"Traffic sucked. I had to pull over and use a rest area, because of my IBS. Taco bell gave me really bad diarrhea. Hi I'm Ryan, pleased to meet you." Am I doing it right?
be sure to ease your way into these questions or give context (easier said than done for people who aren't as socially suave). jumping out of the gate with that rose bud question is going to be confusing and seem uncalibrated / weird (been there done that). Especially if you dont explain what a thorn or bud is. Some parts of the USA, that's not common sayings.
She should be leading a conversation instead shes probably talked about her ex the whole time she doesn't think that is boring also? Like they say we're good listeners that they like so they should be the ones talking 80% of the time.
They only sound like "interview questions" if you phrase them that way. If you no longer have any content for a natural conversation, then questions like these can help stimulate a conversation as long as they are delivered correctly. I think Tone and Vibe is everything here.
The longest lie I've ever lived is a symphony of whispered echoes, resonating with the melody of a hidden truth, waiting to be deciphered by the discerning ear of an inquisitive heart.
@Jdjfbficjenenwk3736 So you think women can't be just as boring as men, do you ? Every point you make about what makes a man boring can be applied to women also. Sometimes people are boring and that's ok.
@@owps663 I never said nor thought that. Not sure where you’re coming from. But the only thing that matters is that being boring on a date is often a way to be rejected in the end result. Yes there’s nothing inherently wrong with people being boring. But if you’re trying to succeed on a date, you have to typically be exciting. The person originally commenting is supposedly having more success with things like this because of taking action on the myriad of advice that this woman offers on UA-cam. I don’t see why that would be BS or hard to believe. And yes if you don’t appreciate a woman being boring and you putting in all the effort, then maybe she’s not the right woman. But men typically do the chasing and have fewer options than woman, so it naturally create a a supply and demand situation where men have to put on their A game to attract and court. It’s just the law of the jungle.
What to talk about if I DON'T HAVE Anything interesting happened in my life ???? Not gonna Lie , so what if I meet a woman , what do I talk about ??? Or , end the date there ??
@@jhatch28 Of course, you can say the same thing about most men. The point is that most people are boring. Most people have jobs and obligations that consume 95% of their waking hours. My issue is the idea that women have that men need to have this exciting life, while that same woman is boring as hell.
@@freudianslip2192yes I think a lie we’ve been told is that life is supposed to be exciting and thrilling all the time. In the midst of boredom is actually stillness, peace and bliss but only few can get there. Too much excitement and spontaneity is actually chaos, and unrest which to no surprise wrecks marriages, and dismantles families. No wonder long lasting relationships are a thing of the past these days
Don't talk about past relationships. Don't talk about what you did that day (boring). Don't talk about current events (cause thats politics, and women just hate politics) Don't talk about history, cause that's also politics. Don't talk about other people, cause thats gossiping, only women are allowed to gossip. Talk about your future home? You mean the home you paid for and she will move into and later claim as her own when she is bored of you? But you are allowed to talk about what she wants to talk about, which is herself.
What do people really mean with "a first date"? If you have met someone in "real life" - in a board game club, for instance, then there is already an implied interest. However, when you meet someone online and decide to go on a date, that often means that you are open to all possibilities and just want to get to know this person a little bit. Getting to know people online by texting doesn't work, in my opinion. You can't decide soly by texting if you are romantically or sexually interested in the other person. If it is the latter, women don't want that kind of questions. They think it is too early and too close, generally speaking. Something that is also missing in this kind of dating advice videos is the differences in culture between different countries and religions. In some countries people tend to be much more open with themselves early on than in other countries.
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s. It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others. But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm. Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend. So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel. I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life. And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction. Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not? Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't. I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long. Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction. Guys, men, have to know or learn all of these skills, behaviors, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk and stand a certain way, breathe a certain way, have a certain lifestyle, because leading or taking the lead is something that is behavior based, skill based, think a certain way, and many more things, that i either don't know or forgot. Women just have to exist and breathe and they are guaranteed attention, options, that doesn't require any learning or skill development, it mind boggles me and makes me annoyed when people say women need skills to succeed in dating. One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard. So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
My impression of incels is usually they're angry, but I don't get that from you. What makes you feel like an incel? I know you said you'll probably always feel like an incel, but do you think there's anything that would make you feel less that way?
28M and single here, just unlocked a new fear that the resentment and regret won't just go away once I find someone. I don't think dating is necessarily easier for women, it's challenging in a different way, I just hate how men are still expected to make the first step, while also being seen as potential abusers before we even do anything.
I am 46 and I have only had one relationship and that lasted two months. A couple of sexual experiences outside that relationship, but not many. Getting close friends - male or female ones - is also very difficult although I find it harder to get male friends than female friends.
Tbh I get where you are coming from. Dating coaches act like men should be selling women that they are living an exciting life and that she is welcome to come along. For most of us guys, this is far from reality.
@brianmeen2158 exactly... I mean the most exciting thing to happen in my life is my sick dog getting better. Basically I am absolutely boring and normal. That's not a bad thing. Life isn't supposed to be an action movie.
Just focus on listening to her rather than talking about yourself. Be a gentleman (bring her flowers; stand up when she enters the room). And in general focus on your own success, and love will be sent to you from Heaven 😊 Advice from a 42 year old married man. (And be generous when the relationship gets serious. Nothing is more unattractive than a man who’s cheap. Shower her with presents. Read the Life of Marc Anthony by Plutarch, and you will read of a true love story between Anthony and Cleopatra. Learn from history.)
* Back to double standards: A guy can't comment on the price of food, but a woman can ask a man how much $$$ he makes! * OMG I would never, for I am a terrible liar. Ask a person if they've lived a lie: if he asks this question it shows lack of maturity, and if she answers with a story it shows she won't be authentic with him. Because for them, lying is normal. * Asking her about her dream home, shows him what her expectations can be, and does he want to fill those shoes?! * Asking anyone about their ego/fear, will show me very quickly how responsible they are. For I teach healthy boundaries by the ways of an emotionally responsible ego, i.e. maturity. Blaine teaches 20 year olds. I teach adults; those ready to be authentic in their emotional responsibilities. FIRST DATE * Stay off of the topic of sex. * It’s a “casual” conversation about who you are, and what your average day looks like. Keep it lite. * What’s most important to you, AND keep it in the positive. * “Listen” carefully to words chosen, when they describe themselves. And how well do they know themselves? *** She needs an environment of safety, can he provide it on that first date? *** He needs to feel respected, can she show it authentically?
Lol haven’t watch here content, but.. the bio says I helpt 2000 men reach there goals with woman. With 27k subscribers that’s a success rate of 13% guys if you ask me go to you’re best friend and ask him wtf wrong with me. You will get a higher success rate
I have yet to meet a woman who's single and willing/capable of answering any of these questions. I'd have more success with asking their impressions on the latest love island season/episode, even if I know nothing about it.
Cool...my question is how do i avoid answering questions about all of those boring things and exes too. I actually dont care for making small talk and would like to know more about her than to just aswer questions and talk about myself while answering them. The dame boring questions all have the very same adjacent boring answers. I seek a dates with real conversation but cant seem to get around what feels like a job interview and tends to kill my vibe. Any helpful suggestions for this specific problem?
Many women find boring every man that can talk about many themes ( Sports , Art , Science , Music , History , Books ,etc,etc,etc ) so You end talking about what she likes and if that is short because she doesn't know that much it gets boring really fast especially if The man is kind of Nerdy and Average looking ( me included ) if the man is a Chad/Bad Boy No talking or not much talking or not much interesting/intelligent conversation will be necessary Chad/Bad Boy wins with not much effort ,mean while Good Man who put all the effort loses ..... Again !
To really intrigue her, just say hi at the beginning of the date then sit down and stare mysteriously at her. You should arrive to the restaurant dressed as a ninja assassin
"you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years". That was a powerful quote or statement I heard from another guy, a dating coach, who gives advice to men, it's in regards to men getting better at just approaching or interacting with women. I just want to be sure I interpret it or have the right mindset and that is, men even have to risk getting labeled creepy or just even screw up and mess up interactions, that results in getting negative reactions from women as in the woman is uncomfortable from the man's presence, makes her feel uncomfortable As in its part of the journey of getting better, do I have the right mindset or not? "It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc. The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward. This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS." so is making mistakes socially with women, as in, getting labeled or perceived as creepy or weird when approaching, messing up interactions in which the woman was uncomfortable, is that part of the process of getting better?
Well you would be surprised by how man women love to hear about rock, epecially the witchy/alt type. + it shows that you have a hobby that is not common, so it makes you interesting. If a guy started to talk to me about rock, I would just share my (limited) knowledge on rock and learn what he knows.
@@Insight-music Oh so ou are one of those... Just so you know, the whole alpha/beta/omega/sigma was based on a very dubously made study on wolf in captivity wich was so poorly made that it was taked down only a few month after being published. Many studies done properly on wolf in the wild show that wolf pack are family unit so the "alpha" are mom and dad. In captivity they had put a whole bunch of adult wolf from different pack some time even mixing different sub species of wolf wich is really not good for them, and really distressing, wich led to them being agressive with each other and showing antisocial behavior that are not normal for the species. Why some people started to try to apply that to human I don't reall know, but yeah all that to say that the whole alpha/beta things is based on literally nothing, and is often viewed as a red flag because most people who use those word first degree are usualy really insecure, and unstable people. There is evidence that good look make you life a bit easyer, it has been studied and we learn about it on first year of med school but it's not as important as people like to think (people seen as beautiful were scored on average with an IQ 5 point superior to what they were scored anonymously, people that were seen as average had the same score o matter what, and surpisingly people seen as ugly had the same average but a different median, they were some time scored higher or lower than anonimously) and people tend to assume that beautiful people are more sucessful regardless of if they are in fact sucessful. It's a very interesting field of study but people tend to not understand what they are reading. Looking good tend to give and advantage but it doesn't do anything other than that, they still have to put hard work, their are many other form of privielegies, being born in a stable family, not disable, white, male, being cysgender, heterosexual, living in a first world country, in a country where you have access too school or ohter form of education, etc. We all have things that make it easyer for us in certain situation and other that make it harder. I was bullied relentlessly (got my arm and finger broken, nose too, twice) for being a weird kid because I'm autistic and also because at the time I was overweight, I have other disbilities too, and yet I made it in med school in france (school is free but only the 10% best are accepted in some of the most elite field) and I found an healty way to live my life and happyness in it. The thing is I am still just as autistic as I was, I might even say I only get weirder with every year, but I accepted it and I cut ties with everyon who tol me I wasn't enough or I had to change including familly member. I hope you have a great life and rember that if someone say that you are not enough or too much than it's on them to learn to be more open minded and accepting. Maybe try some therapy even if you don't think you have any problem, because there is a lot of things we think is "normal" and is actually not . tldr : The whole alpha thing come from a boggus study on wolf in captivity that made no sens applied to human being or even wolf in their natural environement. Science has shown that people viewed beautiful as more sucessful, but it seem to have a very minor impact on day to day life but research on that field is kinda new. Everyone has + and - in their life, what matters is what you set yourself to accomplish and the community you build. Hope you're alright.
I need some advice please , I talk to this woman I like in college on instagram but it was very short and brief, and she was very infrequent with her messages only responding twice to my messages. I will dm her once in a while, but after weeks or months of no response, I delete the message and try again another time. Eventually she remove me as a follower and now I have to request to follow her on account on ig again. I tried to approach her in college while she was sitting down, but I think she saw me, and got up and move to be in a direction where she can’t look at me. Should I approach in person when after I give her some space?
"Traffic sucked. I had to pull over and use a rest area, because of my IBS. Taco bell gave me really bad diarrhea. Hi I'm Ryan, pleased to meet you." Am I doing it right?
This is like looking into a mirror
@@godfatheful 😎
Haha
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You forgot to say how expensive gaz is😅
Simple it's boring because modern western women are boring AF.
be sure to ease your way into these questions or give context (easier said than done for people who aren't as socially suave). jumping out of the gate with that rose bud question is going to be confusing and seem uncalibrated / weird (been there done that). Especially if you dont explain what a thorn or bud is. Some parts of the USA, that's not common sayings.
She should be leading a conversation instead shes probably talked about her ex the whole time she doesn't think that is boring also? Like they say we're good listeners that they like so they should be the ones talking 80% of the time.
These non-boring questions sound like interview questions, not a fun date
They only sound like "interview questions" if you phrase them that way. If you no longer have any content for a natural conversation, then questions like these can help stimulate a conversation as long as they are delivered correctly. I think Tone and Vibe is everything here.
Exactly. She’s nuts like the rest of them.
@@kawada1How else would you phrase it so it doesn’t sound like an interview question? Come on.
The longest lie I've ever lived is a symphony of whispered echoes, resonating with the melody of a hidden truth, waiting to be deciphered by the discerning ear of an inquisitive heart.
HAHAHA
This is brilliant !
Here's my confession. The longest lie I have lived is that I told everyone at Coachella that I went to college
Apparently this women cheated on her husband, don’t take her advice 😅
Hey, hey, she wasn’t “fulfilled” in the relationship. She got bored and needed a spark. 😂
Yet a guy can sit and listen to the same shit as that from a woman and its supposed to be okay, right
Amazing I swear girls have been loving me way more since I watched your videos
Whoa! Happy to hear that news :)
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@@owps663You need to work on yourself mate.
@Jdjfbficjenenwk3736 So you think women can't be just as boring as men, do you ? Every point you make about what makes a man boring can be applied to women also. Sometimes people are boring and that's ok.
@@owps663 I never said nor thought that. Not sure where you’re coming from. But the only thing that matters is that being boring on a date is often a way to be rejected in the end result. Yes there’s nothing inherently wrong with people being boring. But if you’re trying to succeed on a date, you have to typically be exciting. The person originally commenting is supposedly having more success with things like this because of taking action on the myriad of advice that this woman offers on UA-cam. I don’t see why that would be BS or hard to believe. And yes if you don’t appreciate a woman being boring and you putting in all the effort, then maybe she’s not the right woman. But men typically do the chasing and have fewer options than woman, so it naturally create a a supply and demand situation where men have to put on their A game to attract and court. It’s just the law of the jungle.
What to talk about if I DON'T HAVE Anything interesting happened in my life ???? Not gonna Lie , so what if I meet a woman , what do I talk about ??? Or , end the date there ??
Love this chick
Don't reply with GASsss ... I think she knows SHIT when she SMELLS it ... I'm just suggesting...
But most women are boring? I cant tell you how many women that can't hold a conversation about anything other than the latest Kardashian replacement.
If you watch her stuff enough, you get to pass on them. Could probably say something similar for most men.
@@jhatch28 Of course, you can say the same thing about most men. The point is that most people are boring. Most people have jobs and obligations that consume 95% of their waking hours.
My issue is the idea that women have that men need to have this exciting life, while that same woman is boring as hell.
@@freudianslip2192yes I think a lie we’ve been told is that life is supposed to be exciting and thrilling all the time. In the midst of boredom is actually stillness, peace and bliss but only few
can get there. Too much excitement and spontaneity is actually chaos, and unrest which to no surprise wrecks marriages, and dismantles families. No wonder long lasting relationships are a thing of the past these days
Sooo.Uh, what's your sign?😂😂
Don't talk about past relationships. Don't talk about what you did that day (boring). Don't talk about current events (cause thats politics, and women just hate politics) Don't talk about history, cause that's also politics. Don't talk about other people, cause thats gossiping, only women are allowed to gossip. Talk about your future home? You mean the home you paid for and she will move into and later claim as her own when she is bored of you? But you are allowed to talk about what she wants to talk about, which is herself.
Why does she, like, sound, like, she is struggling to, uh, taaaaalllllk?
What do people really mean with "a first date"? If you have met someone in "real life" - in a board game club, for instance, then there is already an implied interest. However, when you meet someone online and decide to go on a date, that often means that you are open to all possibilities and just want to get to know this person a little bit. Getting to know people online by texting doesn't work, in my opinion. You can't decide soly by texting if you are romantically or sexually interested in the other person. If it is the latter, women don't want that kind of questions. They think it is too early and too close, generally speaking. Something that is also missing in this kind of dating advice videos is the differences in culture between different countries and religions. In some countries people tend to be much more open with themselves early on than in other countries.
Real w omen will be redundant by 2030
Great stuff! These are excellent conversation ideas. Thanks for posting. Your videos always put a smile on my face.
Always happy to help :)
I don't speak too much🤣😂
Boring is good! Nice stable guys who won’t sleep with you and never talk to you again are boring. #mgtow
I will admit, I sometimes still feel like an incel despite having a girlfriend, probably because I feel that my 20s were a waste, didn't have a serious relationship until the beginning of my 30s.
It causes me to envy and resent couples out there younger than me, people who got to experience having a serious long-term relationship before I did and yes I know people will always say comparison is the thief of joy or don't compare yourself to others.
But I believe it's always has been and always will be part of the human psyche, been that way since the beginning of time to feel upset and depressed when you feel you are not part of the norm.
Because of that I feel like a forever permanent incel for all time, even when I did manage to get a girlfriend.
So yeah even while I did have a girlfriend, I still felt like an incel.
I don't see myself ever getting over this, it will be a pain and wound for the rest of my life.
And I'm not afraid to admit that there have been times over the years I have hated being born male, because I know I'm not the only guy in the world that has this mindset, that men have to do everything in dating and relationships and seduction.
Yes I know tons of people say what's the point of being angry and depressed over what didn't happen in the past or not?
Well I'm entitled and I have a right to my mindset, I believe it's always been part of human nature or just the human psyche to always be sad and depressed or angry and resentful over good things that they wish happened to them in the past but didn't.
I know I'm not afraid to admit I have had these thoughts, and I'm sure other guys have thought this way, we feel that if we had been born a woman, we would not have been single that long.
Probably because women just have to exist and they are guaranteed attention and options from Men, that requires no skill or no social dynamics, no game or no seduction.
Guys, men, have to know or learn all of these skills, behaviors, talk a certain way, behave a certain way, act a certain way, walk and stand a certain way, breathe a certain way, have a certain lifestyle, because leading or taking the lead is something that is behavior based, skill based, think a certain way, and many more things, that i either don't know or forgot.
Women just have to exist and breathe and they are guaranteed attention, options, that doesn't require any learning or skill development, it mind boggles me and makes me annoyed when people say women need skills to succeed in dating.
One person I remember I heard said that women need game as well which I thought was the stupidest thing I ever heard.
So ya I still feel like an incel for all time despite managing to get a girlfriend eventually, and I still get irritated and annoyed whenever people and society say that men have it better than women do in the human mating game.
My impression of incels is usually they're angry, but I don't get that from you. What makes you feel like an incel? I know you said you'll probably always feel like an incel, but do you think there's anything that would make you feel less that way?
28M and single here, just unlocked a new fear that the resentment and regret won't just go away once I find someone. I don't think dating is necessarily easier for women, it's challenging in a different way, I just hate how men are still expected to make the first step, while also being seen as potential abusers before we even do anything.
@@Qbe_Root are you saying you never had a girlfriend
I am 46 and I have only had one relationship and that lasted two months. A couple of sexual experiences outside that relationship, but not many. Getting close friends - male or female ones - is also very difficult although I find it harder to get male friends than female friends.
Baie goeie Video Blaine!
I am boring though. I work in the financial industry. My work is all numbers and math. Ew right?
Tbh I get where you are coming from. Dating coaches act like men should be selling women that they are living an exciting life and that she is welcome to come along. For most of us guys, this is far from reality.
@brianmeen2158 exactly... I mean the most exciting thing to happen in my life is my sick dog getting better. Basically I am absolutely boring and normal. That's not a bad thing. Life isn't supposed to be an action movie.
I found most women I've met lately to be boring, but those are great questions that may help prove me wrong. Thx for the advice!
They are boring
Find out about her and then as questions and talk about them debate them
Just focus on listening to her rather than talking about yourself. Be a gentleman (bring her flowers; stand up when she enters the room). And in general focus on your own success, and love will be sent to you from Heaven 😊 Advice from a 42 year old married man. (And be generous when the relationship gets serious. Nothing is more unattractive than a man who’s cheap. Shower her with presents. Read the Life of Marc Anthony by Plutarch, and you will read of a true love story between Anthony and Cleopatra. Learn from history.)
your voice reminds me of the sound a squishy duck toy makes
This video was boring, so I ended it.
She needs therapy
I am boring I’m a nerd lol 😂😂😂😂😊
* Back to double standards: A guy can't comment on the price of food, but a woman can ask a man how much $$$ he makes!
* OMG I would never, for I am a terrible liar. Ask a person if they've lived a lie: if he asks this question it shows lack of maturity, and if she answers with a story it shows she won't be authentic with him. Because for them, lying is normal.
* Asking her about her dream home, shows him what her expectations can be, and does he want to fill those shoes?!
* Asking anyone about their ego/fear, will show me very quickly how responsible they are. For I teach healthy boundaries by the ways of an emotionally responsible ego, i.e. maturity.
Blaine teaches 20 year olds.
I teach adults; those ready to be authentic in their emotional responsibilities.
FIRST DATE
* Stay off of the topic of sex.
* It’s a “casual” conversation about who you are, and what your average day looks like. Keep it lite.
* What’s most important to you, AND keep it in the positive.
* “Listen” carefully to words chosen, when they describe themselves. And how well do they know themselves?
*** She needs an environment of safety, can he provide it on that first date?
*** He needs to feel respected, can she show it authentically?
Lol haven’t watch here content, but.. the bio says I helpt 2000 men reach there goals with woman. With 27k subscribers that’s a success rate of 13% guys if you ask me go to you’re best friend and ask him wtf wrong with me. You will get a higher success rate
Yea, when I date…. I take dryer lint and make little animals…Boy-Howdy, …..it’s so much entertaining
I have yet to meet a woman who's single and willing/capable of answering any of these questions. I'd have more success with asking their impressions on the latest love island season/episode, even if I know nothing about it.
Dating sucks.
“Omg, like, totally” this is all I hear when I listen to you talk. You are from Cali or from the 80s. Or both.
men stop paying her to give you advice. You are better than this!
She is a con artist. She is intentionally giving horrendous advice for men for $ so they can come back. Alot of stupid men fall,for a pretty face
Cool...my question is how do i avoid answering questions about all of those boring things and exes too. I actually dont care for making small talk and would like to know more about her than to just aswer questions and talk about myself while answering them. The dame boring questions all have the very same adjacent boring answers. I seek a dates with real conversation but cant seem to get around what feels like a job interview and tends to kill my vibe. Any helpful suggestions for this specific problem?
Alligators in a land locked state??? Last summer game wardens pulled a 5' 'gator from under a mobile home in Boise Idaho... the fear is REAL!
I'm 22 years old guy, but damn this chick has a better rizz than me. I would love to date her.
this is great! I see a pattern here and probably everyone can apply their own style
Does she consult the Playboy book behind her for her advice?
Women literally talk about all this shit in the first 10 minutes
I like Blaine’s videos. I’m nearly 60 but it still applies.
Really, why i haven't seen your channel sooner?
Glad I found this Chanel ❤❤❤
Talk to a female robot much better ❤
You always wanna to be bread for butter
Many women find boring every man that can talk about many themes ( Sports , Art , Science , Music , History , Books ,etc,etc,etc ) so You end talking about what she likes and if that is short because she doesn't know that much it gets boring really fast especially if The man is kind of Nerdy and Average looking ( me included ) if the man is a Chad/Bad Boy No talking or not much talking or not much interesting/intelligent conversation will be necessary Chad/Bad Boy wins with not much effort ,mean while Good Man who put all the effort loses ..... Again !
To intrigue her, create an air of mystery by never talking too much about yourself.
To really intrigue her, just say hi at the beginning of the date then sit down and stare mysteriously at her. You should arrive to the restaurant dressed as a ninja assassin
@@brianmeen2158 HaHa, and don't then spoil it by starting to pick your nose or something.
Be oneself
Bro this is so confusing
Why are you not making videos anymore? :( We miss youuu
"you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years".
That was a powerful quote or statement I heard from another guy, a dating coach, who gives advice to men, it's in regards to men getting better at just approaching or interacting with women. I just want to be sure I interpret it or have the right mindset and that is, men even have to risk getting labeled creepy or just even screw up and mess up interactions, that results in getting negative reactions from women as in the woman is uncomfortable from the man's presence, makes her feel uncomfortable As in its part of the journey of getting better, do I have the right mindset or not?
"It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc. The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward. This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS."
so is making mistakes socially with women, as in, getting labeled or perceived as creepy or weird when approaching, messing up interactions in which the woman was uncomfortable, is that part of the process of getting better?
I had fake profile of a CHAD and was the most boring person ever, in fact I talked about rocks and still got offered numbers/dates
Well you would be surprised by how man women love to hear about rock, epecially the witchy/alt type. + it shows that you have a hobby that is not common, so it makes you interesting. If a guy started to talk to me about rock, I would just share my (limited) knowledge on rock and learn what he knows.
@@Lady_Rowanbut not if he’s beta Bob
@@Insight-music Oh so ou are one of those... Just so you know, the whole alpha/beta/omega/sigma was based on a very dubously made study on wolf in captivity wich was so poorly made that it was taked down only a few month after being published. Many studies done properly on wolf in the wild show that wolf pack are family unit so the "alpha" are mom and dad. In captivity they had put a whole bunch of adult wolf from different pack some time even mixing different sub species of wolf wich is really not good for them, and really distressing, wich led to them being agressive with each other and showing antisocial behavior that are not normal for the species.
Why some people started to try to apply that to human I don't reall know, but yeah all that to say that the whole alpha/beta things is based on literally nothing, and is often viewed as a red flag because most people who use those word first degree are usualy really insecure, and unstable people.
There is evidence that good look make you life a bit easyer, it has been studied and we learn about it on first year of med school but it's not as important as people like to think (people seen as beautiful were scored on average with an IQ 5 point superior to what they were scored anonymously, people that were seen as average had the same score o matter what, and surpisingly people seen as ugly had the same average but a different median, they were some time scored higher or lower than anonimously) and people tend to assume that beautiful people are more sucessful regardless of if they are in fact sucessful. It's a very interesting field of study but people tend to not understand what they are reading.
Looking good tend to give and advantage but it doesn't do anything other than that, they still have to put hard work, their are many other form of privielegies, being born in a stable family, not disable, white, male, being cysgender, heterosexual, living in a first world country, in a country where you have access too school or ohter form of education, etc. We all have things that make it easyer for us in certain situation and other that make it harder. I was bullied relentlessly (got my arm and finger broken, nose too, twice) for being a weird kid because I'm autistic and also because at the time I was overweight, I have other disbilities too, and yet I made it in med school in france (school is free but only the 10% best are accepted in some of the most elite field) and I found an healty way to live my life and happyness in it. The thing is I am still just as autistic as I was, I might even say I only get weirder with every year, but I accepted it and I cut ties with everyon who tol me I wasn't enough or I had to change including familly member.
I hope you have a great life and rember that if someone say that you are not enough or too much than it's on them to learn to be more open minded and accepting. Maybe try some therapy even if you don't think you have any problem, because there is a lot of things we think is "normal" and is actually not .
tldr : The whole alpha thing come from a boggus study on wolf in captivity that made no sens applied to human being or even wolf in their natural environement. Science has shown that people viewed beautiful as more sucessful, but it seem to have a very minor impact on day to day life but research on that field is kinda new. Everyone has + and - in their life, what matters is what you set yourself to accomplish and the community you build. Hope you're alright.
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I need some advice please , I talk to this woman I like in college on instagram but it was very short and brief, and she was very infrequent with her messages only responding twice to my messages. I will dm her once in a while, but after weeks or months of no response, I delete the message and try again another time. Eventually she remove me as a follower and now I have to request to follow her on account on ig again. I tried to approach her in college while she was sitting down, but I think she saw me, and got up and move to be in a direction where she can’t look at me. Should I approach in person when after I give her some space?