"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone."
@@kieranhart5776 Were you attempting to say that’s gay? If so then you clearly have no understanding of what he was saying and I seriously doubt you have ever had any type of job that puts you in harm’s way and you have to depend on the others in your group, squad or some other organized unit
I found out he was a SEAL through the comment section of his videos. I dont think Ive heard him talk about being a SEAL on his channel but his channel content doesnt really call for it.
He mentioned it when this was a brand new channel, but it was never a conceited sort of thing. He was always humble. He just told a few stories from his time as a seal. Any seals that have a problem with him need to get over themselves and grow up.
Mr. Ballen has become an expert storyteller! He was an amazing Navy SEAL and I'm so sorry for the pain of his past. I hope he knows he has legions of loyal followers who he makes happy everyday ❤
I'm pretty sure he does. And I kind of think it's a good thing that he's now doing something completely different. While my experience in the military was nothing like that of a Seal, I can say it was hard for me to go back to civilian life. But I think trying to stay involved in military culture after you separate can actually make it harder. At least for me, it was easier once I decided, "OK, it's over, and it's not who I am anymore."
I too, was medically retired from the military. It was an incredibly hard transition because I had NO plan for such an event and for years, I went through mental anguish, trying to figure out who I was. Suddenly, everything stopped. I felt like I was thrown off a moving bus and all my friends kept on going. It got really dark, I suffered from depression, anxiety, heart ache and feelings of being useless, broken and damaged goods. All of this was made worse by the fact that I had to maintain my posture being the father of two young children and a wife that decided to work while I was waiting for word from the medical settlement. They put you on a TDRL list (Temporary medical retirement list) and it last for 5 years. So for 5 long year, I was in fear of them slashing my retirement pay. Stress was a daily reality and I was trying to figure out how to live and what I even 'could' do.
My condolences. I got unexpectedly medically separated from Peace Corps back in the early 90s. Went from acing my interview in the morning for my third year to getting the medical discharge call in the afternoon, left Africa a month later. Too many bush taxi and motorcycle accidents. I managed to switch to Plan B (going to grad school) shortly after I got back, but it was still really hard for a long time. And the injury was permanent. Completely screwed up my life plans at that point in time.
I don't know what it's like to go through something like this, but I've heard countless stories of things like it and watched one story first hand. I'm really glad you all are doing well and kicking after all that, I thank you all for your service to us and the world ❤
Thank you for all you gave during your time in service and I'm so sorry you had to give up so much more after. It makes no sense all the hoops you have to go through to receive why is rightfully yours. I cannot imagine your anguish. I hope you are in a better place now. Thank you for your service.
I had to retire in my late 50's due to a medical issue. For a year, I felt worthless. I had no motivation to do anything. I know how I felt and I would say you felt 100 times worse. I didn't have to worry about money or worry who was going to care for me. I probably would have killed my self if I did. Bottom line, just from my experience, I know a little of what you went through. I hope things are better for you and thank you for your service.
NGL he disappoints me with embellishment in stories. When he starts adding details that are impossible to know (Like what the deceased person had going through their mind) it annoys me to no end because it's guess work. I prefer rigid factual accuracy and no embellishment and so Mr. Ballens way of telling stories isn't good for me.
He seems far more personable than some of the other seals with a social media presence. No chest besting, just a guy who achieved something special in the past but does not attach his identity or self worth to it. A warrior who has successfully reintegrated himself back into society. Kudos to you Mr Ballen.
To be fair, keep in mind that he didn’t serve to the extent of other more prominent SEALs on the internet. Someone like DJ Shipley (DEVGRU) or Shawn Ryan (CIA) not only served with the “white side” SEALs longer, but went into the “black” side as well. Operator Syndrome is a thing. PTSD is a thing. Running 150 ops per year for a decade straight is different than 2 deployments. That’s not to take anything away from Mr Ballen, but it’s important to recognize the impact of the job over time. Unfortunately a lot of these guys are not the same.
@@A2K.556but there suppose to back eachother to the death not to throw eachother under the bus , like guy with a eye patch , ppl like him that well out there own teammates for personal gain it’s horrendous , most seals are good hearted guys some are just mixed up or pure rotten evil
Most guys that have gone to a combat zone, either spec ops or support contingencies know how to differentiate between posers and con artists. Lingo, the way one carries themself, attitude, and sometimes the blank stare. I know a Marine that got extremely offended by an Army soldier that shit all over me for being in the Air Force as a Security Forces member. Typically, there is jeering and joking amongst military branches. It’s fun to poke fun and laugh at the dumb stereotypes of each branch. This Army veteran was dead serious. He shit all over my service in Iraq from 07-08 and 2010. When the Marine heard this, he jumped up and said “shut the Fvck up!” The Marine already had some intel about me. I was awarded a 100 percent disability rating for PTSD the first time i applied. The VA affirmed that rating three years later when they made it permanent and total. There are more disabilities in wont go into. This army soldier was a reservist carpenter that lies about his service constantly. He stated that the infantry came to him one day and said we need someone. Doesn’t work that way. The infantry wouldn’t pull a carpenter to go on dismounted patrols outside the wire. He could get himself killed or the other infantrymen in the squad/fire team. I’ve got mad respect for the Marine that put that dude in check. Mind you, the soldier has been “fighting” for a higher disability rating since he got out in 2014. The Marine, who received a Purple Heart from an IED, is only now receiving help to get his VA claim taken care of. He went through multiple rounds of surgery at Walter Reed Medical Center for contusions/fractures in his face. He’s got a solid plate and they did cosmetic stuff for him. He’s a boss.
Dude Mr. Ballen has created an army of loving loyal fans who appreciate him as a normal civilian just making it in life. He has started multiple charities and organizations. Keep rocking Mr B. We love you man.
Agreed! One thing I really like about what Mr. Ballen does is how he's showing everyone that PTSD and depression doesn't have to be an end all for you life. I'm sure he has inspired many vets to keep pushing through until life becomes ok again.
@user-jc8bs2fo4y did he disrespect the military? Times like this I really wish my grandpa was still alive so I could ask him. He was career navy. A commander. He was in WW2 and Korea.
just a sausage party patting themselves in the back for being 'silent' heroes but won't hesitate to shout out how much they suffered whenever convenient.
@rickb3565. AND EVERYONE ELSE WHO COMMENTED ON THIS TRIPE. It is definitely a brotherhood. But one someone like you could never understand, much less be part of. You think your "friends" are really friends. Find one who will actually risk something for you. It doesn't have to be their life, although that is how special operators measure friendship. And hence the basis for the brotherhood. Just ask one, or all of your friends collectively to give you $10K, no questions asked. And find out how many "friends" you really have. I'm betting you don't have a single one. Now, how many of them, including you, knowing they could escape a lethal situation unharmed. Would go back into a firefight that one of their "friends" can't escape from, knowing full well that they are outnumbered and outgunned, and that it could very easily, possibly even likely, turn into a situation where both they, and the friend they are trying to save go home in body bags. How many would go? The question of whether or not to go back would never enter the mind of a SEAL, or any other special operator I've known. And the guy in trouble knows his "brothers" will never dishonor their code and abandon him to save their own asses. How many people do you know who can say that? That's one of the many differences between someone like you, and any special operator. That's the brotherhood. Always living up to the highest expectations of themselves, and their brothers. Mull that over.
John is the very best story teller out there. He owes nothing to fans beyond that and finding interesting stories to share. His private life should be his own.
If the Seal community wants to cry because another Seal wants to talk about his experience overseas and ISN’T inflating his stories to make himself look better….let them cry bro. Mr. Ballen, you sir are on the way to raising the ceiling over veterans that stuff all their feelings and experiences deep down inside and refuse to talk about it. It took me 14 years to finally go to therapy on my own and do you know what they recommend doing? Talking about it of course! It was the best thing I ever did for myself and now I can give others a peek into the military life without having unresolved feelings about the experience flare up in conversation. Keep up the good work Mr. Ballen!
Stupidest comment I've read. He wasn't fallen or harmed in any way , financially, emotionally, etc. He just used being a SEAL to get famous. The entire community is right to hate him.
With all the mental health issues with military people you’d think that they of all people wouldn’t bully each other. It’s disgusting. Kudos to Mr. Ballen. You made a career out of your talent and anyone who is a fan is a better person because of you.
Pretty sure bullying within the military (especially if you aren't a cis, straight, white man) is a major cause of mental health issues in the military, amongst the more obvious causes
Military men are just comparing dick size the whole time and when others in the Military don't want to compete they get shit for not measuring dick size lol
You don't get it. It's not bullying, that for pimple face teens in junior high. This is a way of life if you are in the military. We do things different that civilians. That being said, it's more of jealousy and greed on the part of the other Seals
The fact that members of the military treat each other this way is exactly why many of them struggle with mental health. It’s not the only reason but it’s definitely a fair chunk of it. It’s sad but it’s true.
Mind blowing he got this type of backlash from his own people. Specially when SEALS promote themselves more than any other special operations group out there.
Seals are one of the best soldiers in the world so it makes sense to promote yourself, but I think this situation has more to do with not only how ballen became successful along with donating so much money, but also possibly him becoming injured. I wouldn’t disrespect a seal, however some are actual assholes more than regular soldiers.
@@nikolai6489 That's not really the point of being in that unit, though. It's about professionalism so it's understandable that some guys who ARE quiet professionals like they were supposed to be originally have a problem with it. You rarely hear about SF or Delta guys talking about their experiences for the sake of profit.
I served in the Marines and I get the "silent professional" mentality. However, Mr Ballen is FAR from a shameless self promoter. He's remarkably humble, charismatic and a gripping story teller. The real douchbags in this scenario are the butt hurt Seals who treated their former team mate like shit. SFMF
Don't flatter yourself. Being a marine is often a cut above the average grunt. But it is a long way from being a special forces operator. I know bunch of marines from my active duty days. They knew what special operators were like. You clearly know very little about these men. Judging from the ones I know I thought marines were all about respect, and respecting codes. Especially the ones that are passed down, not written down. And most especially when it comes to being warriors. My son in law was a FAST Company marine. My son's father in law is a retired marine. I retired out of Dam Neck Virginia. My son is a special forces operator. Another son in law is a mustang in the naval air wing. And my other son in law did his time in uniform with DEVGRU (SEAL Team Six). I wonder how he met my daughter? For the record. Us butt hurt douchbags disagree with everything you said. And this might be a good time for you to reflect on your comments, and ask yourself what kind of marine would say what you said.
@@georgechristian3902 The last four letters are not something that you want a Marine to tell you. I'll let a Leatherneck tell you what he meant. It's the Marine motto modified to display.... a level of regard, one could say.
I have worked with three different ex SEALS in my life. Great guys. But none of them could let five minutes pass or hesitate to to hijack the subject to remind you that they are SEALS.
Whenever someone tells me they're a Navy seal I rarely believe them. It honestly hurts their reputation with me more than just saying "I was in the Navy." So many people pretend to be seals it's kinda ruined the weight of it
I sat beside a dude at the VA one time, and this guy proceeded to tell me that he was a Frogman about 25 times; in the span of roughly 30 minutes…I had to act like I got a call and walked away. He was the definition of an egotistical maniac. I got an even better story from the same exact VA medical center, but that’s for a different day.
I do not believe for one second you have worked with 3 former Seals. The FBI itself did it's studies for Stolen Valor and the report showed that for every man that has really been a SEAL more then 1000 men falsely claim to be one. Also, what do you do for work? Seals do not work typical jobs after they get out....They are highly sought after for positions in the CIA Special Activities Division, with firearm manufacturers, contractors, etc....
I worked with two guys were SF. Not SEALs. I’d known both of them nearly a year before I found out. Two other guys who showed up and immediately told me they were 101st and a SEAL, turned out both were lying.
I was only a Navy medic but it’s honestly sad that his community did this to him. He earned his respect no matter how many tours or what side of the SEALs he was on. I know he probably doesn’t need it but from a Navy vet to another love to just give him a hug and tell him thank you for being the best of the best and risking his life.
Don't say you were ONLY a Navy medic. My late fiance (God bless his soul)was a Hospital Corpsman (H5, I think ?)for the Navy out in San Diego. You guys are the ones that take care of Marines, their family (on bases), and staff. Without you, they wouldn't function ! Thank you, sir, for all that you've done ! Much love from an unmarried widow. ❤
Every person handles trauma and PTSD in different ways. Serving two tours or 20 still makes you a SEAL. I thank every single one of you who have served and given up so much of your life and health. I have nothing but admiration and respect for you all.
Unfortunately, in every branch, every section, etc., there is elitism. Elitism about deployments and time served are definitely two big points of it. Not just how many deployments, but where, what you did, what honors you got out of it, etc. Especially from the grunts.
These guys showed their character. They showed who they are and you are better off without them, you divulged nothing inappropriate. You are a mesmerizing storyteller and are adored by millions of us. They are in the past, leave them there. The people you are supposed to be with will be at your side.
They only know how to promote being a seal though i think he meant in regular civilian life they don't promote themselves in other ways they possibly have strengths and dont know it cause all the know is being a seal .
I agree these guys are not his friends. If they want to act like that they are being very poor role models for all the kids that look-up to them. What a bunch of Bullies to the ones who mistreated Mr. Ballen. That brings shame on them. It's not Mr. Ballen's fault that he got hurt. Any one of them is just one injury away from their career ending too, so they're no better than him. That actually disapoints me that they would act like that to one of their "Brothers." They may have died for him at the time not because he was their brother but because their ego would not let a man be left behind. Whatever works in the field I guess but very disapointing behavior.
@@RT-qz5ci I was about to post that they were toxic right before I read your comment. I live near Bragg, father was a 23 yr vet, brother 22 yr vet, I served as well and MANY of my neighbors and friends served. I say all that to say, IMO the SF community in general is very toxic. Yes there are some really greats guys that belong to the community but as a whole damn they can be insufferable at times.
Damn that’s crazy! Leaving a brother in the wind like that after he’s been retired. Mr. Ballen is an awesome dude. Hopefully those “bro’s” of his will shit out their heads and realize they were wrong.
So you want them to change the code they've lived by for the last 60 years, and do things your way. Sound about right? What you think is right for SEALS should be the standard for them. I'll tell you what. Join the Navy, make it through SEAL training, and join the teams. That way you will have some credibility. Then you can tell them what you think, and so them the error of their ways. How does that sound? I hope you do it. Because I already know what will happen when you do.
The SEAL community needs to do a better job of helping their own find jobs after the military instead of throwing hate at someone who actually made an effort.
First of all, I take issue with what you said. Mr.Ballen would be able to use all of the VA benefits. He would receive psychological counseling medical counseling and receive a service connection disability for whatever harmed him during his tours of duty. There is also social services that help all veterans receive job counseling. So what you’re saying is because you are not versed in the facts of what’s available for disabled veterans.
I've been subbed to you for your storytelling for so long and had no idea that you went through this. I'm so sorry that you had to experience that. Your storytelling community adore you. I remember when you were moving across country and were apologizing for not being able to do your regular schedule and everyone told you that we would be there for you whenever you could get back to it.😊
He's the type of person I respect most; the person who owns his own shit and doesn't blame others or make themselves out to be a victim. I don't know him personally but he seems like a really great person
this guy doesn't deserve to be kicked out of that community especially when it's so hard to get in. He's clearly a decent enough person. You can tell when someone has that fury or anger inside of them and he just doesn't have that.
@@X9523-z3v well if the community standards are to be a piece of sh*t then fuck that community and we need to dismantle it, just like we did with the SS
I agree 100%. I don’t get it. He’s not beating that seal drum like the other guys. Most all his videos are about scary murders and all that kind of stuff leave the guy alone
Bro the SEALS promote themselves as being SEALS so much that it's a running joke. Mr Ballen is being extremely gracious regarding their modesty here. He was actually pretty tame in that respect....I mean hell, the guy hasn't even written a novel or associated screenplay about himself 😂
They are so selective on who is allowed to advertise being a SEAL. Never see any complaints or problems with Jocko Willink. He makes tons of money off of it. Books, gym stuff. What of that? We love Mr. Ballen
As a mother of 2 kids about his age…this breaks my heart for him. Makes me want to give him a hug and feed him comfort food (I’m southern, it’s what we do lol). I thank you for your service, John and I hope that some day THEY will reach out to YOU and make you feel like family again. Much love from this mama bear in NC.
Paris (France) January 9, 2024 You are appreciated ... over the world ❤ Your way to tell stories is so breathtaking. And your whole body participates to the narrative. It is great ! As a french person loving litterature, it is an immense pleasure each time to listen and to "watch" your stories, we see in our mind what you relate. It is great, great, great ! Your wife choosed the right man !!! All the best to you.
So sad, I find we can not escape play ground scenarios in adult life, not everyone matures on the inside. There are cleeks everywhere and attempting to keep everyone "happy and sweet" leads to burn out and loss of self, been there. You've done well by showing humility.
MrBallen is the only "celebrity" I would defend on a personal base of character. He just seems like a genuine and humble individual. He by no means ever represented himself and former career in a selfish manner or in a way that would make the seals look bad. I'm glad he is centered enough to move past the hate and not only heal but thrive. He didn't deserve any of the negativity. Keep on being your awesome self mrballen.
The coolest thing about Ballen is that even though being a SEAL did shape a lot of what he became as a person, he steadfastly refuses to let it define him completely! 😎💪🍻
Don't cry too hard. Every SEAL knows from day one that if they start taking team business into the public eye, a lot of the people who once called them brother will cut ties. He knew exactly what their reaction would be. But he did it anyway.
@christian3902 Which is again the absurd part of the whole thing. The whole hush hush stuff is dumb. At the end of the days he's doing much better without his "brothers".
@@partydowntown Want to know what's really absurd. A simp like you who has never had anything to do with the military in general and SEALS in particular, assuming that you know more about it than I learned during my 25 year career. Want to know what is not only dumb, but patently idiotic. You saying all that hush hush stuff is dumb, when you don't even know what it is. Have you ever held a security clearance? Obviously not. If you had ever held a Top Secret clearance, like all SEALS do, you would know what the hush hush information is, and why it needs to stay that way. Here is a little something for that hollow bone between your ears. A lot of that dumb stuff is kept hush hush because if it ever got out it would be a death sentence for anywhere from one to who knows how many people who had risked their lives getting that information and giving it to us. And then there is that dumb "national security" data and other stuff our government doesn't want our enemies to know about. Here is something no SEAL has ever said "I'm better off without my brothers." You couldn't torture that comment out of any SEAL. So why don't you stop insulting that brotherhood, and embarrassing yourself by commenting on things you have absolutely no knowledge of. If you talk about something you actually know, you might not sound as idiotic as you do here.
Salute this Man. He passed and earned his trident just as they all did. Everyone has a story to tell, from their perspective or the permission of others. We can't pick and choose or approve which of them tells their story. They didn't say he's lying, they're mad because he told his truth...that's wild and basically jealousy. Much respect to all 💯
It's very sad because every time I watch you tell amazing stories I give all working seals a small prayer hoping they are okay. Sad that they turned on you, I think you are an amazing story giver. Hopefully, they will lose whatever ego problems and allow you back where you belong. Your not doing them bad at all, if anything they should realize your a bright light in a dark world. I thank you for that.
I have adored this guy for a while now. Humble,kind,well adjusted,compassionate, GREAT STORYTELLER------I could go on and on !!!! We love you here in St. Louis, God Bless !!!
I’ve never seen the videos he posted about being a seal, but the way he takes responsibility and understands why they did what they did, I’d think they would probably be chillin especially with what they have been through together. But maybe not I haven’t seen the old vids. Also, you guys are fantastic interviewers. The entire interview was entertaining start to finish, very well done
John, I can kind of see both sides a little. I know and understand how deeply the community feels. But I see also selfishness and unforgiveness on their side. I really don't see your trespass as a deep injury to them at all. You have very much made the people who love the Seals anonymously as citizens, love the Seal teams more because we also see the human personal side of you as a Navy Seal. You give them a face even like Marcus Lutrell. Just the same as you were both injured in battle and had to leave. Your situation was with lesser injuries but no one is counting. Your honor is not Blemished! Your a great guy and we will always be fans of yours as well as the teams. I thank all of you for your self sacrifice and diligence and rediness. And your America's great story teller and we can't do without that can we? Thank you for sharing this part of your story. We have a much better picture of you now. It doesn't have acne haha. Looking forward to more stories!!!!
Listening to MrBallen really helped me to get through the major depression I felt getting of of the military and then seeing us mess up leaving Afghanistan. He talked about his troubles, but didn’t harp on them and the stories helped me keep my mind off of something else. I appreciate him and am a huge fan. I think he found a new community.
I’m literally caught up on every single ballen story to date. “Patiently” waiting for the next one. In fact I can confidently say I’ve seen all AT LEAST TWICE? AT LEAST!!
All boils down to jealousy imo. It's not as if Mr Ballen was personally saying yeah I'm this I'm that, calling anyone out personally, putting them in danger or talking about secret missions he was just explaining his own personal experiences of what he experienced as a Navy Seal & why he left. No reason for the Navy Seal community to literally bombard Mr Ballen with hatred & effectively banish him. I think that is pathetic behaviour
Nah, it’s not jealousy. It’s a standard. You don’t use your time in service for personal gain after.You don’t exploit your “story” for profit. This isn’t even just a SEAL thing. Any combat arms unit will look at you as a grifting, self-serving shit bag. The likes of Tim Kennedy are beloved by people who never did anything, hated by those who did. Myself included. Now knowing that Mr Ballen whored out his service I’ll probably never watch another video of his.
Thanks for saying exactly what Mr Ballen already said. Not sure why you felt the need to repeat his exact words. We all watched the video and understand what it was about.
@@davidbiagi2932 it was clearly needed since people are in the comments saying “it’s just jealousy “. After Mr Ballen explained it so clearly and concisely. So are you ready to start shitting on OP here for missing the entire conversation, or bitch about me clarifying? Take your pick.
Class number doesn't mean anything other than when you went through BUDS, and the other guys who went through it in the same class. So he didn't do anything other than what every other SEAL has done. The story of what he did, and how well he did it is in his service record. Which I don't think Shipley has access to.
If you look too closely at some of your heroes or actually get to see what’s inside, you’ll often end up disillusioned and disappointed. The truly great ones are the same person inside as outside, and never need to elevate themselves or degrade others.
@bryanpeterson1334. SEALS are always the same people regardless of where they are. And there are two words that rarely go together they are "SEALS" and "disappointed." As far as I know you might be the first person in history to say they are disappointed with SEALS. That's not a badge of honor, it's actually a stain on your character. But I think they can handle you being disappointed in them without losing their edge.
MrBallen I have enjoyed your channel for a long time, and always found you to be very modest about your service to our country. Your service is certainly appreciated and should be celebrated. Especially given wounds you suffered for your country. I am sad to hear that you have a rift with your former teammates, and hope that in time those wounds will heal.
More and more special operators? Theres like maybe 2 guys from delta and all they ever talk about is shooting guns. The seals are so overblown and they made it that way. Now they’re upset.
My bestie’s husband is career Navy. Said the Seal Teams often acted like arrogant jerks to other NAVY personnel. He’s based out of Norfolk. I feel bad for this guy.
dshepherd107. I'm retired Navy and have lived in Virginia Beach for 33 years. There are no SEALS on the Norfolk base, or anywhere near it. The even number teams are based at Little Creek Amphibious base. And DEVGRU is on Dam Neck. I've never seen or heard of any SEAL acting like arrogant jerks around anyone except other SEALS. I retired from Dam Neck. And I've lived about 5 miles from the base since 1992. Like me these guys have been living in neighborhoods around here for decades. And I would be shocked if even one out of a hundred people around here know it. Half of them don't even believe SEAL Team Six actually exists. And many of the people have been here longer than me. Some have lived here their entire life. I submit this as living proof that SEALS dont go running around and telling everyone they are SEALS.
@@georgechristian3902i had no idea Virginia Beach was such a military spot! I was at hotel that’s right next to Neptune Statue on the top floor (35th I think) and I heard that all kinds of jet fighters fly all the time and I sat on my balcony hoping to see one? There were non for two days I was there lol it was also around Veterans Day..
@@williamstocker584 Why don't you come to Upton Estates in VB and prove I'm not here. Here's some advice for your health. You'd better be real careful, or you'll find me. Now, change your tampon, and go back to practicing your pronouns.
@@georgechristian3902- Former Coronado resident here…I’ve known many SEALs…some are easy going, some are more intense, but I’ve NEVER heard one talk/brag about his job.
First time ever seeing this channel. I enjoy Mr. Ballen. But you guys interviewing him are awesome. No cutting off the guest, not talking more than the guest, letting him do exactly what you want him to do…talk & tell stories. Great job interviewers! You know how to perform!
Wow. I've known Mr Ballen from his story channel and I knew he was a SEAL at one time, but this is all new to me. Very honest and vulnerable interview. I've always liked his channel but have even more respect for him now.
The ego SEALS have is absolutely massive. They are willing to throw their “brothers” under the boss if u hurt their ego in any sort of way. The whole “we dont speak about what we do because we are too special to show how special we are”. Its just corny
And people wonder why other people see a Civil War in America as not totally impossible, when petty shit like this happens amongst "men of arms". You cannot really expect the Chain of Command to hold when shit really hits the fan at home...
Dodgers-sw2uk. Nobody is getting thrown under the bus here. They haven't put out a hit, or wished him any ill. It's just that some of them have sort of excommunicated him. And nobody would ever have known about it if Ballen hadn't told the world. He took SEAL business into the civilian realm. And that's something you just don't do. Doing that caused a lot more SEALS to excommunicate him. Than he had already isolated for talking about being a SEAL. And he knew all of this before he did it. So it didn't come as a surprise.
@@mrconfusion87 Your name is remarkably accurate for you. What could you possibly know about this subject. And just to rationalize the obvious for you. These men whom you think don't have it together, have done one hell of a job over the last 20 years proving that assumption false.
MrBallen, please enjoy and be proud of your success that millions of your listeners and viewer appreciate. Your hard work and your talents paid off and that’s all that counts. The people who sent you disapproving messages will change. They either will find their own success or will acquire wisdom through years. And you MrBallen have nothing to do with negativity of naysayers. Live your life at fullest as you bring so much good into the society. Thank you for your service and for the inspiration!
I, like so many others joined the Ballen bandwagon years ago and casually posted something about Quincy, which got an immediate and sincere reply from John. He is the real deal, friendly, humble and genuine. A wonderful man and an inspiration to us all.
“Two roads diverged … you took the one less traveled by… and that has made all the difference.” Robert Frost People come and go in life. It is natural. Don’t let their position affect you. You are Greatly Respected and Loved!
That interview broke my heart. My family LOVES you Mr,Ballen !!!! I am so sorry you had to experience that. I appreciate and thank you for your service as well as all our soldiers and veterans. I have been following you for years and I can honestly say I've seen you become more and more humble as the years go by. There is nothing wrong with being proud of yourself especially when you were a part of something so unique and amazing ! So please don't beat yourself up so much about it. I think most of us were a little cocky especially if we had done things your average person hasn't. You are a good man raising a beautiful family, be proud and stay blessed Mr. Ballen.
The day my son was medically discharged was a genuinely heartbreaking moment. The look in his eyes, the timber of his voice and the look in his face broke my heart. He looked out of the window with such sadness and with a look of what do I do now. After a tour in kosovo, 4 tours in iraq his ptsd was so bad he moved deep into PA.
It's unfortunate but the personality type that is capable of performing extreme things, also reacts in extreme ways. I had several SEALs as clients and the psychology there is different, it's a whole different way of seeing and moving through the world and it also sees many things as absolutes. I didn't even work in psych, just PT but I had to treat them differently and work with them differently, because of the mindset. I'm so sorry that these men with whom you've shared blood and faced the most terrifying things in the dark, that they've turned on you like that. I can see how that would cause you to uproot and move. I really love your story telling. You're good at it and I hope you continue and achieve more success.
Yeah, sorry to hear he faced such hate. Goes to show that they weren't your real "brothers" in arms. A real brother wouldn't make you feel so shitty, even if he personally disagreed with what you were doing. IMHO, the SEALs gaining public fame was inevitable once the days of social media dawned.
Sure, they can be sick of it - I can get behind that. I'm simply saying that given the choices the more public figures made, the others', who at one point were teammates of their's could have been more empathetic and resort less to straight up hate so easily. @@A2K.556
@@A2K.556maybe, but the seals brought that on themselves. They really really dug into the fame. It’s not like there’s 1 or 2 guys out there, it’s like par for the course for that entire community. I don’t ever see delta doing that. The 2 people i know of that were in delta don’t even wear their special forces tabs or anything, and their linkedin only says special operations community and the timeframe they were there. Seal community brought this on themsleves.
@@billbillson5082 You’re right that far fewer Delta and Green Berets go public and the Navy leaned heavily into the PR game with the SEALs as their poster child. But to be fair, there are literally tens of thousands of retired SEALs. A few dozen of them are public. So it’s really not that common in the grand scheme of things.
@@A2K.556 "true silent professionals"......I take it you've never actually talked to anyone who's been in SF, none of them are particularly "silent" about it......they make sure to remind you regularly.
Thank you for your honesty about all the changes and how difficult it is transitioning and about the reality of how things can be. My family is military and thank you for serving then and now. My mom started listening to you so I got interested.❤❤
so painful. i hope one day the others will be ok re the seal stuff. if they could see how it makes us appreciate what they go thru better. cuz they don't talk, we really don't have a clue what all goes on.
I had the same experience as a Fire Fighter. I got injured on the job and was on light duty before being medically retired. Not one "brother" gave a shit about me or ever reached out when I left. People suck.
Hold your head up Mr. Ballen! I'm an airforce veteran, I'm part of a career field group. Every branch from the lowest man to the badest self proclaimed tough guy winds up up praying what we brought to the fight shows up soon! Tell your story, tell stories other want you too. Roll on big dog, dont let anyone tell you "shut up stay on the porch"
Combat arms we tend to eat our own, Seals can be the biggest divas, and they loveee love love the spotlight and attention. But hey, somebodys gotta give the Call of duty basement operators something to look up too. Love ya brother, keep being great.
Ive been in the army for 15 years and respect the hell out of you for building something original. I hope you never stop telling stories and dont let the haters get to you.
That was really fascinating. Thank you. I’ve only ever seen Mr B’s current content so I wasn’t even aware there was another side of him. The charity is a really wonderful thing. I hope perhaps some of the most valued old friends see this and reach out. It’s sad to lose important connections over something silly.
Sounds like dude pretty much owned the fact that he crossed a known line with his brothers. I even sensed some regret on his part. He sounds like a grown ass man moving on from his mistakes. Love his channel and I respect him even more after seeing this.
MrBallen went from one success to another. It sounds like those who’re upset, haven’t made it big yelling that they’re frog men to everyone around them. I hope he continues to succeed, because nothing feels better than seeing the deserved succeed.
@@IAN0351 That's not even what they said. They never said it was easy, its just hilarious how they act. So why hurl the fat insult around? I would think a military man would have more respect and dignity then that. Instead you're acting like a schoolyard kid. I have no doubt joining the Seals is difficult and not many could do it. I know I sure couldn't given my disabilities, but I would expect someone who serves to be a mature adult, not someone who attacks random internet users with childish insults.
Lol not ALL human beings can make it through SEAL training. Please tell me how it’s not? Around 70-85% of all who try, fail out. So yeah they’re the 20%….members only
the ones that are struggling will most likely remove you. That's what. Maybe even your damn family. Cause some of them remove THEMSELVES. SO you're going to go and mess with them and now you're on their mind. Go and try it. It's the same idea as messing with thugs who were born with nothing and no parents. There is a reason why those guys will attack and remove you without thinking. Cause they are borderline ready to log out of this world for good. That is what. Take the risk yourself but remember to stay away from friends and family before you are dumb enough to mess with people that has nothing to lose. People who experience high level things and a lot of rushes deeal with similar things. Same with athletes and people who make a lot of money. They have VERY high highs and low lows and if you mess when they during a very low period of life. YOU ARE GONE. That's how most people die and that's why so many cops and thugs are scared of crazy people. We call people crazy cause some are. Other people have experienced enough life and you want to go and trigger them? Go right ahead. It's not just seals it's any military guy that operated or just people who have gone though bad situations. Why on earth would you go and mess with people like that? @user-vd2bf2di9i
Wow! Thanks for sharing! Sorry for that pain. I am glad you were able to reconcile that and move past it (them). I am not military, but as an outsider, it seems that all branches run in a herd mentality. When someone breaks from the herd and doesn’t get eaten, there may be a bit of jealousy there. After depending upon a group for most of their adult life (with your life), breaking away from that is foreign and frowned upon, intensely. You found yourself and created something (from your heart) amazing. It may not be “you”, it is more than likely their own insecurities knowing that they will follow a traditional path post active duty.
We need all these operators to tell their stories when they are able. Seriously. They are closer to the reality than anyone. The interview with Kyle Morgan when he was only 44 days out of Delta Force is eye opening.
I have so much respect for anybody that can say, "ya know what? I did so & so, and I shouldn't have. And these guys are justified in being upset." That's commendable, my friend.
Realizing that you were loyal to an organization, company or person that stabs you in the back is such a brutal betrayal. I am experiencing that now and it is very emotionally and psychologically painful. It is destructive when what you think is your community turns its back on you, it is very difficult to comprehend and move on. I am very appreciative of Mr. Ballen's service to his country. He seems like a very genuine and caring person. He deserves all of is success. I am happy for him and his family that he found another path in life. Active military and veterans should show respect to each other. I thought honor was very important to Navy Seals. It is apparent that some of them do not know what honor means.
As someone who worked along side several groups in the special operations community, it was pretty well known amongst our guys that seals liked to sniff their own farts and were overall unpleasant to work with so this is nothing surprising to me. SF guys were always chill and fun to work with. Just my experience
As a former service member and literally a bottom of the totem pole port dog in the Air Force. I had friends in the combat controller pipeline. Which is very similar to seals, what all John went through to even do his seven years and two deployments. Most men could never do, the training itself is freaking cut throat and John B. Not only succeeded in that but Took a fucking grenade to the body with shrapnel all inside him. I am 40 years old and youtube is my only social media. But I respect all he's done and does every week. His content is second to none, not to mention he's just a good person. It's bullshit that the seals are such a brother hood, but turn on someone just trying to make it as a civilian in the manner he's taken. Especially when his first move was to set up former elite operators with every day jobs. So what if he promoted himself. Who the hell doesn't this day in time.
Its called humility, something most SF guys lack. But it's also part of the territory of being the best. Staying humble and being the best = mr ballen = true greatness. Good shit.
True! Though some of the greatest ever warriors (the Audie Murphys, Leo Majors of the world) downplayed their combat exploits! Simo Hayha (the world's greatest sniper) treated his old combat exploits in a rather ho hum way as well!
Love your channel, didn’t know you were a Navy Seal and while it sucks the backlash hit, you’re carrying yourself well- and we your fans really appreciate it. “Silent professionalism” that’s a good phrase btw- I’m trying to follow that as well.
We're talking about a group of people who gave up their self athority in the name of being muscle for a known abusive government. Their opinions have to be taken in the scope of the damage they've done and the damage they've had done to them
I know two SEALS - there isn't a single conversation, no matter what the topic, where they bring up their service. I have a feeling they're just jealous that he was getting attention and they weren't..
yea. I wasn't a SEAL but I only talk about service stuff with close friends and family. If it is strangers I avoid the topic all together because there are so many liars and bs artists.
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone."
Truer words were never spoken .
No… It’s true. You’re correct. I’ve always thought the same thing.
Amen
Well said. I’ve felt that way in certain jobs that really are more a way of life rather than just a 9-5 job.
@@kieranhart5776
Were you attempting to say that’s gay? If so then you clearly have no understanding of what he was saying and I seriously doubt you have ever had any type of job that puts you in harm’s way and you have to depend on the others in your group, squad or some other organized unit
I listened to Ballen for months before I knew he was a retired Navy Seal
Seems like a great guy .. enjoy listening to his stories
It was surprising to me finding that out. Not the typical personality
I found out he was a SEAL through the comment section of his videos. I dont think Ive heard him talk about being a SEAL on his channel but his channel content doesnt really call for it.
He mentioned it when this was a brand new channel, but it was never a conceited sort of thing. He was always humble. He just told a few stories from his time as a seal. Any seals that have a problem with him need to get over themselves and grow up.
Same. I just started watching him because I thought he looked like Jack from This Is Us, and he intrigued me 😂 his stories are awesome.
I think he’s a self promoting narcissist. He never shuts up about himself. My stepfather was in special forces and he never talked about it.
Mr. Ballen has become an expert storyteller! He was an amazing Navy SEAL and I'm so sorry for the pain of his past. I hope he knows he has legions of loyal followers who he makes happy everyday ❤
I'm pretty sure he does. And I kind of think it's a good thing that he's now doing something completely different. While my experience in the military was nothing like that of a Seal, I can say it was hard for me to go back to civilian life. But I think trying to stay involved in military culture after you separate can actually make it harder. At least for me, it was easier once I decided, "OK, it's over, and it's not who I am anymore."
I too, was medically retired from the military. It was an incredibly hard transition because I had NO plan for such an event and for years, I went through mental anguish, trying to figure out who I was. Suddenly, everything stopped. I felt like I was thrown off a moving bus and all my friends kept on going. It got really dark, I suffered from depression, anxiety, heart ache and feelings of being useless, broken and damaged goods. All of this was made worse by the fact that I had to maintain my posture being the father of two young children and a wife that decided to work while I was waiting for word from the medical settlement. They put you on a TDRL list (Temporary medical retirement list) and it last for 5 years. So for 5 long year, I was in fear of them slashing my retirement pay. Stress was a daily reality and I was trying to figure out how to live and what I even 'could' do.
My condolences. I got unexpectedly medically separated from Peace Corps back in the early 90s. Went from acing my interview in the morning for my third year to getting the medical discharge call in the afternoon, left Africa a month later. Too many bush taxi and motorcycle accidents.
I managed to switch to Plan B (going to grad school) shortly after I got back, but it was still really hard for a long time. And the injury was permanent. Completely screwed up my life plans at that point in time.
Where are the transition plans for soldiers? It doesn't seem right to medically transition someone out of service and just let them flounder
I don't know what it's like to go through something like this, but I've heard countless stories of things like it and watched one story first hand. I'm really glad you all are doing well and kicking after all that, I thank you all for your service to us and the world ❤
Thank you for all you gave during your time in service and I'm so sorry you had to give up so much more after. It makes no sense all the hoops you have to go through to receive why is rightfully yours. I cannot imagine your anguish. I hope you are in a better place now. Thank you for your service.
I had to retire in my late 50's due to a medical issue. For a year, I felt worthless. I had no motivation to do anything. I know how I felt and I would say you felt 100 times worse. I didn't have to worry about money or worry who was going to care for me. I probably would have killed my self if I did. Bottom line, just from my experience, I know a little of what you went through. I hope things are better for you and thank you for your service.
I can’t imagine a person being more honest and real. Love this guy, love his stories.
The only thing that Mr Ballen has ever done to disappoint anyone is when he dropped down to one story per week 😢. Great guy, great storyteller.
Nothing disappointing about someone taking better care of themselves fam
Love his stories and the way they are presented.
The like button made him do it
@@BjornWithASlashNope, but people who don't get jokes.....thats disappointing.
NGL he disappoints me with embellishment in stories. When he starts adding details that are impossible to know (Like what the deceased person had going through their mind) it annoys me to no end because it's guess work. I prefer rigid factual accuracy and no embellishment and so Mr. Ballens way of telling stories isn't good for me.
He seems far more personable than some of the other seals with a social media presence.
No chest besting, just a guy who achieved something special in the past but does not attach his identity or self worth to it. A warrior who has successfully reintegrated himself back into society. Kudos to you Mr Ballen.
To be fair, keep in mind that he didn’t serve to the extent of other more prominent SEALs on the internet. Someone like DJ Shipley (DEVGRU) or Shawn Ryan (CIA) not only served with the “white side” SEALs longer, but went into the “black” side as well.
Operator Syndrome is a thing. PTSD is a thing. Running 150 ops per year for a decade straight is different than 2 deployments. That’s not to take anything away from Mr Ballen, but it’s important to recognize the impact of the job over time. Unfortunately a lot of these guys are not the same.
@@A2K.556No one is reading all that be, keep your jealousy to yourself. Clown.
Allen is definitely not as wacko as most SEAL YTubers.
@@A2K.556but there suppose to back eachother to the death not to throw eachother under the bus , like guy with a eye patch , ppl like him that well out there own teammates for personal gain it’s horrendous , most seals are good hearted guys some are just mixed up or pure rotten evil
Most guys that have gone to a combat zone, either spec ops or support contingencies know how to differentiate between posers and con artists. Lingo, the way one carries themself, attitude, and sometimes the blank stare. I know a Marine that got extremely offended by an Army soldier that shit all over me for being in the Air Force as a Security Forces member. Typically, there is jeering and joking amongst military branches. It’s fun to poke fun and laugh at the dumb stereotypes of each branch. This Army veteran was dead serious. He shit all over my service in Iraq from 07-08 and 2010. When the Marine heard this, he jumped up and said “shut the Fvck up!” The Marine already had some intel about me. I was awarded a 100 percent disability rating for PTSD the first time i applied. The VA affirmed that rating three years later when they made it permanent and total. There are more disabilities in wont go into. This army soldier was a reservist carpenter that lies about his service constantly. He stated that the infantry came to him one day and said we need someone. Doesn’t work that way. The infantry wouldn’t pull a carpenter to go on dismounted patrols outside the wire. He could get himself killed or the other infantrymen in the squad/fire team. I’ve got mad respect for the Marine that put that dude in check. Mind you, the soldier has been “fighting” for a higher disability rating since he got out in 2014. The Marine, who received a Purple Heart from an IED, is only now receiving help to get his VA claim taken care of. He went through multiple rounds of surgery at Walter Reed Medical Center for contusions/fractures in his face. He’s got a solid plate and they did cosmetic stuff for him. He’s a boss.
Dude Mr. Ballen has created an army of loving loyal fans who appreciate him as a normal civilian just making it in life. He has started multiple charities and organizations. Keep rocking Mr B. We love you man.
Agreed! One thing I really like about what Mr. Ballen does is how he's showing everyone that PTSD and depression doesn't have to be an end all for you life. I'm sure he has inspired many vets to keep pushing through until life becomes ok again.
Amen
No need to disrespect the military.
@@MariettaGreen-k8zboohoo. Keep fighting wars for politicians
@user-jc8bs2fo4y did he disrespect the military? Times like this I really wish my grandpa was still alive so I could ask him. He was career navy. A commander. He was in WW2 and Korea.
Been watching MrBallen for years! Love him, his stories, & my 9 year old as soon as we're in car asks to listen to him!!! Great guy beautiful family!
Mr Ballen's brutal honesty and candor show his character and courage.
Respect 💯
Deep respect.
If mere words were enough to destroy a "brotherhood", then it wasn't a brotherhood to begin with.
A weak mental communal structure
just a sausage party patting themselves in the back for being 'silent' heroes but won't hesitate to shout out how much they suffered whenever convenient.
Military is a joke. There is no honor, no brothers… its all silly. everyone is there for the paycheck and the benefits.
Amen brother!!! '
@rickb3565. AND EVERYONE ELSE WHO COMMENTED ON THIS TRIPE. It is definitely a brotherhood. But one someone like you could never understand, much less be part of. You think your "friends" are really friends. Find one who will actually risk something for you. It doesn't have to be their life, although that is how special operators measure friendship. And hence the basis for the brotherhood. Just ask one, or all of your friends collectively to give you $10K, no questions asked. And find out how many "friends" you really have. I'm betting you don't have a single one.
Now, how many of them, including you, knowing they could escape a lethal situation unharmed. Would go back into a firefight that one of their "friends" can't escape from, knowing full well that they are outnumbered and outgunned, and that it could very easily, possibly even likely, turn into a situation where both they, and the friend they are trying to save go home in body bags. How many would go? The question of whether or not to go back would never enter the mind of a SEAL, or any other special operator I've known. And the guy in trouble knows his "brothers" will never dishonor their code and abandon him to save their own asses.
How many people do you know who can say that?
That's one of the many differences between someone like you, and any special operator. That's the brotherhood. Always living up to the highest expectations of themselves, and their brothers. Mull that over.
John is the very best story teller out there. He owes nothing to fans beyond that and finding interesting stories to share. His private life should be his own.
If the Seal community wants to cry because another Seal wants to talk about his experience overseas and ISN’T inflating his stories to make himself look better….let them cry bro. Mr. Ballen, you sir are on the way to raising the ceiling over veterans that stuff all their feelings and experiences deep down inside and refuse to talk about it. It took me 14 years to finally go to therapy on my own and do you know what they recommend doing? Talking about it of course! It was the best thing I ever did for myself and now I can give others a peek into the military life without having unresolved feelings about the experience flare up in conversation. Keep up the good work Mr. Ballen!
“Never leave a fallen comrade” doesn’t end on the battlefield.
Perfect comment.
Seriously, its almost as if all logical reasoning has left the teams. Saddening to see
You just stole the words out of my fuming mouth.
Stupidest comment I've read. He wasn't fallen or harmed in any way , financially, emotionally, etc. He just used being a SEAL to get famous. The entire community is right to hate him.
@@CrimsonDave Ego is not your amigo, but try telling that to communities like the SEAL's that thrive on it.
With all the mental health issues with military people you’d think that they of all people wouldn’t bully each other. It’s disgusting. Kudos to Mr. Ballen. You made a career out of your talent and anyone who is a fan is a better person because of you.
@@Arctic_Adjustermedical discharge isn’t getting kicked out loser.
Pretty sure bullying within the military (especially if you aren't a cis, straight, white man) is a major cause of mental health issues in the military, amongst the more obvious causes
Military men are just comparing dick size the whole time and when others in the Military don't want to compete they get shit for not measuring dick size lol
You don't get it. It's not bullying, that for pimple face teens in junior high. This is a way of life if you are in the military. We do things different that civilians. That being said, it's more of jealousy and greed on the part of the other Seals
The fact that members of the military treat each other this way is exactly why many of them struggle with mental health. It’s not the only reason but it’s definitely a fair chunk of it. It’s sad but it’s true.
Mind blowing he got this type of backlash from his own people. Specially when SEALS promote themselves more than any other special operations group out there.
Seals are one of the best soldiers in the world so it makes sense to promote yourself, but I think this situation has more to do with not only how ballen became successful along with donating so much money, but also possibly him becoming injured. I wouldn’t disrespect a seal, however some are actual assholes more than regular soldiers.
@@nikolai6489yup. If they are jerks, then screw em
Apparently the people who ostracized him think they're in "Fight Club", which is a shame when it happens to grownups.
@@gaelsdottir5046special forces units always seem to act like cults
@@nikolai6489 That's not really the point of being in that unit, though. It's about professionalism so it's understandable that some guys who ARE quiet professionals like they were supposed to be originally have a problem with it. You rarely hear about SF or Delta guys talking about their experiences for the sake of profit.
I served in the Marines and I get the "silent professional" mentality. However, Mr Ballen is FAR from a shameless self promoter. He's remarkably humble, charismatic and a gripping story teller. The real douchbags in this scenario are the butt hurt Seals who treated their former team mate like shit. SFMF
I was thinking the exact same thing.💯🤦♂️
Don't flatter yourself. Being a marine is often a cut above the average grunt. But it is a long way from being a special forces operator. I know bunch of marines from my active duty days. They knew what special operators were like. You clearly know very little about these men. Judging from the ones I know I thought marines were all about respect, and respecting codes. Especially the ones that are passed down, not written down. And most especially when it comes to being warriors.
My son in law was a FAST Company marine. My son's father in law is a retired marine. I retired out of Dam Neck Virginia. My son is a special forces operator. Another son in law is a mustang in the naval air wing. And my other son in law did his time in uniform with DEVGRU (SEAL Team Six). I wonder how he met my daughter?
For the record. Us butt hurt douchbags disagree with everything you said. And this might be a good time for you to reflect on your comments, and ask yourself what kind of marine would say what you said.
Ooh! That's not nice! I am glad you aren't saying that to me.
@@Svensk7119 saying what?
@@georgechristian3902 The last four letters are not something that you want a Marine to tell you.
I'll let a Leatherneck tell you what he meant.
It's the Marine motto modified to display.... a level of regard, one could say.
I have worked with three different ex SEALS in my life.
Great guys.
But none of them could let five minutes pass or hesitate to to hijack the subject to remind you that they are SEALS.
Whenever someone tells me they're a Navy seal I rarely believe them. It honestly hurts their reputation with me more than just saying "I was in the Navy." So many people pretend to be seals it's kinda ruined the weight of it
@@bigdawg77 spot on!
I sat beside a dude at the VA one time, and this guy proceeded to tell me that he was a Frogman about 25 times; in the span of roughly 30 minutes…I had to act like I got a call and walked away. He was the definition of an egotistical maniac. I got an even better story from the same exact VA medical center, but that’s for a different day.
I do not believe for one second you have worked with 3 former Seals. The FBI itself did it's studies for Stolen Valor and the report showed that for every man that has really been a SEAL more then 1000 men falsely claim to be one. Also, what do you do for work? Seals do not work typical jobs after they get out....They are highly sought after for positions in the CIA Special Activities Division, with firearm manufacturers, contractors, etc....
I worked with two guys were SF. Not SEALs. I’d known both of them nearly a year before I found out. Two other guys who showed up and immediately told me they were 101st and a SEAL, turned out both were lying.
I was only a Navy medic but it’s honestly sad that his community did this to him. He earned his respect no matter how many tours or what side of the SEALs he was on. I know he probably doesn’t need it but from a Navy vet to another love to just give him a hug and tell him thank you for being the best of the best and risking his life.
Don't say you were ONLY a Navy medic. My late fiance (God bless his soul)was a Hospital Corpsman (H5, I think ?)for the Navy out in San Diego. You guys are the ones that take care of Marines, their family (on bases), and staff. Without you, they wouldn't function ! Thank you, sir, for all that you've done ! Much love from an unmarried widow. ❤
@@Cactuscupcake1972 Not all Corpsman are the same.
Godspeed hero
@@Ronfost89but they are appreciated all the same
@@nicres No Marine gives a fuck about a blueside corpsman.
Every person handles trauma and PTSD in different ways. Serving two tours or 20 still makes you a SEAL. I thank every single one of you who have served and given up so much of your life and health. I have nothing but admiration and respect for you all.
You're a SEAL once you're assigned to a team, right? And what if you get hurt or killed in training? The community is making an ass of itself.
Unfortunately, in every branch, every section, etc., there is elitism. Elitism about deployments and time served are definitely two big points of it. Not just how many deployments, but where, what you did, what honors you got out of it, etc. Especially from the grunts.
These guys showed their character. They showed who they are and you are better off without them, you divulged nothing inappropriate. You are a mesmerizing storyteller and are adored by millions of us. They are in the past, leave them there. The people you are supposed to be with will be at your side.
They only know how to promote being a seal though i think he meant in regular civilian life they don't promote themselves in other ways they possibly have strengths and dont know it cause all the know is being a seal .
Well Said 👌🏾
I agree these guys are not his friends. If they want to act like that they are being very poor role models for all the kids that look-up to them. What a bunch of Bullies to the ones who mistreated Mr. Ballen. That brings shame on them. It's not Mr. Ballen's fault that he got hurt. Any one of them is just one injury away from their career ending too, so they're no better than him. That actually disapoints me that they would act like that to one of their "Brothers." They may have died for him at the time not because he was their brother but because their ego would not let a man be left behind. Whatever works in the field I guess but very disapointing behavior.
@@samamsterdam4301its an obviously toxic community
@@RT-qz5ci I was about to post that they were toxic right before I read your comment. I live near Bragg, father was a 23 yr vet, brother 22 yr vet, I served as well and MANY of my neighbors and friends served.
I say all that to say, IMO the SF community in general is very toxic. Yes there are some really greats guys that belong to the community but as a whole damn they can be insufferable at times.
Damn that’s crazy! Leaving a brother in the wind like that after he’s been retired. Mr. Ballen is an awesome dude. Hopefully those “bro’s” of his will shit out their heads and realize they were wrong.
So you want them to change the code they've lived by for the last 60 years, and do things your way. Sound about right? What you think is right for SEALS should be the standard for them.
I'll tell you what. Join the Navy, make it through SEAL training, and join the teams. That way you will have some credibility. Then you can tell them what you think, and so them the error of their ways.
How does that sound? I hope you do it. Because I already know what will happen when you do.
@@georgechristian3902 butthurt much?
@@tabbychan516 Not really. I only use it in the way nature intended. Just out of curiosity, how are the stretch marks on your lips.
Georgechristian3902 yep you are a sensitive child and your option is meaningless. Try growing up and learning how to be a better person
@@georgechristian3902 Lol! Good one.
The SEAL community needs to do a better job of helping their own find jobs after the military instead of throwing hate at someone who actually made an effort.
First of all, I take issue with what you said. Mr.Ballen would be able to use all of the VA benefits. He would receive psychological counseling medical counseling and receive a service connection disability for whatever harmed him during his tours of duty. There is also social services that help all veterans receive job counseling. So what you’re saying is because you are not versed in the facts of what’s available for disabled veterans.
I've been subbed to you for your storytelling for so long and had no idea that you went through this. I'm so sorry that you had to experience that. Your storytelling community adore you. I remember when you were moving across country and were apologizing for not being able to do your regular schedule and everyone told you that we would be there for you whenever you could get back to it.😊
He's the type of person I respect most; the person who owns his own shit and doesn't blame others or make themselves out to be a victim. I don't know him personally but he seems like a really great person
Hes the kinda guy you could trust with your dog fr
this guy doesn't deserve to be kicked out of that community especially when it's so hard to get in. He's clearly a decent enough person. You can tell when someone has that fury or anger inside of them and he just doesn't have that.
He defends them despite the hate they've shown him. Better man than I am for sure, they can go fock themselves.
Without standards and the walled garden, the community doesn't exist
@@X9523-z3v well if the community standards are to be a piece of sh*t then fuck that community and we need to dismantle it, just like we did with the SS
@@X9523-z3vlol tell that to all the movie, media, and video game seals. Bunch of fucking dorks. Mr. Ballen is THE real one
I agree 100%. I don’t get it. He’s not beating that seal drum like the other guys. Most all his videos are about scary murders and all that kind of stuff leave the guy alone
Bro the SEALS promote themselves as being SEALS so much that it's a running joke. Mr Ballen is being extremely gracious regarding their modesty here. He was actually pretty tame in that respect....I mean hell, the guy hasn't even written a novel or associated screenplay about himself 😂
@roachfan243well you kinda have to be a sociopath to get through it from what I heard
Or lied about killing someone they didn't and make money from it...... I'm looking at you Rob!
Writing the book even before joining bud/s goes hard
@roachfan243and always starts with "this book isn't about me... it is about yada yada yada"
@@firesidecookieMost underrated comment for this video. I have a TON of respect for SEALs, but Rob’s story doesn’t add up!
Don Shipley said you were legit, good enough for any man standing
They are so selective on who is allowed to advertise being a SEAL. Never see any complaints or problems with Jocko Willink. He makes tons of money off of it. Books, gym stuff. What of that? We love Mr. Ballen
As a mother of 2 kids about his age…this breaks my heart for him. Makes me want to give him a hug and feed him comfort food (I’m southern, it’s what we do lol).
I thank you for your service, John and I hope that some day THEY will reach out to YOU and make you feel like family again.
Much love from this mama bear in NC.
Mr. Ballen thank you for your service. I enjoy your story telling and your journey from a small town to serving our country and story telling.
Paris (France) January 9, 2024
You are appreciated ... over the world ❤
Your way to tell stories is so breathtaking. And your whole body participates to the narrative. It is great !
As a french person loving litterature, it is an immense pleasure each time to listen and to "watch" your stories, we see in our mind what you relate. It is great, great, great !
Your wife choosed the right man !!!
All the best to you.
So sad, I find we can not escape play ground scenarios in adult life, not everyone matures on the inside. There are cleeks everywhere and attempting to keep everyone "happy and sweet" leads to burn out and loss of self, been there. You've done well by showing humility.
its human nature what are you gonna do about it
Cleeks? You mean Cliques?
@@arthurmorgan7086 😂Thank you 👍
@@theapocalexthat’s a pretty poor argument tbh
MrBallen is the only "celebrity" I would defend on a personal base of character. He just seems like a genuine and humble individual. He by no means ever represented himself and former career in a selfish manner or in a way that would make the seals look bad. I'm glad he is centered enough to move past the hate and not only heal but thrive. He didn't deserve any of the negativity. Keep on being your awesome self mrballen.
He battles with addiction. He has been open about that.
This is a greatly worded comment!! I would also defend his character!!
John, you have credited something so special. Being a Seal doesn't make you, you. You make who you are and that is something very special. 💖💖
The coolest thing about Ballen is that even though being a SEAL did shape a lot of what he became as a person, he steadfastly refuses to let it define him completely! 😎💪🍻
Bro I’m an 11 yr Navy vet. To hear this guy talk about the sadness he felt losing his community real hit hard.
I love Ballen ghost stories
I've lost all respect for ANY navy that says anything bad about this man... it REALLY shows who they are, and its disgusting
Don't cry too hard. Every SEAL knows from day one that if they start taking team business into the public eye, a lot of the people who once called them brother will cut ties. He knew exactly what their reaction would be. But he did it anyway.
@christian3902 Which is again the absurd part of the whole thing. The whole hush hush stuff is dumb. At the end of the days he's doing much better without his "brothers".
@@partydowntown Want to know what's really absurd. A simp like you who has never had anything to do with the military in general and SEALS in particular, assuming that you know more about it than I learned during my 25 year career.
Want to know what is not only dumb, but patently idiotic. You saying all that hush hush stuff is dumb, when you don't even know what it is. Have you ever held a security clearance? Obviously not. If you had ever held a Top Secret clearance, like all SEALS do, you would know what the hush hush information is, and why it needs to stay that way.
Here is a little something for that hollow bone between your ears. A lot of that dumb stuff is kept hush hush because if it ever got out it would be a death sentence for anywhere from one to who knows how many people who had risked their lives getting that information and giving it to us. And then there is that dumb "national security" data and other stuff our government doesn't want our enemies to know about.
Here is something no SEAL has ever said "I'm better off without my brothers." You couldn't torture that comment out of any SEAL.
So why don't you stop insulting that brotherhood, and embarrassing yourself by commenting on things you have absolutely no knowledge of. If you talk about something you actually know, you might not sound as idiotic as you do here.
@@partydowntown he absolutely is
Salute this Man. He passed and earned his trident just as they all did. Everyone has a story to tell, from their perspective or the permission of others. We can't pick and choose or approve which of them tells their story. They didn't say he's lying, they're mad because he told his truth...that's wild and basically jealousy.
Much respect to all 💯
The only truth is THE TRUTH. There is no "his truth", my truth, or your truth.
@@carbonking53 Make an actual point.
@@JBS2018😂😂😂😂
@carbonking53 There are two sides to every story and then there is The Truth.
Don Shipley supports
"Mr Ballen" carrer move. Good enough for me. Sounds like Jealousy from former Seals and SF Community.
It's very sad because every time I watch you tell amazing stories I give all working seals a small prayer hoping they are okay. Sad that they turned on you, I think you are an amazing story giver. Hopefully, they will lose whatever ego problems and allow you back where you belong. Your not doing them bad at all, if anything they should realize your a bright light in a dark world. I thank you for that.
I have adored this guy for a while now. Humble,kind,well adjusted,compassionate, GREAT STORYTELLER------I could go on and on !!!! We love you here in St. Louis, God Bless !!!
I’ve never seen the videos he posted about being a seal, but the way he takes responsibility and understands why they did what they did, I’d think they would probably be chillin especially with what they have been through together. But maybe not I haven’t seen the old vids. Also, you guys are fantastic interviewers. The entire interview was entertaining start to finish, very well done
John, I can kind of see both sides a little. I know and understand how deeply the community feels. But I see also selfishness and unforgiveness on their side. I really don't see your trespass as a deep injury to them at all. You have very much made the people who love the Seals anonymously as citizens, love the Seal teams more because we also see the human personal side of you as a Navy Seal. You give them a face even like Marcus Lutrell. Just the same as you were both injured in battle and had to leave. Your situation was with lesser injuries but no one is counting. Your honor is not Blemished! Your a great guy and we will always be fans of yours as well as the teams. I thank all of you for your self sacrifice and diligence and rediness. And your America's great story teller and we can't do without that can we? Thank you for sharing this part of your story. We have a much better picture of you now. It doesn't have acne haha. Looking forward to more stories!!!!
Mr. Ballen tells the best story of all, his own. Fascinating guy.
Dudes so humble, I’ve listen to maybe 100 of his stories and had no idea he was a SEAL.
Unheard of
I think he only mentioned it like once or twice in his strange, dark, mysterious series - and only in passing!
Maybe he's humble because his career was basically nothing. Listen to his podcast on Shawn Ryan, he basically got in and got out
@@KainsAddictionhow’d your SEAL career go?
@@Lorey11 Hur hur hurr. Doesn't change my point at all.
Kainsaddiction your point doesn’t have any meaning
Listening to MrBallen really helped me to get through the major depression I felt getting of of the military and then seeing us mess up leaving Afghanistan. He talked about his troubles, but didn’t harp on them and the stories helped me keep my mind off of something else. I appreciate him and am a huge fan. I think he found a new community.
I’m literally caught up on every single ballen story to date. “Patiently” waiting for the next one. In fact I can confidently say I’ve seen all AT LEAST TWICE? AT LEAST!!
All boils down to jealousy imo. It's not as if Mr Ballen was personally saying yeah I'm this I'm that, calling anyone out personally, putting them in danger or talking about secret missions he was just explaining his own personal experiences of what he experienced as a Navy Seal & why he left. No reason for the Navy Seal community to literally bombard Mr Ballen with hatred & effectively banish him. I think that is pathetic behaviour
Nah, it’s not jealousy. It’s a standard. You don’t use your time in service for personal gain after.You don’t exploit your “story” for profit. This isn’t even just a SEAL thing. Any combat arms unit will look at you as a grifting, self-serving shit bag. The likes of Tim Kennedy are beloved by people who never did anything, hated by those who did.
Myself included. Now knowing that Mr Ballen whored out his service I’ll probably never watch another video of his.
Thanks for saying exactly what Mr Ballen already said. Not sure why you felt the need to repeat his exact words. We all watched the video and understand what it was about.
@@davidbiagi2932 it was clearly needed since people are in the comments saying “it’s just jealousy “. After Mr Ballen explained it so clearly and concisely. So are you ready to start shitting on OP here for missing the entire conversation, or bitch about me clarifying? Take your pick.
its not jealousy, you idiot. Its breaking a code of honor
This ☝🏾💯💯💯💯💯💯
Don Shipley looks up Mr Ballen's class number weekly. Humble is an understatement.
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Shipley went in on him ??
Other than the billboards around Austin, I'm just learning his story
@@diviningrod2671people have contacted Don to verify John. Don says, “Yes, he’s the real deal!”
Class number doesn't mean anything other than when you went through BUDS, and the other guys who went through it in the same class. So he didn't do anything other than what every other SEAL has done. The story of what he did, and how well he did it is in his service record. Which I don't think Shipley has access to.
@@georgechristian3902 you can FOIA someone’s service records. And yes, Don Shipley does it all the time.
If you look too closely at some of your heroes or actually get to see what’s inside, you’ll often end up disillusioned and disappointed. The truly great ones are the same person inside as outside, and never need to elevate themselves or degrade others.
@bryanpeterson1334. SEALS are always the same people regardless of where they are. And there are two words that rarely go together they are "SEALS" and "disappointed." As far as I know you might be the first person in history to say they are disappointed with SEALS. That's not a badge of honor, it's actually a stain on your character. But I think they can handle you being disappointed in them without losing their edge.
MrBallen I have enjoyed your channel for a long time, and always found you to be very modest about your service to our country. Your service is certainly appreciated and should be celebrated. Especially given wounds you suffered for your country. I am sad to hear that you have a rift with your former teammates, and hope that in time those wounds will heal.
That attitude is changing as more and more special operators tell their stories.
More and more special operators? Theres like maybe 2 guys from delta and all they ever talk about is shooting guns.
The seals are so overblown and they made it that way. Now they’re upset.
I beg to differ.
discovered him on UA-cam in 2020.... appreciative of him for good ole storytelling...
My bestie’s husband is career Navy. Said the Seal Teams often acted like arrogant jerks to other NAVY personnel. He’s based out of Norfolk.
I feel bad for this guy.
dshepherd107. I'm retired Navy and have lived in Virginia Beach for 33 years. There are no SEALS on the Norfolk base, or anywhere near it. The even number teams are based at Little Creek Amphibious base. And DEVGRU is on Dam Neck. I've never seen or heard of any SEAL acting like arrogant jerks around anyone except other SEALS. I retired from Dam Neck. And I've lived about 5 miles from the base since 1992. Like me these guys have been living in neighborhoods around here for decades. And I would be shocked if even one out of a hundred people around here know it. Half of them don't even believe SEAL Team Six actually exists. And many of the people have been here longer than me. Some have lived here their entire life. I submit this as living proof that SEALS dont go running around and telling everyone they are SEALS.
@@georgechristian3902i had no idea Virginia Beach was such a military spot! I was at hotel that’s right next to Neptune Statue on the top floor (35th I think) and I heard that all kinds of jet fighters fly all the time and I sat on my balcony hoping to see one? There were non for two days I was there lol it was also around Veterans Day..
You never served and you definitely weren’t in Virginia Beach
@@williamstocker584 Why don't you come to Upton Estates in VB and prove I'm not here. Here's some advice for your health. You'd better be real careful, or you'll find me. Now, change your tampon, and go back to practicing your pronouns.
@@georgechristian3902- Former Coronado resident here…I’ve known many SEALs…some are easy going, some are more intense, but I’ve NEVER heard one talk/brag about his job.
First time ever seeing this channel. I enjoy Mr. Ballen. But you guys interviewing him are awesome. No cutting off the guest, not talking more than the guest, letting him do exactly what you want him to do…talk & tell stories.
Great job interviewers! You know how to perform!
Wow. I've known Mr Ballen from his story channel and I knew he was a SEAL at one time, but this is all new to me. Very honest and vulnerable interview. I've always liked his channel but have even more respect for him now.
Great interview. You can see you two just hangin on to his every word like you watch his videos. Eyes all glossed over…
The ego SEALS have is absolutely massive. They are willing to throw their “brothers” under the boss if u hurt their ego in any sort of way. The whole “we dont speak about what we do because we are too special to show how special we are”. Its just corny
And people wonder why other people see a Civil War in America as not totally impossible, when petty shit like this happens amongst "men of arms". You cannot really expect the Chain of Command to hold when shit really hits the fan at home...
In case you weren't aware, it's 'under the bus' not under the boss
"It's just corny" You know exactly DICK about anything you're making an ass of yourself trying to talk about.
Dodgers-sw2uk. Nobody is getting thrown under the bus here. They haven't put out a hit, or wished him any ill. It's just that some of them have sort of excommunicated him. And nobody would ever have known about it if Ballen hadn't told the world. He took SEAL business into the civilian realm. And that's something you just don't do. Doing that caused a lot more SEALS to excommunicate him. Than he had already isolated for talking about being a SEAL. And he knew all of this before he did it. So it didn't come as a surprise.
@@mrconfusion87 Your name is remarkably accurate for you. What could you possibly know about this subject. And just to rationalize the obvious for you. These men whom you think don't have it together, have done one hell of a job over the last 20 years proving that assumption false.
I'm subscribed to his channel and really enjoy his content. He's a student of life and seems down to earth. His heart is in the right place.
He's the most soft spoken and humble team member I've heard speak. Props
Mr B,
Man we with you bro...
Solid good dude!!! Mad respect and love man!!!
MrBallen, please enjoy and be proud of your success that millions of your listeners and viewer appreciate. Your hard work and your talents paid off and that’s all that counts. The people who sent you disapproving messages will change. They either will find their own success or will acquire wisdom through years. And you MrBallen have nothing to do with negativity of naysayers. Live your life at fullest as you bring so much good into the society. Thank you for your service and for the inspiration!
I, like so many others joined the Ballen bandwagon years ago and casually posted something about Quincy, which got an immediate and sincere reply from John. He is the real deal, friendly, humble and genuine. A wonderful man and an inspiration to us all.
“Two roads diverged … you took the one less traveled by… and that has made all the difference.” Robert Frost
People come and go in life. It is natural. Don’t let their position affect you. You are Greatly Respected and Loved!
That interview broke my heart. My family LOVES you Mr,Ballen !!!! I am so sorry you had to experience that. I appreciate and thank you for your service as well as all our soldiers and veterans. I have been following you for years and I can honestly say I've seen you become more and more humble as the years go by. There is nothing wrong with being proud of yourself especially when you were a part of something so unique and amazing ! So please don't beat yourself up so much about it. I think most of us were a little cocky especially if we had done things your average person hasn't. You are a good man raising a beautiful family, be proud and stay blessed Mr. Ballen.
I am so sorry that you had to go through that , I am glad that you stuck it out and made something good come from it !!
The day my son was medically discharged was a genuinely heartbreaking moment. The look in his eyes, the timber of his voice and the look in his face broke my heart. He looked out of the window with such sadness and with a look of what do I do now. After a tour in kosovo, 4 tours in iraq his ptsd was so bad he moved deep into PA.
It's unfortunate but the personality type that is capable of performing extreme things, also reacts in extreme ways. I had several SEALs as clients and the psychology there is different, it's a whole different way of seeing and moving through the world and it also sees many things as absolutes. I didn't even work in psych, just PT but I had to treat them differently and work with them differently, because of the mindset. I'm so sorry that these men with whom you've shared blood and faced the most terrifying things in the dark, that they've turned on you like that. I can see how that would cause you to uproot and move. I really love your story telling. You're good at it and I hope you continue and achieve more success.
Yeah, sorry to hear he faced such hate. Goes to show that they weren't your real "brothers" in arms. A real brother wouldn't make you feel so shitty, even if he personally disagreed with what you were doing. IMHO, the SEALs gaining public fame was inevitable once the days of social media dawned.
Or maybe the true “silent professionals” are sick of former members who stop being silent?
Just a thought…
Sure, they can be sick of it - I can get behind that. I'm simply saying that given the choices the more public figures made, the others', who at one point were teammates of their's could have been more empathetic and resort less to straight up hate so easily. @@A2K.556
@@A2K.556maybe, but the seals brought that on themselves. They really really dug into the fame. It’s not like there’s 1 or 2 guys out there, it’s like par for the course for that entire community. I don’t ever see delta doing that. The 2 people i know of that were in delta don’t even wear their special forces tabs or anything, and their linkedin only says special operations community and the timeframe they were there. Seal community brought this on themsleves.
@@billbillson5082 You’re right that far fewer Delta and Green Berets go public and the Navy leaned heavily into the PR game with the SEALs as their poster child.
But to be fair, there are literally tens of thousands of retired SEALs. A few dozen of them are public. So it’s really not that common in the grand scheme of things.
@@A2K.556 "true silent professionals"......I take it you've never actually talked to anyone who's been in SF, none of them are particularly "silent" about it......they make sure to remind you regularly.
Thank you for your willingness to share this ... telling your story can really help others. It gives hope and support!
Thank you for your honesty about all the changes and how difficult it is transitioning and about the reality of how things can be. My family is military and thank you for serving then and now. My mom started listening to you so I got interested.❤❤
so painful. i hope one day the others will be ok re the seal stuff. if they could see how it makes us appreciate what they go thru better. cuz they don't talk, we really don't have a clue what all goes on.
A bunch of tough guys got their feelings hurt because this man worked to improve his and others’ lives.
Don Shipley verified Mr. Balllen and said keep up the good work..... That's good enough for me
FACTS!
That was an EXCELLENT snippet of an interview!
I had the same experience as a Fire Fighter. I got injured on the job and was on light duty before being medically retired. Not one "brother" gave a shit about me or ever reached out when I left. People suck.
Hold your head up Mr. Ballen! I'm an airforce veteran, I'm part of a career field group. Every branch from the lowest man to the badest self proclaimed tough guy winds up up praying what we brought to the fight shows up soon! Tell your story, tell stories other want you too. Roll on big dog, dont let anyone tell you "shut up stay on the porch"
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Glad you support him !
Combat arms we tend to eat our own, Seals can be the biggest divas, and they loveee love love the spotlight and attention. But hey, somebodys gotta give the Call of duty basement operators something to look up too. Love ya brother, keep being great.
SEALS are divas? Maybe that’s the problem🤣🤣
Ive been in the army for 15 years and respect the hell out of you for building something original. I hope you never stop telling stories and dont let the haters get to you.
You found your soulmate job, loving it. The only storyteller on YT I can watch. Never quit YT.
That was really fascinating. Thank you. I’ve only ever seen Mr B’s current content so I wasn’t even aware there was another side of him.
The charity is a really wonderful thing.
I hope perhaps some of the most valued old friends see this and reach out. It’s sad to lose important connections over something silly.
Sounds like dude pretty much owned the fact that he crossed a known line with his brothers. I even sensed some regret on his part. He sounds like a grown ass man moving on from his mistakes. Love his channel and I respect him even more after seeing this.
MrBallen went from one success to another. It sounds like those who’re upset, haven’t made it big yelling that they’re frog men to everyone around them. I hope he continues to succeed, because nothing feels better than seeing the deserved succeed.
The Navy SEALS community treating themselves like they're some sort of secret society is friggin hilarious
Spoken like someone who got turned down by the navy for obesity. If it’s such an easy and non-selective group how come you aren’t one?
Well, according o some stories part of them are, a war criminal secret society.
@@IAN0351 That's not even what they said. They never said it was easy, its just hilarious how they act. So why hurl the fat insult around? I would think a military man would have more respect and dignity then that. Instead you're acting like a schoolyard kid.
I have no doubt joining the Seals is difficult and not many could do it. I know I sure couldn't given my disabilities, but I would expect someone who serves to be a mature adult, not someone who attacks random internet users with childish insults.
Lol not ALL human beings can make it through SEAL training. Please tell me how it’s not? Around 70-85% of all who try, fail out. So yeah they’re the 20%….members only
the ones that are struggling will most likely remove you. That's what. Maybe even your damn family. Cause some of them remove THEMSELVES. SO you're going to go and mess with them and now you're on their mind. Go and try it. It's the same idea as messing with thugs who were born with nothing and no parents. There is a reason why those guys will attack and remove you without thinking. Cause they are borderline ready to log out of this world for good. That is what. Take the risk yourself but remember to stay away from friends and family before you are dumb enough to mess with people that has nothing to lose. People who experience high level things and a lot of rushes deeal with similar things. Same with athletes and people who make a lot of money. They have VERY high highs and low lows and if you mess when they during a very low period of life. YOU ARE GONE. That's how most people die and that's why so many cops and thugs are scared of crazy people. We call people crazy cause some are. Other people have experienced enough life and you want to go and trigger them? Go right ahead. It's not just seals it's any military guy that operated or just people who have gone though bad situations. Why on earth would you go and mess with people like that? @user-vd2bf2di9i
Wow! Thanks for sharing! Sorry for that pain. I am glad you were able to reconcile that and move past it (them). I am not military, but as an outsider, it seems that all branches run in a herd mentality. When someone breaks from the herd and doesn’t get eaten, there may be a bit of jealousy there. After depending upon a group for most of their adult life (with your life), breaking away from that is foreign and frowned upon, intensely.
You found yourself and created something (from your heart) amazing. It may not be “you”, it is more than likely their own insecurities knowing that they will follow a traditional path post active duty.
We need all these operators to tell their stories when they are able. Seriously. They are closer to the reality than anyone. The interview with Kyle Morgan when he was only 44 days out of Delta Force is eye opening.
If I were to meet John I would probably keep yawning and fall asleep because I'm so used to listening to him when I sleep 😂
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Real
Why aren't other former SEALs who have written books and done appearances getting this kind of grief?
Because they pick and choose who they want to be with and around so I guess you can call it jealousy.
He said in the interview that pretty much any SEAL who has gone public experiences some level of this hate.
Keep doing your thing, bro!
I have so much respect for anybody that can say, "ya know what? I did so & so, and I shouldn't have. And these guys are justified in being upset." That's commendable, my friend.
Realizing that you were loyal to an organization, company or person that stabs you in the back is such a brutal betrayal. I am experiencing that now and it is very emotionally and psychologically painful. It is destructive when what you think is your community turns its back on you, it is very difficult to comprehend and move on. I am very appreciative of Mr. Ballen's service to his country. He seems like a very genuine and caring person. He deserves all of is success. I am happy for him and his family that he found another path in life. Active military and veterans should show respect to each other. I thought honor was very important to Navy Seals. It is apparent that some of them do not know what honor means.
As someone who worked along side several groups in the special operations community, it was pretty well known amongst our guys that seals liked to sniff their own farts and were overall unpleasant to work with so this is nothing surprising to me. SF guys were always chill and fun to work with. Just my experience
They do that to protect others. SEAL farts have superpowers guys like you couldn't handle.
As a former service member and literally a bottom of the totem pole port dog in the Air Force. I had friends in the combat controller pipeline. Which is very similar to seals, what all John went through to even do his seven years and two deployments. Most men could never do, the training itself is freaking cut throat and John B. Not only succeeded in that but Took a fucking grenade to the body with shrapnel all inside him. I am 40 years old and youtube is my only social media. But I respect all he's done and does every week. His content is second to none, not to mention he's just a good person. It's bullshit that the seals are such a brother hood, but turn on someone just trying to make it as a civilian in the manner he's taken. Especially when his first move was to set up former elite operators with every day jobs. So what if he promoted himself. Who the hell doesn't this day in time.
Its called humility, something most SF guys lack. But it's also part of the territory of being the best. Staying humble and being the best = mr ballen = true greatness. Good shit.
True! Though some of the greatest ever warriors (the Audie Murphys, Leo Majors of the world) downplayed their combat exploits! Simo Hayha (the world's greatest sniper) treated his old combat exploits in a rather ho hum way as well!
Only the best of us, thank you Mr.Ballan
Love your channel, didn’t know you were a Navy Seal and while it sucks the backlash hit, you’re carrying yourself well- and we your fans really appreciate it.
“Silent professionalism” that’s a good phrase btw- I’m trying to follow that as well.
Mr Ballen has his own community now ❤ and we appreciate John tremendously!
It's crazy how once your out they turn on you. I think it's needed for the active to keep the mindset . But it hurts
We're talking about a group of people who gave up their self athority in the name of being muscle for a known abusive government. Their opinions have to be taken in the scope of the damage they've done and the damage they've had done to them
I know two SEALS - there isn't a single conversation, no matter what the topic, where they bring up their service. I have a feeling they're just jealous that he was getting attention and they weren't..
yea. I wasn't a SEAL but I only talk about service stuff with close friends and family. If it is strangers I avoid the topic all together because there are so many liars and bs artists.
@@MrWolynskiid be more likely to believe that it is a stock photo on a troll account
People who Mock you are Jealous, Seal or Civilian. You got out of that life and did your thing Sir.
Just so sad, no wonder John was so depressed. But he kept moving forward an we got Mr Ballen.