Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse Explained
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- Опубліковано 11 лют 2020
- Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse Explained // Research from Dr. John Gottman and the Gottman Institute on relationships and lasting love provides evidence-based relationship advice for couples at all stages.
Every marriage experiences conflict, but it is how this conflict is handled that matters. One of the best shared secrets of couples therapy is the Gottman Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. In his Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse Gottman describes the four common communication patterns that are toxic to relationships.
This Gottman Four Horsemen video provides Gottman Four Horsemen examples as well as antidotes to the Four Horsemen. Curious to know your thoughts on the Gottman Four Horsemen antidotes and how they've worked for you and your partner!
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Thank you for this and for the podcast recommendation.
Very enjoyable...thank you. You have a very clear way of explaining things.
Thank you Michael!
yes please i would love to see the video
I would like to see the other videos
I would appreciate the second video and speaking with you. I'm an LPC and CSAC in WI.
Hi Karilin, shoot me a DM on Instagram! @parallelwellness
Explain very well❤❤
Would like to watch these but my wife needs captions, anyway we can get a version with captions?
I will like the see other videos.
Great video! And that's wonderful to know about research focusing on more diverse couples than just married hetero folks. As far as gender being a factor in stonewalling, I wonder if it has to do with how people are born, or more with how people are socialized.
Excellent
Really need this in my life. I am so far 10 relationships, and I have failed them all because of this lack of knowledge to correct these problems. Please help me to find more resources.
Awesomeness
I would like to see that video
Wish my ex and I would have watched this video before things were too far gone.
What if the horsemen are present during dating?
The closed captions on this are set only to Dutch, I want to watch it with a deaf client and cannot caption it..
Thanks for letting me know, I’ll update it today to include English captions.
Since you mentioned gender (males) for stonewalling, so are there any that the females are more likely to do like criticism, contempt?
No, I haven't read that in the research. There is a lot to be said about how men are raised regarding expression and processing emotions. Stonewalling is a coping (albeit ineffective) strategy for feeling overwhelmed with emotion.
I'm not an expert or anything, but from personal anecdote and being a woman myself, I'd say women are a lot more prone to criticism. More women are typically cleanly and more emotionally sensitive, plus they tend to vent their frustrations more. Men are typically taught to bottle things or let it go, and are thus less prone to criticism. This isn't always the case, (as it is with my own,) but, in a majority of cases, women definitely do a lot more criticizing, especially if they weren't taught how to properly communicate.
@@fructosecornsyrup5759 👌 but "typically cleanly"???
Interesting question, I have stonewalled a lot in the past, but it wasn’t because I was overwhelmed. It was more to withdraw into a safer place so I didn’t get physically attacked by the other person’s anger/frustration towards me.
It’s not my fault.. 😂