as a musician and somebody that has been in the actual music industry for years, i can say with absolute certainty that everybody is the exact same way.
Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin amongst the great number who are not good. Hence a prince who wants to keep his authority must learn how not to be good and use that knowledge or refrain from using it as necessity demands. -Niccolo Machiavelli
I volunteered as a tax aide. I have finished reading the 48 Laws of Power. A woman walked into our office using a walker plus she had an oxygen tank. I prepared her return. I noticed how long it took for her to sit down. I walked over to my boss (volunteer) to see if he could review and complete her return since her mobility was limited. He asked me in a loud voice, “Are her legs broken?”. I said, “No”. He said, “Tell her to come to my desk”. She overheard our conversation. She gathered her walker and oxygen tank and walked over to his desk. He completed her return. She walked out of his office but stopped by my desk to thank me. That angered my boss since she did not thank him. Power games happen even in volunteer situations not just work situations.
@@lolawants2008 I agree with you. I had just finished reading the 48 Laws of Power when this incident happened. I assumed that the games that Robert Greene talked about happens in a work environment or politics but not in volunteer organizations. Also, both my boss and the woman are of the same race while I am not. That also angered him that she came to thank me and not him.
@@timcolaba church, school, book club, gym, mom’s groups, yada yada. So sad. It’s so gross a man like that in that position. That woman should not have had to lower her dignity to work with him to get the help she needed. There is a great Ted talk I think about “givers, takers, & matchers” - I think it has correlate ideas that dovetail interestingly, either way it’s pretty mind blowing to help explain a lot of dynamics for me in my life (definitely a giver, often to my detriment). I’ll try to find the link but those keywords should prob work to find it. Fascinating & also depressing. Edit- okay yeah it’s a Guy named Adam Grant- there are a couple Ted talks, a google talk & some other by him. I forget what he’s done but I think he’s one of those with an “impressive” résumé. Worthwhile subject for a dive
@@lolawants2008 Thank you. I will check Adam Grant out. I have run into power hungry jerks but I was naive to think that volunteers would set aside their ego. I was wrong.
I've never been that type of person myself, but have always been aware of it. I learnt over the years being someone who is straight up front and not playing the game that it is easy to identify a good leader from a bad one. The good leader tends to embrace the straight up honesty and the bad leader has no tolerance for it at all.
@@ceotension4525 Only 2 kinds of power gained? ... Is it worth to gain, considering making this book makes him look shady? ... I think he has lost the opportunity to become more powerful than that, it might be becoming a billionaire like Jeff Bezos or a powerful politician, if he kept it a secret. I hope he will find some reversal for this problem.
Being good in psychology has helped me deal with different kinds of people. I know who to avoid and who to approach. It's very helpful to be observant of other people's behavior. That's actually one of my hobbies. As an introvert, I am very observant of other people and how they interact with each other.
Extraverts can be extremely observant also. It really comes down to curiosity levels, and not whether you're introvert / extravert. Not saying this to argue or anything :) You sound v aware and like you have a good strategy!
Working at a dog grooming salon taught me a lot about power hierarchy. When the alpha is anxious, the entire pack is anxious. Being in a rock band taught me about the pecking order and how people will unconsciously scheme to undermine your success when you outshine them.
Man, I've said this before. I wish this book had been published back in the late '70s or early'80s, when I was a young adult. None of the 48 Laws was taught anywhere. Instead, you had to learn the lessons, but doing so always left you in a state of confusion and cognitive dissonance, because the laws contradicted what was taught and generally accepted: "honesty is the best policy," "just be yourself in all situations," "strive to be a high achiever and don't care what anyone else thinks," "show off your talent with pride" "good things come to those who work hard" and on and on. This book has everything that I needed to learn but was not taught. Better late than never.
Thank you for this talk Robert. This happens in families, especially blended families. So much of what happens today is just the same as thousands of years ago, the only difference is the outfits and faces we wear. Gale🙏
But Robert ,You are a real observer. You always nail everything without being biased. Since i started reading your books i have changed. I can now socialise well with people. Im no longer anxious. I move with confidence.Without Disdain and arrogance. Great love sir. May you continue producing more videos.
yo! listen to this man. his work has changed my life! i have never been more free and happy. i am 53 now and my life 10 years ago was a pathetic shithole. the philosophy put down in seduction, the 48 and the 50th opened my brain to ways of going about things that have made my life a bird song. big up, robert greene! every time!
@@RobertGreeneOfficial @Robert Greene mr Robert .am an Egyptian i came to america when i was 22 i did work so hard as a waiter and i was the best at it .because i love people and love to act & interact with their emotinal bank account .i fall in love with a women 20 years older than me we did get married i opend the best coffee shop in ct. I was so compassionate and egar to strive thing went will at first .then my whole 🌎 world collapse .i felt like i did stuck in the mud i keep pushing my wheels but no traction ...i hold for a while i went thru depression then manic then bipolar .one day my the sun never shin and went to over pass bridge and i jumped 50 feet on the busiest high way in America i_ 95 .when my body hit the ground i felt like a big building fall over my chest and and i saw long tunnel with two light florescent lamps expended to the infinity .then i blackouts .few days i wake up in the hospital .with broken spin and quadriplegic .i went under over 17 surgery i did stay at the hospital for almost 2 years .hey belive it or not those hosptail yers was the best in my life beside the pain and suffer .because i did saw and learn more about life then my past 38 years ....this rest at the hospital was like a puss botton .to hold and think clear .i did gain so much knowledge and wisdom you can not imagine .i did walk out of the hosptail but i lost everything .i mean 💰 money ,home ,wife, my dog , my clothes my 🚗 car my 📚 books .my coffee shop .but hey guss what ? I gain my ( mind clarity & wisdom) i went back to Alexandria Egypt .i keep it every thought in my notebook now i have great material to be a great book .but i don't know where to starts and everyone says .i have i great story to tell .and am so great at talking .because every word i say it i must live it and feel it and ✔ check out with supported facts .how i wish to speak to you oh ( your words about how you kept that 👕 shirt from the accident .clicked with me i had the same experience too .
@@RobertGreeneOfficial you're more than welcome. i'm sure you know how much your work has done for people and i am certain that it will inspire people as long as there is literacy(fingers crossed).
I've just brought 3 of your books to start. Human Nature, Laws of Power and Seduction. My entire being felt lifted just taking them out of the Waterstones paper bag and setting them down bedside. Can't wait to start reading tonight
In my world its all about power, relationships, business, parenting. After reading this book it made me realise how foolish and 10 steps behind i was, the disadvantages and advantages, disadvantages where i could have had avoided, and advantages where i could have executed, the people that used to be in my life that were taking advantage of me, knew that i was picking up their patterns and started countering their attacks or tricks, they looked at me as a threat and knew i was no longer manipulated and can’t be controlled they just left, some became my enemies and some just simply left no words no hate no grudges just left, this book taught me everything that i should be aware of while playing the game,
The most empowering move I made during the pandemic was to go freelance. I quit a job with an agency after 13 years of service. Games were the inevitable bottleneck. Now I can pick and choose projects a heck of a lot better ~~> Good stuff, man.
I had the most fun reading your book when I was 18 (48 laws of power) in 2009. Then I went to law school and the History kept going, but "the game" became very clearly thanks to your book... My best regards from Chile MR. ROBERT and Thanks!!!!
Thank you, Robert. I read your book (48 Laws of Power) 10 years ago and I imbibed the lessons, thus, protecting me (practically looks like forever) from bullies. I didn't know back then that having traumatic brain injury will make you prone to bullying in a school set-up and in a working environment.
I don't do exactly as you say, but most of it. I adapt it to me and my reality... It has changed my life. It's taking me exactly where I always wanted to be... I have no words to expresse my gratitude.
I've seen this often and while I appreciate when I'm able to make my boss happy, I've always tried to focus on being forthright and correct. That has served me far better as an engineer than sucking up ever could have
Really relieved of being retired from the practice of criminal law. 40 years went by real fast because I read Catch 22 when I was discharged from the Airforce and started university back in 1971. If you find the battle interesting and entertaining, you got to be crazy! I was never famous, but yes very successful.
Robert Greene is one of the few "influencers" I care to listen to, Because he's one of the few that doesn't sugar coat society with lots of BS. He actually tells actionable truths about it.
Great message. I will pay closer attention to the dynamics of groups I am involved in going forward. Also, I believe there is a deeper message in this video. Something relating to the current environment. Thank you for sharing your wisdom !
I wish I had read The 48 Laws of Power when I was younger and before working more than a decade in a large enterprise. Having said that, page after page I saw myself on several situations described in this book and it indeed opened my eyes about this "taboo" subject. This helped me digest soo many things that, now, I can see those things under a correct optical, instead of a naive vision.
I read the "48 laws of power" book and "the laws of human nature" it took me like a year and half to finish those books but i did it and i don't regret it, there's a lot of wisdom in those words and it's helping me in my job. Thank you for all your work. ¡Greetings from México!
@@painexotic3757 we can only ask about this things, it is still in their power to betray us. if you demand this, then you dream of dominating and receiving love and loyalty through power, not through asking.
@@painexotic3757 every person I am loyal to and deeply respect has a degree of power over me, whether it's competence, age, status or knowledge; and these can be direct or indirect. I can also say that I have some sort of power over the people that love, respect and are loyal to me. For sure you have some power over some people in your life, and you need to acknowledge this and what they are. You don't need to play with the power you have, but you need to hone and understand it. Mastering it makes it easy to keep what you've attracted and toss the unwanted.
@@TigerTiger-fx3ps Power implies that you have some desire to be above other people and control. I don't. I want everything to be voluntary and mutually beneficial.
for someone who does intensive research and studies of the past DNA shows how much he cares about human nature, the objective is to protect yourself not to be bullied as someone who seems to be "weak" in any form of partnership and relationship. Being calm, composed and not retaliated isn't "weak" that's the awareness of self control which is the core of inner strength and power.
Your works have been a great help in my quest for self improvement. I am honored to have read all your books. I still re-read them especially with The Daily Laws providing guidance. Can't wait for your work with the Sublime. Thanks for everything that you do.
Mr.G. These videos help as I navigate through the books. I’m a slow reader, though careful. I can actually now hear you as I read your book. Makes a difference for me.
Thanks for sharing this. 😊 See this at work all the time The games etc Glad I can sit back now that I understand this. Thanks to you ! 48 Laws of Power
Thank you Robert for reinforcing that Power overrules democratic norms especially your allusion to modern companies that profess value systems etc. I found this out the hard way in corporate life. I should've read the situation from the prism of power rather than the prism of values. Allegiances can shift in a minute and insiders can become outsiders overnight. Survival (often of the ego) dictates what happens
its always great to watch you speak I've heard you talk about it so many times but every time it just has a different resonance, the core of the human beings is still the same, only just been repackaged.
I feel like everyone already sort of innately knows about the existence of this "game", even if some may not want to admit it for one reason or another. The hard part is to find balance when doing this, when to play and when not to play. Playing too much means being stuck in a fake world of mind games, social approval and politricking. Unhealthy life of lies if taken too far. But never playing at all means risking the loss of resources, opportunity, productivity and teamwork. And the opportunity to face social adversity and grow as a result. And this is the only way to become a leader among other humans. And the world sorely lacks good leaders/"bosses" I find the best leaders have a good sense of how to guide the game such that everyone feels they are a "boss". Everyone has accountability and wants to support a good boss who supports a good team. In that case, everyone wins the "game" in this best case scenario Thanks for sharing Mr. Robert Greene
Crazy thing is my mother played all these games with me as a child . She had this book from when I was very young, never understood her logic back then but until I picked up the book about a year ago, things started clicking . Very interesting.
I wonder if power is simply a temporary gift, something one holds for a while before it inevitably moves on? It seems that those around the powerful tend to mimic their actions-not necessarily out of loyalty or admiration, but because of the influence they currently wield. In this sense, it’s less about the individual themselves and more about aligning with the authority they represent, knowing that power can shift hands at any time. We all instinctively play this game because we immediately recognise who holds power in the moment. It's not just about conscious decisions, but a natural response to the dynamics of influence that shape our interactions with society and the world.
At my job, I have no power, as a low level employee. Still, as Robert Greene has said, you have to understand that people are touchy feely beings, that have these extra senses going on. I see this, in real time. Amongst my most closely-seated peers, you let me start coming in 10 minutes early or leave 10 minutes late, it’s almost like my peers don’t know whether to sit, stand or leave. I hear at least one of them slowly packing, some keys jiggling, then it’s like they’re sitting and waiting for me to budge. Like they’re worried they missed a memo on when they can come and go. I’m not a manipulator, by nature. Still, I notice these things. I don’t derive much power from it. I just notice that that’s simply how people navigate.
@@GabrielXDrums yeah, I saw it years ago, too. I worked for an office supply store. No one was happy there. Then, I quit, because I was hired at Apple Retail. That office supply store started losing the few people they had. Just takes one person to make a move. I guess what feels weird about it is that it feels like a game of Follow the Leader, except you don’t even have to be a leader.
@@privateprivate8366 they’re all clones, it happens especially when I tend to hit on women, usually I go for the prettiest ones and me being a decently looking guy, they respond nicely usually and then other guys around I notice them turn their gaze and think that’s a green light to ALSO try to make a move or swoop in, it doesn’t happen often but I can see when it does. Another example lol
@@GabrielXDrums well I think it happens in a few spheres. Many years ago, I worked 2 jobs. One as a creative, full-time, during the day. The other, Apple Retail, nights and weekends. I have a decent face. But no great body. Still, at Apple, there were 3 coworkers that hit on me. One wanting to take me with him to Italy. One manager wanting to take me with him, to Ireland. He even had a bit of a jealous rant, in front of a couple of customers, when I didn’t reciprocate and I scolded him for it. But then, I was telling a coworker about 2 of those guys, at my day job and it was within earshot of the company president. I don’t know if that was the cause. But I’d been working for that president for 7 years. All of a sudden, the chase was on, for about 4 years. He was everything. Great looking, seemingly smart (not sure, if you’re chasing me and you’re my married boss), and he seemed to be a sigma male. Perfect. But, I picked up on even a jealous and possibly possessive streak. Wasn’t sure if he fired another guy, who seemed to have his head on me, for that. So, in some environments, it’s possible that something small and quite unlikely, might trigger a cascade of changes. And note that, that president was an indifferent and angry personality. I figured he hated me, as much as he did everyone else and everyone, including me, was terrified of him. Still, something triggered this change.
I've never really liked many of the power games people play. Even when I'm the one at the top or higher up. It gets selfish, I feel like people will place themselves ahead of others for their own sake. I understand it from an objective viewpoint, but it's never felt genuinely right or authentic to me. Once you see how prevalent it is it can turn you off from even putting yourself in those situations. Maybe this is a flaw in myself, because it is the way of the competitive world and if you don't interact and behave similarly you will often lose to those that do/are. I just don't like the thought of having to ignore or dismiss my conscience to get ahead. Perhaps it's why I much prefer to work alone, but that greatly limits your options for career progress. Hmm, must think on this more.
Suddenly an idea sprung to my mind: what if Robert Greene wrote a book titled _"The Art of Passing It On"_ or something of the kind? Such a thing would be a great resource I believe, especially for men (and women) of about his own age group and upwards! I believe he is exactly the right man with the appropriate expertise to write such a book of guidance and it would be of very meaningful help to humanity!
Realest are not afraid to look at the harsh circumstances of life they sharpen their eyes by paying keen attention to details to peoples intentions to the dark realities hiding behind any glamours surface.
Maestro greene es un excelente trabajo el que realiza, e disfrutado leer todas sus obras, en especial las leyes de la naturaleza humana, bendiciones para usted.
I’m a 48yr old father of 5 boys. Grew up my entire life in the church, played guitar on the worship team for 20yrs. Started deconstructing my faith and now I’m atheist. My faith-less journey is challenging everything for me including politics and how I now see the world. Yet I remain very private and somewhat socially awkward, discovering your books on human nature and power and how you lay it out as a courtyard is very helpful for me to move forward with more social confidence thank you Robert!
This is SO spot on. I've been witnessing this since childhood. It's why as a musician I opt to be alone 99% of the time
Totally get it, it can overwhelming to play live i usually need a day or so after each concert
as a musician and somebody that has been in the actual music industry for years, i can say with absolute certainty that everybody is the exact same way.
Me too.
Some people are quite lousy/careless in their actual work but brilliant at playing social chess.
What you're describing is not a strategy it's weakness I'm sorry
Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin amongst the great number who are not good. Hence a prince who wants to keep his authority must learn how not to be good and use that knowledge or refrain from using it as necessity demands.
-Niccolo Machiavelli
I volunteered as a tax aide. I have finished reading the 48 Laws of Power. A woman walked into our office using a walker plus she had an oxygen tank. I prepared her return. I noticed how long it took for her to sit down. I walked over to my boss (volunteer) to see if he could review and complete her return since her mobility was limited.
He asked me in a loud voice, “Are her legs broken?”. I said, “No”. He said, “Tell her to come to my desk”. She overheard our conversation. She gathered her walker and oxygen tank and walked over to his desk. He completed her return. She walked out of his office but stopped by my desk to thank me. That angered my boss since she did not thank him. Power games happen even in volunteer situations not just work situations.
Some people work with or “help” those in need specifically to feel superior to both them & the world at large
@@lolawants2008 I agree with you. I had just finished reading the 48 Laws of Power when this incident happened. I assumed that the games that Robert Greene talked about happens in a work environment or politics but not in volunteer organizations. Also, both my boss and the woman are of the same race while I am not. That also angered him that she came to thank me and not him.
@@timcolaba church, school, book club, gym, mom’s groups, yada yada. So sad. It’s so gross a man like that in that position. That woman should not have had to lower her dignity to work with him to get the help she needed. There is a great Ted talk I think about “givers, takers, & matchers” - I think it has correlate ideas that dovetail interestingly, either way it’s pretty mind blowing to help explain a lot of dynamics for me in my life (definitely a giver, often to my detriment). I’ll try to find the link but those keywords should prob work to find it. Fascinating & also depressing.
Edit- okay yeah it’s a Guy named Adam Grant- there are a couple Ted talks, a google talk & some other by him. I forget what he’s done but I think he’s one of those with an “impressive” résumé. Worthwhile subject for a dive
@@lolawants2008 Thank you. I will check Adam Grant out. I have run into power hungry jerks but I was naive to think that volunteers would set aside their ego. I was wrong.
They happen a lot among "friends" and among acquaintances too. Ever have someone start making you the butt of their "jokes?"
I've never been that type of person myself, but have always been aware of it. I learnt over the years being someone who is straight up front and not playing the game that it is easy to identify a good leader from a bad one. The good leader tends to embrace the straight up honesty and the bad leader has no tolerance for it at all.
As a human being I’m grateful for your existence, the fact that you do what you do.
exactly people hate him because he exposes their power plays
Same here. We are all blessed to know Robert. I am so grateful to you Robert for all your wisdom and knowledge that you share with us
Hey . . . anyone here knows what kind of power Greene has attained so far, and how much he's gained?
@@JohnKickboxing bruh. $10mil. Fame.
@@ceotension4525 Only 2 kinds of power gained? ... Is it worth to gain, considering making this book makes him look shady? ... I think he has lost the opportunity to become more powerful than that, it might be becoming a billionaire like Jeff Bezos or a powerful politician, if he kept it a secret. I hope he will find some reversal for this problem.
Being good in psychology has helped me deal with different kinds of people. I know who to avoid and who to approach. It's very helpful to be observant of other people's behavior. That's actually one of my hobbies. As an introvert, I am very observant of other people and how they interact with each other.
Extraverts can be extremely observant also. It really comes down to curiosity levels, and not whether you're introvert / extravert. Not saying this to argue or anything :) You sound v aware and like you have a good strategy!
Working at a dog grooming salon taught me a lot about power hierarchy. When the alpha is anxious, the entire pack is anxious. Being in a rock band taught me about the pecking order and how people will unconsciously scheme to undermine your success when you outshine them.
When the alpha is anxious it is everyone else's fault.
"Strike the sheaperd and the sheep will scatter"
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💯 spot on ❤
Noted! 👌"An iron fist inside a velvet glove" - Soft Power.
I really would love to hear more about PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE types in the workplace. There are SO many of them!
These clowns are everywhere even in your family
@@greatestever7623 Speak for your own family.
What Family Don’t Have Power Trips ?
Man, I've said this before. I wish this book had been published back in the late '70s or early'80s, when I was a young adult. None of the 48 Laws was taught anywhere. Instead, you had to learn the lessons, but doing so always left you in a state of confusion and cognitive dissonance, because the laws contradicted what was taught and generally accepted: "honesty is the best policy," "just be yourself in all situations," "strive to be a high achiever and don't care what anyone else thinks," "show off your talent with pride" "good things come to those who work hard" and on and on. This book has everything that I needed to learn but was not taught. Better late than never.
Love you big man
I was literally going to write the same thing. That's all I could think of. Just pure love for this man.
Found the 48 laws a few years back and it changed my life.. still here I love Rob’s content 🧠
I always noticed this. People of today are no different than people from thousands of years ago. Human nature. Such a great point.
Thank you for this talk Robert. This happens in families, especially blended families. So much of what happens today is just the same as thousands of years ago, the only difference is the outfits and faces we wear. Gale🙏
❤
Feeling lucky that I'm watching you after having read all your books long years ago. I wish you health.
Reading books make feel happy.
Like philosophy , success, politics, and history
But Robert ,You are a real observer. You always nail everything without being biased. Since i started reading your books i have changed. I can now socialise well with people. Im no longer anxious. I move with confidence.Without Disdain and arrogance. Great love sir. May you continue producing more videos.
yo! listen to this man. his work has changed my life! i have never been more free and happy. i am 53 now and my life 10 years ago was a pathetic shithole. the philosophy put down in seduction, the 48 and the 50th opened my brain to ways of going about things that have made my life a bird song. big up, robert greene! every time!
Thank you so much for reading my books. Glad you turned your life around.
@@RobertGreeneOfficial @Robert Greene mr Robert .am an Egyptian i came to america when i was 22 i did work so hard as a waiter and i was the best at it .because i love people and love to act & interact with their emotinal bank account .i fall in love with a women 20 years older than me we did get married i opend the best coffee shop in ct. I was so compassionate and egar to strive thing went will at first .then my whole 🌎 world collapse .i felt like i did stuck in the mud i keep pushing my wheels but no traction ...i hold for a while i went thru depression then manic then bipolar .one day my the sun never shin and went to over pass bridge and i jumped 50 feet on the busiest high way in America i_ 95 .when my body hit the ground i felt like a big building fall over my chest and and i saw long tunnel with two light florescent lamps expended to the infinity .then i blackouts .few days i wake up in the hospital .with broken spin and quadriplegic .i went under over 17 surgery i did stay at the hospital for almost 2 years .hey belive it or not those hosptail yers was the best in my life beside the pain and suffer .because i did saw and learn more about life then my past 38 years ....this rest at the hospital was like a puss botton .to hold and think clear .i did gain so much knowledge and wisdom you can not imagine .i did walk out of the hosptail but i lost everything .i mean 💰 money ,home ,wife, my dog , my clothes my 🚗 car my 📚 books .my coffee shop .but hey guss what ? I gain my ( mind clarity & wisdom) i went back to Alexandria Egypt .i keep it every thought in my notebook now i have great material to be a great book .but i don't know where to starts and everyone says .i have i great story to tell .and am so great at talking .because every word i say it i must live it and feel it and ✔ check out with supported facts .how i wish to speak to you oh ( your words about how you kept that 👕 shirt from the accident .clicked with me i had the same experience too .
@@RobertGreeneOfficial you're more than welcome. i'm sure you know how much your work has done for people and i am certain that it will inspire people as long as there is literacy(fingers crossed).
I've just brought 3 of your books to start. Human Nature, Laws of Power and Seduction. My entire being felt lifted just taking them out of the Waterstones paper bag and setting them down bedside. Can't wait to start reading tonight
Seduction is the best! I would love to read Human Nature.
Gosh.. I love power. It's the only thing that will certainly make people respect you
Everything in life is about power. Relationships, work, parenting. Play the game or lose
Right its like get rich or die trying
not in my world. a PREREQUISITE , team players only. If you do not care about me i will not work with you. Plain and simple.
In my world its all about power, relationships, business, parenting. After reading this book it made me realise how foolish and 10 steps behind i was, the disadvantages and advantages, disadvantages where i could have had avoided, and advantages where i could have executed, the people that used to be in my life that were taking advantage of me, knew that i was picking up their patterns and started countering their attacks or tricks, they looked at me as a threat and knew i was no longer manipulated and can’t be controlled they just left, some became my enemies and some just simply left no words no hate no grudges just left, this book taught me everything that i should be aware of while playing the game,
Calm down
@@cashmoneymckay6619 its not. I was like u years ago. Read crime and punishment. Superiorization is dangerous
The most empowering move I made during the pandemic was to go freelance. I quit a job with an agency after 13 years of service. Games were the inevitable bottleneck. Now I can pick and choose projects a heck of a lot better ~~> Good stuff, man.
I had the most fun reading your book when I was 18 (48 laws of power) in 2009. Then I went to law school and the History kept going, but "the game" became very clearly thanks to your book... My best regards from Chile MR. ROBERT and Thanks!!!!
Thank you, Robert. I read your book (48 Laws of Power) 10 years ago and I imbibed the lessons, thus, protecting me (practically looks like forever) from bullies. I didn't know back then that having traumatic brain injury will make you prone to bullying in a school set-up and in a working environment.
It's one thing to see this happening and avoid it as much as possible. It's another level to actively engage in it. Thanks for the video!
I don't do exactly as you say, but most of it. I adapt it to me and my reality... It has changed my life. It's taking me exactly where I always wanted to be... I have no words to expresse my gratitude.
I've seen this often and while I appreciate when I'm able to make my boss happy, I've always tried to focus on being forthright and correct. That has served me far better as an engineer than sucking up ever could have
Such a wise and honest man helping us all seeing the 'real' world of real humans
Just bought your book “The laws of Human Nature” This book is life changing. It all makes sense now. Thank you sir!
I'm reading the Oliver James Office Politics, this is a must read if you work in the corporate world.
Robert Greene to me is a modern day prometheus. Thank you Robert!
Really relieved of being retired from the practice of criminal law. 40 years went by real fast because I read Catch 22 when I was discharged from the Airforce and started university back in 1971. If you find the battle interesting and entertaining, you got to be crazy! I was never famous, but yes very successful.
Thank you Robert for coming up such amazing content im feeling so lucky that I found your channel
Glad you enjoy it!
Your calmness and way of conveying the message in your voice is wonderful.
Robert Greene is one of the few "influencers" I care to listen to,
Because he's one of the few that doesn't sugar coat society with lots of BS.
He actually tells actionable truths about it.
Great message. I will pay closer attention to the dynamics of groups I am involved in going forward.
Also, I believe there is a deeper message in this video. Something relating to the current environment.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom !
I wish I had read The 48 Laws of Power when I was younger and before working more than a decade in a large enterprise.
Having said that, page after page I saw myself on several situations described in this book and it indeed opened my eyes about this "taboo" subject.
This helped me digest soo many things that, now, I can see those things under a correct optical, instead of a naive vision.
I read the "48 laws of power" book and "the laws of human nature" it took me like a year and half to finish those books but i did it and i don't regret it, there's a lot of wisdom in those words and it's helping me in my job. Thank you for all your work. ¡Greetings from México!
I’ll continue to read the books you recommended, Mr. Robert Greene. Thanks for your wisdom!
I just bought the 48 Laws of power yesrerday and i'm so amazed by this topic, and so excited to continue learning about it, thank you forever
Your books have saved my hide so many times. Thank You Robert Your a living legend!
Currently reading the 48 laws.
So far one of my favourite books ever.
Everyone wants power. Whether directly or indirectly.
This isn't true at all Lmao. I don't care about power. I care about loyalty and respect from people I care about.
@@painexotic3757 we can only ask about this things, it is still in their power to betray us. if you demand this, then you dream of dominating and receiving love and loyalty through power, not through asking.
@@painexotic3757 every person I am loyal to and deeply respect has a degree of power over me, whether it's competence, age, status or knowledge; and these can be direct or indirect. I can also say that I have some sort of power over the people that love, respect and are loyal to me.
For sure you have some power over some people in your life, and you need to acknowledge this and what they are. You don't need to play with the power you have, but you need to hone and understand it. Mastering it makes it easy to keep what you've attracted and toss the unwanted.
@@painexotic3757 if u had no power, you could would be anxious about losing that respect. having no power, makes you likely to be disrespected
@@TigerTiger-fx3ps Power implies that you have some desire to be above other people and control. I don't. I want everything to be voluntary and mutually beneficial.
for someone who does intensive research and studies of the past DNA shows how much he cares about human nature, the objective is to protect yourself not to be bullied as someone who seems to be "weak" in any form of partnership and relationship. Being calm, composed and not retaliated isn't "weak" that's the awareness of self control which is the core of inner strength and power.
Your works have been a great help in my quest for self improvement. I am honored to have read all your books. I still re-read them especially with The Daily Laws providing guidance. Can't wait for your work with the Sublime. Thanks for everything that you do.
Mr.G. These videos help as I navigate through the books. I’m a slow reader, though careful. I can actually now hear you as I read your book. Makes a difference for me.
Thanks for sharing this.
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See this at work all the time
The games etc
Glad I can sit back now that I understand this.
Thanks to you !
48 Laws of Power
I love how casually profane this guy is 😂. My friggin HERO. And always good info 💯. Thank you 🙏
May this man never feel fear. The people's greatest living general.
Thank you Robert for reinforcing that Power overrules democratic norms especially your allusion to modern companies that profess value systems etc. I found this out the hard way in corporate life. I should've read the situation from the prism of power rather than the prism of values. Allegiances can shift in a minute and insiders can become outsiders overnight. Survival (often of the ego) dictates what happens
its always great to watch you speak I've heard you talk about it so many times but every time it just has a different resonance, the core of the human beings is still the same, only just been repackaged.
Most of your statements ring in my mind daily
I feel like everyone already sort of innately knows about the existence of this "game", even if some may not want to admit it for one reason or another.
The hard part is to find balance when doing this, when to play and when not to play. Playing too much means being stuck in a fake world of mind games, social approval and politricking. Unhealthy life of lies if taken too far. But never playing at all means risking the loss of resources, opportunity, productivity and teamwork. And the opportunity to face social adversity and grow as a result. And this is the only way to become a leader among other humans. And the world sorely lacks good leaders/"bosses"
I find the best leaders have a good sense of how to guide the game such that everyone feels they are a "boss". Everyone has accountability and wants to support a good boss who supports a good team. In that case, everyone wins the "game" in this best case scenario
Thanks for sharing Mr. Robert Greene
Thank you for all that you do Robert.❤
i am so glad i found this channel.
Thank you for your knowledge, literaly your books change my life, and your videos help me for learn english. Best reggards Mr Greene.
Getting to see you in person on the video seems to be a very different experience.
Thanx Mr. Greene
I hope you enjoy the experience.
I am very happy reading your books in my 20s.
Thank you very much mr robert green 100%.
Thank you. I appreciate you. I appreciate your work. It has taken a broken being to one that stands in her power and authority.
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Crazy thing is my mother played all these games with me as a child . She had this book from when I was very young, never understood her logic back then but until I picked up the book about a year ago, things started clicking . Very interesting.
You are the best teacher I've ever had, Mr. Greene! Thank you! 🥰🙏🏼
Wise Robert Greene! Love how you cut through the bullshit and tell it like it is! 🙌
just went through that overtly within five "foreigners" and one "rich" japanese guy in tokyo. AS you described, Thank you Robert.Greene
Much love Robert for noticing and reporting these facts of human nature. It has helped me immensely.
Thank you Robert Greene!! I have learnt so much from you in the past years and you have totally changed my life and perspective. Thank you !!!!
Like the clean cut much love Robert 💇🏻♂️
WOW THIS IS SO TRUE THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS.
Thank you Robert. I have been reading your words since my childhood
What an amazing storytelling you have Robert, and all topics that you are analyzing and describing are to the point! A real master!
You ain’t gotta tell me you feelin this sh!t, cuz I hear what I’m sayin I know I’m killin this sh!t
- 50
your reasoning is so much better and understanding
Thank you for not having that person in the background making noise, like in a video a few days ago.
And then there are the loners, repelled by the King and Queen......we just go do our own thing🦋
True … inner power is our power
Always dropping gems
You should write a book on masculinity and femininity
I wonder if power is simply a temporary gift, something one holds for a while before it inevitably moves on? It seems that those around the powerful tend to mimic their actions-not necessarily out of loyalty or admiration, but because of the influence they currently wield. In this sense, it’s less about the individual themselves and more about aligning with the authority they represent, knowing that power can shift hands at any time. We all instinctively play this game because we immediately recognise who holds power in the moment. It's not just about conscious decisions, but a natural response to the dynamics of influence that shape our interactions with society and the world.
Thank you for making a big difference in my Life!! Love you in every teaching ❤
Somehow I stumbled upon your channel and Sir, you have inspired me to persevere 🙏
It's so true 👍...I've seen this constantly
I'll continue to reread your book
People underestimate the art of seduction
At my job, I have no power, as a low level employee. Still, as Robert Greene has said, you have to understand that people are touchy feely beings, that have these extra senses going on.
I see this, in real time. Amongst my most closely-seated peers, you let me start coming in 10 minutes early or leave 10 minutes late, it’s almost like my peers don’t know whether to sit, stand or leave. I hear at least one of them slowly packing, some keys jiggling, then it’s like they’re sitting and waiting for me to budge. Like they’re worried they missed a memo on when they can come and go. I’m not a manipulator, by nature. Still, I notice these things. I don’t derive much power from it. I just notice that that’s simply how people navigate.
They copy, it’s like driving in traffic and then you make a move that you feel you should make and then the rest follow suit.
@@GabrielXDrums yeah, I saw it years ago, too. I worked for an office supply store. No one was happy there. Then, I quit, because I was hired at Apple Retail. That office supply store started losing the few people they had. Just takes one person to make a move.
I guess what feels weird about it is that it feels like a game of Follow the Leader, except you don’t even have to be a leader.
@@privateprivate8366 they’re all clones, it happens especially when I tend to hit on women, usually I go for the prettiest ones and me being a decently looking guy, they respond nicely usually and then other guys around I notice them turn their gaze and think that’s a green light to ALSO try to make a move or swoop in, it doesn’t happen often but I can see when it does.
Another example lol
@@GabrielXDrums well I think it happens in a few spheres.
Many years ago, I worked 2 jobs. One as a creative, full-time, during the day. The other, Apple Retail, nights and weekends.
I have a decent face. But no great body. Still, at Apple, there were 3 coworkers that hit on me. One wanting to take me with him to Italy. One manager wanting to take me with him, to Ireland. He even had a bit of a jealous rant, in front of a couple of customers, when I didn’t reciprocate and I scolded him for it.
But then, I was telling a coworker about 2 of those guys, at my day job and it was within earshot of the company president. I don’t know if that was the cause. But I’d been working for that president for 7 years. All of a sudden, the chase was on, for about 4 years. He was everything. Great looking, seemingly smart (not sure, if you’re chasing me and you’re my married boss), and he seemed to be a sigma male. Perfect. But, I picked up on even a jealous and possibly possessive streak. Wasn’t sure if he fired another guy, who seemed to have his head on me, for that.
So, in some environments, it’s possible that something small and quite unlikely, might trigger a cascade of changes. And note that, that president was an indifferent and angry personality. I figured he hated me, as much as he did everyone else and everyone, including me, was terrified of him. Still, something triggered this change.
@@privateprivate8366 so what was the end result of all of that?
I've never really liked many of the power games people play. Even when I'm the one at the top or higher up. It gets selfish, I feel like people will place themselves ahead of others for their own sake. I understand it from an objective viewpoint, but it's never felt genuinely right or authentic to me. Once you see how prevalent it is it can turn you off from even putting yourself in those situations. Maybe this is a flaw in myself, because it is the way of the competitive world and if you don't interact and behave similarly you will often lose to those that do/are. I just don't like the thought of having to ignore or dismiss my conscience to get ahead. Perhaps it's why I much prefer to work alone, but that greatly limits your options for career progress. Hmm, must think on this more.
Thank You Mr. Green! Good info/video as always.
I really respect you. I always listened to your interviews etc. 🥺💗
😮 I actually never actually stopped to think of it like that
The Game is the same!! 🎯🎯💯💯💯
Suddenly an idea sprung to my mind: what if Robert Greene wrote a book titled _"The Art of Passing It On"_ or something of the kind? Such a thing would be a great resource I believe, especially for men (and women) of about his own age group and upwards! I believe he is exactly the right man with the appropriate expertise to write such a book of guidance and it would be of very meaningful help to humanity!
I Always wait for his video.
@p¡nned by Robert Greene ❤️
Realest are not afraid to look at the harsh circumstances of life they sharpen their eyes by paying keen attention to details to peoples intentions to the dark realities hiding behind any glamours surface.
I think you re great!!! Thank you .
Nothing changed.
Human nature is
universal and eternal.
Ευχαριστώ πολύ θα σκεφτώ όλα αυτά και θα πάρω μια απόφαση όταν θα χρειαστεί,😘
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Maestro greene es un excelente trabajo el que realiza, e disfrutado leer todas sus obras, en especial las leyes de la naturaleza humana, bendiciones para usted.
Some people are just lousy/careless in their work, but brilliant at playing social chess.
Yep! Those types get ahead the most
I’m a 48yr old father of 5 boys. Grew up my entire life in the church, played guitar on the worship team for 20yrs. Started deconstructing my faith and now I’m atheist. My faith-less journey is challenging everything for me including politics and how I now see the world. Yet I remain very private and somewhat socially awkward, discovering your books on human nature and power and how you lay it out as a courtyard is very helpful for me to move forward with more social confidence thank you Robert!
This is how I've felt lately, like We're just stuck in some sort of recurring loop.
Robert tell us about Italy in 1995 😄 & thank you for all your profound knowledge and wisdom
Hahahahah seriously, I want to know what that job was 😂
So very true
I have the book and it is spot on
I am making a book and u inspired me partly