From what I understand, Liz shares custody of her daughter with her ex. He's in the military and potentially being stationed overseas, but he's trying to get custody because he thinks Liz isn't stable enough to take care of the kid. Liz has no job (as of this ep) because Ed made her quit, and no reliable home because Ed keeps kicking her out. Ed is literally keeping her in a situation where she has to choose between him and her child.
@@katelynbrown98 I have a feeling she's very desperate for love. She's had a rough home life growing up and two failed marriages. I'm sure she loves her daughter, but she doesn't need to expose her to Ed or the abuse that goes on in the house.
I feel like Liz needs to really work on that self love, poor girl. And what you said about her ex being in the military makes sense they do move around a lot. She’s definitely going to work a lot to get custody. Her daughter should be top priority. Ed should be her last or nonexistent on that list.
The difference between how excited she is to be offered the promotion versus how she presents it to Ed.. We don't know all her past, but she is clearly afraid to disappoint him (in an unhealthy way). It's not a good feeling to have to be a less vibrant person with your partner than with friends.
I know right?? She tells him she’s got a big promotion and all he says is: I’m happy for you, but what about ME? What about MY feelings? Do you know how this makes ME feel? Like this isn’t about you Ed, gosh. This whole ep has been about Ed it’s like she can’t have the spotlight for once.
@@trinejensen1707 Sofa Potato*** Because Ed thinks Sofa and Couch aren’t the same thing. That’s like getting mad at someone calling soda pop or whatever.
I think work actually use her 90 days fame to gain some publicity. I don’t see a part time person and emotional unstable can have successful career that people would want partnerships.
Not gonna lie, if I was engaged to someone and they told me they’d been offered a huge promotion like that, I would be ecstatic! Hugs, kisses, probably a lot of screaming and jumping up and down (the good kind!), the works. Ed’s consistently been unsupportive and controlling, and I genuinely hope Liz finds happiness and stability without him. She’s worked too hard to let it go now!
Honestly...i dont like her at all. I don't like how she speaks about rose, who was catfished by Ed and didn’t have the chance to be warned about him beforehand. Liz is a clout chaser and has no self-respect at all. Ed sucks, and i think it’s disgusting he’s given a platform but she’s no victim. I know a lot of people want to like her and feel bad for her but i just don’t see it. Rose was nothing but kind, as was her family. She was in poverty, she was lied to, she was publicly humiliated by this man, and she still walked away with her head held high and she made something out of herself WITHOUT Ed. Lizzie baby, don’t even try and compare yourself to her.
The fact that Ed doesn't want Liz to have friends because they'll 'whisper in her ear' about him and their situationship is a massive red flag. He doesn't want other people to open her eyes to the fact that she's in an emotionally abusive relationship.
This girl has no standards. You'd think after the 2 marriages, she'd take the time to wonder "hey maybe I need to take a step back and see a therapist because my decisions don't seem to be the best." Maybe she did it for clout? Clout...not fame lol
If Liz seriously takes Ed back after this AND the tell all... she is genuinely in a bad place. There's no reason ANYONE should put up with the way Ed treats her, he clearly is a person who cares more about attention than an actual relationship. This whole show has just encouraged him, and its sad because real women are the one's suffering from his act.
@@xxonspotlight she might not be getting ANY money if her story about couch surfing at her friends’ places after he kicked her out is true. He might be hoarding all of to himself and dangling it over head. Not excusing that she should know better and take care of her daughter, but I genuinely think she doesn’t know better; I feel bad for her 😢
She'll be stuck in this TLC limbo until the channel or the audience is bored with Big Ed and her shenanigans.... Or if Liz just quits the show all together (which she probably won't, only due to financial reasons).
So Ed supposedly is so head over heels for Liz, yet he "finds" a house he loves and would rather lose her for it. Yet again, Liz finds something good for herself, getting a good position job and working to have custody of her child. In the end Ed just wants a pick and choose world. He doesn't "want love" he loves the idea of "being wanted". Disgusting.
And because Liz accepts him for who he is , he don't want her ! But he wants to use the status of having a pretty girl like Liz to entrap other girls but he wants to rack up on young girls and wants Liz to just wait around for when he has no one else . Poor Liz, she is pathetic 😢 😔 🙄
@@amaniarkangelou5184 Liz literally had no backbone on the show and went along with everything Ed wanted. liz is nothing important. she played along with the relationship , what’s the big deal lmao.
In WHAT way is a relationship with Big Ed better than being alone? Being alone literally every minute for all of eternity sounds like heaven compared to spending a single day with Big Ed.
My ex was an abusive rage lord but he wasn't half as bad as Big Ed. Be alone. It's significantly less painful than staying with some a-hole who treats you like garbage.
I wish I could send Liz a PM. I did this years ago, when I was 21. Worst mistake of my life and I'm glad I never got a kiddo out of it because that person flared the cptsd that was pretty much dormant until the divorce. The silver lining is that the mess only made me realize that part of it was that I had years or trauma from including the same kind of people in my life. Liz is putting herself in the position to go through more trauma and sooner or later she's going to realize that it jumped from her to her daughter because of how she handles it (poorly). That's what she should be doing, is not only getting herself out but also shielding her daughter from learned helplessness and fawning. It's a terrible thing to pass on what you don't even know/acknowledge. Her little bean deserves better. She doesn't need to learn that this... whatever tf THIS is.. is "love"
Big Ed's abuse & gaslighting just ooze out of him. "She still calls a sofa a couch" implying that she's stupid and without Big Ed's brilliance she'd be useless.
He's said so many things that are basically "I'm better then you" to her. It's heart breaking and she could do so much better. I've seen some of the tell all and it only gets worse!
If they were speaking Spanish then the word would be sofa. But they aren’t so the word is couch and Ed is gaslighting as always for the sake of his fragile ego! Cause only one person can be right! Even if it’s a thing no one needs to be right about! And no one is more correct than Ed!
Ironic, the guy who have been stepping on the speeder through the whole relationship with liz and now he steps on the break. He almost enjoys saying it to read liz’ faceexpression and expecting her to show disappointment, he is waiting for her to panic and scream “Okay okay okay, then i don’t take the job 😳😭😱”!!! And then ed; “ I’m glad to hear that i mean more to you than the job let’s get married TOMORROW 😛”! UGH, i can’t stand him 🤦🏻♀️😖
The way Ed spins his arguments is fascinating. "I'm not saying that we can't get married, but I don't want to get married". He uses his wants as justifications for his wants, therefore moving the conversation nowhere because he doesn't want it to ever go somewhere where he might lose. It's like the Mobius Strip of Sophism.
@@username172 Sophism is an art from Ancient Greece. The sophists were travelling men that taught people how to talk well in order to win any argument. Greek philosophers hated the sophists because they knowledge is just lip service, very empty pretty words that were sold to the naive populace. Sophists charged for their services, while the philosophers led quite humble lives, giving their classes to anyone that wanted to listen to the wise elder.
@@username172 Sophism is an art from Ancient Greece. The sophists were travelling men that taught people how to talk well in order to win any argument. Greek philosophers hated the sophists, believing their knowledge was just lip service, very empty pretty words that were sold to the naive populace. Sophists charged for their services, while the philosophers led quite humble lives, giving their classes to anyone that wanted to listen to the wise elder. Today, sophism is just what you call someone who is very well-spoken, regardless if they're right or not.
If Liz lost custody of her child for some reason, part of getting custody and visitation is proving you have stability in your life, financially and emotionally. The constant off and on of their relationship likely raised red flags for her getting custody back with how violently the swing from in love and buying a house to broken up and fighting happens. And if them splitting up puts Liz in an unstable housing situation, she also would be fighting to prove she can provide a stable home
@@girlonfire4421 almost every episode I saw in the last month they talk about her daughter … you probably just watch the react channel because like I say they talk almost every episode about her … have a good day
I really hate him. She needs to run away fast! 🏃🏻♀️ She shouldn't put up with his crap. I wouldn't put up with that for a minute, especially from him. SMH
God, Ed is so insecure. I don’t know how she put up with the abuse and manipulation for so long. If the relationship has been fake the entire time, then it’s ridiculous that TLC promoted and encouraged the abuse and manipulation.
It's ridiculous that Liz is choosing a man over the care of her daughter!! She shouldn't be called a mother, she's a pathetic excused for a female species!!
That eye roll at the beginning from the real estate agent as she says "maybe this will be your house" really reinforces the "everything about this is fake" vibes.
FINALLY!! I'm so proud of her. She needs to continue with therapy. Be there for her child. And focus on her and the baby, that's it. LATER comes a relationship. a healthy one!!!
@@terricox3559 i don’t know a thing about these people’s lives outside of what they say in these videos so i couldn’t tell you what age the kid is 🤷🏻♀️
I love the fact that in one breath, Ed says that Riley is what's important but then and the next he's like, "I'm going to stay here forever! F what you and your kid need!"
lol she talks about mom budget and being a mom. SHE WILLINGLY GAVE UP CUSTODY OF HER DAUGHTER AND MOVED TO CALIFORNIA AWAY FROM HER DAUGHTER. Mom budget. Hilarious! She only sees her daughter every two weeks! She puts single moms to shame. That's a title she doesn't deserve.
I wanted to bitch slap him so bad when he said, "I want a wife." As if being a wife should impact any women's career. I LOVED that Dan called him out and said, "He just wants a maid." Exactly! 👏👏👏 Thank you for being an ally. It really makes me appreciate having a fiance who is so supportive of me and my career.
The term "couch," believed to be derived from the French word "couche," is used to describe "a piece of furniture with no arms used for lying." On the other hand, Merriam-Webster defines a "sofa" as "a long, upholstered seat usually with arms and a back, and often convertible into a bed." Wow lil Ed must have googled this 😂
@Morgan Beck yes exactly. I do think that the only reason why she's with him is because she's benefiting from it somehow, whether it's money, fame, or trying to get custody of her child again. I don't think it's a real relationship on either side.
Every time Big Ed breaks up with someone, his neck shrinks. Sooner or later his head is gonna end up at his lungs and he will look like he's wading through water
God liz has such a beautiful smile when she cracked her fart joke. I hope she gets out because we haven't seen a smile like that on her before. Throughout all these episodes
I honestly think the restaurant partnership might be a PR cash grab. Having a restaurant being on TV and having publicity from it. . . We might not know how much she was involved in the restaurant before Ed but thats a giant leap!
Highly agree with this. You're telling me she had to go part time because Big Ed didnt want her to work.. now suddenly she can become partner, deffo cant be from all the extra hours shes put in
@@liinaaax"let me make this girl partner of my company basically making it damn near impossible to get rid of her, all so I can get a single episodes worth of PR from TLC" bro at least have some common sense
The restaurant partnership is a really amazing and profitable opportunity for her - I hope she does well with this job! As someone who has worked in the restaurant industry for 11 years, this is a huge complement and great step up for her! I wish her all the best and hopefully this position and stability helps with her child custody battles.
Oh boy, they're bringing Rose back to humiliate her some more. I'm glad Liz is finally realizing that she doesn't deserve the shit Ed's putting her through. What she needs is a therapist to help stabilize her mentally so she can be a part of her daughter's life.
I am only a couple weeks away from my now ex narcissist fiancé and it is bliss. I can exhale again for the first time in years. Hope your peace continues 🌹
The level of insecurity and brokenness in Liz is so sad. Ed is emotionally abusive and controlling everyone can see it, but I pray Liz finds the courage and strength to leave that situation. I've been in a similar place. It took me losing everything to find the strength to walk away. I hope she doesn't have to.
Liz has really gone downhill emotionally. She's not taking care of herself the same way she used to. She's beaten down. I feel like she thinks she doesn't deserve better. She deserves a healthy relationship with a partner that wants the best for her.
This girl has no standards. You'd think after the 2 marriages, she'd take the time to wonder "hey maybe I need to take a step back and see a therapist because my decisions don't seem to be the best." Maybe she did it for clout? Clout...not fame lol
Ed makes Liz feel like he is the only person that wants her. The emotional and mental abuse makes the victim feel worthless. Thats why she is still in this toxic relationship. He’s constantly putting her down. Always turns things around to blame Liz instead of Ed taking responsibility. Man up Ed. You are a true narcissist.
I think it’s funny when Ed talks about her coworkers not liking him….but he said when they went to the wedding back when they first met and he was trying to manipulate/convince her to date him- it was FOR HER COWORKER- he said he was invited by said the coworker and so was Liz, not him being a plus one. So either 1) he lied (shocker), 2) there was a fallout because….well you could probably guess, or 3) just another manipulation tactic. Liz needs to get her money, get a house, and finally get over this human mole of a person
You could tell she was nervous to tell ed about the promotion. It should be something she can't wait to tell him so they can celebrate together. It's sad, big Ed doesn't deserve her.
The moment she started talking about her work, you could see she was excited, but the moment she took a double look at Ed, you could see her loosing that excitement. Ed not liking her co workers because they ''talk'' bad about him... making her choose between things and him.. gaslighting into feeling guilty about something she doesnt have to be guilty about, so typical, typical narsisist
I didn’t know if anyone else noticed this moment but I thought she looked really uncomfortable or maybe even a little scared. They cut and didn’t show her full reaction either. Maybe I’m just projecting tho 20:40
Me hearing about liz scoring a promotion: take the job liz take the job. You've got nothing valuable to lose, take the job, make yourself happy, take the job.
I will never stop saying, this is how big Ed actually is. Before Liz my aunt came across big Ed once, she’s Filipino may I add, and he was obsessing over her and asking her to be with him even tho she said she’s married.
@@Deluna_arts_studio it kinda would open her aunt up to a lot of public scrutiny, you don't really know what is gonna happen to you once you put yourself out there, even if you're telling the truth
@@tonichan89 this is so true. Fans can be scary. But I like to give people like the OP the benefit of the doubt. That kind of behavior isn’t far fetched for Ed
@@Deluna_arts_studio I don’t think she’d get anything out of it, and this was a couple years ago. This happened in San Diego where i have some family like right after him and rose split. I don’t think she even knew who he was at the time 😂
Tells you EVERYTHING you need to know about the kind of a man Ed is. Liz going back to work: “I want you to miss me” “I want you to contribute financially” Not “I’m glad you’re going back to work doing what you enjoy”.
“I want a wife” and you can have a wife THATS A PARTNER TO A COMPANY. Some people are so self centered that they can’t even support their spouse on something that moves them up in life.
12:20 I have a coworker whose husband gets mad when she ends up working late. We work in banquets. Often times we work till 1 or 2am. Thats pretty standard since we do dinners and weddings. So real people do have these conversations. Still ridiculous though. He full on screams at her over it because he doesnt trust her. Shes super sweet and there is literally no reason he has not to trust her. Never has been.
@Inckblot They have 3 young kids including a 8 month old unfortunately. I dont think she would leave as long as theyre there. Fortunately, he is not physically abusive... just verbally, but it still sucks.
I used to work at a banquet hall during weekends, when I was in hs. 1 or 2am isn't that bad. The latest I had to stay was 4am bc we had to set up for a 450+ guests wedding the next night. I miss those days bc I always had so much fun. Liz is better off without him.
@@cvanhoog Its super fun! Yeah 1am or 2am is nothing. Were always understaffed and these kids that work for me dont even know about the good ole 4am days. I love my job. I hope this big ed and liz stuff is fake.
I love your channel! I'm a mom of 5 from Tennessee so it's great to have a channel that has someone like you with deep south humor, very relatable and hilarious please Ken don't retire for a least another 20 years lol 😂
That's actually a bad idea for all us women. Liz was a hero for taking him far away from other women when he was with her, even if he cheats behind her back. If he gains a neck, he might be attractive enough for some women to get with.
@@CM-ri8qf Ick, definitely not me lol once someone proves how ugly they are on the inside, they are also incredibly ugly on the outside no matter what they look like
She has been the one losing everything for years with this man and this show! Not saying, that the people making this show don't use everyone in it, because they do. In this relationship she has been used and abused more than him, by him and the people making this show... I feel so sorry for her.
The tell all is honestly my guilty pleasure 😅😅 seeing all these grown ass adults (I'm 30) who's lives are just pure drama and Bullshit makes me feel better about my life 🤣🤣 Much love from Arizona 💜💜
I love how I found this channel 3 weeks ago and now I can’t stop watching. Besides a video here and there I watch nothing else. I also listen to this while I work my grueling 8 hours shifts at Walmart overnight
Yes, important private conversations while touring a home TLC CREW to realtor *hey lady can you step out of our shot* 😂 Imagine being the realtor and watching from this talk and Liz crying the hallway, I would be like wtf lmao
I think Liz was looking to get into a more stable living situation because it's possible her ex-husband is being stationed somewhere outside of the country. On other channels like ArthurTV, & YourWetSock they were talking about how Liz is trying to get temporary custody of her daughter so the daughter doesn't have to leave the country. It's odd af though cause she never mentions her daughter, and I have no clue of if she actually wants a relationship with her or not. Honestly if I were Liz' daughter I'd be embarrassed & annoyed by her. But she may not be old enough to be embarrassed by her mom yet.
@@Rjjg100 it's weird cause she rarely mentions her. I understand the dad not wanting the daughter to be on TV, but for Liz to hardly ever mention her is upsetting.
Oof. My ex did this to me with the whole moving situating. He played along with me wanting to move, went to the house tours, and then hit me with the "I actually want to stay here, it's smarter financially for me". I was like ok, but what about me? Can't we find something for both of us? And he's just like "I'll take care of you". But then I find out he's in debt... I am so happy I'm taking care of myself lol. That was a whole mess.
I'm happy that you want to go back work and all, but that means you will be out socializing with other people, possibly working late and that cuts into my ability to control you so I'm actually never going to be okay with this. Big Ed makes my head hurt
His house is so nice and classy he has a shower curtain with his own fug mug and a creepy picture of of his daughter in there to watch him $hit & shower. Total class act.
Love you guys!! I also wish you watched the full episodes, because that wasn’t the last one. They did break up, and Ed kicked her out! Before the Tell All.. there’s a lot that happens!
From what I understand, Liz shares custody of her daughter with her ex. He's in the military and potentially being stationed overseas, but he's trying to get custody because he thinks Liz isn't stable enough to take care of the kid. Liz has no job (as of this ep) because Ed made her quit, and no reliable home because Ed keeps kicking her out. Ed is literally keeping her in a situation where she has to choose between him and her child.
But I literally don't feel sorry for her. She chose this. This can't be real. If it is, she's a shameful mother.
She could soar like an eagle if it wasn't for this fat, ungrateful little pigeon!
That should be an easy choice, even if he was the most fantastic guy in the world.
@@katelynbrown98 I have a feeling she's very desperate for love. She's had a rough home life growing up and two failed marriages. I'm sure she loves her daughter, but she doesn't need to expose her to Ed or the abuse that goes on in the house.
I feel like Liz needs to really work on that self love, poor girl. And what you said about her ex being in the military makes sense they do move around a lot. She’s definitely going to work a lot to get custody. Her daughter should be top priority. Ed should be her last or nonexistent on that list.
The difference between how excited she is to be offered the promotion versus how she presents it to Ed.. We don't know all her past, but she is clearly afraid to disappoint him (in an unhealthy way). It's not a good feeling to have to be a less vibrant person with your partner than with friends.
@@andromeda2381 Very sorry that you went through a relationship like that, but I'm so proud that you made it out! Stay awesome ᕦʕ •ᴥ•ʔᕤ
Can't he just be happy for her? She scored a pretty cool job opportunity and he makes it about him and his insecurity.
I know right?? She tells him she’s got a big promotion and all he says is: I’m happy for you, but what about ME? What about MY feelings? Do you know how this makes ME feel?
Like this isn’t about you Ed, gosh. This whole ep has been about Ed it’s like she can’t have the spotlight for once.
He needs her to be completely dependent on him.
He needs her to be a couch-potato who stays home each day and aaaaaall the day, so he has completely control over her, he is a toxic narc 🤢
@@trinejensen1707 Sofa Potato***
Because Ed thinks Sofa and Couch aren’t the same thing. That’s like getting mad at someone calling soda pop or whatever.
I think work actually use her 90 days fame to gain some publicity. I don’t see a part time person and emotional unstable can have successful career that people would want partnerships.
Not gonna lie, if I was engaged to someone and they told me they’d been offered a huge promotion like that, I would be ecstatic! Hugs, kisses, probably a lot of screaming and jumping up and down (the good kind!), the works. Ed’s consistently been unsupportive and controlling, and I genuinely hope Liz finds happiness and stability without him. She’s worked too hard to let it go now!
Honestly...i dont like her at all. I don't like how she speaks about rose, who was catfished by Ed and didn’t have the chance to be warned about him beforehand. Liz is a clout chaser and has no self-respect at all. Ed sucks, and i think it’s disgusting he’s given a platform but she’s no victim. I know a lot of people want to like her and feel bad for her but i just don’t see it. Rose was nothing but kind, as was her family. She was in poverty, she was lied to, she was publicly humiliated by this man, and she still walked away with her head held high and she made something out of herself WITHOUT Ed. Lizzie baby, don’t even try and compare yourself to her.
The fact that Ed doesn't want Liz to have friends because they'll 'whisper in her ear' about him and their situationship is a massive red flag. He doesn't want other people to open her eyes to the fact that she's in an emotionally abusive relationship.
That and the fact that he doesn’t want her to work- it’s a way to make her financially dependent on him.
This girl has no standards. You'd think after the 2 marriages, she'd take the time to wonder "hey maybe I need to take a step back and see a therapist because my decisions don't seem to be the best." Maybe she did it for clout? Clout...not fame lol
Can't feel sorry for Liz, she set the bar was so low that it's in hell, and here she is limbering with the devil"
If Liz seriously takes Ed back after this AND the tell all... she is genuinely in a bad place. There's no reason ANYONE should put up with the way Ed treats her, he clearly is a person who cares more about attention than an actual relationship. This whole show has just encouraged him, and its sad because real women are the one's suffering from his act.
If they do get back together, she's in it for whatever money he's making. Im calling it.
@@xxonspotlight she might not be getting ANY money if her story about couch surfing at her friends’ places after he kicked her out is true. He might be hoarding all of to himself and dangling it over head. Not excusing that she should know better and take care of her daughter, but I genuinely think she doesn’t know better; I feel bad for her 😢
She'll be stuck in this TLC limbo until the channel or the audience is bored with Big Ed and her shenanigans.... Or if Liz just quits the show all together (which she probably won't, only due to financial reasons).
Or they're both performing to keep the money and game train going.
FOR REALLL they are all like traumatized, he needs therapy
So Ed supposedly is so head over heels for Liz, yet he "finds" a house he loves and would rather lose her for it. Yet again, Liz finds something good for herself, getting a good position job and working to have custody of her child. In the end Ed just wants a pick and choose world. He doesn't "want love" he loves the idea of "being wanted". Disgusting.
And because Liz accepts him for who he is , he don't want her ! But he wants to use the status of having a pretty girl like Liz to entrap other girls but he wants to rack up on young girls and wants Liz to just wait around for when he has no one else . Poor Liz, she is pathetic 😢 😔 🙄
@@amaniarkangelou5184 Liz literally had no backbone on the show and went along with everything Ed wanted. liz is nothing important. she played along with the relationship , what’s the big deal lmao.
In WHAT way is a relationship with Big Ed better than being alone? Being alone literally every minute for all of eternity sounds like heaven compared to spending a single day with Big Ed.
I'm guessing human connection
Omg yes.
@@doffydonquixote4723 you ain't getting that with Big Ed
My ex was an abusive rage lord but he wasn't half as bad as Big Ed. Be alone. It's significantly less painful than staying with some a-hole who treats you like garbage.
I think it bc she spent so much time in the relationship that she's afraid of it being "wasted".
I wish I could send Liz a PM. I did this years ago, when I was 21. Worst mistake of my life and I'm glad I never got a kiddo out of it because that person flared the cptsd that was pretty much dormant until the divorce. The silver lining is that the mess only made me realize that part of it was that I had years or trauma from including the same kind of people in my life. Liz is putting herself in the position to go through more trauma and sooner or later she's going to realize that it jumped from her to her daughter because of how she handles it (poorly). That's what she should be doing, is not only getting herself out but also shielding her daughter from learned helplessness and fawning. It's a terrible thing to pass on what you don't even know/acknowledge. Her little bean deserves better. She doesn't need to learn that this... whatever tf THIS is.. is "love"
"She still calls a ✨Sofa✨ a couch."
Couch must be a trigger word for potatoes
😂😂😂
Oh shit 😂🤣
Yeah, she calls a sofa a couch...and calls a goblin a fiance.
@@LeviAckerman-cb5ji 🤣🤣🤣
Dont do ptotatoes like that come on
Big Ed's abuse & gaslighting just ooze out of him. "She still calls a sofa a couch" implying that she's stupid and without Big Ed's brilliance she'd be useless.
He's said so many things that are basically "I'm better then you" to her. It's heart breaking and she could do so much better. I've seen some of the tell all and it only gets worse!
Oof
That line confused me. Where I’m from almost nobody calls a couch a sofa. Like what was his point.
If they were speaking Spanish then the word would be sofa. But they aren’t so the word is couch and Ed is gaslighting as always for the sake of his fragile ego! Cause only one person can be right! Even if it’s a thing no one needs to be right about! And no one is more correct than Ed!
isn't a couch and sofa the same thing?
Ed: I want a wife.
Also Ed: I'm not ready to get married.
Ed: mentally forces women to do everything he wants
Also Ed: I will not be pressured into getting married
Ironic, the guy who have been stepping on the speeder through the whole relationship with liz and now he steps on the break. He almost enjoys saying it to read liz’ faceexpression and expecting her to show disappointment, he is waiting for her to panic and scream “Okay okay okay, then i don’t take the job 😳😭😱”!!! And then ed; “ I’m glad to hear that i mean more to you than the job let’s get married TOMORROW 😛”! UGH, i can’t stand him 🤦🏻♀️😖
Lil' pee pee always plays the part of a loveless victim. Knock it off! Any person who is mentally "forced" under his "spell" (🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂) is an idiot 🙄
Ed: I want a wife.
Also Ed: I’m not ready to get married.
He’s the kind of guy that puts in his PlentyOfFish bio “Must be skinny, curvy, and call me MASTER and SERVE me at all times”
Also also Ed: I will never pressure you or hold you back (as he pressures her and holds her back)
The way Ed spins his arguments is fascinating. "I'm not saying that we can't get married, but I don't want to get married". He uses his wants as justifications for his wants, therefore moving the conversation nowhere because he doesn't want it to ever go somewhere where he might lose. It's like the Mobius Strip of Sophism.
Idk what sophism is but im gonna assume its another word for a snobbish poser who uses the word sofa to try to sound more exotic
@@username172 Sophism is an art from Ancient Greece. The sophists were travelling men that taught people how to talk well in order to win any argument. Greek philosophers hated the sophists because they knowledge is just lip service, very empty pretty words that were sold to the naive populace. Sophists charged for their services, while the philosophers led quite humble lives, giving their classes to anyone that wanted to listen to the wise elder.
@@username172 Sophism is an art from Ancient Greece. The sophists were travelling men that taught people how to talk well in order to win any argument. Greek philosophers hated the sophists, believing their knowledge was just lip service, very empty pretty words that were sold to the naive populace. Sophists charged for their services, while the philosophers led quite humble lives, giving their classes to anyone that wanted to listen to the wise elder.
Today, sophism is just what you call someone who is very well-spoken, regardless if they're right or not.
If Liz lost custody of her child for some reason, part of getting custody and visitation is proving you have stability in your life, financially and emotionally. The constant off and on of their relationship likely raised red flags for her getting custody back with how violently the swing from in love and buying a house to broken up and fighting happens. And if them splitting up puts Liz in an unstable housing situation, she also would be fighting to prove she can provide a stable home
Not to mention that voicemail last year certainly didn't help her look stable/reasonable in life.
SHE HAS A KID?!? why has this never been mentioned?!?!
She can’t possibly care about her daughter if she is letting some freak like Ed ruin their relationship
@@girlonfire4421 well, the kid was there in the beginning
@@girlonfire4421 almost every episode I saw in the last month they talk about her daughter … you probably just watch the react channel because like I say they talk almost every episode about her … have a good day
"I'm not ready to marry Liz."
Then maybe you shouldn't have proposed, Ed
the audacity of edd saying "i feel like im not heard" to someone who is always compromising so he is comfortable
What he actually means is “if you don’t bow to my every whim and demand, it means I’m not heard.”
I really hate him. She needs to run away fast! 🏃🏻♀️ She shouldn't put up with his crap. I wouldn't put up with that for a minute, especially from him. SMH
When someone is CALMLY walking away like that... then I know it's done.
Ed’s relationships are like a never ending chapter, but it needs to end.
Sorry mom
All his partners traumatized, man needs therapy
would love to see ed single trying to interact with people , hed make me uncomfertable
That one author that won’t stop her 100 page book series. And has 25 books as apart of the srries
The One Piece of relationships
“I won’t be pressured into getting married” like he hasn’t done that to every woman so far 😭
RIGHT?? The lack of self awareness is incredible
God, Ed is so insecure. I don’t know how she put up with the abuse and manipulation for so long. If the relationship has been fake the entire time, then it’s ridiculous that TLC promoted and encouraged the abuse and manipulation.
It's ridiculous that Liz is choosing a man over the care of her daughter!! She shouldn't be called a mother, she's a pathetic excused for a female species!!
Ed and Liz breaking up is like a wrestler saying "I'm retiring" you KNOW they'll be back at it in 2-3 years
I don't think Ed amd Liz can handle the lack of public attention for that long 😂
We're looking at you Terry Funk
@@aspt1980 I think you mean just Ed cause Liz is the one being abused by him and the show
Much like wrestlers, Ed might not make it that long.
@@vorpalhit5952 eeeeyyyyy
Watch out Ken, big Ed is going to blame you for the breakup😂
Big Ed & Liz: *Break up.*
Ken & BuffPro: FINALLY! THE NIGHTMARE IS OVER!
Me: Yeah... Until Big Ed finds another victim. 😂
Liz again. You watch.
@@TeatimeThotsWithMorgan I really hope not after the tell all that was horrible and Ed was at his more punchable
Or Liz takes him back
I think that Liz will take him back. If the phone call wasn't enough for her to leave, this won't be either🤷🏾♂️
Until tlc offers liz another contract
That eye roll at the beginning from the real estate agent as she says "maybe this will be your house" really reinforces the "everything about this is fake" vibes.
I’m not religious but hallelujah
GOD BLESS JESUS BABAY 💪🏻🤠
Amen to that, Jeffery! 😂
Liz's friends should call her Neo, the way she dodged that bullet.
@@LeviAckerman-cb5ji she straight up stopped that bullet then sent it back
@Patrick39 better as in more gayer
The way Ed talks is a perfect example of someone who went to therapy to learn to sound constructive but hasn't changed fundamentally.
FINALLY!! I'm so proud of her. She needs to continue with therapy. Be there for her child. And focus on her and the baby, that's it. LATER comes a relationship. a healthy one!!!
What baby sorry?
@@terricox3559she has a baby from a previous relationship
@@definitelynotmeg she's like 10 years old though right? Not a baby
@@terricox3559 i don’t know a thing about these people’s lives outside of what they say in these videos so i couldn’t tell you what age the kid is 🤷🏻♀️
@@definitelynotmeg okay I was asking the original poster to be fair
I love the second of “I think my kids are smacking each other outside. Mary’s yelling at them. Alright okay.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love the fact that in one breath, Ed says that Riley is what's important but then and the next he's like, "I'm going to stay here forever! F what you and your kid need!"
lol she talks about mom budget and being a mom. SHE WILLINGLY GAVE UP CUSTODY OF HER DAUGHTER AND MOVED TO CALIFORNIA AWAY FROM HER DAUGHTER. Mom budget. Hilarious! She only sees her daughter every two weeks! She puts single moms to shame. That's a title she doesn't deserve.
I wanted to bitch slap him so bad when he said, "I want a wife." As if being a wife should impact any women's career. I LOVED that Dan called him out and said, "He just wants a maid." Exactly! 👏👏👏 Thank you for being an ally. It really makes me appreciate having a fiance who is so supportive of me and my career.
When buff said, 'Ed needs a hobby' 😂😂😂
When his hobby is breaking women down. 😬
@@aphotex6384 true 😂🤣
He needs a neck.
The term "couch," believed to be derived from the French word "couche," is used to describe "a piece of furniture with no arms used for lying." On the other hand, Merriam-Webster defines a "sofa" as "a long, upholstered seat usually with arms and a back, and often convertible into a bed."
Wow lil Ed must have googled this 😂
The nerve of Liz wanting to get married only a year after his proposal, and after only 2 engagement parties!
Both Ed and Liz are desperate.
@@CM-ri8qf except Liz has no reason to be. That’s what is so weird to me.
@Morgan Beck yes exactly. I do think that the only reason why she's with him is because she's benefiting from it somehow, whether it's money, fame, or trying to get custody of her child again. I don't think it's a real relationship on either side.
Omg levi ackerman watches big ed
@Gaby I lol! Did a real Anime character just appear in our 3D world?
The way the mom raised Ed is the reason why he doesn't think he's doing anything wrong.
Ed looks like his mom.
Every time Big Ed breaks up with someone, his neck shrinks. Sooner or later his head is gonna end up at his lungs and he will look like he's wading through water
He doesn't have a neck, it's a medical disorder haha
Soon he'll be able to shrink his head into his body like some kind of cursed diglet
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He looks like a turd that won't come out
Ed: “This could be the reason I loose Liz again.”
Also Ed: *broke up with her 8 times*
I want a The Office style show about the producers and film crew of 90-Day Fiance. Awkward zooms and all.
Yo that is a brilliant idea tho
God that would be so good 😂
Omg yesss, imagine having a close up of the cameraman filming naked big eg
God liz has such a beautiful smile when she cracked her fart joke. I hope she gets out because we haven't seen a smile like that on her before. Throughout all these episodes
She look like the Joker when she smiles so ugly. She's beginning to look like Big ed. Tiffany is right! Lix looks old and rough.
She reminds me of a pig about to be slaughter when she smiles.
That editing was gold. "I don't feel like I'm being heard" "you are being heard" "I don't feel like I'm being hear.." "would you shut up?!"🤣🤣
the 2 worse decisions a couple can make to "fix" a relationship is to buy a house or have a baby
I honestly think the restaurant partnership might be a PR cash grab. Having a restaurant being on TV and having publicity from it. . . We might not know how much she was involved in the restaurant before Ed but thats a giant leap!
Highly agree with this. You're telling me she had to go part time because Big Ed didnt want her to work.. now suddenly she can become partner, deffo cant be from all the extra hours shes put in
@@liinaaax"let me make this girl partner of my company basically making it damn near impossible to get rid of her, all so I can get a single episodes worth of PR from TLC" bro at least have some common sense
The restaurant partnership is a really amazing and profitable opportunity for her - I hope she does well with this job! As someone who has worked in the restaurant industry for 11 years, this is a huge complement and great step up for her! I wish her all the best and hopefully this position and stability helps with her child custody battles.
Ed's the very definition of a narcissist
Look it up in Merriam Webster. I bet Ed's picture is there!
@@melodybrundage8844 thats what im saying... He's the very definition of one
Yo, I know a few Wahlqhists. Never thought I'd come across another one 😳
@@Abigail_Monteith pretty common in Sweden...
@@AnnWahlquist oh, of course, that makes sense
Ed is like that sibling that always says mom and dad doesn't love them but is also the child that is constantly being catered to.
Oh boy, they're bringing Rose back to humiliate her some more.
I'm glad Liz is finally realizing that she doesn't deserve the shit Ed's putting her through. What she needs is a therapist to help stabilize her mentally so she can be a part of her daughter's life.
that man literally offered Liz an actual way out of all of Ed's bs. I'm so happy for her
God, Ed reminds me so much of my narcissistic ex. Glad I got out. 3 years of no contact 😊
Yay!! Getting away from a narcissist and having no contact is amazing, congrats 🎉☺️
Good for you! 👏👏👏
I am only a couple weeks away from my now ex narcissist fiancé and it is bliss. I can exhale again for the first time in years. Hope your peace continues 🌹
Amazing ❤️
@@FuneraryGirl May you keep finding peace too ❤️
The level of insecurity and brokenness in Liz is so sad. Ed is emotionally abusive and controlling everyone can see it, but I pray Liz finds the courage and strength to leave that situation. I've been in a similar place. It took me losing everything to find the strength to walk away. I hope she doesn't have to.
Their relationship was as stable as a sagging old couch.
I think you mean sofa 🧐
It's called a ✨SOFA✨
😂 hey that's insulting to my childhood couch, which we still have and it's still standing. God, I hope Liz finally leaves Ed.
A couch has no arms while a sofa does and has a backing. A sofa can also be converted to a bed.
I don't watch any of the 90 day fiance shows. Ken and Buff keep me in the loop. Thanks guys.
I don't either, the Ken &.Buff perspective is much more enjoyable than the actual show.
Same…I couldn’t for my own mental health!
Ditto
Me too
Not enough appreciation for the frame matching Ken's shirt ❤️
Liz has really gone downhill emotionally. She's not taking care of herself the same way she used to. She's beaten down. I feel like she thinks she doesn't deserve better. She deserves a healthy relationship with a partner that wants the best for her.
This girl has no standards. You'd think after the 2 marriages, she'd take the time to wonder "hey maybe I need to take a step back and see a therapist because my decisions don't seem to be the best." Maybe she did it for clout? Clout...not fame lol
Liz set the bar was so low that it's in hell, and here she's limbering with the devil." she is choosing this.
Ed makes Liz feel like he is the only person that wants her. The emotional and mental abuse makes the victim feel worthless. Thats why she is still in this toxic relationship.
He’s constantly putting her down. Always turns things around to blame Liz instead of Ed taking responsibility. Man up Ed. You are a true narcissist.
I think it’s funny when Ed talks about her coworkers not liking him….but he said when they went to the wedding back when they first met and he was trying to manipulate/convince her to date him- it was FOR HER COWORKER- he said he was invited by said the coworker and so was Liz, not him being a plus one. So either 1) he lied (shocker), 2) there was a fallout because….well you could probably guess, or 3) just another manipulation tactic. Liz needs to get her money, get a house, and finally get over this human mole of a person
You could tell she was nervous to tell ed about the promotion. It should be something she can't wait to tell him so they can celebrate together. It's sad, big Ed doesn't deserve her.
Is she afraid of him?
The dumpster fire we can't look away from
Lol yes!!! Exactly 😂
The moment she started talking about her work, you could see she was excited, but the moment she took a double look at Ed, you could see her loosing that excitement.
Ed not liking her co workers because they ''talk'' bad about him... making her choose between things and him.. gaslighting into feeling guilty about something she doesnt have to be guilty about, so typical, typical narsisist
KEN you missed it. When ed got into the jacuzzi he splashed Liz and she looked so disgusted hahahaha
I didn’t know if anyone else noticed this moment but I thought she looked really uncomfortable or maybe even a little scared. They cut and didn’t show her full reaction either. Maybe I’m just projecting tho 20:40
Wouldn't you?
Me hearing about liz scoring a promotion: take the job liz take the job. You've got nothing valuable to lose, take the job, make yourself happy, take the job.
I will never stop saying, this is how big Ed actually is. Before Liz my aunt came across big Ed once, she’s Filipino may I add, and he was obsessing over her and asking her to be with him even tho she said she’s married.
If this is true( not calling you a liar) you should out him. And sorry she came across him
@@Deluna_arts_studio it kinda would open her aunt up to a lot of public scrutiny, you don't really know what is gonna happen to you once you put yourself out there, even if you're telling the truth
@@tonichan89 this is so true. Fans can be scary. But I like to give people like the OP the benefit of the doubt. That kind of behavior isn’t far fetched for Ed
@@Deluna_arts_studio I don’t think she’d get anything out of it, and this was a couple years ago. This happened in San Diego where i have some family like right after him and rose split. I don’t think she even knew who he was at the time 😂
Wooow. 🤦🏽♀️🤣 I believe you. It sounds like typical big Ed behavior. We've all seen his behavior play out. Jesus. Your poor aunt.
The story of Liz and Ed is a textbook example of a toxic relationship.
I love the “stability” goals as if they don’t get paid a significant amount of cash per episode😂😂😂
TLC wouldn't be paying them if they didn't fight and break up all the time. They're just keeping their spot on the show.
My jaw is literally on the floor with that statement from the tell-all. I can’t wait until the next one. Ima shakin in mah boots! 😂
Tells you EVERYTHING you need to know about the kind of a man Ed is. Liz going back to work:
“I want you to miss me”
“I want you to contribute financially”
Not “I’m glad you’re going back to work doing what you enjoy”.
“I want a wife” and you can have a wife THATS A PARTNER TO A COMPANY. Some people are so self centered that they can’t even support their spouse on something that moves them up in life.
"I don't remember" is the easiest way to tell a lie without committing perjury.
Big Ed looses control of Liz, ''It's over!'' I hope the chef is single!
12:20
I have a coworker whose husband gets mad when she ends up working late. We work in banquets. Often times we work till 1 or 2am. Thats pretty standard since we do dinners and weddings. So real people do have these conversations. Still ridiculous though. He full on screams at her over it because he doesnt trust her. Shes super sweet and there is literally no reason he has not to trust her. Never has been.
@Inckblot They have 3 young kids including a 8 month old unfortunately. I dont think she would leave as long as theyre there. Fortunately, he is not physically abusive... just verbally, but it still sucks.
I used to work at a banquet hall during weekends, when I was in hs. 1 or 2am isn't that bad. The latest I had to stay was 4am bc we had to set up for a 450+ guests wedding the next night. I miss those days bc I always had so much fun. Liz is better off without him.
@@cvanhoog Its super fun! Yeah 1am or 2am is nothing. Were always understaffed and these kids that work for me dont even know about the good ole 4am days. I love my job. I hope this big ed and liz stuff is fake.
If he’s acting that way, he’s probably cheating and projecting that on to her unfortunately
I love your channel! I'm a mom of 5 from Tennessee so it's great to have a channel that has someone like you with deep south humor, very relatable and hilarious please Ken don't retire for a least another 20 years lol 😂
Hello, fellow Tennessean! Chattanooga here 👋🏻
Nice, I'm on the other side of the state, I'm in west TN near Alabama and Mississippi
I would say if Ken upper-cutted Ed in a fight, he’d be doing him a service and finally giving him a neck lol
That's actually a bad idea for all us women. Liz was a hero for taking him far away from other women when he was with her, even if he cheats behind her back.
If he gains a neck, he might be attractive enough for some women to get with.
@@CM-ri8qf Ick, definitely not me lol once someone proves how ugly they are on the inside, they are also incredibly ugly on the outside no matter what they look like
The mental visualisation is so funny to me lol
@@yuki97kira same lol
Lol like those little robo boxing guys. DING!!
It'll never end, Big Ed needs that sweet TLC money!
Ken: My kids are outside smacking each other.
Also Ken: Big Ed waits for no one!!!!!
Ed just keeps proving himself to be the definition of gaslighting
She has been the one losing everything for years with this man and this show! Not saying, that the people making this show don't use everyone in it, because they do. In this relationship she has been used and abused more than him, by him and the people making this show... I feel so sorry for her.
"Ed needs hobbies" facts, BP. Facts.
Love seeing these two's reactions to things. Great sense of humor 😂👍
I've been offered partnership.
You mean I can't financially abuse you anymore?
The tell all is honestly my guilty pleasure 😅😅 seeing all these grown ass adults (I'm 30) who's lives are just pure drama and Bullshit makes me feel better about my life 🤣🤣
Much love from Arizona 💜💜
I love how I found this channel 3 weeks ago and now I can’t stop watching. Besides a video here and there I watch nothing else. I also listen to this while I work my grueling 8 hours shifts at Walmart overnight
"I don't want a partner, I want a wife. Someone who's happy taking care of my life!" -Stan Smith and Big Ed
I watched you guys review this since the beginning…and I can say I’ve never been as invested in Big Ed’s relationship as I am now 😂😂😂
Yes, important private conversations while touring a home
TLC CREW to realtor *hey lady can you step out of our shot* 😂
Imagine being the realtor and watching from this talk and Liz crying the hallway, I would be like wtf lmao
My ex got mad jealous when I told him my education always comes first before him and my nursing career my ex became mad salty about it.
I think Liz was looking to get into a more stable living situation because it's possible her ex-husband is being stationed somewhere outside of the country. On other channels like ArthurTV, & YourWetSock they were talking about how Liz is trying to get temporary custody of her daughter so the daughter doesn't have to leave the country.
It's odd af though cause she never mentions her daughter, and I have no clue of if she actually wants a relationship with her or not. Honestly if I were Liz' daughter I'd be embarrassed & annoyed by her. But she may not be old enough to be embarrassed by her mom yet.
Husband????
@@romantic_hippie ex husband. She said somewhere they got a divorce yet still share custody of the kid.
@@Rjjg100 it's weird cause she rarely mentions her. I understand the dad not wanting the daughter to be on TV, but for Liz to hardly ever mention her is upsetting.
I never actually watch any TLC shows, I only watch your videos because you guys are a nice buffer between the TLC insanity and my brain lmao
Oof. My ex did this to me with the whole moving situating. He played along with me wanting to move, went to the house tours, and then hit me with the "I actually want to stay here, it's smarter financially for me". I was like ok, but what about me? Can't we find something for both of us? And he's just like "I'll take care of you". But then I find out he's in debt... I am so happy I'm taking care of myself lol. That was a whole mess.
Ed: "It's my way or the highway." Liz: "On the road again, just can't wait til I'm on the road again."
At this point, Ed's connection to women is just business bs.
Shout out to the editor! I just really want to note, that I like the band that matches Kens shirt that has been incorporated in the edits.
The Ed vs Ken match we gotta make it happen! 😂🤣😂🤣 we need this match fa 2023.
They are not together but he’s still making decisions for her😭😂
KEN THEY HAVE A COMMERCIAL RESTROOM SIGN ON THEIR BATHROOM DOOR. Yea nothing about his house screams "I have a background in design" 🤣🤣
I'm happy that you want to go back work and all, but that means you will be out socializing with other people, possibly working late and that cuts into my ability to control you so I'm actually never going to be okay with this. Big Ed makes my head hurt
His house is so nice and classy he has a shower curtain with his own fug mug and a creepy picture of of his daughter in there to watch him $hit & shower. Total class act.
All I think when I see Big Ed is the comment I seen somewhere saying “we all know what shampoo he uses”. 😂
I hope you all do an extended long episode covering the tell-all!
Big Ed's background in design is the same as his background in photography
Love you guys!! I also wish you watched the full episodes, because that wasn’t the last one. They did break up, and Ed kicked her out! Before the Tell All.. there’s a lot that happens!