I was the problem. The youngest of 7. But i honestly feel that i did not deserve the way i was treated. I had to pull myself away from them all. Ignored, gaslit, lies, and ridiculed. Even was told "i should have died at birth. 52 now. And still the problem. I, for one, appreciate this message. Thank you.
Yeah I definitely see I’ve been the problem stuck in this negative place really emotional. I didn’t see how much I was invalidating other ppls perspective. This is helpful not to hold things against ppl just for how I would’ve wanted things to go
A perpetrator mentality exists and perpetrators need a target victim The victim mentality exists and the perpetrator often plays the victim when thier target victim snaps
i have issues with explaining myself it gives ppl an open door to conjure up things that i have nothing to do with like being ignored when i’m assertive and some don’t don the right thing to me
I was the problem. The youngest of 7. But i honestly feel that i did not deserve the way i was treated. I had to pull myself away from them all. Ignored, gaslit, lies, and ridiculed. Even was told "i should have died at birth. 52 now. And still the problem. I, for one, appreciate this message. Thank you.
Thank you.
I’m definitely the PROBLEM 😭
Yeah I definitely see I’ve been the problem stuck in this negative place really emotional. I didn’t see how much I was invalidating other ppls perspective. This is helpful not to hold things against ppl just for how I would’ve wanted things to go
A perpetrator mentality exists and perpetrators need a target victim
The victim mentality exists and the perpetrator often plays the victim when thier target victim snaps
thank you!
This is life changing advice!!!
i have issues with explaining myself it gives ppl an open door to conjure up things that i have nothing to do with like being ignored when i’m assertive and some don’t don the right thing to me
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Idk why but you remind me of fouseytube. Great video tho.