The utter disrespect from that churchmouse. How does a broke person ask for a 2nd wife? Ntando is such a beautiful person. May she find a loving husband.
Guys Ntando was being polite here yoooo hayi I looked and found the soon to be ex-husband (Imenemene elitsha ngoku ngu Masukude)..Hayi guys nooooo maan haykhona noooo!!!
To be honest self loving doesn't guarantee how the next person sees or plans to treat you. The fact that God also allows like how he allows those we love to die, it could be possible that this was part of her life journey to teach us one day. I am certain someone getting married soon and saw this, will revisit their marriage contract.
Understanding personality disorders are crucial to protect oneself because wow these folk will put you through the most. You are truly brave for sharing such a painful ordeal. I wish you healing and peace.
The most dangerous person to be around is those who have NOTHING to lose. If you learn anything from this comment section I hope you will learn this. Be wary of ppl who have nothing to lose. Keep them at a distance they will drag you down to their level.
@@sindilemntambo9005 true sistas we are bob the builder.. all because of love..it shows that our background plays a huge part, we found ourselves blind by this scammers all in the name of what they tell us with no action in it. Karma is definitely coming for him.
Ma'am, you need to thank God no child was born out of that sham of a marriage. Ru. And NEVER look back. That man is a user, a manipulative person and wicked. Let go, heal and move on. He was not yours to keep
Owami you are unaware what you are doing for these women.first giving them a platform to speak.second listen without judging.You ve got my Blessings one million subscribers by end of next year.
She has done in depth episodes with Thabani of St media or something. Think it's called podcast yabazalwane. Even the husband came through with his side of the story. Anyway, you might find her details there.
Call me paranoid, but i think she was also manipulated spiritually. It's not always as simple as it seems. Many successful scammers use charms to entice their victims. When the spell is broken, you start wondering how in the world you accepted all that crap.
As black people we really need to change our attitude and mindset towards dating. We need to open up discussions between parents and children. Because the lack of education and support makes people vulnerable. Teaching our daughters and women about navigating relationships, setting boundaries and standards and how to differentiate between a man who is worth your time and not. I believe the culture of spending money on men really needs to end. Why do South African women do this? Is it because most households are headed by women so it has become normal? But please, any many who needs to be taken care of is a red flag ladies. He should focus on his hustle and forget about women. How will he take care of your kids if ehlulwa uwena uwedwa? No man please let’s end this pandemic yokondla amadoda
She looks so dignified, but the way she moves her eyebrow you can see she doubts herself. She's unsure of herself worth. Owamie please force her to go to therapy and find herself and love herself. People will always walk all over her until she believes in her own value.
I saw that immediately hey. There's a lot of trauma in her, even her breaks in between her speech are abnormally long, it's as if she needs assurance from someone. It's sad shame, also why is she still wearing this ring? It's as though the ring is giving her some sort of assurance, or acts as a pacifier to her. Haai
Honestly, I am extra happy that this story is about South African men because some were in the comments in previous videos making it seem like its just foreigners who are scammers. The truth of the matter is that although stories are predominantly about foreigners, anyone is capable of scamming and anyone can fall prey, regardless of nationality. People are evil, period.
It means that this South African man has copied this kind of scamming or coming women in South Africa from foreign nationals, thinking it's a better way to get rich quicker. Eish! I don't understand the agenda now.
Anything to absolutely distance South African men from it all right? The absolute and sheer desperation for SA men to be in the clear🤣@@puseletsokhena5322 okay then. He s not South African I guess. Happy?🙄
This is just proof that this can happen to anyone. None of us are exempt from the possibility we may cross paths with these kind of men. Wishing you healing sisi! You are so beautiful you deserve better.
They say “ do NOT let a man tell u twice they don’t want u” Some men are evil. They cud hurt u and feel nothing. Sooooo callous. May God heal every woman who has been subjected to such pain, hostility and humiliation from a man they believed was with them for the right reasons. I want to believe this man will get his karma. Nobody deserves to b treated less than
I hope women, yet again, hear the truth. The hard truth is that men hate lovers who are more successful than they are, you remind him everyday how much of a failure he is.
That is true, to the core. They just can't deal. Some women go as far as to hide their real finances, and live within her husband's budget for this reason.
As a recent law graduate, I'm furious. In court, please utilize all of this information against him. You are eligible to get a reimbursement because you also paid for home expenditures.
Mina i got my provident fund and secretly bought a house of R1.2M and put in the deposit without guy knowing. I've told him i got around R200K and actually amount was R900K. I kept the rest aftee making a house deposit.
These stories make me understand why I remained single 21 years after my husband passed away. I was 32 then in 2002. I always believed that my money belongs to my sons forever. Again, I had a hard upbringing. I prefer to be alone even on holidays or take vacations with Christian strangers because I can't can't trust anyone in this world. May God heal all of you. Be richly blessed ❤❤
I was waiting for this season of your life. I love your gossip videos alot but when you'd share your opinion on various topics I felt like you had something bigger to offer.. This is the beginning of that something big. I'm so proud of you Queen. ❤️👑
I’ve learned that the men you bend your back for will laugh at you one day for not putting yourself first, I’ve never heard of a successful relationship of a woman taking care of a man “ it’s a man’s role to provide and they are built to hunt “work” and provide, a man who can’t provide shouldn’t even eat or should stay away for woman above their level!
At times I feel outcasted and lonely for being single, but seeing such things actually shows me how God is trying to protect me from such men. It's so sad that people have to go through this.
She still calls him “my husband”I feel like she’ll go back.may the Lord give her strength.I also thinks she’s beautiful so I dont know what the man was talking about
they are using muti on her. She needs to pray hard for God to give her the strength to walk away. I am so sorry my sister God will fight for you and heal you..
The amount of red flags this man has, have transformed into a big red duvet. Why do brokeys like having kids...hayibo I can't. 😵💫🙆♀️ . Don't worry Mama you will heal. We've all done silly things for love.
Brokeys have kids as future investments, they are counting on those kids to take care of them in the future. Also they have kids to keep you trapped, they hope you are big on family so they can make you stay while they do whatever.
I love how calm and collected this beautiful, loving and caring lady is when she is sharing her story. God knows you still going to shine and fly higher❤️
Providing for men financially is a strong pandemic a lot of South African women find themselves in or accept. While there are a lot of responsibile and hard working men out there. Maybe its the xhosa in me, but this must stop.
@williamshakur8715 "Evolutionary psychology" will give you the answer... whether you believe in "evolution" at large or not, we get proof daily that it doesn't work otherwise, mybe if we can eliminate masculinity/femininity then the conversation can change
Even if we look at it from the spiritual/religious side, your Bible depicts this and going against it is probably the reason we have lots of natural disasters 😂😂😂
If he comes back, she's gonna take him back. I think she's a bit delulu coz why is the ring still on her finger? Why does she still use her husband's surname? I'm not judging. I pray that she realises that those things hold her back
A few days ago I wrote this on my WhatsApp status because it applied to me “when a certain form of love is missing in your life, you are most likely to accept it when it presents itself to you, no matter the form or shape”
And familiar spirits can attach themselves to where we pray for things we would like so we also just receive it as though it's a prayer answered. Life...
So true, lack of first love (parents love) can lead to a self destructive adult. I feel the furnishing of the mkhukhu , gave the guy an impression that she can do more and more . Ppl can see our vulnerabilities, we relate using those , until healing takes place.
Before you fight and want that house; sisi please PRAY and denounce that marriage. Deliver yourself from any covenant you might have made unknowingly so with your in laws. And I pray God protects you for your children’s sake. Your kids need their MOM back, not a stupid house from in-laws they don’t know.
It’s so sad. This woman was manipulated and conditioned. I believe that by her not having a family, this man’s family felt like all she had. Because she’s so giving and kind, this man took advantage of that! A covert narcissist he is. I’m dealing with a narcissist and this story is giving off all the signs. However, karma knows the return address.
I am so sorry you are dealing with a narcissist. I was with one for 7 years, thank God I left with my life still intact, it could have been worse. Educate yourself and leave! You will be finished by the time they are done with you.
As a men i feel ashamed and embarrassed by this guys who are representing us the wrong way ,may the Lord restore you in all areas of your life Mam,you deserve the best .
I feel like she also needs therapy. It doesn't sound like she's ready to let go and that man might take advantage of it and come back to finish her off. May God give her strength and all the love and warmth she needs ❤❤❤
She actually does and those derogatory comments finished her... Sad how marriage was meant to be this picture of being accepted to a certain level in communities...she already has a family...her two kids she can build a new family tree from there. Lots of us wimen go through that only through prayer that veil of deception can be broken.
I feel like that’s how most women get taken for a ride. Being too naive and “sweet”. It’s not being a good person when you accept any kind of treatment from a man.
Not me watching this in pieces because of all the emotions I’m feeling; as an empath I can’t help myself from breaking down. She is so sweet; modimo a go lwele. Your strength, protection etc comes only from God. Pray!
I'm happy she spoke to owami since their situations are similar. Sometimes you just need someone who has been in your situation in order to to feel heard and understood.
Listening to what she was doing for him, buying him clothes, furniture etc my jaw is on the floor and I'm ahhing😮 and now I'm looking crazy cause I'm alone in the office. I have a hard time being separated from my hard earned money *separation anxiety 😂. I can't do all those things for i'ndota... Yes will spoil you every now and then, but c'mon there are limits. Thank you for sharing.🌺🌺
I just recently started watching RC Blake s UA-cam channel. Some of us never had dads to teach us what to accept and not to accept from man or what to watch out for before giving a man a chance. I really recommend his teachings, they are something worth sharing especially with young girls
My family member her ex hubby tried to do this ones she was on pension he came back trying to get half of her money lol she threatened him nd told him she will deal with him the African way or hire killers 😂😂😂 lol the coward got scared and left imagine after so many years of divorce he came back just for her mula
So ladies, kahle kahle you are in class now, take notes, learn, and it's not only a lesson to women, but men can also learn from these videos on how to treat women and do better, we should learn to protect and provide, not to lie and destroy, women are hurt out there because of us
Some where i can relate to this woman's character... She is extra sweet and when she puts her heart into something she means it...she loves "stupidly" n she is the type tht feels bad if she can say no to sm1 in need of help
Jooooo but women you are doing a better job in developing these men better than the government, better than these men's family, 2024 learn to upgrade yourself, indoda maisebenze and take care of himself and his wife and family, sikhathele ngamadoda that behave like slay queens
Its like some of us Women we are so Stranded and so Lonely to buy Love.hw can l look for another mans child whilst he can even look after me.moreover you were the husband in yr marriage whilst he was Sowing children out there
Owamie, haai this episode is unbelievable, are you sure its not a script your preparing for a Mzanzi Magic series or short movie because no mann this cant be real. I found myself laughing, almost crying, asking God gore why, mouth wide, kore no mann ai. May this woman receive justice and may this man get nothing. I hope these baby mamas show him dust.
She still seems so embarrassed by her story! I just want to hug her! You are part of the 0,8% of women that have the courage to tell their truth! Well Done Mama 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤
She doesn't love herself ,I hope she will learn to love herself . We love better and see ourselves in better places ,when we first love ourselves . She's soooo beautiful I pray that she loves herself to know that she can live without that husband. Remember you attract who you are ,if your not whole you'll attract messy friends and lovers . Let's love ourselves women please I beg 🙏
Ladies, please before we step into the dating scene, let's go to therapy. Address any trauma/ emotional wounds you may have. People out here will take advantage of any weakness you have. This man and his family played on on the fact that this woman was orphaned and her need to belong to a family
Sending you Hugs, I went through a similar situation in my 20 year marriage. I was humiliated and was made a laughing stock by his friends and family. We go through so much I took my power back. Love you Ntando and Owamie❤
Yhooo angihleki yaz 😂😂😂... Xhosa Dyans will make sure when they hurt... they dnt do small small, they make it a point the finish yu off. Strength to you my dear Sis.. m gla you are walking out...
Fathers, its important to be in your kids lives and love your kids to avoid such 😢 Askies my sister, may God heal you and repay you what the locust has stolen ❤❤
Thats true gowing up iwas daddy s girl I watched how my dad treated my mom coz she grew up without a father figure it was too much sumtyms his girlfriend will visit I told myself kguri no man will scam me
Therapy to "save" the marriage, oh Ntando, you are too sweet and kind for this world, you are just an angel in human form, cos no human being can withstand what you have been through and still look gorgeous like you. It's time for you to fight back in the divorce court. Nail his a$$$
This lady has patience and perseverance that is beyond what any human should. No ways!!! I feel like she could accept this guy back or a similar guy. Owamie PLEASE help her.
Desperation is one of the symptoms of people pleasing. You people please ( accept anything and stay longer than you should) because of the desperation of needing and wanting someone. These toxic men are very good at identifying that and they will take you to hell and back - literally of you don’t enforce it witching yourself that you are whole and wonderful first and foremost with or without a man.
Honestly? I wasn’t a fan of the gossip news. Although that how we were introduced to Owami, I’ve always enjoyed her opinions and her thoughts. Owami I think you’ve found your niche. You’re such a compassionate host while still receiving all the answers we need. I love this new series and I pray God enlarges your territory. This is brilliant work.
I'm so pained by yhis Ninja I won't even lie. How can one person hurt another person's heart and mind like this. What type of a human is so heartless 💔.
Many of us have people in our lives that are in similar situations and it is heartbreaking. When we speak up we are villified to thier kids even (our own nephews and nieces) and relationships (family/sibling bonds) are broken indefinitely. This is the reason I am grateful for this platform and its purpose. If one episode can help free atleast one soul then the work is done. May you be blessed with the strength to keep up the great work. 🙏🙏🙏
Ntando is a beatiful lady with a kind heart. She is naive as I don't think she has dating experience. But she will be ohk. I use to be like this but life/ people showed me flames.
I cant thank you enough for bringing such brave women to tell their stories❤. We are vulnerable population and we shoukd stand together to grow and suport each other. Heartbroken and overwhelmed by all these life stories. 😢
This is the sweetest woman i have ever met. ❤ love this lady. Me, he would have been scared of me. Thre Bible verse that says "Do not cast your pearls to pigs" Don't give your best to pigs.
I feel like, if the man didn't file for device, she wouldn't. And if the guy comes back tomorrow and say I was bewitched she might still take him back I wish she could just focus on the devorce and keep whatever that is currently in her name Owamie is quite wise and very educational. I wish she could take her advice and take control of her life. Coz she did a lot of enabling in this whole case
@@maytshifularo5415 deeply tooted childhood traumas and trauma bonds can make you stay in such situations. I think more than anything she needs to attend therapy and be off social media for a period of time
I couldn't keep up 😮. This was a fast-paced marriage. So much happened within such a short period of time. I have never seen someone under a spell but this woman was or is still under a spell. There is no how😡!! Giving someone a lift and money after they they point blank told you that they don't love you. Anever.
This kind of scam has been in South Africa a long time. I know of a lot of stories around Rusternburg area. The man and the "true love" clearly were in this together. That's why she disappeared and all of a sudden reappeared. I'm glad that the man was stupid enough to confess.
The relief she let out when Owamie said she paid most of her lobola 😊
I had to share coz i saw she felt a bit embarrassed 😢 woman go through a lot💔
The power of sharing.. She realised she is not alone and that's one step into healing
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The utter disrespect from that churchmouse. How does a broke person ask for a 2nd wife? Ntando is such a beautiful person. May she find a loving husband.
Guys Ntando was being polite here yoooo hayi I looked and found the soon to be ex-husband (Imenemene elitsha ngoku ngu Masukude)..Hayi guys nooooo maan haykhona noooo!!!
This thing called self love should become a subject taught in all schools.......
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To be honest self loving doesn't guarantee how the next person sees or plans to treat you.
The fact that God also allows like how he allows those we love to die, it could be possible that this was part of her life journey to teach us one day. I am certain someone getting married soon and saw this, will revisit their marriage contract.
@@thatotlhowethank you ❤
Understanding personality disorders are crucial to protect oneself because wow these folk will put you through the most. You are truly brave for sharing such a painful ordeal. I wish you healing and peace.
Yey I fully agree with you.
Shout out to those who watch and read comments at the same time
We are legends😮
To us🤣🤣😂🥂
Yithi llabo❤
Cheers to us 😊
I have this irritating habit.
The most dangerous person to be around is those who have NOTHING to lose. If you learn anything from this comment section I hope you will learn this. Be wary of ppl who have nothing to lose. Keep them at a distance they will drag you down to their level.
The absolute truth!😢
So true stay away from a man who will be financially dependent on you he will drag you to his lowest level
Af if you heard me talking to my brother just yesterday. Those exact words came out of my mouth. We were discussing family issues 💯 my sister.
Amen
Here this lady!!!
This episode made me sick to my stomach. My empathy couldn’t take it. I wish this lady well.
May I remember all these episodes everytime I think of spending money on Indoda 😫
I beg😂😂😂
@@boldlyowamie LOL YOH!
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Hahaha, me too.The anxiety I get, even if I have to give him R100.00
😂😂sana because wow....what the F
Ladies its time to stop being Bob the builder....2024 we are starting on another level
😂😂😂😂 Bob the builder 👷♀️
@@sindilemntambo9005 true sistas we are bob the builder.. all because of love..it shows that our background plays a huge part, we found ourselves blind by this scammers all in the name of what they tell us with no action in it. Karma is definitely coming for him.
I agree 100%my sister yhoo ha.a
Yooohhh I can't stop laughing.🤣🤣🤣
😂 ❤ not Bob the Builder. Love it ❤
Ma'am, you need to thank God no child was born out of that sham of a marriage. Ru. And NEVER look back. That man is a user, a manipulative person and wicked. Let go, heal and move on. He was not yours to keep
Feels like you are speaking to me too. So relevant to me. Thank you!
@@nener5441 light and love to you ma'am ✨️ 💛
Owami you are unaware what you are doing for these women.first giving them a platform to speak.second listen without judging.You ve got my Blessings one million subscribers by end of next year.
🙏🙏🙏🙏 From your lips to God’s ears 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 thank you
I agree Owamie u doing the Lord's work 1million subbies on this channel 😊❤❤❤
How can I get in touch with her, I wanna assist in her divorce proceedings.
She has done in depth episodes with Thabani of St media or something. Think it's called podcast yabazalwane. Even the husband came through with his side of the story. Anyway, you might find her details there.
Call me paranoid, but i think she was also manipulated spiritually. It's not always as simple as it seems. Many successful scammers use charms to entice their victims. When the spell is broken, you start wondering how in the world you accepted all that crap.
True. Someone once told me the same thing. This thing is not simple as we think.
Exactly 💯
Sure... The charms are so strong... Am a victim
True
Very true
Wow!!! I'm a mother of 2 young men. I pray to God that I do not watch my kids treat women like this!
As black people we really need to change our attitude and mindset towards dating. We need to open up discussions between parents and children. Because the lack of education and support makes people vulnerable. Teaching our daughters and women about navigating relationships, setting boundaries and standards and how to differentiate between a man who is worth your time and not. I believe the culture of spending money on men really needs to end. Why do South African women do this? Is it because most households are headed by women so it has become normal? But please, any many who needs to be taken care of is a red flag ladies. He should focus on his hustle and forget about women. How will he take care of your kids if ehlulwa uwena uwedwa? No man please let’s end this pandemic yokondla amadoda
As it is👏🏽👏🏽
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It's a real pandemic
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Did not finish your writing we like to take mens project and desperate to be in relationship, find with no sheets leave him.
She looks so dignified, but the way she moves her eyebrow you can see she doubts herself. She's unsure of herself worth. Owamie please force her to go to therapy and find herself and love herself.
People will always walk all over her until she believes in her own value.
I saw that immediately hey. There's a lot of trauma in her, even her breaks in between her speech are abnormally long, it's as if she needs assurance from someone. It's sad shame, also why is she still wearing this ring? It's as though the ring is giving her some sort of assurance, or acts as a pacifier to her. Haai
@bellatalkssa405 she definitely needs a lot of love, strong positive love to build her. Her trauma goes long before she married this guy.
Spot on
Hugs and kisses to this wonderful lady😢Nobody deserves this kind of treatment
One thing I learnt about men is that they respect the slay queens more than wife material
Honestly, I am extra happy that this story is about South African men because some were in the comments in previous videos making it seem like its just foreigners who are scammers. The truth of the matter is that although stories are predominantly about foreigners, anyone is capable of scamming and anyone can fall prey, regardless of nationality. People are evil, period.
It means that this South African man has copied this kind of scamming or coming women in South Africa from foreign nationals, thinking it's a better way to get rich quicker. Eish! I don't understand the agenda now.
The difference is the are no SAn men scamming Foreign women out there. Yes SA 🇿🇦 has their criminals
By the way , I know the story they guy he from originally 🇿🇼 Zimbabwe 🇿🇼
Anything to absolutely distance South African men from it all right? The absolute and sheer desperation for SA men to be in the clear🤣@@puseletsokhena5322 okay then. He s not South African I guess. Happy?🙄
@puseletsokhena5322 So, his grandmother had land in SA to pass on?
You were not desperate sis you were in love. It happens to the best of us. May God bless you abundantly.
I agree
It’s Owamie giving legal advice for me! I love this, keep at it
This is just proof that this can happen to anyone. None of us are exempt from the possibility we may cross paths with these kind of men. Wishing you healing sisi! You are so beautiful you deserve better.
Dankie
They say “ do NOT let a man tell u twice they don’t want u”
Some men are evil. They cud hurt u and feel nothing. Sooooo callous. May God heal every woman who has been subjected to such pain, hostility and humiliation from a man they believed was with them for the right reasons.
I want to believe this man will get his karma. Nobody deserves to b treated less than
I hope women, yet again, hear the truth. The hard truth is that men hate lovers who are more successful than they are, you remind him everyday how much of a failure he is.
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Facts!
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That is true, to the core. They just can't deal. Some women go as far as to hide their real finances, and live within her husband's budget for this reason.
@@cosmic_sunflower3864 crazy, I can’t imagine pretending to have less than to keep someone happy.
As a recent law graduate, I'm furious. In court, please utilize all of this information against him. You are eligible to get a reimbursement because you also paid for home expenditures.
Wooow 🙌🏼
I'd it possible...though?
What çourts😂😂in that banana republic
Does that work for men who provide for women too? Or it's complicated?
@@robbylebotha😂😂😂😂😂 she won't answer
Mina i got my provident fund and secretly bought a house of R1.2M and put in the deposit without guy knowing. I've told him i got around R200K and actually amount was R900K. I kept the rest aftee making a house deposit.
Don't cry when you find out He's been hiding things from you too.
She still love him this one. She has to love herself more.
These stories make me understand why I remained single 21 years after my husband passed away. I was 32 then in 2002. I always believed that my money belongs to my sons forever. Again, I had a hard upbringing. I prefer to be alone even on holidays or take vacations with Christian strangers because I can't can't trust anyone in this world.
May God heal all of you. Be richly blessed ❤❤
Women endure so much in the name of 'love'.refuse with us Lord,this is just too painful.
4 different babymama’s chomi 😢
When I say men with multiple baby mama’s is a red flag, people say we are judgemental Yo!!!!😢
I was waiting for this season of your life. I love your gossip videos alot but when you'd share your opinion on various topics I felt like you had something bigger to offer.. This is the beginning of that something big. I'm so proud of you Queen. ❤️👑
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Amen, we are not about drama any more💃💃💃 we have grown bathung 🌸🌸
This reminds me that my daughter went through almost the same scam,that affected her.the kids and my family.we need to teach our girls...
This case courts have a way of dealing with it. He won't get 50% of her assets. The lady must be assertive and get good lawyers
I’ve learned that the men you bend your back for will laugh at you one day for not putting yourself first, I’ve never heard of a successful relationship of a woman taking care of a man “ it’s a man’s role to provide and they are built to hunt “work” and provide, a man who can’t provide shouldn’t even eat or should stay away for woman above their level!
True if you have no money to support yourself you have No business dating
At times I feel outcasted and lonely for being single, but seeing such things actually shows me how God is trying to protect me from such men.
It's so sad that people have to go through this.
That was my thought too. God is protecting me from such men by being single. Thank you Lord!
She still calls him “my husband”I feel like she’ll go back.may the Lord give her strength.I also thinks she’s beautiful so I dont know what the man was talking about
they are using muti on her. She needs to pray hard for God to give her the strength to walk away. I am so sorry my sister God will fight for you and heal you..
She is beautiful, so calm haiii I wonder what that man is or was looking for
I think the muthi they gave her to bath with is still working on her she needs prayers to break that
And she's still wearing her marital ring 😢
😂😂😂my "Yoh's" ran out, when she called the husband and he asked "how can we help you"
Yhoooo
Honestly this guy is losing a very very good woman
The amount of red flags this man has, have transformed into a big red duvet. Why do brokeys like having kids...hayibo I can't. 😵💫🙆♀️ . Don't worry Mama you will heal. We've all done silly things for love.
😂😂@big red duvet...
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Thixo.. I didn't wanna laugh but Red Duvet.. Yho 😂
Brokeys have kids as future investments, they are counting on those kids to take care of them in the future. Also they have kids to keep you trapped, they hope you are big on family so they can make you stay while they do whatever.
@shuzashuz3038 their mentality is just twisted yoooh
I don't want to laugh 😂😂😂😂😂but a whole red Duvet man are monsters 😢
I love how calm and collected this beautiful, loving and caring lady is when she is sharing her story. God knows you still going to shine and fly higher❤️
This lady was under a spell. There’s no other way 💔
Some families are so cruel, especially when they know you have noone💔
Owamie you can wear that dress from 1 January to 31 December for 3 consecutive years and you will still look good, it's a really beautiful dress
Thank you Elvis 🥰🥰🥰
This lady is too calm and nice, and that is making me angry 😢. I want to adopt her shame I’ll fight for her like she’s my biological daughter.
Providing for men financially is a strong pandemic a lot of South African women find themselves in or accept. While there are a lot of responsibile and hard working men out there. Maybe its the xhosa in me, but this must stop.
She's also Xhosa and the last one I watched was also a Xhosa woman
We get manipulated in to it.
What about providing for weman?
@williamshakur8715 "Evolutionary psychology" will give you the answer...
whether you believe in "evolution" at large or not, we get proof daily that it doesn't work otherwise, mybe if we can eliminate masculinity/femininity then the conversation can change
Even if we look at it from the spiritual/religious side, your Bible depicts this and going against it is probably the reason we have lots of natural disasters 😂😂😂
As for me I am washing nobody 😂😂😂I rather be single 😂😂
It’s like I’m watching a movie or reading a novel. I can’t believe a whole human being would treat another human like this 😮😢
I don’t think she would have left if that man did not divorce her. Please don’t take him back, 😭
Very true
If he comes back, she's gonna take him back. I think she's a bit delulu coz why is the ring still on her finger? Why does she still use her husband's surname?
I'm not judging. I pray that she realises that those things hold her back
You can say that again,she was still going to try to make things even though he crushing her heart,l feel the pain in her after all she did
A few days ago I wrote this on my WhatsApp status because it applied to me “when a certain form of love is missing in your life, you are most likely to accept it when it presents itself to you, no matter the form or shape”
And familiar spirits can attach themselves to where we pray for things we would like so we also just receive it as though it's a prayer answered. Life...
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@@GodsFavourite2024 very true😞😞
@@GodsFavourite2024This!!! Was telling someone that the devil hears our prayers too. We must be careful out here!
So true, lack of first love (parents love) can lead to a self destructive adult. I feel the furnishing of the mkhukhu , gave the guy an impression that she can do more and more . Ppl can see our vulnerabilities, we relate using those , until healing takes place.
I wish we could teach women that being a good women doesn’t mean providing. Supporting him doesn’t mean changing his life
Exactly
Before you fight and want that house; sisi please PRAY and denounce that marriage. Deliver yourself from any covenant you might have made unknowingly so with your in laws. And I pray God protects you for your children’s sake. Your kids need their MOM back, not a stupid house from in-laws they don’t know.
Sisi pls just give yourself alot of love from now on. Just focus on that
Owamie is the woman she thinks she is!
I need this kind of a friend in my life.
Queen Ninja, I do not regret coming across this channel ❤
It’s so sad. This woman was manipulated and conditioned. I believe that by her not having a family, this man’s family felt like all she had. Because she’s so giving and kind, this man took advantage of that! A covert narcissist he is. I’m dealing with a narcissist and this story is giving off all the signs. However, karma knows the return address.
I am so sorry you are dealing with a narcissist. I was with one for 7 years, thank God I left with my life still intact, it could have been worse. Educate yourself and leave! You will be finished by the time they are done with you.
As a men i feel ashamed and embarrassed by this guys who are representing us the wrong way ,may the Lord restore you in all areas of your life Mam,you deserve the best .
Thank you on behalf of females
Lol don't be,Her lies have been brought to light
😂😂 udlalile ngathi kodwa cc.
I feel like she also needs therapy. It doesn't sound like she's ready to let go and that man might take advantage of it and come back to finish her off. May God give her strength and all the love and warmth she needs ❤❤❤
She actually does and those derogatory comments finished her...
Sad how marriage was meant to be this picture of being accepted to a certain level in communities...she already has a family...her two kids she can build a new family tree from there. Lots of us wimen go through that only through prayer that veil of deception can be broken.
She does hey. Lots of it, so that she can lose this "my husband my husband " when abperaon has done her so bad
And she still address him as "my husband"
Yeah she is still in love with that man
All these women who have been here so far are just so CALM!. So sweet; tjooo amadoda! 😭😭😭😭😭 so KIND
I feel like that’s how most women get taken for a ride. Being too naive and “sweet”. It’s not being a good person when you accept any kind of treatment from a man.
The doormats. That’s why you must cuss a man out now and then ngeke phela 😂😂😂
Good girls finish last or what do they say
Some level of madness is needed here and there just fir control
Not me watching this in pieces because of all the emotions I’m feeling; as an empath I can’t help myself from breaking down. She is so sweet; modimo a go lwele. Your strength, protection etc comes only from God. Pray!
Me too😭😭😭I'm so angry and hurt at the same time😢
I am so Mad right now, I Hate that man. I will regret everything that he did to her.
I'm happy she spoke to owami since their situations are similar. Sometimes you just need someone who has been in your situation in order to to feel heard and understood.
Listening to what she was doing for him, buying him clothes, furniture etc my jaw is on the floor and I'm ahhing😮 and now I'm looking crazy cause I'm alone in the office.
I have a hard time being separated from my hard earned money *separation anxiety 😂. I can't do all those things for i'ndota... Yes will spoil you every now and then, but c'mon there are limits.
Thank you for sharing.🌺🌺
I get angry when a man asks for money….😢
I almost had a heart attack,I hate that man but I don't know him yhooo am boiling
@@moe_ramz
me too bra
Me too I will never ever agree with my money 😂😂😂😂
I just recently started watching RC Blake s UA-cam channel. Some of us never had dads to teach us what to accept and not to accept from man or what to watch out for before giving a man a chance.
I really recommend his teachings, they are something worth sharing especially with young girls
His teachings are so valuable 🙏
I agree with you RC Blake's is a wonderful Catalist for women period , so you learn how you should vet a Man.
Everyday after work i watch him . Learning a lot
Im in my 40s and im thankful for RC Blake's teachings...
Female slave conditioning as he would say.. it needs to be broken.
Deal with him traditionally mama , we’re tired of this scammers 🚮
My family member her ex hubby tried to do this ones she was on pension he came back trying to get half of her money lol she threatened him nd told him she will deal with him the African way or hire killers 😂😂😂 lol the coward got scared and left imagine after so many years of divorce he came back just for her mula
My neighbour was scammed out of her pension as well. These people are cruel. We don't even know where she is now.
This woman went through sooo much 😢 i hope one day all the trauma thats still stuck in her body will eventually leave her. I admire her bravery ❤
Owami, "consistency" looks amazing on you ma'am! ❤❤
Thank you❤
So ladies, kahle kahle you are in class now, take notes, learn, and it's not only a lesson to women, but men can also learn from these videos on how to treat women and do better, we should learn to protect and provide, not to lie and destroy, women are hurt out there because of us
The way you always comment sometimes more than once. Please accept your award 🏆😂...
@@spesh22 I accept my fellow Ninja, thank you so much ☺️
Busy taking notes danko
Umama is beautiful... As a 20 year old I'd want to look like her when I get to her age... Your very very beautiful mama❤️❤️
Some where i can relate to this woman's character... She is extra sweet and when she puts her heart into something she means it...she loves "stupidly" n she is the type tht feels bad if she can say no to sm1 in need of help
5 star rating as usual 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟....very educative content from the beautiful queens
Jooooo but women you are doing a better job in developing these men better than the government, better than these men's family, 2024 learn to upgrade yourself, indoda maisebenze and take care of himself and his wife and family, sikhathele ngamadoda that behave like slay queens
Its like some of us Women we are so Stranded and so Lonely to buy Love.hw can l look for another mans child whilst he can even look after me.moreover you were the husband in yr marriage whilst he was Sowing children out there
Better than Government 🤣 😂
Owamie, haai this episode is unbelievable, are you sure its not a script your preparing for a Mzanzi Magic series or short movie because no mann this cant be real. I found myself laughing, almost crying, asking God gore why, mouth wide, kore no mann ai. May this woman receive justice and may this man get nothing. I hope these baby mamas show him dust.
Woman go through a lot especially when you have no family 💔
She still seems so embarrassed by her story! I just want to hug her! You are part of the 0,8% of women that have the courage to tell their truth! Well Done Mama 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤
The giggling batho ba Modimo.
Therapy is urgently needed here 😢
Eish yah 😢
Therapy IS greatly needed!
She doesn't love herself ,I hope she will learn to love herself . We love better and see ourselves in better places ,when we first love ourselves . She's soooo beautiful I pray that she loves herself to know that she can live without that husband. Remember you attract who you are ,if your not whole you'll attract messy friends and lovers . Let's love ourselves women please I beg 🙏
Yooooo guys this episode 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. My yoooohs are depleted and I am only on minute 17 hle. This man has proper AUDACITY for years.
Yheeeey 😮 i was jaw dropped the whole time
@@boldlyowamie I can imagine Owamie. Yooooooo *claps once*
Yhooooo
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂nawe manje! Your yooohs are depleted. That took me out. And I'm absolutely stealing it. I had to laugh in the middle of this serious issue
Another hit of an episode Owamie. Guys nenzenjalo ngama likes and subscribtions! 🌻🌻🌻
Hmmmmm men what a sad story . I'm 19 years old and I've learnt a lot so far watching this channel. Marriage is scary
Marriage is not scary. Marrying the wrong person is scary.
watch out for men in their thirties or above who will come sniffing your way to control you
I can't thank Owamie enough for educating and making people aware of these scammers.
This guy manipulated her for her good heart. It’s about time we put ourselves First Ladies ❤
Ladies, please before we step into the dating scene, let's go to therapy. Address any trauma/ emotional wounds you may have.
People out here will take advantage of any weakness you have.
This man and his family played on on the fact that this woman was orphaned and her need to belong to a family
Exactly... parasites aka vultures can smell your weakness from far away then they use them against you
I’m surprised this lady has not been dealing with this man legally and traditionally
This is really sad. She's so beautiful and how dare him call her ugly and fat!
Sending you Hugs, I went through a similar situation in my 20 year marriage. I was humiliated and was made a laughing stock by his friends and family. We go through so much I took my power back. Love you Ntando and Owamie❤
Yhooo angihleki yaz 😂😂😂... Xhosa Dyans will make sure when they hurt... they dnt do small small, they make it a point the finish yu off. Strength to you my dear Sis.. m gla you are walking out...
Your interviews are really educational. This world is so cruel. These scammers !!!
Fathers, its important to be in your kids lives and love your kids to avoid such 😢
Askies my sister, may God heal you and repay you what the locust has stolen ❤❤
Thats true gowing up iwas daddy s girl I watched how my dad treated my mom coz she grew up without a father figure it was too much sumtyms his girlfriend will visit I told myself kguri no man will scam me
Therapy to "save" the marriage, oh Ntando, you are too sweet and kind for this world, you are just an angel in human form, cos no human being can withstand what you have been through and still look gorgeous like you. It's time for you to fight back in the divorce court. Nail his a$$$
This lady has patience and perseverance that is beyond what any human should. No ways!!! I feel like she could accept this guy back or a similar guy. Owamie PLEASE help her.
Desperation is one of the symptoms of people pleasing. You people please ( accept anything and stay longer than you should) because of the desperation of needing and wanting someone. These toxic men are very good at identifying that and they will take you to hell and back - literally of you don’t enforce it witching yourself that you are whole and wonderful first and foremost with or without a man.
I think it's more lack of self love ❤😂😂😂and the man are manipulative cause they can spot the weakness in you 😂
Honestly? I wasn’t a fan of the gossip news. Although that how we were introduced to Owami, I’ve always enjoyed her opinions and her thoughts.
Owami I think you’ve found your niche. You’re such a compassionate host while still receiving all the answers we need. I love this new series and I pray God enlarges your territory. This is brilliant work.
My story is bigger 2times urs sister.. . I need to contact owamie 😏worst part my wedding was on OPW tjo where most ppl recognize from that wedding,
Oh Ntando what happened to you😢? I pray one day you realise you are worthy of love ❤❤❤and you truly experience it…
I'm so pained by yhis Ninja I won't even lie. How can one person hurt another person's heart and mind like this. What type of a human is so heartless 💔.
Hey Ninjas...who else has muted a meeting to listen to this episode?😅
Me! 😂😂😂😂😂
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Am hiding my phone I can't wait for lunch
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Girls you are not the only ones count me in , the things we do for love???
We learn ❤
Many of us have people in our lives that are in similar situations and it is heartbreaking. When we speak up we are villified to thier kids even (our own nephews and nieces) and relationships (family/sibling bonds) are broken indefinitely. This is the reason I am grateful for this platform and its purpose. If one episode can help free atleast one soul then the work is done. May you be blessed with the strength to keep up the great work. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Owamie for inviting Ntando, the queen indeed❤❤❤
This lady must take off this ring😩
Immediately please 😢
@@hlurilemaluleke5355 And stop crying on tiktok everyday
My heart goes out to her, she really loved this guy. I’m still shook at how he treated her 😢
Ntando is a beatiful lady with a kind heart. She is naive as I don't think she has dating experience. But she will be ohk. I use to be like this but life/ people showed me flames.
This was so insightful. Ninja we need more! 😊😊😊 Thank you Owami.
Sana these men are using women as their 9-5😭💔
I cant thank you enough for bringing such brave women to tell their stories❤. We are vulnerable population and we shoukd stand together to grow and suport each other. Heartbroken and overwhelmed by all these life stories. 😢
This is the sweetest woman i have ever met. ❤ love this lady.
Me, he would have been scared of me.
Thre Bible verse that says "Do not cast your pearls to pigs" Don't give your best to pigs.
The shoulder he promised you was manipulative and controlling narcissistic behaviour. He love scammed you.
Yeah exactly, people that come to you suggesting you cannot live without them, big red flag 🚩
I feel like, if the man didn't file for device, she wouldn't. And if the guy comes back tomorrow and say I was bewitched she might still take him back
I wish she could just focus on the devorce and keep whatever that is currently in her name
Owamie is quite wise and very educational. I wish she could take her advice and take control of her life. Coz she did a lot of enabling in this whole case
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I also think it will be easy for her to take him back. It's like she has been hypnotized into loving this guy no matter what.
@@maytshifularo5415 deeply tooted childhood traumas and trauma bonds can make you stay in such situations. I think more than anything she needs to attend therapy and be off social media for a period of time
@@maytshifularo5415Bewitched is the word.. 😮😮😮
I couldn't keep up 😮. This was a fast-paced marriage. So much happened within such a short period of time.
I have never seen someone under a spell but this woman was or is still under a spell. There is no how😡!! Giving someone a lift and money after they they point blank told you that they don't love you. Anever.
This kind of scam has been in South Africa a long time. I know of a lot of stories around Rusternburg area. The man and the "true love" clearly were in this together. That's why she disappeared and all of a sudden reappeared. I'm glad that the man was stupid enough to confess.