To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 3

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  • @tfa4782
    @tfa4782 8 місяців тому +261

    If she can reply, what does she think happened? Who was the ancestor? How was the scam planned? Where did the money that appeared in the suitcase come from? Was there someone behind the "wallpaper / boards" in the prayer room?

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +2

      The ancestor was actually Kevin, the friend. These guys work as a syndicate and this is how they make their living. They treat these scams as a full-time job. Ofcause there was a person behind the boards who was acting as a bank and they use witchcraft to make the money from nowhere. These guys a criminals they documents used to rent a house are fake. I realised that if I opted to see the ancestors maybe I could have been dead now.😢

    • @mavisletshabo-kwamongwe3709
      @mavisletshabo-kwamongwe3709 8 місяців тому +90

      Usually there's someone behind the boards and they use mobile phones. This was experienced by some people in Botswana and the police cracked the case because people were scammed through the small roundavel house by foreigners

    • @ncedisakhewu
      @ncedisakhewu 8 місяців тому

      ​@@mavisletshabo-kwamongwe3709💯

    • @tlotley
      @tlotley 8 місяців тому +1

      @@jabunxumalo2111 I'm so sorry aus Jabu💝♥️💝💝

    • @Boity_M
      @Boity_M 8 місяців тому +27

      makes sense but the prophecy about why her relationships don’t work out yona?😩

  • @SammyBlosee
    @SammyBlosee 8 місяців тому +612

    The more i watch these stories, the better I comprehend the importance of avoiding dating platforms regardless of how lonely I may become.

    • @YOLISABOLANI-xm7vx
      @YOLISABOLANI-xm7vx 8 місяців тому +30

      U know what girl ......let me tell u something.... u r sooooo correct

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +56

      ​@@YOLISABOLANI-xm7vxsome of these guys target ladies from the mall, restaurants and pubs.. you will be suprised that South African men are also into this. Thus, the importance of spreading awareness.

    • @julietakanyang6635
      @julietakanyang6635 8 місяців тому +12

      Same here, I am scared of this online dating and foreigners....I am so old school😆

    • @lungelolamula7075
      @lungelolamula7075 8 місяців тому +15

      Sooo many similar scams of people who met at the mall.

    • @sizakelemyeni4819
      @sizakelemyeni4819 8 місяців тому +2

      I was planning to but something stopped me. I’m not regretting anything 😅tjiooo 😂save by the bell 😅

  • @mimmymtshalintaka
    @mimmymtshalintaka 5 місяців тому +21

    2021 when I went public for being scammed by my Congolese baby daddy , people mocked me! I didn’t care awareness was raised! Sending love and strength to this lady, love that she’s speaking out🙏

  • @tladimakuse7445
    @tladimakuse7445 8 місяців тому +31

    Ladies, let's suport and help others, no one is stupid. Anyone can fall prey to these scammers. Remember, they're not only in SA, they are in America, Australia, basically the whole world.
    My friend called her stupid and I got so hurt because, this young woman is so brave, and I love her . Go girl, keep on going, be strong. I am one of the people who are going to assist you financially ❤❤❤❤

    • @onalennamyself7969
      @onalennamyself7969 8 місяців тому +3

      Agreed Tladi, anyone can fall victim. She is not stupid. She was scammed by narcissists who used God's name to scam a humble, beautiful hard working single mother. May God give her and others like her strength and bless them with financial success ❤❤❤❤ in Jesus's name we shall conquer 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @kabelolove
    @kabelolove 7 місяців тому +30

    I am based in Limpopo Province and guys here like asking “what do you for a living”
    I always lie and say that I am a nanny, it’s a turn off for most of them.
    My advice is never tell a guy you just met what you do. Just say you are a maid and when they ask you how come you look so good, just say the Mrs gave you the clothes.
    It’s working for me, keeps the leeches away.
    I was almost scammed via Facebook in 2017

    • @khathutshelo051
      @khathutshelo051 6 місяців тому +2

      I also lie about my profession to avoid being a target.
      Guys all over do this and it’s doesn’t matter the nationality.
      The only time I will be open is when I have seen a credit report of the guy, his ID and everything else that is legal .
      Even though it is not 100% secure that I will be safe but at least I would have “fought “ for myself

    • @Fragrancelily1
      @Fragrancelily1 6 місяців тому +7

      Tell them you just finished serving a prison sentenced for murdering your boyfriend

    • @kabelolove
      @kabelolove 6 місяців тому +2

      @@Fragrancelily1 😂😂🙊

  • @sphesihlembuli5327
    @sphesihlembuli5327 8 місяців тому +34

    She seems like such a beautiful and pure soul. May she find peace and heal

  • @mbaliradebe1472
    @mbaliradebe1472 8 місяців тому +112

    "Evil thrives when good people do nothing."
    I'm so glad she came and told her story. As Owamie said she's very brave and I agree.
    Wishing her the best going forward.

  • @KingSARoyalty-yw2bo
    @KingSARoyalty-yw2bo 8 місяців тому +23

    Foreigners came here to hustle, few of them are legit

  • @Lenny_Daily
    @Lenny_Daily 7 місяців тому +21

    Hi Jabu , am so sorry to hear that this happened to you.
    It could have happened to anyone, 60% of women are love scammed these days because literally men have become weak. They don't want to work, they don't want to go to school, they want soft life... Men are even giving themselves to other men for money, that's the generation of men left...
    I know multiple ladies, beautiful, smart and educated get love scemmed by their boyfriends, baby daddies, fiancé's and husbands..
    These men can be met anywhere, church, work, malls, restaurants, funerals, weddings etc.
    These men have plans in place to swindle women, they don't target broke women, they target single, devorced and financially able women.
    I'll give you one example, in Namibia one guy impersonating to be a doctor, rents out an AMG dating women all over the country,
    Wears a stethoscope everyday going to work, but goes to other women's houses
    Engaging and proposing all of them, telling them he's a Christian and does not date, marriage only, so engagements before you meet the parents...
    These women took out loans to fund His lifestyle... Luckly for us, Namibia is a small populated country , everyone follows each other, and he did not go far. They exposed him on Twitter and was published in the National paper, by the way he only dated: business women, doctor, lawyers, nurses, teachers, CEOs.. To mention a few.
    Thank you for opening so many eyes, I hoe this video reaches a million views coz this is a loud message that needs to be heard by all women..
    Women now stay with men who only need money and accomodation from their women, is that not love scammed?
    Love and light

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 8 місяців тому +239

    Mondays will never be the same again....
    From here we are going to MacG....Ninjas and Chillers leave a like

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  8 місяців тому +51

      I will just make sure mine comes at 12 so time doesn’t clash hle😢

    • @jenniferngobese9929
      @jenniferngobese9929 8 місяців тому +13

      @@boldlyowamieHow sweet of you, while others will be trying to compete. The sky is the limit for our Queen 🤴 ❤ ❤❤

    • @avelakhoza6140
      @avelakhoza6140 8 місяців тому +5

      Yep a Ninja and a Chiller❤❤❤

    • @affectionatewhati4526
      @affectionatewhati4526 8 місяців тому +5

      We are ninjas and chillers ❤

    • @yoursTruly20711
      @yoursTruly20711 8 місяців тому +6

      Being a Ninja and a Chiller is giving happy vibes sana 😄. What a time to be alive 💃💃🤗

  • @ronellecandice1536
    @ronellecandice1536 8 місяців тому +16

    Her cheeks tells me she’s really too kind and has no guard up😭😭😭…what a sweet woman

  • @selinamotsilili8429
    @selinamotsilili8429 8 місяців тому +12

    I had the exact experience like this lady. His name was Chris, he said he was from Kenya but he was staying in South of JHB. He was driving a merc, C class. Fortunately for me, i didn't take loans because i realized very quick that it was a scam.

    • @user-ex9tw6cb8r
      @user-ex9tw6cb8r 3 місяці тому

      Is the guy Chis Odinga? He says he works for DHL

  • @hlelsilethwala9934
    @hlelsilethwala9934 8 місяців тому +13

    You are so strong for telling your story!God will restore everything that the locust has stolen sis❤

  • @rebotilemogadime4169
    @rebotilemogadime4169 8 місяців тому +173

    When Owamie first told us of her intention to speak to victims who have been scammed she mentioned how this is to educate women out there. All these guests bringing their stories are not stupid but brave to let us in on the kind of things people are ashamed to talk about that happen behing closed doors. Just because something has not happened to you yet does not mean your smarter, we don'tknow if we will come across this but in a different way it might not be a love scam but a business one. Lets show empathy to other women who decide to share or those women who are in our lives in the same situations. Lets be kinder to each other.
    Thank you Owamie for bringing to life this idea, it will help a lot of us or remind us to be careful, some are even scammed by their current husbands or family members and dont know and will wake up too late.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +2

    • @dimakatsombambo4012
      @dimakatsombambo4012 8 місяців тому +4

      You said everything I wanted to say even more.
      🙏🙏👌💕

    • @thandothando2779
      @thandothando2779 8 місяців тому +2

      True

    • @BlessedMGodspace
      @BlessedMGodspace 8 місяців тому +4

      You just spot on and that's why other people end up committing suicide because they were told that were foolish or desperate for love but forgetting that we all need love no matter who you are or what you have .

    • @masentlejiyane6021
      @masentlejiyane6021 8 місяців тому

      He was not praying, he just, wanted to blind u, becareful of foreigners, theyr using Vodoos, don't be too desperate to hv a man , one day they will secrify u

  • @user-kb3ld9ms2u
    @user-kb3ld9ms2u 8 місяців тому +50

    You were hypnotized my sister this is the second time i hear such story it's sad how this foreign men come in our country and scam poor women..it's sickening and disgusting 🤢

    • @ntombirikhotso
      @ntombirikhotso 8 місяців тому +2

      Yes, it's the 419 scammers I strongly believe the man is not a Sudanese bt but Nija man!

    • @buyisilezibuyisilebuthelez8315
      @buyisilezibuyisilebuthelez8315 8 місяців тому

      Yes and can be a rwandan/Ugandan

    • @ziyandamaphini4722
      @ziyandamaphini4722 8 місяців тому +3

      I also think with these things, to certain extent, there is hypnosis/magic used here. Because it's not really about anyone being stupid.

    • @loveandlight3486
      @loveandlight3486 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@ntombirikhotso .. sad thing and I would have liked not to believe it is a South Sudanese, mara #Metoo , I have a story too😢

    • @Glo-zj2vf
      @Glo-zj2vf 8 місяців тому

      I was watching another show where they sacrifice their girlfriend and its happening a lot in that country I got so worried about our girls ngoba they are always the victims' girls be careful be prayerfully when u dealing with these people

  • @andrehlako558
    @andrehlako558 6 місяців тому +6

    The same thing happened in polokwane and two people are arrested and are going to court on the 18th of December for bail application. Please come to polokwane High Court on the 18th and check if the same person

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 4 місяці тому

      Atleast Polokwane police are doing their job.. Gauteng ones....ay..

  • @menzimabunds3561
    @menzimabunds3561 8 місяців тому +15

    This story is 100% like mine. Mine he was from Dawn Park but originally fron Zanzibar but immediately when I was told to resign and give a portion of my funds, that's where it ended and he was so furious, he actually turned red.

    • @vinoliahmkhondo5437
      @vinoliahmkhondo5437 7 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂😂and then what happened?

    • @preciousgolide3288
      @preciousgolide3288 6 місяців тому

      😂😂😂😂They are very persistant and impatient

    • @veelerato843
      @veelerato843 4 місяці тому

      I've been dying inside looking for someone who I can share my story to, almost got scammed the same way.

    • @ms_anda3873
      @ms_anda3873 4 місяці тому

      @@veelerato843oooh no, I hope you heal mntase

    • @thekitchenwrapco
      @thekitchenwrapco 21 день тому

      What is his name? I think I know him. Is his name Habeb?

  • @lebom2456
    @lebom2456 8 місяців тому +40

    Sending a virtual hug to this brave lady 🫂. Such a gentle soul 🤍

  • @ncedisakhewu
    @ncedisakhewu 8 місяців тому +162

    NEVER tell a man what you believe in, especially foreigners.🤞🏽

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  8 місяців тому +11

      😭😭😭

    • @musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441
      @musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441 8 місяців тому +38

      You are right then suddenly they become staunch Christians just so you can relate to them and feel at home

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 8 місяців тому +10

      😂😂True 😭💔 God taught me that lesson real quickly, as an 18 year I thank God 🙏

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 8 місяців тому

      ​@@musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441true

    • @otienoagiro
      @otienoagiro 8 місяців тому +16

      He was probably a Nigerian not a South Sudanese

  • @phumzilemakua9247
    @phumzilemakua9247 8 місяців тому +11

    Can’t stress how important it is to have a community (friends and family) you share your life with, especially about romantic partners man. They are sometimes able to pick up things we can’t because of the cloud 9 we usually in. Yoh bandla

  • @carolcox8814
    @carolcox8814 8 місяців тому +5

    This is such a useful channel. It is a great teaching tool. Blessings to those who were scammed. May the scammers receive the karma they deserve.

  • @simphiwer8970
    @simphiwer8970 8 місяців тому +43

    I don't and will not judge this woman. In fact for sharing this story I feel more alert and empowered.

  • @thenamakays6871
    @thenamakays6871 8 місяців тому +157

    I just love how Owamie genuinely cares for her guests and puts herself in thier shoes ❤.. definitely one of the best podcasts in SA

    • @Mpho_T
      @Mpho_T 8 місяців тому +8

      When she was holding her hand to comfort her 🥺🥺

  • @rachelsalphydikgadibamarup8770
    @rachelsalphydikgadibamarup8770 7 місяців тому +64

    I went through exactly the same thing but I was so stubborn and kept on asking questions and not agreeing to this bag thing. He got angry because I said no to his ancestors to come and do whatever was supposed to be done with the bag. 50% of this story is exactly like what I've experienced. I was scammed 6k . All I can say to our sister those people use muthi.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  7 місяців тому +12

      Please come to the show 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @rachelsalphydikgadibamarup8770
      @rachelsalphydikgadibamarup8770 7 місяців тому

      I'm not as bold as most of your guest but all I can say ladies stay away from dating apps . That's were most of the fishing and scammers are happening. This people are a group it's not a one man show. And they brain wash you and use some muthi on you, that's why u fall in love so fast.

    • @nomasontopatriciamtetwa3241
      @nomasontopatriciamtetwa3241 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@boldlyowamieI need to meet the lady , please Owami . I'm in the middle of that at the moment . Maybe ....

    • @nellygiven4960
      @nellygiven4960 7 місяців тому

      I also went through the exactly same thing

    • @pathiswapiyose4518
      @pathiswapiyose4518 7 місяців тому

      I agree they are using muthi , it's witchcraft

  • @mphomaswanganyi4401
    @mphomaswanganyi4401 8 місяців тому +22

    I cant believe how similar our stories are, i met his "mom and uncle" in December. He was "blessed" with 20 million, each told to take 400 and give to the needy. I bailed out when he pressurised me to resign from work, he became very impatient when i didn't do so immediately!

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +8

      Glad you escaped😢😢😢, wish people had shared their experiences to alert others but again social media is something else people choose to insult you for being scammed.

    • @zozozodwa
      @zozozodwa 8 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your story. I was also scammed some thousand of rands -R100000 in 2022. It might be the same guy who is operating in the Eastrand around Brakpan/ Benoni/Spring. The police were after him it's clear that he has scammed a lot of women. Luckily I back off when his ancestors told me that must resign and open the account. On that week I had an unusual dream I saw my late dad in my dream shaking his head and I believe that he was warning me about something. When I didn't do what was required he blocked me. I went to his place to check whether he still stays there. He was gone and his landlord told me a different name and that he told them that he is going back to Ruwanda. Only to find out that he was still around Lakeside Mall. He drives a Merc C class well build , good looking will call you always a😢😢😢nd has all the respect but guess what he is big scammer. Hoping one day he will be arrested as we are still tracing him. 😢

    • @thandekangubane3494
      @thandekangubane3494 8 місяців тому +4

      Siyamubonga uNkulunkulu he couldn't scam you

    • @khosiethabekhulu3497
      @khosiethabekhulu3497 8 місяців тому

      ​@@thandekangubane3494God was with her. Iyoh!

    • @nombusodladla-ib8tw
      @nombusodladla-ib8tw 8 місяців тому

      Aybo girl what was his name...this sounds so similar to mine but I spotted red flags early, played along until i told him I have been observing him for some time now so I know you are a liar and scam...you not getting a cent from me go to hell...he tried calling i ignored the call, sent him a long whatsap of all the loop holes that I have been noticing all along .

  • @musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441
    @musicaltherapyforrelaxatio5441 8 місяців тому +98

    My advise to to you girls is: when you do not have a circle of people you can trust around. Find a guy to talk to who is older, it can be a security guard or cleaner, it does not matter what their level of education is but guys know the guys language. They will be able to tell you when something is off very quickly and the good thing is they will not repeat the stuff you tell them cause they dont care but you will get the advise that will help you in the future, especially when starting a new relationship and you not sure if the person is legit or not, a guy will listen to the story and straight away tell you that the person is a phony or not.

  • @kwakha6103
    @kwakha6103 8 місяців тому +59

    I respect you for coming out and telling your story. Walk tall Queen, you will come out of this stronger than you can ever imagine.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +3

      Thank you ❤❤

    • @Glo-zj2vf
      @Glo-zj2vf 8 місяців тому

      I really appreciate that, she has open the eyes of many people

  • @blessingdlamini9108
    @blessingdlamini9108 8 місяців тому +12

    Strength to you girl, proud of you for telling your story so that someone out there doesn't fall into this scam.

  • @thembimaseko9600
    @thembimaseko9600 8 місяців тому +73

    Girls in South Africa are in trouble. I don't know whether we are desperate.

    • @LollyMadikiza-xw4ok
      @LollyMadikiza-xw4ok 8 місяців тому +15

      @thembi...desperation, loneliness & getting older wid no partner,i think dats de reason

    • @LukeRev480
      @LukeRev480 8 місяців тому +19

      Nokuthi this thing is new. You meet a nice guy and think let me try and yhoooo!! Women please it's time stop thinking you will find someone, it's just not working for us. We need to be at peace with living our whole lives "alone" with a community of other women.

    • @nolubynature9513
      @nolubynature9513 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@LukeRev480I i totally agree with you

    • @SheisUnique
      @SheisUnique 8 місяців тому +6

      This is exactly how I think nowadays unless God decides otherwise ofcourse. This will save your peace of mind

    • @tweety07534
      @tweety07534 8 місяців тому +7

      It's better to be single these days

  • @itsyourgirltee3754
    @itsyourgirltee3754 8 місяців тому +62

    People also not forget that the Devil also knows the Bible end to end. This was witchcraft. Sis Jabulile I’m sorry you went through this 🙏🏽

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +9

      True witchcraft ninja, thank just glad I pulled through. I was in a very dark place 😢.

    • @ntlotlisenglebitsa8153
      @ntlotlisenglebitsa8153 8 місяців тому +7

      Very true the devil even knows prayers end to end

    • @mrsshumbasclassroom4256
      @mrsshumbasclassroom4256 7 місяців тому

      There was no muti..this guy has all time ro plan and open sceiptures. Guys there was no dlozi. You cant serve God and ancestors at the same time. These are first class crooks..even renting a house so they can appear legit..of u do your investgation,you will discover that the house belongs to another girlfriend who is their victim.

  • @judydavids9738
    @judydavids9738 8 місяців тому +10

    I feel for you. Been scammed myself... But God will deal with these scammers. Be strong. You will get through this.... Not easy. But though the grace of God. You will become stronger 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💪🏽

    • @aishaluminsa6505
      @aishaluminsa6505 8 місяців тому +1

      How were you scammed dear. The more we know the more we will be saved. Sorry about the scam

  • @rebeccamalgas4175
    @rebeccamalgas4175 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for sharing Jabu!
    I am so sorry that you have to go through this😢

  • @TsheM
    @TsheM 8 місяців тому +48

    It must have been tough for this women to come out with this story but it was needed. So happy she shared it with us. Women need this education.

  • @phetolomokoditoa2278
    @phetolomokoditoa2278 8 місяців тому +201

    What that guy did is called love bombing.
    Love bombing is a tactic in which someone “bombs” you with extreme displays of attention and affection with the intent to manipulate you.
    This is why he was able to scam her. What a disgusting vile human being and I hope she gets justice. She’s such a sweet lady and I hope everything goes well. It’s sad to say that most human beings don’t come with the right intentions and we have to guard our hearts. I hate it!!!

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +17

      Best comment so far, he used that technique and witchcraft.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +8

      Thanks sisi , unfortunately after this it will be difficult to trust anyone's intentions.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +5

      Not even difficult, I don't think I will ever be able to trust any man's intentions.

    • @phetolomokoditoa2278
      @phetolomokoditoa2278 8 місяців тому +5

      @@jabunxumalo2111 It will take take time to trust one,definitely. But it is definitely a life lesson,I’m happy you were able to share with us and give us warnings. People are very vile. I wish nothing but the best for you! Someday someone will see how amazing you are.❤️ stay strong!

    • @ZoeJack451
      @ZoeJack451 8 місяців тому +2

      @@jabunxumalo2111 ❤️&🕯

  • @maureenmamabolo
    @maureenmamabolo 8 місяців тому +5

    I also encourage such an occurrence in Limpopo. They r everywhere. Fortunately I ran away when I was told by the ancestor to bring money to the prayer room. I wish to share my story 2, for the ladies to be aware.

  • @malkiamusa
    @malkiamusa 8 місяців тому +3

    thank you for sharing this story. its an eye opener and i hope one day these scammers will be caught and face justice

  • @pheliwemashiyi8835
    @pheliwemashiyi8835 8 місяців тому +88

    As women we are just too desperate to be loved

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  8 місяців тому +12

      I don’t think so 😢

    • @ncisept5900
      @ncisept5900 8 місяців тому +27

      Not really desperate. But blinded by it

    • @thandekadube2606
      @thandekadube2606 8 місяців тому +2

      I agree. It’s sad yazi

    • @cynthianhlapo6431
      @cynthianhlapo6431 8 місяців тому +2

      we use need to accept and forget about being loved, cos there's none out there ....

    • @tetyanaphikolomzi6886
      @tetyanaphikolomzi6886 8 місяців тому +2

      You should there's nothing wrong with that,the problem is not being true to your own self,and it is impossible to be true to self if one is blinded by material already

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 8 місяців тому +68

    I feel so sorry for women, they are going through the most for real

  • @kendeewilliams194
    @kendeewilliams194 8 місяців тому +3

    Blessed you from Jamaica. God will multiply and return unto everything you have lost

  • @linaakaka6886
    @linaakaka6886 8 місяців тому +4

    Very informative, thank you sisters for being keepers of fellow sisters

  • @sindiswawandilemvuna
    @sindiswawandilemvuna 8 місяців тому +94

    Kevin (the friend) was definitely the ancestor 💔💔😪 this was a top tier scam. I'm so sorry my sister 💐💞

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +36

      Thanks Sindiswa, Ofcause Kevin was ancestors..I went to the house and saw that there was an actually a hidden built-in wardrobe behind those boards. Which means there was someone hiding behind and talking. That got me thinking, what could have happened to me if I agreed to see the so called ancestor. Maybe these guys could have killed me.

    • @m-lloproducts6008
      @m-lloproducts6008 8 місяців тому +3

      @jabunxumalo2111 So dear, those millions were they even real money in the bag?

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому

      @@m-lloproducts6008 I don't think so, all I know the box/bag was full of money.

    • @cynthianhlapo6431
      @cynthianhlapo6431 8 місяців тому +4

      but an ancestor who' can sing along and tell you all plans of opening bank account etc ? the behind wallpaper voice...no no no....the red flag was there !

    • @cynthianhlapo6431
      @cynthianhlapo6431 8 місяців тому

      ​@@m-lloproducts6008Yes stolen from other woman's as well the same way

  • @tooleighcele4375
    @tooleighcele4375 8 місяців тому +28

    Owamie is listening to the constructive criticism… this interview was easy to watch!
    Excellent work! You have the guest space to talk , no judgy eyes or comments! Beautiful!

  • @b.3940
    @b.3940 8 місяців тому +19

    Truth of the matter is, anyone can be scammed and not even know it till it's too late. I had a government job as a young man in a foreign country and believe me, anyone can be manipulated to give information that is top secret, surrender love, or do other things they normally wouldn't do. All you have to do is identify is their weak points and voila! you own them after that.

  • @nondumisotundube8616
    @nondumisotundube8616 8 місяців тому +1

    Yooo cc this is a life lesson. Thank you for sharing

  • @MsMaluleke2023
    @MsMaluleke2023 8 місяців тому +88

    Welldone Owamie for affording people such a platform to speak out, encouraging them and literally holding their hands through reliving such traumatic experiences . For spreading awareness and discouraging victim blaming.🎉 I salute you my queen. Both of you

  • @winkana2
    @winkana2 8 місяців тому +210

    As Women we should have a solid support network, friends and relatives that we can reach out to when meeting a new partner. Woman friends are excellent at reading / assessing character and red flags 🚩 it is very sad to see bad things happen to good people.

    • @LukeRev480
      @LukeRev480 8 місяців тому +41

      The problem is we always accuse them of jealousy. Instead, we give these vile people the benefit of the doubt. How smart!!

    • @TsheM
      @TsheM 8 місяців тому

      I totally agree.

    • @nozizwenkambule2784
      @nozizwenkambule2784 8 місяців тому +1

      My friend is one in a million❤.

    • @dr.shelamogailamokgabudi3735
      @dr.shelamogailamokgabudi3735 8 місяців тому +2

      I totally agree with you. However it's not everyone who admits the signs and red flags! Personally i tried warning my friend against her newly found love that ended up scamming her more that R300 000 but she would justify his actions until she got burnt real hard. It's very sad.

    • @winkana2
      @winkana2 8 місяців тому

      @@dr.shelamogailamokgabudi3735 fair play for trying.

  • @tombimashri8149
    @tombimashri8149 8 місяців тому +7

    RSA should have a group of Ladys Lawyers who represent nd fight for ladys who get frauded infact unfairness for Ladys.

  • @mokgadiono7531
    @mokgadiono7531 8 місяців тому +17

    Good people, scammers aren't always foreigners. My own mom was scammed by her long term friend.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +5

      True and these scammers are working with our own people, police and bankers.

    • @thato97
      @thato97 8 місяців тому

      Oh yes was scammed by Buiders.

    • @bdg9997
      @bdg9997 7 місяців тому +1

      we don't need more problems in the country they must close the borders we hv our own scammers imagine now the whole of Africa is here to finish SA

  • @prudenceandrade6436
    @prudenceandrade6436 8 місяців тому +27

    Never trust someone who left his or her country that person really means business.

  • @zamam8216
    @zamam8216 8 місяців тому +110

    I consider myself a smart person but I know this could have easily been me. I am pathologically trusting of people, and I like to be respectful of people's beliefs...could have been me. Thank you Jabulile for sharing your story. I am so sorry this happened to you

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +15

      Thanks Zama, It could have happened to anyone, trust me.

    • @fjhkerwoiero00
      @fjhkerwoiero00 8 місяців тому +7

      nah not me, I have seen enough in this world, if it too good to be true, it probably is! Also that I do not believe in chatting with 'ancestors'

    • @aydensky026
      @aydensky026 8 місяців тому +4

      Yazi, I'm thinking the same. As women we want, we believe the best in people. My heart bleeds for her. I'm also grateful that she is sharing this unfortunate experience with us. I sincerely wish her well...❤

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому

      ​@@aydensky026❤

    • @user-gl8dj4yt5x
      @user-gl8dj4yt5x 7 місяців тому

      Oh I feel sorry for you cc hang in there dear God will help you it will all pass in Jesus name

  • @asandapearl-vc5cd
    @asandapearl-vc5cd 8 місяців тому +3

    Hi I am so sorry that you went through this. This was so eye opening. I hope you find healing and may God bless you. And you are beautiful, smart and you are deserving of so much more mama❤❤.

  • @sissgugu
    @sissgugu 8 місяців тому +4

    Enjoying this so much and also loving the views. Thank you fellow ninjas for always having Owamie’s back 🥰

  • @prudencelegadima7482
    @prudencelegadima7482 8 місяців тому +69

    I was scammed by my Aunt, and a business associate. I am down around R500k and I am now in the hole which is a struggle to get out off, Its a struggle at the moment so be warned people, being kind and decent is no longer the norm. The moral decay of society has gotten to the point of no return. Its downhill from here. So please be carefull out there. Dont fall for soppy stories.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +7

      Sorry for your experience Prudence, trust in God, he is the God of restoration!

    • @prudencelegadima7482
      @prudencelegadima7482 8 місяців тому +1

      @@jabunxumalo2111 Thank you for your kind words. Yep, he is what keeps me going. I know he will see me through this rough patch. I still have a lot to be thankfull for. Thanks Jabu, Stay Blessed

    • @Onthecuspwithdaphne
      @Onthecuspwithdaphne 7 місяців тому

      So sorry hope there’s a breakthrough for you soon

    • @vinoliahmkhondo5437
      @vinoliahmkhondo5437 7 місяців тому

      Oh my goodness, you'll be ok❤

  • @pinkycele11
    @pinkycele11 8 місяців тому +54

    Owami thank you so much for this podcast. The lady narrated her story so well, she seems like a very humble lady and didn’t deserve any of this ❤

  • @EstherShawa-ye1gw
    @EstherShawa-ye1gw 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for sharing this story...I have learnt a lot and it's really mind boggling how evil these scammers can be.

  • @sakinasibangula8694
    @sakinasibangula8694 5 місяців тому +4

    Yhoo this story struck a nerve for me. Was scammed by my ex fiance, convinced me to take a loan for him R50k and he was going to pay me my monthly repayments. He changed into something i didn't know afterwards and asked me to leave him alone to live his life. Hhhheee the depression I had, i couldn't sleep, I was breaking down in public, had to repay a loan i didn't spend a cent, i couldn't speak about it for a long time. Men really hates us 😢

    • @EmmaculateMalesa-dc2gs
      @EmmaculateMalesa-dc2gs 3 місяці тому

      😢 I’m sorry you had to go through that, I almost did the same but thank God I thought quickly about what if he decides not to pay and lied to him and told him I don’t qualify

  • @nkululekojisari7225
    @nkululekojisari7225 8 місяців тому +21

    We can judge and say whatever we wanna say but this is one strong woman, i envy her for who she is coz she's still going far in life and she will achieve more than what she lost.

  • @SAapproves
    @SAapproves 8 місяців тому +28

    I see young females allowing foreign nationals to use their bank accounts. Next thing they'll be owing SARS millions if not arrested for not being able to account for the money

  • @valentine_b_ndlovu
    @valentine_b_ndlovu 7 місяців тому +13

    Owame, I just want to thank you and thank this specific guest for sharing her story here in this platform. I hope she sees this comment. By sharing her story she saved my life and money from being scammed probably by the same people she fell in their hands TODAY!!!!
    It’s God’s grace that I watched her story last week only to meet a handsome gentleman who just made me meet his uncle and there we were in a prayer room, similar story to your guest’ story. The relationship ends as in right now. Thank you mtakama for saving my life and my money. May God continue to use your story. You’re a selfless human being.a woman of God indeed 🙏🏽🙏🏽🩷

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 7 місяців тому +1

      To God be Glory !

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 7 місяців тому +1

      You just made my night ❤

    • @weedz6318
      @weedz6318 7 місяців тому

      I’m very very sorry my sister. I’m happy that you didn’t take your life. You’re beautiful, stay strong , God is with you through this

    • @kmp9764
      @kmp9764 7 місяців тому

      The same happened but it was early this year, by just listening to her, i am releaving the whole ordeal, I had to end it.

  • @musi_33
    @musi_33 8 місяців тому +2

    Sending love to this lady. You are not alone, this scam is going around. And I just hope that you heal fro the trauma.❤

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 7 місяців тому +7

    The SAPS needs to be trained on how to handle new trends of crime.

  • @madeinafrique2849
    @madeinafrique2849 8 місяців тому +103

    I applaud her for being brave to talk about this publicly , i have lived in an apartment building where a lot of scammers live, They throw you a bait , if you are this person that is over respectful and understanding of their silly requests, you become prey… also, South Africans work with these guys, that’s why the so called ancestor could sing a Zulu song behind those boards .

    • @maulinenkatha7076
      @maulinenkatha7076 8 місяців тому +14

      Happening here in Kenya(scammers here are Nigerians and Ghanaians)it’s a huge cartel involving even government officials.sad situation

    • @kwakuakonto8942
      @kwakuakonto8942 8 місяців тому

      ​@@maulinenkatha7076Kenyans engage in scamming in USA too

    • @monicamatselane9418
      @monicamatselane9418 8 місяців тому +5

      It's not only u my sister I know someones mom who get scammed by the Nigerian man 3 million.this people the work together with officials and people from the banks

    • @thatokhofu9365
      @thatokhofu9365 7 місяців тому +2

      I also think these scammers are Nigerians who scammed this lady😢 even these pastors with big churches scaming people these people are not good

    • @permathobela7457
      @permathobela7457 7 місяців тому +4

      Even Ugandians they are dangerous. This thing came with them

  • @Letstalk_915
    @Letstalk_915 8 місяців тому +102

    I like what Owamie said, no matter how smart you think you are, if you’re operating from a point of lack of info they MAY outsmart you. It’s many heads coming together to scam you (one person). I commend ppl that come out to share. I hope this woman pulls through and come out of this stronger.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  8 місяців тому +4

      Sooo true ❤

    • @anewearthlandofthefree6582
      @anewearthlandofthefree6582 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@boldlyowamieMay we get her contact info to send support to her and her family? Only if she is comfortable giving it out. And for all of your guess, we can turn their tragedies into a blessing.

    • @matlhabegoanebetty6700
      @matlhabegoanebetty6700 6 місяців тому

      They are very smart and using a strong muthi, the drug they use last for weeks

    • @PalesaKS
      @PalesaKS 5 місяців тому

      😢

    • @PalesaKS
      @PalesaKS 5 місяців тому

      This is my situation right now but I’m not yet scammed. I felt it’s too good to be true and started Googling about awakening ancestors and I’m shocked right now. Owamie please share Jabus contact or your contact with me so that I can share more. I’m scared to share my numbers on this page. This is scary and I believe is a syndicate. You might use me to get this guys if it’s what they also trying to scam me as well. We need to stop them before they scam and break more women emotionally and financially 😢😢😢

  • @trinicj9617
    @trinicj9617 7 місяців тому +1

    I applaud you for your bravery. Sometimes even the most careful person in life can be scammed. But continue to be strong my sister. You have to live for your children

  • @leeannvuyelwaash
    @leeannvuyelwaash 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for sharing ❤ praying for you and your kids.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 8 місяців тому +324

    SABC note this comment down...you are definitely gonna be paying Owamie millions of American dollars....she is the Queen of media

  • @zamamanana1124
    @zamamanana1124 8 місяців тому +48

    Hiring a private investigator is the way to go now and dealing with them with our own communities is the only way to go....

    • @thandiwemaretlane1101
      @thandiwemaretlane1101 3 місяці тому +3

      Hi i think im going thru the same thing. Pls share details if the private investigator. I am so overwhelmed with surprises of what is happened

  • @nonhlemahlangu115
    @nonhlemahlangu115 8 місяців тому +6

    So sorry to hear about your ordeal sisi. He's heartless, he even made you sing before scamming you. You've got a beautiful singing voice by the way... Remain strong, you will bounce back and don't blame yourself.

  • @Jabu_lanii
    @Jabu_lanii 8 місяців тому +10

    Iyhoo sis Owami listening to the story on how she described the so cold prayer room made my heart accelerate from zero to hundred... I know the room and I have been in that room... I know that uncestor that speaks through that small African house... I wish to tell my story one day.

  • @CingwaneElihle
    @CingwaneElihle 8 місяців тому +60

    Owamie is my spirit animal!!!! Her reactions are exactly the same as mine 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 There is no way I would’ve still slept over, after speaking to an ancestor hhhaybo 😭😭😭😂😂

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +13

      I now wish I ran for my life that day😂😂😂,

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  8 місяців тому +5

      @@jabunxumalo2111yhooooo yiu didnt know my love❤️

    • @CingwaneElihle
      @CingwaneElihle 8 місяців тому +4

      I’m sorry bakithi sisi.

    • @cindymachete7721
      @cindymachete7721 8 місяців тому

      @@jabunxumalo2111 I was in the same boat, your story is exactly the same as mine. I regard myself lucky because after hearing the voice of a talking ancestor in the prayer room I refused to sleep there.
      get in-touch if you need to vent and someone to understand.

    • @ht26parismakariqeifrancois78
      @ht26parismakariqeifrancois78 8 місяців тому

      True

  • @marymulea4338
    @marymulea4338 8 місяців тому +34

    Yooh Jesu i'm in tears, divorcees can be so vulnerable. Ladies we in trouble thank you Owamie we are learning so much from your podcast

  • @jesussaves2822
    @jesussaves2822 8 місяців тому +2

    I'm so sorry my sister. I pray that you heal with time by God's grace. Lesson learned, by you and by us who are listening and watching. I'm sure you are wiser now. Lots of hugs. Praying with you. May God bless your mom for praying for you, more grace and more strength upon her.❤❤❤

  • @gosalamangmooki
    @gosalamangmooki 8 місяців тому +6

    This lady is telling the truth it happened exactly to my friend the way she says foreigners are dangerous

    • @otienoagiro
      @otienoagiro 8 місяців тому

      Am Kenyan. I think many South Africans are incredibly gullible. This cannot happen to a Kenyan.
      I recall a time so many South Africans died in a collapsed building in Nigeria where they had gone to worship. Unbelievable! Why would a large number of people cross many countries to go to another to warship God?!!

  • @thando_ngwe
    @thando_ngwe 8 місяців тому +22

    I loved this interview, your maturity and allowing the guest to speak her mind ❤

  • @yvonnemaboya3578
    @yvonnemaboya3578 8 місяців тому +30

    The story is exactly the same as my colleague, This is a network, they operate everywhere in my colleagues case they suggested she sells the house and furniture and she refused, she also had the same feeling of being hijacked and dint save him from his car trouble. We just watched show and we were both in tears she feels a bit better naw, she is still paying off the debts even naw. She also got a similar response from police a silent laugh. Stay strong your kids need you. From Limpopo

  • @londiwecelimpilo4068
    @londiwecelimpilo4068 8 місяців тому +3

    Its my second day i found this chanel. It only make sense now y i went thru similar experiences with ALMOST all Owamie's Guests.i relate so much otherwise i was gona b very judgemental.Woow God loves us.

  • @zanelemasuku4959
    @zanelemasuku4959 8 місяців тому +3

    I am so sorry for this ordeal. Thanks for your bravery to share your story. I resonate with your story, it happened to me, God will take you through. 🙏 . Thanks Owami for this story, I have learnt a lot. Jabu stay strong sisi, these people use strong umurhi and they are heartless. You will bounce back. I pray for healing 🙏. stay strong.🎉🎉

  • @wandisatshisa9756
    @wandisatshisa9756 8 місяців тому +91

    Wow this is a different kind of way to scam to scam someone, it could be that they used evil spirits to make her agree to everything, I feel for you Ninja and so sorry this happened to you.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +11

      Thank you Wandisa, these guys use muthi what puzzle me is that they use the name of God in the process.

    • @amandamgobhoza2882
      @amandamgobhoza2882 8 місяців тому +21

      I believed they used muti too coz no one in their right mind could agree to all of these creepy events

    • @lebom2456
      @lebom2456 8 місяців тому +1

      Different babes! Higher grade

    • @user-xi2il4yj2x
      @user-xi2il4yj2x 8 місяців тому +6

      When someone believes they are in love a lot is possible. Without muti. I have seen it many times..

    • @osisiphodumela4601
      @osisiphodumela4601 8 місяців тому +4

      One thing about these guys, they are very patient when it comes to their scams 😩

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 8 місяців тому +67

    I like Owamie's designer...she definitely knows what she is doing

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  8 місяців тому +3

      Theee best🥰

    • @nozzzz7
      @nozzzz7 8 місяців тому

      Big ups to Fatima🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @NhlakaZondi
    @NhlakaZondi 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your story so we women can be warned, I've learnt so much from this. You're such a beautiful woman inside and out and this guy preyed on your innocence. I trust that God will restore all that you lost and will bless your life abundantly.

  • @hannifamohamed9906
    @hannifamohamed9906 7 місяців тому +2

    This was so sad to watch so sorry sis😢... thank you for educating us.❤ heal and be strong ❤

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude 8 місяців тому +21

    My heart goes out to this lady.

  • @yolandas9929
    @yolandas9929 8 місяців тому +23

    I sympathise with her, as a single mum. Men can be so evil and take advantage of vulnerable women! Can you please release photos of this man! THE GENERAL PUBLIC NEED TO SEE HIS FACE

    • @precioussigudla9969
      @precioussigudla9969 8 місяців тому +5

      We need to see this guy, he might be still on tinder with a different account name😫

    • @dadakeshinro6749
      @dadakeshinro6749 8 місяців тому

      Some women equally very evil 😈 an Italian man had various experiences with African women 😮😮😮😢

  • @Child7542
    @Child7542 2 місяці тому

    My csta thanks for this channel i am learning a lot.first time viewer❤❤❤🎉

  • @thatochabeli4303
    @thatochabeli4303 7 місяців тому +4

    It’s true that this could happen to anyone. It’s shocking that a love scam worked on this beautiful, intelligent & experienced woman. The cautionary tale will help many 🙏🏿

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 7 місяців тому

      And I've always dumped any man who would ask me for money 😂😂

  • @bonikoneti7123
    @bonikoneti7123 8 місяців тому +44

    Owamie, this lady deserves justice. Can you not open some back a buddy type of account for us to contribute towards legal fees. This is injustice! The fact that the police aren’t helping is a disgrace? To say the least. Or maybe one of the ninjas could offer their legal expertise pro bono, umntu ngumntu ngabantu guys ♥️♥️

  • @Barb7707
    @Barb7707 8 місяців тому +16

    This solidifies the fact that these people use spells haaa no way. She is such a cute, smart and independent woman. Yes sometimes we are blinded by love as women but our sister here was on spell yho. This guy was beyond evil bathong! God will deal with him and that half a million will come back tripple sis ❤

  • @dineolekhotsa2203
    @dineolekhotsa2203 7 місяців тому +2

    My first time watching this show, im glad i watched it, i learned a lot and im greatfull because i didn't know about this kind of strategy they use.... my prayer to God is heal this beautiful lady, Strengthen her and see her out of this darkness.... May He Bless her with true love and happiness

  • @Onthecuspwithdaphne
    @Onthecuspwithdaphne 7 місяців тому +2

    Jabu I’m so sorry for your loss your story brought years to my eyes. You are so strong and keep showing up for your kids much love and hope for the best for you. You are such a beautiful person inside out 🌸💖strength to you sis 💖

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 7 місяців тому

      ❤❤

    • @user-zw6cu5yw3z
      @user-zw6cu5yw3z 6 місяців тому

      ​@@jabunxumalo2111
      Hi Jabu. Keep strong. He will get God's wrath. Jabu please never hide developments of a love affair to firstly your family members & secondly your friends, even workmates. If u had whispered all this ancestral and prayer shenanigans to someone, definitely someone would have waked up your mind. Any way it's all water under the bridge... keep strong. Kuzalunga standwa sam. That person must be from Uganda

  • @gloriamaplanga5051
    @gloriamaplanga5051 8 місяців тому +14

    there was definitely someone behind those prayer room boards on the walls, there is no way that small house had such an up-to-date ancestor

  • @tamiwetomoka4963
    @tamiwetomoka4963 8 місяців тому +46

    Definately this man worked on the psyche of majority South Africans of believing in ancestors and rituals. They had done their home work so well

    • @lucelletadiwanashemakubika7636
      @lucelletadiwanashemakubika7636 8 місяців тому +2

      true

    • @walekengwira3468
      @walekengwira3468 8 місяців тому +1

      True

    • @YouWell2
      @YouWell2 8 місяців тому +3

      more like seeking quick riches, and little to no sweat input...

    • @thandekangubane3494
      @thandekangubane3494 8 місяців тому +4

      They know most South Africans even born again Christians are fascinated about ancestors God help us.

    • @vinoliahmkhondo5437
      @vinoliahmkhondo5437 7 місяців тому +4

      Aowa ancestors don't speak English 😅😂😂😂 I was in a similar situation I left as soon as I heard the English speaking ancestor😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @leratosawatsi3966
    @leratosawatsi3966 8 місяців тому +39

    I wish there's something I could do to help her to re-gain her Financial Freedom 😩
    I know how it feels to repay a loan that you didn't even use a cent from.
    I admire her for sharing her story with so much ease and smiles and my wish for her is healing and restoration.

    • @jabunxumalo2111
      @jabunxumalo2111 8 місяців тому +6

      ❤❤

    • @tefl_info
      @tefl_info 7 місяців тому

      ​@@jabunxumalo2111I hope you heal. I think your story is the same as mine.

    • @rajeshkumaroberoi812
      @rajeshkumaroberoi812 6 місяців тому

      ​@@jabunxumalo2111
      Hello Jabu
      I am from India, very touched by your story which has badly affected you in every thing be it financially, mentally and I understand it will be very hard for you to trust any one so easily

  • @samarahndoro6447
    @samarahndoro6447 8 місяців тому +2

    Very informative. Inam sorry for your experience sis. Thanks for sharing with us. I am sending love and light your way. I pray God give you strength and open your financial doors to settle the credit.
    @the host, you so beautiful and have good aura. Thanks for the show

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 8 місяців тому +41

    This is fresh, organic and genuine content....

  • @zama1694
    @zama1694 8 місяців тому +6

    Beautiful lady. With a genuine heart. What she lost the universe will replenish ten fold

  • @leboocooks3682
    @leboocooks3682 7 місяців тому +4

    I can’t stop saying “yoooh chommy mara le wena😭” 😂😂😂

  • @buhlenkomo3225
    @buhlenkomo3225 8 місяців тому +1

    I’m very sorry about what you experienced. You seem to be a nice person and you didn’t deserve it. Thank you for sharing your story and choosing to live and seek professional help. Proud of you.

  • @GodsFavourite2024
    @GodsFavourite2024 8 місяців тому +103

    What I've come to realise from all these episodes is:
    1. Tinder has some very hungry men.
    2. When you meet a man and you are a home owner please tell them you are renting it.
    3. Look at the love bombing to being a possible red flag.
    4. Be cautious, dont be pressurised by these men.
    Ya, some one else please add on to this list if there is anything else women need to be aware of. Also, can we share this video so that more women are aware of these scammers modus operandi

    • @leeannvuyelwaash
      @leeannvuyelwaash 8 місяців тому +25

      I think single woman should act broke if you meet someone online. Never let no man know your money situation.

    • @ntombifuthindabezitha4873
      @ntombifuthindabezitha4873 8 місяців тому +16

      Don’t date people from tinder whatsoever you call it

    • @ntombifuthindabezitha4873
      @ntombifuthindabezitha4873 8 місяців тому +7

      People needs God , and wait upon him

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 8 місяців тому +5

      @@leeannvuyelwaash yes. Be a damsel in distress please women

    • @mlklkgamagadi
      @mlklkgamagadi 8 місяців тому +7

      I almost fell for it as well but luckily, I always listen to my inner voice as I'm a spiritual person. I should thank my ancestors for it. I used to hate that my mom decided to halt ny calling at a very tender age and thanks to it I can't remember my dreams as I literally see evil and it made me sick hence the decision to halt it. Unfortunately she passed on soon after and the priest did too. Now I only rely on my inner voice which is always spot on

  • @olabuk2000
    @olabuk2000 8 місяців тому +18

    Thank you for the eye opening video, this curse had definitely gone rampant and undettered in our country. A friend of mine went to withdraw her pension under similar circumstances, a locked prayer room, with talking ancestors, a promise of s great return.
    But the message you should assist in driving home Owamie is that, us ladies must observe a man very closely, And NEVER trust a stranger so quickly, and STOP giving money to strangers. Period.

    • @medlinerubaba3757
      @medlinerubaba3757 8 місяців тому +5

      Especially the giving money part. Ladies must just desist from this love gesture of giving money to a man especially one who has not married you.

    • @user-xx8gr4du5e
      @user-xx8gr4du5e 8 місяців тому

      ​@@medlinerubaba3757very true my friend

  • @epheniaramasodi6880
    @epheniaramasodi6880 8 місяців тому +6

    Thanks to the lady for sharing the story, your a strong woman.
    To female police officers, I don't know whats wrong with you, you don't act like your at work not professional at all.
    When I was physically abused by my ex boyfriend this female police officer came to the scene and they were about 6 of them. If I can still remember it was four males two females and in that four males the other two males were junior police officers. The female police officer actually said, this one is struggling in love, she asked the junior police officer to help me in the love department as I was struggling 😏