That man had more red flags than a Chinese parade, I can never break no contact with someone who treated me like I was nothing to lose, I just left and let him lose me.
Breaking up and going no contact has been positive for me.Iam into 9 weeks now. I look back at our relationship and see how one sided it was and I should have left months ago.During no contact everyday I write down all the reasons he made me want to go..
After 8 years … she poof ghosted for no reason . It’s been 6 months of no contact … I understand how you feel . Question is, what do we miss? The dream of what we imagined the relationship to be ?
You will heal, but it will take time. I been there, you will always remember and never forget. But you will build up strength and that pain is what makes us Human!
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You will get better but you'll never forget. It's a life lesson, use it next time around
11 months. I gave it my all. I have no more efforts and no more energy to give. Unbelievable that he never reached out, never gave effort. My broken heart can’t handle no more.
Willingness to sacrfice is a huge and reality statement! Like they say in the Spanish language- “Cuando uno esta enamorado, uno es pendejo!”= when one is deeply in love, one is simply a lost idiot.” Great Video Weav! Cheers😊
Invested time, energy, effort, and money that I will NEVER get back or ever benefit from. Eventually I realized I HAD to stop throwing myself at a problem that I could not solve alone. And I HAD to stop throwing good money after bad!!! No Contact was the space that allowed me to figure all that out. Thanks Weav!❤
Things have been good throughout No Contact. I did send a clean slate message though because I didn't handle things well after the break-up; however, I feel it was necessary to move on and let her know I was moving forward.
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I think of how well behaved, supportive and active I was with her. Never did I pressure her or lack giving her space. These memories help me move forward knowing I did my very best.
I wanted to say thank you for making the video I think it’s 100% spot on. I’m too old to be playing this game a contact person is no contact if they can’t be mature enough to sit down and talk I’m 61 years old then the hell with them I don’t need it anymore I don’t wanna play the games I’m not 17 and neither are they I don’t wanna hear about it. Thank you again for making this video.
Just discovered your channel. Intellectually, I get it, I know I shouldn’t settle for less. But there are those days, those days when I hurt, and I am anxious, and just damn right stupid. So I need to record your coaching and put it on playback. That should be my cure…😂 Thank you !
I haven't seen her since Presidents Day. Tonight this very night I saw her at the bar. Like 35 days later. She was just livid brutal hostile. I don't even know what she is mad about. I was so excited to see her. I tried to talk to her. She just said leave me alone. So very very angry. I don't understand. I'm half convinced she is a narcissist. She was crying and she told me she loves me. But to leave her alone. She wouldn't even look at me. WTF
Sounds like toxic and dangerous like you should stay far away.
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She was pissed because she was cheating on you, and she wanted it guilt free. You were a reminder to her that she's a betraying bottom feeder.and she knows it.
I broke no contact but after realizing I was chasing a raggedy broken man lol I said nah 😭😭😭 I realize NOW that I am a loving kind hearted person with good intentions and if someone can treat people with a loving nature like shit then you can stay ya ass right where you’re at 😂😂 good riddance
Sad part is I had to let some of my family members go as well cause they still dealing with the ex 🤦🏽♂️ My own dad telling me just cause I broke up with her doesn’t means everyone else has too 🤣😭
Is it okay to get back if you’re the one who made mistakes? I get that you have to value yourself and that what they did to leave was wrong, but if you put them in a position to do so and it could possibly be something healthy for both parties, can you take them back?
Stop being in a rush to make it to a destination you've never been to before. Be patient with yourself, seek counseling or coaching, and take it one day at a time.
Conflict resolution!! Huh ! He couldn’t even talk about anything so fucking immature !! EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE!! And most of the problems were HIS drinking his shitty attitude, his drinking, hiding his phone , criticisms & put downs ! LACK of RESPECT! 🤬 NO FIXING the RELATIONSHIP! I Expected more from him by what he told me & showed me in the beginning!
Date date date. Make it clear to new guys day one sex is off the table till you know them and trust them. That will also give you time to see their dark side. As a guy I'm telling you sex changes us too. Make him wait. If he does, he has potential
That man had more red flags than a Chinese parade, I can never break no contact with someone who treated me like I was nothing to lose, I just left and let him lose me.
Stay strong!
Breaking up and going no contact has been positive for me.Iam into 9 weeks now. I look back at our relationship and see how one sided it was and I should have left months ago.During no contact everyday I write down all the reasons he made me want to go..
Live and learn!
Over 6 months, and it still hurts and I still think about her almost daily.
After 8 years … she poof ghosted for no reason . It’s been 6 months of no contact … I understand how you feel .
Question is, what do we miss? The dream of what we imagined the relationship to be ?
Be okay with that and keep healing.
You will heal, but it will take time. I been there, you will always remember and never forget. But you will build up strength and that pain is what makes us Human!
You will get better but you'll never forget. It's a life lesson, use it next time around
11 months. I gave it my all. I have no more efforts and no more energy to give. Unbelievable that he never reached out, never gave effort. My broken heart can’t handle no more.
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Willingness to sacrfice is a huge and reality statement! Like they say in the Spanish language- “Cuando uno esta enamorado, uno es pendejo!”= when one is deeply in love, one is simply a lost idiot.” Great Video Weav! Cheers😊
Thank you for following along! 🙏🏾
True love is sacrificial … it’s action regardless on how one feels in that moment …
Invested time, energy, effort, and money that I will NEVER get back or ever benefit from. Eventually I realized I HAD to stop throwing myself at a problem that I could not solve alone. And I HAD to stop throwing good money after bad!!!
No Contact was the space that allowed me to figure all that out.
Thanks Weav!❤
Yes indeed!
Things have been good throughout No Contact. I did send a clean slate message though because I didn't handle things well after the break-up; however, I feel it was necessary to move on and let her know I was moving forward.
I think of how well behaved, supportive and active I was with her. Never did I pressure her or lack giving her space. These memories help me move forward knowing I did my very best.
I wanted to say thank you for making the video I think it’s 100% spot on. I’m too old to be playing this game a contact person is no contact if they can’t be mature enough to sit down and talk I’m 61 years old then the hell with them I don’t need it anymore I don’t wanna play the games I’m not 17 and neither are they I don’t wanna hear about it. Thank you again for making this video.
Thank you for watching. Stay strong!
@@WeavToldMe Thank you sir.
Just discovered your channel. Intellectually, I get it, I know I shouldn’t settle for less. But there are those days, those days when I hurt, and I am anxious, and just damn right stupid.
So I need to record your coaching and put it on playback. That should be my cure…😂 Thank you !
One day at a time. Stay inspired!
Thank you im healing focus on me i deserve better 🙏😌
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Each video I watch helps more
Thanks for watching
Thank you. I needed this.
Stay strong!
I haven't seen her since Presidents Day. Tonight this very night I saw her at the bar. Like 35 days later. She was just livid brutal hostile. I don't even know what she is mad about. I was so excited to see her. I tried to talk to her. She just said leave me alone. So very very angry. I don't understand. I'm half convinced she is a narcissist. She was crying and she told me she loves me. But to leave her alone. She wouldn't even look at me. WTF
A lot of time her friends play a massive role that shouldn't play.
Sounds like toxic and dangerous like you should stay far away.
She was pissed because she was cheating on you, and she wanted it guilt free. You were a reminder to her that she's a betraying bottom feeder.and she knows it.
Married 8 year he moved on within 2 month I went no contact, 7 month no contact best thing I’ve ever done I healed and I’m at peace
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I broke no contact but after realizing I was chasing a raggedy broken man lol I said nah 😭😭😭 I realize NOW that I am a loving kind hearted person with good intentions and if someone can treat people with a loving nature like shit then you can stay ya ass right where you’re at 😂😂 good riddance
Live and learn! 🏁
Love love love your channel and energy. ❤ Thankyou
Ty for watching 🙏🏾
This is amazing 👏 🙌 as always!! Thank you!!
Thank you! Truly appreciate the love!
Will never break no contact never 💯 😌
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Mine is phone bombing me today. Using a different phone. No Caller.
Messages & texts. I’ve got nada for him. No contact. Period.
Stay inspired
Thank you 🙏
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Sad part is I had to let some of my family members go as well cause they still dealing with the ex 🤦🏽♂️ My own dad telling me just cause I broke up with her doesn’t means everyone else has too 🤣😭
Sad for sure.
She hid a co worker from me the whole time ignored all the red flags me and my ex work together but I’m looking to leave the job as we speak
Stay inspired!
Is it okay to get back if you’re the one who made mistakes? I get that you have to value yourself and that what they did to leave was wrong, but if you put them in a position to do so and it could possibly be something healthy for both parties, can you take them back?
Its okay to make whatever decision you feel is right, but it’s even more okay to keep it moving forward and not try reignite past relationships.
Absolutely. If both parties are OK with it. But just know that the dumpee may never see you the same or be the original person you knew.
8mnths later I still feel very restless please how do I counter this part?🤦♀️😩
Stop being in a rush to make it to a destination you've never been to before. Be patient with yourself, seek counseling or coaching, and take it one day at a time.
Conflict resolution!! Huh !
He couldn’t even talk about anything so fucking immature !! EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE!!
And most of the problems were HIS drinking his shitty attitude, his drinking, hiding his phone , criticisms & put downs !
LACK of RESPECT! 🤬
NO FIXING the RELATIONSHIP!
I Expected more from him by what he told me & showed me in the beginning!
Live and learn!
Date date date. Make it clear to new guys day one sex is off the table till you know them and trust them. That will also give you time to see their dark side. As a guy I'm telling you sex changes us too. Make him wait. If he does, he has potential
Thank you ! Yes i’m going to change the way I date now ❤️
ha, you're good :)
Thank you for watching
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I have nothing to say to my soon ex cheating covert coward husband
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@user-bo3kx3vs5m I will say and speak truth wherever I choose. You can move on. You just created your account 2 months ago?? Interesting
Moving on is a process.
@jaydub7386 exactly 💯 the person above follows me around on UA-cam, always telling me what I should do🤣 it's just an insecure hater
@jaydub7386 besides that, I'm not even divorced yet. Some people 🙄