It’s meant for women 50+...but as a 18-year-old girl who just figured out that she wanted to start dressing for her body type (not just for comfort and convenience), this video was so helpful!
One thing we need to remember about Marilyn Monroe: she was 5'5" tall and 118 lbs. When they took her white dress from The Seven Year Itch and put it on a size 2 mannequin, it wouldn't zip up. Today's size 8 is about a size 16/18 from the 50's, (there is a significant difference because of the vanity sizing we have today). Some years ago, I bought a pattern to sew a dress for my daughter who was a size 2, and her measurements required me to buy her a size 12 dress pattern. Marilyn had a perfect perfect Hourglass figure, but she wasnt a size 16, as we define it today. Sorry, the seamstress in me just popped out, lol! Anyway, cant wait to hear this video!! Here I go...
@@lancewalker6067 your clip was wrong. She would have been a size 2 or smaller. I am exactly her size. 5’5” tall 118 with an hourglass figure and the standard size 2 is huge on me. Fat women just want to pretend that the have the same odd as MM. Dream on!
.....I had read that she actually weighed in the range of 125- 135.... I am five foot, two inches, weigh 113, to 115 ( depending) and I wear a Size 4 , or a 6 , ...again, depending on the design, who the maker of the clothing is, and so on....and I am not overweight, I am 66 yrs. young. ...and have been athletic and such during my life .
How very useful. It turns out my husband had it all figured out. " that needs a belt, it looks better when your clothes are fitted", he says. Pretty good for a geologist who only wears jeans!
What sucks about having an hour glass figure and putting on a fitted dress without zippers is that its so hard to get the smaller waist part over the shoulders or hips. Im always worried that ill rip the seams when i put on dresses if its not strechy.
You are so spot on with the challenges of finding clothes for the hourglass figure. It's so frustrating that so many retailers cater to straight, small chested figures. Thank you for pointing out the details to watch for. Very helpful!
Because most clothing is made in China were proportions are smaller. Clothing in other countries like in Latin America for example is cut more generously to accommodate fuller or more voluptuous figures.
I love that you take the time to detail what looks right and wrong, especially using your red pen too! I'm currently revamping my wardrobe and this video is soooo helpful, thank you!
Im not in my 50's but i have an hourglass body and struggle to find clothes that work for me. I really like the easy advice that i can remember when i look for clothes!
I sincerely appreciate your use of WOC and larger sized models in your examples. I also found the comparison photos of T-shaped models with photos hourglass curves. With age, I have learned to spot the signs an outfit that looks great on a model will not work for me but, these might save others the trouble of learning only via trial and error.
What I love about your videos is your positive attitude. You love inspiring women and you do not compete with women. You remind us to care and help lift each other up!
I'm 33 years old and found this video very informative. I have an hourglass shape and realize my wardrobe has been making me look like a square.... No v-neck, no high waisted jeans, and no focus of my waist 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ The drawing demonstrations on the models really gave a powerful visual ❤
1966 I took a tailoring class in college. First time my measurements were ever taken;35-23-35. Wore a size 6.115lbs. Thought I was fat and so did everyone else because I didn’t know how to dress for body type-Twiggy was in vogue.☹️
@@user-yd4yr5hr3s Yep! And do you notice how MM’s clothing size seems to keep going up and up? Before you know it she’ll be a size 18. The reality is today she would be a size 2 or 4. The over weight would love to think they have a lot in common with MM. Dream on.
I just came across this video this afternoon. And, WOW!! This has so much excellent information on how to dress the hourglass body shape. It's hard to imagine, but I only recently discovered that I'm an hourglass and NOT a straight body type. My mind was quite blown at that moment. I couldn't, at first, figure out how on earth that I didn't know I WAS AN HOURGLASS. I began thinking back to my teen years in the early 1970's and realized that "fashion" emphasized the tall straight figure. The advice was always to dress to look tall, thin and straight. I've spent so many years dressing to look tall, thin and straight that I literally had no idea what my body shape was. Several weeks ago my body shape was revealed through very reliable sources. Now, I know why I was feeling so "squarish" (instead of slim) and thought that nothing fit me right or seemed the right styles. I went through all my clothes, tried them on and got rid of clothing definitely not for my body type. For the first time in years, I'm loving how I look and loving my clothes!
ooofv this is what i needed... the problem i have is with pants/jeans...the waists of them stand so far out away from my body it's beyond frustrating.. and i don't have a skinny thigh, and i have a curvy bum.. then a tiny waist then of course, my top.. and it's incredibly frustrating finding clothing if it isn't yoga pants to not be 6 inches out from my waist...! it's like, clothing makers forgot that's how women are shaped!
It’s so frustrating to try on clothes! I’m grateful for your videos- I’m a true hourglass shape- large bust and small waist and large hips! Pants are near impossible to find …! Stretchy is my best friend!! Hugs in the right places and easy to wear. Also I’m so short and that’s another challenge
Wow! I've always gravitated towards wrap around and waist cuts and now I know why. This was the clearest and simplest to remember explanation of what to look for for an hourglass figure, that I've ever seen. I'm not in your targetted age range but I'm so glad I watched this video.
I'm cleaning my closet out and keeping only what works based on this video. Thank you, such helpful information. For the fist time, I feel like I can dress stylishly for my body type.
Thank you so much, Schellea! I not only love the way you explain how and why certain clothes work -or not- for us hourglass women, but the way you do it, it is so inspiring. I wish we had such wonderful, warm and lovely "UA-camrs" when I was younger. We would all embrace and love our beautiful bodies from an early age :)
You have just illustrated my whole life! My problems from my early years, continuing into my 60’s. Thank you, I did find tailored shirts while working, looks like I need to go back to that!
The videos target 50+ women, but the advice applies to women of all ages. I’m so happy that a friend recommended Shelley’s channel. She told me about the exercise routines, but I’ve now alerted her to everything else that Shelley (hope I’m spelling it correctly) has to offer.👍🏻😊🇨🇦
I have an hourglass shape and I am really happy you did this video. I'm not heavy, but so many clothes make me look chubby! And to find a pair of jeans that look good on me is pure hell. Turns out I was always looking at jeans for a more square body type. Your tips were very helpful, so THANK YOU! ❤❤
Thank you so much! It is so nice of you to link all of the pieces of clothing, too!! I have learned some of these tips, but it is difficult to actually find the pieces of clothing. Thank you for what you do!!
I’m in my 40ies. Unfortunately cat calling and hormone driven men, throughout my formative years, have taught me to hide my curves. I detest to show any cleavage, I feel self aware with anything too form fitting. I try to hide my chest 100% of the time. My goal is to appear as small chested as possible. My waist is tiny and my boobs seem to stand out too much if I want to wear something figure hugging. But these are just my own insecurities. I loved your tips and this video. Great if someone is confident in their body.
Same here. If you wear a top with a little cleavage it's "showing your boobs"... But you should honestly free yourself from these insecurities. So what if men are drooling and women are jealous? . It's your own beautiful body, enjoy it as as long as you can.
Hi C’est Moi! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Its such a shame that we feel the need to hide form that kind of behaviour...Im sorry that happened to you 🤗
You rock that fab figure as long as you have it! You will look back and regret it someday if you don't. As long as it's tasteful you have no reason to avoid clothes that flatter what you were blessed with! 😊
I absolutely ❤️❤️❤️ this video.....you helped me realize why I get frustrated with jeans....I have a small waist and it’s so irritating that every time I try jeans on I’m left with a gap in the back.....now I know what to look for before I go to the dressing room!!! Thank you and will look forward to more of these videos....I also really appreciate that you cater to women over 50!! 👍👍
Yes to all this esp the jeans and pants section. My main issue is that I have to work at not looking TOO sexy at 70. After losing weight I am a size 10 figure 8 meaning my hip curve starts higher than on the hourglass shape. I cannot wear straight skirts that taper in at the legs or I look tarty so I wear swingy fluid skirts as you show. Fit )in the bust area) and flare (below the waist) looks great on me as do wrap styles that you show. I always try to find v neck tops for my ample bust and for button up shirts often have to add front and back vertical darts at the waist so as not to look too boxy...very easy to do with a basic sewing machine. When heavier I wore boxy tops like you show and I looked 20lbs heavier than I actually was! Great video.
That makes so much sense and I’ve learned over the years that these exact types of clothing always look best on me. I always thought I was an apple shape but don’t have a tummy. After last week’s video I didn’t feel like I fit any body shape but I realized today I have an hourglass shape so now I will have even a better understanding of the types of clothing to look for.Great video!
This was great. Will you do a new hourglass video for 2021 with more suggestions for in stock clothes to try. Also how to deal with a large tummy after menopause with this figure.
Good tips. It would be nice to go back to a hour glass figure. 20 years old- one hour glass, 30 years old- 2 hour glass, 40 years old- 3 hour glass. By the time we realize, we look like barrel.
It is so wonderful to see such a graceful woman like you. Very inspiring to young women to grow into age in an elegant way. Age is just a number. The more we add on years the more sofisticated, graceful and elegant we become. And how we present ourselves is what makes us. Its important to stay put together despite your age, place, occation or status. What women got all are just excuses to stay comfortable in places which arent really comfortable. Its in the way we dress, sit, walk, eat, talk...even sleep. Ladies, dont let yourselves settle just for anything. Enjoy the journey. Become a whole new you every day by adding something new which brings out the best in you. Thank you. Your videos helping me alot in my studies. Love you loads 💜
Hello! New subscriber here!❤ Am turning 40 this year, and as an hourglass have always worn baggy clothes because clothes shopping was always so difficult..& kinda embarrassing! But to know that Marilyn Monroe had the same problems! ..That's a big confidence booster!😊❤
I’ve watched so many videos on how to dress a curvy body and this one just nailed it. I don’t need to watch another one. I do wanna say though, I think a less curvy woman can be just as feminine, just with a different vibe and energy.
Absolutely best video! I now realize what kind of shape I have . All the samples you show for hourglass are what I found over the years I feel pretty in. Now I’m even more aware when I go shopping to only buy clothes that will flatter. I’ve found over the years that skinny jeans with elastic waist fit best . Also I love dresses because it’s easier to find fitting in the middle versus shirts and pants.
🥰🌺☺️✌🏾I love how you described my hour glass body shape. Also I love how you showed the difference with the red pen. That’s really important for us curvy ladies can see. Thankkkkkk Youuuuu for posting this video. 🥰
I found this advice really helpful. Thank you. I am in my sixties and my waist has increased a little, but is still 8 inches smaller than shoulders bust and hips, which are all the same. This way of dressing is definitely more flattering on me.
I always wonder why the back of my jeans always give me problem on the waist while they look so good on other girls. now I know why. Thank you for this!
Shellea, I am 59 yrs old, in full menopause, and I am an hourglass. You exactly nailed all the issues with an hourglass figure. I also have a bad knee and I tend to wear very low heels, not flats, but maybe a two inch heel at most and I am 5'4". The best sizing for me is a 14W. One trick I have found from you is if you have a pair of jeans that are snug on the thigh but have a good flare on the bottom invest in an asymetric top to break that line across the largest part of your thighs and wear a pointed toe or almond toe shoe/boot to elongate the leg. You did a video on this type of thing a while ago and it works every time. I like tailored clothes the best on me but a little flow also works well.
The Depo vera shot is a type non hormonal birth control shot that makes u gain weight even if u starve urself. It's not water weight, it's real fat for some reason. I look like a short snow man box some times of the month, other times I'm just a really short thick hr glass.
I'm just loving this series, Schellea! I definitely have an hourglass figure as far as shoulders/hips/small waist, however I have a small bust so I don't know if that still qualifies as hourglass ;) And as I mentioned in the last video I have those large upper arms (my sausage arms as I lovingly refer to them lol). My calves are also thick. I think it's a genetic thing because my mother has the same problem with thick calves, even when she was younger and quite thin she could never find fashionable boots to fit her calves. Back in the day they didn't make boots for thicker calves like they do nowadays. I chalk it all up to our German heritage, we are hearty German women!
My daughters sound like your shape dilemma. One is a pear the other is an hourglass. Both flatter chested. The difference is the width if the shoulder (not the actual bust). If the shoulder width is equal to the hips, it is an hourglass. If the shoulder is smaller than the hips, it is a pear. They both have challenges buying jeans for exactly the reasons she stated! This is an excellent series of videos!
It's easy to look frumpy with our figure type. I highly recommend the best under garments you can find. Not shapewear per say, but a great bra. The one I have on costs $65. Worth every cent!!
I’m an hour glass and it’s difficult finding anything cute. I have athletic legs, a big butt, a menopausal belly, and my chest is disappearing. I’m 5’4”, and a size 10/12 but can look much heavier due to draping, cuts and shapes. I also live in a tropical climate and it’s taken all the fun out of buying clothing. Flip flops, T-shirts and shorts. I despise shorts, and find myself I’m boho style dresses and shirts. I miss dressing for four seasons and having a closet full of variety. Thank you for the video, well done!
I know this video is meant for 50+ women, but as someone in her 30s I actually wish I would have even known this in my teens. No matter how slim I was my badly dressed hourglass figure has always made me look bigger than I really was...
So I just found this video So informative. I have been so self conscious of my hips since 15 and was told by a boy I had big hips. I am no 64 and i still feel this way. This video brought light to my eyes to embrace what I have. 5ft 1 125 lbs, I am glad I have curves her tips make me want to go shopping 🛍 today
First of all!!! Am clearly satisfied to see most of the demo pics of plus size women... And they r jus beautiful So, thanksss i alwys felt as if all my clothes jus make me look thicker when i ain't a plus size So, gonna work on my wardrobe nw😅and i totallyyyy loved ur haircut and tht prominent cute apple trench on ur head due to ur bangs❤🥺
Hi Schellea. 1st I have to say, I love the colour of yr hair. 2ndly, not only is the “dressing for body type” a great subject, but how wonderfully easy you’ve made it for us to shop with all the clothing listed beneath. Thanks very much for a thoughtfully put together tutorial lovely lady. Sending you sunshine from Qld xx🌞🌺💖
Yay! Thank you Schellea! I'll be trying these ideas. It is pretty hard to find stuff that isn't boxy or made for women without much chest. Luckily, I sew. So sometimes I buy huge clothes with lovely fabric and restyle them to better suit me. I used to make all my own clothes, but it takes a lot of time. BTW, I have found the Seven7 brand jeans have some styles that fit hourglass figures. Lucky find a thrift shop once. As some people commented here, sometimes we don't want to flaunt the curves, but still don't want to look boxy. It is a bit of a dilemma, but it is possible to be curvy and tasteful, too.
Not sure why the fashion industry changed the Sizing but i agree with other comments about Vanity sizing now. I was in hi school in the 50’s. 115- 120 5’6”. Very thin & i wore size 10
Thank you it's true if your short with big hips, thighs and small waist, very hard to find the right Jean's. God Bless You and Your Family FOREVER AMEN🙇♀️✝️🙏
I’m doing the opposite. I hate drawing attention to my bust and I hate my tummy so I tend towards styles that I think draw attention away from those areas. That means looser tops and leggings. My legs are slim and I’m size 8 (US sizing) so not huge but I hate my curves. Sigh. And I wouldn’t be caught dead tucking anything in ever. The struggle is real.
Hi.. I have a hour glass measurement with my shoulders waist and hips.. but I don’t have a large bust.. I only see videos for hourglass with large bust ..
Love it! I am hour glass. My problem is not pretty legs. 😢 My career (nursing) 30 yrs on my feet. Veiny legs..2 total knee scars... I wear pants 100%. Any advice, for dresses? Thanks. Love your videos.
I started getting most of my clothes tailored thanks for my body type. Having an hourglass body type has its downsides especially when it comes to dressing and shopping.
I am an hour glass. I have to wear somewhat fitted clothes with stretch and sometimes I think it comes off a little sexy for work, but it is definitely the most flattering and slimming. Every once in a while someone will comment about why I am so dressed up. Unfortunately, I can’t really wear a lot of suits because they can really make me look boxy.
Chris find blazers (or have them tailored) that have a curve to them. Dont buy boxy tops. They are a killer! Go to Christie Ressels or busbeestyle channels. They have lots of tips and advice.
I'm an hourglass and when i wanna get pants they usually don't fit me in waist. They are too big around my waist. People want that body shape but they don't know its kinda hard to get clothes, especially if u are an ectomorph like me.
Thank you very much for that explanation. I have always dressed with an eye to these shapes, but not really knowing why I looked better in certain styles. I have always had an hour glass figure with the tiniest waist, but at 65, I have a belly. Not that I don't work out, I still do, but I am post menopausal so that belly is hard to lose. If I look straight on at my figure, I still look OK, I can still see the hour glass shape, however when I turn sideways it is down hill from there. I get a bit depressed with that stubborn tummy. Thanks again.
You kept your word and did the hourglass video. I really respect and appreciate that ❤️ Even though I didn't completely agree with everything you said in the previous video I watched about sleeves, I am definitely your fan, I just subscribed.
My mom(50) and I(21) have the same exact hourglass body type, she's s 2-3 cms taller and only a little bit heavier than me, but we have around the same measurements. we have been wearing the same clothes since I was a teen, if my mom wore something that didnt look good on her(like the pants in the thumbnail), it was 100% that it didnt look good on me either LOL. i was lucky to have it figured out as an adult by her trial and errors xD i just got back into fashion recently and these videos are really helpful too
True finding clothes is so hard! I hate shopping for that reason.. IT makes me feel verry sad, to walk in and out stores with nothing. I am 1.78, and a hourglass being tall makes it more diffecult for me also.
Technically I'm a triangle, but with a small waist, so close to being an hourglass. Since nothing ever fits, my solution has been to learn to alter clothes. A lot of alterations are easier than people think.
It’s meant for women 50+...but as a 18-year-old girl who just figured out that she wanted to start dressing for her body type (not just for comfort and convenience), this video was so helpful!
me rn lol
Same
30 and feeling exactly the same!
Actually, women 50+ lose their hourglass.😔 It's more for you ladies of 18 & 30!😆
@@dammar117 true! More and more apple shapes due to insulin resistance
One thing we need to remember about Marilyn Monroe: she was 5'5" tall and 118 lbs. When they took her white dress from The Seven Year Itch and put it on a size 2 mannequin, it wouldn't zip up. Today's size 8 is about a size 16/18 from the 50's, (there is a significant difference because of the vanity sizing we have today). Some years ago, I bought a pattern to sew a dress for my daughter who was a size 2, and her measurements required me to buy her a size 12 dress pattern. Marilyn had a perfect perfect Hourglass figure, but she wasnt a size 16, as we define it today. Sorry, the seamstress in me just popped out, lol! Anyway, cant wait to hear this video!! Here I go...
I saw a clip about that recently. Marilyn was closer to a modern 4 to 6.
I know, I heard her measurements and thought "I wasn't that small in highschool and I was a size 8."
You are 100% correct.
@@lancewalker6067 your clip was wrong. She would have been a size 2 or smaller. I am exactly her size. 5’5” tall 118 with an hourglass figure and the standard size 2 is huge on me. Fat women just want to pretend that the have the same odd as MM. Dream on!
.....I had read that she actually weighed in the range of 125- 135....
I am five foot, two inches, weigh 113, to 115 ( depending) and I wear a Size 4 , or a 6 , ...again, depending on the design, who the maker of the clothing is, and so on....and I am not overweight, I am 66 yrs. young. ...and have been athletic and such during my life .
How very useful. It turns out my husband had it all figured out. " that needs a belt, it looks better when your clothes are fitted", he says. Pretty good for a geologist who only wears jeans!
My husband always dresses me better than myself lol!
An homage to our husbands! They keep it simple and see the obvious, while we complicate everything 😉
My 84 year old mother says the same thing to me about my clothes. :D
Same here: the rant against "sack" dresses is one I've heard more than once.
I have a friend who’s ex-husband would pick clothes that suited her better than what she selected for herself, both in shape & colour.
What sucks about having an hour glass figure and putting on a fitted dress without zippers is that its so hard to get the smaller waist part over the shoulders or hips. Im always worried that ill rip the seams when i put on dresses if its not strechy.
YES the little crack you hear when pulling it up on the seams is so cringeworthy
yess I can't get the dresses over my boobs, the same with jeans, they would fit me If I could just get pass my hips to put them on ;/
So true!!!
I'm not in my 50s yet, but this guide is fantastic for ladies of all ages with an hourglass figure.
Women in their 50s seldom have an hourglass.
You are so spot on with the challenges of finding clothes for the hourglass figure. It's so frustrating that so many retailers cater to straight, small chested figures.
Thank you for pointing out the details to watch for. Very helpful!
Hi terry carney! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗
Because most clothing is made in China were proportions are smaller. Clothing in other countries like in Latin America for example is cut more generously to accommodate fuller or more voluptuous figures.
It took me till 65 to figure this stuff out! Where were you when I was young and needed this!!! It was totally right on. Everything you said was true!
Im so happy you enjoyed the video Elaine Armenta Thanks for taking the time to comment ❤️
Thank you!! It’s hard being hour glass, it sounds desirable, but in reality it’s so difficult 😑
Cassandra Etc ❤️
Exactly. It's hard to dress in a flattering way without looking tacky.
Lol I agree it is really difficult
@@IESWlodarczyk Or loosing your waist under a tent because of your big bust.
Yes, yes, yes...💞💓❤
I love that you take the time to detail what looks right and wrong, especially using your red pen too! I'm currently revamping my wardrobe and this video is soooo helpful, thank you!
Hi Schermeen Washington! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗
Im not in my 50's but i have an hourglass body and struggle to find clothes that work for me. I really like the easy advice that i can remember when i look for clothes!
I sincerely appreciate your use of WOC and larger sized models in your examples. I also found the comparison photos of T-shaped models with photos hourglass curves. With age, I have learned to spot the signs an outfit that looks great on a model will not work for me but, these might save others the trouble of learning only via trial and error.
Thank you for your comment Nic W. 🙏 I appreciate you taking the time to say hi 🌸
What I love about your videos is your positive attitude. You love inspiring women and you do not compete with women. You remind us to care and help lift each other up!
Levi 721- high rise skinny jeans. read somewhere it was the best for a women’s figure. They were right. I now have dark blue and have ordered black.
Yes perfect Shawna Schaeffer! Thanks so much for watching...Have a great day 💕
Also bootcuts are good too. Mid rise or high rise. The wide part of the bootcut should start lower than the knee not at the knee to look best.
Love Levi jeans. They’re the only one that fit me perfectly.
@@fanderarosetto4358 yes Levi 721 high rise, love the high rise
@@vaderladyl I love bootcuts too! They are flattering to most body types! I hope they never go out of style.
Excellent! I am hourglass and find that slight peplums look good, too
I'm 33 years old and found this video very informative. I have an hourglass shape and realize my wardrobe has been making me look like a square.... No v-neck, no high waisted jeans, and no focus of my waist 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ The drawing demonstrations on the models really gave a powerful visual ❤
High rise pants that wrap the waist. Also ladies size 16 in Marilyn Monroe’s era would be a size 10 US today. Vanity sizing since 2000
1966 I took a tailoring class in college. First time my measurements were ever taken;35-23-35. Wore a size 6.115lbs. Thought I was fat and so did everyone else because I didn’t know how to dress for body type-Twiggy was in vogue.☹️
I think sizes are small now I’m wearing 2x shorts right now so
You were tiny.
MM was not a size 16 no where near it!!!! More like a size 6 or 8 back then her clothes as artifacts prove that
@@user-yd4yr5hr3s Yep! And do you notice how MM’s clothing size seems to keep going up and up? Before you know it she’ll be a size 18. The reality is today she would be a size 2 or 4. The over weight would love to think they have a lot in common with MM. Dream on.
I just came across this video this afternoon. And, WOW!! This has so much excellent information on how to dress the hourglass body shape. It's hard to imagine, but I only recently discovered that I'm an hourglass and NOT a straight body type. My mind was quite blown at that moment. I couldn't, at first, figure out how on earth that I didn't know I WAS AN HOURGLASS. I began thinking back to my teen years in the early 1970's and realized that "fashion" emphasized the tall straight figure. The advice was always to dress to look tall, thin and straight. I've spent so many years dressing to look tall, thin and straight that I literally had no idea what my body shape was. Several weeks ago my body shape was revealed through very reliable sources. Now, I know why I was feeling so "squarish" (instead of slim) and thought that nothing fit me right or seemed the right styles. I went through all my clothes, tried them on and got rid of clothing definitely not for my body type. For the first time in years, I'm loving how I look and loving my clothes!
Thank you for sharing your wonderful comment Michelle and stay fabulous ❤️🌸
Thank you for taking the time to use models that most women can relate to!!!
ooofv this is what i needed... the problem i have is with pants/jeans...the waists of them stand so far out away from my body it's beyond frustrating.. and i don't have a skinny thigh, and i have a curvy bum.. then a tiny waist then of course, my top.. and it's incredibly frustrating finding clothing if it isn't yoga pants to not be 6 inches out from my waist...! it's like, clothing makers forgot that's how women are shaped!
Learn to sew so you can take the waist in.
It’s so frustrating to try on clothes! I’m grateful for your videos- I’m a true hourglass shape- large bust and small waist and large hips! Pants are near impossible to find …! Stretchy is my best friend!! Hugs in the right places and easy to wear. Also I’m so short and that’s another challenge
Wow! I've always gravitated towards wrap around and waist cuts and now I know why. This was the clearest and simplest to remember explanation of what to look for for an hourglass figure, that I've ever seen. I'm not in your targetted age range but I'm so glad I watched this video.
Thanks for taking the time to comment Adri K! Have a great day 🌸
Wow, you don't only giving tips but also embracing us an hourglass who doesn't like our body, thank you for that!
I'm cleaning my closet out and keeping only what works based on this video. Thank you, such helpful information. For the fist time, I feel like I can dress stylishly for my body type.
I’m 21 and still tying to figure out how to dress. Your video really helped me understand and appreciate my curves. Thank you very much!
Thank you Schellea. Most helpful. Everything in the shops at the moment are so boxy. Just awful. Do they even flatter anyone?
I know Olwyn N! It can be very discouraging❤️
@macks Smith LOL!! 👍
Gaping at the back of jeans and other pants. Yes! I have dealt with that for years. I'm glad to get some tips. Thanks!
Thank you so much, Schellea! I not only love the way you explain how and why certain clothes work -or not- for us hourglass women, but the way you do it, it is so inspiring. I wish we had such wonderful, warm and lovely "UA-camrs" when I was younger. We would all embrace and love our beautiful bodies from an early age :)
You have just illustrated my whole life! My problems from my early years, continuing into my 60’s. Thank you, I did find tailored shirts while working, looks like I need to go back to that!
The videos target 50+ women, but the advice applies to women of all ages. I’m so happy that a friend recommended Shelley’s channel. She told me about the exercise routines, but I’ve now alerted her to everything else that Shelley (hope I’m spelling it correctly) has to offer.👍🏻😊🇨🇦
I have an hourglass shape and I am really happy you did this video. I'm not heavy, but so many clothes make me look chubby! And to find a pair of jeans that look good on me is pure hell. Turns out I was always looking at jeans for a more square body type. Your tips were very helpful, so THANK YOU! ❤❤
Im so happy you enjoyed the video Stacy B Thanks for taking the time to comment ❤️
I’m an extreme hourglass and have so many issues finding clothes! Though I’m in my teens, thank god these videos exist!
Love the language you use to encourage women.
Thank you so much! It is so nice of you to link all of the pieces of clothing, too!! I have learned some of these tips, but it is difficult to actually find the pieces of clothing. Thank you for what you do!!
I’m in my 40ies. Unfortunately cat calling and hormone driven men, throughout my formative years, have taught me to hide my curves. I detest to show any cleavage, I feel self aware with anything too form fitting. I try to hide my chest 100% of the time. My goal is to appear as small chested as possible. My waist is tiny and my boobs seem to stand out too much if I want to wear something figure hugging. But these are just my own insecurities. I loved your tips and this video. Great if someone is confident in their body.
Same here. If you wear a top with a little cleavage it's "showing your boobs"... But you should honestly free yourself from these insecurities. So what if men are drooling and women are jealous? . It's your own beautiful body, enjoy it as as long as you can.
Hi C’est Moi! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Its such a shame that we feel the need to hide form that kind of behaviour...Im sorry that happened to you
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fabulous50s Hi Shellea, thank you for your reply. You are so kind! I love your ab and arm work out series as well ❤️
You rock that fab figure as long as you have it! You will look back and regret it someday if you don't. As long as it's tasteful you have no reason to avoid clothes that flatter what you were blessed with! 😊
Gloria J. Pinsker ♥️ thanks for your kind words! Have a great day!
Really uplifting message! I thought I was an apple but just a petite plump hourglass
I love that you picked size 16 women for your examples. Very good video. Thank you so much!
I absolutely ❤️❤️❤️ this video.....you helped me realize why I get frustrated with jeans....I have a small waist and it’s so irritating that every time I try jeans on I’m left with a gap in the back.....now I know what to look for before I go to the dressing room!!! Thank you and will look forward to more of these videos....I also really appreciate that you cater to women over 50!! 👍👍
Im so happy you enjoyed the video Anastasia Tsotroudis Thanks for taking the time to comment ❤️
Yes to all this esp the jeans and pants section. My main issue is that I have to work at not looking TOO sexy at 70. After losing weight I am a size 10 figure 8 meaning my hip curve starts higher than on the hourglass shape. I cannot wear straight skirts that taper in at the legs or I look tarty so I wear swingy fluid skirts as you show. Fit )in the bust area) and flare (below the waist) looks great on me as do wrap styles that you show. I always try to find v neck tops for my ample bust and for button up shirts often have to add front and back vertical darts at the waist so as not to look too boxy...very easy to do with a basic sewing machine. When heavier I wore boxy tops like you show and I looked 20lbs heavier than I actually was! Great video.
That makes so much sense and I’ve learned over the years that these exact types of clothing always look best on me. I always thought I was an apple shape but don’t have a tummy. After last week’s video I didn’t feel like I fit any body shape but I realized today I have an hourglass shape so now I will have even a better understanding of the types of clothing to look for.Great video!
Thanks Sandy Bourgeois! Im so happy you have gained some clarity...Have a fabulous day 🌸
Thank you Schellea, you are so lovely and you have great advices for us.
Thanks so much BiBi Khan! Have an amazing day ❤️
This was great. Will you do a new hourglass video for 2021 with more suggestions for in stock clothes to try. Also how to deal with a large tummy after menopause with this figure.
Good tips. It would be nice to go back to a hour glass figure. 20 years old- one hour glass, 30 years old- 2 hour glass, 40 years old- 3 hour glass. By the time we realize, we look like barrel.
Thanks for making me laugh Gurpreet Kaur! Have an amazing day ❤️
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Gurpreet you can!
ok thanks. I'll try.
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It is so wonderful to see such a graceful woman like you. Very inspiring to young women to grow into age in an elegant way. Age is just a number. The more we add on years the more sofisticated, graceful and elegant we become. And how we present ourselves is what makes us. Its important to stay put together despite your age, place, occation or status. What women got all are just excuses to stay comfortable in places which arent really comfortable. Its in the way we dress, sit, walk, eat, talk...even sleep. Ladies, dont let yourselves settle just for anything. Enjoy the journey. Become a whole new you every day by adding something new which brings out the best in you.
Thank you. Your videos helping me alot in my studies. Love you loads 💜
Hello! New subscriber here!❤
Am turning 40 this year, and as an hourglass have always worn baggy clothes because clothes shopping was always so difficult..& kinda embarrassing!
But to know that Marilyn Monroe had the same problems!
..That's a big confidence booster!😊❤
Hi FluffyCakes Lives and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...Thanks so much for watching and have an amazing week 💕
😊😁😄 I knew it!! Lol. I'm just like her. I've wondered if we aren't kin!!😃😄😄😉😎😘😋 for real, my body has been my enemy
I’ve watched so many videos on how to dress a curvy body and this one just nailed it. I don’t need to watch another one. I do wanna say though, I think a less curvy woman can be just as feminine, just with a different vibe and energy.
I’m 28 and I love this channel! You are gorgeous and as the ladies in the comments!
This was so helpful. I've been shopping to revamp my wardrobe and it is so hard to find clothes that fit and/or flattering. Now I know why!
Absolutely best video! I now realize what kind of shape I have . All the samples you show for hourglass are what I found over the years I feel pretty in. Now I’m even more aware when I go shopping to only buy clothes that will flatter. I’ve found over the years that skinny jeans with elastic waist fit best . Also I love dresses because it’s easier to find fitting in the middle versus shirts and pants.
Im so happy you enjoyed the video Deedee Smith Thanks for taking the time to comment ❤️
Shelley, I love your voice and hair. 😃 Your videos are so uplifting. Thank you so much! ☺️❤️🙏
🥰🌺☺️✌🏾I love how you described my hour glass body shape. Also I love how you showed the difference with the red pen. That’s really important for us curvy ladies can see. Thankkkkkk Youuuuu for posting this video. 🥰
ok but honey, your hair looks AMAZING and so naturally alive
I found this advice really helpful. Thank you. I am in my sixties and my waist has increased a little, but is still 8 inches smaller than shoulders bust and hips, which are all the same. This way of dressing is definitely more flattering on me.
I always wonder why the back of my jeans always give me problem on the waist while they look so good on other girls. now I know why. Thank you for this!
Excellent video, as usual. You work a lot and your videos are pure gold. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us. Huge hugs.
Thanks Maddie B I really appreciate your comment...Have a beautiful week ❤️
You addressed our issues really well! Every problem I've had, you covered. Loved this!!
This was very helpful- In a cold climate, I frequently add scarves and have to keep coats closed. Good tips. Thank you
Hi Teresa Darnielle Morse! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗
Shellea, I am 59 yrs old, in full menopause, and I am an hourglass. You exactly nailed all the issues with an hourglass figure. I also have a bad knee and I tend to wear very low heels, not flats, but maybe a two inch heel at most and I am 5'4". The best sizing for me is a 14W. One trick I have found from you is if you have a pair of jeans that are snug on the thigh but have a good flare on the bottom invest in an asymetric top to break that line across the largest part of your thighs and wear a pointed toe or almond toe shoe/boot to elongate the leg. You did a video on this type of thing a while ago and it works every time. I like tailored clothes the best on me but a little flow also works well.
Thanks for taking the time to share your comment with us Cosetta Groff! Have a great day 🌸
I never wear clingy fabric. It shows up all my lumps & bumps & I'm not talking about curves
Me too. I made the mistake of getting the depo shot. 2 shots=6 pants sizes.
@@ReclypesGravy what's a 'depo shot?'
The Depo vera shot is a type non hormonal birth control shot that makes u gain weight even if u starve urself. It's not water weight, it's real fat for some reason. I look like a short snow man box some times of the month, other times I'm just a really short thick hr glass.
Some stretch fabric is ok for me if it has a small print to it which makes my lumps/bumps less noticeable
@@ReclypesGravy the depo shot IS hormonal. It’s synthetic progesterone.
I'm just loving this series, Schellea! I definitely have an hourglass figure as far as shoulders/hips/small waist, however I have a small bust so I don't know if that still qualifies as hourglass ;) And as I mentioned in the last video I have those large upper arms (my sausage arms as I lovingly refer to them lol). My calves are also thick. I think it's a genetic thing because my mother has the same problem with thick calves, even when she was younger and quite thin she could never find fashionable boots to fit her calves. Back in the day they didn't make boots for thicker calves like they do nowadays. I chalk it all up to our German heritage, we are hearty German women!
My daughters sound like your shape dilemma. One is a pear the other is an hourglass. Both flatter chested. The difference is the width if the shoulder (not the actual bust). If the shoulder width is equal to the hips, it is an hourglass. If the shoulder is smaller than the hips, it is a pear. They both have challenges buying jeans for exactly the reasons she stated! This is an excellent series of videos!
Ps. They are German heritage as well and they also have the "sausage arms" and thicker calves lol!
@@hobbypotter lol, glad to know I'm not alone in my struggle!!
It's easy to look frumpy with our figure type. I highly recommend the best under garments you can find. Not shapewear per say, but a great bra. The one I have on costs $65. Worth every cent!!
Thank you Schellea! You have a wonderful way of teaching/inspiring others. I appreciate your sharing your knowledge with us.
Smiles & Hugs to you ;-)
Im so happy you enjoyed the video D. H. Thanks for taking the time to comment ❤️
I’m 23 and this was the best explained video of how to dress as an hourglass thank you
I’m an hour glass and it’s difficult finding anything cute. I have athletic legs, a big butt, a menopausal belly, and my chest is disappearing. I’m 5’4”, and a size 10/12 but can look much heavier due to draping, cuts and shapes. I also live in a tropical climate and it’s taken all the fun out of buying clothing. Flip flops, T-shirts and shorts. I despise shorts, and find myself I’m boho style dresses and shirts. I miss dressing for four seasons and having a closet full of variety. Thank you for the video, well done!
I know this video is meant for 50+ women, but as someone in her 30s I actually wish I would have even known this in my teens. No matter how slim I was my badly dressed hourglass figure has always made me look bigger than I really was...
So I just found this video So informative. I have been so self conscious of my hips since 15 and was told by a boy I had big hips. I am no 64 and i still feel this way. This video brought light to my eyes to embrace what I have. 5ft 1 125 lbs, I am glad I have curves her tips make me want to go shopping 🛍 today
First of all!!!
Am clearly satisfied to see most of the demo pics of plus size women... And they r jus beautiful
So, thanksss i alwys felt as if all my clothes jus make me look thicker when i ain't a plus size
So, gonna work on my wardrobe nw😅and i totallyyyy loved ur haircut and tht prominent cute apple trench on ur head due to ur bangs❤🥺
Thank you for this video! I really like that these are affordable outfits!
Hi Schellea. 1st I have to say, I love the colour of yr hair. 2ndly, not only is the “dressing for body type” a great subject, but how wonderfully easy you’ve made it for us to shop with all the clothing listed beneath. Thanks very much for a thoughtfully put together tutorial lovely lady. Sending you sunshine from Qld xx🌞🌺💖
Thanks Tracey Higgins I really appreciate your comment!...Have a beautiful week ❤️
@@fabulous50s i am 45 38 47 but i have big arms and i detest short sleeves also my tummy what do I do
Excellent tips with clear explanations and images. The essential guide for clothing the hourglass figure. Well done.
Yay! Thank you Schellea! I'll be trying these ideas. It is pretty hard to find stuff that isn't boxy or made for women without much chest. Luckily, I sew. So sometimes I buy huge clothes with lovely fabric and restyle them to better suit me. I used to make all my own clothes, but it takes a lot of time. BTW, I have found the Seven7 brand jeans have some styles that fit hourglass figures. Lucky find a thrift shop once. As some people commented here, sometimes we don't want to flaunt the curves, but still don't want to look boxy. It is a bit of a dilemma, but it is possible to be curvy and tasteful, too.
Hi Anything Is Possible! You are so lucky to be able to sew and alter your own clothes...Thanks so much for watching...Have a great day 💕
Thanks so much, I find it so hard to find clothes, the tips are fantastic 😀
Not sure why the fashion industry changed the Sizing but i agree with other comments about Vanity sizing now. I was in hi school in the 50’s. 115- 120 5’6”. Very thin & i wore size 10
Thank you it's true if your short with big hips, thighs and small waist, very hard to find the right Jean's. God Bless You and Your Family FOREVER AMEN🙇♀️✝️🙏
Thanks for the blessings Debbie Debbie! Have a great day 🦋
Watch this again today thank you for these helpful hints you are fabulous
Great video and instruction. And thanks for picking a real size to do the instruction.
I'm on my early 20s and have an hourglass figure. This really helps me alot. Thank you.
I’m doing the opposite. I hate drawing attention to my bust and I hate my tummy so I tend towards styles that I think draw attention away from those areas. That means looser tops and leggings. My legs are slim and I’m size 8 (US sizing) so not huge but I hate my curves. Sigh. And I wouldn’t be caught dead tucking anything in ever. The struggle is real.
So do I :)
Same!
Hi.. I have a hour glass measurement with my shoulders waist and hips.. but I don’t have a large bust.. I only see videos for hourglass with large bust ..
Thank you so much, finding clothes to fit a large bust tiny waist always a challenge!!
Wow...lots to take in...thanks do much for this video💞💞💞💞stay fabulous🥰🥰
Hi Lisa Costigan! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Have an amazing day 🤗
Just found you. I have to say, you look like Olivia Newton John!
Love her and love watching your videos too! 💞
Love it! I am hour glass. My problem is not pretty legs. 😢 My career (nursing) 30 yrs on my feet. Veiny legs..2 total knee scars... I wear pants 100%. Any advice, for dresses? Thanks. Love your videos.
You're gorgeous!!! You give me hope for when I reach my fab 50s 💕
I started getting most of my clothes tailored thanks for my body type. Having an hourglass body type has its downsides especially when it comes to dressing and shopping.
I am an hour glass. I have to wear somewhat fitted clothes with stretch and sometimes I think it comes off a little sexy for work, but it is definitely the most flattering and slimming. Every once in a while someone will comment about why I am so dressed up. Unfortunately, I can’t really wear a lot of suits because they can really make me look boxy.
Chris find blazers (or have them tailored) that have a curve to them. Dont buy boxy tops. They are a killer! Go to Christie Ressels or busbeestyle channels. They have lots of tips and advice.
Fantastic, the best video on hourglass. Exellent when you draw and explained at the same time 👌finally I have IT clear now 🙏🏼🤩❣️
Hi Maria Myre! I'm happy you enjoyed the video...Thanks for watching and have an amazing day 🤗
I'm an hourglass and when i wanna get pants they usually don't fit me in waist. They are too big around my waist. People want that body shape but they don't know its kinda hard to get clothes, especially if u are an ectomorph like me.
Hourglass body is not an ectomorph. Ectomorphs are rectangle.
@@eminaalihodzic6478 no, not exactly, its more about proportions, my shoulders and hips are aligned and i do have a defined waist
Thank you very much for that explanation. I have always dressed with an eye to these shapes, but not really knowing why I looked better in certain styles. I have always had an hour glass figure with the tiniest waist, but at 65, I have a belly. Not that I don't work out, I still do, but I am post menopausal so that belly is hard to lose. If I look straight on at my figure, I still look OK, I can still see the hour glass shape, however when I turn sideways it is down hill from there. I get a bit depressed with that stubborn tummy. Thanks again.
Thanks for your comment Anita Clemens! Im sending you a big hug 🤗
Anita Clemens 63 with the same issue! Hourglass from the front...round, stubbornly bloated belly from the side!
Love ❤️ this video.
It works on every age group. You elaborate pretty awesome way.
You kept your word and did the hourglass video. I really respect and appreciate that ❤️ Even though I didn't completely agree with everything you said in the previous video I watched about sleeves, I am definitely your fan, I just subscribed.
Hi Hélia Alves and a warm welcome to fabulous50s! I'm happy you are here...Thanks so much for watching and have an amazing week 💕
Your styling videos are always spot on, and so well-presented. Thank you, Schellea!
Thanks Kara Rowbotham I really appreciate your comment...Have a beautiful week end❤️
That’s a very informative and helpful video!! Thank you so much!
Thanks so much! 🙏 I am glad you enjoyed the post and I really appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment ❤️❤️❤️
Wow you are so beautiful inside and outside 😍 I am 25 but I think this video has great tips for every age
My mom(50) and I(21) have the same exact hourglass body type, she's s 2-3 cms taller and only a little bit heavier than me, but we have around the same measurements. we have been wearing the same clothes since I was a teen, if my mom wore something that didnt look good on her(like the pants in the thumbnail), it was 100% that it didnt look good on me either LOL. i was lucky to have it figured out as an adult by her trial and errors xD i just got back into fashion recently and these videos are really helpful too
True finding clothes is so hard! I hate shopping for that reason.. IT makes me feel verry sad, to walk in and out stores with nothing. I am 1.78, and a hourglass being tall makes it more diffecult for me also.
Girl, thank you so much for helping this curvy girl. This is soooo helpful.
Thanks for the info, it really helps me understand why certain cuts doesn't fit me.
Technically I'm a triangle, but with a small waist, so close to being an hourglass. Since nothing ever fits, my solution has been to learn to alter clothes. A lot of alterations are easier than people think.
Your voice is so soothing, I have goosebumps while listening ))
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You inspired me in December 2020. Thank you.