daily on multiple facebook groups so the public was informed of the latest sightings. I personally saw them out in the pouring rain for hours. They checked every sighting of a loose dog even if the dog was a different breed, just in case. You know what? They got their dog back in a day and a half. Someone trapped the dog in their backyard. Amber is only looking at night and is relying on the reward money to do the work for her. Rarity was doomed from the start.
Seems she was making a little more progress, yes it wasn’t “much” for what people think her progress should’ve been but it was still progress and she “SEEMINGLY” was going more in the direction of becoming her own person and standing on her own , kinda. Like more than now is pretty much what I’m saying
@@nice1cool She thought she was in ‘a relationship’ with Erica that whole time. She has to have a gf or she would need to understand that she is not attractive in any way.
@@nice1coolYou still made some really good points! Despite that weird relationship she had going on, she still was doing somewhat better. idk if it was the fact that she wasn’t physically with Erica or if it’s cause she was building a better relationship with her mother, but she was making some progress at least
@@IeatGhost Thank you and I struggle with a toxic relationship with someone and when we weren’t able to physically be together and would just text ( and see each other occasionally) I would progress but if we move in with each other, man the progress would stop dead in its tracks until we are apart again. So I think it’s both of the things you pointed out to be honest
Extended her stay, hasnt she been there for like 3 months already before rarity went missing? She has no intention of leaving shes just using rarity as an excuse
@@Controversialopinions69 No way she did not plan this. You can't just spontaneously abandon your apartment, even if her mother has a key, taking care of a half-empty apartment is work and responsibility, too, nobody just "dumps" their apartment on someone if it's avoidable
@@BevityI can’t say forsure because I personally don’t know but some comments like last month or right when she got to Wisconsin, that her lease was up. So I’m confused if she was going to come back but didn’t renew her lease? So was she really planning to even come back ?( at least shortly after getting there) then why would she let her lease go ?
@@nice1cool It's very suspicious! Plus if it's true, she has nowhere to go back to, so it seems like she tied up the loose ends, packed up her pets and "visited" Tommy. Tommy had no idea she would be taking on this humongus burden permanently. Of course now that Amber is there, might as well have a good time feeding her up like a hog for market.
Just one thing that does drive me crazy- it is not abnormal to not have a collar for your cat. Since they climb they can hang themselves with their collar ESPECIALLY if they were to get out of the house. So just a microchip is pretty standard in terms of cat safety
I would agree with that. There are breakaway collars for cats but everytime I have put it on a cat (all inside cats btw) they have come off within a day with them just chilling around the house. So 🤷🏼♀️
I don’t have a collar for one of my dogs :( her neck is fat and every collar is either too big or too small (that we have tried). We take her out in a harness so for outside she doesnt need one. If she got out tho we would be in trouble. She does have a chip tho
Yes! Please consider the dangers that come with a collar, especially choking hazard. Even if the collars are labelled break-away they only break if the cat pulls in the right direction (hard to explain, but if you want to try, just put ypur finger under the "buckle" and pull, it won't break.) There might be advantages of having a collar (like more visibility in traffic) but I advice against them personally
I agree with this! It has been bothering me so much seeing so many people acting like not having your cat in a collar is neglect. And the microchip conversation is so irritating because it only helps if the cat makes it to a vet to have it checked! You can’t just track it like Life360. I’m not defending amber at all, because it’s not that hard to keep even an adventurous cat inside if you care. but I don’t like to make my kitties wear collars. And they are chipped but it won’t make it so I can track them down if they get out!
There’s really no reason for a cat to have a collar. If they get out a collar isn’t going to save them any more than a microchip would imo. I just can’t imagine being an indoor cat and having that thing around your neck your whole life 😬 idk call me a bad cat owner ig
I haven't watched all the way thru yet but, She has always had complete control in her relationships...wifey, she lost a little. But all her other girls did what she said. She's having a problem with being in a relationship where her partner isn't going to quit her job or be available 27/7. This is what she's dealing with.
I wonder if Twinky or Wasabi are acting different since Rarity is gone? Most pets that live together can sense a difference or “aloneness” when the other’s missing. Poor babies😢 yes get them microchipped ASAP! She has the money!
Like Zach, I don't typically like to read into all of the conspiracy theories. But suddenly saying you have to stay there *because* Rarity got lost makes it seem like you had motivation to create an excuse to stay there. Girliepop really can't help herself or think for two seconds to not make things worse for her.
ALR needs to be re careful, she is slipping into Chantel, Foodie Beauty, Everyday Mariam territory ….. her arguing about whether or not she had a filter was to close to her wrapping a Hijab on her head and having full on Rage videos. Once she goes down that rabbit hole, it’s going to be VERY hard to get out.
If Amber used to get mad when Becky would visit her mom or Destiny eating out with family, how in the world is she handling sharing Emily with her own child??? I just don’t see this working out considering Ambers personality.
You take care of your mental health, Zachary. I've been watching every video you post to help me cope with my grief from the passing of my fiancé. I love your videos, and your hair looks amazing!!
I know that area pretty well, and it’s very likely someone picked her up before that storm, unless she’s hiding from ppl someone found her or she’s at the shelter n that shelter is fkn Amazing best I’ve ever seen Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if one of the sweetheart workers there knew of this and took the cat in because ya know…amber 😂
She is showing that dog to quell any rumors that it attacked the cat (not that I believe it but it was a theory). Of course, she is reading the forums.
Mia Fiore is at TJmaxx/ Marshall’s. These 18k gold PLATED earrings are usually like $14-$16. As someone who worked Jewelry at a TJmaxx. They’re just gold plated and have sterling silver underneath.
She could have spent the holidays with her family - this girl has been in a relationship for her entire adult life and it has only brought her pain. Get yourself a new plan girlie cause codependency is not workin’
fr i dont understand how she can leave her loving, caring, mother who she hasnt really spent a lot of time w, for a gf she met a month ago... thats just so disrespectful to her mother, who she has nothing but nice things to say abt (as of recent, since shes been sober). ALR talks abt how her BPD makes her obsess and get very attached too fast/deep, but she does nothing w that self awareness and it just fucking pisses me off cuz she obviously knows exactly what shes doing. it all feels like rage bait and like she just doesnt care abt her health anymore, its all just for the money and attention at this point. i miss the beck era so bad 😭 she didnt care then either but at least it was less depressing than this tommy BS
@@unseenmoleeshe hasn’t spent a lot of time with her mom because her mom chose to be a drug addict in prison instead of being a mom and being there. So……
I believe Amber used prerecorded content at first but because she’s been obsessively watching reaction channels she is mixing current content in with her prerecorded content because she is directly answering reaction channels.
Ik people grieve different, but if my cat was missing I would never sit around playing legos, organizing a makeup bag and being giddy about small presents, nothing would matter to me until I found my MISSING BABY.
she wont go out of her way 🤷♀️ (day's too full eating and being sexy for tommy salami. no extra time for a lost baby.) lost is a good as dead to her. how harsh is that???
Same 😢💔 I wouldn't do vlogmas "to distract myself". I would put out little shelters for stray cats and food. Even if my own fur baby is gone I could at least help one without a home
I would be more sympathetic if vlogmas showed more of what she is doing to find Rarity. Sure, Emily might be at work or whatever- but she could blog herself walking around the block (phone pointing down or self-recording on neutral place to avoid doxxing herself?), talking about checking this place or that because maybe Rarity could be there. Vlog herself going to the shelters if ever Emily drives her. Talk about how she's reached shelters or the community, asking about Rarity. I understand if she wants to focus her vlogmas on more light-hearted topics. But when something like that happens, does it not impact your life enough to warrant being added into the vlog content? It feels odd to see her vlog these menial things when Rarity's still missing. Maybe she's doing all of that off-camera, who knows (highly doubt it). I'm just in awe at how little she's letting us know, at least.
I think the wrong cat got out. I think she was hoping Wasabi took off because let's be honest - he's the least favorite child. But it was Rarity and now she's actually sad about losing a pet. But yes 💯 agree that she left that door open on purpose.
@@buckshot_honeymoonnot really not where I was going with my comment. As far as esthetics go I live by do what’s best for you and your family…. As long as it brings you joy….
Maybe Rarity knew the original going home date and when she decided to stay longer because they were having soooooo much fun she was like “nope Im going home with or without you”.
Not me wondering if the door wasn't left open by accident, and by whom, exactly .. 🤔 .. given the ultimate outcome was going to be her staying longer. 🤔
Amber says things like how good Tommy is for her, how happy Tommy makes her, look Tommy took her to a concert, Tommy searched for her missing cat, but when you’re an adult who actually knows what a happy relationship is like you recognize that what Amber is focused on is superficial. After Tommy’s face reveal, Amber had a break down over it being revealed that Tommy is a feeder, and she was never able to prove otherwise. Alexis came out claiming that Amber was regularly crying over Tommy being hurtful and saying she wished she was unalive so she could be with her last girlfriend. Amber’s consistently crying online, blaming her audience for forming opinions on what she chooses to share about her life, and it’s all connected to Tommy. If Ambers story around Rarity is to be believed, she’s been so miserable adjusting to Tommy’s schedule, waking up early in the morning, stressed about the rumors, she neglected to close the door after letting the dogs out, and Rarity went missing. And now she’s grieving over the loss. Amber has spoken repeatedly on how bad her mental health is and how none of it is Tommy’s fault, and that Tommy makes her so happy, but everything around the environment Tommy creates makes her miserable. Constantly Defending Tommy, waking up early, waiting for Tommy to come home, mourning the loss of her cat, gaining weight, but Amber doesn’t connect the environment she’s in to her mental state. We can recognize that Amber is being love bombed with gifts, and concert tickets, because it’s the same tactics she’s used in previous relationships. But she’s just gonna use this as proof of how loved she is by Tommy.
Amberlynn probably won’t go to a hairstylist bc shes worried about being able to fit into the chairs. I think thats pretty understandable bc I do remember there being a news story about a woman who opened a hair salon specifically catered to plus sized ppl
Hey! I’m from Australia and while I was in the US I got addicted to the ICP love line. If you would do a video explaining further, I would LOVE that! I need some background. I’m coming in back in March next year and I can’t wait!
The earrings are 1000% from TJ Maxx. Nothing wrong with TJ Maxx, but we don't need to pretend that Tommy is shoveling out fat stacks of cash for Amber or anything.
Listen, like she's not even buying random gifts no one needs on Amazon to give to people to make herself happy like she does every year. Shes not doing anything besides sitting in that house and eating. Not even going to target or doing torrid hauls or whatever. It's so depressing actually
your commentary & personality are the only reasons I keep up with Amber anymore. I hope you start feeling better soon. you are very loved & appreciated❤️
Thing is with pre-recorded content.. if she does find rarity will she post the videos she filmed previous to finding her? Or will she tell us right away? I fear the former.
30 dollars is on the low range for jewlry. Earrigns, though, are a bit more expensive than bracelets and rings since they come in pairs. So bottom bottom tier, which I actually love will be around 5 dollars or less. You can wear it about 5 times before it fades. Then there's the actual bottom range which is around $5-30, this is the jewelry you seen in target and are pretty good. At this point, pay attention to gold "plated," plated is just a thin layer of gold something. Its actually easy to get this jewlry from sales and clearance much cheaper. So if you're starting to collect fine jewlry...good place to start. Then you get to mid range $50-200. In the mid range, you start to get pearls and stones like amethyst sapphire etc. This is also where the real carat gold comes in. Most birthstone and sentimental mall jewlery is in this range. You'll also see noticeable brands Kate Spade, Coach, etc. These days you can find some nice Tiffanny. And most independent jewelers are around this price point. My favorite is bisoulovely. This jewlry may not last forever, but will last for a very very long time if you take care of it. So it its very important to google and know your metals. You don't want a $10 bracelet for 60! (I'm looking at you pandora). That being said, you can find this for cheaper at TJ maxx, but again, there's a reason why it ended up there. Pay attention to the box thought. Idk, that's always worked for me. Amber's earring box looked cheap. See multiple holes, that's just there so that any random thing can fit. Jewlry that's worth getting at this price point will have a more stylized box. After that comes the mid-tier jewelry part two. $200-1000. Fine metals, precious stones, and more runway brands like Moschino. But the quality of the metal is pure. No plated anything. Highschool class rings are a good example. Mass produced, yes but metals that are quality enough to last a life time. Speaking of mass produced, you'll find lab diamonds in this range. Unlike mid-range, this jewlry can bear weather, wear, and tear. You can put it in a cup of water for a year and it won't rust or decay like plated jewlry does. Personally, there's no need to buy anything beyond this point. But the top teir, for normal people, is 1k-10k. There's a huge margin and you'll usually find wedding rings in this category. And anything above 10k is beyond my scope. Almost mythincal. Didn't mean for this comment to be so long, but Amber's jewlry looked to be worth $15 at the most but I wouldn't be surprised if Tommy paid a lot more for it. Again, the box. SInce it came in a box and not the little platic baggy says a lot. But the jewlry itself very bendy And if anyone just happens to read this and interested in starting a jewlry collection, it is very easy to find $200 jewlry for $30. Its very easy to find $200 jewlry worth 30 dollars. So start with brand outlet shops. OH! Thrift stores, you would not believe how much pure gold and silver are thrown into a pile. Once you get used to discerning jewlry though, you'll find some great steals and i mean STEALS
Yikes. This makes me sick to my stomach for real. If this whole situation wasn't intentional then the fact that she's being opportunistic with this devastating situation makes me feel like she never felt bad like she claimed. I truly think Amber can only mimic emotions and doesn't truly feel regret or remorse like the rest of us. She probably is only sad or anxious about her own image and giving the hayders a reason to worry for the pets.
She has a whole bathroom to herself, as she showed (made a big point of) in an early WI video. Do you people pretend to forget pertinent facts just so you can make stuff up? Or are you really bad at remembering things that don’t fit your (all too commonly) unhinged narratives?
Is the reason she can’t separate the little gems and sort them out because her dexterity is just so bad because her weight is crushing her spine and affecting her nerves? Or is she that lazy? Could be both!😂
my toiletries bag gets messed up constantly. i regularly use mine because i go stay at my boyfriends for a couple days every week. i try and keep it as organized as it was when it was packed but it never happens. i even have little bags that go in the big bag to try and organize it (and keep the bag clean because it’s easier to clean up any messes if my micelluar water pops open in the small bag vs the main bag) toiletries bags is for everything hair care, skin care, hygiene and makeup (last one is normally just in a smaller bag unless im planning on DOING my makeup then my whole kit comes with me 😅) but even though i try so hard it still has to be reorganized often (although her having loose jewelry in there is wild because girliepop likes to buy things and there’s so many travel cases she could’ve bought for that) ((not a me thing because i wear my ring and that’s it 99%of the time))
Boom. I just commented on another video of yours that she clearly had a motive to “lose” Rarity. As long as the cat is missing in Wisconsin, she can’t leave and gets the added bonus of emotional support from Tommy/Emily during her “really hard time”. Crazy business
Idk about you guys, but if I had been through intense relationships in the public eye I wouldn’t be waddling head first into another one…especially one that everyone is warning me about more than ever. 🤷♀️
gorl bye, it was already extended before Rarity left.
If she had returned home in a reasonable amount of time, Rarity wouldn’t have run out Emily’s door.
Ooop 😗🫢 very true tho.
If she hadn’t have taken the animals to begin with, Rarity wouldn’t have ran out the door. Environmental changes have massive effects on animals ESPECIALLY cats.
@oceangravy799 💯
@oceangravy799 and with out any chip or collar its going to be next to impossible to find her. She should of got them chips and id tagged as doon as she knew she was going to tommys
@Controversialopinions69 for real , this is the MOST frustrating part of it all! the fact she couldn't be bothered to do so while she spent money on all this other junk she didn't need for her "trip" just goes to show she doesn't care about her animals as much as she claims to.
Excuse you, Zach. Rarity isn’t lost - she explored too hard.
Exploring hardcore mode if you will.
The world is her oyster, indeed.
@@IxiaRayne having the time of her life.
A permanent exploration. Rarity planned that shit lol
She’s adventurous
How is she not ashamed of herself? Every “relationship” she’s ever had has started like this. She barges in and settles right down and refuses to leave. She manipulates and guilts people into letting her stay and calls it true love.
Have some dignity!!! 😤
"like that will ever happen"-shrek this quote fits gorlworld well lmfao
It's one thing to do that routine. It's a whole other embarrassment to have recorded each and every one love bombing and breakup, upload on UA-cam, and KEEP them up for nearly a decade 😬
Very true, she always had an “emergency” where she has nowhere to go or can’t return
It’s the same cycle over and over
Have some rarity
Well that seems… convenient for her.
Imagine letting your cat of 9 years out just to have an excuse to not leave your partners house they didn’t invite you to live at..
@@Beanbaginahurryyor your partner did it so you couldn’t leave
@@moosai YESSS!! I’ve made a couple comments before sharing my story with an abuser, he DID let my cat outside while I was at work!!
Suspiciously convenient for her *side eye*
Came to the comments to see if anyone else was on that wavelength. Omg how chilling if true.
I remember right when Rarity went missing, everyone was like “she’s going to use that as an excuse not to leave Wisconsin” and here we are.
As for the constant reorganizing, I’ve always believed she does it to make herself feel like she’s doing something important that “needs to be done”. It’s nonsense.
Yes absolutely!
So does this mean emotional support feeder asked her to leave and now she can't because Rarity's "adventurous soul" "left"?
Plot thickens doesn't it .. who exactly left the door open 🤔
When this falls apart the tell all era will be MESSY
VlogMESS
Right like Can we just fast forward to the end please?
The only ending to be expected is the same as slommys last wife unfortunately. Ambers not strong enough to save herself and loves the attention to much.
Im sitting on the edge of my motherfucking chair.
@@kayla123ism yeah, I don't see any other ending unless Tommy decides she's too annoying to keep for that long and she dumps her.
In my town, a family's dog dug under their fence and got out. The difference in their approach from Amber's was shocking. They were out on foot and by car. They contacted the humane society for assistance. They posted daily on multiple facebook groups so the public was informed of the latest sightings. I personally saw them out in the pouring rain for hours. They checked every sighting of a loose dog even if the dog was a different breed, just in case. You know what? They got their dog back in a day and a half. Someone trapped the dog in their backyard. Amber is only looking at night and is relying on the reward money to do the work for her. Rarity was doomed from the start.
Well I imagine Tommy isn’t missing work to take her to go look, ALR can’t drive or walk, so she’s fully depending on Tommy to take her out.
Ran so fast that I accidentally left the door open
Lmao!
😅
HA
Oh nooooooaur
It’s my fault.
Once she leaves watch Tommy ghost her
For sure
That’s the thing, she won’t leave. She never does.
we all knew she would find a reason to stay but blaming Rarity for it feels icky
Listen to Emily's voice. She is completely over this. I would bet you my house that Amberlynn bought all that stuff
I'd be pissed to if I moved in my boo for some belly jiggles but all they do is whale cryeen.
Can you imagine someone as toxic as emily having someone OUT TOXIC her??
@@lindyloohoo they are having a tox-off?
@@lindyloohoo it's poetry
@@baconbitz1066rain & petals eavesdropp - emily wants her to move 😔
I AM SO SHOCKED BY THIS, said literally no one.
No, those are the cheap $15 earrings they sell at TJ Maxx
I googled and could only find them on ebay 😂😂
The fact that Zach can turn 5 minutes into 23 is astounding. Peak content creator.
Agreed she seemed so happy with her mom in Oklahoma.
Seems she was making a little more progress, yes it wasn’t “much” for what people think her progress should’ve been but it was still progress and she “SEEMINGLY” was going more in the direction of becoming her own person and standing on her own , kinda. Like more than now is pretty much what I’m saying
@@nice1cool She thought she was in ‘a relationship’ with Erica that whole time. She has to have a gf or she would need to understand that she is not attractive in any way.
@ OH YEAHHH , I’m kinda new so please forgive me. You are 100% right dude she wasn’t even single then. l
@@nice1coolYou still made some really good points! Despite that weird relationship she had going on, she still was doing somewhat better. idk if it was the fact that she wasn’t physically with Erica or if it’s cause she was building a better relationship with her mother, but she was making some progress at least
@@IeatGhost Thank you and I struggle with a toxic relationship with someone and when we weren’t able to physically be together and would just text ( and see each other occasionally) I would progress but if we move in with each other, man the progress would stop dead in its tracks until we are apart again. So I think it’s both of the things you pointed out to be honest
Extended her stay, hasnt she been there for like 3 months already before rarity went missing? She has no intention of leaving shes just using rarity as an excuse
If she does go back i bet it will be just to pack her place up
@@Controversialopinions69look! I don’t have much faith but if she goes back to pack her apt and move to Wisconsin she is absolutely insane
@@Controversialopinions69 No way she did not plan this. You can't just spontaneously abandon your apartment, even if her mother has a key, taking care of a half-empty apartment is work and responsibility, too, nobody just "dumps" their apartment on someone if it's avoidable
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There is absolutely NO way those earrings didn't come from TJ Maxx or Marshall's. No way. Oh, and theyre $20 full price. SoooooooUH
Yep, I saw that brand today at tj maxx 😂
they're just gold plated silver earrings. Which is fine but nothing special
I don't believe she had plans to leave yet.
I assumed from the start that she was never going to leave.
@@BevityI can’t say forsure because I personally don’t know but some comments like last month or right when she got to Wisconsin, that her lease was up. So I’m confused if she was going to come back but didn’t renew her lease? So was she really planning to even come back ?( at least shortly after getting there) then why would she let her lease go ?
@@nice1cool It's very suspicious! Plus if it's true, she has nowhere to go back to, so it seems like she tied up the loose ends, packed up her pets and "visited" Tommy. Tommy had no idea she would be taking on this humongus burden permanently. Of course now that Amber is there, might as well have a good time feeding her up like a hog for market.
Just one thing that does drive me crazy- it is not abnormal to not have a collar for your cat. Since they climb they can hang themselves with their collar ESPECIALLY if they were to get out of the house. So just a microchip is pretty standard in terms of cat safety
I would agree with that. There are breakaway collars for cats but everytime I have put it on a cat (all inside cats btw) they have come off within a day with them just chilling around the house. So 🤷🏼♀️
I don’t have a collar for one of my dogs :( her neck is fat and every collar is either too big or too small (that we have tried). We take her out in a harness so for outside she doesnt need one. If she got out tho we would be in trouble. She does have a chip tho
Yes! Please consider the dangers that come with a collar, especially choking hazard. Even if the collars are labelled break-away they only break if the cat pulls in the right direction
(hard to explain, but if you want to try, just put ypur finger under the "buckle" and pull, it won't break.)
There might be advantages of having a collar (like more visibility in traffic) but I advice against them personally
I agree with this! It has been bothering me so much seeing so many people acting like not having your cat in a collar is neglect. And the microchip conversation is so irritating because it only helps if the cat makes it to a vet to have it checked! You can’t just track it like Life360. I’m not defending amber at all, because it’s not that hard to keep even an adventurous cat inside if you care. but I don’t like to make my kitties wear collars. And they are chipped but it won’t make it so I can track them down if they get out!
There’s really no reason for a cat to have a collar. If they get out a collar isn’t going to save them any more than a microchip would imo. I just can’t imagine being an indoor cat and having that thing around your neck your whole life 😬 idk call me a bad cat owner ig
I haven't watched all the way thru yet but,
She has always had complete control in her relationships...wifey, she lost a little. But all her other girls did what she said. She's having a problem with being in a relationship where her partner isn't going to quit her job or be available 27/7. This is what she's dealing with.
Yep. That's 100% why she's so frustrated and she's acting out like a spoiled toddler. Also, unalived her cat for it
Whoever said she'll do ANYTHING to stay - you were so effing right, holy hell
I wonder if Twinky or Wasabi are acting different since Rarity is gone? Most pets that live together can sense a difference or “aloneness” when the other’s missing. Poor babies😢 yes get them microchipped ASAP! She has the money!
As if she was planning to leave any time soon
Yeah cause she was already packed up and ready to leave then *POOF* Rarity's gone
Shore gorl 🙄
Anyone else think that Amberlynn is buying these "gifts" for herself?
I agree. I think Emily bought the Billie Elish thing but that’s about it
nah love bombing is emotional abuse 101
Like Zach, I don't typically like to read into all of the conspiracy theories. But suddenly saying you have to stay there *because* Rarity got lost makes it seem like you had motivation to create an excuse to stay there. Girliepop really can't help herself or think for two seconds to not make things worse for her.
ALR needs to be re careful, she is slipping into Chantel, Foodie Beauty, Everyday Mariam territory ….. her arguing about whether or not she had a filter was to close to her wrapping a Hijab on her head and having full on Rage videos. Once she goes down that rabbit hole, it’s going to be VERY hard to get out.
If Amber used to get mad when Becky would visit her mom or Destiny eating out with family, how in the world is she handling sharing Emily with her own child??? I just don’t see this working out considering Ambers personality.
The way I completely forgot Feeder Girlfriend has a kid 😳
She has a whole life apart from her weird fetish relationship, a child, and a job with co-workers, everything, I don't think Amberlynn can handle this
To be fair, she doesn't have custody so she's probably not that present in their life.
@@TheTinaBelcher I'm honestly relieved to hear that. Thanks for the info. I was worried.
You take care of your mental health, Zachary. I've been watching every video you post to help me cope with my grief from the passing of my fiancé. I love your videos, and your hair looks amazing!!
I’m so sorry 😢
I'm so sorry for your loss!
Oh my, I’m so sorry for your loss ❤
So sorry for your loss😢❤
Thank you all for your condolences... It's been a tough year.. 😞 💔
Does she even take them in for regular exams and vaccinations? Poor Rarity... I really hope someone found her and is taking care of her.
Nope.
I know that area pretty well, and it’s very likely someone picked her up before that storm, unless she’s hiding from ppl someone found her or she’s at the shelter n that shelter is fkn Amazing best I’ve ever seen
Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if one of the sweetheart workers there knew of this and took the cat in because ya know…amber 😂
She is showing that dog to quell any rumors that it attacked the cat (not that I believe it but it was a theory). Of course, she is reading the forums.
Amber: Rarity is at the forefront of my mind!
Amber: look at my earrings! (they cost $25 at TJMaxx, not on sale)
This girl lives at 5 below and she won't buy a hard plastic basket to hold her beauty supplies?
dollar tree has alot of basket options for 1.25$ USD!!
Draaaag her!
I’m loving the hair journey, bestie. The little flip in the beginning was so cute
I literally just commented how good their hair looks i love how long it is
Zach has enviably lovely hair ❤
A part of me thinks she let rarity out on purpose to have a reason to stay with Tommy.
No, in that case she would have let Wasabi out
Mia Fiore is at TJmaxx/ Marshall’s. These 18k gold PLATED earrings are usually like $14-$16. As someone who worked Jewelry at a TJmaxx. They’re just gold plated and have sterling silver underneath.
Amber obviously hasn’t ever heard the old saying “ Company is like fish because after three days they begin to stink.”😂😂😂😂😂
The hair is luminous bestie!
She could have spent the holidays with her family - this girl has been in a relationship for her entire adult life and it has only brought her pain. Get yourself a new plan girlie cause codependency is not workin’
fr i dont understand how she can leave her loving, caring, mother who she hasnt really spent a lot of time w, for a gf she met a month ago... thats just so disrespectful to her mother, who she has nothing but nice things to say abt (as of recent, since shes been sober). ALR talks abt how her BPD makes her obsess and get very attached too fast/deep, but she does nothing w that self awareness and it just fucking pisses me off cuz she obviously knows exactly what shes doing. it all feels like rage bait and like she just doesnt care abt her health anymore, its all just for the money and attention at this point. i miss the beck era so bad 😭 she didnt care then either but at least it was less depressing than this tommy BS
@@unseenmoleeshe hasn’t spent a lot of time with her mom because her mom chose to be a drug addict in prison instead of being a mom and being there. So……
I believe Amber used prerecorded content at first but because she’s been obsessively watching reaction channels she is mixing current content in with her prerecorded content because she is directly answering reaction channels.
We all called it , we knew
Lmaooo not Zachary being juggalo-curious 😂
Honestly tommy buying her five below crap is kinda a good gift because that’s what Amber buys/likes anyway 😂
Right lol she loves cheap junk
“WHO’S ARE THEY?!” has me on the floor 😭😭😭🤣
Ohhhhhhh 18k GOLD PLATED! Emily went ALL OUT!!! $9.99 at WalMart!😅
ok classist
@@MsSarah999lol
@@MsSarah999that’s the dumbest comment I’ve ever seen. That’s not even a thing
@@mayleendean521 omg, it so is a thing. And has been like ... Ummm, forever??
Jade's earrings were more expensive
The gold hoops were worn in a video before she Rec’d them - when she said she wasn’t a gold gal!
I thought this too
They’re different ones I checked
Ik people grieve different, but if my cat was missing I would never sit around playing legos, organizing a makeup bag and being giddy about small presents, nothing would matter to me until I found my MISSING BABY.
she wont go out of her way 🤷♀️ (day's too full eating and being sexy for tommy salami. no extra time for a lost baby.) lost is a good as dead to her. how harsh is that???
Same 😢💔 I wouldn't do vlogmas "to distract myself". I would put out little shelters for stray cats and food. Even if my own fur baby is gone I could at least help one without a home
Yes that’s exactly how I feel! It’s truly upsetting me
I would be more sympathetic if vlogmas showed more of what she is doing to find Rarity. Sure, Emily might be at work or whatever- but she could blog herself walking around the block (phone pointing down or self-recording on neutral place to avoid doxxing herself?), talking about checking this place or that because maybe Rarity could be there. Vlog herself going to the shelters if ever Emily drives her. Talk about how she's reached shelters or the community, asking about Rarity.
I understand if she wants to focus her vlogmas on more light-hearted topics. But when something like that happens, does it not impact your life enough to warrant being added into the vlog content? It feels odd to see her vlog these menial things when Rarity's still missing.
Maybe she's doing all of that off-camera, who knows (highly doubt it). I'm just in awe at how little she's letting us know, at least.
"OOPS Rarity is gone, GUESS I'M NOT GOING ANYWHERE".
Hmm. Ngl I’m starting to think she left that door open accidentally-on-purpose.
I think the wrong cat got out. I think she was hoping Wasabi took off because let's be honest - he's the least favorite child. But it was Rarity and now she's actually sad about losing a pet. But yes 💯 agree that she left that door open on purpose.
@@RyesCatcher poor little Wasabi, poor Twinkie star, and I hope Rarity pulls a miracle n adopts herself to a more loving home :[
This reminds me of her quitting wls and blaiming the end of her and Jade's relationship as if she hadn't already ended this journey before😭
10:35 definitely from TJ Maxx. I too buy my jewelry there 😂
Yup! I had those exact earrings. Definitely from tj
Gold plated is a thin lining of gold around whatever metal they put in there. Essentially worthless.
Does anyone else ever take the thermostat (?) above Po’s chair for a chip in their phone screen? I know it’s there and it still gets me occasionally.
Yes I always think it’s a drop of water or something on my screen 😂 Then I remember. Idk what it is but I assumed a door stopper.
The background is so uggo in general and could use a makeover
@@buckshot_honeymoonnot really not where I was going with my comment. As far as esthetics go I live by do what’s best for you and your family…. As long as it brings you joy….
Its not a thermostat it's the door stopper, so that the knob doesn't damage the wall.
Maybe Rarity knew the original going home date and when she decided to stay longer because they were having soooooo much fun she was like “nope Im going home with or without you”.
I don't know about y'all, but...
I AM SO SICK OF THIS LOST CAT SITUATION TYPE DEAL!!! 😫😫😫
I miss my cat so much... Look at the nice gift I got!
Not me wondering if the door wasn't left open by accident, and by whom, exactly .. 🤔 .. given the ultimate outcome was going to be her staying longer. 🤔
I have to defend ALR here. I also can not keep my makeup bag organized to save my life. Or anything else in my life for that matter lmao
“certificate of authenticity” according to who ?2?2? 😭ebay??1?
Amber says things like how good Tommy is for her, how happy Tommy makes her, look Tommy took her to a concert, Tommy searched for her missing cat, but when you’re an adult who actually knows what a happy relationship is like you recognize that what Amber is focused on is superficial.
After Tommy’s face reveal, Amber had a break down over it being revealed that Tommy is a feeder, and she was never able to prove otherwise. Alexis came out claiming that Amber was regularly crying over Tommy being hurtful and saying she wished she was unalive so she could be with her last girlfriend. Amber’s consistently crying online, blaming her audience for forming opinions on what she chooses to share about her life, and it’s all connected to Tommy.
If Ambers story around Rarity is to be believed, she’s been so miserable adjusting to Tommy’s schedule, waking up early in the morning, stressed about the rumors, she neglected to close the door after letting the dogs out, and Rarity went missing. And now she’s grieving over the loss.
Amber has spoken repeatedly on how bad her mental health is and how none of it is Tommy’s fault, and that Tommy makes her so happy, but everything around the environment Tommy creates makes her miserable. Constantly Defending Tommy, waking up early, waiting for Tommy to come home, mourning the loss of her cat, gaining weight, but Amber doesn’t connect the environment she’s in to her mental state.
We can recognize that Amber is being love bombed with gifts, and concert tickets, because it’s the same tactics she’s used in previous relationships. But she’s just gonna use this as proof of how loved she is by Tommy.
Amberlynn probably won’t go to a hairstylist bc shes worried about being able to fit into the chairs. I think thats pretty understandable bc I do remember there being a news story about a woman who opened a hair salon specifically catered to plus sized ppl
as someone who collects signed stuff from artists this autograph is almost surely fake
I miss Mama Lynn.
I hope she’s doing okay 😢
I CALLED IT
I think its extended because everyone has to literally stop what they're doing to drive her home!
I really wasn’t expecting an insane clown posse reference in this video 😂
i read this right when Zach was saying that 😁
zach the hair is GIVEEN
Soon she will show a new kitten or a pup "That emily gave me"!
Oh that soft gentle love 🥤😍
Sparity 🤩
Zach: this better not be fucking clickbait
Ron Howard (voiceover): it fucking was clickbait
Lol, i was just thinking about his voiceover in arrested development earlier this day 😂
Thank you for being a constant, hearing you talk helps me body double while working
I feel like i blacked out for a second. Why are we going thru the toiletries?
Also, your hair is looking amazing bestie. 💜💜
12:36 Milo's face is how we all feel about ALR
Hey! I’m from Australia and while I was in the US I got addicted to the ICP love line. If you would do a video explaining further, I would LOVE that! I need some background. I’m coming in back in March next year and I can’t wait!
I appreciate your positivity and humor even tho you're going thru a rough time. Just wanted to say I'm proud of you, Zach ❤
“I’ll take a gay answer” made me effing cackle.
The earrings are 1000% from TJ Maxx. Nothing wrong with TJ Maxx, but we don't need to pretend that Tommy is shoveling out fat stacks of cash for Amber or anything.
Listen, like she's not even buying random gifts no one needs on Amazon to give to people to make herself happy like she does every year. Shes not doing anything besides sitting in that house and eating. Not even going to target or doing torrid hauls or whatever. It's so depressing actually
your commentary & personality are the only reasons I keep up with Amber anymore. I hope you start feeling better soon. you are very loved & appreciated❤️
She do not care at all about the signed Billie poster lmfao
Thing is with pre-recorded content.. if she does find rarity will she post the videos she filmed previous to finding her? Or will she tell us right away? I fear the former.
Im here for whatever you want to put out for us Zach, no pressure bestie 💜
all of these advance christmas gifts are from one single black friday trip to a shopping center that had a ross, marshalls, and five below.
30 dollars is on the low range for jewlry. Earrigns, though, are a bit more expensive than bracelets and rings since they come in pairs. So bottom bottom tier, which I actually love will be around 5 dollars or less. You can wear it about 5 times before it fades.
Then there's the actual bottom range which is around $5-30, this is the jewelry you seen in target and are pretty good. At this point, pay attention to gold "plated," plated is just a thin layer of gold something. Its actually easy to get this jewlry from sales and clearance much cheaper. So if you're starting to collect fine jewlry...good place to start.
Then you get to mid range $50-200. In the mid range, you start to get pearls and stones like amethyst sapphire etc. This is also where the real carat gold comes in. Most birthstone and sentimental mall jewlery is in this range. You'll also see noticeable brands Kate Spade, Coach, etc. These days you can find some nice Tiffanny. And most independent jewelers are around this price point. My favorite is bisoulovely. This jewlry may not last forever, but will last for a very very long time if you take care of it. So it its very important to google and know your metals. You don't want a $10 bracelet for 60! (I'm looking at you pandora). That being said, you can find this for cheaper at TJ maxx, but again, there's a reason why it ended up there. Pay attention to the box thought. Idk, that's always worked for me. Amber's earring box looked cheap. See multiple holes, that's just there so that any random thing can fit. Jewlry that's worth getting at this price point will have a more stylized box.
After that comes the mid-tier jewelry part two. $200-1000. Fine metals, precious stones, and more runway brands like Moschino. But the quality of the metal is pure. No plated anything. Highschool class rings are a good example. Mass produced, yes but metals that are quality enough to last a life time. Speaking of mass produced, you'll find lab diamonds in this range. Unlike mid-range, this jewlry can bear weather, wear, and tear. You can put it in a cup of water for a year and it won't rust or decay like plated jewlry does. Personally, there's no need to buy anything beyond this point.
But the top teir, for normal people, is 1k-10k. There's a huge margin and you'll usually find wedding rings in this category. And anything above 10k is beyond my scope. Almost mythincal. Didn't mean for this comment to be so long, but Amber's jewlry looked to be worth $15 at the most but I wouldn't be surprised if Tommy paid a lot more for it. Again, the box. SInce it came in a box and not the little platic baggy says a lot. But the jewlry itself very bendy
And if anyone just happens to read this and interested in starting a jewlry collection, it is very easy to find $200 jewlry for $30. Its very easy to find $200 jewlry worth 30 dollars. So start with brand outlet shops. OH! Thrift stores, you would not believe how much pure gold and silver are thrown into a pile. Once you get used to discerning jewlry though, you'll find some great steals and i mean STEALS
The earrings are like $12-$18 at tjmaxx lmao I always buy that brand
14:36 😂 WHOSE AREEEEE THEY???
Yikes. This makes me sick to my stomach for real. If this whole situation wasn't intentional then the fact that she's being opportunistic with this devastating situation makes me feel like she never felt bad like she claimed. I truly think Amber can only mimic emotions and doesn't truly feel regret or remorse like the rest of us. She probably is only sad or anxious about her own image and giving the hayders a reason to worry for the pets.
Her crying over rarity feels so disingenuous
Has tommy not given her somewhere to put her crap?? It seems annoying having to search through it all just for eyeliner
@@ello_m8_734 that’s what I said! This is PROOF Emily doesn’t want her there full time, otherwise Amber would have a counter space or drawer
She has a whole bathroom to herself, as she showed (made a big point of) in an early WI video. Do you people pretend to forget pertinent facts just so you can make stuff up? Or are you really bad at remembering things that don’t fit your (all too commonly) unhinged narratives?
I lost my 15 year old Shih tzu Zac so I’m struggling too and feel your pain.
Is the reason she can’t separate the little gems and sort them out because her dexterity is just so bad because her weight is crushing her spine and affecting her nerves? Or is she that lazy? Could be both!😂
thats a real person you are talking about like that.
@@MsSarah999Excessive weight crushes joints and bones. It’s science.
my toiletries bag gets messed up constantly. i regularly use mine because i go stay at my boyfriends for a couple days every week. i try and keep it as organized as it was when it was packed but it never happens. i even have little bags that go in the big bag to try and organize it (and keep the bag clean because it’s easier to clean up any messes if my micelluar water pops open in the small bag vs the main bag) toiletries bags is for everything hair care, skin care, hygiene and makeup (last one is normally just in a smaller bag unless im planning on DOING my makeup then my whole kit comes with me 😅) but even though i try so hard it still has to be reorganized often
(although her having loose jewelry in there is wild because girliepop likes to buy things and there’s so many travel cases she could’ve bought for that) ((not a me thing because i wear my ring and that’s it 99%of the time))
not the letting your inner juggalo out 😂😂
Boom. I just commented on another video of yours that she clearly had a motive to “lose” Rarity. As long as the cat is missing in Wisconsin, she can’t leave and gets the added bonus of emotional support from Tommy/Emily during her “really hard time”. Crazy business
I hope all the animals do a reverse homeward bound and leave together to go find better homes
Idk about you guys, but if I had been through intense relationships in the public eye I wouldn’t be waddling head first into another one…especially one that everyone is warning me about more than ever. 🤷♀️
We called this! We knew she wasn't going back anytime soon because rarity is missing.
“I just hope he’s microchipped and has a collar” sent me
She was only supposed to stay for a week or 5 days if I remember correctly so it’s been extended way before Rairty left