Hello Aluxers,! What made your past relationship suck? Mind Mastery: www.alux.com/meditation Get a free audiobook thanks to Audible: www.alux.com/freebook 15 Brutal Truths About Relationships: youtu.be/Vt-C6XtZV
My relationships never sucked. If anything, the women that I have dated and have been in relationships with still stalk me on social media. I've always made great strides and effort. I usually get the ,"you work too much" or I'm given ultimatums. Never make a person choose between their hard-fought goals and them. My goals always come first because it's my livelihood.
The alux voice lady... telling you how things should be done in all areas of life video after video after video.... I REALLY would like to know how is her own life going. Is she really practicing what she preaches?!
Summary: 1. You are trying to control everything. 2. There's no intimacy 3. You aren't on the same emotional level. 4. You don't have enough similarities or enough differences 5. You don't make time for each other. 6. You are addicted to drama. 7. You have lost the trust 8. You think the grass is always Greener with someone else. 9. You are too clingy 10. You have unrealistic expectations of your partner. 11. You have put up walls. 12. Jealousy is the third wheel. 13. You don't want to accept change. 14. You need to talk more. 15. You have forgotten how good dating was.
All these reasons alone makes me proud that I've been single for 3 years. I've changed and matured into the best version of myself and have been learning to be content and happy with just ME. When I finally meet my future husband I'll be ready for him. Too many broken people in relationships expecting another person to make them happy. People in relationships sad, miserable, lonely and depressed staying in these unhealthy situations for the sake of being in a relationship and fearing being single is a sad way to live.
Perhaps we should consider our relationship with ourselves before others. Being the best version of yourself will lead to a more fulfilling life and the greater possibility of attracting a quality person. Work out, keep your weight in check, yoga, eat healthy, have legitimate hobbies (eating, sleeping, gossiping, shopping and social media are not legitimate hobbies), further your education and interests, take pride in your appearance, read (not garbage magazines), learn the art of conversation, get therapy, have healthy views of sex and sexuality, learn to be a capable cook (you have to eat), know yourself.
My past relationship suck because my partner just wanted me not to have friends and no time to talk to my relatives. No intimacy. But now I’m happy to find the one and we are getting married in the end of the year lol.
Alux covers most topics mainly from Money to relationship to billionaires to bucket lists to friends to expensive hotels to even about waste management ! Keep going on Alux ! You guys are the best .
1-Ask your partner something new. Communication is the determining factor of success for every relationship. 2-Designate a monthly date night. 3-Express your appreciation. 4-Tweak your schedule. 5-Remember the small things.👍👍
The Quick Summary :- 1) You are trying to control everything 2) There is no intimacy (you guys have become too used to each other, so it's time to shake things up a bit) 3) You Aren't On The Same Emotional Level (one of the couple might want something deeper with more commitment, while the other feels they're not there yet relationship wise.) 4) You don't have enough similarities or enough differences (you need to be in synch and also mix things up every once in a while) 5) You don't make time for each other (consciously priorities and plan to execute quality fun times with each other) 6) You are addicted to drama (don't be a drama queen) 7) You have lost the trust of your partner 8) You think the grass is always greener with someone else (Don't be on a lookout for someone else new, stop thinking you're the most boring couples you know) 9) YOU ARE TOO CLINGY! (A healthy relationship involves freedom and trust, encourage your partner to go see friends without you) 10) You have unrealistic expectations of your partner (no one is perfect) 11) YOU HAVE PUT UP WALLS (your failure to deal with your past hurt is causing you to block out emotions you ought to enjoy with your new partner, which makes you too conscious and emotionally unavailable) 12) JEALOUSY IS THE THIRD WHEEL 13) You don't want to accept change (finding someone you love doesn't mean they are impervious to change in the future, self evaluation is a good thing for you both) 14) You need to talk more (Your partner should be your confidant before anyone else) 15) You have forgotten how good dating was ( there is no reason to ever stop going out on dates with your partner, you shouldn't just retire to being fun-buddies and entangled roommates.) BONUS 16) "STOP LOOKING FOR A PARTNER THAT WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE AND FULFILL YOU" Appreciations... Enjoy your day.
Relationships are overrated. Focus on yourself instead. Build your health, build your mind, acquire education, build your wealth. You will be way better off in the end.
My past relationship didn't worked because I was jealous, insecure and didn't able to trust my counterparts because of her past and my deep love for her. That led to lot of compromise on both side and didn't went well. Thank you for this video. looking forward to improve and implement 🙂
My past relationship sucked because I was growing & he hated it. He also had 6 kids and no job. He could cook tho lol I was desperate. My current relationship is better, we just got engaged on my 29th bday (7-12-2020) 🥳however I discovered Alux so I've changed completely 1 year in. He's been adapting so it works. When we have disagreements we set some coping skills in place. Take a ride listen to 5 love languages by Gary Chappman. Listen to music. Walk by water & express why we felt the way we did. Its usually the root of me having daddy issues or his mom passing. We then gain understanding and talk about our goals of traveling. I love it here! I do believe we should definitely get a counselor before the "I do" just to be sure its the right thing. I definitely wouldn't mind having a mentor for marriage and partnership. Thankyou Alux for another amazing video and opportunity to learn and express myself in the comments 💚
Stay free, don't get involved in any kind of relationship. You wont get anything except pain and suffering. And things get worse if you get a kid. You will die in pain daily seeing your partner with you and cant leave her as you have to care for your kid. STAY AWAY FRIENDS! YOU'LL BE MUCH HAPPY SINGLY, TRUST ME
Come on alux, missed opportunity to throw in an innuendo in Netflix and chill. "If there's more Netflix and no chill, your relationship sucks. And not in the good way."
Single and dateless since 2004 and haven't regretted a single minute. I've spent so much time and research trying to understand the world around us that I would be loathe to waste a single minute more on fantasies. Most people are seeking ideals and have no idea where those ideals came from (media) and that they're generally unrealistic and will ultimately lead to failure. A flippant answer I like to give is "I don't like sex enough to want to ruin the rest of my day" ;-)
Based on comments Alux can create a profile of their audience. It is a totally different audience than some other channels I watch. Here single people or people hurt in relationships are dominating, also they probably value money high (which is not a bad thing). As a person happily married I have to say being happy in relationship is a skill, requires a lot of knowledge, practice and learning from mistakes and the partner needs to be able to cooperate and help with this. I see Alux is scratching the surface, has some good points but overall probably psychological and relationship channels would have more happy couples.
Spizo Ngema I have a life, I’m far from shy and I try to get with plenty of women. All results in failure. Thanks for the advice but for an ugly male it’s not gonna work.
@@conbro0985 no one is ugly. Just trust yourself and be confident enough and got some courage to be with someone. Who knows what life can brings to you 😊
I've been listening to Alux for a week now, luv the straight forwardness,this platform is so different, been applying changes to my life, You're just what the doctor order,feeling so motivated like I can conquer anything,Thank You Alux team❤.
We broke up because she didn't value time and would blame me of being someone who always keeps working and do not like attending parties and events. I am so glad, it ended. Ain't gonna get in a relationship until I find someone who value my goals as much as I do
My experience of dating in America has been this...young women expect you to be their comedian, to entertain them. Meanwhile they're bringing nothing to the table, no hobbies no activities...none.
This is happening all over the world men try to appease women while women judge how much appeasing are you recent example is in China where a girl brought 23 family members on her first date to check whether her potential boyfriend is generous or not........if somehow men can control this attitude they might get equal value in relationship
Roadblock#1 You're not communicating. You think your partner chooses his work over your relationship. ... Roadblock#2 You're withholding love. ... Roadblock#3 You've put up walls around your heart. ... Roadblock#4 You cling to your partner. ... Roadblock#5 You have scripts for your partner
Burn, burn, burn baby, burn. More can be said, but I wish I'd watched this video 15 years ago. It would have helped. High value. I think I saw one on how to improve your relationship, but I am not sure. Make one if I am wrong.
That's why I am alone, single and very happy because relationships do suck big time! I prefer having some hanky-panky once a month with a call girl than being a miserable SOB in a relationship that is doomed to fail anyway! Being a bachelor and living the single life is the best way to live until you're a century old! I can drink "A Little Bit Of The Bubbly" anytime I want to celebrate being single and alone. Now that's the life Baby!
It's hard for me to connect with someone as an entrepreneur. Especially those who can only relate to security and not creating their own security. Most women I run into think 9-5 and are stuck in that mindset. It's hard to make time. I can't just stop what I am doing. They always make it sound so easy. Especially when they have nothing to lose.
We are the BBQ people. We’ve been flirting with each other everyday for over 25 years! It’s our secret for success, and not just with marriage. This goes for our business and investments. Happy wife, happy life!
I'm not in a relationship, but i have some of these... But more than all I never felt like someone will ever love me, so i don't even try... I only surround my gadget and other material things and trust money... I even avoid people who are trying to get close to me...
I once been in a relationship but we didn’t make it official before she move away and other women seemed incompatible with me, hell I didn’t even start off as friends with one of them
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Here's a gay man's perspective: My "only" requirement is a fit manly well-mannered guy ideally works in a bank in a mid-senior position (lawyers are OK too) and must dress up in suit and clean nice shoes. Is that too much to ask? It's not even a "list" but I've been struggling to find one that is even close! How about straight women and men - any such experiences to share?
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
When you’re in love wonders happen; when you get married, you wonder what happened! The wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, choose your prison partner with care.
Heres a life hack for you. Believe that No human you meet in your life, wants to do anything good to you. Expect everyone around you to be hostile, and only wants you to suffer. That way you can build up several meters thick concrete reinforced Steel shields around your heart, leaving nothing left but cold, feelingsless, empty and hopeless human within yourself. Also People cant play with your feelings if you dont have Any feelings left when theyre withered away.
Heads up, I didn’t believe in destiny, you can have the most perfect loving relationship where you know you’re going to be together forever, you do everything right, and work hard on it everyday, but even the best relationships end if something different is meant to be, some things are really;out of our control
OK so if you’ve been with the same girl for 40 years and you didn’t have kids you should’ve traded her in for a younger better model a very long time ago but if you decide have kids sticking together might be the right thing to do
hello Alux : do a video of your worst fear......mine being alone ... Lock down showed be how much i needed someone I rather take care of a man than a cat or a dog..lol
Some of these are right but the fundamental thing for this is for guys to discover the Red Pill. And women just need to me traditional women. That chasing career bs... women want kids. Men hold the key to relationships. Women just want the BBD.
Hello Aluxers,! What made your past relationship suck?
Mind Mastery: www.alux.com/meditation
Get a free audiobook thanks to Audible: www.alux.com/freebook
15 Brutal Truths About Relationships: youtu.be/Vt-C6XtZV
My relationships never sucked. If anything, the women that I have dated and have been in relationships with still stalk me on social media. I've always made great strides and effort.
I usually get the ,"you work too much" or I'm given ultimatums. Never make a person choose between their hard-fought goals and them. My goals always come first because it's my livelihood.
I didn't know how to handle her emotions & in today's climate it's hard for me to trust females
The alux voice lady...
telling you how things should be done in all areas of life video after video after video....
I REALLY would like to know how is her own life going. Is she really practicing what she preaches?!
@@kirdot2011 What difference does it make? How do Her actions have any bearing on Your life?
please make more about relationships
Summary:
1. You are trying to control everything.
2. There's no intimacy
3. You aren't on the same emotional level.
4. You don't have enough similarities or enough differences
5. You don't make time for each other.
6. You are addicted to drama.
7. You have lost the trust
8. You think the grass is always Greener with someone else.
9. You are too clingy
10. You have unrealistic expectations of your partner.
11. You have put up walls.
12. Jealousy is the third wheel.
13. You don't want to accept change.
14. You need to talk more.
15. You have forgotten how good dating was.
young prinzy just look in the descriptiom 😂
@@WalterN34 lol, oh I didn't notice that. Thanks
Thanks, now I can go and watch a woman sweep her driveway.
Lack of communication and lack of trust, those will kill a relationship.
Absolutely!!!!!
True
Reason why my relationship doesn't suck : I don't have one and i am way more happy 😂
Lol
True! And take my advise, stay free and most importantly STAY AWAY FROM GIRLS!
PS: I AM NOT GAY (JUST A BADLY MARRIED PERSON)
Is my dream to be like you.
All these reasons alone makes me proud that I've been single for 3 years. I've changed and matured into the best version of myself and have been learning to be content and happy with just ME. When I finally meet my future husband I'll be ready for him. Too many broken people in relationships expecting another person to make them happy. People in relationships sad, miserable, lonely and depressed staying in these unhealthy situations for the sake of being in a relationship and fearing being single is a sad way to live.
Yes 👍🏼
Your relationship can't suck if you are forever single. Big brain time.
Hey Alux, fifteen reasons guys remain single well into there thirties
Like me...lol
@@taylenday yep, I'm more dry than the Sahara
Lol....but at least I have a very high chance of becoming super wealthy...
@@alux WOAH....Thats harsh. What happened Alux?
How did the sweet and smart lady turned into this bitter Karen?
You okay?
Ouch Alux, dissing your community isn’t cool. Seeing a different side of this channel I do not like.
Alux we are special people, your snow flake analogy is just harsh.... ..
Perhaps we should consider our relationship with ourselves before others. Being the best version of yourself will lead to a more fulfilling life and the greater possibility of attracting a quality person. Work out, keep your weight in check, yoga, eat healthy, have legitimate hobbies (eating, sleeping, gossiping, shopping and social media are not legitimate hobbies), further your education and interests, take pride in your appearance, read (not garbage magazines), learn the art of conversation, get therapy, have healthy views of sex and sexuality, learn to be a capable cook (you have to eat), know yourself.
My past relationship suck because my partner just wanted me not to have friends and no time to talk to my relatives. No intimacy. But now I’m happy to find the one and we are getting married in the end of the year lol.
Congrats Men ! All the best to you both !
TuleméritesTM thank you
*Who else is watching this and single? LOL*
🖐🤣
Hell-O
Hahaha...how'd you know?? :)
I'm here lol
I hate u lol
Alux covers most topics mainly from Money to relationship to billionaires to bucket lists to friends to expensive hotels to even about waste management ! Keep going on Alux ! You guys are the best .
We got youu!! 💪
The cure for jealously is having an abundance mindset...
Please elaborate
Right on!
I’m here to prevent my relationship from sucking. Same reason I’m investing and saving, to prevent my life from sucking.
Smart man! 💪
👍🏼
That's the point "Investing & saving to prevent your life from sucking" that's my aspiration
1-Ask your partner something new. Communication is the determining factor of success for every relationship.
2-Designate a monthly date night.
3-Express your appreciation.
4-Tweak your schedule.
5-Remember the small things.👍👍
The Quick Summary :-
1) You are trying to control everything
2) There is no intimacy (you guys have become too used to each other, so it's time to shake things up a bit)
3) You Aren't On The Same Emotional Level (one of the couple might want something deeper with more commitment, while the other feels they're not there yet relationship wise.)
4) You don't have enough similarities or enough differences (you need to be in synch and also mix things up every once in a while)
5) You don't make time for each other (consciously priorities and plan to execute quality fun times with each other)
6) You are addicted to drama (don't be a drama queen)
7) You have lost the trust of your partner
8) You think the grass is always greener with someone else (Don't be on a lookout for someone else new, stop thinking you're the most boring couples you know)
9) YOU ARE TOO CLINGY! (A healthy relationship involves freedom and trust, encourage your partner to go see friends without you)
10) You have unrealistic expectations of your partner (no one is perfect)
11) YOU HAVE PUT UP WALLS (your failure to deal with your past hurt is causing you to block out emotions you ought to enjoy with your new partner, which makes you too conscious and emotionally unavailable)
12) JEALOUSY IS THE THIRD WHEEL
13) You don't want to accept change (finding someone you love doesn't mean they are impervious to change in the future, self evaluation is a good thing for you both)
14) You need to talk more (Your partner should be your confidant before anyone else)
15) You have forgotten how good dating was ( there is no reason to ever stop going out on dates with your partner, you shouldn't just retire to being fun-buddies and entangled roommates.)
BONUS
16) "STOP LOOKING FOR A PARTNER THAT WILL COME INTO YOUR LIFE AND FULFILL YOU"
Appreciations... Enjoy your day.
Relationships are overrated. Focus on yourself instead. Build your health, build your mind, acquire education, build your wealth. You will be way better off in the end.
My past relationship didn't worked because I was jealous, insecure and didn't able to trust my counterparts because of her past and my deep love for her. That led to lot of compromise on both side and didn't went well. Thank you for this video. looking forward to improve and implement 🙂
My partner actually said "we'll have to look at our budget". That's when I knew she's been absorbing all I learn here and pass to her.
That thumb nail rockzzz... Mr and Mrs Smith
Thanks Hano!! 💪
😂😂in August 💀💀
I haven't dated for 12 years since the day I lost the love of my life. Thank you Alux for this I finally have something to start on working
My past relationship sucked because I was growing & he hated it. He also had 6 kids and no job. He could cook tho lol I was desperate. My current relationship is better, we just got engaged on my 29th bday (7-12-2020) 🥳however I discovered Alux so I've changed completely 1 year in. He's been adapting so it works. When we have disagreements we set some coping skills in place. Take a ride listen to 5 love languages by Gary Chappman. Listen to music. Walk by water & express why we felt the way we did. Its usually the root of me having daddy issues or his mom passing. We then gain understanding and talk about our goals of traveling. I love it here! I do believe we should definitely get a counselor before the "I do" just to be sure its the right thing. I definitely wouldn't mind having a mentor for marriage and partnership. Thankyou Alux for another amazing video and opportunity to learn and express myself in the comments 💚
Stay free, don't get involved in any kind of relationship. You wont get anything except pain and suffering. And things get worse if you get a kid. You will die in pain daily seeing your partner with you and cant leave her as you have to care for your kid. STAY AWAY FRIENDS! YOU'LL BE MUCH HAPPY SINGLY, TRUST ME
Come on alux, missed opportunity to throw in an innuendo in Netflix and chill. "If there's more Netflix and no chill, your relationship sucks. And not in the good way."
That’s why I‘m not in a relationship since years 😂.
How do you feel?!
Alux.com It felt lonely before, but since I know, that women can be very selfish, I‘m not that interested in a relationship anymore.
Not all women are the same please don't over generalise..
Florence Scovel I know, but I‘ve met too many, who are like that.
Florence Scovel yes all women are the same. Anything over 90% is all in my book.
Single and dateless since 2004 and haven't regretted a single minute. I've spent so much time and research trying to understand the world around us that I would be loathe to waste a single minute more on fantasies. Most people are seeking ideals and have no idea where those ideals came from (media) and that they're generally unrealistic and will ultimately lead to failure. A flippant answer I like to give is "I don't like sex enough to want to ruin the rest of my day" ;-)
I came to see if Alux offers as good relationship advice as it offers financial advice. Pleasantly satisfied.
Based on comments Alux can create a profile of their audience. It is a totally different audience than some other channels I watch. Here single people or people hurt in relationships are dominating, also they probably value money high (which is not a bad thing). As a person happily married I have to say being happy in relationship is a skill, requires a lot of knowledge, practice and learning from mistakes and the partner needs to be able to cooperate and help with this. I see Alux is scratching the surface, has some good points but overall probably psychological and relationship channels would have more happy couples.
Been single all my life. Can’t tell if it’s a bad thing or a good thing😂
Depends on what you think about it.
Get a life. don't be shy shit happens all the time.
Spizo Ngema I have a life, I’m far from shy and I try to get with plenty of women. All results in failure. Thanks for the advice but for an ugly male it’s not gonna work.
@@conbro0985 no one is ugly. Just trust yourself and be confident enough and got some courage to be with someone. Who knows what life can brings to you 😊
@@conbro0985 don't say that.. you're not ugly, you're too beautiful
I am not in relationship but I am watching this because I love this voice and the content presented by alux love you alux
I've been listening to Alux for a week now, luv the straight forwardness,this platform is so different, been applying changes to my life, You're just what the doctor order,feeling so motivated like I can conquer anything,Thank You Alux team❤.
You forgot about the number one reason. #1 KIDS: THEY HAVE THE POWER TO DESTROY ALMOST ANY COUPLE.
We broke up because she didn't value time and would blame me of being someone who always keeps working and do not like attending parties and events. I am so glad, it ended. Ain't gonna get in a relationship until I find someone who value my goals as much as I do
While I don't have any relationships and I like being single. These are some really good points! Keep it up!
My experience of dating in America has been this...young women expect you to be their comedian, to entertain them. Meanwhile they're bringing nothing to the table, no hobbies no activities...none.
This is happening all over the world men try to appease women while women judge how much appeasing are you recent example is in China where a girl brought 23 family members on her first date to check whether her potential boyfriend is generous or not........if somehow men can control this attitude they might get equal value in relationship
13:06 - You have forgotten how good dating was - so stay single
Some people only stick around when they see a financial benefit of the situation in the long term. She is never truly yours it’s just your turn .
Roadblock#1 You're not communicating. You think your partner chooses his work over your relationship. ...
Roadblock#2 You're withholding love. ...
Roadblock#3 You've put up walls around your heart. ...
Roadblock#4 You cling to your partner. ...
Roadblock#5 You have scripts for your partner
Burn, burn, burn baby, burn. More can be said, but I wish I'd watched this video 15 years ago. It would have helped. High value.
I think I saw one on how to improve your relationship, but I am not sure. Make one if I am wrong.
She told me not to go help the less privileged, I left her she became less privileged.
That's why I am alone, single and very happy because relationships do suck big time!
I prefer having some hanky-panky once a month with a call girl than being a miserable SOB in a relationship that is doomed to fail anyway!
Being a bachelor and living the single life is the best way to live until you're a century old!
I can drink "A Little Bit Of The Bubbly" anytime I want to celebrate being single and alone.
Now that's the life Baby!
It's hard for me to connect with someone as an entrepreneur. Especially those who can only relate to security and not creating their own security. Most women I run into think 9-5 and are stuck in that mindset.
It's hard to make time. I can't just stop what I am doing. They always make it sound so easy. Especially when they have nothing to lose.
The right woman will come along and support and understand your lifestyle
This video just confirmed my sucky relationship. I’ve been single for 48 hours now. Feels great! Thanks @alux your always on point.
We are the BBQ people. We’ve been flirting with each other everyday for over 25 years! It’s our secret for success, and not just with marriage. This goes for our business and investments. Happy wife, happy life!
I really needed this. Sometimes your hustles or businesses might have a negative impact on your relationship. Thanks team alux
Do you mind adding the video script to the links.....thanks
#6 - not necessarily, Alux! There are PLENTY of codependent couples that stay together forever bringing out the worst in each other.
I'm not in a relationship, but i have some of these... But more than all I never felt like someone will ever love me, so i don't even try... I only surround my gadget and other material things and trust money... I even avoid people who are trying to get close to me...
Thts not good long term hun
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Great video, advice and great bonus Alux👍👍
Who have been watching Alux.com for more than a year?❤
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I once been in a relationship but we didn’t make it official before she move away and other women seemed incompatible with me, hell I didn’t even start off as friends with one of them
Financial resentment was the problem of my past relationship.
Number 11 & 12 is what is making my relationship suck, and I'm the one doing it!!
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
Wh'stapp him
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Very good guidance about relationship... !!!
Thank you! We do our best everytime!!
She was into her ex all the time... Eventually she broke up after 3 years
Quite refreshing video...!! Thank you, Alux
Any tips on long distance relationship in this lock down please?
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Hello Mr osekhametalor he can recover your relationship back permanently
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"I don't have such weaknesses."
#11 hits the spot for me
I’m not in a relationship. I’m just an Aluxer!
All men need to control there relationship, it doesn’t benefit them to compromise due to the volatile nature of the fefail.
I love to being lonely forever, better than with people, I hate argues and I hate emotions thing.
Being alone is better so that make happy every single day without mistakes.
Here's a gay man's perspective: My "only" requirement is a fit manly well-mannered guy ideally works in a bank in a mid-senior position (lawyers are OK too) and must dress up in suit and clean nice shoes. Is that too much to ask? It's not even a "list" but I've been struggling to find one that is even close! How about straight women and men - any such experiences to share?
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me (MR OSEKHAMETALOR) how he help many people to bring there lover back.,
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Yeah to comment on this video...it’s great but in my reality...many negatives.
Your best partner is the one u never met.
You relationship can't suck, if you don't have one
Then your relationship probably sucks - I felt that 😂😂🙌🏼
My husband and I are best friends. Thankfully, I couldn't relate to anything in this video. ☺
When you’re in love wonders happen; when you get married, you wonder what happened! The wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, choose your prison partner with care.
Heres a life hack for you. Believe that No human you meet in your life, wants to do anything good to you. Expect everyone around you to be hostile, and only wants you to suffer.
That way you can build up several meters thick concrete reinforced Steel shields around your heart, leaving nothing left but cold, feelingsless, empty and hopeless human within yourself.
Also People cant play with your feelings if you dont have Any feelings left when theyre withered away.
Heads up, I didn’t believe in destiny, you can have the most perfect loving relationship where you know you’re going to be together forever, you do everything right, and work hard on it everyday, but even the best relationships end if something different is meant to be, some things are really;out of our control
A lot tips to use for future relationships I see
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See you tomorrow lovely!!
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Went through contentious divorce, my ex boyfriend was very jealous, insecure, man boy & smothering! 😮🙄😳😔
Hello Mr osekhametalor he can recover your relationship back permanently
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Great video! Definitely, some things to think about.
Thanks for the great content.🙂
That classic voice that lead me to watch every video 🔥🔥
some of these comments seem to be from guys who have taken the red pill. thanks for the info once again Alux.
Great Video Alux👌👌
Thanks lovely!!
Hey Alux , you should post 2-3 videos per week , a video a day is way too much information for most of us .
No, everyone digests information at their own pace!
Thank you Mam
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Bottom line is STAY SINGLE and enjoy your life with hobbies and friends .
OK so if you’ve been with the same girl for 40 years and you didn’t have kids you should’ve traded her in for a younger better model a very long time ago but if you decide have kids sticking together might be the right thing to do
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Thank you Alux!
This particular video is great also as a reminder
I love you Alux thank for the best advice how to have better relationship God bless
hello Alux : do a video of your worst fear......mine being alone ...
Lock down showed be how much i needed someone
I rather take care of a man than a cat or a dog..lol
OMG I believe Alux has been watching my life when creating this video. SMDH....
Sowing good seeds as cause would result in marvelous fruits as effect.
Giving away little would bring considerable in return.
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Smart men don't get married
Then how smart men deal with urge to do sex
I am not in relationship right now..but thanks for saving my future relationship:-)
You are very welcome!!
0 relationships in 25 years. 🙄🙄
Some of these are right but the fundamental thing for this is for guys to discover the Red Pill. And women just need to me traditional women. That chasing career bs... women want kids. Men hold the key to relationships. Women just want the BBD.
Jokes on you alux, I’m over 24 years old and I’ve never had a relationship. So I have a lot of time with my left hand 😆
Just go on a sugar daddy website and pay money for sex.
there are more than 15 techniques alux shows videos of what rich own to your partner so your relationship can suck more
Thumbnail says it all!!!
Brad and Angelina just unsubscribed from Alux😂
Relationships make the rent cheaper during the pandemic. 🤷🏾♂️
Some of your reasons is valid..