You are so right, my husband would ghost me, give me the silent treatment, not answer my phone calls, but the minute I flip the scrip, he could not handle it!!! But when he walked out on me, there has been ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT!!! FROM ME!!!!
It’s called going NO CONTACT! That’s a little different than the “silent treatment”. The silent treatment is a passive aggressive form of attempting to control/manipulate others. Going no contact, is basically a “game over” move. I’ve never wondered how the narcissist felt, after I went no contact. I’m at peace, and whatever happens inside their head, is no longer my concern.
Oh the silent treatment! Once I figured out and saw the patterns of the manipulative tactics he was playing on me, I gave him a taste of his own medicine, no, no, no, he didn’t like that one little bit. What that fool didn’t know was I’d already escaped a Psychopath several years before! My gloves came off and after 18 months of contact, I gave that fool the discard of his life!! Ain’t no hoover coming my way 🚫😂
When you ignore a narc it’s slowly but surely breaks them…the narc I love doesn’t know where I live ….or work …he sends msgs from fake numbers …..my narc roommate is a month in to my “you don’t exist” stance …I have no reason to speak or engage with him in any way…. Loving a narcissist is a life sentence of drama …even if you are their “perfect” person …you “want” to do all the things they need of you naturally so their narc behavior wouldn’t affect you because what you’re asking of them is what you do naturally….their down fall is their ego and mistreatment …no way in hell would I give you all you want and need AND be watch you be disrespectful. I love a narc in a deep place …but I love my peace and my strength MORE….there are 7 billion people on the planet..there are a lot of narcs but just ONE of me…..narcs shoot their self in the foot they find something rare and treat it like it’s common ….they’re ultimately the loosers….I can’t stand a manipulative bastardsdds and that all they are …. The narcs I left will spend their lives with me in their head --that’s their disorder nobody leaves their mind …. But I could see them and look right through them (as if they don’t exist) and that cuts them to the core -ESPECIALLY WHEN YOURE DOING BETTER THAN THEM…they need people and when you’re strong enough to stand alone and thrive ….it shows just how weak they are
Yup! I haven’t talked to him or seen him in months. He reached out to try to FaceTime me twice on Friday then texted you know you see me calling. I never responded to anything. I am living my life and free.
I had to go silent with my husband September 2023,he ghosted anyways and then had the nerve to "wish me the best". Nah bro,you could care less. Im focused on me and the healing. Betrayal is the deepest cut
Thank you. 101 days nocontact today. Life is getting better - slowly. My mind is gradually accepting and embracing what happened. Working hard on the concept of acceptance and indifferecence. I forgave 1000's of lies during. So I choose to only forgive myself. Thank you for your videos.
I know what you mean Did you get the “ wtf have you been doing ? who you been talking to? “ when they ghosted us and turn up when it suits them (when we’ were still believing that we were in love with them ) instead of sorry for just getting off and ignoring you for 2 days, it gets an interrogation about how we have been behaving and who have we said what to about them that could make them look bad, there in they avoid any accountability or apology for their actions and behaviour and what we are doing unintentionally is showing them that we will accept that kind of behaviour and then you know how it continues. Until we stop being treated that way and we go dark and totally ignore them and stop their access to us directly or indirectly Finito
Leon, 100% true!! Right after he discarded me I dissapeared from all social media, no contact, no email response, he called, he talked to my friend to send a message, sent flowers... I know it is driving him nuts. I always suspected he controls people through social media. And I know he is hoovering bc he thinks Im with someone else. Always a possesive man.
I went silent on mine have not texted him or anything in 6 months. Blocked him and staying celibate until I meet a really good man that chooses me in EVERY way. And yes he was very cocky and still is I guess. I also guess he has alot of supplies. And I dont care! He do pops up in my head some time here and there.
@@crystalclark8029i do still love him and some days I wish he would come to me. But I know this relationship is over and will never be again. But they say the narsisist never comes back again when they know you have figured them out so I guess I did a grest job cause many narcs do come back. And anyway I want a man that wants me and that treats me like a princess and do NOT steal my life force and energy and deplete me like he did. That relationship was insane!😳
Leon I wish this were true. But in the case of my ex it didn’t happen. I walked away from him after the way he mistreated me for the last time. When he tried his best to break me and destroy me forever! That was New Year’s Eve December 31, 2022! I have not seen him, text him, or called him since. I went no contact in any shape, form, or fashion! Nor has he tried to reach out to me in anyway since that night. He gave me the silent treatment for six and seven months at a time. I was a fool for letting him come back before he did what he did New Year’s 2022. I thought he had changed and realized what he had lost after he walked away from me. But apparently I was wrong. I have finally moved on with my life. I don’t know what’s going on with him or how many women he has had since. But I know he will never find another woman that was there or will be there for him, to take care of him, or stand by him like I did! He will die a lonely man all alone!
The honesty is through the roof you gotta respect it that's what my ex did he was always starting arguments and would go silent because he was cheating and I caught on to him and started calling him out and he would reverse it and say i did it to him THE AUDACITY
Thats what i thought. They act like it dont phase them. Good of you to share the facts nothing but respect for what you are giving back Leon sharing that blueprint God Bless your heart.
This is crazy because my family has mentioned to me they think my ex narc has driven by my house. I don’t believe it unless I see it since I was discarded so badly and cheated on and I went no contact and no one I socialize with talks to them
😂😂😂 Leon said "Im getting in my car" my Narc done came through the window, popped at 3:30 in the morning. Walk up 1 time and she was standing in my bedroom doorway. Lol that is truth.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 mine just stole my cane Friday night out of my car. I left it open. Neighbor told me long time ago he was in my car didn't think he would would return. He is back. Had to buy another one. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 no biggie he is still blocked and being ignored.
@@aquacantstopwontstopspiritual yes out of my car I left b it open he has flattened my tires too. He is an idiot and a Coward. What is that suppose to do to me
The text they don't send in workplace or not knowing and could not get an answer. They smirk and they stalk, copy and blinds in window. Silent treatment and watch your finances
Wow 🤯 a co-worker did this to me. Ignored me suddenly, then started to hang around my section talking to everybody else (but not me). Then 4 months later, he asked my boss to come and say 'Hi' to me. Also, he would hang around in the workplace car park on his days off.. when I was in work. At first I didn't think it anything to do with me, but it all seemed so strange.
Hahaha, I gave him the same silent treatment , and I answered he said how is going with your new boyfriend , I started laughing and said are you projecting? And he never dared to talk that way anymore and changed the subject immediately 😂
I had two narcissistic one was in the military gave me everything that disappear on me . I did the same thing to him he call me for a year straight. The next one would drive by my job and bother my friends. The thing is both are a pisces ♓️
Hello Leon. Hope all is well. I been watching you for a while. Especially if I feel it’s pertaining to me. Thank you for your honesty. I have a question. Hopefully you can give me your insight. Do you have an email? If not I can write it down on UA-cam. ( I never had social media )
Dang too late😕I told his tail it wasn’t something I wanted to do but I had to separate myself from you, how you make it look so easy? It wasn’t easy 😮 so I answered🤦🏼♀️
Narcos give silent treatmemt primarily to avoid accountability & from getting exposed from their nasty deeds.
He has had silent treatment for 11 months now .....he still has the rest of his life left of silent treatment !
😳😳😳. You are not playing!!!!!
You are so right, my husband would ghost me, give me the silent treatment, not answer my phone calls, but the minute I flip the scrip, he could not handle it!!! But when he walked out on me, there has been ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT!!! FROM ME!!!!
Thats right. Stay Strong.
Yep, I hated that!!!!!!
You did right
It’s called going NO CONTACT! That’s a little different than the “silent treatment”. The silent treatment is a passive aggressive form of attempting to control/manipulate others. Going no contact, is basically a “game over” move. I’ve never wondered how the narcissist felt, after I went no contact. I’m at peace, and whatever happens inside their head, is no longer my concern.
Silent treatment mean I’m not coming back anymore. The door is closed!!!
Oh the silent treatment!
Once I figured out and saw the patterns of the manipulative tactics he was playing on me, I gave him a taste of his own medicine, no, no, no, he didn’t like that one little bit.
What that fool didn’t know was I’d already escaped a Psychopath several years before!
My gloves came off and after 18 months of contact, I gave that fool the discard of his life!!
Ain’t no hoover coming my way 🚫😂
I LOVE it!!! 😂😂😂 They never see it coming!
Same here! Stay away psychopathic narcissist 😂
I know he watching me !! I went silent for my peace not revenge 😅
Me too
When you ignore a narc it’s slowly but surely breaks them…the narc I love doesn’t know where I live ….or work …he sends msgs from fake numbers …..my narc roommate is a month in to my “you don’t exist” stance …I have no reason to speak or engage with him in any way…. Loving a narcissist is a life sentence of drama …even if you are their “perfect” person …you “want” to do all the things they need of you naturally so their narc behavior wouldn’t affect you because what you’re asking of them is what you do naturally….their down fall is their ego and mistreatment …no way in hell would I give you all you want and need AND be watch you be disrespectful. I love a narc in a deep place …but I love my peace and my strength MORE….there are 7 billion people on the planet..there are a lot of narcs but just ONE of me…..narcs shoot their self in the foot they find something rare and treat it like it’s common ….they’re ultimately the loosers….I can’t stand a manipulative bastardsdds and that all they are …. The narcs I left will spend their lives with me in their head --that’s their disorder nobody leaves their mind …. But I could see them and look right through them (as if they don’t exist) and that cuts them to the core -ESPECIALLY WHEN YOURE DOING BETTER THAN THEM…they need people and when you’re strong enough to stand alone and thrive ….it shows just how weak they are
It’s my opinion:
Love this: “ when they find something rare they treat it like it’s common”.
Sounds like your still putting a lot of thought into it
Im just So HAPPY to be narc free!!
He'll never get 1 second of my time EVER again. I respect myself too much to allow him to destroy me again. Good riddens to that emotional vampire.
Yup! I haven’t talked to him or seen him in months. He reached out to try to FaceTime me twice on Friday then texted you know you see me calling. I never responded to anything. I am living my life and free.
It's real simple,,, no one likes a dose of their own medicine. Just as they are known for discarding,, be known for the silent treatment.
I had to go silent with my husband September 2023,he ghosted anyways and then had the nerve to "wish me the best". Nah bro,you could care less. Im focused on me and the healing. Betrayal is the deepest cut
Yes he hate it and I gave silence 🤐 and disappeared
Thank you. 101 days nocontact today. Life is getting better - slowly. My mind is gradually accepting and embracing what happened. Working hard on the concept of acceptance and indifferecence. I forgave 1000's of lies during. So I choose to only forgive myself.
Thank you for your videos.
Karma is a bitch!
A DEEP DOWN one too!! Killed my whole body!!!!!
Yup, "mental healness" always says this. The narc thinks that what they are doing is being done to them once you get the courage to finally leave.
This is true. When I did to my bf what he does to me he was so angry and mean. He is so awful.
I know what you mean
Did you get the “ wtf have you been doing ? who you been talking to? “ when they ghosted us and turn up when it suits them (when we’ were still believing that we were in love with them ) instead of sorry for just getting off and ignoring you for 2 days, it gets an interrogation about how we have been behaving and who have we said what to about them that could make them look bad, there in they avoid any accountability or apology for their actions and behaviour and what we are doing unintentionally is showing them that we will accept that kind of behaviour and then you know how it continues. Until we stop being treated that way and we go dark and totally ignore them and stop their access to us directly or indirectly
Finito
Leon, 100% true!! Right after he discarded me I dissapeared from all social media, no contact, no email response, he called, he talked to my friend to send a message, sent flowers... I know it is driving him nuts. I always suspected he controls people through social media. And I know he is hoovering bc he thinks Im with someone else. Always a possesive man.
I went silent on mine have not texted him or anything in 6 months. Blocked him and staying celibate until I meet a really good man that chooses me in EVERY way. And yes he was very cocky and still is I guess. I also guess he has alot of supplies. And I dont care! He do pops up in my head some time here and there.
🎉🎉🎉🎉omg same
!!! We got this
@@crystalclark8029i do still love him and some days I wish he would come to me. But I know this relationship is over and will never be again. But they say the narsisist never comes back again when they know you have figured them out so I guess I did a grest job cause many narcs do come back. And anyway I want a man that wants me and that treats me like a princess and do NOT steal my life force and energy and deplete me like he did. That relationship was insane!😳
NOTHING matters until it negatively affects the crazy!
There are few things on this planet WEAKER than an unaware narcissist!
Narcissists not wrapped too tight,😮😮😮
Leon I wish this were true. But in the case of my ex it didn’t happen. I walked away from him after the way he mistreated me for the last time. When he tried his best to break me and destroy me forever! That was New Year’s Eve December 31, 2022! I have not seen him, text him, or called him since. I went no contact in any shape, form, or fashion! Nor has he tried to reach out to me in anyway since that night. He gave me the silent treatment for six and seven months at a time. I was a fool for letting him come back before he did what he did New Year’s 2022. I thought he had changed and realized what he had lost after he walked away from me. But apparently I was wrong. I have finally moved on with my life. I don’t know what’s going on with him or how many women he has had since. But I know he will never find another woman that was there or will be there for him, to take care of him, or stand by him like I did! He will die a lonely man all alone!
The honesty is through the roof you gotta respect it that's what my ex did he was always starting arguments and would go silent because he was cheating and I caught on to him and started calling him out and he would reverse it and say i did it to him THE AUDACITY
I appreciate your videos because you speaking the truth from experience...
Thats what i thought. They act like it dont phase them. Good of you to share the facts nothing but respect for what you are giving back Leon sharing that blueprint God Bless your heart.
This is crazy because my family has mentioned to me they think my ex narc has driven by my house. I don’t believe it unless I see it since I was discarded so badly and cheated on and I went no contact and no one I socialize with talks to them
😂😂😂 Leon said "Im getting in my car" my Narc done came through the window, popped at 3:30 in the morning. Walk up 1 time and she was standing in my bedroom doorway. Lol that is truth.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 mine just stole my cane Friday night out of my car. I left it open. Neighbor told me long time ago he was in my car didn't think he would would return. He is back. Had to buy another one. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 no biggie he is still blocked and being ignored.
@@empathicwarriorlissy3716😂😂 😂😂😂 really
Oh yea!!! See, you dealt with it 😂😂😂. It’s serious too!!!!
@@leonrwalkerjr not the cane 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣am done 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@aquacantstopwontstopspiritual yes out of my car I left b it open he has flattened my tires too. He is an idiot and a Coward. What is that suppose to do to me
When I tell you those are some of the truest words I have ever heard in my life.....OOOMMMGGG!!!!
The text they don't send in workplace or not knowing and could not get an answer. They smirk and they stalk, copy and blinds in window. Silent treatment and watch your finances
Leon 😂😂😂 not jump in the car pop up at the job 😂😂😂 looking 👀 through the window 🪟 😂😂😂 SUNSHINE ☀️ 😂
Oh yea!!! I did it ALLLLLLLL-drive by allll day long!!!😂😂😂😂
@@leonrwalkerjr Nooooooooooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wow 🤯 a co-worker did this to me. Ignored me suddenly, then started to hang around my section talking to everybody else (but not me). Then 4 months later, he asked my boss to come and say 'Hi' to me.
Also, he would hang around in the workplace car park on his days off.. when I was in work.
At first I didn't think it anything to do with me, but it all seemed so strange.
Leon thank you, keep up the good work, be proud of yourself
Hahaha, I gave him the same silent treatment , and I answered he said how is going with your new boyfriend , I started laughing and said are you projecting? And he never dared to talk that way anymore and changed the subject immediately 😂
Thank you Leon! Beautiful heart. Please keep on exposing people for their own good. I will everyone well ❤
Good advise Leon,keep on encouraging us.Thank you
I stopped watching his IG stories,he did the same...he is such a child and testing who will give in first...Not me!
Thank you for your knowledge and openness.
Thank u leon..this is what im doin to my exnarc gf..
I had two narcissistic one was in the military gave me everything that disappear on me . I did the same thing to him he call me for a year straight. The next one would drive by my job and bother my friends. The thing is both are a pisces ♓️
Ty for this video
Good advice Leon thank you for shinning the light
Hello Leon. Hope all is well.
I been watching you for a while. Especially if I feel it’s pertaining to me. Thank you for your honesty.
I have a question. Hopefully you can give me your insight.
Do you have an email?
If not I can write it down on UA-cam.
( I never had social media )
Hi. Yes, here’s my email. Lassen82cmc@yahoo.com and I will answer right away
Thank you Leon !!
Amen❤
Dang too late😕I told his tail it wasn’t something I wanted to do but I had to separate myself from you, how you make it look so easy? It wasn’t easy 😮 so I answered🤦🏼♀️
All yall sound crazy 🤪 but hell we all are
😅😅😅😅
Payback dog ain't it...