Big Ed Goes To Therapy With Liz And It's Horrifying

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  • @angelap8089
    @angelap8089 Рік тому +947

    This man is like 60 and still blaming high school for his poor behavior 😅

    • @donkeyhobo34
      @donkeyhobo34 Рік тому +9

      I'm in love with you

    • @DavidSjodinisbest
      @DavidSjodinisbest Рік тому +31

      @@donkeyhobo34 maybe yall should get ur own tlc series

    • @fructosecornsyrup5759
      @fructosecornsyrup5759 Рік тому +9

      @@donkeyhobo34 wtf lol

    • @Jokervision744
      @Jokervision744 Рік тому +5

      Some people have to go for therapy for things like that... Otherwise there wouldn't be any therapists. 🤷
      Accountability?
      Well they could just come out and say that they can't deal with people, and have to spend their life alone, if nothing helps.

    • @shikadragon
      @shikadragon Рік тому +2

      Typical man tbh

  • @helloelio6821
    @helloelio6821 Рік тому +145

    Going to a therapy together and talking about your vulnerable side to an abuser is something you do not want to do. Now he can use that info to his advantage to manipulate her.

  • @madisonhodapp8049
    @madisonhodapp8049 Рік тому +3069

    I think the only reason Big Ed has been challenging or calling out people to "fight" is because he realizes that his popularity is plummeting. More people are realizing what a trash human he is and in order to get his name back out there he has to do something crazy and challenge people that are actually relevant good human beings. Ed has only ever profited on gaslighting people and then claiming to be the victim.

    • @matthill5426
      @matthill5426 Рік тому +18

      If he made his own youtube channel, he could get into that "Influencer Boxing" thing iDubzz was promoting.

    • @X-Cactus
      @X-Cactus Рік тому +81

      @Jack Wrath The bragging makes me less likely to check you out. Most likely your content isn't better at all.

    • @scottfoster8681
      @scottfoster8681 Рік тому +7

      Took long enough for him to realize it lol

    • @nrgbunni.
      @nrgbunni. Рік тому +1

      It's not just challenging Ken to fight the other day ed uploaded a video on instagram that shows him completely naked with only a small blur for his dick it was absolutely revolting. I'm not sure if the video is still up but I screen shot it in case he took it down in case people don't believe me that he did it

    • @Grave_gh0ul
      @Grave_gh0ul Рік тому +42

      @Jack Wrath you have one video and only 16 subs
      Ok

  • @katieharington4404
    @katieharington4404 Рік тому +1524

    The scene where they’re in the park, Liz looks like a completely different person! She looks absolutely broken, and so sad, Ed has literally sucked the life out of her

    • @lighttheway5088
      @lighttheway5088 Рік тому +147

      Narcissist do that to people. You would be amazed if you looked up pictures of women during narcissistic abuse vs after leaving / healing. It is shocking.

    • @dualistic6916
      @dualistic6916 Рік тому

      And the soul was sucked directly into his stomach, by the looks of it. His body ran out of room a long time ago and has resorted to storing the fat in his neck

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 Рік тому +99

      @@lighttheway5088 what gets me is how he's always accusing her of cheating but HE cheated on his pregnant wife and trying to creep on other women. At this point Liz is just as delusional as him if she thinks there's any kind of redeemable character in Ed. I'm with Ken, it's all for the cameras.

    • @Danovio
      @Danovio Рік тому +20

      No one forceing her to stay but herself, gotta get that cash

    • @hannahzaner7062
      @hannahzaner7062 Рік тому +44

      @@Danovio if this is a real relationship, most women go back to their abusers 5 times before they leave for good. It is not her fault that she's staying because she is conditioned to think that this is what she deserves.

  • @SusuIAm
    @SusuIAm Рік тому +704

    OMG you got Big 🥚’s attention?!?! How did I miss that?! Usually he only goes after young girls. 😂 Bravo Ken!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @lexiwexiwoo
      @lexiwexiwoo Рік тому +23

      Oh it was beautiful, you know Buff got to live his WWE promoter dreams

    • @ericdpeerik3928
      @ericdpeerik3928 Рік тому +24

      Obviously you've never seen Ken in a dress. Big Ed couldn't resist.

    • @TRUEbASNER
      @TRUEbASNER Рік тому +17

      @@ericdpeerik3928 It's lady Buffpro for me😂. Absolute bombshell🔥

    • @mehguhtron
      @mehguhtron Рік тому

      @Jack Wrath no one cares about your channel hush 🤫

    • @mehguhtron
      @mehguhtron Рік тому +4

      @Jack Wrath you commented that on like Four other comments 😂

  • @DabbleDont
    @DabbleDont Рік тому +335

    Someone needs to let Lil Ed know that "unconditional love" is what you get from a pet. You can't realistically expect a person to love you no matter what you do or say. Everyone has faults, but everyone has limits too, and I can't imagine that Liz is just gonna sit back and take the crap he's dishing out much longer.

    • @thapoppyman
      @thapoppyman Рік тому +16

      thats what your mothers for, not your wife. thats just weird to expect that from your partner.

    • @DabbleDont
      @DabbleDont Рік тому +22

      @@thapoppyman It's not right to expect it from a parent either. Can you imagine being Dad to a dumpster fire like Ted Bundy or Jeffrey Dahmer? I think that'd be a Dad who probably wishes his kid was never born.

    • @ClaraBell3452
      @ClaraBell3452 Рік тому +3

      I've heard it put this way: Love IS unconditional, but relationships are NOT

    • @kingofravens215
      @kingofravens215 Рік тому +3

      @@thapoppyman Wrong he needs many years of therapy to work out his own problems before he theoretically truly tries to have a relationship with anyone ever again and honestly she needs to walk away from him and live her own life

    • @misseskimo1
      @misseskimo1 Рік тому +3

      @@DabbleDont Evidence can suggest that because they weren't unconditionally loved by their parents people like that happen.... not always the case but a large amount of the time. It's a huge thing that kids should have unconditional love from their parents. Maybe when they're adults and do weird/bad things sure, but children definitely need it.

  • @queenphoenix121
    @queenphoenix121 Рік тому +1165

    How can he not see hes controlling when he LITERALLY CALLED HER TO SCREAM AT HER ABOUT TAKING AN FRIEND/CO-WORKER HOME. I can not with him. BUFF KICK HIS A$$!! 😂

    • @nrgbunni.
      @nrgbunni. Рік тому +1

      Because narcissistic people are that delusional and not self aware enough to accept anything they do can be wrong it's always someone else's fault

    • @abdulraheem468
      @abdulraheem468 Рік тому +23

      He knows he just doesn't give a shit

    • @kagarismydog
      @kagarismydog Рік тому +1

      TAZE HIM

    • @bellenott9136
      @bellenott9136 Рік тому +3

      TAZE HIM!

    • @queenphoenix121
      @queenphoenix121 Рік тому +19

      @Patrick39 listen kid. I'd recommend that you quit while you're "ahead". 😂

  • @PitchBlack33
    @PitchBlack33 Рік тому +357

    As somebody who was a part of a toxic relationship, it was so hard to get out. Even through all the lies, abuse, and cheating. I just had an extremely low view of myself and would rather go through all that than be alone. Eventually it got to a point where I couldn’t do it anymore, and now 6 months later I’m finally starting to do better. But leaving that relationship and the next couple months was the hardest time of my life, and I wanted to go back so bad. But I had good people in my life to support me and help me from going back to her.

    • @Coira2
      @Coira2 Рік тому +24

      I'm so glad you're free of that. I had something similar, abuse, lies, manipulation, then stalking when I left. It is really sad to see Liz not fully be able to break away, but I understand it. It is so tough to leave, and the abuser doesn't make it any easier no matter what you do.
      I'm so glad you're doing better, and you've got this.

    • @SR-bv1fs
      @SR-bv1fs Рік тому +9

      you're not alone in this!!! keep you're head up i promise it will get 10X better!!!

    • @chrissymcal3146
      @chrissymcal3146 Рік тому +14

      Not to mention all the twisted mind games that they play that make you feel like you're nothing without them

    • @emilyspector2728
      @emilyspector2728 Рік тому +4

      And you have gotten stronger! You also know what to look for and say “Buh bye” . Proud of you for choosing yourself!!!!!

    • @casey4290
      @casey4290 Рік тому +5

      I am so glad you are out of that relationship, I hope you find someone who treats you well and I hope you have a wonderful and fulfilling life ❤

  • @paigeagainstthemachine7550
    @paigeagainstthemachine7550 Рік тому +329

    "Are those wedding bells?"
    No, they are Church Bells.... From the church, that's right there. Run Liz, claim sanctuary 🤭🤦

    • @Bayloy
      @Bayloy Рік тому +3

      They're the same bells that get rung when people get married. It could have been a wedding or a church service. No telling.

    • @paigeagainstthemachine7550
      @paigeagainstthemachine7550 Рік тому +14

      @@Bayloy exactly 🤣 our church bells go off every day at noon. Ed's just got his own itinerary on the brain

    • @daynasafranek7807
      @daynasafranek7807 Рік тому +18

      It’s the church telling her to run from that situation

    • @stoniegadg3t-music345
      @stoniegadg3t-music345 Рік тому +3

      I enjoyed how the camera man even showed as Toast said.. the bells were missing from the towers lol 😆 yet there were sounds of a bell being struck.. 🔔

    • @BTTFMovie
      @BTTFMovie Рік тому +1

      I was about to compare Ed to Quasimodo, but that would've been too mean....to Quasimodo.

  • @SheWearsShortSkirtsIEatPizza
    @SheWearsShortSkirtsIEatPizza Рік тому +150

    I know this is about big 🥚, but the part at 7:37 where Ken talks about the sexuality. As a bisexual, Ive had to have conversations countless times with a man, who became an ex within a matter of a couple months who just couldn't believe that it wasn't about me liking men more than women or women more than men, it was about me liking him more than anyone else.

    • @hazbinotakusimp2182
      @hazbinotakusimp2182 Рік тому +5

      Big 🥚 omg XD

    • @SheWearsShortSkirtsIEatPizza
      @SheWearsShortSkirtsIEatPizza Рік тому +7

      @@hazbinotakusimp2182 i wasn't even the one who came up with that. Someone else in this comment section said it. Suzu I believe? I thought it was hilarious.

    • @WhatsAMeadow4
      @WhatsAMeadow4 Рік тому +19

      this exactly. my ex went from "okay, I have to worry about every man who looks at you" to "oh, so I have to worry about EVERYONE who looks at you??"
      exhausting.

    • @Dust_andAshes
      @Dust_andAshes Рік тому +2

      Same! Biphobia should be acknowledged for what it is.

    • @chilindrina134
      @chilindrina134 Рік тому +4

      I used to date a dude that yelled at me because me having my female bestfriend as my lockscreen was "proof of cheating and the date on that picture is when you started dating!"
      It was the date of THAT day 🙃when I broke up with him he'd ft me crying with blood stained knifes saying how he wanted to have babies with me
      Months later he ended up being mad I didn't want to go to a hotel room to see him because I was in a relationship. Apparently, he dumbed it down in English and was happy to translate it into Spanish since I was being slow :) he just wanted a "friend" that night and was pissed I kept bringing up I was in a relationship

  • @cortneysmith5254
    @cortneysmith5254 Рік тому +400

    Ok I don't say this to be mean (though it will definitely sound that way), but Liz is looking ROUGH compared to when they first met. And I 1000% believe it is due to being with Ed. That is what being in a toxic relationship will do to you. When you're miserable and just don't have it in you to care anymore it shows. She looks exhausted and miserable.

    • @daynasafranek7807
      @daynasafranek7807 Рік тому +38

      A toxic relationship can put years on your. He took a young woman and made her old.

    • @jamienicole2122
      @jamienicole2122 Рік тому +24

      I totally get what you’re saying and thought the exact same thing. You’re not saying it to be mean, it’s a fact as plain as day.

    • @prometheusvenom7189
      @prometheusvenom7189 Рік тому +3

      @@daynasafranek7807 It reminds me when Peter showed Meg the picture of Joan Van Art

    • @megorex630
      @megorex630 Рік тому +17

      I look completely different now than I did when I was in an abusive marriage with my ex husband for 6yrs… being in a toxic relationship is exhausting and you wind up living in a constant state of doubt plus fight or flight. I don’t doubt that Liz has to walk on eggshells around Little Ed and living that way will age you so quickly.

    • @asteriasheria2053
      @asteriasheria2053 Рік тому +6

      @@daynasafranek7807 lol it's HER fault she's a grown @$$ women and it's HER choice to be with no neck ed. Remember Rose she was SSSOOOO much younger than lil pathetic liz and Still kept her self-respect and thought about her son.

  • @melodyconte
    @melodyconte Рік тому +509

    5:20 I wouldn't say that was insecurity. I think Liz had apprehensions about moving too fast with Ed because she had just gotten a divorce from her second husband.
    But Ed doesn't respect boundaries so they moved lightning fast and now she's trauma bonded because he keeps leaving her and coming back

    • @HaKarina
      @HaKarina Рік тому +12

      Damn, nailed it

    • @Danovio
      @Danovio Рік тому +3

      You honestly think she would be with ed if he wasent on this show?

    • @kirbed9486
      @kirbed9486 Рік тому +23

      @@Danovio at the beginning no I don’t think she would’ve been with him. But at this point yeah maybe. She’s literally trying to convince her own self that big Ed’s worth all the crap she been puttin up with at this point, she’s broken dude, it’s sad

    • @geoffreylincicome7298
      @geoffreylincicome7298 Рік тому +6

      @@kirbed9486 Thats all assuming this is all not completely fake.
      Which it likely is so... Remember the entire background changing multiple times? This shit is fake bro, lol shes not broken. Shes paid.

    • @Danovio
      @Danovio Рік тому +1

      @@kirbed9486 There is nothing healthy to begin with, a "relationship" that is based around you haveing cameras on you, people worrying about rateings and views, she did this to herself, dont feel sympathy for people who put themselves into shit for money.
      Your life being a TV show is bound to even have forced drama.
      Stop the cap, she might be broken, but its literally her choice to go be with a dude who is a known douche bag all around the world.
      This is like a woman going to a famous cheater and wife beater and pretend they are surprised that they are being cheated on and beaten. she is doing this for money not love.

  • @laurataylor8326
    @laurataylor8326 Рік тому +389

    She obviously thinks he is all she can get/and or deserves. She has been hurt so badly by men she is used to bad treatment. Hopefully she realizes that nobody deserves to be treated like that by anyone. It's just sad and depressing at this point. The show should be getting her help instead of exploiting her. Big Ed is a trash human...period.

    • @sadie1606
      @sadie1606 Рік тому +4

      @@Svol09 hmm this bait looks like bait.

    • @akakurapico
      @akakurapico Рік тому +5

      Noo Frr I hope she leaves him omg

    • @elishaforrester1150
      @elishaforrester1150 Рік тому +1

      Unfortunately big Ed gets ratings and interest and tlc perpetuates the existence of a cheesy mayo smelling Manchild with a God Complex... Liz deserves a nice successful Man willing to dote on her to the point where she won't need to look anywhere else because she's being treated better than the roly poly cheese puff, we saw Eds lil mid life motorcycle lone wolf crisis on tlc for all of maybe two episodes or three....his only income is being a media jester cheese puff who thinks abusing/exploiting women is what they want...the world needs less of Ed....witnessing him gaslight and whine thinking he's all that... as a women it literally makes me want to bathe full submerged in boiling water...

    • @laurataylor8326
      @laurataylor8326 Рік тому +3

      @@elishaforrester1150 LMAO Roly Poly Cheese Puff...Epic!! LOLOLOL Plus, she may not be as sweet and innocent as they make her seem..you know what I mean? Either way someone needs to teach her to see her own worth. NO woman deserves the Roly Poly Cheese Puff!!!!

    • @gordonwelcher9598
      @gordonwelcher9598 Рік тому

      Never trust a man with no neck.

  • @Emily-ck9ji
    @Emily-ck9ji Рік тому +388

    I don't understand why Liz tries SO HARD to be treated like a human being by this toad of a man. She can do better. She deserves better. Ed deserves to be alone for all of eternity in a dark hole with his mother and a jar of mayonnaise.

    • @kirbed9486
      @kirbed9486 Рік тому +23

      Apparently she’s been in similar relationships before him so I’d imagine she’s just not seeing her own patterns of who she chooses as partners. She might have some deep seated issues

    • @whathappenedwas7083
      @whathappenedwas7083 Рік тому +10

      Clout , delusions of love, insecurity from trauma.

    • @Areyousayingidontknowmyname
      @Areyousayingidontknowmyname Рік тому +3

      @@kirbed9486 Yea i wonder about that. A woman that i know does the whole my husband this that blah blah. But in next breath is literally encouraging his behavior. Sometimes drama is worth the agro

    • @astherielleloella-ximena402
      @astherielleloella-ximena402 Рік тому +1

      Liz is an uneducated person. She couldn't even finish high school and seems to be able to do anything to get what she wants. She seems to be borderline or bipolar.

    • @britneynaude
      @britneynaude Рік тому +8

      Norma doesn't deserve that; I hope she stays distant from Ed and just focuses on her own happiness

  • @kanashiikami
    @kanashiikami Рік тому +186

    i like how the ed body slam will never be forgotten ever😂

  • @vishnuroy6125
    @vishnuroy6125 Рік тому +1311

    I love that Ken called out the biphobia. Like even if she was bi, it doesn’t mean anything. She’s dating Ed. Like what the hell?

    • @jellyfishlotusdream
      @jellyfishlotusdream Рік тому +18

      Fr

    • @cha0ticn3utral
      @cha0ticn3utral Рік тому +61

      "bUt I'd NeVeR aCcUsE yOu Of DaTiNg a WOMAN", like omg the horror

    • @littlebabyclover
      @littlebabyclover Рік тому +41

      People are allowed to have preferences though and I guess his preference is straight women which is fine, doesn't mean he's against people who are bi. Though they probably should have had this conversation earlier if it was going to be an issue in the relationship.

    • @AndrAiaNighthaven
      @AndrAiaNighthaven Рік тому +102

      @@littlebabyclover but if they are in a straight monogamous relationship, why should her sexuality be an issue? It makes no difference in their relationship.

    • @biancajade728
      @biancajade728 Рік тому +37

      @@AndrAiaNighthaven remember he outed Rose on TV because she went for a woman AFTER him he. He made a fake profile "Ted" in a Single Life group I was in and he was sleezy & creepy and you could tell it was him because he was saying Ed was a stud and he would take our comments way too seriously and he tried to pick a fight with me to try to make me take back stuff I was saying but he got kicked out. Molly was in our group and she was cool.

  • @ascendednightingale2456
    @ascendednightingale2456 Рік тому +58

    My ex husband refused to let me have a job because in his words: “other men would talk to you”. If any of my male friends from high school saw us in public and said hi, my ex would get extremely jealous and think that we dated. He would ask me invasive, personal questions about my exes. Much of which I didn’t know because I did not sleep with every ex I’ve ever had. Just because I had boyfriends before him, he thought I was promiscuous.

    • @KerReeeee
      @KerReeeee Рік тому +4

      My ex-husband also refused to let me work so when he decided to leave me for my sister, I was left with zero job experience at 31. I had nothing to put on my resume except for "stay at home mom", which limited me to taking a minimum wage job that cannot even cover the rent of a studio apartment.
      Financial abuse is so insidious. The abuser will make you feel like their motivation is to take care of you, and that can be considered a very appealing and "traditional" value.

    • @ascendednightingale2456
      @ascendednightingale2456 Рік тому

      @@KerReeeee Exactly. They’re so tricky about it too.

  • @cuddlebug1957
    @cuddlebug1957 Рік тому +150

    In all seriousness, financial abuse (example is controlling how much or whether your partner works) is highly prevalent in abusive relationships.

    • @katcihealer
      @katcihealer Рік тому +6

      Yeah being with someone because you are afraid of being homeless is a problem.

    • @scarlettrahnavard3101
      @scarlettrahnavard3101 Рік тому +7

      My abusive relationship went the other way. He expected me to work harder and pay all the bills. Growing up dirt poor and working hard all my life anyway, it took me a while to realize.

    • @BabyBear046
      @BabyBear046 Рік тому +5

      @@scarlettrahnavard3101 it’s just a different form of abuse and manipulation. Abuse comes in a lot of different forms that have their own unique key traits, and then share other common traits. Like isolation is a common tactic amongst almost all abusers, but each individual abuser also has other ways they manipulate and abuse their victim that will vary and many not be as common.

    • @somebodyoncetoldme2664
      @somebodyoncetoldme2664 Рік тому +1

      Big reason why I'm afraid of not having a part time job at the very least and having a shared bank account without my own. I need my independence in some form atleast.

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 Рік тому

      Just leave. Don't ever be a victim. It's easy...try it!!

  • @shikadragon
    @shikadragon Рік тому +14

    “I’m always gonna have to work on that” is a real funny way of saying “I’m never going to change but I’m just going to keep telling you it’s a flaw I’m aware of.”

  • @chetgoodenough8749
    @chetgoodenough8749 Рік тому +90

    A man in his older years with insecurities should have worked them out by like 25 to 30. No reason to hurt someone with your own BS

    • @IcyMongi
      @IcyMongi Рік тому +1

      This. This is part of what had me leave my last ex. Like bro....don't put that bs on me like that. I'm supposed to be supporting you and pushing you to do better but putting your insecurities on me as if I'm the one who cause them was not fair. Then to guilt trip me into things that made me uncomfortable....nah
      .....bye

    • @chetgoodenough8749
      @chetgoodenough8749 Рік тому +2

      @@IcyMongi all I'll say is if it ain't right then just screw off. No more pain

  • @jokerincgaming2730
    @jokerincgaming2730 Рік тому +58

    Therapist: are you happy being controlled?
    Ed: yes she is.
    🙄😂

  • @potato-smato2174
    @potato-smato2174 Рік тому +127

    He’s literally just proved that he’s taking nothing away from the therapy sessions and is still as narcissistic as ever

    • @jessieb7290
      @jessieb7290 Рік тому +9

      When a narcissist or psychopath goes to therapy all they “learn” is to better manipulate when a similar situation arises again.

    • @MrPaxio
      @MrPaxio Рік тому

      @@jessieb7290 that is literally everyone and everything that makes life

  • @wombatnumbat989
    @wombatnumbat989 Рік тому +356

    Sure, blame your genes, Ed. Anything to deny responsibility and have NO obligation to change a damn thing. Stay single, Ed. We need you out of the gene pool!!

    • @J0kesOnYou
      @J0kesOnYou Рік тому +1

      that's very harsh regarding he has a condition called Klippel-Feil Syndrome...

    • @kaelin_cherise
      @kaelin_cherise Рік тому +7

      He's already had a kid

    • @wombatnumbat989
      @wombatnumbat989 Рік тому +5

      @@kaelin_cherise yes, I know but we certainly don't want any more with Liz!! Neither of them seem to have good relationships with their daughters.

    • @wombatnumbat989
      @wombatnumbat989 Рік тому +4

      @@J0kesOnYou Sorry, wasn't commenting on his physical appearance or syndrome - just that he said he had "the jealous gene" as if he shouldn't have to change his behaviour because he can't help it.

    • @J0kesOnYou
      @J0kesOnYou Рік тому +2

      @@wombatnumbat989 Okay sorry I didn't mean to imply that you meant his appearance, just wanted to spread some awareness. But I know what you mean, he really should try to change his behaviour instead of just accepting his flaws as "genes"

  • @dualistic6916
    @dualistic6916 Рік тому +60

    The most impressive thing about big edd is how he managed to get the chin strap of his helmet to stay on

  • @Lisabullardpersonal
    @Lisabullardpersonal Рік тому +49

    7:55 THANK YOU!! I’ve had so many people say I’m going to cheat on my partner because I’m bi, but they don’t overlap at all! It feels nice to hear someone explain that so well and it gives me hope that others can learn the difference. As always, you guys rock ☺️❤️

  • @PowerageOf1970
    @PowerageOf1970 Рік тому +78

    Petition to have a Ken training arc so he can body slam Ed like he did to Liz in that wave 😤😤😤

  • @usagi32211
    @usagi32211 Рік тому +78

    After 2 episodes of Ed yelling about how he needs to know everything about Liz, I was shocked that he didn't get mad at her for not telling him she lived in her car.

    • @tinylove1979
      @tinylove1979 Рік тому +9

      You know what, I can imagine her telling him but at the time he was only listening to himself monologuing and thinking about what grandiose/self pitying/criticism of her he was gonna say next...so he just never heard her or found it so meaningless he forgot. Would you want someone like him knowing you were so down u had to sleep in your car, he'd definitely be mocking you about it in the next argument! He's deranged

  • @Griselda_Puppy
    @Griselda_Puppy Рік тому +49

    Ed isn't *_coming off as_* controlling, he actually *_IS_* being controlling!

  • @nicholascahill7751
    @nicholascahill7751 Рік тому +50

    Liz looks so different now. He’s literally taken years of her life away. He’s aged her. It’s so sad

  • @ginixxx
    @ginixxx Рік тому +34

    It scares him bc she'll be surrounded by people who support her & can give her unbiased opinions about what's best for her as an individual

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 Рік тому +2

      Yep. He’s the Gothel to her Rapunzel (I hate to almost desecrate the good name of one of my favorite movies, but still, it’s accurate)

  • @luuneyn
    @luuneyn Рік тому +125

    I have a feeling Ed has never even been punched once in his life.

    • @ericdpeerik3928
      @ericdpeerik3928 Рік тому +10

      Not in the jaw, for sure

    • @luuneyn
      @luuneyn Рік тому +18

      @@ericdpeerik3928 what jaw? Lol

    • @thapoppyman
      @thapoppyman Рік тому +25

      @@luuneyn He can't fight. He's probly one of the easiest people to knockout in one punch because he can't absorb any damage when he can't turn his head, all of the force is absorbed by his brain. His head is a sitting duck. He can't bob and weave, and he can't generate any power in his punches since he can't turn so he's not a threat either.

    • @screenqueen176
      @screenqueen176 Рік тому +2

      Let's change that!

    • @KerReeeee
      @KerReeeee Рік тому

      Then I would say that it's long overdue, wouldn't you?

  • @Dessamator
    @Dessamator Рік тому +130

    Also, if he's going to a therapist, he's not listening to them. Or they're crap. You're taught to own your mistakes when they're yours, and see when others have honestly done you wrong. I've learned to understand when my PTSD is triggered how I might act out, and to explain and/or apologize after. But also not tobe so hard on myself when it happens. It's just me trying to deal with past trauma from my mother and my childhood.

    • @cynthiaking9480
      @cynthiaking9480 Рік тому +1

      Most likely he's not listening to his therapist. He's a self centered narcissist.

    • @theoverunderthinker
      @theoverunderthinker Рік тому +11

      I agree with the OP; a therapist can only work with what you bring to them. so if Big Ed lies to them, and they don't watch TLC, then they may not have correctly diagnosed his issues, or he may want to be working on some issue that is not one of the major ones he should be working on (from out perspectives).
      therapists are not wizards; if the patient is not ready to change or is in denial or lying, then nothing will change and the patient is wasting their money.
      I think Big Ed only goes to therapy so he can talk about going to therapy as a conversation device or to deflect blame for being a bad person.

    • @Fullchristainname
      @Fullchristainname Рік тому +5

      Got to love how Ed’s taken “I statements” from therapy as “I am the only person that matters” and not about taking personal responsibility for your feelings and actions.

  • @missmclane4030
    @missmclane4030 Рік тому +25

    I got bullied to the point where bones were broken. Nasty stuff honestly. But I've never used anything that's happened to me as an excuse for shitty behavior.

  • @GroovyBratz247
    @GroovyBratz247 Рік тому +49

    Big Ed: I want to be a supportive man
    Everyone else: let your partner have a social life and a job
    Big Ed:😶

  • @darian-meow
    @darian-meow Рік тому +118

    I’d like to take a minute to THANK both of those precious angels mothers for creating literal gold of human beings😭😭😭❤️❤️

    • @morphd.9394
      @morphd.9394 Рік тому +8

      Also Ken needs to slap up that weeble wooble

    • @theclownsystem9429
      @theclownsystem9429 Рік тому +3

      @@morphd.9394 lmao weeble wobble will be my new go to insult when I argue with my brothers. That's just so random lol

    • @dukeandnukem9654
      @dukeandnukem9654 Рік тому

      You mean Ed and Liz right?

    • @OverPackedBlunt
      @OverPackedBlunt Рік тому +1

      @Patrick39 your a little insecure douchebag gfy and get out the gene pool

    • @mr.mopedmadness3441
      @mr.mopedmadness3441 Рік тому

      @JackWrath1 every comment helps Kens channel grow bigger 😆

  • @Afghan.Jalebi
    @Afghan.Jalebi Рік тому +34

    At times, people like Ed go to therapy with their partner to learn more about them, their fears, and insecurities, so that they can control and manipulate them better.

  • @emp9413
    @emp9413 Рік тому +24

    She gave it away. She stays with him because she thinks he keeps her from rock-bottom. When in reality, he's driving her to rock-bottom, and she's ruining herself, her kids and her future staying with him. Your only hope is to get out. Don't let him gas light you into thinking you need him or you're the crazy one.

  • @daveinthelife91
    @daveinthelife91 Рік тому +34

    When TLC actually steals your soul for a tv show

  • @Meayah123
    @Meayah123 Рік тому +62

    Liz is always either crying on on the verge of crying, she lost custody of her kid over this, he’s 30 years older than her and is in complete control over her life.. i feel so bad for this woman 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @danielhartin7680
      @danielhartin7680 Рік тому +23

      Her adult life has been one bad decision after another. At what point does she begin accepting accountability?

    • @e2402-2
      @e2402-2 Рік тому +5

      @@danielhartin7680 okay andrew tate jr

    • @Meayah123
      @Meayah123 Рік тому +25

      @@danielhartin7680 I agree. I’m sorry but after 3 failed marriages and according to her they were so “toxic” and this is the next relationship she gets in? I feel bad for her, I really do.. but at some point she has to take responsibility for the situation she chooses to get in/stay in 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @danielhartin7680
      @danielhartin7680 Рік тому +2

      @@e2402-2 Would you be happier being treated as an overgrown toddler who's incapable of making any decisions for herself?

    • @e2402-2
      @e2402-2 Рік тому +1

      @@danielhartin7680 did my comment hurt your feelings, andrew

  • @marzin0mbk
    @marzin0mbk Рік тому +22

    The subtle gaslighting in TLC Couple Shows is not something we can ignore like they expect us to!

  • @chastityrenee4682
    @chastityrenee4682 Рік тому +25

    He is embarrassed that he is controlling. I wonder if she was living in her car when she broke up with Ed. He holds her home over her head everytime they fight.

  • @contortionyx
    @contortionyx Рік тому +17

    Would not surprise me if Ed's the kind of guy to hit on service industry workers because they smiled when they said "Hi! What can I do/get for you?" and thought it was just for him

  • @orkutfinance
    @orkutfinance Рік тому +31

    The only fight that Big Ed has ever gotten into is one where he's struggling to put on a helmet

  • @MaztRPwn
    @MaztRPwn Рік тому +20

    The funniest thing is Ed’s motorcycle helmet hanging on for life to that non chin of his.

  • @samc.7928
    @samc.7928 Рік тому +24

    I can definitely see this being real because I literally was in this relationship

  • @Romey1son
    @Romey1son Рік тому +18

    There is no unconditional love in this relationship, if it is real it will never last

  • @Bellanewmoon21
    @Bellanewmoon21 Рік тому +32

    Jealousy is a disease not a gene!

  • @VideoGameAutopsy
    @VideoGameAutopsy Рік тому +54

    Big Ed will never find anyone that he loves more than his own ego.

  • @flimflammer2395
    @flimflammer2395 Рік тому +57

    Liz, who's been divorced 4 times: I'm not one to give up

    • @snortingsmarties8363
      @snortingsmarties8363 Рік тому +1

      Woah she's been married 4 times??

    • @mariahsj689
      @mariahsj689 Рік тому +11

      She's been married twice and it rarely has anything to do with giving up

    • @Encarnado94
      @Encarnado94 Рік тому

      @@mariahsj689 soon to be 3

    • @cgigammez5749
      @cgigammez5749 Рік тому

      @@mariahsj689 cope

    • @joywolf83
      @joywolf83 Рік тому +15

      She got married at 14 the first time, so thats her parents fault 100%. The second one she was in for FIVE years being abused. She should have given up sooner!!!!

  • @trinejensen1707
    @trinejensen1707 Рік тому +10

    Aswell as you noticed ed’s frowny face when the therapist said that liz needed a seperate life besides her life with ed, notice how liz keeped looking at ed with a begging and doubting look in her eyes, she was waiting and
    hoping for him to say he understanded and accepted her point of view, but also the look in her eyes expressed fear for knowing that when they came home from therapy they would end up in a fight where ed commands her to NOT go back to work, i just know that this is probably what happens next 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️😣

  • @daynasafranek7807
    @daynasafranek7807 Рік тому +33

    That Ewok can sit there with tears in his eyes like a Victorian tragedy and all of the while talking about himself and “his losses”. They are a direct result of his own bad decisions and I hope those dogs keep him warm at night….

    • @Fullchristainname
      @Fullchristainname Рік тому

      Nah I hope those dogs give him fleas. It’s what big Ed deserves 💅

    • @Ajhcr
      @Ajhcr Рік тому +6

      Aw. That was so mean! Ewoks are adorable!
      😂

    • @Colleens-Corner
      @Colleens-Corner Рік тому +1

      They’re fluffy, at least 😂

    • @trinejensen1707
      @trinejensen1707 Рік тому +1

      After the fight where ed left the bedroom with the dogs under his arms, i actually hoped that they would wiggle out of his arms and run right back to liz, i feel like i’m a horrible person, but that would’ve made me laugh 😬😂

    • @SerenityDreaming
      @SerenityDreaming Рік тому

      Excuse me, but Ewoks are noble, charming, industrious communal creatures with souls and culture. Ed is what happens when God is making new humans and someone bumps his arm right before he his save&send.

  • @emidal05
    @emidal05 Рік тому +21

    Liz: sharing her deep trauma and experiences
    Big Ed: This hurts ME. Let’s relate this to ME.

  • @marinerouffaud1828
    @marinerouffaud1828 Рік тому +10

    Remember kids, you should never feel trapped in a relationship. Sometimes it is better to be alone and free than to be stuck with someone that will never make you happy.

  • @rebekahdonet1697
    @rebekahdonet1697 Рік тому +20

    I love you both for how you have handled his nonsense. He just wants to be relevant and he's only relevant through you.

  • @emzisweird
    @emzisweird Рік тому +25

    As a bi woman I appreciate you guys calling out the biphobia near the beginning ❤

  • @hayhay4774
    @hayhay4774 Рік тому +4

    Big Ed: “I hate that I’m coming off as controlling”
    WELL THEN MAYBE DONT BE CONTROLLING

  • @Fullchristainname
    @Fullchristainname Рік тому +19

    I cringed hard when Liz talked about being homeless because big Ed will 100% use this against her in the future.

  • @paranoiarpincess
    @paranoiarpincess Рік тому +23

    ... I want a therapy blankie. Mine didn't even offer water, and it was cold in that room :(

    • @CrystalLynn1988
      @CrystalLynn1988 Рік тому

      I know, my therapist never offered me anything. I had good insurance too, the cheapskate lol.

    • @alorastewart7091
      @alorastewart7091 Рік тому

      I always bring my sweatshirt to snuggle in

  • @briannalyle8435
    @briannalyle8435 Рік тому +19

    Ed also reacted so dramatic when Rose dated a woman after him. Clearly, it's a big deal to him.

  • @BugsBunny_xD
    @BugsBunny_xD Рік тому +9

    I cant stop seeing ed as the perfect carcrash human and its cursed

  • @jenniferwebb4628
    @jenniferwebb4628 Рік тому +41

    Ed should teach a class on manipulation. And the art of passing the buck

    • @courthebrave
      @courthebrave Рік тому +2

      Oh please no we don’t need more eds in the world 😩

    • @jenniferwebb4628
      @jenniferwebb4628 Рік тому +1

      @@courthebrave he’s really good at it though

    • @DabbleDont
      @DabbleDont Рік тому

      He's good at it, but we can't encourage it to spread! Can you imagine even 1 Lil Ed in every neighborhood in every major city?!?!

    • @donkeyhobo34
      @donkeyhobo34 Рік тому

      @@jenniferwebb4628 I love you

    • @jenniferwebb4628
      @jenniferwebb4628 Рік тому

      @@donkeyhobo34 no you dont

  • @jaimeortega4940
    @jaimeortega4940 Рік тому +6

    "Man, if Liz leaves me all I gotz is my dogs." Poor dogs.

  • @Dessamator
    @Dessamator Рік тому +17

    His beard is acting like Velcro for that chin strap (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)

  • @shaunny2013
    @shaunny2013 Рік тому +29

    I literally just finished binging the entire Big Ed series and I was scared it was over but now there's more😅

  • @catarinaasilvacs
    @catarinaasilvacs Рік тому +22

    Thank you for the uploads ❤
    You guys keep me sane! Absolutely love the energy! Sometimes I play the meme couch or the reacy couch playlist and fall asleep to it. Somehow it's very relaxing and chill, and I don't feel so lonely.

  • @roxbanana4240
    @roxbanana4240 Рік тому +8

    He's gaslighting her so hard, my lord. I just get this gross feeling in my gut as a trauma response watching him convince her to apologize for the fight at the party HE started 😤 he's so manipulative.

  • @xopinkieox
    @xopinkieox Рік тому +3

    Ken youre just giving him more fuel for the fight fire. He will smother you in mayo and cry at you YOURE GIVING HIM TOO MUCH POWER

  • @jayroc62
    @jayroc62 Рік тому +57

    Ed is simultaneously so insecure AND has such an inflated ego. The only way he can see Liz possibly cheating on him, is if she’s a lesbian; but that also threatens his masculinity at the same time 😂😂😂

    • @CrystalLynn1988
      @CrystalLynn1988 Рік тому +1

      That perfectly describes my ex. He was super insecure because of his tiny weenie so he overcompensated by having an inflated ego.

    • @ethnedragon8287
      @ethnedragon8287 Рік тому +3

      He's the walking embodiment of "fake it till you make it". He fakes having this ego because he desperately craves the attention "popular" people get. So he fakes having this confidence and swagger, but doesn't realize the only attention he gets is people pointing out what a dumpster fire of a human he is.
      He's one of the people therapy won't work for, because he is always going to spin the narrative in his direction so he's the victim or the hero. He'll never truly admit his true inner thoughts and feelings.

    • @eduardonunez7594
      @eduardonunez7594 Рік тому

      Therapy for pussies hit gym💪

    • @edwoodsman6080
      @edwoodsman6080 Рік тому +2

      One word, narcissist.
      They're severely insecure so they victimize themselves in everything. They try to appear "perfect" as to manipulate, their apologies are always self serving filled with excuses.

    • @ethnedragon8287
      @ethnedragon8287 Рік тому +1

      @@edwoodsman6080 I was raised by one. Can confirm

  • @JenniferAmyFriesen
    @JenniferAmyFriesen Рік тому +5

    I can't wait to see Big Ed's response video 😂

  • @ladydatura2529
    @ladydatura2529 Рік тому +12

    I've been almost as sucked in as Liz. I hope she gets solo therapy and they help her get away. She has a long life ahead that she should live far from this man. He doesn't want to do better for himself or others but she CAN. Fingers crossed.

    • @astherielleloella-ximena402
      @astherielleloella-ximena402 Рік тому

      Liz is an uneducated person. She couldn't even finish high school and seems to be able to do anything to get what she wants. She seems to be borderline or bipolar.

  • @OmgBsitka
    @OmgBsitka Рік тому +19

    These people are crazy, but it makes me feel better about all my life choices up till now 🤣

  • @jannamckeen4414
    @jannamckeen4414 Рік тому +13

    I can not diagnose anyone...I am not a psychologist but Ed gaslights like a true narcissistic professional

  • @lovelywolv
    @lovelywolv Рік тому +10

    It's always the cheater that thinks everyone else is cheating 🙄

  • @jjgaming317
    @jjgaming317 Рік тому +5

    Nothing like watching Ken watching big ed on my bday this is great

  • @bellarina
    @bellarina Рік тому +8

    Ed on his multiple digit number of reasons why he is a douche lol "it's your fault, Liz, you are too good for me" 🤣🤣

  • @CelticLuna
    @CelticLuna Рік тому +2

    I love that the therapist stopped Ed from talking and let Liz continue! Love your content Ken and Dan ❤️❤️

  • @chrissymcal3146
    @chrissymcal3146 Рік тому +6

    Big Ed doesn't want Liz working because he's abusive. He doesn't want her to work because then she will have the means to escape this toxic abusive relationship. It's just another way for him to control her

    • @astherielleloella-ximena402
      @astherielleloella-ximena402 Рік тому

      Liz is an uneducated person. She couldn't even finish high school and seems to be able to do anything to get what she wants. She seems to be borderline or bipolar.

  • @Str8Ace43
    @Str8Ace43 Рік тому +3

    9:28 “I think I’m gonna always have to work on that”
    Basically means he isn’t changing lmao

  • @crdtsjby
    @crdtsjby Рік тому +10

    I’ve been on a marathon for 4 days watching TLC with yall, love you guys!!!

    • @kjay7973
      @kjay7973 Рік тому

      I have been watching them for years - U should also try the Gypsy wedding videos🤣. To be fair I have watched every episode (twice)😊

  • @2ravens984
    @2ravens984 Рік тому +5

    Glad Ed finally found a shirt that fits and doesn't look like he's going to put someone's eye out when the buttons pop off.

  • @Sunset553
    @Sunset553 Рік тому +13

    Imagine event planning for Ed and anyone:
    Engagement Party Plan
    6:00 pm, pre-party arguing
    8:00 Guests arrive
    8:30 Say something terribly inappropriate about using Liz
    10:00 Guests leave
    10:05- tomorrow Argument

  • @devistater6558
    @devistater6558 Рік тому +13

    I've been listening to this while driving. All of a sudden, I hear her say "I think we are ready to get married" then it breaks to the tik token add of dogs licking things, and I thought they just started hard core making out in the park. It was a disturbing thought.

  • @charlesfuzak
    @charlesfuzak Рік тому +7

    11:54 What kind of excuse is that?! You're not weird and different...you're freakin toxic. "We keep getting back together even though we clearly shouldn't, we're weird and different". What?

    • @kateginger
      @kateginger Рік тому

      She's been through so much, got married, divorces, a child, it's just sad at this point how she thinks that's an ok idea.

  • @bec7080
    @bec7080 Рік тому +5

    I'm in therapy now and I kind of want to take my favorite blanket with me now 🤣🤣 I'm not even joking haha

  • @NuggieNabber
    @NuggieNabber Рік тому +19

    I hope that fight challenge got Ken and buffpro more recognition 😂

  • @kittym.h.1926
    @kittym.h.1926 Рік тому +12

    I hope Liz's kid is okay. Trying to free yourself while your parent has heavy issues sucks and is grounds for LC-NC. If you choose either-or, there's a sense of freedom, but the hurt will always be there because someone else and their inflicted pain was always put before you, the child.

    • @donkeyhobo34
      @donkeyhobo34 Рік тому

      I love you

    • @kittym.h.1926
      @kittym.h.1926 Рік тому

      @@donkeyhobo34 Peace and love back at you, Mike! 😌

    • @donkeyhobo34
      @donkeyhobo34 Рік тому

      @@kittym.h.1926 we should be married

    • @kittym.h.1926
      @kittym.h.1926 Рік тому +2

      @@donkeyhobo34 Mike, we had such a good platonic thing going. Why did you fart on it.

    • @donkeyhobo34
      @donkeyhobo34 Рік тому

      @@kittym.h.1926 because I want to marry you and have lots of babies

  • @hannahbanana7894
    @hannahbanana7894 Рік тому +77

    Liz lost custody of her daughter for a reason. And looking at how big Ed treats her I can see why. She has a history of being with men who break her down, but because she drives off of the opinion of her partners, and not her daughter, all she does is hurt herself and her child in the process.

    • @lorrainecurran9157
      @lorrainecurran9157 Рік тому +16

      I completely forgot she has a daughter. There's no mention of her at all.

    • @prometheusvenom7189
      @prometheusvenom7189 Рік тому +7

      I think Ed told Liz to give primary custody to hers daughter to her ex. Because Ed can’t see his daughter as his family ditched him.

    • @CrystalLynn1988
      @CrystalLynn1988 Рік тому +16

      If she can't put her daughter before these toxic men then she doesn't deserve to have custody let alone visitations of her daughter.

    • @astherielleloella-ximena402
      @astherielleloella-ximena402 Рік тому

      why is everyone making up lies about liz losing custody of her daughter??? SHE WILLINGLY GAVE UP CUSTODY FOR DRINKING,PARTYING AND TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH NO NECK ED!!!! Which is why Rose will foreve-r be SO much better than lil dumb liz . She put her child first. PERIOD!!!

    • @astherielleloella-ximena402
      @astherielleloella-ximena402 Рік тому

      @@prometheusvenom7189 Don't be Ret@rded if liz did that she really IS dead brain and deserve to be with no neck ed for being SOO weak and pathetic. NO mom should put a man between their legs over their flesh and blood NO EXCUSES!!

  • @lisah8070
    @lisah8070 Рік тому +7

    Unconditional love is more parent to child, relationships don’t tolerate harmful behavior and constant forgiveness. Ken/Dane are on point, they make it sound funny but they get Ed’s BS

  • @DrizzleDrizzleNeverDies
    @DrizzleDrizzleNeverDies Рік тому +9

    Not even past the ads and I already know my blood pressure's about to get dangerously high

  • @Jules-916
    @Jules-916 Рік тому +4

    If Ken and Big Ed fight, Big Ed will probably do the TikTok uncooked pasta prank to pretend Ken snapped his spine.

  • @MoeLykit
    @MoeLykit Рік тому +6

    Big Ed is Juggernaut's Mini-Me

  • @SeontaSkky
    @SeontaSkky Рік тому +3

    I’ve been going to therapy for almost 20 years an I’ve never been offered a blanket. The injustice 😮.

  • @trinejensen1707
    @trinejensen1707 Рік тому +7

    Can we just agree that we ALL rised our hand and did a facepalm when liz started yacking about giving ed another chance, OH LORD, give me strenght!!!! 🙏🏻🤦🏻‍♀️🤯 I just can’t handle watching those two goofball’s continue their sad and toxic charade they are not just two clowns, they are the whole damn cirkus 🤦🏻‍♀️🤯😤

  • @Brandon-305
    @Brandon-305 Рік тому +3

    Big Ed v.s Super Ken 2023 PPV..😂🥊🥊

  • @Xoxcutietots119
    @Xoxcutietots119 Рік тому +14

    Love love love your videos !!! You both are very entertaining so grateful to watch you two ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Emily-Hurst
    @Emily-Hurst Рік тому +3

    It is my birthday! Thank you! I had to sit through Big Ed cringe to hear it but I woulda done that anyway because it's you guys, Ken and Dane. Relatively new here, love the content, keep it up.

  • @3dmaster-749
    @3dmaster-749 Рік тому +8

    Ed is a big baby

  • @FrizzKid05
    @FrizzKid05 Рік тому +1

    "Are those wedding bells?"
    Has Big Ed ever been around a church? Those are time indicator bells. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ecawesomexp
    @ecawesomexp Рік тому +3

    after watching this I realized how much closer these people actually live by me and I've never been more terrified 😭😭😭

  • @BlkWillow28
    @BlkWillow28 Рік тому +2

    I had a co-worker who lived in a very similar situation like Liz's. My interactions with her was well over a decade ago, but I still think about her and hope that she was able to break free from his craziness.