I think it was funny and innocent. He clearly has a preference but didn't want it to be seen as a fetish. He didn't want to confuse natural affinity for his attraction as simply sexually objectifying a particular race of women. Everyone has a preference whether gender, race, etc. There is nothing gross about it unless you have a total disregard for that individual as a human being. Additionally, he appears to have been a great dad and took care of his responsibility. It's gross to have preferences but not be accountable for your actions and results from it.
They're like the duo if you were at a bar and met them and you're just getting to know each other and you thought damn they're both fine but then Damien goes "oh this is my son", it would just glitch your brain
they take care of themselves, dress well, eat well, work out. other parent duos didnt do that they were overweight and dressed not to compliment themselves
And I agree with that… My sister and me raised our cousin who is biracial… And we never ( and we don’t let anyone) just referred to her as being black because she is not she is of mixed race… I feel when you automatically, even if you can’t raise them in that culture you can’t deny a part of their identity… That’s a part of them… You can identify with the which ever culture you’re around or are connected to more… The one drop rule comes from toxicity and is toxic as well…
@@goddessvibes2345 I can see how that can be frustrating for some but it makes me wonder how many opportunities she’s has to be engulfed in Black culture vs. Indian culture living wherever she lives in America. And if people see her as Black instead of Indian then there’s also a layer of social conditioning that influences her to lean more Black identifying.
You can sense that her mom had an appreciation for and probably had lived with and around Black people. She was really conscientious about making sure her daughter didn’t grow up not knowing who she was.
The white Dad was so good. The most culturally informed. Comfortable in his whiteness while respecting his sons mixed race. His adoration for black women while staying respectful. Him passing on the question about racism showing honesty in his position in the world. His deep love and care for his kid. Even as a misandrist of all of kids here it seems as if his son is the most well rounded and secure in who he is. The last question when he says he felt cool in his sons tiktok speaks to how even at some level he wants his kid to be proud of having a white man as his father. Biracials with black moms and white dads gon' hit every time ❤❤❤❤❤
Hit the nail on the head, they have a beautiful relationship and understanding of each other as individuals and culturally. As a mixed child I wish I had that kind of relationship w my parents, neither show much appreciation to the other culture and we never had conversations about race growing up
Makes me wonder about his background. I had classmates that grew up with us. Their grands remained while other whites ran. The kids parents didnt isolate. Unless taught or influenced otherwise, i think children are more likely to be like their peers culturally.
Love, love, love this comment because the story should honestly be listed in one of the stereotypes of mixed and racially ambiguous folks is that we are “the bridge” for those with white parents to be more aware…I living for the appreciation of her accountability but it brings up a bigger conversation of experience
The old lady accepting her mistakes , owning up to it, admitting she was embarrassed when she understood... That's beautiful. Seeing our mistakes, accepting we do it, and changing how we behave. Super beautiful.
And even her admitting what she did in front of the camera knowing that thousands of people would see it, she could've easily not mentioned the incident but she did, kudos to her.
@@vanessalei6079 right!?! The comment I made was before I finished the video, later she gets touched to find out her kids kept hard things from her and she wished she could've helped. But the reason they didn't say os because they didn't want to burden her for she was so overworked and taking care of more than one kid by herself. This woman is an awesome human being. She makes me proud to be one of us... humans
@@vanessalei6079 I'm glad this became a admiration thread of comments for her. Hope she sees this and feel how awesome she is, and how it is so clear we all saw it.
Demian sounds spot on like Michael Scott and is as awkward as him lol Also idk why but to me he looks young to be such a grown man's father, they look like they could be coworkers or something
Henry Cavill,Ryan Reynolds,Chris Evans,Brad Pitt etc are one of the most finest white men to be knowned and they ain't ever been seen with a black woman lol Plus of course you knew he was into black women, it's in the title of video and what the child looks like🤷🏽♀️😂
she said she disagreed with her Indian dad, `I disagree wit that...I think if you:re black you:re allowed to say it`.....he never said she wasn't allowed to say it. He said he thought it was derogatory and inappropriate ....both can be true..black people are allowed to say it but it's derogatory and inappropriate.
That’s what she’s saying. Sometimes, for black folks, it’s NOT derogatory and it’s NOT inappropriate. He can have his opinion but ultimately, what he thinks has no bearing.
@@dtown2816If that's the case, why get anal when others say it? It's bs spins in logic at the end of the day. A culture of clowns trying to be pro victims instead of being productive
She was disagreeing with the part where he said he didn't think it should be said within the family or outside of it. Implying she shouldn't saying in the house or outside. And that's where she disagreed, that she should be ok to say it outside the family, even though she wouldn't because she feels it's an uncomfortable word to say.
Yeah, my parents felt that way with my older sister's kids, it's a bit sad/confusing for them to feel proud of who they are, and question why their nephews aren't? And it's not that my nephews aren't I just think in American society it's so much easier to fall under a particular standing that helps you be more sociable, if that makes sense.
@@Mkay2289i feel like that’s acceptable tho bc there’s really no culture in white americans but being black and indian, there’s two very rich cultures to be celebrated.
I loved this entire episode, especially the dads. They didn't hide from the questions that were a little uncomfortable, and they didn't deflect! I also love the relationship between the black woman and her white mother. They are open, casual, and organic, and they can be themselves with each other. The Philippino lady and her white mother need to be more open and embracing and learn more about each other as individuals!
@@kingstrong5351nah, he’s just an awkward Michael Scott type dude lol he wanted to let the people know he has a preference without saying no to who he likes outright
@@AriXBerrie Fetishes are preferences mam Lol wanted to make sure he didn't offend the viewing audience. Who would outright admit to having that kind of fetish online??? Lmao
As an African American woman raising two 'white passing' (I hate this term but I've crutched upon it in order to 'explain' my boys to white folks.) kids in Austria, this video made me pause. The way in which each of the parents are required to reflect and quickly respond had me in heartfelt stitches. Parenting is such a fumbling yet beautiful journey. Parenting a child who doesn't necessarily subscribe fully to your own culture or ethnicity is one of the many ways in which we as parents are forced to love, let go, live and learn through them. I hope to do this (without alcohol 😅) with my sons one day.
That wholesome handsome white dad who had "a preference" got so damn flustered for NO GOOD REASON. I guess he just felt put on the spot or whatever. Meanwhile, his son was the zennest of the zen.
It might be a question he’s asked himself, but never come to a conclusion about. As in, he worries he might be fetishizing a group of people, but it’s nonetheless his preference. And he might be. Or he might not. He seems nice.
@@libera7161 This is the correct answer right there! Nobody would enjoy being objectified, tokenized or exoticized because it's ultimately dehumanizing. Just like nobody enjoys receiving backhanded comments, such as "Oh you're really pretty - FOR A LESBIAN" or "You're so athletic - FOR A JEW" or "You're so smart - FOR AN AFRICAN". Those are NOT compliments, they are microaggressions. Food for thought. 🤔
I really appreciate this video. These are conversations that need to be had, and as a father of a young biracial child, these are questions that I've had and am prepared to speak with my son about when he is of age.
They took a shot because it obviously was bad. They probably don't want their kids to see them in a different light. And don't won't their business out there.....employers be watching lol cancel culture 😂
Poor Damien 😭😭😭. He clearly has a type and doesn't want to come off as if he's fetishizing Black women. All he has to say is that he has a type and keep it at that.
Why is it when someone is attracted to black women they have to reduce to fetish? Black women are attractive. The fetish correlation is such a useless negative stereotype
@user-qb9pp9bg4s I don't know if you're saying this in general or if you think I said he was fetishizing Black women, but just in case, that's not what I was saying. I also don't think that every non-Black guy that is attracted to Black women is fetishizing us, so basically, I agree with you lol. I hope my response came off the right way.
@@user-qb9pp9bg4syou’re absolutely right. however, i believe the stigma is rooted in history when the white man fetishized and took power over black female slaves and slept with them whenever they felt like it. so the idea has just been passed on through generations.
I'm glad he cleared it up by saying that it's a preference. Black women can be preferred by some non-black men just like some white men prefer Asian women and some black men prefer white women.
Some of y'all are too easy and love starved to see that words need to match energy. Stuttering and refusing to answer a question was not enough for you.
Why is Damon and his son so fine 😭… I was like damn. The mother must be a beautiful woman to have produced such a handsome guy and the dad is just fine.
This brought me so much joy! I LOVE my mama SO MUCH. (This video tribes me of her). It's clear that these families have great connections and are willing to be open. Absolutely BEAUTIFUL. 🖤
I felt bad for him because it seemed like he and his son's mother were separated so he probably didn't get as much exposure to black culture through her
@@gracegreen1859was about to say. I don’t think his last relationship with a black woman was with his son’s mom, so he definitely hasn’t missed out on that much.
The dad named all the black classics, tell us you love black people with out telling us......and when he said his fear is his son being pulled over by a cop, that so heart breaking.......I have 4 sons and I worry about that constantly.....
if he raised his son to be respectful which i'm sure he will, if his son remembers his upbrining rather than veer to the thug mentality he will be fine. asians have no issue with authority hence they arent seen on tv getting shot/in jail
@@memyselfi1828 yeah it's true. They even mentioned that it already happened. Outsiders don't nessecarily see a difference so it can come to the 'part' blacks too just as bad. Not that it's okay for any of us to happen to
@@MsDesiree39Not always true. My son was a passenger in a vehicle that his Uncle was driving and the cop asked for ID from both of them even though my son wasn't the one in the driver's seat. My son has never been a thug. He's a high school athlete with A/B honor roll.
I need a reality show with Damien and his son. Their dynamic intrigued me because he definitely cares about his son but he doesn't want to say the wrong thing.
if you into blondes nobody would call it blonde fetish. i thought this was a weird question to ask. a fetish is something else than having a preference.
The white dad and his son were so beautiful, I bet the mom looked like a million dollars as well, beauty is in their genes. Also the mom in the blue dress was an angel.
The white mom with the Black daughter is definitely the one white chick who had a bunch of Black friends. She seems cool and could get along with any group of people.
I really appreciated this video because you can see genuine love between the parents and their kids. That they both just want the absolute best for each other.
The fetish question almost took dad out! 💀🤣🤣🤣
Man was having palpitations
The man suddenly developed a stutter 😂
it was disgusting. he's a grown man
@@MsDesiree39 disgusting how?
I think it was funny and innocent. He clearly has a preference but didn't want it to be seen as a fetish. He didn't want to confuse natural affinity for his attraction as simply sexually objectifying a particular race of women. Everyone has a preference whether gender, race, etc. There is nothing gross about it unless you have a total disregard for that individual as a human being. Additionally, he appears to have been a great dad and took care of his responsibility. It's gross to have preferences but not be accountable for your actions and results from it.
Why is the son and father so attractive, like wtf is going on?????
They're like the duo if you were at a bar and met them and you're just getting to know each other and you thought damn they're both fine but then Damien goes "oh this is my son", it would just glitch your brain
😂I’m weak like who knew
they take care of themselves, dress well, eat well, work out. other parent duos didnt do that they were overweight and dressed not to compliment themselves
God's chef kiss.
Lol I was like wait a minute dad is fine asf ok sir 🤣🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The Indian dad is just prideful of his culture and doesn’t want to feel left out. He wants to make sure his daughter is proud to be Indian too lol
And I agree with that…
My sister and me raised our cousin who is biracial… And we never ( and we don’t let anyone) just referred to her as being black because she is not she is of mixed race…
I feel when you automatically, even if you can’t raise them in that culture you can’t deny a part of their identity… That’s a part of them… You can identify with the which ever culture you’re around or are connected to more… The one drop rule comes from toxicity and is toxic as well…
Yup! That’s what I got from it too!
Same
True, Its annoying how she just identifies as black
@@goddessvibes2345 I can see how that can be frustrating for some but it makes me wonder how many opportunities she’s has to be engulfed in Black culture vs. Indian culture living wherever she lives in America. And if people see her as Black instead of Indian then there’s also a layer of social conditioning that influences her to lean more Black identifying.
Dad's voice went into loud panic mode with that fetish question
ahahahaahaha brother was scrambling fr
And stayed there!!! lol
I was like why is he so loud hahah 😅
Cause he has one for sure. Just doesn’t want to be shamed for it
Dad was fighting for his life 😂
LITERALLT😭😭😭😭
HAHAHA right but he is so sweet
😂😂😂
They were dead wrong for putting a black woman directly after that at 6:54😭
😂😂😂
Please let them all come back and do this with their black parents.
Yes!
And bring that white daddy again 😋
Yes!!
Yes
Well one said her dad's not in the picture, so...
The girl with the glasses and her mom have a very strong bond, we love to see it
Yeah her mom seems cool af.
Absolutely, their chemistry was great
Yes ❤
You can sense that her mom had an appreciation for and probably had lived with and around Black people. She was really conscientious about making sure her daughter didn’t grow up not knowing who she was.
They really do
The mother who of the Filipino mix daughter was so honest. I appreciate her.
A real one. Single mother that has such love.
She looks just like her mom too❤
That rock story. 🥹
Damien (the white dad) is hot as hell
I was thinking the same thing!
He is I mess with his vibes to he seems like a really cool guy as well 😭
Right he can get some of this swirl hello
@@asiahouston26 hahah I thought the same thing, I was like you still with the momma?? If not, I’m available
I know him personally and he is single. You guys want his instagram?👀👀💀
Damien definitely calls his son "champ" and "sport" 😭😭
😂😂😂
LOL
"Champ" is so quintessential white dad it's crazy 😂
I think what you’re doing is called stereotyping, to me all I saw was a father who loves his son
@@kingsvg194stop being so soft
Daddy in the black on black suit fine fine. I wanna high five the lady that caught his eye. Such a good spirit.
Sheeee right ?😂 Ha has no business being fresh like that with a big ass kid like he has. He looks great
And the son fine too 😂
Yes! I’m in love
Both dad and son are hot
Father and son are soooo bloody handsome.
Right?! Now I'm curious to see what mom looks like 👀
@lilblue04 She's definitely Gorgeous
theyre so fineeee
They're sooooo handsome
Damien's blood pressure was definitely high for this, lmao bro was on edge trying not to say the wrong thing
his so cute lol
He’s tryina make sure he can still talk to those chocolate queens after 😂 he’s not tryna lose his invite.
@@deborahforevermefacts 😂😂😂😂 bruh was like y'all not about to fuck up my game
💀💀
Bless his soul 😂😂😂
He said “I have a preference”😂
Dont we all
Like yeah the proof is sitting across from you we definitely knew that😭
I say it boldly that I fw black women and woc more than white women. I Dont got time to beat around the bush😭
@@A1_AmirSo long as you treat them well do you boo boo 💅🏾🩷
@@OE2023 Damn right we do🖤🖤
The Indian dad is so quirky and cute! All these families are beautiful and it was touching to see some vulnerable moments.
The white Dad was so good. The most culturally informed. Comfortable in his whiteness while respecting his sons mixed race. His adoration for black women while staying respectful. Him passing on the question about racism showing honesty in his position in the world. His deep love and care for his kid. Even as a misandrist of all of kids here it seems as if his son is the most well rounded and secure in who he is. The last question when he says he felt cool in his sons tiktok speaks to how even at some level he wants his kid to be proud of having a white man as his father. Biracials with black moms and white dads gon' hit every time ❤❤❤❤❤
THIS!!!
“Biracials with black moms gon hit everytime.” Cringe.
Yeah. Daddy-o is hot.
Hit the nail on the head, they have a beautiful relationship and understanding of each other as individuals and culturally. As a mixed child I wish I had that kind of relationship w my parents, neither show much appreciation to the other culture and we never had conversations about race growing up
THIS…OMG well said! ❤
That first mixed son is fine as hell
So damn fine it’s pissing me off 😡😂
What? It's his dad for me. He's a dilf 😅
He look like a chick with a beard 🤣🤣
Hell yeah! They need to post ages next to their names, though, so I can know whether or not I need to be looking more at him or his dad. 👀
have some couthe ladies 😂😂😂
The dad with the suit got really stressed by that one question 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂too much
cuz cut does too much always trying to bait people
In cracking up 😂😂😂
I think I know what his dating history looks like
Makes me wonder about his background. I had classmates that grew up with us. Their grands remained while other whites ran. The kids parents didnt isolate. Unless taught or influenced otherwise, i think children are more likely to be like their peers culturally.
When Damien expressed his fear of law enforcement hurting his son 🥹 AND ..his preference is black women ?! I'm sold 😍😍😍😍😍
Son said he took that after his dad too!! The “preference” for black women!! I love to hear that so much 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
No the dad loving black women is my favorite thing. This man was FLUSTERED
😂😂😂😂
😂😂
What’s special about that? Stop feeling inferior
@@triumphant5345 stop feeling inferior, I think she feels flattered , BW are the most overlooked in society as what society considers beautiful
Don't flatter yourself
I like the mom's accountability with the retelling of the story and the accent!
That’s my favorite moment. Children are often times the best unintentional accountability partners and when they confront your ignorance boy oh boy
Same!
Love, love, love this comment because the story should honestly be listed in one of the stereotypes of mixed and racially ambiguous folks is that we are “the bridge” for those with white parents to be more aware…I living for the appreciation of her accountability but it brings up a bigger conversation of experience
Yeah. I think that’s definitely one we skip into easily. And it’s definitely inconsiderate.
As a mixed person with an Asian mom, I completely appreciated that she took accountability. Much respect!👏🏾
Madea goes to "Wherever" had me rolling 😂😂😂
When Dad was so relived saying “last card” …that man almost passed out through the questions 😂😂😂
That man was up there fighting for his life!!!! 🤣🤣😭
The way he kept looking at the card “FETISH?” 😂
😂😂
😂😂 seems as though he was experiencing .. flashbacks? ❤
@😅nubian77
Because it is a very thin line between fetish & preference.
@@ms.g6842there’s not a thin line. People are just too sensitive
"Madea goes to wherever" is a perfect way to sum up Tyler Perry movies 🤣
So true 😂
😂😂 crying
lmao!!! he almost had it though.
No seriously!! 🤣😂🤣
😅
The Indian bloke is gorgeous and has such a lovely smile
His daughter favors him a lot 😊
Bloke?.??😂😂😂😂😂that’s an insult😭😭😭
This is actually wholesome- all of them were honest and vulnerable. This was one of my favorites
The son laughing at his dad fumbling through that question was hilarious 😂
😂😂
Because he already knows exactly what his dad prefers!
That’s prob the first time he had to sit with that. It’s a real question.
Damn the dad is a daddy
True. They are both gorgeous.
Ok!!!!
Real
Only physically though looks insecure and awkward Af
A dzaddy fr
The white dad hella cool actually 😂 he said Foxy Brown & Menance II Society, cuh 👏🏼
Carwash
I mean Dad took it waaay back! Ok nah!
Love the Filipino lady and her mum. Her mum was so honest and upfront
The old lady accepting her mistakes , owning up to it, admitting she was embarrassed when she understood... That's beautiful. Seeing our mistakes, accepting we do it, and changing how we behave. Super beautiful.
And even her admitting what she did in front of the camera knowing that thousands of people would see it, she could've easily not mentioned the incident but she did, kudos to her.
Yeah, Hats off to her!!!
She really did bring nothing but the truth, mad props to her
@@vanessalei6079 right!?! The comment I made was before I finished the video, later she gets touched to find out her kids kept hard things from her and she wished she could've helped. But the reason they didn't say os because they didn't want to burden her for she was so overworked and taking care of more than one kid by herself. This woman is an awesome human being. She makes me proud to be one of us... humans
@@vanessalei6079 I'm glad this became a admiration thread of comments for her. Hope she sees this and feel how awesome she is, and how it is so clear we all saw it.
“Mf you could’ve been white too” LMFAOOO 🤣
Yo she ate with that one 😂
😂🤣
🤣🤣🤣
That was hilarious 😂.
She's so funny!!!
The Indian dad seems so loving and protective ❤
Great duos. I totally enjoyed it. The half Philippino is so cute
The dads are endearing, especially the Indian one. Awwww!
Demian sounds spot on like Michael Scott and is as awkward as him lol
Also idk why but to me he looks young to be such a grown man's father, they look like they could be coworkers or something
I was trying to figure out what he reminded me of! Perfect reference!🥂
Sounds and acts like Michael Scott, but looks more like Chris Traeger!!
@@dantizzle00 I'm glad he didn't pull a Prison Mike
Sounds like Michael Scott, but looks like an older Channing Tatum!!
@@seducedbysasquatch deadass!
Damien was fighting for his life not to say anything crazy 😂😂😂. He gives golden retriever energy lol
🤣🤣🤣
Aka simp
@@BluEx22329How does that negatively affect his life? And how does it affect your life at all to even care?
Lmaoo aww he does
No frfr.
Ironically, Indian dad said Do the right Thing at the end which is also a Spike Lee movie…lol -he finally named a black movie!!
Omg some parts really made me cry. These parents really love their kids and the kids love them as well. You can tell so much.
Bro, we 100% knew Damien preferred Black women. It always be them FINE White men😂
Thin line between preference and fetishizing mam 😂
Facts
Henry Cavill,Ryan Reynolds,Chris Evans,Brad Pitt etc are one of the most finest white men to be knowned and they ain't ever been seen with a black woman lol
Plus of course you knew he was into black women, it's in the title of video and what the child looks like🤷🏽♀️😂
Thirsty af
For real! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You can tell the dad with the son truly loves the hell out of his son
Yes.. I think he's stressing out because he doesn't want to offend his dad
Yes, made me tear up.
Good-looking and wholesome all around for sure.
✅️✅️✅️
Son is so cute 💚
I’m 100% black but I clicked on this shit so fast. 15 minutes of pure unconditional love and genuine laughs. Great video! 😭👏🏾
she said she disagreed with her Indian dad, `I disagree wit that...I think if you:re black you:re allowed to say it`.....he never said she wasn't allowed to say it. He said he thought it was derogatory and inappropriate ....both can be true..black people are allowed to say it but it's derogatory and inappropriate.
That’s what she’s saying. Sometimes, for black folks, it’s NOT derogatory and it’s NOT inappropriate. He can have his opinion but ultimately, what he thinks has no bearing.
@@dtown2816If that's the case, why get anal when others say it?
It's bs spins in logic at the end of the day. A culture of clowns trying to be pro victims instead of being productive
She was disagreeing with the part where he said he didn't think it should be said within the family or outside of it. Implying she shouldn't saying in the house or outside. And that's where she disagreed, that she should be ok to say it outside the family, even though she wouldn't because she feels it's an uncomfortable word to say.
As a black guy myself, I can understand how the Indian father could feel left out when your daughter doesn't recognize that half.
Yeah, my parents felt that way with my older sister's kids, it's a bit sad/confusing for them to feel proud of who they are, and question why their nephews aren't? And it's not that my nephews aren't I just think in American society it's so much easier to fall under a particular standing that helps you be more sociable, if that makes sense.
Yes same
@@Mkay2289i feel like that’s acceptable tho bc there’s really no culture in white americans but being black and indian, there’s two very rich cultures to be celebrated.
@@Mkay2289what culture ? Football?💀
@@Mkay2289Only white culture shi i can think of is Golf but Tiger Woods ard broke that stereotype soooooo…. white folks r quite vanilla
That white dad sounds like Michael Scott 😂
That's what I came here to say haha
Came here looking for this comment. Cant stop imagining him as prison Mike 😂
Now I can’t unhear it 😂😭
I was looking for this comment lol
lol he doesssss
Mix bro got that best of both worlds. Has his father's square masculine jawline, with curly biracial hair, and his mother's eyes
This is why diversity is sooooo important! Exposing your kids to different cultures/ethnicities
Damian and son is so fine.
Fine!! Like damn 😍
right where is that instagram
Honestly, they got the genes in that family lol
@@mikaylan.7101 have we found it yet 🤣?
@@kelseagreene9276 its zeeekkk_w
when the son said he gets his preference for black women from his dad, I smiled like he was talking to me lol
But he was* not. 😂😂😂
😂😊
He is sooo hooot too Dx
@@shizukagozen777ok? That's why they said "like he was"
@@Kirasfox
I think you misunderstood my comment. 😂
I loved this entire episode, especially the dads. They didn't hide from the questions that were a little uncomfortable, and they didn't deflect! I also love the relationship between the black woman and her white mother. They are open, casual, and organic, and they can be themselves with each other. The Philippino lady and her white mother need to be more open and embracing and learn more about each other as individuals!
3:09 nothing but respect for being able to self reflect and admit that
I hope I can have this amount of maturity and self reflection when I am older lol
“You could also say no” 😅😂😂
Bro really had to think, stutter and rethink
@@robloxvibez6613 Red flag all day lol
@@kingstrong5351nah, he’s just an awkward Michael Scott type dude lol he wanted to let the people know he has a preference without saying no to who he likes outright
@@AriXBerrie Fetishes are preferences mam Lol wanted to make sure he didn't offend the viewing audience. Who would outright admit to having that kind of fetish online??? Lmao
@@kingstrong5351weird for you to male that narrative lmfao but sure.
Damien kept looking at the card like he wanted to speak to its manager. LMAO!!!
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Lol
😂😂😂😂
This was awesome to watch. I totally appreciate the people involved taking the time to share something uncomfortable but real.
As an African American woman raising two 'white passing' (I hate this term but I've crutched upon it in order to 'explain' my boys to white folks.) kids in Austria, this video made me pause. The way in which each of the parents are required to reflect and quickly respond had me in heartfelt stitches. Parenting is such a fumbling yet beautiful journey. Parenting a child who doesn't necessarily subscribe fully to your own culture or ethnicity is one of the many ways in which we as parents are forced to love, let go, live and learn through them. I hope to do this (without alcohol 😅) with my sons one day.
The white dad with the suit was a genuine good man wish I had a dad like that
I hope the same for you. If you don’t have it be it! ❤
also hot😂
He seemed like such a good man!
@@Ashley_eright & he likes black women? Give me his @ 🤣
The first dad with the mix son, is kinda fine.. I can see him attracted to black women.. Lmao
That wholesome handsome white dad who had "a preference" got so damn flustered for NO GOOD REASON. I guess he just felt put on the spot or whatever. Meanwhile, his son was the zennest of the zen.
It might be a question he’s asked himself, but never come to a conclusion about. As in, he worries he might be fetishizing a group of people, but it’s nonetheless his preference.
And he might be.
Or he might not.
He seems nice.
Yeah, we'll never really know@@faiora
I think a lot of people have a preference. It's nothing to be ashamed of as long as you don't put a certain group on a pedestal or objectify them.
@@libera7161 This is the correct answer right there! Nobody would enjoy being objectified, tokenized or exoticized because it's ultimately dehumanizing.
Just like nobody enjoys receiving backhanded comments, such as "Oh you're really pretty - FOR A LESBIAN" or "You're so athletic - FOR A JEW" or "You're so smart - FOR AN AFRICAN". Those are NOT compliments, they are microaggressions. Food for thought. 🤔
Right. Bc the son was like “I got that from him too!”
I really appreciate this video. These are conversations that need to be had, and as a father of a young biracial child, these are questions that I've had and am prepared to speak with my son about when he is of age.
This was soooooo good! I connected with so many parts. Bravo for the honesty!!!
that father son duo was so damn fine
Agree!
The mom who admitted what she did was a lot more respectful and aware than all the ones who took a shot
They took a shot because it obviously was bad. They probably don't want their kids to see them in a different light. And don't won't their business out there.....employers be watching lol cancel culture 😂
It was cringe
I appreciated her honesty.
@@pathfinderwellcareme too
By continuing to do a Chinese accent😂😏
I LOVE this!! The honesty is awesome. Thank you for sharing this so much.
This was my favorite one..everyone was so truthful and respectful ❤❤❤
Poor Damien 😭😭😭. He clearly has a type and doesn't want to come off as if he's fetishizing Black women. All he has to say is that he has a type and keep it at that.
Why is it when someone is attracted to black women they have to reduce to fetish? Black women are attractive. The fetish correlation is such a useless negative stereotype
@user-qb9pp9bg4s I don't know if you're saying this in general or if you think I said he was fetishizing Black women, but just in case, that's not what I was saying. I also don't think that every non-Black guy that is attracted to Black women is fetishizing us, so basically, I agree with you lol. I hope my response came off the right way.
@@user-qb9pp9bg4syou’re absolutely right. however, i believe the stigma is rooted in history when the white man fetishized and took power over black female slaves and slept with them whenever they felt like it. so the idea has just been passed on through generations.
I'm glad he cleared it up by saying that it's a preference. Black women can be preferred by some non-black men just like some white men prefer Asian women and some black men prefer white women.
Some of y'all are too easy and love starved to see that words need to match energy. Stuttering and refusing to answer a question was not enough for you.
Why is Damon and his son so fine 😭… I was like damn. The mother must be a beautiful woman to have produced such a handsome guy and the dad is just fine.
Yes I absolutely agree, if anyone knows their ig handles I would greatly appreciate it lol
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Like sooo fucking fine!
Asfffff 😭😍😍
Honestly omds the son is something else 😩 someone find his @
Answers to the love question. Beautiful!
This brought me so much joy! I LOVE my mama SO MUCH. (This video tribes me of her). It's clear that these families have great connections and are willing to be open. Absolutely BEAUTIFUL. 🖤
*The dad in the suit seems so genuine. Good character*
I like him. 😮 he’s adorable 🥰
Very much I haven't came across a white person like him in a long time he seems just like the best kind of person.
Agree, but he seems uncomfortable talking about race. I guess...in a way, this indicates that he sees people as people/humans, not skin color.
You mean hot
He does 🥰
I'm glad people in the comment section are loving Damien. He was so nervous. Please ask him to come back.
Yeah, he seemed like his intentions were really pure. The law enforcement comment made me wanna cry.
He's hot af 😍🤤😋
He’s honestly adorable
Where's my invite???
@DemianWalter-wb1op stop the lie you could never be that hot daddy
This was so sweet and such great conversations with all parents ❤
This was really enlightening to watch!!!
Damien had me crying! We know he has good intentions haha, but definitely doesn’t want to say the wrong thing
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I felt bad for him because it seemed like he and his son's mother were separated so he probably didn't get as much exposure to black culture through her
@@jessicapeyton5444 nah if his preference is Black ladies then I’m sure he has been apart of the culture for awhile lol
@@gracegreen1859was about to say. I don’t think his last relationship with a black woman was with his son’s mom, so he definitely hasn’t missed out on that much.
🤣🤣🤣 I'm screaming at the scream. "Answer the damn question!! Please!!
The mixed son and white dad are both very HANDSOME 😍
IKR. The mom must be good looking too.
Yes they are!!
Right ❤❤❤❤❤
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This was really wholesome and entertaining to watch! Thank You 🙏🏾
This was so sweet, so funny and quite illuminating as well.
The dad named all the black classics, tell us you love black people with out telling us......and when he said his fear is his son being pulled over by a cop, that so heart breaking.......I have 4 sons and I worry about that constantly.....
That cop reference shocked me. It is a sad reality he is aware of even with his son being bi-racial.
if he raised his son to be respectful which i'm sure he will, if his son remembers his upbrining rather than veer to the thug mentality he will be fine. asians have no issue with authority hence they arent seen on tv getting shot/in jail
@@memyselfi1828 yeah it's true. They even mentioned that it already happened. Outsiders don't nessecarily see a difference so it can come to the 'part' blacks too just as bad. Not that it's okay for any of us to happen to
@@MsDesiree39Not always true. My son was a passenger in a vehicle that his Uncle was driving and the cop asked for ID from both of them even though my son wasn't the one in the driver's seat. My son has never been a thug. He's a high school athlete with A/B honor roll.
@@natalienat411 why was that Reed thug sshot?
"Madea...wherever she goes" screaminggg
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This was so good, I learned some things.. Excellent. 😊
The girl with locs Mom is too cool. I love her vibe!
I need a reality show with Damien and his son. Their dynamic intrigued me because he definitely cares about his son but he doesn't want to say the wrong thing.
Yes, I just said this
Agreed. Seems like a good dad but I think he needs a lil soul searching. He got really hot under the collar by that one question.
I guarantee its because he once sang the n word on a rap song! 😂
Yes, I really appreciated that!!!
so cute
The suit dad being stressed out was funny af, even funnier he had to make it known he did have a preference tho🤣
Swearrrr lol daddy said hold on now but lemme just say😅
He kept that cute. Do I fetishize Black people? No!
... but let it known... 💀😄
I enjoyed this so much! Everyone is beautiful and honest.
These are the kind of conversations we need to see more of! Wholesome, real, vulnerable, uncomfortable.... just cards on the table and honest answers.
I can tell the white dad loves his son and really just wants to be accepted
Damien looked at that fetish question card like he witnessed somebody put something in his drink. That really shook his core. 😂😂😂
Yesssss 😂😂😂
lmao right?
Does anyone know his instagram handle name
if you into blondes nobody would call it blonde fetish. i thought this was a weird question to ask. a fetish is something else than having a preference.
Facts 😭
I LOVED this!!! So honest!
This is a really amazing video - it strikes a lot of cords🎉❤
The white dad and his son were so beautiful, I bet the mom looked like a million dollars as well, beauty is in their genes. Also the mom in the blue dress was an angel.
I loved the indian dad. He was so caring and soft spoken to her daughter, I wish I had a dad like him 😭
I wish he listened a bit more at parts. I think the drinking rushed him, but he was so nice
Yes. He seems so sweet and caring.
My favourite🥰 he’s so adorable
I would have liked to know if the father was from the Caribbean or India.!!!
@@cynthiaedwards954why ?
The dad in the shirt. So boastfully proud of his son you can see it. I loved this episode so heartfelt
These people are great. I love their honesty.
The white mom with the Black daughter is definitely the one white chick who had a bunch of Black friends. She seems cool and could get along with any group of people.
My grandma ❤ yes she does get along with any group, she's the life of the party😋
She was also a Tyrone & Pookie favorite.
I AGREE.. I FELT THAT TOO.. LOL
@cap_les7663 I loved how well both of them communicated their feelings. Most people don’t learn that. This mom did a great job.
I worked with her! she is cool as hell!!
The father and the son duel are amazing. They are both fine as hell! Daddy got it going on!
Stop that jungle fever😅
Right! I’m like y’all are both fine lol.
But Daddy tho! Girl, yessssss!
Right AF 😂😂🤣
@joannabrotherson1024, girl yes they are adorable and hello Zaddy😂😂😂😂
I love all these parents they are wonderful and open, they appear to have parented strong people.
Very important conversations to have!
the mom feeling bad her daughter didn’t tell her about getting rocks thrown at her genuinely made me burst into tears . 😭
I just got to there as I read your comment... Now I'm welling up 😭😭😭🥺🥺
Me too. I didn't expect to cry with a white parent.
It was so endearing!!! Daughter almost had me choke with the hand reaching out ❤❤❤
This is the best segment in a long time. Bring back Damien and his son with the mother. Bring back all of them with their parent of color
the way they were talking idk if their together lol
@@poundsofslothcigars doesn’t matter. We want to hear from the other parent about their experience
Yes please
This❤
I really appreciated this video because you can see genuine love between the parents and their kids. That they both just want the absolute best for each other.
His dad sounds and acts like Michael Scott😂 heart in the right place but he seems a little goofy lol