15 Reasons Why People Look Down On You

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  • @alux
    @alux  Рік тому +9

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  • @Camillyahreal
    @Camillyahreal Рік тому +122

    When ppl look down on you, no matter where you’re at in life. it’s because they think they’re better. Highly insecure people have this behavior.

    • @lilith_soph
      @lilith_soph Рік тому +4

      Greatly disagree, i think they have a reason to look down on certain people who are uneducated, illogical, unnecessarily loud.

    • @Camillyahreal
      @Camillyahreal Рік тому

      @@lilith_soph So what, doesn't make you right. Why would you look down on another humans short comings? This is where racism and the separation of class comes into play. I'm not walking around looking down on ppl because, they lack confidence etc. Ppl like you are the reason the world is unbalanced today. Please spare me the bs‼️

    • @aintnoneyabusiness7634
      @aintnoneyabusiness7634 Рік тому

      @@lilith_soph you don't have any right to look down on anyone for any reason. humble yourself

    • @MysticRainDrops
      @MysticRainDrops Рік тому +14

      ​​@user-mb1oc1fq1w Both are right . Lol
      But someone with good manners never openly looks down at others they just try as hell not associate with them, lol.

    • @MysticRainDrops
      @MysticRainDrops Рік тому +10

      And yes .. some people that look down or critique others are really insecure and don't usually have the guts to accomplish what they really desire

  • @tbilod
    @tbilod Рік тому +30

    People respect strong, independent people. Also, remember that not everyone will like us for THEIR reasons not ours. But this is not a reason to disparage yourself. If someone doesn't like you move on because you will not change their minds.

  • @taib
    @taib Рік тому +40

    Summary:
    Distance yourself from toxic people.

    • @deepsphere20xx
      @deepsphere20xx Рік тому +1

      That's the best solution.

    • @Electronics_Exploded_9
      @Electronics_Exploded_9 Рік тому +1

      Anyone can be toxic if you allow them to do so

    • @Electronics_Exploded_9
      @Electronics_Exploded_9 Рік тому +3

      ​@harmony3279 It's not possible everywhere, sometimes you need to confront them and solve the issue, Running away all the time won't make you a Confident Person

  • @iloveoldschool888
    @iloveoldschool888 Рік тому +30

    I believe these. Sometimes you have to be rude to people for them to respect you. If you're quiet, introvert like me, people feel as though they can push you over.

    • @dancelifeforsure
      @dancelifeforsure Рік тому +2

      I rather be a quiet shy overly loving person than a judgemental, take advantage of someone kind of person..The person who needs reevaluating is the one who disrespects kind people. World needs loves! Your the ones who have to live with yourselfs when you judge and take advantage of others. Karma.

    • @mingyufloofy157
      @mingyufloofy157 7 місяців тому

      yes, more like we learn to say "no" to favors they don't even appreciate

  • @artofkickz
    @artofkickz Рік тому +15

    I had every insecurity mentioned in this video. But a few years back I started my journey of self development with the ad of Alux and now I can confidently say that I now longer struggle with any of theses social dilemma’s. I can almost cry at the thought of how far I have come after watching and implementing a 1000 hours of Alux content and other content this, on top of all the books I have read.

  • @Destiny11wwww
    @Destiny11wwww Рік тому +40

    It’s sad to see we have come to a point that society normalizes looking down on someone

    • @amalitad6459
      @amalitad6459 Рік тому +2

      Yeh really it's sad

    • @dancelifeforsure
      @dancelifeforsure Рік тому +4

      I know this video is sick. They need to reevaluate and check themselves. They are actually the insecure ones with a high sense of ego.

    • @omotayosatuyi252
      @omotayosatuyi252 Рік тому +1

      Yea it sucks

    • @teenindustry
      @teenindustry Рік тому +1

      I agree but I think the whole point of the video is to help people to get ahead. It isn’t fair that people assume you are stupid if you have no social skills developing them can really give people an edge. I remember hiring a young man who was super odd in the interview but it was a panel and I had to strongly argue the case. I had him mentored because he was great at his core job but I couldn’t let him loose on clients

    • @Mrsunny649
      @Mrsunny649 Рік тому +2

      Yes, this video sounds narcissistic and shallow.

  • @charlottepeukert9095
    @charlottepeukert9095 Рік тому +25

    Well, the reasons given here for people looking down on someone are shallow.There's no reason to proof anything to anyone.You're not obliged to present yourself to anyone to impress them. The only exception to the rule is a job interview.But even here, you're preselected.Otherwise, you wouldn't have been invited. Furthermore, who you are what you do is ( before proven otherwise) nobody's business.It's wise not to pay too much attention to other people. They're for the most part interested in themselves and don't care much about you. Looking down on someone is a stupid behaviour.

    • @lakshaysharma8772
      @lakshaysharma8772 Рік тому +7

      Correct...whether anyone look up.or look down doesn't matter if you are happy for who you are. Just changing behaviour so that people start looking up is not worth it i think

    • @Godspit6066
      @Godspit6066 Рік тому +2

      Unfortunately that's the world we live in,shallow just do what u have to do

    • @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik
      @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik Рік тому +2

      Totally Agree ❤ you have given a wiser thought. I am of the similar opinion.

    • @charlottepeukert9095
      @charlottepeukert9095 Рік тому

      @EYRM9
      O.k., but we're not in heaven yet.As for the temporary status of our existence: the realisation doesn't help,as we live here and now.We have to master this life before moving on to something else.

  • @chisuwochabu250
    @chisuwochabu250 Рік тому +4

    And one thing for sure is that every person that looks down on others is very insecure in themselves. Confident people lift and mentor others. They dont look down on anyone. They can identify a person's struggles and offer to help or atleast not add more damage to this person. Insecure people are the ones that find comfort in putting others down in order to hide their own flaws. Never succum to the behaviours of such people. Take the time to work on yourself but do it for you. Not in fear of such people they are not worth your effort. If anything avoid them s much as you can beacause we all struggle and hut glitches in life sometimes and what we need is kindness not judgment in those moments.

    • @justemoi4611
      @justemoi4611 11 місяців тому

      absolutely true!!!💯❤❤❤❤

  • @veronicaelliott9582
    @veronicaelliott9582 Рік тому +26

    I need to prove things to myself. That is most important.

  • @playboicarlos
    @playboicarlos Рік тому +27

    Only insecure ppl look down on others

    • @benryan1296
      @benryan1296 Рік тому +1

      Not true

    • @leannbarker572
      @leannbarker572 Рік тому +2

      Not necessarily. Some people really have better skills and may be quite irritated by others they perceive as lazy or less ambitious than them.

    • @isaiahyounggod2723
      @isaiahyounggod2723 Рік тому

      ​@@leannbarker572bullshit. They are insecure

    • @iloveoldschool888
      @iloveoldschool888 Рік тому

      Many jealous people try to look down on people to make themselves feel better.

    • @playboicarlos
      @playboicarlos Рік тому

      @@leannbarker572 Who cares ? We never know what others go thru in life. It's not up to us to judge others.

  • @sandrajackson709
    @sandrajackson709 Рік тому +11

    15 reasons why I look down on those who look down on others

    • @dancelifeforsure
      @dancelifeforsure Рік тому +2

      Well said!

    • @omotayosatuyi252
      @omotayosatuyi252 Рік тому +3

      Facts only losers look down on others and think they are better then them it's scummy

    • @192OOIDJJ3
      @192OOIDJJ3 11 місяців тому

      I'm with you so much people look down on 1 person and often team up with strangers in social situations just to put the one individual down more. Toxic Toxic world for anti social non experienced people like myself that just want to be left alone while minding my own business

  • @briank3754
    @briank3754 Рік тому +8

    Being a quiet and conservative man these days is looked down upon. Well, I'm the strong silent type .

  • @ito2876
    @ito2876 Рік тому +9

    I feel like these videos are just longer ads for the courses they’re selling. Idk y’all just think about it. They tell you what’s wrong with you then sell you a course to fix what they’re telling you is wrong with you. I liked Alux before they started selling. Y’all just think, who cares if others look down on you. It shouldn’t matter to you. Prove to yourself how good you are. For you and your fam. If you don’t do anything to make yourself feel good you’ll always feel others are looking i on you. Just food for thought. No-one can show you how to feel like your better that comes from within.

    • @QINGCapital
      @QINGCapital Рік тому +1

      would you work for free?

    • @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik
      @thriveatworkwithWaqasMalik Рік тому +1

      Agree ❤❤❤

    • @dancelifeforsure
      @dancelifeforsure Рік тому +1

      You are smart! Selling tactic 101 is get customer to feel they'll be in the 'in' crowd if they buy. Dating courses use this tactic a lot, getting you to believe their's something wrong with you. Take this with a grain of salt.

  • @kailene5430
    @kailene5430 Рік тому +11

    Only people with low self esteem and/or looking to take advantage of you will look down on you. Healthy people want to help you but will get tired and realize you’re not going to change so they have to distance themselves otherwise it effects them.

  • @Official_Suave
    @Official_Suave Рік тому +10

    Experience comes with time and when the person decided to get out of their comfort zone and do stuff they have never done before.

  • @dancelifeforsure
    @dancelifeforsure Рік тому +3

    How horrible. This is why people commit suicide. If people don't judge and loved you as you are we would have more people taking risk and changing the world. Otherwise you become part of the herd
    Bullies murder the soul. I wouldnt recommend looking down on anyone. It shows you believe you are ego only. Everyone deserves love and respect. Everyone matters. God would take down this video and flag it! Be original. BE YOURSELF. Have messy hair and be imperfect .
    So, little overly nice old people who may not always smell their best were suppose to look down on? Lets be real people only respect others if theyre loaded with cash. You could be the nicest coolest person in the world and not get the same rrspect a rich A- hole gets. Beat to your own drummer bc in the end youll be sorry if you dont. Stand out be different. World needs diversity.

  • @WilliamLugar
    @WilliamLugar 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm number 9, I wish I could fix it, I have applied to so many jobs, and I became the guy waiting for the job.... hoping for a miracle, and not getting anywhere so I am stagnant. I wish I knew where I could go from here, its really depressing.

  • @HUSTLEORSTARVEENT
    @HUSTLEORSTARVEENT Рік тому +3

    Oh man, the first point is a direct shot at myself as an introvert 🤣 Time to get better at my social skills. Charisma directly correlates to sales anyway 👍

    • @Mo-vo4vo
      @Mo-vo4vo Рік тому +3

      I am an introvert and I will not change that for anything. I don't think people think you're stupid because your quiet. It depends on your body language and other factors. Sometimes the silence gives off a cool vibe and an allure.

    • @rj42
      @rj42 Рік тому +1

      It's a very interesting thought process, I grew up nervous and still am, yet I also like to listen a lot to what people are explaining to me

  • @phillipw05
    @phillipw05 Рік тому +9

    Alux is my life

  • @ArturoRubio-h3i
    @ArturoRubio-h3i Рік тому +7

    If someone looks down on you it’s because they already look for reason not to like you

  • @charlest2858
    @charlest2858 Рік тому +6

    This is a life-changing video ❤

  • @timothyarnold9350
    @timothyarnold9350 Рік тому +3

    Not a word about the toxic people that initiated the condescending behavior?

  • @MikeHalow-il8dr
    @MikeHalow-il8dr Рік тому +25

    *My greatest concern is how to recover from all these economic and global troubles and stay afloat especially with the political power tussle going on in US. The government has really called things more difficult for its citizens, and we can't sit back and bear all the consequences of the bad governance. We need to take our financial life serious….. I recommend stock market investment and digital currencies*

    • @ConnerAstwood
      @ConnerAstwood Рік тому

      After I got upto 900k trading with Mrs Eleanor Nelson, I bought a new House and I'm now able to send my kids to a better school in the states When someone is straight forward with what he or she is doing people will always speak up for them.

    • @ConnerAstwood
      @ConnerAstwood Рік тому

      Yea What'sapp 👇

    • @ConnerAstwood
      @ConnerAstwood Рік тому

      404

    • @ConnerAstwood
      @ConnerAstwood Рік тому

      452

    • @ConnerAstwood
      @ConnerAstwood Рік тому +1

      5971

  • @williamslappy6298
    @williamslappy6298 Рік тому +3

    I don’t know how y’all do it, but you guys are always on point. Alux ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @RabiciMaivuca-p3o
    @RabiciMaivuca-p3o 9 місяців тому +1

    Especially my family looks down on me.they can't even appreciate if do something good and they will just complain

  • @j.borchard2208
    @j.borchard2208 Рік тому +2

    Screw them if they do t like what they see or what you Say! You are you and nothing should ever change that if you’re doing right in the World and succeeding in Life!

  • @ceanorpilla5540
    @ceanorpilla5540 Рік тому +1

    People will always look down on you. So get better daily even on small amounts. One of the saddest reality. Learn from it and set boundariesm

  • @BasementBerean
    @BasementBerean Рік тому +5

    I'm shorter than them.

  • @Camillyahreal
    @Camillyahreal Рік тому +3

    It’s giving I’m looking for validation in ppl. Thankfully I don’t.

    • @prolific101
      @prolific101 Рік тому +2

      Mostly what Alux Is about...Self improvement for Validation.

    • @rj42
      @rj42 Рік тому +2

      ​@prolific101 That's actually a good point, I noticed some of my family watching this year's ago, and I slowly caught on to the self reflection talk and mind game assumptions. Though they are right about people downing you for some small reasons, people still do think of themselves more than others thinking down of themselves first

  • @donaldjohnson7777
    @donaldjohnson7777 Рік тому +1

    But I clearly understand, Alux is just giving you reasons in why they do it. Our midst and mentality could hold value but at the same time do some of these things unconsciously and not know it. Good 👌 content Alux.

  • @prolific101
    @prolific101 Рік тому +1

    This is mostly why people do outrageous things to stay Relevant in the Face of Society.
    Off Grid Life with Genuity & Peace is The Goal.

  • @abdouliejallow7642
    @abdouliejallow7642 Рік тому +2

    the once that look down on other always pay the price of POOR

  • @lecochonmalefique
    @lecochonmalefique Рік тому +2

    Respect is EARNED not granted and it's won either by a display of power or by an act of genuine kindness.

  • @averiesoto4042
    @averiesoto4042 Рік тому +1

    Impeccable timing, Alux 👍🏻

  • @JSFGuy
    @JSFGuy Рік тому +1

    I was Just checking... 🤔

  • @clementifangblog8583
    @clementifangblog8583 Рік тому +1

    Thanks so much for sharing,
    Identify one of this in myself.
    So am going to work on this fast.
    I know nobody is above mistake.

  • @chisuwochabu250
    @chisuwochabu250 Рік тому +1

    This seems to encourage false positivity and insesitive to human dynamics, why not encourage empathy instead?

  • @VaughnVillegas
    @VaughnVillegas Рік тому +1

    I wish Alux would create a series of best investment or personal growth opportunities for each country that their citizens would relate to, and foreign investors can understand those as well.
    Some investment techniques or growth opportunities might not be the same or accessible as in the U.S.

  • @isaiahharrell20
    @isaiahharrell20 Рік тому +1

    Another amazing video thank you guys so much for everything

  • @hugh009
    @hugh009 Рік тому +1

    Nope didn't recognize myself however in the past it would have been totally different!

  • @groenaapje
    @groenaapje Рік тому +1

    lots of advertisement, for ur course, ... .

  • @Zimboprenuer
    @Zimboprenuer Рік тому +1

    This is the best video ever

  • @cartoonistxv9254
    @cartoonistxv9254 Рік тому +1

    Why u look down upon people in the first place ?.. its the problem..

  • @auro1986
    @auro1986 Рік тому

    narrator says to look down at your computer or phone screens to watch 15 videos in alux channel daily

  • @imanbluestone
    @imanbluestone Рік тому +1

    Best video by alux 2023, thank you for your perspective....

  • @frankalexander5401
    @frankalexander5401 Рік тому +1

    I will use profanity to make a point and I don’t care much about my social skills mostly because I don’t care what people think about me. I have my BA, MD, MS, MPA and have a net worth well into 8 figures. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Chris-jo8tm
    @Chris-jo8tm 3 місяці тому

    While you’re looking down on me expecting to be worshipped and feared as a god. God is looking down from heaven taking notes. The wages of sin is death and we will all die as sinners. But nobody will avoid the judgment as we answer for all things including what we do in private. Just because you think you got away with lying or cheating ect. We will all have to answer for all things we have done if you haven’t repented and changed. The meek shall inherit the earth. The proud boasters and the self righteous or the people that look down on others must change and humble themselves. Don’t try to be like them just walk away

  • @ArturoRubio-h3i
    @ArturoRubio-h3i Рік тому +1

    Don’t trip on these people forget them

  • @wlady4000
    @wlady4000 7 місяців тому

    Hi Alux, I had to man up and create boundaries of respect and stop complaining. I still struggle but the good thing is that now I know where I want to be. That's why I am actively working on becoming the best version of myself.

  • @anyname777
    @anyname777 Рік тому

    Someone thinks a pic of people looking down at the viewers is a good marketing strategy.

  • @SonjaElizabethTeal
    @SonjaElizabethTeal Рік тому +4

    I had no intention of listening to this video and for some reasons I kept being drawn to it.
    Thanks!

  • @ShaKing_037
    @ShaKing_037 Рік тому +1

    Hello Alux

    • @JSFGuy
      @JSFGuy Рік тому

      Hello Alex

  • @Weathering123
    @Weathering123 7 місяців тому

    The question is how to you find people who love you for who you are ? and expect you for you ?

  • @notoutyet1983
    @notoutyet1983 Рік тому

    Absolutely ❤...

  • @charlesedwards4160
    @charlesedwards4160 Рік тому

    Just give them plates of hot spicy curry to give them the runs.

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie Рік тому

    Mmm 🤔

  • @jarvisholland7837
    @jarvisholland7837 Рік тому

    Great teaching

  • @astroneshongedza6576
    @astroneshongedza6576 Рік тому

    timeless knowledge

  • @RabiciMaivuca-p3o
    @RabiciMaivuca-p3o 9 місяців тому

    Especially my family is looking down on me

  • @imlv2614
    @imlv2614 Рік тому

    Amazing video❤

  • @m.showers1242
    @m.showers1242 Рік тому

    Well done ALUX!

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie Рік тому

    Rather interesting video!

  • @jovelynentrampas1900
    @jovelynentrampas1900 4 місяці тому

    Nothing here works.

  • @dennis.teevee
    @dennis.teevee Рік тому

    ♥️ Alux Girl

  • @PraveenKUMAR-gx5ck
    @PraveenKUMAR-gx5ck Рік тому

    1st like and comment in the world 😂😂😂

  • @wlady4000
    @wlady4000 Рік тому

    Mind blowing video

  • @askip7
    @askip7 Рік тому

    I’m lucky in that I’ve never given two sh*ts what people think about me.
    I clicked on this to better understand why it seems to matter so much to others. My advice to anyone reading this is to live life on your own terms.
    The only person who it matters what they think about you is God. Get close to Him and the noise of this world will fade away. What does it profit you if you gain the whole world and lose your own soul?

  • @mustaphabettahar7535
    @mustaphabettahar7535 Рік тому

  • @amol900095
    @amol900095 Рік тому +1

    Am the 1st 👍

    • @JSFGuy
      @JSFGuy Рік тому

      Look again

  • @nadiaxoxo1563
    @nadiaxoxo1563 Рік тому

    im just listening to their achievement story telling coz they never gave you a moment to speak. i don't bother.

  • @Whoeverwhateverwhenever
    @Whoeverwhateverwhenever Рік тому

    I hate to bring this to you, but what people think about us doesn't matter, and until you realise that, you will depend on these stupid slow mo Alux videos 😴

  • @MyChnl0024
    @MyChnl0024 Рік тому

    .

  • @reckszkingzactivitiesrkat.4134

    To much facts spoken , avoid being looked down on in life by following these steps on this video ladies & Gents 👏🏾✅

  • @porkbanhmi
    @porkbanhmi Рік тому

    If your course can help me deal with aholes that cough all over the gym or people that are too lazy to return their shopping trolleys then sign me up!

  • @MrOmegaDaPrince
    @MrOmegaDaPrince Рік тому

    No bonus this time, dang, lol

  • @alexiafox8000
    @alexiafox8000 8 місяців тому

    Th reason people look down on you
    Me : I'm 4'10

  • @RabiciMaivuca-p3o
    @RabiciMaivuca-p3o 9 місяців тому

    Especially my family looks down on me.they can't even appreciate if do something good and they will just complain

  • @RabiciMaivuca-p3o
    @RabiciMaivuca-p3o 9 місяців тому

    Especially my family is looking down on me