I mean, she didn’t do much to begin with. If it were me, I would be out on foot 24/7 in that snow, I would’ve met all the neighbors within the first 24hrs and had an entire search party out! And I wouldn’t stop no matter the shape I was in until I found her. Something tells me Rarity died and was never missing. And if she did go missing..she isn’t missing anymore, she is dead.
@@TheKatarinaGisellei’ve been thinking this. unfortunately i think she either knows exactly what happened to her or this is a ploy to get some extra money around the most profitable time of year for youtubers.
I cant handle that she genuinely thinks her pets are equal to human children and yet left a door open for 20 MINUTES. I have toddlers and i cannot imagine leaving a door open ever. You dont get to make mistakes like that with human kids, and yet shes seeking sympathy and 'everyone makes mistakes with their pets'. You cant equate the emotion and not the responsibility.
Exactly! She is in no condition to care for her animals let alone a child? She wants people to see her as responsible and nurturing but in reality she’s constantly putting her own selfish desires over her animals wellbeing. She wants to say her pets are her babies without putting the actual effort in to protect or prioritize them like actual children! Hypothetically, if Rarity was a toddler, Amber would have moved her into completely unknown environment, with a new climate, with people she didn’t know, away from her grandmother so her mom could chase a woman. Then Amber leaves the door open and Rarity wonders outside, and she doesn’t know where she is, how to get home, what snow is or how to protect herself from the cold. Amber Would be in jail and facing CPS for this stunt.
It’s definitely her fault but none of y’all ever made a mistake like that? Ever? I feel like more people have than not but maybe I’m a horrible pet owner and just don’t realize it.
@ivyrose779 My cats have run out when I opened the door, and I had to drop everything to go get them. I had one cat push out a screen, and it set off my camera and I ran out to get him. Sometimes, our basement door bounces back, and they have gone down there. Its not unsafe for them, they just don't have food and litter, and the longest has been an hour or so. But no, I've never accidentally left an exterior door open for an extended period of time.
You know who else would probably be helpful in dealing with all the stuff ALR is going through in addition to her therapist? Her mother. Her grandmother. Her friends. Yet, she's isolated herself in Wisconsin.
Yes! Even in a healthy relationship, spending all of your time with your romantic partner isn’t healthy. It’s so important to maintain other relationships.
Amber complained for like 10 years on here about her awful relationship with her family, she finally starts strengthening that relationship with her mother, and IMMEDIATELY abandons her for a girl she knew for like 3 weeks, it’s not surprising those people don’t talk to her anymore
ALR really bringing up her childhood and her having had cancer in the past to get sympathy after she's been a neglectful pet parent is so infuriating. Manipulativelynn is in full effect.
That’s why we don’t care anymore, almost everyone found her and wanted her to do better but then she’s just such an awful person that you can’t feel bad for her for more than 2 seconds without her continuing to be awful.
My family growing up: never allowed pets inside so all our animals were outside, any dogs that we didn’t want my dad drove them out to the country and let them out to abandon. As a 29yo, I now have 3 cats that stay inside, routinely go to the vet, and are treated like feline royalty. I was not raised to treat animals right, and I still give my dad shit for how we handled our animals which I loved dearly. But I learned so I could do better because animals deserve the best we can give them.
You can tell that she's organizing her jewelry and makeup because she's moving back to Oklahoma. She said that she's leaving that one pair out for "the next outfit that I wear" but she hesitated and I think she almost said for "the trip home" or something like that. I believe this was the day before moving day.
I usually avoid speculation but I got this impression when she said “no matter what, Tommy promised to never stop looking for rarity” like what do you mean? Why only Tommy? And why are you bringing up this comment between the two of you at all? There’s a good chance it’s genuinely just Amber having no conversational awareness or understanding of English in general, but the only way that line does make any sense is as a preemptive defense over the fact that she’s about to leave the area Rarity got lost in.
Bestie, I'm sorry things are rough right now. I'm also going through a very difficult time myself, and I'm glad you're showing up for yourself to get some joy from this video today.
as someone who is also aware they had a bad childhood: arguably, I'd say that background *should* make you more likely to question if you're properly meeting the needs of the beings in your care, not more likely to excuse neglecting them because you "don't know any better." somehow always the victim, even when she's the perpetrator. 🙄
Exactly. It's why I won't accept the mantra 'abusive people were usually abused' as an out which is actually not true if you look at well done studies. My Mum had a pretty hard upbringing chucked out of home at 17. We lost our Dad at 33, when I was 11. My Mum made shocker early choices regarding BFs, terrified of being alone. If not ignoring us, she was threatening childrens' homes if we weren't angels when they were around. We'd lost one parent, only in Australia 5 years with no other family and finances completely reduced. I'd say not an easy childhood. Beside my brother initially adjusting to a lack of material things, us 3 and Mum are selfless and caring to everyone. ALR has no excuse.
Nobody cares about her Uncle's junkyard cat. It wasn't her cat, it sounded like it roamed the neighbourhood anyway, why would it be relevant at all? This is just her distracting from the real issue, as usual. She moved her cat across the country into a home with big dogs and other cats she was unfamiliar with. She left the door open and her terrified cat ran outside. Nobody cares that she tangentially knew a feral cat as a child.
lol ngl the ability she has of making the smallest rumor online gain instant traction overnight is so insane. Like I MAYBE recall hearing that story vaguely and forever ago but not once was it even remotely a thought I've had regarding this whole Rarity situation. Like what do you mean that's one of the straws that broke the camel's back?? There's no way hardly anyone cared/talked about that until you just brought direct attention to it lollll Edit: I think she's shooting herself in the foot by addressing rumors that she is assuming are widespread b/c twice in a few days now has she just ended up bringing up topics that no one important was actually running with or even knew about. But now we all know about them whether we like it or not and then we were scolded for it??? Like why am I being yelled at I wasn't the ONE PERSON who made up that rarity rumor
Tbf it wasn’t just her uncle’s cat. Her family assumed ownership, her dad told her not to bring it to the dump, she did, and SHE lost the cat. It’s straightforward as hell
It was probably brought up on the farms or Reddit where she lurks and obsesses. I didn’t see any reaction channels or comments here on UA-cam bring up that story at all.
The same way people comparing her uncles cat to current day rarity is the same insanity of her comparing her failing as a pet parent to her parents failing her. 💀
I really think it was a stretch to say anyone cared about that uncle story. I personally didn't even really know about it or had seen anyone even talking about it until now but I'm glad I'm being lectured about it??
@@DreamsRDriven011I hadn’t even heard of it either. I don’t even know where she is reading that stuff it must be on Reddit or kiwi cause I haven’t seen any reaction channels even talk about it
I didn’t even know about her uncle’s cat until I watched Mr. ❄️ react to this video. Like I really don’t think anyone knew and if they did I don’t think they cared
Thank you so much for sending people over to my channel Zach! Im so tickled over that! I love your shirt...... my mom dated Brian Wilson from the Beach Boys back in the 60s!
It's great having little anecdotes like that - I'll come and check out your channel. My Mum (Australia) was once left the key by BB King to his hotel room when her and a friend went to see him play in the 70's and they got chatting at the bar. She was too naive to understand what he was after! (Her GF had to explain it)
You aren’t legally obligated to take care of an animal the way you are with a child. If you realize you are a struggling to take care of an animal you can EASILY rehome them within like 24 hours. So being responsible for a pet is not really the same as being responsible for a human being.
Also, a pet will live its entire life in your home, only interacting with the people in it. It’s not going to leave the house one day to make a separate life for itself. It won’t influence the lives of friends and partners and coworkers. It won’t possibly have its own family someday. Pets aren’t children. Edited for punctuation.
also also, ANIMALS ARE NOT PEOPLE. i really hate when people conflate the two, a human has sooo many needs and is so much more complex than a pet. its not nearly the same amount of work
idk as someone who had to rehome pets idk if 24 hours is an accurate estimate, it took me months to get all 3 of my cats placed in proper safe homes with the best chance at life as possible
My cat slipped out due to my exes' negligence. I was terrified for her to get out. She had a tracker, but it fell out. She had a collar but no tag and wasn't microchipped. I just got her back after 70 days. I spent every day searching, posting, researching, printing flyers, etc. I was a mess. I was lost without her. Finding her was the best thing that ever happened to me. She came back on Thursday, I made an appointment to get her microchipped this upcoming Wednesday, and my other cat microchipped on the next Wednesday. I got them both ring tags that have QR codes with my information. I bought four baby gates and zip tied them together to make a makeshift cage for me to enter my front door without fear of them running out. I learned and am now doing more to protect my pets! The fact that she hasn't said anything about what she is going to do to prevent this in the future and what she's doing to protect her pets is astounding. Also my baby is okay and she is happy and purring and loved💚
I think you hit the nail on the head regarding what people aren't seeing from her after the fact. I had my cat get out as well but it was my parents negligence while I was at work :( Didn't know he was out until hours after and knew immediately something was wrong when he wasn't anywhere nearby or responding to calls. He was chipped but no one was bringing him in, found him after RELENTLESS searching for 3 days stuck in the storm drain. I admire your resilience, as those 3 days were exhausting I can only imagine how unbearable 70 days of that was. I'm so curious, how far away had he been found? Did you physically find him or did someone report a found cat? I'm always so worried if it ever happened to me or someone I know again, I'd want to know exactly what to do. I feel like I got lucky with mine being so close to our home, just stuck.
@dannydevito2587 thank you so much!! I love her so much and was so devastated when she got out. I didn't sleep for days. It was such an awful feeling. I'm so happy she's back🩷
I've even heard her seem to blame foster carers for giving into her tantrums when she demanded excess bad foods. Sounds like no matter what her parents were like, she's been indulged so not had it as bad as she's let everyone think. Neglected, maybe but not refused anything. No one who's genuinely been deprived in life grows up to be so damn entitled. She may lack life education/experience but in all her years online I've never seen her not be self centred whilst believing herself to be such a 'giver'.
Zach, my bf of 6.5 years emotionally cheated on me with, and left me for a man like a month after your breakup video got posted. And i wanted to thank you for being one of the things thats kept me going since. Thank you❤
There were people talking about how she had done something to another cat and Mr. Snowflake mentioned people talking about it and that he would have to look more into it a couple of weeks ago. I haven't watched him since then to see if he's mentioned it since; but imma assume this must have been what they were referring to.
@@wutarrwedoin mr snowflake ended up digging up the video where amber first talks about the cat back in like… the Krystle or Destiny era, where she talks about it being her cat in spirit and she says that she was 7 when it ran away and 10 when it came back. Which is a bit of a different story from now, to be fair.
@@wutarrwedoin I've seen similar, but it was brought up with Krystal's name and not her childhood. 🤷 I really hope Mr. Snowflake finds out what people are talking about. A part of me thinks it could be about how it's been mentioned that they got at least one of the pets for Amber specifically, but she left them with Krystal's family when she moved out.
I'm sorry - but the utter gall she has to say how much she loves her pets when we have seen on numerous occasions how she treats them (first thing that came to mind was how she went out to dinner/shopping instead of taking Twinkie to an emergency vet when her 'beloved pet' was showing signs of being in pain). Even the recent Rarity incident shows her lack of interest when she chose the worst kind of picture for the posters (I.e - not a good picture of Rarity and her identifiable markings) and refusing to go to the shelter and verify the deceased cat they found wasn't Rarity (yes, it would have been a very difficult thing to do; but at least she'd know with 100% certainty that it wasn't Rarity instead of going by the vet's opinion).
It would've made her feel bad even if not hers, the last thing she'd willingly experience. Her entitlement is why she sees every day life events for everyone else as oh so traumatic. It truly leads me to believe she's not had it as hard in life as she claims. Yes parental neglect via drug habits but also maybe indulged to 'make up' for it. How else did she get so fat by 9? Emigrating to a new country with only immediate family, losing a father at 11, a mother locking herself in her bedroom immediately after followed by several unsuitable BFs moved in & always put first, threatened with a childrens' home, enormous financial changes would qualify as equally difficult. Yet I've never been self centred & entitled.
So stoned it wasn’t til I was seven minutes in that I realized this video wasn’t an older one reacting to the last time she ate a famous bowl during wifey era..going to bed soon
She really just sit down and ... compared her pets as her children ? She doesnt realize how she speaks is like ... is how a neglectful parent speaks about ...the child they failed when asked why did you neglect your child lol. Like her tactic was to come on here and make everyone uncomfortable by the ultimate trauma dump. lmao jesus. Girl what is you doing? I dont know anything about whatever uncle cat...what? Shes the one thinking she's still 4 years old lmao.
Amber keeps bringing up specific things that are talked about during Jordy’s livestreams 😬 (both the thing about her uncle’s cat and the voicemail being “fake”)
Microchipping is not some obscure thing no one has ever heard about. It's way more important than buying a new litter box every 2 months or whatever that nonsense was.
She’s saying she won’t be talking about Rarity anymore because she went back to Oklahoma. She doesn’t want to respond to anyone’s opinions about leaving when her cat is still MIA.
everytime i touch a door in this house my first thought is my cats. where they are, and if they’re close enough to bolt out. i cannot imagine leaving a door even cracked for more than a second without realizing. the last time my cat escaped i was 3 hours late to work because i had to find him before doing anything else. that’s what “pet parents” do.
Bingo. I lost one of my 2 overnight as for years they could go in the backyard with my husband for very short periods on nice days. He jumped a tall fence with one leap which I never thought possible & missing till 4am when on an hourly call he miaowed from next door. He managed that fence as it had 3 'stages' on that side then ran in. Immediately got a catio. We recently took one of my son's cats as he's very stressed yowling for his attention 24/7 who after marrying inherited his wife's 3 little boisterous dogs and has a baby coming. He's settled in (stopped yowling) but a higher jumper than mine we're even more vigilant including with visitors/receiving parcels. It's always the first thing we check.
rarity is so much like a daughter to amber, that she drags her daughter twenty hours across the country to live with a woman she had seen only a few times in person and only knew existed for a few months at best. Then, by her own fault, leaves the door open and her daughter, who absolutely loves exploring, goes out to walk through the neighborhood and see this new unfamiliar area that she had been in for weeks already. amber searches for her daughter for another few weeks after she goes missing but then ultimately decides to leave her lost daughter in this foreign state and go back home another twenty hours to oklahoma. yeah, amber, you totally love your pets like your kids.
I know she wasn't going to a real college. But what "criminal justice" course asks students to write a 10 page (maybe it's a US thing, but I never had a page limit for essays at university, we did word limits) on "someone you look up to"? And what had any of that got to do with your foster mum passing? Like maybe speak about why she was important to you, or why you aren't apparently going to her funeral? It just seems like such a manipulative attempt to distract from her staying with Tommy and as a pass for her being an irresponsible pet owner
I had to write my fair share of long papers (20 being my highest but it was a major term paper/research project). The idea of a class assigning a 10 page paper on someone they admire is laughable. I think the closest assignment I had to that was in my public speaking class when we had to do a toast or a eulogy.
On today’s episode of which member of the Malfoy family is Zak role playing today: we have SoCal surfer Zak the American cousin. He is shunned by the Brit Malfoy bc he is half mermaid.
25:14 not that I’m 100% calling BS, but a TEN PAGE essay on something as simple as “someone you look up to”, which already sounds like a middle school wrote my prompt, seems farfetched
She’s just stopped caring about her health because she has a girlfriend that loves bigger girls, so she’s going to eat more than ever! She was told her heart can’t handle her weight and she’s not going to be here much longer, the weight specialist said she’s got maybe two years before something happens to her unfortunately she don’t care
the hair slides are SLIDING, it's giving 2005, it's giving lying on the bed kicking your legs in the air writing about your crush in your diary. i'm so glad miss Bobby Pin could be here this evening.
You know…in all honesty, ALR really should have just gone to see the cat at the humane society. Even if only to put herself at ease of genuinely knowing it wasn’t Rarity and silencing any “what if” in her mind. I couldn’t imagine not wanting to confirm with my own eyes if my pet was missing and an animal SO similar to their description was found so close to home.
She wasn’t doubting that it was a different cat. The woman from the humane society was able to tell her specifically why it wasn’t her. The cat they found had a big white blaze on its face. Rarity doesn’t have any white on her face. If you personally would need to see it to know for sure that’s fine but there’s nothing wrong with her believing their confirmation. I would have taken their word on it since there was a specific difference in its coloring.
Before she went to Wisconsin ALR would wear rings on several of her fingers on a regular basis, but in these last few clips, her hands have been suspiciously bare. Could it be that she's gained so much weight that the rings she brought with her no longer fit?
That panel was beyond cringe and all she did was make herself and her relationship look bad. Imagine talking about your 🐱 in front of a bunch of men while trying to pretend you’re a tradwife.
@@nojorojo it was awful and honestly, I think she’s trying to get kicked out of Kuwait. She’ll be able to use GorlWorld as an excuse. The truth is she can’t handle the Muslim act anymore or her pathetic fake husband. I’d love to get a raw reaction of Zach’s on this one
So if alr had a child that went missing during a trip she'd put up posters, wait for people to call about her child and when nothing happens for a week she'd... (checks hand) go home
Am I the only one who's never heard about her childhood uncle's cat? Sounds like her uncle's, sister's, daughter's, friend's, brother's, pet's cat got lost once upon a time. She's trying to change the narrative and it's not working.
She forced these poor fur babies into each other’s space and now they are comfortable with each other and friends just to be separated again?? It really hurts my heart the way they are all treated. Justice for all the fur babies
I always thought egg nog was “okay” until a friend of mine made it from scratch. It was good but also a lot more like a dessert. It’s good if you’re in the mood for something like that to sip on.
She's very aware she lacks a lot of knowledge due to her childhood, but never tried to fill in those knowledge gaps. That's why she's frustrating, she wants sympathy and head pats for failing herself and everyone around her.
Also she doesn't raise her '3 furbabies on her own.' Literally every single one of Amberlynn's girlfriends took on that responsibility.
1000%
the fact Beck stayed in this horrible abusive relationship to take care of the animals and protect them is veryyy telling
Fr. All the times she had her girlfriends take them to the vet, smh
You are right!!!!!!!😊
Not really the move to compare your cat to being your daughter then promptly give up on your missing child after 3 weeks 😬
I mean, she didn’t do much to begin with. If it were me, I would be out on foot 24/7 in that snow, I would’ve met all the neighbors within the first 24hrs and had an entire search party out! And I wouldn’t stop no matter the shape I was in until I found her. Something tells me Rarity died and was never missing. And if she did go missing..she isn’t missing anymore, she is dead.
@@TheKatarinaGisellei’ve been thinking this. unfortunately i think she either knows exactly what happened to her or this is a ploy to get some extra money around the most profitable time of year for youtubers.
I mean that's probably the parental love she grew up with in retrospect
@@thescaredy-cat860 Not a valid excuse - ever.
@@madamefluffy4788 obviously
🎶A single mom who works too hard, who loves her kids and never stops🎶
Rebalyn out her raising three fur babies all on her own.
REBALYN 💀💀💀💀
😂
While her partners actually end up taking care of her and her kids
I cant handle that she genuinely thinks her pets are equal to human children and yet left a door open for 20 MINUTES. I have toddlers and i cannot imagine leaving a door open ever. You dont get to make mistakes like that with human kids, and yet shes seeking sympathy and 'everyone makes mistakes with their pets'. You cant equate the emotion and not the responsibility.
This is such a good point
Exactly! She is in no condition to care for her animals let alone a child? She wants people to see her as responsible and nurturing but in reality she’s constantly putting her own selfish desires over her animals wellbeing. She wants to say her pets are her babies without putting the actual effort in to protect or prioritize them like actual children!
Hypothetically, if Rarity was a toddler, Amber would have moved her into completely unknown environment, with a new climate, with people she didn’t know, away from her grandmother so her mom could chase a woman. Then Amber leaves the door open and Rarity wonders outside, and she doesn’t know where she is, how to get home, what snow is or how to protect herself from the cold. Amber Would be in jail and facing CPS for this stunt.
You make a mistake like that with a child, you face neglect charges.
It’s definitely her fault but none of y’all ever made a mistake like that? Ever? I feel like more people have than not but maybe I’m a horrible pet owner and just don’t realize it.
@ivyrose779 My cats have run out when I opened the door, and I had to drop everything to go get them. I had one cat push out a screen, and it set off my camera and I ran out to get him. Sometimes, our basement door bounces back, and they have gone down there. Its not unsafe for them, they just don't have food and litter, and the longest has been an hour or so. But no, I've never accidentally left an exterior door open for an extended period of time.
Zach looks like he’s about to turn into a mermaid if he touches water
It’s giving “Barbie: Fairytopia: Mermaidia”
EMMA!
that’s so cute.
we gotta all play mermaids in the pool 😂
Yas!!!
CLEO-R!
You know who else would probably be helpful in dealing with all the stuff ALR is going through in addition to her therapist? Her mother. Her grandmother. Her friends. Yet, she's isolated herself in Wisconsin.
Yes! Even in a healthy relationship, spending all of your time with your romantic partner isn’t healthy. It’s so important to maintain other relationships.
Amber complained for like 10 years on here about her awful relationship with her family, she finally starts strengthening that relationship with her mother, and IMMEDIATELY abandons her for a girl she knew for like 3 weeks, it’s not surprising those people don’t talk to her anymore
@@Zombie-aaExactly. She’s running out of story lines to pull out when ever she feels the need to fight for the upper hand
ALR really bringing up her childhood and her having had cancer in the past to get sympathy after she's been a neglectful pet parent is so infuriating. Manipulativelynn is in full effect.
She didn't even have cancer, they found precancerous cells and removed her uterus out of precaution
That’s why we don’t care anymore, almost everyone found her and wanted her to do better but then she’s just such an awful person that you can’t feel bad for her for more than 2 seconds without her continuing to be awful.
My family growing up: never allowed pets inside so all our animals were outside, any dogs that we didn’t want my dad drove them out to the country and let them out to abandon. As a 29yo, I now have 3 cats that stay inside, routinely go to the vet, and are treated like feline royalty.
I was not raised to treat animals right, and I still give my dad shit for how we handled our animals which I loved dearly. But I learned so I could do better because animals deserve the best we can give them.
That’s horrible what your Dad did 😢 proud of you for doing better!!
Introducing new cat lore so people forget about Gracie is so iconic
Has she ever admitted to a fault, wrongdoing, or misgiving? Like ever?
Yeah, she absolutely did but it was always someone else’s fault 🤪😂
Every time she goes somewhere and “wears the wrong shoes”.
Well she did admit that she used the wrong word
We stan the acqountability queen 💅
@@croissant2882I’m genuinely losing it
waddled here so fast i didn’t know i left the door open for 20 minutes
Here you dropped this 🏆
🤣🤣🤣
But did you make it to the tree tho??
@@Michayella BAHAHA💀
@@skylar9284 ❤️
Gorl!!! Those bobby pins pulling the hair back! Iconic.
AGree I wanna do it too now
@@lisalamb5448ZM the trendsetter
I love it. So cute ❤
It’s cute bestie
Agreed!
“Don’t worry about UFOs in the sky, worry about Rarity in the snow” 💀 savage
her bringing up her childhood to manipulate us was crazyyyyy 🤨
I literally had to paused the video and take a deep breath because that was SICK.
crazy but not surprising
You can tell that she's organizing her jewelry and makeup because she's moving back to Oklahoma. She said that she's leaving that one pair out for "the next outfit that I wear" but she hesitated and I think she almost said for "the trip home" or something like that. I believe this was the day before moving day.
I was watching Jordy last night, and realized how obvious it was that she was going home in hindsight.
I usually avoid speculation but I got this impression when she said “no matter what, Tommy promised to never stop looking for rarity” like what do you mean? Why only Tommy? And why are you bringing up this comment between the two of you at all? There’s a good chance it’s genuinely just Amber having no conversational awareness or understanding of English in general, but the only way that line does make any sense is as a preemptive defense over the fact that she’s about to leave the area Rarity got lost in.
No one:
Po: ⚫️_⚫️
lol 😂 and chewing adorably on his paw💕
Timestamp?
@@colecrystal30352:20 !!
@@colecrystal3035from 2:20 to about 3:00
@@colecrystal30352:50!
Going thru a bad breakup and worked 9 days in a row and as soon as I get home Zachary Marie posts? Thank you bestie!
of course diva i got you
Sorry Sarah! It’s their loss! ❤
Bestie, I'm sorry things are rough right now. I'm also going through a very difficult time myself, and I'm glad you're showing up for yourself to get some joy from this video today.
Same!!
Good vibes and positive thoughts so sorry
as someone who is also aware they had a bad childhood:
arguably, I'd say that background *should* make you more likely to question if you're properly meeting the needs of the beings in your care, not more likely to excuse neglecting them because you "don't know any better."
somehow always the victim, even when she's the perpetrator. 🙄
Even if she didn't have the entire internet yelling instructions to her, you'd think she would try to be better.
Exactly. It's why I won't accept the mantra 'abusive people were usually abused' as an out which is actually not true if you look at well done studies. My Mum had a pretty hard upbringing chucked out of home at 17. We lost our Dad at 33, when I was 11. My Mum made shocker early choices regarding BFs, terrified of being alone. If not ignoring us, she was threatening childrens' homes if we weren't angels when they were around. We'd lost one parent, only in Australia 5 years with no other family and finances completely reduced. I'd say not an easy childhood. Beside my brother initially adjusting to a lack of material things, us 3 and Mum are selfless and caring to everyone. ALR has no excuse.
Nobody cares about her Uncle's junkyard cat. It wasn't her cat, it sounded like it roamed the neighbourhood anyway, why would it be relevant at all?
This is just her distracting from the real issue, as usual. She moved her cat across the country into a home with big dogs and other cats she was unfamiliar with. She left the door open and her terrified cat ran outside. Nobody cares that she tangentially knew a feral cat as a child.
Its usually the ankles comment section that cares too much about the dumbest things lol
lol ngl the ability she has of making the smallest rumor online gain instant traction overnight is so insane. Like I MAYBE recall hearing that story vaguely and forever ago but not once was it even remotely a thought I've had regarding this whole Rarity situation. Like what do you mean that's one of the straws that broke the camel's back?? There's no way hardly anyone cared/talked about that until you just brought direct attention to it lollll
Edit: I think she's shooting herself in the foot by addressing rumors that she is assuming are widespread b/c twice in a few days now has she just ended up bringing up topics that no one important was actually running with or even knew about. But now we all know about them whether we like it or not and then we were scolded for it??? Like why am I being yelled at I wasn't the ONE PERSON who made up that rarity rumor
Tbf it wasn’t just her uncle’s cat. Her family assumed ownership, her dad told her not to bring it to the dump, she did, and SHE lost the cat. It’s straightforward as hell
It was probably brought up on the farms or Reddit where she lurks and obsesses. I didn’t see any reaction channels or comments here on UA-cam bring up that story at all.
“It’s too bad his mom is an emotional support feeder” 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Your hair is SOOOO elvish mermaid I'm livvinnnng for it!! trendsetter!
Just no. Lolol
The most iconic ZM quote of all time “she wants to be over here talking about UFO’s in the sky.. worry about fukin Rarity in the snowwWwwWWww ❄️ “
ZM didn’t get a bob, but they sure did get some bobby pins! 💅
ALR: sobbing on screen
Poe: 🦶
🎶 and so this is vlogmas
And what have we done
We've cried in the basement
And rarity's gone 🎶
roses r red 🌹
and violets arr blue 💠
emily *REALLY* likes it ✨️
when amberlynn eats food 🧀
🎶another cat missing
a new one sure to come🎶
🎶 And so this is vlogmass
And what have we here?
She'll never stop cryeeen
So why should we caree?🎶
The same way people comparing her uncles cat to current day rarity is the same insanity of her comparing her failing as a pet parent to her parents failing her. 💀
I really think it was a stretch to say anyone cared about that uncle story. I personally didn't even really know about it or had seen anyone even talking about it until now but I'm glad I'm being lectured about it??
@@DreamsRDriven011I hadn’t even heard of it either. I don’t even know where she is reading that stuff it must be on Reddit or kiwi cause I haven’t seen any reaction channels even talk about it
I didn’t even know about her uncle’s cat until I watched Mr. ❄️ react to this video.
Like I really don’t think anyone knew and if they did I don’t think they cared
Thank you so much for sending people over to my channel Zach! Im so tickled over that! I love your shirt...... my mom dated Brian Wilson from the Beach Boys back in the 60s!
It's great having little anecdotes like that - I'll come and check out your channel. My Mum (Australia) was once left the key by BB King to his hotel room when her and a friend went to see him play in the 70's and they got chatting at the bar. She was too naive to understand what he was after! (Her GF had to explain it)
You aren’t legally obligated to take care of an animal the way you are with a child. If you realize you are a struggling to take care of an animal you can EASILY rehome them within like 24 hours. So being responsible for a pet is not really the same as being responsible for a human being.
Also, a pet will live its entire life in your home, only interacting with the people in it. It’s not going to leave the house one day to make a separate life for itself. It won’t influence the lives of friends and partners and coworkers. It won’t possibly have its own family someday.
Pets aren’t children.
Edited for punctuation.
also also, ANIMALS ARE NOT PEOPLE. i really hate when people conflate the two, a human has sooo many needs and is so much more complex than a pet. its not nearly the same amount of work
You wanna know something insane? There were actually laws that protect animals BEFORE there were laws that protected children
it’s not same you are correct but still very important
idk as someone who had to rehome pets idk if 24 hours is an accurate estimate, it took me months to get all 3 of my cats placed in proper safe homes with the best chance at life as possible
THANK GOODNESS none of us would have been able to sleep without knowing Amber’s favorite order
Or how she eats a chicken wing 😒
@@tressamarie6509what’s crazy is she is the only person I have seen gnaw on the wing tip. It’s the worst part. Haha.
Zach’s hair is giving fairy mermaid princess and I love it
So sick of her victimizing herself. I had no clue about the uncles cat
She in her mind still thinks shes 4 years old and wants you to remind you if you're me to me you're mean to 4 year old me!
I still don't know what they're talking about with that.
Excuse 937
Tomorrow--- Tommy's gift to Amber #13 a new 🐈
I live in the Netherlands, but if I had the money, I would ship her a tiny violin
omg the genuine jump scare you got from the Wisconsin Leaf Blower Massacre
Zach have you seen those little star shaped metal hair clips? I think you'd look great in those!!!
Second this
Or some 90’s butterfly clips.
yesssss lets get some clipssss up in here!!! or even some chunky barrettes 😂😂would love to see, oohh and maybe some glitter just a little😂
Omg yessss Zach would look gorgeous in them ❤
My cat slipped out due to my exes' negligence. I was terrified for her to get out. She had a tracker, but it fell out. She had a collar but no tag and wasn't microchipped.
I just got her back after 70 days. I spent every day searching, posting, researching, printing flyers, etc. I was a mess. I was lost without her. Finding her was the best thing that ever happened to me.
She came back on Thursday, I made an appointment to get her microchipped this upcoming Wednesday, and my other cat microchipped on the next Wednesday. I got them both ring tags that have QR codes with my information. I bought four baby gates and zip tied them together to make a makeshift cage for me to enter my front door without fear of them running out. I learned and am now doing more to protect my pets! The fact that she hasn't said anything about what she is going to do to prevent this in the future and what she's doing to protect her pets is astounding.
Also my baby is okay and she is happy and purring and loved💚
Oh man I’m so glad you got her back! You sound like a really caring pet owner and thus the complete opposite of amberlyn lmao
The baby gate is a great idea. You could also use a tall fence gate if you want a different look.
I think you hit the nail on the head regarding what people aren't seeing from her after the fact. I had my cat get out as well but it was my parents negligence while I was at work :( Didn't know he was out until hours after and knew immediately something was wrong when he wasn't anywhere nearby or responding to calls. He was chipped but no one was bringing him in, found him after RELENTLESS searching for 3 days stuck in the storm drain. I admire your resilience, as those 3 days were exhausting I can only imagine how unbearable 70 days of that was. I'm so curious, how far away had he been found? Did you physically find him or did someone report a found cat? I'm always so worried if it ever happened to me or someone I know again, I'd want to know exactly what to do. I feel like I got lucky with mine being so close to our home, just stuck.
Glad you got her back and you are getting her chipped ❤
@dannydevito2587 thank you so much!! I love her so much and was so devastated when she got out. I didn't sleep for days. It was such an awful feeling. I'm so happy she's back🩷
shes always said that her time in foster care was hell, now shes got all these good things to say now that she died?
I've even heard her seem to blame foster carers for giving into her tantrums when she demanded excess bad foods. Sounds like no matter what her parents were like, she's been indulged so not had it as bad as she's let everyone think. Neglected, maybe but not refused anything. No one who's genuinely been deprived in life grows up to be so damn entitled. She may lack life education/experience but in all her years online I've never seen her not be self centred whilst believing herself to be such a 'giver'.
Zach, my bf of 6.5 years emotionally cheated on me with, and left me for a man like a month after your breakup video got posted. And i wanted to thank you for being one of the things thats kept me going since. Thank you❤
I havent heard anyone bring up a cat when she was 4, ive only ever seen ppl bring up Gracie
There were people talking about how she had done something to another cat and Mr. Snowflake mentioned people talking about it and that he would have to look more into it a couple of weeks ago. I haven't watched him since then to see if he's mentioned it since; but imma assume this must have been what they were referring to.
@@wutarrwedoin mr snowflake ended up digging up the video where amber first talks about the cat back in like… the Krystle or Destiny era, where she talks about it being her cat in spirit and she says that she was 7 when it ran away and 10 when it came back. Which is a bit of a different story from now, to be fair.
@@wutarrwedoin I've seen similar, but it was brought up with Krystal's name and not her childhood. 🤷
I really hope Mr. Snowflake finds out what people are talking about.
A part of me thinks it could be about how it's been mentioned that they got at least one of the pets for Amber specifically, but she left them with Krystal's family when she moved out.
@@theepicpop-tartcatshe told the story during the Krystle era. Her family took on the cat after her uncle
I have no idea what she’s talking about with the uncle cat thing. I’ve been watching for yearrrrs.
I'm sorry - but the utter gall she has to say how much she loves her pets when we have seen on numerous occasions how she treats them (first thing that came to mind was how she went out to dinner/shopping instead of taking Twinkie to an emergency vet when her 'beloved pet' was showing signs of being in pain).
Even the recent Rarity incident shows her lack of interest when she chose the worst kind of picture for the posters (I.e - not a good picture of Rarity and her identifiable markings) and refusing to go to the shelter and verify the deceased cat they found wasn't Rarity (yes, it would have been a very difficult thing to do; but at least she'd know with 100% certainty that it wasn't Rarity instead of going by the vet's opinion).
She always choses food and relationships over those animals .
It would've made her feel bad even if not hers, the last thing she'd willingly experience. Her entitlement is why she sees every day life events for everyone else as oh so traumatic. It truly leads me to believe she's not had it as hard in life as she claims. Yes parental neglect via drug habits but also maybe indulged to 'make up' for it. How else did she get so fat by 9? Emigrating to a new country with only immediate family, losing a father at 11, a mother locking herself in her bedroom immediately after followed by several unsuitable BFs moved in & always put first, threatened with a childrens' home, enormous financial changes would qualify as equally difficult. Yet I've never been self centred & entitled.
you being scared of the leaf blower killed me
The factchecks have me hollerin! lol =!! She be out here acting brand new and Zachary be having the receipts!
Zach losing their mind over ALR with the damn leaf blower omg😂 ya’ really do have a contagious laugh😂🫶🏻
So stoned it wasn’t til I was seven minutes in that I realized this video wasn’t an older one reacting to the last time she ate a famous bowl during wifey era..going to bed soon
Not Tommy/Emily doxxing her own neighborhood and vehicle 😂
I love how reasonable Zach is, and willing to see every perspective - wish more people were like that
She really just sit down and ... compared her pets as her children ?
She doesnt realize how she speaks is like ... is how a neglectful parent speaks about ...the child they failed when asked why did you neglect your child lol.
Like her tactic was to come on here and make everyone uncomfortable by the ultimate trauma dump. lmao jesus.
Girl what is you doing? I dont know anything about whatever uncle cat...what? Shes the one thinking she's still 4 years old lmao.
Not the fact checking egg nog 😂
I’m dead too
Wasn't ready for the Legolas Zack today but I'm here for it. What a diva!!!
Amber keeps bringing up specific things that are talked about during Jordy’s livestreams 😬 (both the thing about her uncle’s cat and the voicemail being “fake”)
Not Zach clocking her for actually having had eggnog before 🤣
Sitting in the bath with a margarita and ZM video? Yes please!
Ahhhh, that's the life!
you are my comfort channel. thanks for giving me a lil giggle when I’ve had a rough day
Microchipping is not some obscure thing no one has ever heard about. It's way more important than buying a new litter box every 2 months or whatever that nonsense was.
Or like a 1000s unused journals
She’s saying she won’t be talking about Rarity anymore because she went back to Oklahoma. She doesn’t want to respond to anyone’s opinions about leaving when her cat is still MIA.
Either she knows Rarity is no longer alive (which I hope not) or she Emily forced her to leave
objection! when it comes to cats, you do sometimes just accidentally get them. mine randomly walked in
everytime i touch a door in this house my first thought is my cats. where they are, and if they’re close enough to bolt out. i cannot imagine leaving a door even cracked for more than a second without realizing. the last time my cat escaped i was 3 hours late to work because i had to find him before doing anything else. that’s what “pet parents” do.
Same, with my dog 😢
Bingo. I lost one of my 2 overnight as for years they could go in the backyard with my husband for very short periods on nice days. He jumped a tall fence with one leap which I never thought possible & missing till 4am when on an hourly call he miaowed from next door. He managed that fence as it had 3 'stages' on that side then ran in. Immediately got a catio. We recently took one of my son's cats as he's very stressed yowling for his attention 24/7 who after marrying inherited his wife's 3 little boisterous dogs and has a baby coming. He's settled in (stopped yowling) but a higher jumper than mine we're even more vigilant including with visitors/receiving parcels. It's always the first thing we check.
Your hair is very y2k (respectfully) I love it
Amber is trying to troll us but is high key playing herself into a car crash
I am having trouble finding my sympathy bone
She needs to stop bringing her sobbing to the internet and get some, you guessed it bestie, therapy
rarity is so much like a daughter to amber, that she drags her daughter twenty hours across the country to live with a woman she had seen only a few times in person and only knew existed for a few months at best. Then, by her own fault, leaves the door open and her daughter, who absolutely loves exploring, goes out to walk through the neighborhood and see this new unfamiliar area that she had been in for weeks already. amber searches for her daughter for another few weeks after she goes missing but then ultimately decides to leave her lost daughter in this foreign state and go back home another twenty hours to oklahoma. yeah, amber, you totally love your pets like your kids.
I genuinely hope someone has found her cat who knows who it belongs to and has decided to give Rarity a better home. I really do.
oh jesus "UFOs in the sky? what about rarity in the snow?" made me CACKLE LMAO PLSS
Omg Potato's ears when you gasped
Fr I can’t even focus I’m on PO time
I know she wasn't going to a real college. But what "criminal justice" course asks students to write a 10 page (maybe it's a US thing, but I never had a page limit for essays at university, we did word limits) on "someone you look up to"? And what had any of that got to do with your foster mum passing? Like maybe speak about why she was important to you, or why you aren't apparently going to her funeral? It just seems like such a manipulative attempt to distract from her staying with Tommy and as a pass for her being an irresponsible pet owner
No way was that essay real. Ten pages is a lot, especially for a simple essay.
Just because you major in something doesn't mean that's the only class you take...i don't believe it's real either but just so you know
I had to write my fair share of long papers (20 being my highest but it was a major term paper/research project).
The idea of a class assigning a 10 page paper on someone they admire is laughable.
I think the closest assignment I had to that was in my public speaking class when we had to do a toast or a eulogy.
your rant on the jewelry pouches is a classic
On today’s episode of which member of the Malfoy family is Zak role playing today: we have SoCal surfer Zak the American cousin. He is shunned by the Brit Malfoy bc he is half mermaid.
25:14 not that I’m 100% calling BS, but a TEN PAGE essay on something as simple as “someone you look up to”, which already sounds like a middle school wrote my prompt, seems farfetched
She’s just stopped caring about her health because she has a girlfriend that loves bigger girls, so she’s going to eat more than ever! She was told her heart can’t handle her weight and she’s not going to be here much longer, the weight specialist said she’s got maybe two years before something happens to her unfortunately she don’t care
"Ahhh choke me Tommy 🤪". No we definitely need more of Late Night Zach 🤣
community: *worries about rarity being lost in the cold winter*
amber: feel sorry for me me me😭😭🥺
Not Zach getting very serious middle of the night emails
Ooh, love the bobby pins in the hair!!
the hair slides are SLIDING, it's giving 2005, it's giving lying on the bed kicking your legs in the air writing about your crush in your diary. i'm so glad miss Bobby Pin could be here this evening.
She could
1. Chip them
2. Put a collar on turn with up to date contact info
3. Put an air tag on their collar
4. Be more careful
37:00 I WAS NOT READY! 💨 🍂 💀
“You mean to tell me you’ve been sitting on leaf blower content?!”
You know…in all honesty, ALR really should have just gone to see the cat at the humane society. Even if only to put herself at ease of genuinely knowing it wasn’t Rarity and silencing any “what if” in her mind. I couldn’t imagine not wanting to confirm with my own eyes if my pet was missing and an animal SO similar to their description was found so close to home.
She wasn’t doubting that it was a different cat. The woman from the humane society was able to tell her specifically why it wasn’t her. The cat they found had a big white blaze on its face. Rarity doesn’t have any white on her face. If you personally would need to see it to know for sure that’s fine but there’s nothing wrong with her believing their confirmation. I would have taken their word on it since there was a specific difference in its coloring.
@@ivyrose779 wdym? I’m looking at a photo of Rarity right now and she has a white marking on the lower part of her face? And white paws?
thank you so much for explaining about the jewelry pouches again, i totally forgot those existed XD
She's done talking about Rarity until she needs something to make us feel pity for her.
Before she went to Wisconsin ALR would wear rings on several of her fingers on a regular basis, but in these last few clips, her hands have been suspiciously bare. Could it be that she's gained so much weight that the rings she brought with her no longer fit?
The fact that you went into the jewelry pouch rant like you never forgot it😂. Iconic!
Zach I've literally been refreshing YT allllll day for a new ZM video, thank you for gracing us again, love ya gorg! 🫶🏻
I love the way Potato is watching really curious who Zach is talking to.
this is my favourite of your hair styles yet!
Genuinely, is anyone who has ever heard the lore of amber’s uncles cat when she was 4 years old in the room with us?
Po trying his best to get under that blanket 😂
Is Zach going to cover the Foodie Beauty panel she just did 🤯 It’s so hectic
Oh that would make me so happy 😅
That panel was beyond cringe and all she did was make herself and her relationship look bad. Imagine talking about your 🐱 in front of a bunch of men while trying to pretend you’re a tradwife.
@@nojorojo it was awful and honestly, I think she’s trying to get kicked out of Kuwait. She’ll be able to use GorlWorld as an excuse. The truth is she can’t handle the Muslim act anymore or her pathetic fake husband. I’d love to get a raw reaction of Zach’s on this one
@@lydiaj7492 inshallah 😆
@@nojorojonot just pretending to be a tradwife but trying to be Muslim- seriously everything she did in that panel is so haram
So if alr had a child that went missing during a trip she'd put up posters, wait for people to call about her child and when nothing happens for a week she'd... (checks hand) go home
Soberlynn thinking a pet loss is like a child loss is expected from her, and thinking it takes 3 weeks to get over it. 👌
Zachary Marie with barrettes?? livinggg
I’ve been watching for yearsss and I also have no idea what the story is about her uncles cat
The way shes just straight up lying over and over about everything in this video is crazy
Am I the only one who's never heard about her childhood uncle's cat? Sounds like her uncle's, sister's, daughter's, friend's, brother's, pet's cat got lost once upon a time. She's trying to change the narrative and it's not working.
She forced these poor fur babies into each other’s space and now they are comfortable with each other and friends just to be separated again?? It really hurts my heart the way they are all treated. Justice for all the fur babies
Hello Mister Po! It’s nice to see his lil face.
Your reaction to the leaf blower made my day 😂
I always thought egg nog was “okay” until a friend of mine made it from scratch. It was good but also a lot more like a dessert. It’s good if you’re in the mood for something like that to sip on.
The hair is giving today
Zach, you had the exact reaction I was hoping when she came out with the leaf blower lol Not going to lie that one took me out too LOL
She's very aware she lacks a lot of knowledge due to her childhood, but never tried to fill in those knowledge gaps. That's why she's frustrating, she wants sympathy and head pats for failing herself and everyone around her.
Po popping up was the cutest