I am 37 and after spending 4 years dedicating my life for my dying mother. This past year, I learned betrayal from my only sibling, a pain and lesson I thought no one could ever know or understand. This message has changed that for me.
When these 'siblings' deliberately and calculatedly manipulate a very sick parent to literally clean them out financially and psychologically. No forgiveness but no bad/ill will. I have moved on with my head held high! Door closed. RIP mother! *Thank you Mr Hopkins, you are a wise man.
I have respected your work and as a human being. Every word you have shared, soo many people have been damaged. We all learn in life every day a lesson of hurt, or kindness. Thank you for who you are.
Im older ..how many moons have passed that we didn't pay attention to? How many more will pass before anyone ever apologizes for treating us badly ...it's the very same moon shining icer everyone on this same night ...all at different trajectory in their lives.
I did invite them back, an they denied the act to my face. Yes it seeped deep, an now I know and I always said, "don't ever take my kindness for granted", No I will not allow this again, now they are a stocker. I will protect me myself and I.. Dam the intention was real. I turn my back and say nothing and walk away forever. Thank you For this reminder. I will never heal in the place that hurt me deeply! Now I have to move!!
My in law’s marriage was falling apart so I opened my home up to my father in law for the last five and a half years of his life. He had a small sum of money he left to my wife. Then,I get a letter in the mail one day from my wife’s new attorney for a divorce.my advise to anyone is guard your heart and be wise as an owl and gentle as a dove.
Just looking at u and listening pours out tear,in my early childhood there were people like u ,great people, do not worry everything u say is gold and I make sure none will happen again god bless my friend, pls stay in my life ,Yr support for broken once is deeply appreciated appreciate appreciated appreciated , see u soon
Everyone word in these clips are soo true . I could NEVER HAVE BACK THE MONSTER WHO DRAGGED ME THROUGH THINGS I NEVER IMAGINED ONE COULD DO TO ANOTHER IN THE NAME OF LOVE ! Everything in this clip was done to me by a Covert/Narcissist in cold Sobriety and in FULL KNOWLEDGE AND CONSENT IT WAS SCHEMED AND PLOTTED BY HIM TO HURT AND INJURE ME . He wasn’t a quick tempered tantrum that was sudden , it was well thought out and executed . Gaslighting etc etc etc etc I struggled on and chose to stay with my children to protect them. He had a 30+ years affair with his female employee while I was having our five children. She was 15 yrs his junior married with two children . I cannot even find words to describe the trauma inflicted on me . This went on for 5O yrs in a Coercive marriage . I had no one to Support . I know had my parents been alive he would not have treated me that way . He had physically broken my nose when my Mother was alive and living with us . She was appalled and warned him never to do again and me if it ever happened again to defend myself . I was abused on 5 Counts of Abuse by the Judge who passed remarks on my resilience and tolerance in staying with such a Monster and managing to rear 5 lovely and clever children and encouraging their education so they all entered University and got their degrees , had good careers and then married settled down and presented me with 16 grandchildren through the years . He was very sympathetic with my case. So this happened I. 2016 when I found out the Narc was still With this female fancy piece and getting fresh evidence and knowing my adult children were living their own best 33:27 lives I got the Separation and Told him to Go. He was the Perpetrator why would I give up the family home which I looked after cared for and raised my children in . He was the Culprit! He went eventually but with negotiations I got the house and I am living my best life now away from him and the fifty years while I was in a FAKE MARRIAGE WITH A COVERT/NARCISSIST! I don’t honestly know anything about the Narc. He lied lied and lied constantly . I NEVER KNEW WHAT WAS REAL AND WHAT WAS FALSE WITH HIM HE TOLD ME AS HE LEFT IN A SNEERING MANNER THAT HE ONLY EVER TOLD ME WHAT I WANTED TO HEAR. He was unconsciously revealing his FAKENESS! However he didn’t really know me . He didn’t think that through prayer that God would give me back my strength, fortitude and Courage Determination and drive to become a Warrior and stand up and deal with this Monster who had broken my heart, stole my innocence, dimmed my Spirit , tried to take my Soul but who Survived to defeat the demons within him and who would set herself free. 33:27
Ps I am nearly 76 yrs now . Only for having my 5 children and wanting to protect and nurture them and what Mother would walk out and leave her children with a man that was mistreating their Mother.?There was always the risk of him mistreating them more ( as he neglected giving them their basic needs this mentioned by the Judge too) . I decided without doubt that I would see them through until they would be able to look after themselves and become adults) . The Narc continued to use and abuse but I was Stoic. Had I had no children I would have left a lot earlier even though I didn’t know about Narcissism but I would have been aware of the terrible marriage I was in, would have had my own resources and friends and have no doubt I would have ran as fast as I could away from the Beast . My children were the BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME AND I WOULD NEVER HAVE JEOPARDISED THEIR CHANCES TO LIVE THEIR BEST LIVES. Which they are all doing now!
I have written a large page to express my gratitude to your teaching and let me learn a lot Also show the cause of my pain from someone i thought i can truest The pain is someone looks and talks of God,s bible so sincerely lie to me again and again.The psge i was just written was intendionally withdraw away before it posted i feel much better after lezrning from your wise knowledgable lesson.i hope i can forget and make it as my motivation to move on boldly.Thank you.❤
I am perplexed to see how few 👍🏽 your message has got (up to now)😉 Thanks for writing and declaiming it! 🥰 The first time I followed your advise - betrayed twice, too late- was just for survival. The second one, for self-dignity. Yor speech spurs me to go on doing it, when needed, just for welfare ☺️
I got bullied over and over again because I want have certain people back in my life and it has nothing to do with forgiveness.they are still trying to make out it was all me and my fault
I have to pause after only 8 minutes of listening. I was married for 26 years to a woman who was not kind. She died of sepsis over 2 years ago, so that is no longer relevant. I'm in a new relationship. Of course, everything is wonderful at the start. I know that eventually we will disagree. She might make a stab at me in a moment of passion. That I forsee. But it's the sequelia that matters. Does she apologize soon after, or do I, when I was unnecessarily mean. And how does that play out? Do we use that episode to discuss and build a stronger relationship, or let it fester? That to me is the question. All this other betrayal crap, yeah, if it applies. But don't tell me that we can't make any mistakes. We can fix them, in a timely fashion, with sincerity and a determination to improve. I understand that the topic is intentional harm. I agree that should not be accepted. But again, passions may take reign, but is there contrition after the fact? The more you know someone, the more you know their vulnerabilities. How unfair is your partner?
Thank God I am healed but the memories remain. Scars are my reminder not to be wrong again.🙏
So Sad to hear Sir Anthony Lost his home In the LA fires
Prayers for his emotional recovery
I totally agree with you. Victims do not owe their perpetrators a second chance.
I am 37 and after spending 4 years dedicating my life for my dying mother. This past year, I learned betrayal from my only sibling, a pain and lesson I thought no one could ever know or understand. This message has changed that for me.
You're not alone. Same for me, too.
When these 'siblings' deliberately and calculatedly manipulate a very sick parent to literally clean them out financially and psychologically. No forgiveness but no bad/ill will. I have moved on with my head held high! Door closed. RIP mother! *Thank you Mr Hopkins, you are a wise man.
Hello,how can i move without money from all of their TOXIC country?@@tazzywazzy7599
Same
Thank you Sir Anthony. Beautiful. Accurate.
No contact. No Surrender ❤
I always hoped... prayed. I needed to hear this!
Thank you so much for waking up guises to vulnerable me ❤
I have respected your work and as a human being. Every word you have shared, soo many people have been damaged. We all learn in life every day a lesson of hurt, or kindness. Thank you for who you are.
This is beyond religion !! Thanks to you warrior !!❤
Im older ..how many moons have passed that we didn't pay attention to? How many more will pass before anyone ever apologizes for treating us badly ...it's the very same moon shining icer everyone on this same night ...all at different trajectory in their lives.
Mean people are really mean people regardless of how much kindness you give to them that demonized sprit lives on
Once one leaves, its best Not to ever return back..its How one heals....👁️
if they want change.
thats the key 🗝️ answer
This is so powerful. Thank you 🙏
Thank you, so very important message, I will keep it in my heart like a value stone, like my treasure.❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing.
Yes.So true.
I did invite them back, an they denied the act to my face. Yes it seeped deep, an now I know and I always said, "don't ever take my kindness for granted",
No I will not allow this again, now they are a stocker. I will protect me myself and I.. Dam the intention was real. I turn my back and say nothing and walk away forever.
Thank you For this reminder.
I will never heal in the place that hurt me deeply!
Now I have to move!!
You deserve peace and prosperity ❤❤❤❤
Let them hate speach and cohursing their young children into repeating a toxic trait
Choose victory over victim
Danke vielmals.
My in law’s marriage was falling apart so I opened my home up to my father in law for the last five and a half years of his life. He had a small sum of money he left to my wife. Then,I get a letter in the mail one day from my wife’s new attorney for a divorce.my advise to anyone is guard your heart and be wise as an owl and gentle as a dove.
Just looking at u and listening pours out tear,in my early childhood there were people like u ,great people, do not worry everything u say is gold and I make sure none will happen again god bless my friend, pls stay in my life ,Yr support for broken once is deeply appreciated appreciate appreciated appreciated , see u soon
This is a God send to some of us ❤😊❤
Choose victory over victim 😮❤
Thank you sir, Anthony H, from your fan in Thailand.
True
Everyone word in these clips are soo true . I could NEVER HAVE BACK THE MONSTER WHO DRAGGED ME THROUGH THINGS I NEVER IMAGINED ONE COULD DO TO ANOTHER IN THE NAME OF LOVE !
Everything in this clip was done to me by a Covert/Narcissist in cold Sobriety and in FULL KNOWLEDGE AND CONSENT IT WAS SCHEMED AND PLOTTED BY HIM TO HURT AND INJURE ME . He wasn’t a quick tempered tantrum that was sudden , it was well thought out and executed . Gaslighting etc etc etc etc I struggled on and chose to stay with my children to protect them. He had a 30+ years affair with his female employee while I was having our five children. She was 15 yrs his junior married with two children . I cannot even find words to describe the trauma inflicted on me . This went on for 5O yrs in a Coercive marriage . I had no one to Support . I know had my parents been alive he would not have treated me that way . He had physically broken my nose when my Mother was alive and living with us . She was appalled and warned him never to do again and me if it ever happened again to defend myself . I was abused on 5 Counts of Abuse by the Judge who passed remarks on my resilience and tolerance in staying with such a Monster and managing to rear 5 lovely and clever children and encouraging their education so they all entered University and got their degrees , had good careers and then married settled down and presented me with 16 grandchildren through the years . He was very sympathetic with my case. So this happened I. 2016 when I found out the Narc was still
With this female fancy piece and getting fresh evidence and knowing my adult children were living their own best 33:27 lives I got the Separation and Told him to Go. He was the Perpetrator why would I give up the family
home which I looked after cared for and raised my children in . He was the Culprit! He went eventually but with negotiations I got the house and I am living my best life now away from him and the fifty years while I was in a FAKE MARRIAGE WITH A COVERT/NARCISSIST! I don’t honestly know anything about the Narc. He lied lied and lied constantly . I NEVER KNEW WHAT WAS REAL AND WHAT WAS FALSE WITH HIM HE TOLD ME AS HE LEFT IN A SNEERING MANNER THAT HE ONLY EVER TOLD ME WHAT I WANTED TO HEAR. He was unconsciously revealing his FAKENESS! However he didn’t really know me . He didn’t think that through prayer that God would give me back my strength, fortitude and Courage Determination and drive to become a Warrior and stand up and deal with this Monster who had broken my heart, stole my innocence, dimmed my Spirit , tried to take my Soul but who Survived to defeat the demons within him and who would set herself free. 33:27
Ps I am nearly 76 yrs now . Only for having my 5 children and wanting to protect and nurture them and what Mother would walk out and leave her children with a man that was mistreating their Mother.?There was always the risk of him mistreating them more ( as he neglected giving them their basic needs this mentioned by the Judge too) . I decided without doubt that I would see them through until they would be able to look after themselves and become adults) . The Narc continued to use and abuse but I was Stoic. Had I had no children I would have left a lot earlier even though I didn’t know about Narcissism but I would have been aware of the terrible marriage I was in, would have had my own resources and friends and have no doubt I would have ran as fast as I could away from the Beast . My children were the BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME AND I WOULD NEVER HAVE JEOPARDISED THEIR CHANCES TO LIVE THEIR BEST LIVES. Which they are all doing now!
I have written a large page to express my gratitude to your teaching and let me learn a lot Also show the cause of my pain from someone i thought i can truest The pain is someone looks and talks of God,s bible so sincerely lie to me again and again.The psge i was just written was intendionally withdraw away before it posted i feel much better after lezrning from your wise knowledgable lesson.i hope i can forget and make it as my motivation to move on boldly.Thank you.❤
Thank you
I forgive them and I close the door to work with them.
I am perplexed to see how few 👍🏽 your message has got (up to now)😉 Thanks for writing and declaiming it! 🥰
The first time I followed your advise - betrayed twice, too late- was just for survival.
The second one, for self-dignity.
Yor speech spurs me to go on doing it, when needed, just for welfare ☺️
T hink s very much I give my life to God.s Amen
I got bullied over and over again because I want have certain people back in my life and it has nothing to do with forgiveness.they are still trying to make out it was all me and my fault
Kao što rekoše dati drugu šansu, je isto kao i dati nekom drugu pušku jer prvom su vas ranili...
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Never drink from a poisoned lake twice.
I have to pause after only 8 minutes of listening. I was married for 26 years to a woman who was not kind. She died of sepsis over 2 years ago, so that is no longer relevant. I'm in a new relationship. Of course, everything is wonderful at the start. I know that eventually we will disagree. She might make a stab at me in a moment of passion. That I forsee. But it's the sequelia that matters. Does she apologize soon after, or do I, when I was unnecessarily mean. And how does that play out? Do we use that episode to discuss and build a stronger relationship, or let it fester? That to me is the question. All this other betrayal crap, yeah, if it applies. But don't tell me that we can't make any mistakes. We can fix them, in a timely fashion, with sincerity and a determination to improve. I understand that the topic is intentional harm. I agree that should not be accepted. But again, passions may take reign, but is there contrition after the fact? The more you know someone, the more you know their vulnerabilities. How unfair is your partner?
Sadly, I gave them a second chance cause it was Family, but not no more as bad as it hurt I never wanted revenge
Sorry about your house
Trust no one! Everyone has an angle! That's the bottom line!
Strongly agree 💯%
Sounds and looks like AI.
AI hopkins😂
It doesn't sound like him.