I get bringing some bandaids, maybe one smaller pack (I'm prone to hurting myself accidently lol) but the way she acts like stores don't exist anywhere else in the world.
@@SamSabotagewell when you’re 500 lbs, can’t drive, are stuck home all day, and are too embarrassed to take an Uber alone, stores aren’t accessible like they are to the rest of us.
Not only that, but as an ACTUAL gamer, I'd be devastated and couldn't imagine not having my save files and access to all the stuff and time spent playing.
Amber is like a 14yr old who thinks their experience as a fan is completely unique. They over-explain their love for music like it's never been experienced before lmao
@@Peachyknn420this is exactly wtf i mean by her 24/7 acting like and having the mindset of a actual 15-18 year old😭 she’s EXTREMELY immature and STILL a “pick me”
She really reminds me of myself at 15 when I got tickets to my first major concert. It is absolutely ridiculous. All that money and she hasn't even done basic things like go to a concert. Such a waste of a life.
my beloved dog died suddenly almost a decade ago and my voice still cracks using the past tense for her, ALR using it so easily already for Rarity really rubs me the wrong way
Not to spread conspiracies but... Speaking about a missing person in the past tense is often mentioned by homicide detectives as reason for suspicion - it tends to imply that the individual knows more than they're claiming. Just sayin' 🤷🏼♀️
My completely unsubstantiated hypothesis is that she saw Rarity escape but was unable/unwilling to give chase. If true, her general sense of powerlessness in the situation may be enough to push a 'finality' narrative in her speech. Her bar for "nothing else can be done" is pitifully low. Again, zero evidence here - just a hunch based on her behavioral patterns. I'm a biologist, not a profiler lol
@@MamaCoastietrue, but then again why say you left the door open for twenty minutes knowing that’s not okay. If I was gonna lie I’d say I had the door open letting the dogs out and the cat ran out and escaped. That’s the way most cats who wanna go outside do it. It’s the most plausible situation.
She did that in the original missing video, several times. You just don't do that until you know they're gone forever. And the way she boohood like a whale and it had already been 2 whole days
Tbf she never said the new recommended therapist is in Wisconsin-my crazy theory is that Cindy actually is the friend that recommended her therapist to Amberlynn…. Which if I remember correctly, Cindy’s BPD therapist is in Colorado? (She does phone visits)
The problem with her pre-recorded content is that it is *so* behind. Even with the disclaimer people aren't happy seeing this because it's coming on the heels of losing Rarity. It's giving: "I've got y'all's attention so now I'm going to clickbait it into more views/engagement". It's just tacky.
It made me feel so so icky knowing ALR said “I’ve been going through so much and that’s why I left the door open” and then seeing this video where she’s just going on and on and on about how Amazing Tommy is and blah blah blah. HATED IT
At this point as someone that is around her size… I am wondering if she was slightly bed bound after the concert. Bc she was in a car for 6ish hours, walked from parking to her seat and back. That’s ALOT for her. Like ALOT ALOT and possibly stairs if it wasn’t handicapped or box seating
remember when emily needed to fundraise to buy airline tickets. now we're just going out buying concert tickets as if we just have money to throw around
Well said!!! Yes, the “proof” AmBiE said that Emily is definitely NOT a feeder because they (Emily and her partner RIP Coleen)had no money to see each other so they indulged in feeder content. Emily has a good job that pays well, a large house with a basement, vehicles and money to spend on entertainment while Amber is in town.
She also said Tommy paid for everything when she visited the first time, she put so much effort into telling us girl was paying bills to the say she had to do feeder content because they don't have money. Vile
As someone familiar with 12-step programs, in AA, alcoholism is sometimes referred to as an “allergy of the body.” Amber calling Emily’s alcohol abstinence an “allergy” is sus.
Yep, agree - not to mention 'antabuse' is a medicine given to people struggling with alcohol, that they 'cant' drink alcohol on, as it - purposively - makes you violently ill when you drink on it.
Plus, I can’t remember the name of the medication but some programmes use medication that makes you sick if you drink to put you off drinking. Where I live it’s usually if you’re court ordered to attend a programme then that’s the one they will put you in. Edit: just checked with a friend who works in recovery and the main one is Disulfiram as it produces “unpleasant” side effects if you drink.
Honestly, her getting help will never work because she will never be honest. She thinks she is the victim and she will never change her ways.. narcissists are their own worst enemy.
Amber doesn’t know the difference between therapist, psychologist, and psychiatrist. She is already starting to trip herself up with all these lies and misunderstandings. She thinks because she doesn’t know something that EVERYONE ELSE also doesn’t know it.
Someone pointed out that her makeup in the tommy rumor videos is the same as the makeup she does in this video. But the tommy rumors video was filmed the night Rarity was missing so if this is true shes disorienting the time-line.
@@ems3376 true especially after she click bated having cancer again amongst other things. To me it's just how stupid do you have to be to do the same make up as you did in your pre recorded video(if it is pre recorded) why would you want your audience to think otherwise. But never put anything past her I guess.
The Billie concert at the United Center was Nov 13-14. Rarity went missing around the 16th, seemingly. She just took the timeline and threw it in the trash. Just like always, who knows what the hell she's doing? 🤷♂️
I think she’s confusing BOD with bipolar disorder tbh. Thinking that she also has manic and depressive episodes. Which id argue that she does. However I don’t think she necessarily a mental illness like that. I think she has CPTSD from all the shit she’s been through and has never dealt with any of it (in a meaningful way) she’s 30 years old and weaponizes stuff that happened so long ago. Yes shitty things happen to all of us, and you don’t see us bringing it up and blaming everything on it every time something happen. She’s using BPD as a scapegoat for shitty behavior bc it’s “not her” it’s the “bpd”.
Do you guys agree that concerts are a very exhausting, yet lovely experience? Healthy and fit, it is still a long night for anyone I know. Not sure how she is going to manage at a concert, but ok. I mean, the walk to the facility from the parking area seems impossible for her condition.
Ew, creepy conspiracy theory--What if this is part of the feeder fetish? One of the things that feeders like is to see the person struggling. We did see some of this with the ladder and the truck situation. We see it a lot in the Eugenia content, she plays to the struggle aspects like with the beach equipment. Does Tommy want her to struggle to walk to the show?
Just wanted to say Thank you Zach xx Im currently in the hospital, getting induced to have my baby girl early. Its been pretty scary but your videos have been such a comfort. Your channel has become my safe space ❤
Regular ppl: -go to work - school or study work -working out -meal prep/cook - Care for others or pets - often multitask doing all of these things ALR: "uuu gaizzze I have to eat chic fil, And record myself doing my makeup. I'm soooo busy!" 🥴🥴🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
why would she expose herself like this lmao (aka obv she could not stand the idea of letting her cat's death get in the way of her billie concert & content)
@@neonstarlingand could walk around the arcade all night playing games and dancing… but is too lazy to walk back to the door to let the dogs in so she just left it open.
Right?! Imagine doing something actually fun and interesting and just making a video talking about how you are doing this fun thing... in the most boring way possible.
I’m still praying she found a new better home. The only thing that sucks is we don’t know but I hope that baby girl has some good years ahead of her in a loving home.
this rat needs to stop adopting animals if she’s literally careless enough to lose them as winter is starting. i cannot begin to understand the idiocy it takes to let a cat slip out…it is literally your only responsibility to keep them INSIDE
In AA sometimes they describe alcoholism as an “allergy” to alcohol in that the body has a unique reaction in response to alcohol in comparison to others. I wonder if that’s what Amber was talking around.
I've been sober 8 years and I remember being told once, if anyone asks you why you don't drink and you don't want to say I'm an alcoholic, just say you're allergic to alcohol. Maybe that's what's going on here....
The usage of past tense irks me. Like a lot. When I grandpa died I had a hard time adjusting to referring to him in the past tense for a while. She does know that Rarity is gone. She may very well come back or be alive in someone else's home. It's very Chris Watts/Scott Peterson. If one of my animals ran away, I'd still hold on hope and couldn't refer to them in the past tense for months. The odds are poor but ffs, Rarity hasn't been gone for even a week. WTF. I don't *think* she let Rarity out on purpose, but how can you leave a door open for 20 minutes (who does that) and act shocked that your cat escaped. That's like leaving your stove on and being shocked your house burnt down. I live in MN, near WI. That cat is going to be freezing or prey. She's either so stupid that she doesn't understand the dangers of what she did or she's just so selfish that she doesn't care.
@@lydiaj7492 Regardless of what really happened, the fact that I am not sure if this was an accident says something about her character. I can only judge her on the content she chooses to put out there, and how she presents herself is as a horrible pet owner. If Tommy suggested she go home, I wouldn't put it past ALR to create a crisis. I'm not saying that's what happened but . . . she did post a thirst trap on the day her cat left. I want to believe the best in people but I just can't.
I sometimes refer to people in the past in a way that makes it seem like they're not alive anymore because l'm talking about events in the past and I have to catch myself and say 'they're alive'. Idk, I think it could be a sign with her, or just the way she talks.
The way she speaks about therapy makes my eye twitch. I studied psych in undergrad, I'm in my last year of my MSW, and I've had my own mental health journey. The lack of research she does just so that she can be disappointed and seek pity is beyond irritating. Been there, but I was a decade plus younger. Also Amber, DBT is not the only type of therapy for BPD and frankly, you do not have the discipline to use it (coming from someone who uses it with clients).
Exactly!! It also annoys me that the reason finding mental health counseling is so frustrating is bc of all the phone calls you have to do (during business hours, so when normal people are working, but amber isn’t) and then the time to make the appointment (amber has nothing but free time and an open schedule) and the money (she has enough of) she could have a different therapist for every day of the week if she sought it out.
@@maddiejake1459 I included it to state that I have experience and education, not because I want a pat on the back. No, this is not about me, but it is my educated opinion. Thanks 😊
Why wouldn’t she just ask her Mom or multiple “friends” in Oklahoma to just mail her switch to her. Like bish it’s like running out of gas and being like I need to get a new car?!??!?!
The Billie concert has been sold out a long time, since pretty much before they became a couple. And there's no way Amber could walk all those stairs or fit in those seats. I'm suspicious...
allergies can randomly come up, i’ve recently started having allergic reactions to berries and cherries. i’m 26 and never had an issue with those things before.
Is it though? I love my pets more than anything and would absolutely do everything I could to find them if they somehow got lost, but like be serious. Lost pets are dead pets.
@ yes it is. if my pets ran away i’d be hoping against hope that they were still alive and wouldn’t be referring to them as past tense as if they’ve already passed immediately. lost pets are not inherently dead pets, certainly not at least within the first 24-48 hours.
Upon reading the comments and as someone around her size…. I believe she was almost bed bound post concert due to over exertion and that’s why the door was “left cracked open” so the dogs can go in and out at their own pass. I do have concerns about Tommy possibly using this concert as a way to get off on her having extremely limited mobility afterwards.
united center has a bunch of wheelchair seating locations. i’m guessing that they used a wheelchair that fit amberlynn and parked it at one of those spots. the united center website specifies that tickets for wheelchair users + a companion are available. i think this is the only way that amber could have fit
@@sarahd1250that’s so nit picky. My mom lives in a different state and has a full time job with hours that change every week. I always text her before I call in case she’s working, showering, cooking whatever. I’m all for snarking but you’re just being a bitter Betty now
It's so sad because she has the money, the time, and the youth to travel all over the world to all the concerts she wants to. Instead she's so shocked to be able to do anything besides sit at home. And we all know why that is
Ain’t no way she went to that show. Stadium seats have armrests that can’t be moved, and they’re usually pretty small. There is no logistical way she could actually have gone.
@@leorising8074 This is true, but that means she would have had to rent a wheelchair and I don’t know if Amber would do that. Guess we’ll find out and see if she actually went!
Got me wishing for a script penned by Emily.. listening to her speak is brain rot. She just says the same 3 or 4 things 18 ways, rearranging the words slightly. Get to the damn point girl. 20 minutes to say 'I'm so excited, my girlfriend got me tickets to my favorite artist after I thought I wouldn't be able to get any.'
I think it was Bottle clipped in her saying she would never go to Chicago. I guess it’s the same as one of the places she would never move is Wisconsin. She probably dragged the concert out for at least 5 videos. Isn’t that how many she dragged her packing for?
With her videos being out of order, date wise, I won't be suprised if now she has to put off pursuing therapy while looking for rarity.🙃 (aka whether rarity is actually missing or not, it will be used as her next excuse).
In fairness to Amber/Tommy, allergies can show up randomly. My dad developed an allergy to shellfish in his 40s after a lifetime of loving shellfish. Still not sure it’s an allergy for Tommy though
I’ve made a few comments, but I just have to keep putting it out there that I wonder if Cindy gave Amberlynn her therapist’s contact info…. Cindy’s therapist specializes in BPD and obviously does remote visits. The way Amberlynn gushed about “if you’re watching, you’re soooo sweet I love you” is how she would speak about another UA-camr friend….
🪑 Wait … so the BILLIE EILISH concert in Chicago already happened and our Zachary Marie didn’t get a armless floor seat next to Ambi so he could have discussed with her who was “taking care” of the pets back home in Wisconsin?
in the initial video about rarity getting out she was already talking in past tense too. saying she 'was' my everything like.. she went missing 2 days ago, is she not STILL your everything????? it was weird, she did it again in that vid as well I don't trust her and I think that 1. Rarity might be fine and this is to get heat off Tommy, have Tommy magically find the cat or smthng and so she's messing up her words bc it's a fake situation. or 2. Rarity is deceased and Amber doesn't want her or Tommy blamed so she just mysteriously disappeared into the Ether and no one will ever know in ALR's mind, but she messes up her words for the role she's supposed to be playing. Animals do get out but the so soon past tense repetitively is weird. Watch her address that next liek she was so "STRESSED" she said the wrong thing
Why do I feel like Tommy is the one who let Rarity go? It explains why she felt the need to talk about how much Tommy loved her. You “have a lot going on” so you leave the door open? No. Such a lie.
Amber: finds out she’s going to Chicago
Zach, instinctively: I gotta temporarily get out of this town, I feel it in my bones.
she's such a gamer girl that she packed a hosptal's worth of bandaids but NOT her switch. make it make sense
ur lps pfp is so amazing omg
it’s bc her layg is leaky
Beck’s fault.
I get bringing some bandaids, maybe one smaller pack (I'm prone to hurting myself accidently lol) but the way she acts like stores don't exist anywhere else in the world.
@@SamSabotagewell when you’re 500 lbs, can’t drive, are stuck home all day, and are too embarrassed to take an Uber alone, stores aren’t accessible like they are to the rest of us.
Zachary got that, 'Im breathing your air' text from Amber🤣
LMAO
😂😂😂
Nooooooo 😂
Her mom could mail her the switch vs paying for an entire new one 🤦♀️
Queen of wasting money , not just wasting away.
Thinking is lost on her
Not only that, but as an ACTUAL gamer, I'd be devastated and couldn't imagine not having my save files and access to all the stuff and time spent playing.
She is a wasteful, over-consumer. Why in the world would she do the most logical thing?
No truer words have been spoken in Gorl World than: "I wish the hardest decision in my day was where to put the fake gems on my face."
Amber is like a 14yr old who thinks their experience as a fan is completely unique. They over-explain their love for music like it's never been experienced before lmao
lol you are so right. She acted like seeing a viral Billie eilish video was a sign from god
@@Peachyknn420this is exactly wtf i mean by her 24/7 acting like and having the mindset of a actual 15-18 year old😭 she’s EXTREMELY immature and STILL a “pick me”
We shall feel sympathetic for her - what was the other big events on her life? I guess none of it for the past years...
Not amber pretending billie eilish was some small time underground indie artist she discovered before it was cool 😂
She liked her music before she even know who she was!! 😂
To be fair, Billie was TikTok famous for like 2 years before any mentally stable grown up had heard of her 😂
Zachs glowing shiny hair is giving Finn from Adventure Time lol
Omfg that's so accurate! Hahaha
The blond is such a beautiful tint. It looks great! I love it
This is spot on! Love it.
What a shiny blonde beauty 😍
😂😂😂
It's the most normal thing in the world for your partner to buy concert tickets. It's exciting yes but the way ALR drags this story out is mortifying
She will drag it out the next 5 videos
She’s so immature. I use to do the same thing. Difference is I was 15 and not in my 30s 😂
Love how she also had to mention how much she deserved the tickets lol
I wouldn't buy Amber tickets, because I don't think she can walk all those stairs and fit in the seats.
She really reminds me of myself at 15 when I got tickets to my first major concert. It is absolutely ridiculous. All that money and she hasn't even done basic things like go to a concert. Such a waste of a life.
my beloved dog died suddenly almost a decade ago and my voice still cracks using the past tense for her, ALR using it so easily already for Rarity really rubs me the wrong way
Not to spread conspiracies but...
Speaking about a missing person in the past tense is often mentioned by homicide detectives as reason for suspicion - it tends to imply that the individual knows more than they're claiming. Just sayin' 🤷🏼♀️
I lost my kitty in 2016. I still refer to him like he's still here❤ he is tattooed on me after all
maybe rarity ate the gemstones she spilled and well... 🥺
My completely unsubstantiated hypothesis is that she saw Rarity escape but was unable/unwilling to give chase.
If true, her general sense of powerlessness in the situation may be enough to push a 'finality' narrative in her speech. Her bar for "nothing else can be done" is pitifully low.
Again, zero evidence here - just a hunch based on her behavioral patterns. I'm a biologist, not a profiler lol
@@MamaCoastietrue, but then again why say you left the door open for twenty minutes knowing that’s not okay. If I was gonna lie I’d say I had the door open letting the dogs out and the cat ran out and escaped. That’s the way most cats who wanna go outside do it. It’s the most plausible situation.
The past tense when talking about Rarity is just heartbreaking.
She did that in the original missing video, several times. You just don't do that until you know they're gone forever. And the way she boohood like a whale and it had already been 2 whole days
She has decided Rarity is ⚰️
Sooo fkked up. I would never give up. She’s a waste of air
I hope Rarity is ok
She's a gamer but used to make fun of Krystal for gaming
And don’t forget when Becky set up her own room and was gaming all day and amber was being condescending about it lol.
"im a gamer girl"
-plays candy crush
Someone on Johns channel was questioning why she's looking for therapists in Wisconsin, if she hasn't planned an extended(read: permanent) stay.
great point!
She isn't looking for a therapist. She just likes to say things
Prob online therapy
@@shereenajimy6208 So nothing that will help someone like her lol
Tbf she never said the new recommended therapist is in Wisconsin-my crazy theory is that Cindy actually is the friend that recommended her therapist to Amberlynn…. Which if I remember correctly, Cindy’s BPD therapist is in Colorado? (She does phone visits)
the way she purchased a fan to bring to Wisconsin but didn't bring her switch??
lol right lmaooooo 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It's called PrIoRItIeS, Gorl...😒
~Ambie probably
She’s a gamer gorl 🎮
The problem with her pre-recorded content is that it is *so* behind. Even with the disclaimer people aren't happy seeing this because it's coming on the heels of losing Rarity. It's giving: "I've got y'all's attention so now I'm going to clickbait it into more views/engagement". It's just tacky.
That's ALR for you
ALR is tacky so that’s on par with her brand.
It's giving but don't you like the red couch
TACKY
The Chicago concert was 7-8 days ago.
She has thrown the entire timeline out of whack like an episode of Loki.
@@xghoulishgalxher plan to make it look like she’s going to a concert instead of look for her lost cat? i don’t doubt it alrs logic is nonexistent
It made me feel so so icky knowing ALR said “I’ve been going through so much and that’s why I left the door open” and then seeing this video where she’s just going on and on and on about how Amazing Tommy is and blah blah blah. HATED IT
Basically blaming the audience for making her feel bad which made her leave the door open.🙄
At this point as someone that is around her size… I am wondering if she was slightly bed bound after the concert. Bc she was in a car for 6ish hours, walked from parking to her seat and back. That’s ALOT for her. Like ALOT ALOT and possibly stairs if it wasn’t handicapped or box seating
remember when emily needed to fundraise to buy airline tickets. now we're just going out buying concert tickets as if we just have money to throw around
Well said!!! Yes, the “proof” AmBiE said that Emily is definitely NOT a feeder because they (Emily and her partner RIP Coleen)had no money to see each other so they indulged in feeder content. Emily has a good job that pays well, a large house with a basement, vehicles and money to spend on entertainment while Amber is in town.
Her and Amber making that $$ doing feeder content on the DL
She also said Tommy paid for everything when she visited the first time, she put so much effort into telling us girl was paying bills to the say she had to do feeder content because they don't have money. Vile
@@marlyd exactly
Not to mention the posts Emily wrote stating that she and Coleen had no desire to sell such content. 🫤
As someone familiar with 12-step programs, in AA, alcoholism is sometimes referred to as an “allergy of the body.” Amber calling Emily’s alcohol abstinence an “allergy” is sus.
Same. The language she used made me think of that passage in the Big Book.
Interesting, never heard it but it's definitely a good analogy
Yep, agree - not to mention 'antabuse' is a medicine given to people struggling with alcohol, that they 'cant' drink alcohol on, as it - purposively - makes you violently ill when you drink on it.
Plus, I can’t remember the name of the medication but some programmes use medication that makes you sick if you drink to put you off drinking. Where I live it’s usually if you’re court ordered to attend a programme then that’s the one they will put you in.
Edit: just checked with a friend who works in recovery and the main one is Disulfiram as it produces “unpleasant” side effects if you drink.
Was thinking exact same thing !
Honestly, her getting help will never work because she will never be honest. She thinks she is the victim and she will never change her ways.. narcissists are their own worst enemy.
Therapists with any decree of training will be able to see thru that instantly
Amber doesn’t know the difference between therapist, psychologist, and psychiatrist. She is already starting to trip herself up with all these lies and misunderstandings. She thinks because she doesn’t know something that EVERYONE ELSE also doesn’t know it.
She "found a dude." Good grief! 🙄
Someone pointed out that her makeup in the tommy rumor videos is the same as the makeup she does in this video. But the tommy rumors video was filmed the night Rarity was missing so if this is true shes disorienting the time-line.
I'm deeply skeptical about what she's putting out there, She's so unreliable
@@ems3376 true especially after she click bated having cancer again amongst other things. To me it's just how stupid do you have to be to do the same make up as you did in your pre recorded video(if it is pre recorded) why would you want your audience to think otherwise. But never put anything past her I guess.
The Billie concert at the United Center was Nov 13-14. Rarity went missing around the 16th, seemingly.
She just took the timeline and threw it in the trash. Just like always, who knows what the hell she's doing? 🤷♂️
Honestly, she's disorienting her damn audience as well.
Is it possible she didn’t take her makeup off for almost two days though? I think that sounds plausible for her lol…
OK, so "Tommy" purchased two tickets for a concert. What is so incredible in that? You just need to spend money.
She was impressed by a magnifying hotel mirror from 2002. She's easy
I very vividly remember amber saying she would never want to go to chicago like a year or two ago… so this “it’s always been a dreeeeeam” is some bs
she said it multiple times lol. apathetic fax shows clips in their video
ppl were saying she said the word “genuinely” too much but the amount of times she said “like” while trying to tell the story IS INSANEEEEE 😭
To be fair, Zach says “like” just as much. It must be a millennial thing.
The drawn-out description of the conversation made me craaazy 😮
@@octobermoon3959 me too.
@@shelwhitfield1905 oh i say it too!! but it was at the beginning at every word i felt like i was going crazy cause she wouldn’t get to the point😭
proving my own point by using it in my reply LOLLL we are cursed
Imagine moving in with a feeder after 3 months of knowing her. It’s giving desperate.
seasonal BPD might make an appearance in the DSM-6, thanks for your contribution to science, amberlynn reid
lol 🎉
It's the hybrid disorder we didn't know we needed!😂
😂
I think she’s confusing BOD with bipolar disorder tbh. Thinking that she also has manic and depressive episodes. Which id argue that she does. However I don’t think she necessarily a mental illness like that. I think she has CPTSD from all the shit she’s been through and has never dealt with any of it (in a meaningful way) she’s 30 years old and weaponizes stuff that happened so long ago. Yes shitty things happen to all of us, and you don’t see us bringing it up and blaming everything on it every time something happen. She’s using BPD as a scapegoat for shitty behavior bc it’s “not her” it’s the “bpd”.
Do you guys agree that concerts are a very exhausting, yet lovely experience? Healthy and fit, it is still a long night for anyone I know. Not sure how she is going to manage at a concert, but ok. I mean, the walk to the facility from the parking area seems impossible for her condition.
I'm a third of her size and concerts are still rough. There's no way she can manage standing for hours.
Hmm no, not at all 🤷♀ Speaking as a person sticking to barrier in front of a scene.
Ew, creepy conspiracy theory--What if this is part of the feeder fetish? One of the things that feeders like is to see the person struggling. We did see some of this with the ladder and the truck situation. We see it a lot in the Eugenia content, she plays to the struggle aspects like with the beach equipment. Does Tommy want her to struggle to walk to the show?
Not really but I get why people would find it tiring. It's not a lot of socialising so that makes it easier for me
Wdym? She has stamina. 😤
Just wanted to say Thank you Zach xx Im currently in the hospital, getting induced to have my baby girl early. Its been pretty scary but your videos have been such a comfort. Your channel has become my safe space ❤
You got this, Mama!!! 🎉❤ and congrats!!!
I watched ZM when I got induced at 36 weeks. Hugs to you ❤️❤️❤️
congratulations! i hope everything goes well. :)
How exciting ❤
Congratulations on your baby girl!! Another one added to the Haydur army!😂
oh boy we're continuing the "li-LEEDLE LEEDLE LEEDLE LEE"-terally"
Regular ppl:
-go to work
- school or study work
-working out
-meal prep/cook
- Care for others or pets
- often multitask doing all of these things
ALR: "uuu gaizzze I have to eat chic fil, And record myself doing my makeup. I'm soooo busy!" 🥴🥴🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
This is what she was referring to when she said she was going through a lot
She can go see Billie Eilish but she can’t go out and look for Rarity???
wait yeah tf
why would she expose herself like this lmao (aka obv she could not stand the idea of letting her cat's death get in the way of her billie concert & content)
she can go barhopping, too, at least before emily suddenly became allergic to alcohol
@@neonstarlingand could walk around the arcade all night playing games and dancing… but is too lazy to walk back to the door to let the dogs in so she just left it open.
Finding a good therapist can be hard but amber had nothing but time and money to find one and see them.
Okay we’re getting back to back to back content. I’m here for it
Edit: welp that vlog was a nothing sandwich
Right?! Imagine doing something actually fun and interesting and just making a video talking about how you are doing this fun thing... in the most boring way possible.
Can we please start saying “Is this about Bora Bora?” 😂
Tommy supposedly exploited her ex partner for money so they could 'see eachother'. But Tommy also has scalped Billie Eilish ticket money?
Exactly
but...rarity though 🥺😭😭😭
Getting a new kitten named Billie. Rarity is with Gracie now.
I’m so sad about it
Here's hoping Rarity was taken in by a good person and is living a better life.
I’m still praying she found a new better home. The only thing that sucks is we don’t know but I hope that baby girl has some good years ahead of her in a loving home.
this rat needs to stop adopting animals if she’s literally careless enough to lose them as winter is starting. i cannot begin to understand the idiocy it takes to let a cat slip out…it is literally your only responsibility to keep them INSIDE
Gorl, ALR was in your city…did chills run down your spine?!
Is anybody else sick to death of hearing “my BPD”. SHUT UP.
In AA sometimes they describe alcoholism as an “allergy” to alcohol in that the body has a unique reaction in response to alcohol in comparison to others. I wonder if that’s what Amber was talking around.
I've been sober 8 years and I remember being told once, if anyone asks you why you don't drink and you don't want to say I'm an alcoholic, just say you're allergic to alcohol. Maybe that's what's going on here....
The usage of past tense irks me. Like a lot.
When I grandpa died I had a hard time adjusting to referring to him in the past tense for a while. She does know that Rarity is gone. She may very well come back or be alive in someone else's home. It's very Chris Watts/Scott Peterson. If one of my animals ran away, I'd still hold on hope and couldn't refer to them in the past tense for months. The odds are poor but ffs, Rarity hasn't been gone for even a week. WTF.
I don't *think* she let Rarity out on purpose, but how can you leave a door open for 20 minutes (who does that) and act shocked that your cat escaped. That's like leaving your stove on and being shocked your house burnt down. I live in MN, near WI. That cat is going to be freezing or prey. She's either so stupid that she doesn't understand the dangers of what she did or she's just so selfish that she doesn't care.
I think it was an "accidentally on purpose" type deal
@@lydiaj7492 Regardless of what really happened, the fact that I am not sure if this was an accident says something about her character. I can only judge her on the content she chooses to put out there, and how she presents herself is as a horrible pet owner.
If Tommy suggested she go home, I wouldn't put it past ALR to create a crisis. I'm not saying that's what happened but . . . she did post a thirst trap on the day her cat left. I want to believe the best in people but I just can't.
@@ems3376🙄
@@AngelaGarlinger On the off chance, heya, Amber!
I sometimes refer to people in the past in a way that makes it seem like they're not alive anymore because l'm talking about events in the past and I have to catch myself and say 'they're alive'. Idk, I think it could be a sign with her, or just the way she talks.
Zach, you saying 'it's so hard to be amberwynn weed' absolutely sent me
Her story telling is so awful. That's why I laugh every time she says she is a writer. She has such a limited vocabulary.
The same with Chantal. She claims to be an English Major yet she can’t string together a coherent sentence lol.
In AA, we say our alcoholism is like an allergic reaction…”we can never safely use alcohol in any form.”
Zach's face when Amber would NOT stop filling up every second with Eilish gushing...😂😂😂
I hope mama Lynn has watered that one snake plant she was so excited about having
The way she speaks about therapy makes my eye twitch. I studied psych in undergrad, I'm in my last year of my MSW, and I've had my own mental health journey. The lack of research she does just so that she can be disappointed and seek pity is beyond irritating. Been there, but I was a decade plus younger.
Also Amber, DBT is not the only type of therapy for BPD and frankly, you do not have the discipline to use it (coming from someone who uses it with clients).
Exactly!! It also annoys me that the reason finding mental health counseling is so frustrating is bc of all the phone calls you have to do (during business hours, so when normal people are working, but amber isn’t) and then the time to make the appointment (amber has nothing but free time and an open schedule) and the money (she has enough of) she could have a different therapist for every day of the week if she sought it out.
I was thinking that too. I did DBT and it was incredibly intensive. I hope I’m wrong but I honestly don’t see Amber actually using the skills.
I wish people could comment without power leveling. Nobody cares that you have a masters. This is not about you
@@maddiejake1459 I included it to state that I have experience and education, not because I want a pat on the back. No, this is not about me, but it is my educated opinion. Thanks 😊
@ I think it’s relevant. There’s this thing called ethos, look it up.
Why wouldn’t she just ask her Mom or multiple “friends” in Oklahoma to just mail her switch to her. Like bish it’s like running out of gas and being like I need to get a new car?!??!?!
Her tenses are always muddled
The Billie concert has been sold out a long time, since pretty much before they became a couple. And there's no way Amber could walk all those stairs or fit in those seats. I'm suspicious...
not to play devil's advocate too much but ebay and scalpers do exist, is it possible emily bought the tickets second hand?
is she paying rent for an empty apartment rn
her switch is living lavish
It’s possible her lease was up. She moved about a year ago 🤷
I doubt it. I feel like her lease or rental agreement has ended. There's no way lmao
As a former alcoholic could Tommy be taking Antabuse? Makes you have an “allergic” reaction so that you don’t want to drink
Most doctors don't prescribe that anymore, as there are better alternatives now and it's seen as unethical
allergies can randomly come up, i’ve recently started having allergic reactions to berries and cherries. i’m 26 and never had an issue with those things before.
she’s been referring to rarity in past tense since she announced it tbh and it’s always struck me as odd
Is it though? I love my pets more than anything and would absolutely do everything I could to find them if they somehow got lost, but like be serious. Lost pets are dead pets.
@ yes it is. if my pets ran away i’d be hoping against hope that they were still alive and wouldn’t be referring to them as past tense as if they’ve already passed immediately. lost pets are not inherently dead pets, certainly not at least within the first 24-48 hours.
She literally drinks alone in her closet.
*leeeederully
Upon reading the comments and as someone around her size…. I believe she was almost bed bound post concert due to over exertion and that’s why the door was “left cracked open” so the dogs can go in and out at their own pass. I do have concerns about Tommy possibly using this concert as a way to get off on her having extremely limited mobility afterwards.
Definitely possible and I didn't even think of that!
counsiltation is taking me the fuck out lmfao
*council-tation 🤪✨
Loving the haaaaiiirrr bestie
It’s beautiful. I do wish ZM would try a golden blonde. Maybe an ash blonde for winter.
Alas, two ships passing in the night!
united center has a bunch of wheelchair seating locations. i’m guessing that they used a wheelchair that fit amberlynn and parked it at one of those spots. the united center website specifies that tickets for wheelchair users + a companion are available. i think this is the only way that amber could have fit
I feel like her telling her mom didn't happen.
Right, who texts their mom and asks if they can call. That’s your mom, moms know that their kid can call at any time.
Especially Cus she said how many times they never call, only text. But now they are calling? Gorl, we know you only talk through Facebook comments
@@sarahd1250that’s so nit picky. My mom lives in a different state and has a full time job with hours that change every week. I always text her before I call in case she’s working, showering, cooking whatever. I’m all for snarking but you’re just being a bitter Betty now
@@maddiejake1459‼️‼️
Kills me that the one time ALR goes to Chicago Zach isn't there 😂😂😂
It's so sad because she has the money, the time, and the youth to travel all over the world to all the concerts she wants to. Instead she's so shocked to be able to do anything besides sit at home. And we all know why that is
Thanks, Zach. I really hope you feel better. Wishing you relief from the depression issues as well ❤
I wonder how many chairs she had to sit on at the concert.
Ain’t no way she went to that show. Stadium seats have armrests that can’t be moved, and they’re usually pretty small. There is no logistical way she could actually have gone.
@@BrigadeOfOctopiwell, most concert venues have handicapped and wheelchair sections
@@leorising8074 This is true, but that means she would have had to rent a wheelchair and I don’t know if Amber would do that. Guess we’ll find out and see if she actually went!
@@leorising8074 gluttony isn't a handicap.
2 Chairs Lynn 🪑
5:28 you doing the "blahblahblahblah" and it sounding like clucking sounds is hilarious to me 🐔🐔
I guess tommy is writing all the scripts now 😂
Hey Zach, hey gworls 🦕
Zach leaving Chicago staring at Amber while she's entering Chicago like the scene/meme from Umbrella Academy
Why is Amber acting like she doesn’t know seatgeek is a thing? She 100% could’ve gotten tickets for her and her mom. 😅
Miss Beepydee Lynn
So she’s just gonna restart all of her games too??? I’m so confused. I’d be so upset if I ever had to replace my switch
Back in 2020 I started animal crossing on my girlfriends switch then a year later got my own. Still devastated over the loss 😂😢😢😢😢😂
Omg why did her talking about Bill Eyelash feel like 3 hours of Peanuts adults “wah wah wah wah wah”
eating and doing your makeup at the same time is absurd esp bc i know she can plow through that chik fil a so fast, i love the way her mind works
And she won’t wash her hands between eating and touching her face/makeup 😭
No one else gonna realise this is her way of slowly getting back into mukbangs?
Got me wishing for a script penned by Emily.. listening to her speak is brain rot. She just says the same 3 or 4 things 18 ways, rearranging the words slightly. Get to the damn point girl. 20 minutes to say 'I'm so excited, my girlfriend got me tickets to my favorite artist after I thought I wouldn't be able to get any.'
I think it was Bottle clipped in her saying she would never go to Chicago. I guess it’s the same as one of the places she would never move is Wisconsin.
She probably dragged the concert out for at least 5 videos. Isn’t that how many she dragged her packing for?
The thought of eating with my hands while doing my makeup is so gross to me 🥲😭
And talking with mouth full. I’m no crazy hygiene hustler, but I have a bit of an ick for grimy hands and face
With her videos being out of order, date wise, I won't be suprised if now she has to put off pursuing therapy while looking for rarity.🙃 (aka whether rarity is actually missing or not, it will be used as her next excuse).
This is a reason to stay in Wisconsin She can’t move home cause she will lose her therapist.
Surprised Amber didn’t buy Zach’s number online so she could text them that she was in Chicago 🤭
her eating and filming and doing makeup at the same time is giving when you see your parents pull in the driveway and you havent done your chores.
zach I absolutely love your hair long like that !!
Some salons should collab with Zac for his milky lustrous hair ❤❤❤
“I think about it all the time” I see what you did there Zach
right!!! i got it too 🤭
I wonder if she thinks she can't eat because she genuinely doesn't know there are concessions at stadiums? She's never been to any event before so
In fairness to Amber/Tommy, allergies can show up randomly. My dad developed an allergy to shellfish in his 40s after a lifetime of loving shellfish. Still not sure it’s an allergy for Tommy though
Once again, nobody has ever seen Zach and Tommy in the same place at the same time 🤔
Well, she did it. She reached her biggest dream. I guess it’s all downhill from here 🙃
Maybe next she’s go to bora bora and Tommy will get amber two seats and Tommy will be squished between her and the window lol
I’ve made a few comments, but I just have to keep putting it out there that I wonder if Cindy gave Amberlynn her therapist’s contact info…. Cindy’s therapist specializes in BPD and obviously does remote visits. The way Amberlynn gushed about “if you’re watching, you’re soooo sweet I love you” is how she would speak about another UA-camr friend….
Seeing where her mind was at before she lost her cat is surreal
🪑 Wait … so the BILLIE EILISH concert in Chicago already happened and our Zachary Marie didn’t get a armless floor seat next to Ambi so he could have discussed with her who was “taking care” of the pets back home in Wisconsin?
She has been talking about rarity in past tense so much even in the crying video it makes me suspicious.
in the initial video about rarity getting out she was already talking in past tense too. saying she 'was' my everything like.. she went missing 2 days ago, is she not STILL your everything????? it was weird, she did it again in that vid as well
I don't trust her and I think that 1. Rarity might be fine and this is to get heat off Tommy, have Tommy magically find the cat or smthng and so she's messing up her words bc it's a fake situation. or 2. Rarity is deceased and Amber doesn't want her or Tommy blamed so she just mysteriously disappeared into the Ether and no one will ever know in ALR's mind, but she messes up her words for the role she's supposed to be playing.
Animals do get out but the so soon past tense repetitively is weird. Watch her address that next liek she was so "STRESSED" she said the wrong thing
21:20 "I've got diamonds in a jar; you guys! They're blood diamonds, totally from an African, situation type deal."
Zach is your straw upside down
I was coughing for over a month, went to the walk in last Saturday diagnosed with a cough
Even if she recorded this before rarity, she shouldn't have posted this. It's insensitive
I’m starting to think she has no BPD. It’s not just seasonal.
Why do I feel like Tommy is the one who let Rarity go? It explains why she felt the need to talk about how much Tommy loved her. You “have a lot going on” so you leave the door open? No. Such a lie.