I lived as a HATER for a day
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YES, I deleted all the comments I wrote right after filming!
Ever since Sulli’s passing, I have had this uncomfortable guilt on my mind. No, I have never hated on her but at the same time I’ve never stood up for her. And this video is my attempt to stop being a spectator and to bring some positive changes with small influence I luckily have. I know some might not agree with my approach to understand haters’ mindset and you don’t need to. Freely Share your opinion on this, please.
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I wanted to wait till I'd slept before commenting on this. I feel like the topic was important enough to digest before saying anything. I'm very glad I was uncomfortable during the video, because I really was. I think that was the point, it was an important one. I think a lot of issues with everything is there isn't actual faces applied to comments. There's no responsibility. They are just words like these tossed out into the digital world that people can forget about as soon as they hit enter.
That's the problem.
You can ingest and purge this toxic content. You can be a part of the problem, you can hurt people, you can condemn impressionable and sensitive people to death without batting an eye. Sometimes you even feel joy, vindication when you get so many likes from the comments and attacks you post. Then blame anything else when people take their lives.
That's a problem.
I actually want to thank you for this. It angered me, broke my heart, and impacted me in a way I think I needed. I think more people need the same thing.
...Sulli, Hara...those living...Jennie, Lisa, Taeyeon, Yeri, Chen...people who aren't even famous...
"Journalists" need to understand that what they say will absolutely have a ripple effect. Consumers need to understand that their comment DOES matter, that it can mean the difference between life and death for others.
Thank you, Mom. It was very brave to tackle the video like you did. So very brave.
Great experiment
We love you Queen 💕
They way you noticed immediately what the main point of hate is: It is easy. You don't feel bad, since you don't actually now that person
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My heart shattered in pieces when Sulli passed away. People honestly disgust me so much! They have the audacity to hate on her even after she passed away like that's ABSOLUTELY vile! People have NO respect and NO sympathy! Things like these comments make me so upset, agitated and angry! Why do people not put themselves into others shoes!? I'm sad now. I don't like these things. :(
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I completely agree and these people do NOT have souls and just hate for attention like Zoe said
The clip that sulli said 'dear journalists, please like me more. People who watch this, please love me more.' made me cry. Suicide is murder. Hate on social media must be stopped. Haters should know that every word you write causes of someone else to die.
Yes! People need to be more accountable for how they treat others!!! We all have a social responsibility to make the world a better place every day that we can 💖🌍🦋x
While I agree people should be more careful about what they say, and take responsibility for their effects on others. I think its important to recognize that we really have no control over how others act, we can only control how we REACT. if you have thin-skin or are suffering from major depression which Sulli was, maybe it would have been in her best interest to step off the platform that was progressively making her more and more depressed. I'm not justifying cyberbullying, of course, I'm just saying that there is some personal accountability too for how one feels. A life taken too soon, my heart goes out to her friends and family.
@@maddorox So she should have hidden her light because of the toxicity of others?
At what age do you think someone should have developed a thick skin by? What if they have no parents or family? What if their family is abusive and dont care to support them? What if their parents are bullies too???
@@maddorox she just wanted to do something she love and she didn't have to step off the platform because of the others
I’m too lazy to hate people I don’t know 🤷♀️
Saaaame
Where people find the energy, I just ignore everyone and do my own thing 😳
Lazy Girl Ikr! It takes times to read and write comments, sometimes i want to comment but in the end i'm like "yeah whatever", haters have nothing to do with their life that's why they have so much time to comment
un spectateur probably because I’m the same it’s just so boring hating everyone I believe like live a bit because we all die
Same. If I don't like someone/something, I just avoid or ignore it lol.
honestly, even if I am thinking something that counts as "hatred" in my mind, I would never comment or say it out loud, I always try to be aware of whether something I say or comment is ok to actually say, because of how it could affect the person it is targeted against. If you don't have something nice to say, don't say it.
Last year, I deleted my previous youtube account because I had been hating and being way too mean for years in youtube comment sections. It was the best decision I made and nowadays I don't leave hate comments anymore, and I feel so much more lighter. I try my best to spread positivity and tolerance now, or I just don't leave a comment at all if it's going to be something negative.
That's so brave of you :)
You reincarnated as a divine angel. (Probably)
great decision
As a psychologist, I've learned that people often project their own feelings and negative emotions out onto others. So often times, like you said, you don't truly hate the person, it is just easy to do. Don't let those negative comments get to you
I feel so bad for Chen 🥺 why can’t people just be happy for him, he was bound to get married one day or another smh.
This is what I said,everyone said they want him to be happy so maybr him having a child and getting married is making him happy,it makes me so sad to see the hate he's getting,even people don't want to be his fansite no more,if I lived in Korea,I would love to be his fansite,I hope these exols will take his feelings into consideration and love him still instead of being a little selfish
Dont even feel bad,, there were like only 10 people sitting outside holding signs while everybody was just peacefully passing them,, i heard the boss of sm was also drinking wine while looking at them since they were so embarrassing,, i think sm and chen realised that people only talk shit on the internet and in real life are just embarrassing
@@Jk-ey7mp right tho,couldn't have said this better
I think a big part of it is because it's a shotgun wedding. Which is not really seen as the proper procedure and is viewed negatively. Instead of having a wedding first and then kids, which is normally the way it's supposed to be. I personally don't really feel comfortable with all those shotgun weddings either though, I understand the criticism about that (But not malicious comments and personal attacks etc of course). Because it feels like getting married just cause the guy got a girl pregnant (yes not only the guy is responsible for this happening, both are) and not cause he loves the girl and just really wants to marry her and vice versa (although is possible and could be the case, this is just how it comes across and often how it is too). The reason for marriage just becomes this mandatory standard consequence of an unplanned baby whether they're ready for it and wanting or not, so it raises questions and worries to the genuineness of their feelings for each other and real desire to get married to one another or just having to do it to bear responsibility and to not get criticized more. Not like they have other options after the fact happens cause otherwise Chen will get called irresponsible and immoral and abandoning who he got pregnant or whatever and receive a lot more hate and be viewed as a jerk. And if I would try to imagine from a exo fan's perspective i guess it could be seen as an irresponsible act that negatively impacted the whole group while they are in an important part of their career and popularity so feel disappointed and kinda betrayed by his actions. Or something like that, not that I know since I'm not really a fan but I can kinda imagine. Many people take it too far though and idk about leaving the group. Well...sh** happens sometimes...I just hope idols will be able to date openly without being criticized for it and just get married normally and then have all the kids they want. Hopefully things work out well for Chen and his wife and have a healthy child
@@ymh12345 bruh he gets hate and malicouse comments not because of the shotgun marrige but the fact that he got married there are fans especially korean fans that are so obsessive that idols they think idols need permission from them to have relationships
I love you for making content that is talking about these issues. We need to raise more awareness about them!
i pride myself on never leaving hate comments, even if there is a celebrity I don't like I don't waste my time spreading hate towards them because it is bullying and so pointless. When I was younger my biggest idol was Selena Gomez and what I learnt from her was the phrase "kill them with kindness" and I always think about that so when I see negative comments about idols I don't respond back to that comment with hate, I respond back to it about in kinder ways or with less aggression or I complement the person they insulted because it difuses a situation quickly because the hater is looking more for a large response, they're asking for a fight, but I'll never understand how someone can comment something mean with no emotion, I'd think about what I said for days if it was a rude as these comments. Comments where people tell others to take their own life make me want to cry, I would never in a million years want someone to feel that kind of despair. I would much rather have one positive response to a kind thing I said than millions of likes and comments on a negative thing that I've said. I think spreading love even in small ways is so important because I don't ever want to lose another idol because of bullying. I cry everytime I think about our angel Sulli, because although there was love and support to her there was still so much hate and you never know the impact of a negative comment until it's truly too late, yet people still won't learn. Thankyou for this video Zoey, I love you and I hope you always stay as kind hearted and loving as you are❤️❤️💜💜
Wow. This honestly left me speechless. I didn’t know how to feel. This really brought an incite on how easy it is to write a mean comment and not see the effect it may leave on the person receiving the hate. Thank you. ❤️
As a fan of Sunmi, I thank you a lot for making this video. After Sulli's passing I got even more angry because I saw that while everyone kept writing "the situation will change, no more hate comments" etc. actually NOTHING was changing at all. Sunmi went through a lot recently as well and as I was trying to figure out what was actually wrong, I actually came to the same conclusion as you. The problem is "journalists". It's those who write the article in such a bad way that people feel compelled to leave hate comments. Those journalists profit not only on celebrities but also on the insecurities of people, they exploit every single negative feeling so that people click on the articles and let the negativity out. There's a big change to be made in the entertainment industry but as an "outsider" (I'm italian) I thought that maybe I couldn't comprehend the dynamics of Korean society. Your experiment confirmed my theory and I think this video will be very useful in battling this phenomenon. I am sharing your video everywhere within the Sunmi fandom so that we all learn something out of it and we can handle better future situations. I thank you again because this is such an important topic and I think the discussion can bring big positive changes.
thank you for going over this topic... celebrities and you tubers are people too...they have a life like we do and they are just normal people in the end of the day. Lots of ppl don’t understand that these ppl have a life and they need privacy just like everyone else. Thank you so much for making this video 😤💜
"If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all" will save everyone from a lot of grief
Hey mom, I just wanted to say that today I had a county science fair and got 1st place twice! And you inspired me!❤️❤️
Please like so she can see
Trista Johnston 🥺❤️👍
ReacThing thank you 🙏🏻
casual guy damn bro
Hater: "You said mermaid, show some legs"
Zoe: "Do you know what a mermaid is?"
😂
I have so much respect for you covering this difficult subject. I think the ReacThing community is mainly younger kids, and discussing this topic is so relevant to them. You are such a good example 👌🏻
“You don’t have to hate a person to leave a hate comment”
That hit me, like wow- It just shows how much of an impact you can leave on a person, without doing much...
Footage of Sulli made me cry...
It makes me sad to remember sulli's death😞💔
Thank you for posting this video and raising awareness on this issue. When Sulli was pleading with journalists and her audience to be more kind to her that absolutely killed me. She added a small laugh at the end, maybe not to show her vulnerability as much, and this with the pain in her eyes is too much. I have never heard of this beautiful young woman, but I feel so much compassion for her :(. Thank you again for covering this topic. If just one person makes a change after seeing this you will have done so much ❤️
When Hara passed it hit me really hard. I can't say I was a fan but I remember when she debuted she was like a fairy. She was so pretty and angelic. I always viewed her positively and rooted her on from afar. It's so sad to think she's not somewhere in Korea living her life. Sometimes it hits me and I tear up.
"Am I a born hater?"
Born Hater from Epik High suddenly sounds on my head
Omg 21 likes in one day? Thank you everyone ❤❤
When Jonhyung died, I cried everytime I saw anything about him for ages. I wasn't even a fan of Shinee back then, but something in me just broke. He was such a genuine beautiful, kind and wonderful soul. Always trying to help those in the same situation as him, while not asking for anything in return. Same with Sulli and Goo Hara and all the other celebraties that we lost along the way! And I really understand suicide, since I was in that situation, years ago. It isn't pretty and you do not wanna share it with anyone. People who think that is easy to talk about this, must have never really dealt with suicide, because all you can do is silently give signs that you aren't okay. It made me realize as well that we are not yet prepare to face mental illness. That people will easily judge you and not many will try to help, even if you seek it professionaly, there aren't many therapists who do their job properly, worldwide. But what I wanted to say was that korean celebraties, they give their lives for entertaining us, their public. They leave home really young to pursue a dream and they work so hard for it! Dance practice, school, singing lessons, recordings, filming for tv shows and stuff, etc., they have no free time. They can't go visit their friends or family whenever they want, can't have a normal relationship, can't have any type of private life and on top of that they get so much hate and not only from korean fans, but international ones as well. Envy is such a big thing, right? Is much easier to envy someone and give negativity than to spread positivity and be happy for someone else! They deserve all they have because they worked so f hard for it! BLOOD AND TEARS! Loved your video like always, Mom and I truly cherish that you are trying to do a positive change! Greetings from Romania! ♥
i didnt even know Sulli, but her death was heartbreaking even to a stranger like me. May her soul be at a better place.
Also, burn the haters alive
There's two things you talked about that really got me thinking :
1- people getting "addicted" to leave hate comments. As you said, it's not even about actually hating that person but to feel power and control by leaving those hate comments.
And 2- how easy it is to ruin someone's life by judging them for every mistake they make. The "cancel culture" that has been taking over social media these past few years it's sort of getting out of control, in my opinion. I mean yes, we should try to educate people if they make racists remarks, for example, or if they make cultural appropriation somehow, but maybe we shouldn't be so quick to "end" someone's career or social life just because they made a mistake once or twice (and specially if they apologize later and try to correct their mistakes) , and i think the biggest consequence to this is that we put the spotlight on people who only made one (or a couple) childish mistakes and we divert the attention from the people who should actually be canceled.
It's really sad when people don't take the time to think about how their words will affect others. The haters probably have low self esteem. I've never written hate comments, but at my lowest, depressed point I have thought bad things. It's really hard to express appreciation and love for others when you feel numb or hate yourself. I'm thankful for people who consistently comment uplifting words and provide sensible, constructive criticism and debates.
Zoey, I hope you went back and deleted the hate comments you left. It seemed like you didn't feel great about the results. ❤ luv you
Lmao ignorant and hateful really don't go together. Imagine not knowing what a mermaid is and still hating on hardworking people.
This is like the best way someone assessed haters on their channel so far.
It's easy to leave the plants around you to die and rot, but it takes time and effort to continuously care for them. I'm someone who doesn't have the capacity to water every plant I come by, but I never step on plants that are down at my feet.
I think it's important to nurture your own kindness through others, but know how much you are capable of taking on. We're not alone in the responsibility to be kinder to one another.
People are just numb to it because it’s impersonal. You don’t see a humans immediately reaction to your harsh words so the idea of consequences and impact become void.
Thank you for making this video. It always hurts my heart to see such comments and articles. I think people who leave hate comments don’t realise the impact their harsh words can have on another persons mentality on the receiving end. I myself, always get absolutely terrified when I see hate comments on let’s say, an influencers post.. I just think, what if they see it and that’s the final comment that pushes them into a depressive state or worse.
I don’t usually make comments on UA-cam, however while I have.. I just want to say that I think you are beautiful. I think you are kind. I think you are passionate. And I know you’re an intelligent bissssss. Keep the videos coming, because I LOVE THEM! ;)
좋은 하루 보내길 바래 ❤️🌻
Mollylulo ❤️
Wow, mom with her hair down and glasses, that's a look 🤗💕
love u, always.
Seeing the footage of Sulli, is so heartbreaking 💔
What amazes and angers me the most is not only people having so much spare time to leave hate comments but also the fact that some of those hate comments are written in chats orforums of idols you have to pay to be in. That's can't be just "writing something without emotion", in those cases you have to aim to hurt. Why would someone take their time to write a hate comment? To hurt someone you don't even know and that has done nothing to you?
Imagine spending ur life to make music and give joy to others, and this is how people behave
the world is a bad place today. :/
I'm not sure it was ever good :/
So many wars, slavery, genocide and so on. The world was never a good place.
AHHH I know what it is, I live in Brazil, we don't have a second of peace :/
@@KONYTRAD I hope you find peace one day.
I’m sorry you get hate comments. You’re such a wonderful UA-camr. People online can just be so cruel and disconnected. Thank you for being you and giving us such wonderful content.
How could anyone hate you, Zoey? You're the type of person I would love to have as a friend.
I can't even choose the evil choices in games cause I feel too bad I can't imagine leaving such hate on someone's posts I think too much about how it would affect them. Crazy how people can do it so easily. So sad how much bullying has affected so many people besides just stars and my condolences to the lives lost. Very eye opening video.
I really like that you made a video about this. I myself refuse to spread negativity, so if I watch or read something I don't agree with or like I just click off the page. I do think most people just write hate comments for attention and if you ignore them they will usually just go away but their are also people that try to bait others into starting an argument and people do tend to fall for that trap either because they want to defend whoever the comment is about or because they just like arguing but personally I think you should just ignore those people, the more attention you give them, the more likely they are to continue. I don't read a lot of comments since like I mentioned I do not like spreading hate or negativity to others and I feel that when you see a lot of those cruel comments it tends to bring down your mood. The fact is you should just be kind and if you don't like something than there are plenty of ways to go about stating your opinion without being mean or cruel or just don't comment at all. It is the age old saying "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."
this was a really interesting take on hate comments and the power that comes with casually saying awful things online. Love your channel!
Thank you for showing this side of the internet hate culture, thank you for being honest, and thank you for using your platform to call more attention to this problem. Thank you. I really respect this and appreciate you and your words. I hope you have a great year this year.
We love you, mom! Don't let those mean internet trolls get to you. You've got over 100k kids who love your content and think you're awesome! 💕✨
Thanks for making this video. Hope more people watch it. The world really needs this message!
I will singlehandedly STRANGLE those haters that left comments on your channel no one messes with the Queen Zoey!!!!
Happy lunar new year to you ♡
8:40 jesus that comment almost convinced me ew wtf me 😒
I’ve never left or encouraged hate comments before and it infuriates me when i see them
The way technology makes us so much bolder and so much more scared at the same time is amazing. I think that's why black mirror is such an innovating an interesting show with the way they approach how the internet, technology, people's comments, ect. effect us all so severely (i know this video had nothing to do with black mirror just the awesome way she approached this phenomenon of hating people you don't even know made me think of that show)
This made me immensely sad. I will never understand how mean people can be. The fact that these amazingly creative people are suffering from depression and suicide due to hate comments. I just want to cry for those people. Depression and suicidal ideation are extremely hard to get through by themselves. But constantly having people support those fears and self doubt is something I can never imagine. I would like to challenge everyone that reads this to leave a nice comment on every video they watch for the next 24 hours. Good luck and good vibes 🥰 Cheyenne- USA Michigan
Hey mom, you are incredible seriously you are my inspiration keep going!
oh what a rebellious mom, we sugar kids stan that, go mom❤
I don’t know why people can’t just live by “if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all.”
Such hate comments shouldn't be taken seriously. Some people give positive while other give negative comments.
They don't know you personally so they don't know your circumstances or situations.
Better ignore such things
I didn’t know sulli at all before she died and felt really disgusted and sad at why she committed suicide when it happened. But seeing that video of her at the end has just made me cry so hard, it doesn’t even matter that i don’t know her at all but we lost her because of stupid hate comments from probably insecure people looking for attention and news articles wanting clicks. I wish people would just stop hating on idols because they’re under enough pressure without all the hate too.
I make sure to always write positive things on social media. I've seen way too many people fall into deep depression and or kill themselves and it's sad. I would never want to go through what some of these celebrities and social media stars go through. Why can't people just be happy for each other? 😭
😔this made me kind of sad but thank you for spreading awareness
I'm so sensible I can't hate someone, and can't see people hating each other, the world is unfair sometimes
Another excellent video. I don’t leave hate comments or hate watch/follow people so this was really interesting. With social media being what it is now I think there should be a class based off your experiment in schools. ❤️❤️❤️ much love.
The thing that hurting other person is so simple for a hater who probably don't even know you and do this terrible things just to make up his selfishness... It is just so horrible. There can be no actual point for that hate.
We must be more respectful for each other.
This was a really good idea for a video!🌝 Love your videos Zoey , and don’t believe what the hate comments saying about you, I know it’s easier to be said , then done , but I’m here for you as all the kids does !
I wish you a wonderful day !! ❤️
The sulli part really touched me 😢
As a person who gets anxiety thinking about posting a comment anywhere, I was feeling bad for you, thinking you would feel very nervous. The fact that it's easy to be a hater was confusing to me at first, but then it made sense, since it's so much easier to find something annoying about someone than to love them if you don't really know them that well, especially if you **want** to hate them - and if you're a journalist, of course it's easier to pick this small thing a famous person did and twist it enough to grab attention when you know a lot of people will read it and maybe even agree with you and it won't take you much research, if any. A good article about someone wouldn't get much attention, and some people would say the journalist only did that because they're a fan - or they're being paid to. That makes me think a lot. How often we think about how we can affect someone's life? I hope everyone who watches this video stop to think about this, that we all start holding ourselves responsable for our actions. There's a lot of people dying because they are hated, excluded, and made fun of... And that's the hater's fault. We need to be more mindfull about our actions and the people around us. I think it's human to dislike some things or some people, but it's better keeping that to yourself, that way you won't harm anyone and you'll have more time to the things you love. Zoey, thank you so much for this video. I love your new stuff, I hope you continue to expand your channel and your content. I'm proud of you.
I used to be a hater when I was younger, I think I did it just to make myself feel better? I grew up though
Sulli deserved so much love and support, but all she got was hate. May she rest in peace 💜
Haters and trolls need to remember they are talking about and sometimes directly to a human being!!
Social media doesn't have to be a toxic place. If you don't like someone then ignore them and spread love with the things you do like!!
We gotta stop throwing words like “pedo” or “groomer” around. Because when these things actually happen we won’t take them seriously. And that really sucks.
I always felt that Nick over sexualized some of his videos but i never left a hate comment or hated on him, I just simply don't watch the videos. Also Hyuna and E'dawn are in a relationship which isn't wrong at all people hating on relationships are sick and disgusting and are most likely single, The people of the world need to stop being so negative and start being positive because it would make the world a much better place💜🌟
“You said mermaid, show some legs.”
Wat (ó_ó)...
I swear what do idols do to receive a lot of hate like jennie is getting hate for no reason at all and sulli killed her self for all of these people that can't do shit but talk bad about these idols. Haters have gone too far these idols need more love and support and much less hate.
It is strange to see how easy it is. I don’t think I could do it, but I see how easy it can be and I think people should make more of an effort to understand how they would feel if someone directed their comments toward themselves. I see so many hate comments that have nothing to do with someone’s mistakes, but instead are focused on physical things or personal things that any other person in the world could have. People fat shame, make racist, sexist, homophobic, and ableist comments to celebrities that they don’t like but forget that it has nothing to do with the mistake and that there are so many other people who will feel the comment directed at them even if they aren’t associated with the celebrity.
I actually strongly dislike Kpop for a number of reasons, not because I don’t like the style or the actual lyrics, but namely for other experiences I’ve had with the people who “Stan” (or whatever you call it) the performers the music genre. However, I also don’t like it when people hate on it. It’s wrong and even some celebrities are joining in on the hate. It’s absolutely disgusting. People should just keep their negative opinions out of it (although what I just said was an opinion lol) and to themselves, especially the famous ones because their fans will send hate to the community too. There’s a reason why a lot of famous people have depression and get into drugs, and it’s not just the pressure put on them.
Thank you for going out of your way and speaking on something that is so very important
This video is showcases something so important and I wish more people would watch it ): I always assumed the people leaving hate were so aggressive and hateful, but they could be living their daily life just gaining satisfaction from the likes... So unfortunate how these articles capitalize off of such terrible things.
I really loved sulli and when I found out she passed it really broke me because I know she was getting lots of hate. Cyber bullies are truly heartless I hope they just find the mind to stop
thank you for making this video! you have a very clever approach to the topic 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 keep up the good work 🙏🏻❤
It's absolutely terrible to see all the things people on the internet get to write. There's so many pointless situation turned into "scandals" just because people can't handle idols dating and weight situations many idols had to go through and still do. I remember when Taeyeon kept getting blamed for Jessica's departure from GG, but that was just the beginning. Then the whole dating problem with Baekhyun, her extreme weight-loss and so on. When she said she was struggling with depression people just told her to get over it and stop talking about it. Imagine being part of the biggest girl group in the world just to get spat on by your own fans. I just wonder if these people who post these types of comments ever put themselves in the position of the person they target, how would they feel if some complete stranger just starting talking shit about them for no reason? If a single hate comment can bring someone down, just imagine what a teeny compliment could do. Why can't we just spread love instead? Then everyone would feel better about themselves.
Sometimes I want to leave a hateful comment but I always block instead and walk away. I realize that it’s not this easy for everyone but I promise you that throwing hate at somebody else won’t make you feel any better. I am not going to pretend that I am an angel and have never in my life said something hateful. Of course I have, I’m human I make mistakes but those few times I have done it I felt worse after.
For example even though I don’t like nick avocado I don’t watch any videos about him anymore. I did leave a comment on one of his videos when the whole thing with Stephanie happened but it didn’t make me feel better and since Stephanie has moved on so have I.
I promise people that even though it’s easier to leave hate it’s more rewarding to leave something nice or nothing at all.
i didn't even get into the video yet but from the caption,I said "how can someone hate her?she's so sweet"
There is one Idol I follow and most of his comments left are emoji's. I'm weird and leave poetry and try to stay on the topic of what's posted. Then I bugger off. Anywho, thanks for this post and shedding light on this horrid epidemic that has been around since the dawn of time. And thanks for saying you deleted those post, too..
Wow you should have tried Twitter, the fanwars there are ridiculous. And people tweets hateful posts that brings them so much attention it's really disgusting... It's just what is seen the most. Like I've been on stan Twitter for a while now and there are hateful posts everywhere and bullying idols and fans... And when there were news about an idol passing away or going on hiatus people were complayning like "Look what you've done..." and then the next day is always the same, toxic. It's really sad how easy it is and how people don't realize how hurtful their comments can be.
I was kinda skeptic about this video because there were many youtubers that tried such "social experiment" when they posted a hateful tweet and then made a video about how the fans of that group attacked them online. I mean what did they expect? Hate creates more hate, I wish people would realize that...
To me a hater on social media is someone who expresses out loud his deepest insecurities and project them on someone who has what they wish they had.
A " Stan" on the contrary is someone who feels inspired and motivated by what someone has they wish they had.
lol, discovering the therapeutic/cathartic virtues of hating/trolling
girllllllllllllllll what did u do to meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, i cant stop my tears after seeing sulli's video . my godddddddddd , her pained smile , her bittersweet laughs . omg...
always keep this in mind: you are beautiful, hardworking, and make amazing content! fighting!
The idea that haters aim to gain attention by expressing angry comments is fundamentally true. Now I understand what drives me when a negative thought about any person creeps in to me. The problem is actually in our sense of self. Such things should stop, and such people should take care of themselves, leaving innocent people living their lives.
The journalist's job is very angry and harmful, poisonous.
Be kind to one another - rule to live by✌🏻💕
zoey: hi kidss 👋🥰
me: 👋☺️😌
I hope u will no have as any misunderstanding situations 'cause of this video. support your main reason and thought about it. Love u, sis 💕💕
Well, those celebrities have always the option to delete the possibility of leaving a comment. But that way, they do not get positive support either. And people on social media thrieve by the likes and comments.
you are the definition of a good journalist. no bias at all.
I'm about to go to Seoul and start a school for the hated. "Repeat me after me everybody - Haters gonna hate, ballas gonna ball, I don't give a fuck about none of y'all. Remember my lovelies. They wouldn't be hating if they were you."
I think even if there are no fines or jail time for people who leave these kinds of comments that result in a person committing suicide, they should at least be made to attend the funeral of the person they helped to murder. Maybe even be shown the police photos of the result of their callousness. Maybe that would make them understand exactly what it is they are doing to people.
I leave a lot of comments on tiktok, but I always try to make sure they are positive before I click send. There is one on there who gets a lot of hate for her makeup, which is often pretty extra, but I try to compliment her when she looks cute
4:16 heater very similar to hater. Destiny 😌
I had the same guilty feelings even tho I am not familiar with her as I was never a k-pop fan and don't usually listen to k-pop. Before she passed away, I had read some hate articles about her on Weibo, but I did not do anything simply because I don't know her. I feel really bad when I saw the news.
7:37 I cried my heart out. My baby, 😭...
I’m rlly confused why do this? Like that’s gonna be there now?? Pls tell me u delete them later or something 🥺
Julle Hycan I think she deleted it, but maybe we can ask her if the negative comments are still up there? 🌝
I have 😊
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Thanks so much! I appreciate it, I didn’t think you would leave them, but I wanted to check.