I have been in the USA many times and also I lived in China for 6 months to practice my mandarin (北京). I found out that situation in China is even worse. Due to one child policy plus different culture where the oldest son is the most importand which lead to huge difference between number of men and women so lots of man jumping arround really avarage women and they all act like princess. with best regards Patryk from Warsaw
Women shortage = demanding women w. high standards. Also Chinese culture for high value men is largely based around social-economic status (money, power, status) so it is not a good place for average men.
Thank you so much for sharing your insight and wisdom on the dating and how location can really impact success. I will definitely visit central and eastern europe. Thank you
Macro = your dating market. Micro = working on yourself (gym, self improvement, dating advice, etc.). After all my years of improving myself and living in LA + traveling around, macro beats micro.
Been living in Odesa, Ukraine for about 3 months now. Spent most of my life in England, where I grew up. I came with the intention of making money by tutoring online, which I am doing, but I somehow ended up also being hired as a science teacher in a school. I'm very glad I made this decision, as I felt my life wasn't really building up to anything meaningful back in the UK.
Many of their women have fled Ukraine. Hopefully you still have options. I went to Ukraine once and met a very nice lady there. Still friends to this day 20 years later.
@@coachshanez I am actually with a German/Swedish. And one Guy from Hong KOng actually was more into Ukrainian Iryna, than me so.... you got it ;). No harm done. Life goes on. Cheers!
Most guys who struggle to date in the U.S. are lonely and looking for “the one.” They travel abroad and get cleaned out. You have to unplug from the neediness.
@@coachshanez easy to pay for that in the usa or abroad. yet they come abroad and get married and cleaned out. or worse yet import woman back to USA. i live abroad and see it constantly.
Cleaned out as in? Most guys I know who are unsuccessful with American girls usually find a family oriented girl after they move overseas. The US dating market is absolute Cancer, especially if you're a guy who is not attractive by Eurocentric beauty standards.
@@tambourinedmb Isn’t that the guys fault? He doesn’t have to give or lose his pre-married money to a woman even when married. In many countries, she only gets her share that was earned during the marriage not before. Also, there are other cultures where the women are more into building a family/relationship than money and not so entitled, are more independent and work harder and not expect a free ride.
💯, I have dated more white girls outside of the states since moving than ever. For some reason, i really click with Germans but I know Asian men do well in Poland, Ukraine and Russia according to some Asian American guys I know
I know from personal experience this is a fact. Meanwhile, I'm a looking for a way to move out of this dumpster fire of a country called America. Worst decision in my life to move here.
@@Kevin-qf2hs USA is a great place for open spaces, making money, modern conveniences, start ups. But for social connections and dating for men it’s the worst. My experience is also that the warmer the location the warmer the people.
Do you have any thoughts on Asian men in Ukraine and Russia? I know you live in Poland and Asian men do well there but I am also curious about Ukraine and Russia too!
I think there is still a reason to learn game and looksmax. If you're stuck getting only 6s in your country, you're still only going to get 6s and 7s in another country. The only difference is that average attractiveness is higher and thus shifts the entire attractiveness scale up, so it feels like you're getting a more attractive girl. IMO I think it's worth doing both. Looksmax (get in shape, dress well, have good posture, and wear lifts if you're really short), and learn game while working on getting a source of location independent income. Once you're able to get your city's 70th or 80th percentile in attractiveness, move outside the west, and get a non-western woman that's a 7 or 8 by local mens' standards. Good point about Asian men being only 2nd behind white men globally though. Not many people realize this, but black men have it WAAAY harder than Asian men in both the US and the rest of the world. The only difference between us and them is that white men aren't going after black women en masse the way they are going after Asian women.
I am gratefully married for many years now with a Colombian (immigrant)and have a beautiful child. Grew up in Nova Scotia, Canada. Even my friends since they were white the connection was difficult culturally, commonality. World is changing but long way to go.
@@brucewong7891 I’ve been to many countries in Latin America. I haven’t seen much bias against Asian men. Many women do not have an issue with dating an Asian man. They seem to be agnostic on our looks or may even like it more.
@@brucewong7891 I beg to differ. Asian men are not repulsive. There are many attractive Asian men out there. Many white women from USA (and abroad) have told me how handsome I am and have had relationships with them. True, that many women in USA do not see Asian men as first choice though. We Asian men need to have some pride in ourselves.
Remember to always focus on the end goal. If you are looking to having and raising successful children with values, you need to find someone with good family values looking to have children. Ignore what society tells you to do.
Exactly. Which is why I'm moving out of US. Even if you find a family oriented girl who shares your values, the chances of them growing up with your values is very less. They are far more likely to be influenced by the self-centered, narcissistic culture around them than the values in our home.
Thumbs up. I've said everything you said in this video. Certain individuals are not compatible with certain dating markets.
I have been in the USA many times and also I lived in China for 6 months to practice my mandarin (北京). I found out that situation in China is even worse. Due to one child policy plus different culture where the oldest son is the most importand which lead to huge difference between number of men and women so lots of man jumping arround really avarage women and they all act like princess. with best regards Patryk from Warsaw
Yes! China has a women shortage, and it’s producing alota simps!
Women shortage = demanding women w. high standards. Also Chinese culture for high value men is largely based around social-economic status (money, power, status) so it is not a good place for average men.
I've heard tall Asian handsome guys or White guys clean up in China.
Thank you so much for sharing your insight and wisdom on the dating and how location can really impact success. I will definitely visit central and eastern europe. Thank you
Macro = your dating market. Micro = working on yourself (gym, self improvement, dating advice, etc.). After all my years of improving myself and living in LA + traveling around, macro beats micro.
Haha yea, I worked on my self for 10 years, didn't improve much. As soon as I got out of the West, everything just got better and amplified.
Travelling is the biggest hack a guy can do to improve their dating success.
Been living in Odesa, Ukraine for about 3 months now. Spent most of my life in England, where I grew up. I came with the intention of making money by tutoring online, which I am doing, but I somehow ended up also being hired as a science teacher in a school. I'm very glad I made this decision, as I felt my life wasn't really building up to anything meaningful back in the UK.
@@tomwang5413 dang, you’re brave.
Many of their women have fled Ukraine. Hopefully you still have options. I went to Ukraine once and met a very nice lady there. Still friends to this day 20 years later.
@@sthnguyen the vast majority of people remain in Ukraine. In fact, many Ukrainians who left the country two years ago have already returned
I am a Polish woman and I find Asians as much attractive as Europeans so you are welcome here. You will get a woman here and no sugar neded.
If you like them so much, go to Asia.
@@nieczerwony a lot of them do , switch any dating app to korea
Haha most Polish women stick with other Polish men, that’s just my observation
@@coachshanez I am actually with a German/Swedish. And one Guy from Hong KOng actually was more into Ukrainian Iryna, than me so.... you got it ;). No harm done. Life goes on. Cheers!
Most guys who struggle to date in the U.S. are lonely and looking for “the one.” They travel abroad and get cleaned out. You have to unplug from the neediness.
I think most guys in the U.S. just want to get laid.
@@coachshanez easy to pay for that in the usa or abroad. yet they come abroad and get married and cleaned out. or worse yet import woman back to USA. i live abroad and see it constantly.
Cleaned out as in? Most guys I know who are unsuccessful with American girls usually find a family oriented girl after they move overseas. The US dating market is absolute Cancer, especially if you're a guy who is not attractive by Eurocentric beauty standards.
@@tambourinedmb Isn’t that the guys fault? He doesn’t have to give or lose his pre-married money to a woman even when married. In many countries, she only gets her share that was earned during the marriage not before.
Also, there are other cultures where the women are more into building a family/relationship than money and not so entitled, are more independent and work harder and not expect a free ride.
@@sthnguyen yes of course his fault. but that’s the mistake. hasn’t unplugged from western neediness.
💯, I have dated more white girls outside of the states since moving than ever. For some reason, i really click with Germans but I know Asian men do well in Poland, Ukraine and Russia according to some Asian American guys I know
Truth!
How is online dating in Poland for Asian men?
No issues. 10x better than USA. I change my location on dating app and get 8-10 likes in a day or two.
I know from personal experience this is a fact. Meanwhile, I'm a looking for a way to move out of this dumpster fire of a country called America. Worst decision in my life to move here.
@@Kevin-qf2hs USA is a great place for open spaces, making money, modern conveniences, start ups. But for social connections and dating for men it’s the worst. My experience is also that the warmer the location the warmer the people.
Do you have any thoughts on Asian men in Ukraine and Russia? I know you live in Poland and Asian men do well there but I am also curious about Ukraine and Russia too!
Hi, I lived in Ukraine for 3 years. It was fantastic!
Resumindo...se você não é valorizada na sua cidade ou pais, procure em outro lugar
I think there is still a reason to learn game and looksmax. If you're stuck getting only 6s in your country, you're still only going to get 6s and 7s in another country. The only difference is that average attractiveness is higher and thus shifts the entire attractiveness scale up, so it feels like you're getting a more attractive girl.
IMO I think it's worth doing both. Looksmax (get in shape, dress well, have good posture, and wear lifts if you're really short), and learn game while working on getting a source of location independent income. Once you're able to get your city's 70th or 80th percentile in attractiveness, move outside the west, and get a non-western woman that's a 7 or 8 by local mens' standards.
Good point about Asian men being only 2nd behind white men globally though. Not many people realize this, but black men have it WAAAY harder than Asian men in both the US and the rest of the world. The only difference between us and them is that white men aren't going after black women en masse the way they are going after Asian women.
Zhangster I heard from someone maybe if you can only be national try to date 1st generation immigrants. Traditional values still intact.
Why not just go to the source then
@@coachshanez maybe lack of financial resources.
great vid!!! thanks for showing us around warsaw bro!!!
@@wessee427 Ty! Anytime 😄
Location, location, location
YES YES YES!
I know you are dating consultant but race especially Asians matter not just in dating, but business, personal relationships, networking Outreach.
Absolutely
I am gratefully married for many years now with a Colombian (immigrant)and have a beautiful child. Grew up in Nova Scotia, Canada. Even my friends since they were white the connection was difficult culturally, commonality. World is changing but long way to go.
@@brucewong7891 I’ve been to many countries in Latin America. I haven’t seen much bias against Asian men. Many women do not have an issue with dating an Asian man. They seem to be agnostic on our looks or may even like it more.
@@sthnguyen My theory is that a lot of the people have indigineous blood there so an asian appearance is not so repulsive.
@@brucewong7891 I beg to differ. Asian men are not repulsive. There are many attractive Asian men out there. Many white women from USA (and abroad) have told me how handsome I am and have had relationships with them. True, that many women in USA do not see Asian men as first choice though.
We Asian men need to have some pride in ourselves.
Hmmmm 🙂🤔
wow, very nice perfume channel!
Remember to always focus on the end goal. If you are looking to having and raising successful children with values, you need to find someone with good family values looking to have children. Ignore what society tells you to do.
And that’s moving out of Western countries is so crucial!
Exactly. Which is why I'm moving out of US. Even if you find a family oriented girl who shares your values, the chances of them growing up with your values is very less. They are far more likely to be influenced by the self-centered, narcissistic culture around them than the values in our home.
Been to nyc and it’s mainly blacks
And Mexicans
Haha, I am not so sure about that. Depends on what part of town you are in, and what lead generation methods you use.
did anyone tell you that you look exactly like a jypapi (jyp park i mean 😏)?
Who is that? Ahah
You can just start a business to match American men with Slavic women. I will pay for the premium.
Feel free to contact me, I have info if you are serious about it.
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