I find it really sad that most people can't be alone. They're so dependent on others, it's heartbreaking really. They'll never experience the pleasure of solitude.
Making the shift into becoming unconcerned with this world and the people in it - even from a peaceful and nonviolent standpoint - is one of the highest social crimes you can commit during your time on this planet. Minding your own business and preferring not to get caught up in anyone else's drama is one of the quickest ways to find out what people are really about - and most are simply interested in having unfettered access to others. If not physically, then mentally, emotionally, or financially. It's honestly incredibly warped, the way we've been made to be such aggressively dependent social leeches. Those who stand in opposition to this dynamic (no matter how non-confrontational we may try to be) make other people uncomfortable simply for existing, and it's exhausting.
same but i do to an extent cuz i hate when things are awkward. But any time i socialize its like nothing happens in the end cuz im boring and everyone else is boring to me
Bro, same. I have one friend I met at work in 2017. I just try to keep that friendship alive because I'm not trying to build anymore connections. Not only am I bored of socializing, but most people are just toxic and lessons anyway
@@granadosable Sorry, it's not. Humans are a social species and need a sense of belonging. Your trauma from shit that happened to you, causes your nervous system to be in fight or flight around other people, so you feel better if you avoid people, but you're not getting any oxytocin from human connection. You are using various coping strategies to deal with that dysfunction.
Everyone's just kindof a bitch. I don't sweat it I just move with the flow. If everyone's so vicious, hostile, and cruel when you're just trying to have a fun time with them, okie, clearly not meant to be. Not just in this area, but in all areas of life, if you encounter extreme unrelenting resistance to something, then let it go and give up on it, and you can navigate to what you're meant to do in that labyrinthine sort of way 😁
I mostly prefer to be alone due to trauma, too much risk not enough reward for 'putting yourself out there'. Plus introversion/mental health is poor, so even less reasons.
00:02 Appreciating being alone and critiquing societal pressure on socializing 02:19 Negative childhood experiences affecting upbringing 04:00 Feeling pressured to fit in and have friends in school 05:38 Facing bullying and lack of friends without concern for relationships or societal pressures. 07:22 Society's manipulation of societal expectations and relationships. 09:09 Prefers being alone to avoid needy and demanding people 10:47 Preferring to be alone for critical thinking and independence 12:43 There's nothing wrong with wanting to be alone. Appreciating being alone and critiquing societal pressure on socializing - Emphasizing the preference for solitude over social connections - Exploring personal experiences with family dynamics and the concept of chosen solitude Negative childhood experiences affecting upbringing - Lack of proper diet and healthy eating - Struggles with standing up to bullies and lack of parental support Feeling pressured to fit in and have friends in school - Experienced pressure to constantly be with other kids to avoid being labeled as a loser - Felt conditioned by family and society to prioritize having friends, leading to bullying incidents Facing bullying and lack of friends without concern for relationships or societal pressures. - Realization of bullies being cowards deep down, leading to lack of interest in having friends. - Acceptance of celibacy due to financial constraints, lack of social connections, and limited options in rural area. Society's manipulation of societal expectations and relationships. - Men and women are pressured to conform to specific societal norms and expectations. - Critical perspective on traditional ideas of happiness and relationships, highlighting transactional nature. Prefers being alone to avoid needy and demanding people - Feeling like form of love bombing after receiving a gift from sister - Enjoying peaceful time alone without dealing with nagging and unnecessary interactions Preferring to be alone for critical thinking and independence - Being alone allows for independent thinking and reduces reliance on others - Even extroverted individuals can benefit from occasional solitude for self-reflection There's nothing wrong with wanting to be alone. - Embracing solitude is acceptable, including not wanting family connections or close friends. - Society promotes dependency to control individuals, hindering independence and critical thinking.
being a Loner is all I know how to do it's no wonder people like us are bitter & resentful Your life is pretty much like mine if I had the option to avoid everyone currently in my life right now I more than certainly would.
I haven't made any new friends since I graduated high-school.That was 15 years ago. I tend to keep people at an arms length. Most of my real friends are dead or I've lost contact with them. I do enjoy my alone time.
In a way it's a trap. You're insulted and derided for not wanting what they want but really it's their way of getting something out of you if you want what they want you to want. Only way out is to be yourself.
You play video games right? Then you should understand that generally, more difficult the boss, the more rewards you get when you beat it. Life dealt you a bad hand, you would have to overcome a lot more than other men. The rewards *YOU* get will be that much better compared to those who didn't have to work as hard. You will also be that much more superior to those guys because you had to overcome more, you *had* to be stronger, better. Two types of men: -Ones who are bound by life's obstacles -Ones who break free from the chains and ascend Are you a pathetic worm who is giving up and making excuses OR are you a man! Find your motivation, find your spark, and turn that spark into an inferno.
It is a rigged game. We’re born into a totally corrupt slave system and spend our lives running on the Hamster wheel doing pretty much the same old shit every day. Life’s getting harder and harder, we’re just surviving and not living. The vast majority of us are all getting poorer and have so little time to actually enjoy ourselves.
@@blue-phoenix115You need to listen to George Carlin, the system is rigged. It’s a big club and we ain’t in it. It’s one thing to be optimistic, but when you’ve taken the red pill you see the world for what it is. We’re born into a corrupt system and it’s easy to see this once you’re awake.
@@blue-phoenix115 There is no progress for your ugly and broken genetics. Women always chosen the best, when they can't they settle for something less impressive. It is just how nature works.
I’m gonna make a video reading my journal from the 2010’s lol at this point I feel we are living in a movie.. that doesn’t end. I already knew at a young age.. I would either die of a broken heart or be alone. They want us to be with our families. I found my journal and I have always hated my family… I’m surprised I’m not a serial killer at this point lmao I was fed fast food…. I was never taught survival skills..
Use each day as an opportunity to teach yourself how to be more self sufficient and healthy. This is my purpose in living (as well as improving the 4 human lives I forced here) since I’m here anyway and my chance of existence was 1 in 4 trillion. Hope you learn to find joy in those things and being your own best friend. It’s helped me tremendously after years of trying to please others.
I’m glad I discovered your channel. Believe me, it’s only going to become more and more and more common for guys to be introverts, single, unmarried and even inexperienced. Things are changing dramatically.
10:02 is the main reason why I like being alone.After talking to an average person for more that 5 min I just want to walk away and tell them to fuck off.My mental energy after that conversation is around 0,they just like talking about pointless shit and their own problems like nobody else has any of their own.
People get offended when I say that I would rather be alone, lol. I like to read, write, make music, walk in nature alone, sleeping, gaming & making food for myself. Relationships have to much drama within it, I had a couple in the front of me who had a discussion about butter or denigrated each other, because of their previous clothing style, that's a no go for me, lol.
Comment section is so depressing. This is the burden that comes with being a man! So many are being crushed by it. Be the man who pushes back! Find your strength, find purpose, find courage to strive forward. Pain and suffering is the whetstone and you are the blade; forge yourself into a weapon capable of cutting through life's obstacles.
It's not depressing fool we live in a man hating culture and we are singled out and surrounded by competition from all other males. There is no community no good wife etc. your little shallow take here is pretty naive and pathetic at best
Honestly, having your happiness rely entirely on others’ validation and being around others can be quite draining and difficult to deal with. Not to mention that it is a bit impractical because there are certain situations where being alone is unavoidable.
This goddamn god forsaken world man. It’s a blue trap bubble. A somewhat comfortable prison so people feel content with being in this prison world serving a life sentence.
yeah i've been alone for many years. i have no friends. the lack of social stimulation makes me space out a lot and stare at the wall, disconnected from reality. I appear as if I have autism, except I don't. that's CPTSD.
I am a virgin and I am 27, and I don't give a damm, lol. Think about it, here are benefits by being a virgin, no stds, no unwanted pregnancies, no child support, no fatal attract problems, lol. I also did a vesectomy at the age of 24, I never ever regretted that decision, because I am affraid if I ever do it and my protection snaps and she doesn't wanna abort, I am pretty doomed, lol.
Yes in a relationship its not about love, thats fantasy land. It's at most (mostly not lol) a win win situation. "Friends" and family are often too toxic to deal with. I love to be alone too! Just an stress and idiot free zone!
I don't know you personally and you know me even less but I can say objectively by the mere fact that you posted this video that you are a "good" intelligent and kind person. You have experienced first hand the uncomfortable position of being marginalized by society and this gives you a powerful insight into the importance of treating others with patience and understanding. As to the social nature of humans, with rare exception humans will not flourish without the support of a meaningful social group. I can't speak to relative health of the social group you belong to (your family) but it sounds stressed. Be that as it may, consider for a moment that they may need you just as much as you need them but simply don't know how to convey that in an appropriate way. As to you finding a significant other, this is not an unlikely reality. Given the appropriate amount of effort (like most things in life worth having it takes work), you will find a companion as wonderful as yourself and will build a life together better than you think possible at this point. You need to become tolerant of the feeling of rejection, however. Easier said than done but even the greatest of Chads gets shot down from time to time. Once you find someone you connect with, be open and honest with them about who you understand yourself to be after you have had about six dates with them. Hang in there young sir!
Hey I wish I was like you, I have autism and ADHD, struggled making friends my whole life and haven't had a friend since I was 9, now I'm 16 and graduating secondary school, I got a prom ticket cuz of good attendance and my mom keeps pestering me to go because she wants me to get drunk and get a bf. I was like fuck no, I ain't fuckin a dude who bullied me for 6 years constantly non stop for being a 'special needs' kid, I have a fake frnd who makes fun of my life n idk what tf to do. I haven't seen my cousins since I was 8 cuz they live in a different country, also haven't been to a wedding in 8 years. Do you have any advice? Do you think in college I will be accepted? p.s my parents are so fucking abusive, when I used to call childline and the police would come during my childhood, my parents would make them tea and force me to lie infront of them, making me look like a bastard infront of the police. Please reply and give me advice on what should I do next cuz I am so sad about not ever being accepted or fitting in, I have been bullied since I was 5, in primary it was physical, in secondary it was chavs and boys tellin me im ugly...
@@thechelsearantman6717 yh, my dad calls me a prostitute even tho I have never even held hands w a boy, I am so over being bullied n rejected, I currently have no frndz, been that way since I was 9, i feel empty and dead, im rlly suicidal n my gran n my parents actually encourage me to kill myself. My parents said if I fail my GCSEs they will either kick me out or get me married cuz Im a girl and its a privelege they chose not to abort me. I have not a single relative who lives in this country, all of them r in India n havent seen me in a decade, I am fed up of being alone, Idk wtf to do, i keep thinking that my life is over, even the fucking teachers chat about how fucked up my life is behind closed doors... sometimes I wish I could go back to 2016, life was shit, but atleast i had 2 friends that were younger than me and we would play during weekends.
@@thechelsearantman6717 yh ikr i rlly am considering cutting my life short today cuz i saw a video of ppl my age having fun w ppl they've known for years, I am currently crying n rotting in my bed, idk what will happen if i go college, i can't stop crying n my parents n gran js keep laughin at my stupid life, im so over this...
@@Ashveen-hu6lb obviously I don't want you to kill yourself but it's your body your choice but I don't want to promote suicide also don't compare yourself to others as that will make you feel worse everyone is going to get fucked in the end but you can only try your best at the end of the day wish you the best in life.
Video ideas: violence in movies, Santa, atheism, billiards, vices like alcohol and cigarettes. Do you think you would get better sleep if you started to do pushups?
@@thechelsearantman6717 My drink was spiked by my peers at a house gathering once. I have ptsd for all sorts of reasons. People can be trash. But you can max out some activity like bitcoin (they say its exponentially going up) or bodybuilding, or make a one hour comedy set and advertise it on YT (Im trying to think of other healthy things, maybe google "interesting things" like Neil Armstrong’s hair was sold in 2004 for $3,000. Lol people are wasting their time.) Things dont have to make sense and they never will. I chat in the YT channel the atheist experience 24/7 livestream. I make them a little mad talking about New age believes system like this world can be used as a pathform to jump up from and that time space and physical reality are only a product of an infinite eternal awareness. And that light and dark go together. I still think that this world is an utter joke however. Im actually wondering how you spend your time. I play CS2 all night and upload highlights from my games. And also agario.
Yep, even if you were to enjoy the such tobacco/nicotine the stress would come from other people crowding your space and being overbearing within your boundaries of personal. Enjoying tobacco around a toxic and negative environment causes more stress vs enjoying it alone with no chaos or crazy toxic energy roaming around. And it will be the same with working out - workout in peace, quiet and solitude vs working out around a bunch of chaotic and toxic individuals. It's bound be stress being around other people. Eliminate other people, whatever you may enjoy slightly increases into something more pleasurable.
Yeah you are looking okay. Don’t gonna say all girls would want you but some out there would actually. Also your mom is probably good looking woman. I think a little bit training and then carrying yourself more positive like going outside more to get a little collar and dress more manly. It’s okay to have the doom mindset but don’t get to deep into it actually. What do you know in who is actually destroying society 😂, I think the normal ones are kinda more inclined to that claim 🤷♂️. You are still young and needs to see more to understand why that is actually I guess 😅.
10:11 when you were listing things you don't have to deal with when being alone. Her constantly asking if you're alright means she cares about you. If she over does it, I can understand if it becomes annoying after a while.
@@thechelsearantman6717 my dude you gotta let that shit go before it rots you from the inside. You have something I don’t have your youth don’t fn waste it Quite pissing away your life complaining about things you have no control over. Your not ugly you seem intelligent go out and forge you a new life!! Sitting around and complaining will get you absolutely nothing sorry but that’s just the truth. You have the youth and drive to become anything. Life’s a garden go dig it!!!
I hate single mothers all kids should be taken away from single mothers and adopted by a male and female figure who will take proper care of them so your wrong
I agree that most kids not all like in my case should be with both parents we where much more safe with our mom than with our dad if that explains my reasoning for saying that not all single moms are bad If I need to explain my self better I will
@@melissacampbell2942 I grew up with a single mum and I have no clue what to do in. Life as she was a narcissist helicopter parent that is a typical woman that doesn't know how to turn a boy into a men
I know that me saying I’m sorry is not enough for you and what you have gone through Or the other people that have gone through the same thing Not having a father now that I understand both of mine don’t know how to be one so I don’t really consider them one that doesn’t mean I hate single fathers I just hate my biological father
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I find it really sad that most people can't be alone. They're so dependent on others, it's heartbreaking really. They'll never experience the pleasure of solitude.
I don't believe you're actually alone if you can say that. You still have a sense of belonging. Because actual loneliness destroys the brain.
Yup
Quality is better than quantity
I wish all of us Loners could get together and hang out.
Making the shift into becoming unconcerned with this world and the people in it - even from a peaceful and nonviolent standpoint - is one of the highest social crimes you can commit during your time on this planet.
Minding your own business and preferring not to get caught up in anyone else's drama is one of the quickest ways to find out what people are really about - and most are simply interested in having unfettered access to others. If not physically, then mentally, emotionally, or financially. It's honestly incredibly warped, the way we've been made to be such aggressively dependent social leeches.
Those who stand in opposition to this dynamic (no matter how non-confrontational we may try to be) make other people uncomfortable simply for existing, and it's exhausting.
I really have no interest in developing social connections
same but i do to an extent cuz i hate when things are awkward. But any time i socialize its like nothing happens in the end cuz im boring and everyone else is boring to me
Bro, same. I have one friend I met at work in 2017. I just try to keep that friendship alive because I'm not trying to build anymore connections. Not only am I bored of socializing, but most people are just toxic and lessons anyway
It's scientifically proven that loneliness kills. It harms your immune system and reduces grey matter in the brain and causes heart issues.
@@BigIndianBindi-jy1cz Nonsense.
@@granadosable Sorry, it's not. Humans are a social species and need a sense of belonging. Your trauma from shit that happened to you, causes your nervous system to be in fight or flight around other people, so you feel better if you avoid people, but you're not getting any oxytocin from human connection. You are using various coping strategies to deal with that dysfunction.
The modern society we live in gives us the ability to live alone.
You mean it forced you.
Everyone's just kindof a bitch. I don't sweat it I just move with the flow. If everyone's so vicious, hostile, and cruel when you're just trying to have a fun time with them, okie, clearly not meant to be. Not just in this area, but in all areas of life, if you encounter extreme unrelenting resistance to something, then let it go and give up on it, and you can navigate to what you're meant to do in that labyrinthine sort of way 😁
I mostly prefer to be alone due to trauma, too much risk not enough reward for 'putting yourself out there'.
Plus introversion/mental health is poor, so even less reasons.
00:02 Appreciating being alone and critiquing societal pressure on socializing
02:19 Negative childhood experiences affecting upbringing
04:00 Feeling pressured to fit in and have friends in school
05:38 Facing bullying and lack of friends without concern for relationships or societal pressures.
07:22 Society's manipulation of societal expectations and relationships.
09:09 Prefers being alone to avoid needy and demanding people
10:47 Preferring to be alone for critical thinking and independence
12:43 There's nothing wrong with wanting to be alone.
Appreciating being alone and critiquing societal pressure on socializing
- Emphasizing the preference for solitude over social connections
- Exploring personal experiences with family dynamics and the concept of chosen solitude
Negative childhood experiences affecting upbringing
- Lack of proper diet and healthy eating
- Struggles with standing up to bullies and lack of parental support
Feeling pressured to fit in and have friends in school
- Experienced pressure to constantly be with other kids to avoid being labeled as a loser
- Felt conditioned by family and society to prioritize having friends, leading to bullying incidents
Facing bullying and lack of friends without concern for relationships or societal pressures.
- Realization of bullies being cowards deep down, leading to lack of interest in having friends.
- Acceptance of celibacy due to financial constraints, lack of social connections, and limited options in rural area.
Society's manipulation of societal expectations and relationships.
- Men and women are pressured to conform to specific societal norms and expectations.
- Critical perspective on traditional ideas of happiness and relationships, highlighting transactional nature.
Prefers being alone to avoid needy and demanding people
- Feeling like form of love bombing after receiving a gift from sister
- Enjoying peaceful time alone without dealing with nagging and unnecessary interactions
Preferring to be alone for critical thinking and independence
- Being alone allows for independent thinking and reduces reliance on others
- Even extroverted individuals can benefit from occasional solitude for self-reflection
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be alone.
- Embracing solitude is acceptable, including not wanting family connections or close friends.
- Society promotes dependency to control individuals, hindering independence and critical thinking.
Which AI do you use?
@@RandyOrlok merlin ai
Good video mate. Keep up the good work👍
i relate to you a lot bro keep these type of videos coming. Your content is starting to hit the algo.
being a Loner is all I know how to do it's no wonder people like us are bitter & resentful Your life is pretty much like mine if I had the option to avoid everyone currently in my life right now I more than certainly would.
Same here bro.
I haven't made any new friends since I graduated high-school.That was 15 years ago. I tend to keep people at an arms length. Most of my real friends are dead or I've lost contact with them. I do enjoy my alone time.
In a way it's a trap. You're insulted and derided for not wanting what they want but really it's their way of getting something out of you if you want what they want you to want. Only way out is to be yourself.
I agree I think sometimes social interactions are forced and I don't have the energy for it!!
life is a rigged game based of luck . Im short and ugly its over for me .
Not yet, It not........ just hang on. TRUST ME
You play video games right? Then you should understand that generally, more difficult the boss, the more rewards you get when you beat it. Life dealt you a bad hand, you would
have to overcome a lot more than other men. The rewards *YOU* get will be that much better compared to those who didn't have to work as hard. You will also be that much more superior to those guys because you had to overcome more, you *had* to be stronger, better.
Two types of men:
-Ones who are bound by life's obstacles
-Ones who break free from the chains and ascend
Are you a pathetic worm who is giving up and making excuses OR are you a man!
Find your motivation, find your spark, and turn that spark into an inferno.
It is a rigged game. We’re born into a totally corrupt slave system and spend our lives running on the Hamster wheel doing pretty much the same old shit every day. Life’s getting harder and harder, we’re just surviving and not living. The vast majority of us are all getting poorer and have so little time to actually enjoy ourselves.
@@blue-phoenix115You need to listen to George Carlin, the system is rigged. It’s a big club and we ain’t in it. It’s one thing to be optimistic, but when you’ve taken the red pill you see the world for what it is. We’re born into a corrupt system and it’s easy to see this once you’re awake.
@@blue-phoenix115 There is no progress for your ugly and broken genetics.
Women always chosen the best, when they can't they settle for something less impressive.
It is just how nature works.
I’m gonna make a video reading my journal from the 2010’s lol at this point I feel we are living in a movie.. that doesn’t end. I already knew at a young age.. I would either die of a broken heart or be alone. They want us to be with our families. I found my journal and I have always hated my family… I’m surprised I’m not a serial killer at this point lmao
I was fed fast food…. I was never taught survival skills..
Use each day as an opportunity to teach yourself how to be more self sufficient and healthy. This is my purpose in living (as well as improving the 4 human lives I forced here) since I’m here anyway and my chance of existence was 1 in 4 trillion. Hope you learn to find joy in those things and being your own best friend. It’s helped me tremendously after years of trying to please others.
@@Miss_an100I mean I realized my childhood is the female form of the Nightstalker 😅 narcissists runs in my family…
I've seen your 3 videos so far, your channel has growing wicked fast that I can't wait to see you hit over 1K subscribers.
Thanks can't wait as well
I'm a loner too.
9:06 Couldn't agree more
I’m glad I discovered your channel. Believe me, it’s only going to become more and more and more common for guys to be introverts, single, unmarried and even inexperienced. Things are changing dramatically.
10:02 is the main reason why I like being alone.After talking to an average person for more that 5 min I just want to walk away and tell them to fuck off.My mental energy after that conversation is around 0,they just like talking about pointless shit and their own problems like nobody else has any of their own.
Im in the same boat.
How have you been? Hope all is going well for you.
People get offended when I say that I would rather be alone, lol. I like to read, write, make music, walk in nature alone, sleeping, gaming & making food for myself. Relationships have to much drama within it, I had a couple in the front of me who had a discussion about butter or denigrated each other, because of their previous clothing style, that's a no go for me, lol.
The truth about this existence, whatever it may be, lies within you and you'll never come close to figuring it out if you waste your time with idiots.
Comment section is so depressing. This is the burden that comes with being a man! So many are being crushed by it. Be the man who pushes back! Find your strength, find purpose, find courage to strive forward. Pain and suffering is the whetstone and you are the blade; forge yourself into a weapon capable of cutting through life's obstacles.
It's not depressing fool we live in a man hating culture and we are singled out and surrounded by competition from all other males. There is no community no good wife etc. your little shallow take here is pretty naive and pathetic at best
Bro those are some deep thoughts. Powerful words that sound like they're right out of Tolkien or something. I agree with you 💯 %.
A good looking man has no reason to suffer.
No one likes suffering.
7:27 Haha one of my favourite quotes of all time
11:11 Exactly
Honestly, having your happiness rely entirely on others’ validation and being around others can be quite draining and difficult to deal with. Not to mention that it is a bit impractical because there are certain situations where being alone is unavoidable.
Another day of living lifes pain.
This goddamn god forsaken world man. It’s a blue trap bubble. A somewhat comfortable prison so people feel content with being in this prison world serving a life sentence.
yeah i've been alone for many years. i have no friends. the lack of social stimulation makes me space out a lot and stare at the wall, disconnected from reality. I appear as if I have autism, except I don't. that's CPTSD.
Sometimes I just wanna switch off my phone and be left alone!!
Can you link the discords you mention?
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I am a virgin and I am 27, and I don't give a damm, lol. Think about it, here are benefits by being a virgin, no stds, no unwanted pregnancies, no child support, no fatal attract problems, lol. I also did a vesectomy at the age of 24, I never ever regretted that decision, because I am affraid if I ever do it and my protection snaps and she doesn't wanna abort, I am pretty doomed, lol.
Unrelated but your hair is looking really good, you should keep it like this
Yes in a relationship its not about love, thats fantasy land. It's at most (mostly not lol) a win win situation. "Friends" and family are often too toxic to deal with. I love to be alone too! Just an stress and idiot free zone!
Greetings
I don't know you personally and you know me even less but I can say objectively by the mere fact that you posted this video that you are a "good" intelligent and kind person. You have experienced first hand the uncomfortable position of being marginalized by society and this gives you a powerful insight into the importance of treating others with patience and understanding.
As to the social nature of humans, with rare exception humans will not flourish without the support of a meaningful social group. I can't speak to relative health of the social group you belong to (your family) but it sounds stressed. Be that as it may, consider for a moment that they may need you just as much as you need them but simply don't know how to convey that in an appropriate way.
As to you finding a significant other, this is not an unlikely reality. Given the appropriate amount of effort (like most things in life worth having it takes work), you will find a companion as wonderful as yourself and will build a life together better than you think possible at this point. You need to become tolerant of the feeling of rejection, however. Easier said than done but even the greatest of Chads gets shot down from time to time. Once you find someone you connect with, be open and honest with them about who you understand yourself to be after you have had about six dates with them.
Hang in there young sir!
Sometimes they dont even know what thtey are doing, its not always intentional. ITS A PROGRAM
Hey I wish I was like you, I have autism and ADHD, struggled making friends my whole life and haven't had a friend since I was 9, now I'm 16 and graduating secondary school, I got a prom ticket cuz of good attendance and my mom keeps pestering me to go because she wants me to get drunk and get a bf. I was like fuck no, I ain't fuckin a dude who bullied me for 6 years constantly non stop for being a 'special needs' kid, I have a fake frnd who makes fun of my life n idk what tf to do. I haven't seen my cousins since I was 8 cuz they live in a different country, also haven't been to a wedding in 8 years. Do you have any advice? Do you think in college I will be accepted? p.s my parents are so fucking abusive, when I used to call childline and the police would come during my childhood, my parents would make them tea and force me to lie infront of them, making me look like a bastard infront of the police. Please reply and give me advice on what should I do next cuz I am so sad about not ever being accepted or fitting in, I have been bullied since I was 5, in primary it was physical, in secondary it was chavs and boys tellin me im ugly...
Imo i would try to find a way to get away from your shit family asap
@@thechelsearantman6717 yh, my dad calls me a prostitute even tho I have never even held hands w a boy, I am so over being bullied n rejected, I currently have no frndz, been that way since I was 9, i feel empty and dead, im rlly suicidal n my gran n my parents actually encourage me to kill myself. My parents said if I fail my GCSEs they will either kick me out or get me married cuz Im a girl and its a privelege they chose not to abort me. I have not a single relative who lives in this country, all of them r in India n havent seen me in a decade, I am fed up of being alone, Idk wtf to do, i keep thinking that my life is over, even the fucking teachers chat about how fucked up my life is behind closed doors... sometimes I wish I could go back to 2016, life was shit, but atleast i had 2 friends that were younger than me and we would play during weekends.
Damn that sucks sorry to hear that screw your family @@Ashveen-hu6lb
@@thechelsearantman6717 yh ikr i rlly am considering cutting my life short today cuz i saw a video of ppl my age having fun w ppl they've known for years, I am currently crying n rotting in my bed, idk what will happen if i go college, i can't stop crying n my parents n gran js keep laughin at my stupid life, im so over this...
@@Ashveen-hu6lb obviously I don't want you to kill yourself but it's your body your choice but I don't want to promote suicide also don't compare yourself to others as that will make you feel worse everyone is going to get fucked in the end but you can only try your best at the end of the day wish you the best in life.
Video ideas: violence in movies, Santa, atheism, billiards, vices like alcohol and cigarettes. Do you think you would get better sleep if you started to do pushups?
Tried that still didnt work it's toxic people I think are the problem imo
@@thechelsearantman6717 Didn't catch the thing about toxic people.
@@fustino5 toxic people like my dad who are probably narcs take your energy and stress you out
@@thechelsearantman6717 My drink was spiked by my peers at a house gathering once. I have ptsd for all sorts of reasons. People can be trash. But you can max out some activity like bitcoin (they say its exponentially going up) or bodybuilding, or make a one hour comedy set and advertise it on YT (Im trying to think of other healthy things, maybe google "interesting things" like Neil Armstrong’s hair was sold in 2004 for $3,000. Lol people are wasting their time.)
Things dont have to make sense and they never will. I chat in the YT channel the atheist experience 24/7 livestream. I make them a little mad talking about New age believes system like this world can be used as a pathform to jump up from and that time space and physical reality are only a product of an infinite eternal awareness. And that light and dark go together. I still think that this world is an utter joke however.
Im actually wondering how you spend your time. I play CS2 all night and upload highlights from my games. And also agario.
Yep, even if you were to enjoy the such tobacco/nicotine the stress would come from other people crowding your space and being overbearing within your boundaries of personal.
Enjoying tobacco around a toxic and negative environment causes more stress vs enjoying it alone with no chaos or crazy toxic energy roaming around. And it will be the same with working out - workout in peace, quiet and solitude vs working out around a bunch of chaotic and toxic individuals. It's bound be stress being around other people. Eliminate other people, whatever you may enjoy slightly increases into something more pleasurable.
Did U really need to make a 14 Minute Video about this Your tags answer the video title immediately
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Yeah you are looking okay. Don’t gonna say all girls would want you but some out there would actually. Also your mom is probably good looking woman. I think a little bit training and then carrying yourself more positive like going outside more to get a little collar and dress more manly. It’s okay to have the doom mindset but don’t get to deep into it actually.
What do you know in who is actually destroying society 😂, I think the normal ones are kinda more inclined to that claim 🤷♂️.
You are still young and needs to see more to understand why that is actually I guess 😅.
I agree with you till you mentioned being bothered by your mom checking on you.
What do you mean by my mom checking on me?
10:11 when you were listing things you don't have to deal with when being alone. Her constantly asking if you're alright means she cares about you. If she over does it, I can understand if it becomes annoying after a while.
@@Allplussomeminus idc whether she cares about me or not she forced me Into this world and I hate her.
@@thechelsearantman6717 my dude you gotta let that shit go before it rots you from the inside. You have something I don’t have your youth don’t fn waste it
Quite pissing away your life complaining about things you have no control over.
Your not ugly you seem intelligent go out and forge you a new life!! Sitting around and complaining will get you absolutely nothing sorry but that’s just the truth. You have the youth and drive to become anything. Life’s a garden go dig it!!!
@@joerob3449 how do you know I don't do anything
grwn so much lone
Feeling sorry for yourself is a warm and fuzzy feeling, isn’t it?
Excuse me not all single mothers are terrible how dare you
I hate single mothers all kids should be taken away from single mothers and adopted by a male and female figure who will take proper care of them so your wrong
I agree that most kids not all like in my case should be with both parents we where much more safe with our mom than with our dad if that explains my reasoning for saying that not all single moms are bad If I need to explain my self better I will
@@melissacampbell2942 I grew up with a single mum and I have no clue what to do in. Life as she was a narcissist helicopter parent that is a typical woman that doesn't know how to turn a boy into a men
I know that me saying I’m sorry is not enough for you and what you have gone through Or the other people that have gone through the same thing Not having a father now that I understand both of mine don’t know how to be one so I don’t really consider them one that doesn’t mean I hate single fathers I just hate my biological father
@@melissacampbell2942 same my dad keeps breaking boundaries and waking me up for no reason
You are handsome