GOING NO CONTACT WITH YOUR EX AFTER THE BREAKUP | The Power Of Going No Contact After A Breakup

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  • @evastrangelove
    @evastrangelove Рік тому +5

    Can’t even blame my ex for being a clown- im the one that kept buying tix to the circus.

  • @maribelgaravito2625
    @maribelgaravito2625 9 місяців тому +7

    I think the hardest thing for me to learn is that the man I was in love with was just an illusion 💔 He was not all that he was made out to be.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  9 місяців тому +1

      Live and learn! 🙏🏾

  • @ganiaj87
    @ganiaj87 Рік тому +22

    Facts! That’s the part right there, up at night thinking of ALLLL the wasted time with somebody I thought was genuine. By the end tho, I realized he was a genuine piece a’ you know what LoL. NEVER again will I go thru that with ANYBODY.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому +3

      Live and learn right? 🙌🏾💯

    • @ganiaj87
      @ganiaj87 Рік тому

      @@WeavToldMe no lies told Lol

  • @pearlramkissoon2021
    @pearlramkissoon2021 Рік тому +7

    6 months and it felt as if i was clawing my way up from hell! Seeing him go after women and give them the attention i begged for almost killed me. Thank you as always for the clarity. Blessings. ❤

  • @albertomontelongo9260
    @albertomontelongo9260 Рік тому +3

    Took me a long time to let this shit go man it was draining.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому +1

      Its a process for sure. Stay strong!

  • @Roricsseal
    @Roricsseal Рік тому +4

    I’m not gonna lie, this is my second breakup with someone that I spent a few years with and I’ll tell you what; there are too many broken men and women out there. Since it was my second rodeo I knew something was up almost instantly, but still fell for some of the clique cop outs of “spending time with the family” or whatever. You speak the truth! It will always hurt to be disappointed and disrespected.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Thank you for checking out the video. Stay inspired!

  • @marebears626
    @marebears626 Рік тому +10

    You are amazing. I literally felt exactly the way you were describing. It’s not easy. Going to contact when you love somebody and just cut them off like that. It is doable for a while but then it starts eating at you. I broke no contact after 96 days. Spoke with my ex for a week, and then I was discarded. Now I am back now with no contact and the second time around is easier.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому +3

      Be patient with yourself. One day at a time right? 🙏🏾

    • @jeaneengant6771
      @jeaneengant6771 Рік тому +1

      I understand.. I went NC then I seen him back to NC seen him and NC.. did this for a minute.. until I realized if I keep doing this he will never change as long as he thinks he still got me.. so now I’m back to NC and now it’s killing him cause he realize I’m serious

  • @free2bme604
    @free2bme604 6 місяців тому

    Stop being so impatient with yourself ! I love that needed that and sit my Ssa down some where

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  6 місяців тому

      Thanks for checking out the video

  • @pacosandoval4090
    @pacosandoval4090 11 місяців тому +1

    You’ve just save me a crisis . Thank you 🙏

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  11 місяців тому

      Thanks for watching

  • @juliewilson3960
    @juliewilson3960 Рік тому

    all i can say is thank you for your spot on words .its a horrible hopeless feeling at first you make me feel better and to know someone else gets this messed up feeling . i pray for peace and pray for others to know you are not alone . God help us all heed to this advice.

  • @michaelbrady4033
    @michaelbrady4033 Рік тому +2

    Man you keep me motivated. I'm 5 months post breakup.. I still have a lot of love for her and have to start seeing her at work tomorrow. She snapped at me to delete our pictures off social media back in May but she's still got every damn photo up and it's bothering me.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Its a process for sure. One day at a time though. Stay strong!

  • @stephaniecartagena1347
    @stephaniecartagena1347 Рік тому +2

    Love that you knock some sense and reality checks instead of telling us how to get our ex back but would love longer videos so I can listen while I have a long drive

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching and following along. 🙏🏾🫡

    • @EnduranceWilson
      @EnduranceWilson Рік тому

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ i got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Wilson who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg. For a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

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      @EnduranceWilson Рік тому

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    • @EnduranceWilson
      @EnduranceWilson Рік тому

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  • @feliciapeters2261
    @feliciapeters2261 Рік тому +1

    Ugh. This is exactly what I'm going through rn..

  • @kananisA75
    @kananisA75 Рік тому

    You are literally describing my situation, it is by far the hardest thing I have ever gone through, her mother was also in the background helping her manipulate and cheat on me. Its a crazy world out here.
    Thank you for the videos I thought I was loosing my mind but you really helped me because I can't trust my self anymore.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Crazy is an understatement. Stay inspired bro!

  • @arzumgulsar6951
    @arzumgulsar6951 Рік тому

    Boy I feel you Just Kicked my a***, whipppppp!!!! 😮 ok ok, I’m hearing it!

  • @ulysses8785
    @ulysses8785 Рік тому +2

    I am happy your channel is growing.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Appreciate the love! 🙏🏾🫡

  • @Billaaayyy
    @Billaaayyy Рік тому +1

    Man, I needed to see this tonight. I feel so much better. Thanks for the awesome vid!

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому +1

      Ty for watching. Stay inspired! 🙌🏾

  • @alyonaakhremchyk
    @alyonaakhremchyk 11 місяців тому

    Thank you 💎
    Your videos help me just to go step by step through this inner battle, everyday.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  11 місяців тому

      One day at a time. Thanks for watching.

  • @ulysses8785
    @ulysses8785 Рік тому +1

    Great presentation!

  • @samonem7926
    @samonem7926 Рік тому +1

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 right on time

  • @free2bme604
    @free2bme604 6 місяців тому

    That's the part that hurts he didn't even fight for me 😔I can't even think straight time wasted I have my all love him and was there . Now he is with the girl he always cheated with

  • @joanmu1053
    @joanmu1053 Рік тому

    WEAV.. you are the big brother I never had 😉 my coach. Or angel. Thank you sm ❤

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Thank you! Stay inspired 🖤🙏🏾

  • @vc8311
    @vc8311 Рік тому +1

    This was good Weav!!!! ❤

  • @rosemarywatson2907
    @rosemarywatson2907 Рік тому

    I don't know if words can really express my gratitude thank you mr. weav

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching. Truly appreciate the love 🫡🙏🏾

  • @johnkillough5814
    @johnkillough5814 11 місяців тому

    You are helping.

  • @reneegardner5142
    @reneegardner5142 Рік тому +1

    Thankyou for this!! You are so right

  • @pjolivier2888
    @pjolivier2888 Рік тому

    Thank you. Sense!

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Thanks for checking out the video!

  • @frankieperna1053
    @frankieperna1053 Рік тому +1

    Excellent advice as always 🙏

  • @dondikennedy1296
    @dondikennedy1296 Рік тому

    Great advice hits home...thanks, brother 👏

  • @CoachKen10
    @CoachKen10 Рік тому +1

    This video is fantastic!

  • @TigerintheMist
    @TigerintheMist Рік тому +1

    Great video thank you

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching 🙏🏾

  • @tatywillams
    @tatywillams Рік тому

    I love you. Thank you

  • @monalewis7740
    @monalewis7740 Рік тому

    This information is so true ❤

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Thank you for checking out the video! 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @taraQcoo7814
    @taraQcoo7814 Рік тому

    Thanks for the encouraging words little, big brother...this message i needed...so clear and precise

  • @loveofmylife1578
    @loveofmylife1578 Рік тому

    Whew what a doggone word

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for watching. 💯

    • @EnduranceWilson
      @EnduranceWilson Рік тому

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ i got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Wilson who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg. For a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

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  • @anthonylockwood1879
    @anthonylockwood1879 Рік тому

    I needed to Hear that today, thank you.

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      Thanks for watching! 🏁

    • @EnduranceWilson
      @EnduranceWilson Рік тому

      My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ i got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Wilson who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg. For a second chance. He can bring your ex back, and he also do a lot of work also like financial problem, and court case, etc

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  • @jacquelinewilliams6367
    @jacquelinewilliams6367 10 місяців тому

    Thank You

  • @ogsemi-automusic813
    @ogsemi-automusic813 9 місяців тому

    Preach

  • @SzeberFN
    @SzeberFN Рік тому

    I've been in NC for about one and a half months now. We broke up on August 30th, which also happened to be my birthday. She's been texting me quite a bit throughout the months, asking how I'm doing. It's been a week, and she's asked me how I'm doing again. Then her mother texted me, asking if she could come over for a chat with me and my mom. That message got me thinking, like, 'What's going on here?' I declined her offer, thanked her for the kind words, and mentioned that my mom would probably be willing to chat with her. She read the message, that was so werid tho. but I can't help but wonder why my ex keeps texting me. I just don't understand her reasons. Is she testing the waters or trying to see if I'm still open to being with her or?

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому +1

      Sounds like it’s just mind games. Don’t fall for the foolishness.

    • @SzeberFN
      @SzeberFN Рік тому

      @@WeavToldMe I saw that she texted me one night when I was out. I saw the text in my notification, but I didn't open it; I waited until the next day. She said, 'Hey, you. I can assume you've blocked me everywhere, and I don't know if you can see this, but how are you doing?' I replied, 'Hey, you. I am doing great. How about you?' She saw the text instantly but waited until the next day to simply say, 'Oh, I am doing fine.' I haven't heard from her since!

  • @aprilcobianchi2815
    @aprilcobianchi2815 7 місяців тому

    I was in illusion also

  • @ApostleThe344
    @ApostleThe344 Рік тому +5

    2 months in no contact shes on dating apps after saying shes not ready to dating anyone lol. Fucking hilarious. Let go moved on im out

    • @WeavToldMe
      @WeavToldMe  Рік тому

      💯🏁

    • @idmandu2
      @idmandu2 Рік тому

      I have one a bit worse. I was engaged. She got made at me and gave me my ring back. I have bought and paid for both ring that she picked out. She even tried then on for the perfect fit. I even had her pick out any venue in Fl, and I would pay for her wedding because we men just show up and say "I do". I tried for 2 months. to work it out with her, and got the "God has blessed me with another man". Right! This was 2 months ago. 3 days ago. I see her on a dating app lol You can't make this Sh** up!!! Not to mention, we went to church counseling. We go to the same church. She is in the choir. I am one of the ushers. Everybody in church knows about engagement and asking, "When is the big day?" Now, because of this, I had to separate from the church. They still reach out to me to come back or even attend some online bible studies. But, doing that would make me look desperate, pathetic, and less than a man. Now, I just focus on me, and take it, one day at a time. Sad but true, but also, bitter sweet...

    • @keithbrown2425
      @keithbrown2425 11 місяців тому

      Lmaoo same she told me she wanted to be single then three weeks later she introduced another dude to her mom

  • @jennifernixon563
    @jennifernixon563 Рік тому

    😂

  • @JenniferRenae
    @JenniferRenae Місяць тому

    Thank you.

  • @raydrew3509
    @raydrew3509 10 місяців тому

    Thank you