Can You Get a Loose Vagina Because of Too Much Sex? ft. Mama Doctor Jones
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
- Today, our guest is doctor Danielle Jones. Doctor Danielle Jones, widely known as mama doctor Jones. Across social media with over 2,000,000 followers across multiple platforms, including UA-cam, TikTok, Instagram, and Twitch It's a wonderful wealth of information about obstetrics and gynecology. She has dedicated much of her time to educating the general public on issues related to women's health. She's a huge advocate of improving maternal outcomes with pregnancy.
Today, we talked about what happens when you have sex. Does that cause loosening of the vagina. Can you have sex during your period? And what happens with your gastrointestinal system during your period causing you to have looser stools? We also discuss vulvar and vaginal hygiene, fibroids, and endometriosis, and she shares with us a health hack on how to remove stays in your underwear that you get from menses.
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▶️Chapters:
00:00:00 - Intro and Guest Introduction
00:00:46 - Vaginal Health Discussion
00:01:25 - Inspirational Acknowledgment
00:02:01 - Vaginal Health Myths
00:03:04 - Pelvic Floor and Pregnancy
00:04:29 - Pregnancy Concerns
00:05:11 - Orgasm Myths in Pregnancy
00:07:03 - Female Sexual Experience
00:09:13 - Vulnerability in Sex
00:10:02 - First-Time Sex Advice
00:12:35 - Sexual Communication
00:13:51 - Pornography's Impact
00:16:32 - Vaginal Anatomy Myths
00:19:06 - Endometriosis Insights
00:21:17 - Women's Health Issues
00:24:34 - Libido Discussion
00:26:17 - Menstruation and Health
00:29:22 - Sex and Menstruation
00:30:01 - Vaginal Hygiene Tips
00:33:12 - Bacterial Vaginosis Management
00:35:03 - Rapid Question Round
00:36:09 - Conclusion and Support
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The thing I like about this is that men need to know more about women's issues and women need to know more about men's issues. We all need more education is this colab is great for everyone. Keep it up Rena
You are absolutely right ❤
Women find it “creepy” when men express too much curiosity about the functioning of women’s bodies. If you doubt me, try to find videos on UA-cam that shows latching (or any view of the nipple) during breastfeeding. The reason this is important is that if you don’t have breasts, you can’t understand breastfeeding without actually seeing it. This is just one example.
@@wpatrickw2012 if the relationship is caring and respectful, not at all. I was glad when my parnter was curious to know how I feel appreciating the differences, complications and the beauty of it.
Wow it’s almost like women aren’t a hivemind and have different opinions on different things. Crazy!
Wow it’s almost like women aren’t a hivemind and have different opinions on different things. Crazy!
Hearing MDJ mention asexuality and describing it so accurately is so heartening
As someone who is asexual, I think you did a good job. It is a very complicated sexuality, where in sub people actually do have libido, or some kind of sex drive, they just don't find anybody sexually attractive. Which can be very frustrating for them. But it definitely tends to, from my own experience and the experience it's of people I've talked to anyways, more common to be lower for us then for someone who isn't asexual
I have to say, I really liked the discussion of sexual communication. As a man, I do feel a lot of the time that the women I am with think I should just be good to go whenever because all a man needs is visual stimulation or touching, but oh boy do I get stuck in my own head all the time. Talking about stuff beforehand has always, always, led to my best sexual encounters. I really appreciate you guys talking about the fact that men also struggle with perfromance anxiety and needing more than just visual stimulation.
Great video!
I had many porn discussions with both my kids. But I also created a safe and healthy space to openly talk about anatomy & biology years before they got to that age. But talking about porn is so necessary now with the ease of access to it. Making sure they understand what is legal, as well as respectful, and the expectations between porn & real life, was always important to me.
how old were they when you discussed it with them? hearing this discussion about porn makes me wonder if i should have a conversation about it with my brother because he’s at that age (15) where he’s curious 🥲. we’ve talked about reproductive health and stuff he’s curious about but not porn. I usually have to discuss stuff like that with him because my parents are both traditional who never gave us any sort of talk and i don’t want that for him
@@twocathome399 he's definitely at the age where he's in need of a discussion. From what I've heard most boys discover porn as young as 10, and ideally you'd want to warn them before they discover it.
Such a great conversation, loaded with great information and education! Thank you, Dr. Rena and your awesome guest for this excellent discussion.
I myself am aroace and I loved that us ace peeps got a mention in the video! I did however want to add a small thing, ace people can very much experience libido. This however is separate from attraction. There certainly are plenty of asexual and allosexual(meaning someone who does experience sexual attraction, for those that didn't know) who may not experience libido, but there are also plenty of ace people who do experience libido and are still very much ace and valid.
that's all I wanted to add, great video! :)
Love this collab, hope to see more in the future, thank you ladies
I just started pelvic floor therapy. As a nurse I found all the information most fascinating. As a patient I'm excited about the help it's going to provide.
Pelvic floor therapy should be a standard part of postpartum care.
Look into Kegelbell
I have so much appreciation for you both using inclusive language! there are still a LOT of people in the medical community who either don't think to or don't care to, for whatever reason. I know it's such a small thing, but hearing people use it means so much to me. I don't know about other trans people, but I personally always notice, and it warms my heart. thank you both so much ❤❤
Thanks for pointing it out but if they don't they get slammed by fools in the comments. The reason i am thanking you is if they acknowledge trans I'm unfollowing.
I find Rena's content fascinating. It does not surprise me that many of her followers are males. These are the conversations that most men cannot have in our culture.
When my eldest niece had her first period the first people to talk to her about it with me and her father. Don't know how it skipped my sister because like she knew first but we were the ones that talk to her first. I've always been of the mind frame if you're going to want to beat it up you may as well learn about it
Yup. The more u know 😊
You keep it pretty, wild and free by loving and respecting it!
Wow, this comment makes me want to unsubscribe. lol
@@elgonzo5, you probably should unsubscribe if you are easily offended.
What a great discussion, well done Docs
23:39... The comment about pain and women's conditions is spot-on and made me cry. Except for the 3-6mo after i had my babies, my period was always unbearable, unpredictable and a huge source of stress and anxiety. I *hate* that the only guaranteed solution was a hysterectomy. I guarandamntee that if the only solution to chronic penis pain was to remove it, there would be study after study, unlimited funding and multiple medical advances in the treatment of chronic penis pain. 🤬
You obviously have never tried to get treatment for chronic penis pain.
I am not watching this right now because im at work, but I am agreeing with the title. It absolutely is magical. Its so magical, we kill for it, not even considering all of what it does for procreation.
I’ve waited for this collab for the longest time 🎉
It also makes no logical sense that women that have sex with multiple partners are more loose than women that only have one partner. That woman with the one partner may be having just as much sex as the woman with many partners so therefore their vaginas should both be loose. If sex made vaginas loose then it shouldn’t matter if it’s the same penis or not.
No guy has ever been able to give me a logical answer to this. Obviously why.
It's obvious from these comments the people didn't watch the video or those who did and still want to believe their genitals defy physics.
I found you through MJD's video, looking forward to more great information! Happy to be a new subscriber
Love this channel. Wish something like this was available 40 + years ago
There was, it was on TV late at night with this elderly woman named Sue Johanson who had a show called Talk Sex.
Thank you ladies for the information on such topics while having fun doing it.
What's funny is men will say this if a woman has had "too many" sexual partners, but they 100% don't say it about someone they've had sex with hundreds of times throughout a relationship 😆 If that were the case I would be _so_ screwed. I'm not going to go into detail, but I've been with my partner for several years & we _still_ can't just have spontaneous sex because our ~organs~ are vastly different sizes.
Yes Dr she has done a remarkable job
Epic vid thank you Dr Rena😀😘😍
“Is quite magical.”
Yes, .. I concur!🤔🤗👈🏾
That was really interesting! Thank you so much for this content. 💗
I wasn't diagnosed with endometriosis until i was having a hysterectomy fo yo heavy bleeding. My GYN felt sure that my issue was from scar tissue from my c section znd thinning of my uterine wall. When she opened me up and found my abdominal cavity was full of blood and endometriosis everywhere that she realized her initial diagnosis was wrong. The plan was for her just to take my uterus, not my ovaries, but when she got in there, she made an executive decision (exactly what she told my parents while i was in the PACU) to go ahead and take my ovaries as well, because the endometriosis was all over them as well & id be back in 6 months to have them removed
Amazing collab! 👏🏼
Beautiful Drs & Great Information
Thanks great show docs.
Love it. You two should collaborate regularly.
Great Job, Rena!! 👏👏👏👏
Thanks for the endometriosis talk! It runs in my family and I highly suspect I have it, and I didn't know it could correlate with a retroverted uterus, which I have- so, very interesting stuff
Betty White said that "they" can take a pounding.
Love the collaboration between the two of you since there are different audiences involved. Hope to see you together again in the future. Loved the info about the meat tenderizer!
Great interview.
I’ve been waiting for this crossover!!!!!!
Very informative video well done 👏
Great talk !
great info keep it coming
Brilliant collaboration! I'd love to see more. Both of you have a different audience, so the collab's help each/all sex to understand each other. Danielle, my mum was extremely open with us. As we grew through puberty we were able to ask any question. However, there were things that she didn't tell us. Maybe it had to do with not understanding herself.. Probably. I agree with your answer: I too wish I'd felt more comfortable talking with my partners. I didn't get it until I was in my mid 30's....
Thank you both for your open, relaxed, respectful communication style's. 🙏
Great pod cast
Nice info!
Coming from MDJ's channel 🎉 loving your channel!
I love that I was subscribed to both before this collab happened. I must be doing something right!
All right! This q&a is good. 🙌🤩
It's funny that guys are so obsessed with length, when it's girth that's makes a difference.
Omg meat tenderizer! Genius! Also, is it possible that otc period pain meds are Tylenol based bc ibuprofen is contraindicated for those taking some antidepressants? (Loved this podcast! Thanks so much Dr. M & Dr. J.!)
First statement is so true,,, magical!!
Very useful information
So so so good! Thank you❤
MDJ was my inspiration for going into Gynecology. I'm a CCMA in a GYN office and my first interest in the field came from her and then from my schooling. (:
I learned a lot here Thank You
Well done, bravo, bravo, standing O.
A very lovely and "magical" podcast. ❤Thank you both!
This is awesome 🤩
As someone who's had chronic pains since they were 12. I mostly don't know what not being in pain feels like, it feels like a dream instead of a reality.
And I've just learned to accept that. And the two thing is I want from my doctor. 1) They will never understand what it means to have chronic pain unless they do also, So I don't expect them to understand I just want them to be understanding. 2) I want doctors and nurses to not treat me like I'm a goddamn druggie.
Dislocating a joint is only a 6-7 for me. 8 is tearing up from pain alone. 9 is begging myself to become unconscious. 10 is when I pass out from pain alone.
It's just my brain, it's all an illusion... But it didn't stop that it's REAL to me.
Excellent!
Great to see you do a collab with MDJ!
Ohh, it truly is! There was never a question about it🤩
Please make this sort collaboration a regular thing
Good question you answered it for me thank you
I love both of you doctors ❤❤😻😻😘😘
Absolutely fantastic discussion ❤❤
I am glad Dr's agree it is magical
Excellent.
I am a 74 male subscriber. My wife, 73, does not want to have sex anymore. That was not a problem until recently, when I had to start getting testosterone injections. Now I feel like a 30-year-old that is causing serious problems in our marriage. I wish my wife would get interested in sex, but it does not seem likely. I want to stop the injection, but my doctor says if I do, it will cause other health problems. Low white and red blood cell count and hot flashes. My testicles have shriveled up and quit working.
Yeow!!
Because you're taking steroids, it's a natural side effect.
I didn't have any serious issues when I stopped testosterone replacement therapy. My testicles returned to almost their pre-therapy size. In fact, the sensation was nice as they returned to normal over several months.
My testicles were atrophied before my doctor prescribed testosterone. Throughout my taking "t" my testicles have continued to atrophy. My doctor seemed to be more concerned with my low white and red blood cell count than my testicles going away. At this point, they are all but gone.
Get a girlfriend 😅😅
Yes it is magical indeed!
Love the subject 😂
IME, school sex ed was about how not to get pregnant and how not to get an STI.
Very magical! Yes I agree!❤😂
Very informative ❤
Best two great looking women on YT today. Thank you.
Hi rena!
Another way to get blood out of underwear is to use Oxi Clean. I use the carpet cleaner spray and it works. Just spray the area (back and front) to practically soak it. Let it sit for five to ten minutes then wash in a washing machine like normal. This works for me. If after drying in the dryer I see the stain isn’t fully removed then I repeat this process and the second time it’s gone
I love the title of this video
Thanks for bringing up endometriosis. Sexy time with endo can be painful. I’m having a flair up right now. I hate it.
Will you do a video about perimenopause/menopause please??
Amen, magic!
It seems weird hear the word "miracle" come from a doctor. Good job with channel. I have learned some valuable things here.
I've been wanting to see you two get together so I'm really pleased to see this video.
To give some guide on asexuality. It's an attraction type, just like heterosexuality, homosexuality or multi-attraction spectrum sexualities. In the same way the other sexuaities can have naturally higher or lower drives, so can asexuality. Some aces are completely sex repulsed and on the other end some can be high drive. I know that then asks the question who are aces having sex with. Some people who are ace will have sex with a partner to make their partner happy (I don't mean that in a coersive way); some find attraction in other ways, such as demisexuals who need an emotional connection to be interested in someone, but there's also other ways that people may either experience attraction or connect with someone; and some people are happy to have sex without a connection just because it's there, particularly when someone is aromantic.
I do think it's important to remember that someone with no drive at all can absolutely be heterosexual or homosexual, they are attracted to people they just don't have the desire to act on it. You can also be asexual and one of the other attraction types as a preference or you can be asexual but heteroromantic for example.
Med student here, interested in OBGYN. Would love to help on a research project on boric acid effectiveness in UTIs!
Yes Yes it is magical
MEAT TENDERIZER!!? 😂 I lost it hahaha my brain went to MDJ just smashing her laundry with a meat hammer 😅
i like cold packs when im on my period and dont like hot packs even though my period is more on the painful side im curious why that is
Very Informative video! Im so sick of the man jokes about "loose" vaginas! If a woman has mulitiple babies then they get "loose". I love that Dr Rena addresses the inaccuracy of pornography. Yes Ive seen some porn videos and they used to crack me up because of how inaccurate they are.
this is amazing. i’m a sixteen and i never had sex ed and i coke to your channel as well as mdj for information. thank you!
I strongly suggest you find an adult you trust, deeply, to be able to talk about such topics. It is of the utmost importance for your future development to understand and know about your body. It will help you develop confidence in yourself, which in turn will help you to identify safe and healthy relationships from others. That in turn will help you in either agreeing or declining any sexual encounter with confidence. Which will then make you less likely to have future regrets which may impact your mental health.
All the best to you in finding someone knowledgeable you really trust.
This title prob helps draw in the males 😂. Keep it up 😉😉
I need a powerwash simulator level for these comments, yikes! So glad to have found Dr. Rena, though!
Seriously! Big yikes 😣
The menstrual disc from salt can actually be worn during sexual intercourse and make sex during the period a great option.
Isn’t it 😊👍🏽 thanks ladies … ❤
Dr Malik is correct. We as a society we are a real prude. As one of the 12% who has never had a climax.
Not even by yourself?
Orgasming, with any method, while on your period helps with moving things along a little bit. Your muscles are contracting for a moment while you orgasm, and that might help with getting some blood and tissues out a /little/ faster and /might/ help ease cramps a little.
Yes this! I’m 38 and didn’t even realize this until 4 years ago after I had my first baby. My labor was long and very painful and my nurse suggested that maybe an orgasm could help speed things along and I was baffled because I didn’t understand. Once she explained it to me it made perfect sense, and she explained it can help with your periods also. That is something I wish I knew sooner.
@@jaime4890 it's not a guarantee tho, and it might make things worse for some people. for me, it basically just moves things along a little faster for a small amount of time, i never noticed it helping cramps. but to be fair, i've never been in the mood while cramping so idk lol
Everything in Moderation and avoid to much temptation!!🇨🇦😄
12% of women have never orgasmed that strikes me as incredibly sad. I wonder why that is exactly though you guys bring up some very good points on why it might be
How much information overlap between gynecologist discipline and urologist discipline.
"The Vagina is Magical"
That actually explains a lot. Maybe why I can't get any because they are magical and we all know magic doesn't exist.
😂 "If there's a hole, there's a goal"
😂
You never going to get one, unless you're born with one. :)
See, the "12% of women have never had an orgasm" always bugs me because I totally believe it. A LOT of women simply do not a) tell you what they like, or b) know what they like. Many are out here having sex not communicating with their partner, either out of fear or shyness or ignorance. There is an entire sex-toy industry for women and it's not even stigmatized the way men's sex toys are.
a lot of that fear and shyness i believe comes from not wanting to hurt their partners feelings especially in heterosexual relationships. men often are prideful of being told that they’re perfect in bed and have great performance that telling them otherwise can shut them down. this happened to me with my ex and he didn’t want to touch me for weeks. and yes i know that’s toxic but it does produce a fear. i think it’s important for men to be more open to it and let their partner know “don’t be afraid to tell me anything that doesn’t feel right or if you want me to do something different” and mean it :/
@@twocathome399 I don't necessarily agree with "not wanting to hurt a man's feelings" part because women have no problem doing that when they want to. If a woman is worried her man is prideful at the cost of having a terrible experience, then maybe they shouldn't be together. It also smacks of bad communication (usually on her end). That's not to say some guys are dumb and can't take hints, but hints can be easily misinterpreted.
When it comes to sex a lot of women simply want a man to "get it", to know what to do without her having to say it. This is why foreplay is important, because if you can get her talking about what she wants before getting to the actual sex you stand a better chance at her admitting to what she likes or how she likes it and then good times are had by all.
If a man can't handle his girl telling him what she wants then don't have sex with him, period. If I were having sex with a woman and she was being a dead fish I'd stop and walk out (though I'm sure a lot of guys wouldn't, but I can never understand why a woman would agree to have sex with a guy who she's clearly not into).
@@julius-starknah that person was spot on…
A lot of women have had experiences where communicating about their sexual needs led to their partner getting angry and feeling inferior.
You can’t talk about what you need sexually if the conversation makes your partner insecure and angry.
@@kyleemeg2171Well in that case they should absolutely switch partners, just like if a guy communicates what he wants and she says no. If you're not sexually compatible then it's time to leave.
@@julius-stark …. Thank you for stating the obvious and adding absolutely nothing to the conversation👍🏼
🎉🎉🎉 Magical Indeed! No pun or Innuendo... intended. Remember Boys its not like Tires you can't ware it out. Try as you might.
Yes u can 🎉🎉🎉🎉
@@Marco-bg8jf that's what She Said! Ahahahahahaha
So, doctors, what should I watch out for my wife as she grow old.
Better lighting today Dr