No not surprised. Like absolutely most of it which i already won't do. We bought multiple sets of encyclopedias way back. I doaated all of them. My heavy bulky furniture is going too.
Things I no longer buy: hairspray, gel, mousse, high heels, mascara, eye shadows, harsh chemical cleaners, dryer sheets, books, cookbooks, watches, calendars, plants, outdoor furniture, I have also decided not to get another pet for now. Area rugs, carpet shampooers, extra Christmas trees/wreaths, and purses. Things I've upgraded, spend more money on: Bed linens, quality food, mattresses.
You're right to mention the seasons of life. When I was working in an office, I bought more shoes, jewelry and fancy clothes. Now that I'm retired, my expenses are almost non-existent in those categories. I also began borrowing things instead of buying when it makes sense. Thank you for a great video, once again.❤
Thank you for the list , i agree with most , but strongly disagree with not owning sunglasses . Walk , no run or drive to your nearest store to get some ! Our opthamologist warns of eatly cataracts from not shielding eyes . While you are there buy some sunscreen too 👍 Looking forward to your next video .
I agree with most of the things on the list. My only exception is theme park passes. My daughter and I go to KNott's Berry Farm, Universal Studios Hollywood, and Disneyland/DCA. For us, it's worth it because we go often enough and for us, it pays off within 3 trips. I usually take snacks and drinks with us, so we only buy the main meal, so we dont normally spend more than $20/$30 on food when we go.
I think the appeal is that it seems like it would be easier to coordinate decor that is premade. But I agree, personal touches are my preference too! ❤️
My pastor talks about evaluating why we do what we do in our lives. Granted, he is mainly talking about spiritual “rules” and traditions, but I think it applies to finances and possessions as well since minimalism looks different for everyone.
Having 7 children, 5 of which have graduated, we have found graduation parties to be a huge financial blessing. We usually do hotdogs / burgers on the grill, chips, and cake for about 125 people. About a $300 investment but our grad ends up with thousands of dollars in gifts, most of which they wouldn't have gotten without an actual party. That money was used to help buy a car or computer for each child, something we couldn't afford to buy them. Just a thought.
Interesting. I don’t think I have been to a grad party ever that could have been pulled off for $300…especially not now with grocery prices the way they are! Awesome that you were able to do that! ❤️
I used to spend a lot of money on getting my hair cut and coloured and on make up and cute clothes and costume jewelry and contact lenses etc. But when Covid hit and I started working from home, I realized that I was doing a lot of those things for other people. That I liked me the same without the “enhancements”. So I have stopped buying all of those things for the most part. I respect and support people that still buy them, as we are all individuals and have different preferences.
You mentioned you won’t buy wall clocks, and that you would use your phone. How do your kids check the time? Do they all have phones? A great list. Thank you!
That’s a great question! We do have a clock setting on our microwave that we look at, and our kids have their own small alarm clocks by their beds. Our older two teenage boys do have their own phones as well- but they stay at the charging station and aren’t allowed in bedrooms…hence the alarm clocks. ❤️
She's the best. I am not as much a minimalist but she is smarter than me in this regard. I also totally understand what she says. Thank you for your UA-cam station
I agree with most of the items you mention but I have worn wristwatches for 60 years and wouldn't like to be without one for transport times appointments etc. I personally struggle with people always looking at their phones as it feels very isolating to me when people don't make eye contact and are glued to their screens but that is probably a generational thing! Do schools not do class photos any more? I still have mine from the late fifties onwards and can identify most of the people but I was brought up in a small community. Still have fun when getting together with old friends and laughing about our clothes and hairstyles in the photos. I won't get rid of them. Thanks again for a thought-provoking video.
I actually purchased cloth napkins and rags- I didn’t make them myself. As far as the cleaners, there are many awesome diy recipes online. I just mix up a multi purpose one to use on all surfaces besides glass. For that I just use water and a rag. ❤️
I prefer to NOT use disposable paper products and utensils but my husband insists on having them on-hand. 🤷🏽♀️ That's one of the few things we disagree on in my decluttering journey. 😊
wow you are my kind of girl. There is only one thing I do different than you. Winter coat I live in a colder area of Canada and In winter I walk a lots it is very important for me to have clothes that keep me warm. Sending you blessing 💟🙏
I agree on just about everything! But yes you are right. It is a personal thing. I really appreciate your genuine personality and integrity. Thank you! Sending warm wishes from Edmonton Alberta Canada!
The only thing I buy off your list is paper towels, however I only use them in emergencies like when the cat is sick or i am sick, that way i can flush it away or bin it. i just cannot think to wash something for that kind of use.
I dont buy sanitary napkins any more , switched to menstrual cup recently , and never turning back. Also i dont buy makeup such as eye shadow mascara or foundation ( cc cream is all i need ) coffee mugs , rings ( hate wearing them) , magazines ( visit nearby library every niw and then) , cable tv connection ( don't get time to watch tv ) , facial tissues ( switched to cotton handkerchiefs )
There are so much I have stopped buying. Still cost $3,500 a month for rent, food, utilities. There are so many apps on my iPhone, no longer need a separate calendar, timer, maps, dictionary, translator, alarm clock, flash light, music CDs, etc. It’s amazing and changed my life.
Fitted sheets, additional pots and pans, plates, cups, silverware, paperless everything, dvds, records, books, shampoos, soaps, body washes, too many facial products, makeup, keeping kids papers from school, don’t use drier sheets either, don’t buy paper towels either, don’t fall for holiday scams, I don’t give gifts hardly ever, I love white tshirts, but brand is important (doesn’t mean expensive), good quality means durability,
Great list! I'm almost all the way there with a couple of exceptions. We're not quite ready to give up paper towels yet and my daughter moved back home with her bunny so we have a pet now. On the upside to that, I donated our Christmas tree to a good cause on Saturday because it's pre-lit and the bunny would chew through the cords. We're happy with the tabletop tree we already have anyway.
I don’t buy collections of things. I recently purchased a pretty vintage jar to store some sewing supplies. Then I saw that they come in a number of sizes and caps and makers. In years past, I would have started a collection. Oh so tempting, but not this time! I have the one and that is all I need.
Angela I so enjoy your channel. It’s my favorite ❤️ Oh there are many items on your list that are definitely on my list. I’m 61 and it took me all these years to get to this place though. I do love my pet-a Yorkie ❤ I’m impressed and happy for you that you’ve gotten to this place at a much younger age 👍 you’ve got great wisdom to share. Keep it up please!
I agree with you on all of these (except a pet, we love our cat, and he brings us such joy). One thing that I will not buy is gifts that would not be used and discarded. If I don’t know of something that a person would use, I simply give them money. Also, I don’t buy home decor. All we have had been given to us (some even all the way back to our wedding 43 years ago), and I do not tire of it. The older it gets, the more meaning it has.
It’s fun to know the lists of others. I have a watermelon windmill-it’s the size of a ruler but for me, it’s a must have time saver because we grow our own melons and eat a ton of them. Yes a knife works but my cutter has a plastic blade so littles can help! I loved your list! Your hair is beautiful and looks like well controlled, unmessy glitter!
I listened to this again. I just realized I am in agreement with most of these and already this is stuff I don't/won't buy. I have pets and I do agree they are a big responsibility and curtail freedom but I wouldn't ever give them up.
I’m with you on almost everything! Unfortunately, we use paper towels. And thank you for the heads up on life insurance. My husband and I are seniors and I often worry about not having it. I almost bought a blouse yesterday and put it back because I just couldn’t justify it.!
We do have some bulk items not excessive. Living in a hurricane zone. Mostly the rains and winds. Not direct. Ans I do likw making and milling grain for breads and 25 pounds is more cost conscious. Toys not in that phase anymore. But duture grands I will buy simple thought and creative stimulating toys and not many. I think kids gravitateto imaginitive play whwn given the opportunity. Boxes, kitchen gadgets, old keys, etc... Simple ingredients for all things: food, cleaners, makeup (mascara)... Have a blessed week everyone
I haven’t had a microwave or a dishwasher in over 5 years and get so much smack about it. 😂 Glad to know there’s more wives out there that think they aren’t necessary. I love my pets but you are absolutely right, they need attention and you have to make arrangements to leave etc. If I had a big family I probably would not own a pet. 😂 Running a household is a full time job. Loved your list. I switched from mousse to leave in conditioner and my hair loves it. I almost fell for the $1500 pots and pan deal at a home show 😢. Thankfully a family member gave me a small set of stainless steel pots over 30 years old and beautiful. They work like a charm!
Yes! Those things are so common place that people just assume you can’t live without them! And wow…$1500 cookware! For that price they better make the meal without me! Ha! ❤️
I agree with almost everything. I do like a wall clock on everything room and every bathroom because I like to be able to just lift my eyes wherever I am to know the time 😂
I was so excited today for Tuesdays with you! I resonated with your list, and I was pleasantly surprised that someone else doesn’t like the feel of hair products and wrist, neck jewelry. I wish I could cut out haircuts, but me cutting my own hair in my pixie is not an option. I have considered shaving my head, but … nope. 😂 It was a great list and different from others.
Ha ha! I think that in a few years I am going to try a different hair style and if I go much shorter I will need to pay someone as well - or teach my husband how to do it! Ha ha! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage haha! Well he certainly has an eye for detail and “cutting” accurately 🥰 I’m so glad you’re not dying your hair. I love your “wisdom tinsel!”
With you on many of these items! Have not used paper products for many years as how they are produced damages the environment. No hair dye! Who needs the hassle, not to mention dumping chemicals into our brains. Grateful not to own a car. Never have, being a devoted city dweller. No food storage items as leftovers are a no no in this house. Freshly prepared meals each day. Not practical for many families but grateful to have the time and now the skill as an Ayurvedic chef. Thinking about not replacing the old dishwasher but concerned about resale value if the house should I move. Hmmm.
I have to buy paper towels but i am eliminating their use. I have allergies so there has to be tissue nearby. I am working at cutting use of paper products and switching to cotton cloths. Microfiber is micro plastics ending up in our bodies and oceans. I am trying for environmental friendly and cruelty free living
My truck is a 2010 with over 220,000 miles. I’ve done regular maintenance every 5,000-6,000 miles and have only use unleaded gas. I’m hoping for it to last another 3-5 years! :)
Aww white space. Calms the brain. No dishwasher here either. We dis run electrical for one and all but Im not worried about the what ifs and selling. Dont plan to sell but cross that bridge at that time. 😊
I agree with makeup I’ve tried high end and it worked the same if not sometimes worse than dollar store makeup. I just buy it from dollar tree other than my foundation which is drugstore. The teeth whitening systems with blue light actually work though I got one gifted to me and now my teeth have never been whiter. I haven’t seen any damage yet and I’ve used it quite a few times already. I also cut my own hair too. I have no idea how you don’t have a dishwasher with such a big family though, I don’t have one either and I’m struggling with my family of 5. Maybe if I had someone to help wash dishes occasionally it would be easier on me.
I’ve never heard of the blue light ones. Interesting! As far as the dishwasher…I’ve never lived with one - even growing up- and so it’s never been something I ‘missed’ having, you know? I just learned to be super efficient with washing quickly I guess! ❤️
Honestly I just bought a pack of wash cloths that I use only for spills! I got them in a different color so that I could keep them separate from the ones I wash dishes with! ❤️
I won't purchase alcohol. We fostered and adopted children coming out of drug & alcohol addicted homes. We felt the Lord leading us to first not have it in the home and later lead to not drinking at all so as not to be a stumbling block to others.
We encourage our kids to think about their after high school future at a young age, so that they can save up if needed…and to focus on their studies with the hopes of earning scholarships. Our upcoming graduate will actually be going to college on scholarship to kick in the football program, and we are so proud of him for focusing on his goals and putting in the extra effort always. ❤️
Don't have a pet in the first place, you'll save a lot on food, apparel, meds, veterinarians, administration and don't even get me started on the carbon footprint. The same works for children.
Kitchen garbage bins. I said goodbye to them about 8 years ago and let me tell you my cleaning experience is 150% better. You run the risk of leaving that bag in for days. I take my small grocery bag out every day. The cleaning for those bins ugh my God is just horrendous, and on a daily basis? No thank you. Not anymore
@@ArrowHillCottage Yeah. Absolutely. My recycling I don't mind to keep in (with using just 1 bag a week) until garbage day. The waste garbage though is taken out every day from a little grocery bag( I do not even buy garbage bags for the waste garbage) and that huge unbelievable big garbage bag filled with food waste is no longer. I keep them all on doorknobs( every day my door knobs get wiped down) It was a game changer for me lol.
Good list. We have an EV -- an electric Mini Cooper, which we've had for 2 years. It's great for us. It still qualified for the federal tax credit, so the total cost was less than $25K. Two things, though -- we are a family of 2, and we live in Northern New Jersey, so everything is close. We have a home charger, so we've never had to use a commercial charge station. So, it's great for us, but may not be so good if you need to drive long distances, have a large family, or the charging infrastructure is not there. We would never buy a Tesla, though.
Thanks for the info! Yeah…that’s another hesitation for us at the moment - lots of kids and driving long distances. When it’s just my husband and I here, I could see it as a more viable option! ❤️
Books oooH... keep the books! If there is a power cut, you cannot read whatever is stored on a device. A Book requires no electricity or connection to the internet,
There is no way possible to keep all the books, and I wouldn’t do that for the chance that electricity or connection to the internet might fail. We do keep some books for pleasure reading, but the reference books…we aren’t. ❤️
Hi Angela! I loved your video like always... I was amazed to hear that I avoid buying exactly the thing that you avoid buying...😂 except for wall clocks...
Hi, I absolutely agree with almost all of your suggestions. But you're a bit of a killjoy in some areas. No graduation parties for your kids? No Christmas decorations? Some other stuff. Yeah, you can have too much stuff - but you can have too much minimalism, too.
I suppose I would agree with you somewhat, if we hadn’t made those decisions as a family. We all enjoy our gift free Christmas years (every other year) - and our son requested no big grad party. Of course we will still celebrate!!❤️
@@ArrowHillCottagebig parties are such a waste of money! Instead, a getogether, a small and simple celebration. Use the money for the person celebrated.
The only luxury I engage in, is acquiring a quality wardrobe. For years when younger, I didn't earn much money and couldn't afford barely anything. Now I work for the District Attorney, I enjoy buying clothes for my personal style, not for work only. I could afford a new car if I wanted, but I don't get spending that much money for something will lose value so fast. Besides, I love my 8 year old Jeep and here in Los Angeles, I can take the bus or subway to get around when I don't feel like driving or parking is insane somewhere. I love your view on what you purchases and letting go.
Hey, just gotta say....EV's are PERFECT for minimalism. Your cost of repairs and fuel literally go to ZERO. No oil changes, no transmission fluid, brakes last 100,000 miles. Hopefully more people will rethink this one in the future as they familiarize themselves with the technology. I don't think we will have a choice. They're here to stay.
I don’t think I’m surprised by any on the list lol. I would say that me and dishwashing just don’t get along so well. So yes. I buy all the things…(mostly just cups and paper plates). I am now being more conscious tho of my solo cup iced coffee routine. I throw them in the dishwasher and reuse them until they die. I tried other things but they just don’t work for me. Like I’m half asleep so I know just where to fill the water to even if I’m in a coma. And then it doesn’t come out right also with the ice, milk and cream (with other cups). I also limit use of paper plates. But some days….Lol. Pets of course. Got in the cat mafia before I knew any better. Lol. Love them still tho but no more right now. And paper towels for the same reason (too gross of things to reuse lol). Also try to limit that also with using the (separated from the general use ones) bamboos for at least urine. I have my hair color and select few hair and beauty products but I don’t go crazy. (If you only knew my unruly hair lol). Basic retinol for anti aging is the only extra I would say for skin (besides the psoriasis stuff I have to deal with). But most days I just rely on my trusty Aveeno. Experimenting with olive oil lately also. But at my age (and with my type-high contrast suits me) I started to feel “beige” so I just pop it with high contrast clothing, “enhance” my fading brows and get it with my burgundy hair color. Occasionally I go crazy with hot pink or blood red or purple, but that’s gotten to be too messy and cumbersome for all the time. Grey is fine but punk rock is sublime. Lol. 🤟Can’t wait til my whole head turns white so I can rock a full head of pastels without having to lighten it first. Lol. Well I got this Google home thing for free but I haven’t set it up yet (one of my procrastination projects lol). I have to say tho I wouldn’t pay much for one if I had to buy it. The family not family jumped on the electric car wagon a long time ago. Yes. I have some funny stranded for hours stories about that (or having to get a tow). 😅😅 They got a Tesla now and that def seems more reliable and way faster to charge and goes a lot further on one charge but also costs a pretty penny. I don’t think I could drive it tho. (Not that they would let me anyways 🙄🙄). Lmao. If you don’t have the tech all set up, it’s going to be nothing but pure frustration. I also love the feel of a watch. Lol. And looking at that without having to use my phone. Things I don’t buy. Hmmm. Over the years I cycled through a lot of stuff. Seemed like it was all more like a long journey to find out what I actually like or want or what is truly useful and economical and what works. Generally tho. Things I won’t buy. Cheap furniture (not real wood) Home computer Fancy cleaning equip (vacs, steamers, etc) Fancy cleaning solutions Expensive kibble Clay cat litter Fancy other pet products Bulk shopping Streaming subs, cable tv A lot of new high tech Planners Water bottles Bracelets Liquid fab softener Lotto, crypto Anything on earth…paying full price or “the going rate” (only if I absolutely have to). Lol. And pre vetting all things for ideal suitability. Some days not sure if I’m “minimalist” or just cheap or at times a sucker for convenience. 😂😂 I would rather omit chores than omit some products tho. (Save more time, energy vs save money or space).
The cat mafia! Ha ha! You didn’t find them…they found you! Ha ha! Good list! I would say that in many regards minimalism and frugality go hand in hand. ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage Lol. Cats. (And coons for awhile I guess). Well at least I’ll have a lot of stories to tell one day. Ha ha. I reckon they do kind of go together. I didn’t even go into “rental properties” but I think it’s pretty obvious how I feel about that. 😅😅 I really can’t escape my inner “fierce” nature I guess so may as well roll with it. lol. I could change my mind abt some like you said lol. A woman’s prerogative imo. Streaming AMC (I am considering it lol) Bcuz they’re coming up with some Walking Dead offshoot shows and I’m kind of a die hard fan. Lol.
I’ve always said that if they made a package where people could choose maybe 10 channels, for a cheaper cost than the whole ‘bundle’ they would have a lot more customers! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage Ikr. Yes I think you may be onto something there.I think I’d only need a handful tho. Although YT covers most bases for me these days. Plenty of true crime, free movies, quirky history, music….plus all this life improvement or DIY kind of stuff. Can’t beat it for free. Lol.
Does anything on this list surprise you? What things will YOU not buy?
I will not buy new vehicles
No not surprised. Like absolutely most of it which i already won't do. We bought multiple sets of encyclopedias way back. I doaated all of them. My heavy bulky furniture is going too.
I agree with you on so many!
Things I no longer buy:
hairspray, gel, mousse, high heels, mascara, eye shadows, harsh chemical cleaners, dryer sheets, books, cookbooks, watches, calendars, plants, outdoor furniture, I have also decided not to get another pet for now. Area rugs, carpet shampooers, extra Christmas trees/wreaths, and purses.
Things I've upgraded, spend more money on: Bed linens, quality food, mattresses.
Thanks for your great list! ❤️
You're right to mention the seasons of life. When I was working in an office, I bought more shoes, jewelry and fancy clothes. Now that I'm retired, my expenses are almost non-existent in those categories.
I also began borrowing things instead of buying when it makes sense.
Thank you for a great video, once again.❤
So true! The seasons of life really change our purchasing priorities! Thanks for watching! ❤️
Oooh this is deep yet true.
Thank you for the list , i agree with most , but strongly disagree with not owning sunglasses . Walk , no run or drive to your nearest store to get some ! Our opthamologist warns of eatly cataracts from not shielding eyes . While you are there buy some sunscreen too 👍 Looking forward to your next video .
To be clear: I have a pair….just don’t wear them that much. Honestly, I’m not outside many hours of the day in the sunshine. ❤️
I agree with most of the things on the list. My only exception is theme park passes. My daughter and I go to KNott's Berry Farm, Universal Studios Hollywood, and Disneyland/DCA. For us, it's worth it because we go often enough and for us, it pays off within 3 trips. I usually take snacks and drinks with us, so we only buy the main meal, so we dont normally spend more than $20/$30 on food when we go.
If it’s something you enjoy doing and you go often enough to justify- then it’s a great purchase! ❤️
I never understood why people buy junk decor at those home goods stores. I decorate with photos and items that’s personal to me.
I think the appeal is that it seems like it would be easier to coordinate decor that is premade. But I agree, personal touches are my preference too! ❤️
My pastor talks about evaluating why we do what we do in our lives. Granted, he is mainly talking about spiritual “rules” and traditions, but I think it applies to finances and possessions as well since minimalism looks different for everyone.
Absolutely! It’s a great practice! ❤️
I prefer cloth napkins too. Paper ones break easily and it's annoying having bits of paper on my fingers after wiping.
Right?!? I also was buying the cheap paper napkins before and they would literally turn into a ball in minutes of finger wiping! Super annoying! ❤️
Having 7 children, 5 of which have graduated, we have found graduation parties to be a huge financial blessing. We usually do hotdogs / burgers on the grill, chips, and cake for about 125 people. About a $300 investment but our grad ends up with thousands of dollars in gifts, most of which they wouldn't have gotten without an actual party. That money was used to help buy a car or computer for each child, something we couldn't afford to buy them. Just a thought.
Interesting. I don’t think I have been to a grad party ever that could have been pulled off for $300…especially not now with grocery prices the way they are! Awesome that you were able to do that! ❤️
I would never live without my pets ….they are way more loving than most people…🐹🐶🐹
But I would never BUY a pet! You adopt an animal, they enrich our lives and we ARE their whole lives to them ❤
Happy that you enjoy your pets! ❤️
I used to spend a lot of money on getting my hair cut and coloured and on make up and cute clothes and costume jewelry and contact lenses etc. But when Covid hit and I started working from home, I realized that I was doing a lot of those things for other people. That I liked me the same without the “enhancements”. So I have stopped buying all of those things for the most part. I respect and support people that still buy them, as we are all individuals and have different preferences.
That’s a wonderful feeling to have! ❤️
You mentioned you won’t buy wall clocks, and that you would use your phone. How do your kids check the time? Do they all have phones? A great list. Thank you!
That’s a great question! We do have a clock setting on our microwave that we look at, and our kids have their own small alarm clocks by their beds. Our older two teenage boys do have their own phones as well- but they stay at the charging station and aren’t allowed in bedrooms…hence the alarm clocks. ❤️
She's the best. I am not as much a minimalist but she is smarter than me in this regard. I also totally understand what she says. Thank you for your UA-cam station
Thank you for your kind words! ❤️
I agree with most of the items you mention but I have worn wristwatches for 60 years and wouldn't like to be without one for transport times appointments etc. I personally struggle with people always looking at their phones as it feels very isolating to me when people don't make eye contact and are glued to their screens but that is probably a generational thing! Do schools not do class photos any more? I still have mine from the late fifties onwards and can identify most of the people but I was brought up in a small community. Still have fun when getting together with old friends and laughing about our clothes and hairstyles in the photos. I won't get rid of them. Thanks again for a thought-provoking video.
We do buy yearbooks and so we can see the school pictures and class pictures that way! ❤️
Why would you need dryer sheets or balls? Never used them (i dont think my country even has them) and the dryer does its job ...
If I’ve ever dried without them on a high heat the clothes end up with a lot of static! ❤️
How do you do home made cloths instead of paper towels? What are the DIY cleaners to replace the store ones?
I actually purchased cloth napkins and rags- I didn’t make them myself. As far as the cleaners, there are many awesome diy recipes online. I just mix up a multi purpose one to use on all surfaces besides glass. For that I just use water and a rag. ❤️
I prefer to NOT use disposable paper products and utensils but my husband insists on having them on-hand. 🤷🏽♀️ That's one of the few things we disagree on in my decluttering journey. 😊
Well…I guess if you have them on hand but don’t really use them, you won’t be buying them! Ha ha! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage True! 😆 Although I was glad we had some when six of my family members visited for a week over the July 4th holiday!
wow you are my kind of girl.
There is only one thing I do different than you.
Winter coat I live in a colder area of Canada and In winter I walk a lots it is very important for me to have clothes that keep me warm.
Sending you blessing 💟🙏
Awesome! It’s great that there are those higher end items for those who need them! ❤️
I’d rethink the sunglasses. They protect eyes from sun’s rays. Take it from people that have been diagnosed with macular degeneration.
I will look into the science of that. Thanks for the tip. ❤️
I agree on just about everything! But yes you are right. It is a personal thing. I really appreciate your genuine personality and integrity. Thank you! Sending warm wishes from Edmonton Alberta Canada!
Thanks for watching! Happy you’re here! ❤️
The only thing I buy off your list is paper towels, however I only use them in emergencies like when the cat is sick or i am sick, that way i can flush it away or bin it. i just cannot think to wash something for that kind of use.
Yes…handling those types of things isn’t super fun at all :/ ❤️
I cut up old rags, towels, t-shirts etc and have them in a pile to use for this kind of thing and then toss.
I dont buy sanitary napkins any more , switched to menstrual cup recently , and never turning back.
Also i dont buy makeup such as eye shadow mascara or foundation ( cc cream is all i need ) coffee mugs , rings ( hate wearing them) , magazines ( visit nearby library every niw and then) , cable tv connection ( don't get time to watch tv ) , facial tissues ( switched to cotton handkerchiefs )
Great list! ❤️
There are so much I have stopped buying. Still cost $3,500 a month for rent, food, utilities.
There are so many apps on my iPhone, no longer need a separate calendar, timer, maps, dictionary, translator, alarm clock, flash light, music CDs, etc. It’s amazing and changed my life.
No kidding! Everything is so expensive that buying these things seems completely unnecessary! ❤️
Fitted sheets, additional pots and pans, plates, cups, silverware, paperless everything, dvds, records, books, shampoos, soaps, body washes, too many facial products, makeup, keeping kids papers from school, don’t use drier sheets either, don’t buy paper towels either, don’t fall for holiday scams, I don’t give gifts hardly ever, I love white tshirts, but brand is important (doesn’t mean expensive), good quality means durability,
Great list! ❤️
Great list! I'm almost all the way there with a couple of exceptions. We're not quite ready to give up paper towels yet and my daughter moved back home with her bunny so we have a pet now. On the upside to that, I donated our Christmas tree to a good cause on Saturday because it's pre-lit and the bunny would chew through the cords. We're happy with the tabletop tree we already have anyway.
Everything has a season! The bunny is taking priority in your house for now and that’s okay! ❤️
I don’t buy collections of things. I recently purchased a pretty vintage jar to store some sewing supplies. Then I saw that they come in a number of sizes and caps and makers. In years past, I would have started a collection. Oh so tempting, but not this time! I have the one and that is all I need.
Ha ha! Good one! Collections can be so tempting, I agree! ❤️
Dang girl! You are winning at LIFE! Great tips!
Ha ha! Thanks! ❤️
Angela I so enjoy your channel. It’s my favorite ❤️ Oh there are many items on your list that are definitely on my list. I’m 61 and it took me all these years to get to this place though. I do love my pet-a Yorkie ❤ I’m impressed and happy for you that you’ve gotten to this place at a much younger age 👍 you’ve got great wisdom to share. Keep it up please!
So happy you’re here! And glad to hear you’ve gotten to a place in your life where you recognize the priorities for your belongings! ❤️
I agree with you on all of these (except a pet, we love our cat, and he brings us such joy). One thing that I will not buy is gifts that would not be used and discarded. If I don’t know of something that a person would use, I simply give them money. Also, I don’t buy home decor. All we have had been given to us (some even all the way back to our wedding 43 years ago), and I do not tire of it. The older it gets, the more meaning it has.
Gifts: good one! It is so hard to know what people will actually use/need! Money gifts or gifts of time are the best! ❤️
It’s fun to know the lists of others. I have a watermelon windmill-it’s the size of a ruler but for me, it’s a must have time saver because we grow our own melons and eat a ton of them. Yes a knife works but my cutter has a plastic blade so littles can help! I loved your list! Your hair is beautiful and looks like well controlled, unmessy glitter!
This watermelon device I saw was not the size of a ruler…it was a gigantic contraption! Ha ha! Thanks for watching! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage they’re feeding an army with that size lol
I listened to this again. I just realized I am in agreement with most of these and already this is stuff I don't/won't buy. I have pets and I do agree they are a big responsibility and curtail freedom but I wouldn't ever give them up.
Pets can be wonderful if the owners recognize the commitment they are making ahead of time. Sadly, not everyone considers this! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottageabsolutely. People need to be aware of the big changes pets bring into your life.
I’m with you on almost everything! Unfortunately, we use paper towels. And thank you for the heads up on life insurance. My husband and I are seniors and I often worry about not having it. I almost bought a blouse yesterday and put it back because I just couldn’t justify it.!
Great job! Sometimes we need to just take a minute to think about things! ❤️
We do have some bulk items not excessive. Living in a hurricane zone. Mostly the rains and winds. Not direct. Ans I do likw making and milling grain for breads and 25 pounds is more cost conscious.
Toys not in that phase anymore. But duture grands I will buy simple thought and creative stimulating toys and not many. I think kids gravitateto imaginitive play whwn given the opportunity. Boxes, kitchen gadgets, old keys, etc...
Simple ingredients for all things: food, cleaners, makeup (mascara)...
Have a blessed week everyone
Someday I might get into milling grain. I know it’s really a healthy thing to do! ❤️
I haven’t had a microwave or a dishwasher in over 5 years and get so much smack about it. 😂 Glad to know there’s more wives out there that think they aren’t necessary. I love my pets but you are absolutely right, they need attention and you have to make arrangements to leave etc. If I had a big family I probably would not own a pet. 😂 Running a household is a full time job.
Loved your list.
I switched from mousse to leave in conditioner and my hair loves it.
I almost fell for the $1500 pots and pan deal at a home show 😢. Thankfully a family member gave me a small set of stainless steel pots over 30 years old and beautiful. They work like a charm!
Yes! Those things are so common place that people just assume you can’t live without them! And wow…$1500 cookware! For that price they better make the meal without me! Ha! ❤️
I agree with almost everything.
I do like a wall clock on everything room and every bathroom because I like to be able to just lift my eyes wherever I am to know the time 😂
Ha ha! Seems reasonable! ❤️
I was so excited today for Tuesdays with you! I resonated with your list, and I was pleasantly surprised that someone else doesn’t like the feel of hair products and wrist, neck jewelry. I wish I could cut out haircuts, but me cutting my own hair in my pixie is not an option. I have considered shaving my head, but … nope. 😂 It was a great list and different from others.
Ha ha! I think that in a few years I am going to try a different hair style and if I go much shorter I will need to pay someone as well - or teach my husband how to do it! Ha ha! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage haha! Well he certainly has an eye for detail and “cutting” accurately 🥰 I’m so glad you’re not dying your hair. I love your “wisdom tinsel!”
Thanks! I feel like the grey hair stigma is so weird!!! ❤️
With you on many of these items! Have not used paper products for many years as how they are produced damages the environment. No hair dye! Who needs the hassle, not to mention dumping chemicals into our brains. Grateful not to own a car. Never have, being a devoted city dweller. No food storage items as leftovers are a no no in this house. Freshly prepared meals each day. Not practical for many families but grateful to have the time and now the skill as an Ayurvedic chef. Thinking about not replacing the old dishwasher but concerned about resale value if the house should I move. Hmmm.
Wow! No car would be awesome! Not practical for my life…but it sounds freeing! ❤️
I have to buy paper towels but i am eliminating their use. I have allergies so there has to be tissue nearby. I am working at cutting use of paper products and switching to cotton cloths. Microfiber is micro plastics ending up in our bodies and oceans. I am trying for environmental friendly and cruelty free living
Good for you! When you have a strong conviction towards something, it can make change much easier! ❤️
I no longer buy commercial cleaning products. I use a dawn/vinegar mixture for my bathrooms and vinegar/water mixture for counters and floors.
It’s so simple and the ingredients are always on hand to make a new batch! ❤️
My truck is a 2010 with over 220,000 miles. I’ve done regular maintenance every 5,000-6,000 miles and have only use unleaded gas. I’m hoping for it to last another 3-5 years! :)
Oh wow that’s impressive! We have a 2010 van…but only 110k miles on it. It’s getting new brakes this week! Ha ha! ❤️
Hey, Angela. Great to see you. Long time not commenting. Why 77? There's more. 😁 All the best and thanks for all your videos. ❤️
There definitely are more. The YT algorithm likes odd numbers, and big numbers. Ha Ha! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage 😂 Good one, Angela, yeah. Ironically, the more numbers, the less stuff we own, which is great. 😉
Aww white space. Calms the brain.
No dishwasher here either. We dis run electrical for one and all but Im not worried about the what ifs and selling. Dont plan to sell but cross that bridge at that time. 😊
Yes!!! Visual space is so relaxing! ❤️
Great video❤
Thank you! ❤️
I agree with makeup I’ve tried high end and it worked the same if not sometimes worse than dollar store makeup. I just buy it from dollar tree other than my foundation which is drugstore. The teeth whitening systems with blue light actually work though I got one gifted to me and now my teeth have never been whiter. I haven’t seen any damage yet and I’ve used it quite a few times already. I also cut my own hair too. I have no idea how you don’t have a dishwasher with such a big family though, I don’t have one either and I’m struggling with my family of 5. Maybe if I had someone to help wash dishes occasionally it would be easier on me.
I’ve never heard of the blue light ones. Interesting! As far as the dishwasher…I’ve never lived with one - even growing up- and so it’s never been something I ‘missed’ having, you know? I just learned to be super efficient with washing quickly I guess! ❤️
Could you share what you use instead of paper towels please?
Honestly I just bought a pack of wash cloths that I use only for spills! I got them in a different color so that I could keep them separate from the ones I wash dishes with! ❤️
Thank you. @@ArrowHillCottage
I would never be a landlord, big headaches.
I agree! ❤️
So interesting! Thanks fir sharing 😊 Anne
Thanks for watching! ❤️
I won't purchase alcohol. We fostered and adopted children coming out of drug & alcohol addicted homes. We felt the Lord leading us to first not have it in the home and later lead to not drinking at all so as not to be a stumbling block to others.
That’s a wonderful reason to stop buying something! ❤️
I blew up my microwave while making popcorn! I’m not going to buy a new one!
Woah! I guess you could take that as a sign! ❤️
What do you use in place of paper towels?
We have rags for big spills and just use toilet paper for small ones! ❤️
I am inspired.
Happy to hear that! Thanks for watching! ❤️
What about college for the graduate ? Do you anticipate supporting college costs for your kids?
We encourage our kids to think about their after high school future at a young age, so that they can save up if needed…and to focus on their studies with the hopes of earning scholarships. Our upcoming graduate will actually be going to college on scholarship to kick in the football program, and we are so proud of him for focusing on his goals and putting in the extra effort always. ❤️
The electric car is very nice to have, you don t need to change the oil, and never breaks
That sounds great! ❤️
And please NO ONE BUY A PET.. ADOPT! SAVE A LIFE AND HAVE A Brain
Don't have a pet in the first place, you'll save a lot on food, apparel, meds, veterinarians, administration and don't even get me started on the carbon footprint. The same works for children.
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU!!@Mloofylicious
I was going to do this exact type of video a few weeks ago but I forgot about it 😂
Ha ha! I bet your list is similar! ❤️
Kitchen garbage bins. I said goodbye to them about 8 years ago and let me tell you my cleaning experience is 150% better. You run the risk of leaving that bag in for days. I take my small grocery bag out every day. The cleaning for those bins ugh my God is just horrendous, and on a daily basis? No thank you. Not anymore
Interesting! I would have never thought to try that! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage Yeah. Absolutely. My recycling I don't mind to keep in (with using just 1 bag a week) until garbage day. The waste garbage though is taken out every day from a little grocery bag( I do not even buy garbage bags for the waste garbage) and that huge unbelievable big garbage bag filled with food waste is no longer. I keep them all on doorknobs( every day my door knobs get wiped down) It was a game changer for me lol.
Good list. We have an EV -- an electric Mini Cooper, which we've had for 2 years. It's great for us. It still qualified for the federal tax credit, so the total cost was less than $25K. Two things, though -- we are a family of 2, and we live in Northern New Jersey, so everything is close. We have a home charger, so we've never had to use a commercial charge station. So, it's great for us, but may not be so good if you need to drive long distances, have a large family, or the charging infrastructure is not there. We would never buy a Tesla, though.
Thanks for the info! Yeah…that’s another hesitation for us at the moment - lots of kids and driving long distances. When it’s just my husband and I here, I could see it as a more viable option! ❤️
I wish the video was longer
It is one of the longer ones on my channel! ❤️
Hmmm…most I agreed with and already follow. The ones I didn’t were more because the season of life I’m in now…🤷♀️
The season of life really does make a difference! That’s why I made sure to say that even the things on my list may change! ❤️
Agree with it all
Thanks for watching! ❤️
Books oooH... keep the books! If there is a power cut, you cannot read whatever is stored on a device. A Book requires no electricity or connection to the internet,
There is no way possible to keep all the books, and I wouldn’t do that for the chance that electricity or connection to the internet might fail. We do keep some books for pleasure reading, but the reference books…we aren’t. ❤️
Almost everything you've listed we don't use/buy in my house, because they're first world habits.
Very true! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage classy lady!!! 💕💞💕
Omg. No dishwasher... As someone who dies business in China... You are more frugal than my best friends who live there. That is saying ALOT
Ha ha! ❤️
Animals? Just more mouths to feed. after our dog passed. Never replaced it. Going on five years' now.
Yeah - that’s kind of how we feel about pets too…but I also understand the companionship aspect that they bring for many people! ❤️
Holiday inflatable s are tacky... Do something other than stupid inflatables
Hi Angela! I loved your video like always...
I was amazed to hear that I avoid buying exactly the thing that you avoid buying...😂 except for wall clocks...
Ha ha! The wall clocks! ⏰ ❤️ a lot of people really love them, and that’s great! ❤️
I agree! I avoid all of the other things, but I am staring at a wall clock right now!
Ha ha! Love it!
I love Starbucks..... u skipped any electronics
I don’t buy new electronics when they are first introduced but will continue to buy them and upgrade as time moves on. ❤️
Hi, I absolutely agree with almost all of your suggestions. But you're a bit of a killjoy in some areas. No graduation parties for your kids? No Christmas decorations? Some other stuff. Yeah, you can have too much stuff - but you can have too much minimalism, too.
I suppose I would agree with you somewhat, if we hadn’t made those decisions as a family. We all enjoy our gift free Christmas years (every other year) - and our son requested no big grad party. Of course we will still celebrate!!❤️
@@ArrowHillCottagebig parties are such a waste of money! Instead, a getogether, a small and simple celebration. Use the money for the person celebrated.
A woman after my own heart.
Thanks for watching! ❤️
Dune buggy for the kids.. get some good health insurance while youre at it
Yeah. Happy not to have that anymore. Though at least it had seatbelts! ❤️
The only luxury I engage in, is acquiring a quality wardrobe. For years when younger, I didn't earn much money and couldn't afford barely anything. Now I work for the District Attorney, I enjoy buying clothes for my personal style, not for work only. I could afford a new car if I wanted, but I don't get spending that much money for something will lose value so fast. Besides, I love my 8 year old Jeep and here in Los Angeles, I can take the bus or subway to get around when I don't feel like driving or parking is insane somewhere. I love your view on what you purchases and letting go.
Good job making priorities for yourself! Just because a person can afford something doesn’t mean they hade to buy it! ❤️
Hey, just gotta say....EV's are PERFECT for minimalism. Your cost of repairs and fuel literally go to ZERO. No oil changes, no transmission fluid, brakes last 100,000 miles. Hopefully more people will rethink this one in the future as they familiarize themselves with the technology. I don't think we will have a choice. They're here to stay.
That’s what I say that my mind may change on that one. I do see a lot of benefits! ❤️
Hey now ain’t nothin wrong with glitter! 😂
Ha! I mean…it’s pretty I guess! But the mess is too much for me. 😂❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage lmbo 😂
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Thanks for watching! ❤️
Please add sunscreen to that list . The chemicals in them are horrible for u
What do you use instead? Maybe just sun avoiding? I’m genuinely curious ❤️
I don’t think I’m surprised by any on the list lol.
I would say that me and dishwashing just don’t get along so well. So yes. I buy all the things…(mostly just cups and paper plates). I am now being more conscious tho of my solo cup iced coffee routine. I throw them in the dishwasher and reuse them until they die. I tried other things but they just don’t work for me. Like I’m half asleep so I know just where to fill the water to even if I’m in a coma. And then it doesn’t come out right also with the ice, milk and cream (with other cups). I also limit use of paper plates. But some days….Lol.
Pets of course. Got in the cat mafia before I knew any better. Lol. Love them still tho but no more right now. And paper towels for the same reason (too gross of things to reuse lol). Also try to limit that also with using the (separated from the general use ones) bamboos for at least urine.
I have my hair color and select few hair and beauty products but I don’t go crazy. (If you only knew my unruly hair lol). Basic retinol for anti aging is the only extra I would say for skin (besides the psoriasis stuff I have to deal with). But most days I just rely on my trusty Aveeno. Experimenting with olive oil lately also. But at my age (and with my type-high contrast suits me) I started to feel “beige” so I just pop it with high contrast clothing, “enhance” my fading brows and get it with my burgundy hair color. Occasionally I go crazy with hot pink or blood red or purple, but that’s gotten to be too messy and cumbersome for all the time. Grey is fine but punk rock is sublime. Lol. 🤟Can’t wait til my whole head turns white so I can rock a full head of pastels without having to lighten it first. Lol.
Well I got this Google home thing for free but I haven’t set it up yet (one of my procrastination projects lol). I have to say tho I wouldn’t pay much for one if I had to buy it.
The family not family jumped on the electric car wagon a long time ago. Yes. I have some funny stranded for hours stories about that (or having to get a tow). 😅😅 They got a Tesla now and that def seems more reliable and way faster to charge and goes a lot further on one charge but also costs a pretty penny. I don’t think I could drive it tho. (Not that they would let me anyways 🙄🙄). Lmao. If you don’t have the tech all set up, it’s going to be nothing but pure frustration.
I also love the feel of a watch. Lol. And looking at that without having to use my phone.
Things I don’t buy. Hmmm.
Over the years I cycled through a lot of stuff. Seemed like it was all more like a long journey to find out what I actually like or want or what is truly useful and economical and what works.
Generally tho. Things I won’t buy.
Cheap furniture (not real wood)
Home computer
Fancy cleaning equip (vacs, steamers, etc)
Fancy cleaning solutions
Expensive kibble
Clay cat litter
Fancy other pet products
Bulk shopping
Streaming subs, cable tv
A lot of new high tech
Planners
Water bottles
Bracelets
Liquid fab softener
Lotto, crypto
Anything on earth…paying full price or “the going rate” (only if I absolutely have to). Lol. And pre vetting all things for ideal suitability. Some days not sure if I’m “minimalist” or just cheap or at times a sucker for convenience. 😂😂 I would rather omit chores than omit some products tho. (Save more time, energy vs save money or space).
The cat mafia! Ha ha! You didn’t find them…they found you! Ha ha!
Good list! I would say that in many regards minimalism and frugality go hand in hand. ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage Lol. Cats. (And coons for awhile I guess). Well at least I’ll have a lot of stories to tell one day. Ha ha. I reckon they do kind of go together. I didn’t even go into “rental properties” but I think it’s pretty obvious how I feel about that. 😅😅 I really can’t escape my inner “fierce” nature I guess so may as well roll with it. lol.
I could change my mind abt some like you said lol. A woman’s prerogative imo. Streaming AMC (I am considering it lol) Bcuz they’re coming up with some Walking Dead offshoot shows and I’m kind of a die hard fan. Lol.
I’ve always said that if they made a package where people could choose maybe 10 channels, for a cheaper cost than the whole ‘bundle’ they would have a lot more customers! ❤️
@@ArrowHillCottage Ikr. Yes I think you may be onto something there.I think I’d only need a handful tho. Although YT covers most bases for me these days. Plenty of true crime, free movies, quirky history, music….plus all this life improvement or DIY kind of stuff. Can’t beat it for free. Lol.
Yes, so true! YT has a lot to offer! Sometimes with the algorithm lately though- I need to go looking for it! ❤️
Omg I couldn’t get through all the apologies! Why can’t millennials never just say something? 😂🙄
Not exactly sure what you mean, but thanks for watching! ❤️
@ you don’t hear all your caveats at the beginning? You don’t have to apologize to the world before having a point of view about something.
Oh, I see…should I apologize to you for doing that? 😆 ❤️ old habits die hard! lol