Out of nowhere UA-cam offered me this podcast. I did not regret clicking on the thumbnail. What a deep, meaningful conversation! I really learned something. This episode might be your breakthrough! Greetings from Austria (Europe)
she is brutally wrong about equating feminazi podcasts to red pill podcasts - it is very necessary to expose modern trashy liberal female behaviour which is what red pill does very well, while providing the mindset to counter and navigate it. She is a pseudo-intellectual at best.
"When the relationship loses it's excitement we assume it's lost its love. But really it's lost it's novelty." Couldn't of said it better myself. Love is boring. Life is boring. I don't think a lot of people understand that.
@@hardrock9199 I think what one should do is look at what is valuable. Is this relationship valuable? Does it complete me, does it bring meaning and purpose to my life? I mean everything that is new is fun at first. But when it fades, what is left? I take this approach with almost everything in my life. I know this might sound oppressive and misogynist but I do look at a girl as part of my kingdom. But I take pride in my kingdom. I protect my kingdom. I take care of my kingdom. And a girl that's just fun for the first 2 months, well, you're not part of my kingdom.
@@hardrock9199 in general for bringing novelty in a relationship people should be a little bit creative., start going to dating again, dress up and have a romantic dinner once in a while, go dance tango together or ask her to put different lingerie (u can buy some expensive ones u like) u can play with different role playing, or go to a luxury hotel one night just to have fun together without the kids ect.. I mean sexuality needs work and creativity it makes the relationship fun again
Seems all the virtuous women have UGLY faces, and out of shape. Any girl with an ounce of pretty privilege gets love bombed by the algorithm, and eventually chooses to become a 304 for the least virtuous men in every community
There are tons of virtuous men out there but women don't want them. They all want the same few guys then complain when he won't choose them alone. Lmao.
Your relationship should not be your primary source of excitement.. Your own life should be the primary source of excitement.. You can't put that on your partner.. That is your own responsibility to keep your life existing
@@EV-EV-EV Hobbies. Goals you are pursuing. Perhaps a fulfilling career. Things you are learning. Experiences you are having. If you can't come up with exciting things outside of a romantic partner, you are suffering from a serious lack of perspective, friend.
“When a relationship loses its excitement we assume its lost its love but really it’s lost its novelty, and Novelty is only available in new relationships so what happens is.. people are craving the feeling in new relationships rather than enjoying the stability of existing relationships” Big facts 😮👏🏾
@@tacorevenge87people misunderstand the function of a relationship. It is companionship. It is sharing life with another person, highs and lows. For that to be enjoyable you must love the person to the extent that their happiness and contentment is your own. I see that with my own parents and grandparents. My mothers smile means the world to my father. He values her as his equal in all regards and greater in many. Young people do not value companionship, they do not want it, they want a drama filled adrenaline rush. Young girls joke online about picking fights for the sake of it. Men cheat endlessly and justify it by their biology. So I suggest all stay on tinder and rot away in dysfunction.
Why is novelty exciting? There is nothing more exciting that being reciprocated in love and having that deep connection… even sx is just ecstasy. Like people seriously need to stop fking around and actually set to find a partner in crime for everything in life, there is no better feeling and nothing beyond that. Seems that experiencing true love is a very rare thing
@@user-yd4nk4lm6s Funny how you mention that men are cheating. Since over 60% on men in the US from 16 to 35 are single. Who are they cheating on? Can you elaborate?
"Saving it for marriage" used to be a thing for both men and women. Having enough self control used to be traits of strong men and women. We're living in a weak society today where sleeping around, cheating and hypergamy has become normal. Somehow sex has become a symbol of freedom and being independent. We're makers of our own doom.
Hypergamy and a select few men sleeping around is not a new thing ….it has always been around and do you know how degenerate and deviant the old world used to be It has always been around it’s just that it’s now everywhere for everybody to see The new thing is women sleeping around that’s what’s crazy 😂😂😂😂
@@StriveforJannah2 women but the average woman was with the average man and saw the average man as a catch cos back then making money or food was extremely difficult so the average man used to be cherished and the women used to see the horrors and carnage men used to go through so they respected men and their hypergamy was satisfied Although they still wanted the knights and top guys back then They weren’t delusional and unaware of what they can attract and keep
It has been like this throughout tne abundance phase of any civilization. A) We didnt have social media for the whole world to see, know and comment. B) women for pleasure was a different category than wife and mother of children; and were kept as such. Now all women have cheapened themselves by sleeping around. C) the government or ruling organization in the past did not support poor behaviour, now they encourage it and take from tax payers to support poor behavior such as single mom with 4 kids from 4 different fathers getting $$$ for bad choices.
If you compare work and relationships, you'll often find similarities. Just like a job interview (first date), then getting together (getting the job) spending 2-5 years in that job, getting a promotion (marriage) spending another 5 years promoted, of course things will get boring and monotonous eventually. That's just routine. The first day on a job is always more exciting than day 458 on a job. Sometimes it's good to just appreciate what is. There's ways to fall in love all over again by spicing things up for sure but it can't always be like that.
'Craving the feeling of new relationships rather than enjoying the stability of existing relationships' is so true in today's society. As Sadia said, we must recognize that marriage or long term relationships and habituating together by nature will be become boring and it is about accepting that stability, predictability rather than reaching for constant excitement and novelty.
Rich men choose the top level girl by looks but they often forget that other men too wants her. So now she has even more options and there's a high chance that she'll be cheating. It's as simple as that
Wrong, rich men are choosing these girls just for sex, he has no intention of actually marrying her he knows this type of girl is just with him for money. You think he hasn't got other girls aswell?😂 This Sadia girl is delusional, ive never seen someone be so confident in being so wrong 😂
Feel bad for high value men who make horrible choices on women? I’m so glad Sadia said to not feel bad because they choose this life. 1000000% correct!
Tu C agar hai agar tujhe lagta hai DeGenerency india nhi aayi hai women in india cheats very much it's just that men don't open it in front of everyone and most men accept their fate because of judges like chandrachur trust me you don't even know what's going on in india specially related to marriage women are giving divorces to men so easily getting alimony, child support even after cheating on their husbands more than 350 men commit suicide in a month in india. Even the cuckold lifestyle is here in india where the man watches his wife getting railed by other men checkout clubs in Bangalore, Mumbai, Delhi, gurgaon bahar nikla Karo raat mai sab pata lag jayega kya hora hai
This lady is a treasure! Protect her at all costs. Raising a teenage daughter is a true challenge in this day and age and women who speak such wisdom are vital to the preservation of a sane society.
Love that point at 21:58 about how society trickles down to relationships and our tendency to get everything faster, cheaper better also makes us want to dispose of relationships. Very interesting observation. I wonder what are some tips to help with this.
I knew 2 chicks that were with rich dudes and they both cheated on their men, like ALL THE TIME. One was even sleeping with men her husband knew and hangout with 😳
Yeah don't listen to Sadia. I lived in Dubai and she definitely ain't speaking for everyone. The men and women she hangs with are probably toxic. So that's what she sees constantly.
I am so grateful. This podcast has opened my eyes and made me realise how lucky I am to have found my wife. No point delving in to the reasons, but thank you to the host and Sadia.
As a white westerner, so much of this conversation was uncomfortable listening. I can't even begin to unravel some of the horrifying beliefs (a child bride is okay because a man is investing in her?! WTF) like the focus on 'high level' people (whatever that means) and how transactional you think relationships are/should be. I'm one of those left leaning liberals who just happen to wander into this podcast - I'll happily wander away never to return. Wow.
It's really fascinating and horrifying to find how women really think and behave. Liberals and feminists are living in a dream world concerning the authentic nature of women.
You give bad advise, it's not so different for what passes as "red pill" today with it's touch of feminist ideology. No wonder your "about that life" because if you knew better then you wouldn't be.
everyone is born Alpha/Khalifah(cute, kharismatic, funny, cheerful, attractive, adorable, fearless, smart etc) but because of addicted to bad trait they became beta
11:38,,, that is the damn truth,💯 that it depends on what men reward, give their attention to. If men in my society reward big nyash, the nails, and bleached complexions, you will find women rushing to that & changing themselves!
I love what Sadia said at the 33min mark about how women can find a good man. Growing up with divorced parents I watched my dad have the worst toxic arguments with whoever he's dating or married to after my mom. Watching all of that made me terrified of facing conflict in a relationship so whenever I had fights with my exes, I would dump them after the first fight :( But then I met my boyfriend and he's very calm and fair during our fights. Even if he's mad at me he would still give me time to explain my view of the conflict, we rarely raise our voice at eachother(and if we do, we apologize within 24 hours), and since technically I'm living under his roof, he still offers to take the couch if we can't find a solution before bed. No immature silent treatment or trying to get "revenge" just to piss me off in the moment. No broken glasses. He makes the inevitable conflicts in any long term relationship a safe space to disagree. I feel so loved and feel so good for finding someone emotionally healthier than my parents.
"The men set the tone." Exactly. Unfortunately, many Western men are starting to migrate to foreign dating pools and bringing their Western values with them, and diluting the traditional values of other countries, rewarding bad behavior everywhere they go.
@@GangusBong1 I'm in total agreement with the overall discussion, just pointing out an unfortunate glaring contradiction in the behavior of some (not all) passport bros. perhaps you haven't seen the videos of some passport bros in other countries partying with scantily clad women. Between the music, the alcohol, the clothes, and the exhibitionism, you would think they were right here in the good 'ol usa. Can't tell the difference between the values of the women here and the values of some of the women in so-called traditional cultures. I'm not the one who is tone-deaf, or rude.
@@sef4610 youre literally just looking for a reason to complain and yes, BE RUDE. Like if a man so much as takes a breath, yall have something to say about it
"if you choose the simple girl working starbucks of course she's gonna be loyal" ENTER STEPH CURRY'S WIFE: "i want men other than my husband to give me attention"
100% agree with how many men feel. I lost a part of my wife when we had our son but I had to put it in perspective that she’s protecting my legacy..Also, toxicity is a form of attention for men. Men want excitement and attention some times NOT all the time or everyday.
This lady really knows men and relationships! I agreed with just about everything she said. The only part is that when men express, we get the exact thing she mentioned, "Get over it". I've heard a number of women use that phrase in reference to their men's concerns. And it really is a downhill slope.
Great interview, I love scrolling through the comments. It’s amazing how easy it is to focus on the negative and not see the good. In the times we are living men should be respected by woman. Sad reality is so many have lost their identity. Simplicity is a sign of authenticity. We need masculine men. It’s a pity Dubai is a city of pleasure seeking, shows that soon peace will become rare few will be able to tap into it. It’s like trying to take an addict off drugs.
Really good video. I love Sadia valuing balance so much. I also like her point that men allow certain behavior to thrive in society if they reward it. You're a great host, Sadia loved most of your questions and enjoyed her time. UA-cam needs more of these balanced, feminine, unbiased conversations. I want to mention that as a Christian, the product of Islam can bear a lot of good fruit, and I commend that. Cheers.
Great conversation, many uncomfortable truths shared, which is so needed at this time. I grew up in Dubai and it was both surprising and refreshing to hear some criticisms being made about the place on a public platform by people currently living there, because during my time there it felt like you couldn't voice even the smallest criticism of Dubai in public without getting into trouble. Also, I watched this during the Libra Full Moon, and it tickled me that there was SO much Aphrodite energy radiating from Sadia, to me she seemed like such a fabulous embodiment of Aphrodite: beauty, brains, humor, charm, balance, way with words, confidence, etc. I also liked that she gives credit to her Creator! 💖💖💖💖💖
Sadia has a good understanding of male and female dynamics. As a clinical psychologist myself her lack of self awareness is stunning. It’s because she’s intelligent, very attractive, and has a British accent. “I don’t like to work hard”. That’s because of pretty privilege. If she wants a stable relationship why is she living in Dubai? It’s because she is probably a sugar baby:gold digger herself. I wish she just owned that instead of all of this nonsense virtue signaling they are doing to one another. No wonder women don’t like her. She’s not “keeping it real”.
Something is really fishy about her. I saw her insta, and posts there clearly have an agenda. She's red-pilled to the core as well. Her posts seem to imply that she's trying to save naive "high value men." In many of her posts related to promiscuity, he tells them that they might impregnate a "low-quality" woman. Is this how naive he thinks these men are? Especially the playboys of dubai. Sure, it's a possibility. But this language is more empathic towards men who have to face consequences of their own actions. She's heavily focused on cheating than any other aspect of relationship. Sus She's probably trying to secure one for her. These type of women portray themselves to be hyper-feminine in order to lure men. She instructs women to be submissive and as feminine as they can be.
What a wonderful discussion. Very spot on I learned so many things. Sadia explained so many topics so clearly, She concisely explained why Hollywood marriages fail, the current state of relationships, and how one has to really decide what one wants out of their relationship and choose accordingly. Sadia is brilliant and seems like such a good soul.
Im sorry I disagree that women in Dubai dont pay for their surgery. ITs super cheap to go to surgery in Turkey, women from the most poor arab countries get their body, face and teeth done there for a cheap price. I disagree that you need novelty by creating other relationships. You can have X amount of activities with your spouse and dates to create new experiences. I agree with people like people that have boundaries. The reason we dont value the opposite sex with no boundaries is because it signals that it is a weak person to create a long term relationship where children are evolved, emotional and financial investment. We need someone that protects it with boundries.
Thank you for this!!!! I’ve been seeing so many of those alpha males and feminist podcasts and videos that lean way to far on one side that it makes me sad. This talk was definitely is more realistic and balanced
Thank you for this wonderful interview! Many things about this I could relate to especially about women who become jealous or mean. I’ve struggled to work around other women even tho I am the youngest of 5 daughters and my sisters are my best friends, for some reason women whom I’m not related to always saw me as competition. I come from a conservative background and traditional background, focusing on care for each other and serving each other. I think one of the biggest compliments I get is when someone tells me how thoughtful I am! That to me supersedes whatever superficial thing people think I am! Huge compliment! 🥰 Thanks again for bringing Sadia on! 🌹 🌹
Men are not babies women are we don't cry about it how many times women divorces men just coz there husband don't give them time what ee want we work for it and we gets it
That was scintillating! Incredible Chemistry, Wonderful production - perfect camera work. Two very accomplished and polished Women. Utterly refreshing. Sadia Khan is intoxicating, refined and presidential. This video will become a reference point and stand the test of time. Thankyou both. London, UK
NEVER in my entire life has expressing my needs in a relationship, EVER resulted in those needs being addressed in any way that isn’t directly negative. Literally never.
I know. Men can be deaf, dumb, blind, uncaring and egoistic. The speaker doesn't say this. She is quite biased. Plays to the Galleries and probably gets her clients this way. Yuks.
!!! Who are u choosing for partners??? women who actually love u, LOVE finally hearing a man attempt to express his actual needs - as opposed to just acting them out. A true partner will hold your vulnerability as precious. If u are getting bad reactions/defensiveness, u need to look at the maturity of your partner and own HOW u are expressing yourself as well.
True, when I’m taking care of kids and house all day, the last thing I feel like to do after all that work is having sex when I haven’t even had a time to shower or take care of myself. I don’t feel sexy or anything. Wish husband would help out sometimes, just so that I could get time off to pamper myself sometimes.
He will happily help out, you just need to humble yourself and ask him to help. Who cares that you "have to" ask. If he's too tired to help out, hire a babysitter.
@@Sisterlisk You made nothing but assumptions about her post. She said nothing about not asking her husband or having an issue with asking for help. Moreover, are you going to be the one paying for her babysitter? I'm sure she'll take the money just fine.
She’s in a bubble. Maybe in Dubai the men are all alpha Macho Top G whateverbros but in normie life, top earners have to work for it. One of my friends is a flight engineer who makes great money. His wife ain’t stepping out on him. I even know a guy who pulls in six figures as a bar tender and i can’t imagine his wife cheating either. Most of the cheating that I know that happens is from low income people cheating on other low income people. It’s less about the actual dollars they make and more about the behaviors they act out. In essence, the values that keep you poor, also keep you in crap relationships over and over again. The high earners I know aren’t at the bars and clubs, so less chance to cheat and meet people. They’re also more emotionally stable. They push themselves through higher education or hold themselves to financial discipline that others don’t. One of my college football coaches told me once “how you show up to one place is how you show up every place.” Just my two pennies
It’s not about always trying to fix boredom with more excitement. ACCEPT that life/marriage gets boring and that feeling is okay. When you go through life avoiding boredom/stillness and searching for the next exciting/active thing you’ll constantly do that forever. And never feel fulfilled. Chasing constantly is far more miserable than stillness if you ask me.
I am an Italian multimillionaire moving to Dubai. My old school boring monogamy thank you for this enlighting video. I will definitely stay away from the flashy girls.
@@zamar2158 Unfortunately, only our mothers and sisters were "rural". Instagram and Onlyfans arrived here too. The young generation is more interested in my Lambos and Rolls, instead of just " due cuori e una capanna" as we describe true and uncoditioned love here. In Dubai, I will definitely looking for some High Value and astonishing beauty as Sadia. I hope she will introduce me to her female friends. ☺
I'm a guy and was enjoying your stuff until you defended tate.... he's said and done some pretty outrageous stuff. The fact that you defend him makes me wonder about your courage to go against the current. It seems like you don't want to alienate your audience.
@@hamedanassiri thank you for replying. Overall this video was great. I got here thanks to Aba and Preach's reaction to your video. Would be interesting to see your reaction to their video and what they say about Tate.
Sadia, while obviously a very beautiful and educated woman seems to live in a small bubble of the 1.5%. She may resonate with the most wealthy and glamorous of people. But like Matthew Hussey, nothing she says resonates with me as a matchmaker and dating coach in Chicago. I am fairly certain that my small following of 10,000 subscribers would also be unable to relate to any of her elite and jaded theories and viewpoints on love and relationships. It’s seriously feels to me like she is speaking another language.
I can see why she likes Andrew so much, they are so alike. Both of them say some smart things, but half od the time they contradict themselves because of the generalizations. First she said there is nothing wrong with women just wanting money from men and being ok with their men cheating and those who judge are poor or ugly. Then she says that actually women who are with rich men are cheating all of the time. It's contradicting her statement that money and security are all those women need. Then she says men cheat because they need attention. And she said that the poor girl will be loyal to a rich guy because she is miserable (she has no options) but a rich and hot woman will cheat because she has options. I can see a little bit of a self projecting here, honestly, it's no coincidence that she lives in Dubai because "she loves the lifestyle". She is just able to analyse other people. One thing she and Andrew forgot is moral code and that moral people exist. No, i choose not to cheat not because of the options or money or boredom, but because I was raised right and I have morals. No, people are not robots and you cannot choose a woman that only needs money and not love. Them calling money - love and care, I was in shock. For centuries we are saying love cannot be bought, but here they are calling it love... Delusional. In the end, everyone, men and women, need attention and love and emotional care, it does not evolve around trauma. Yes we are different, someone needs less and someone more, but i know many women whose husbands are working 24/7 and they are rich and MISERABLE. If you have wife that is happy she has money and is not seeing you all day, that women doesn't love you and will leave you the moment you loose the money. I can see that she hasn't thought this through and is speaking from head.
I meant wow, as in the most stupid toxic way possible. Because I never met a woman that is so intelligent that I admit my inferiority to her, but still, her beauty still surpasses her intelligence. Maybe that sounds bad, but I already said the stupid wow and I meant that in the best way possible. Genius level of understanding and intelligence, galactic beauty though!
A simple woman does have options that's where I disagree. But she's spot on the rich guy shes there for the cash and what you represent only. The mythical story of the wife cheating with the poor but handsome pool guy while the rich man is away exists for a reason. Human attraction trumps all!
Finally, someone gets it. No one cares about an ugly old midget.... people should marry early and within their attractiveness and height level; otherwise expect to be cheated on.
I know this may come across as offensive but its not common to hear attractive women who are also socially intelligent yet not entitled and trying to manipulate and cheat their way through life.
52:25 as a woman who also experienced jealousy and have jealous female friends as well, I find one of the best effective way to suppress that envy in you is to provoke the mother instinct so to speak. I don’t know, I feel bad for these women, it’s like they are in pain. So I always try my best to show sympathy and empathy for them as well as guidance, but it has to come from an equal and mutual stand of course.
Relationships are difficult to maintain, and people tend to take the path of least resistance, so naturally it serves to reason that people with a high sexual marketplace value are likely to choose a lifestyle of luxury and meaningless flings as opposed to a life of toiling and stability.
They said they do not need compliments on their looks, but they both would be considered at the very least as pretty. They would feel differently if they were considered less attractive.
Wow, this is the most sane thing I have heard in a while. The messaging is quite balanced. Keep it up. First time seeing your video, I am happy that I did.
Hmmm interesting dialogue it still comes from being direct or being indirect as a person male or female. When ever a man speaks to a woman it is always about sex and women know this right away how direct he is will say what is going on. Most guys are indirect in the approach. In Dubai money is the language that is used to find sex or a relationship of some sort. Money can be a drug used to fulfill there desires and most men will use this,oh don't worry women do the same as well. It's hard for people to understand what Love is when we use different things to achieve it. Dubai is not really a place to create a relationship or a situation that one Can grow a family very few can from what I can see or tell. Solomon had 7000 wives and 300 concubines do we think that all his wives stayed loyal to him so you think that they all had kids with him. Do you think they truly loved him just because he was a King. Times are no different than they were back then. I can only reference this because of what I have read for myself. People use money for power and they get used in the process and don't realize it at times or should say most times. The word love is used for different things and reasons in their own minds to feel comfortable with their feelings but in the process will hurt others in their quest to achieve it. Mr Tate has probably 6 to 10 kids with 4 to 6 ladies in his haram if the ladies want this then it's on them but if he thinks that they don't cheat on him he is delusional. So is that love ha who knows. The sun will rise up for another day again
she considers 15-16 yeard girl who has a bf a girl without value, but 15-16 year girl , sold out to a husband, to have value. this woman is sick. 15-16yeard schoolgirl chose her bf via emotional connection, and sold-out girl is a piece of furniture in her husband's home.
High value men do not cheat! LOL SMH! If you were to reference a "wealthy man" as a high value man, then you are misguided, and flat out wrong! My husband is well to do, extremely handsome, but he does not "step out" of our relationship! High value men have respect and are serious about their lives. They are typically in great shape, physically and mentally. They are serious about their families, their kids, and their wives. They are in bed early, and get up early. They have priorities, they are a man of their word, they have respect for people, they help others without expectation in return. Most importantly, they are secure about who they are. Insercure men cheat. Secure men don't. If youre a woman and you think that once you meet the great looking rich man, yet his character is not in alignment with those qualities, you better re assess your choice in a man as a partner! Money is not everything! If my husband did not have those attributes, we would not be married. There are men out there , be selective, I admit they are few and far in between, but they are out there!
31:32 "I feel bad for men now" "No don't feel bad for them bcz they choose this life" 😂😂😂😂🤣💯💯 sooo fckin true! Don't feel bad for them, they dig their own graves n lie in it...
@@geeShahGee724 She is a perfect example. She is truly liberated but not cheapened. All women should aspire to be her. Men these days want women either sheltered or those that don’t value their bodies and honor.
@ 33:09 BAD ADVICE, absolutely terrible advice. You are encouraging women not to heal their past traumas and unload them instead onto the nice guy that they find - NOT FAIR and NOT ON. Men have been used as emotional tampons for the longest and many of them deserve much better than that. Avoid the women with baggage, they will crush your spirit and bring you down to their level. Some will even use you emotionally and then go and sleep with the very guy who caused them the trauma they've complained to you about in the first place. The podcast was going so well until you said that. Dangerous advice, you should be encouraging women to sort themselves out before getting into any relationship!
Out of nowhere UA-cam offered me this podcast. I did not regret clicking on the thumbnail. What a deep, meaningful conversation! I really learned something. This episode might be your breakthrough! Greetings from Austria (Europe)
me too
I am so glad you enjoyed it!
she is brutally wrong about equating feminazi podcasts to red pill podcasts - it is very necessary to expose modern trashy liberal female behaviour which is what red pill does very well, while providing the mindset to counter and navigate it. She is a pseudo-intellectual at best.
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅0٩😊😊😅😊٠٠09
out of her money lol
"When the relationship loses it's excitement we assume it's lost its love. But really it's lost it's novelty." Couldn't of said it better myself. Love is boring. Life is boring. I don't think a lot of people understand that.
Exactly 👌🏻
So true
So what should one do in that situation??
@@hardrock9199 I think what one should do is look at what is valuable. Is this relationship valuable? Does it complete me, does it bring meaning and purpose to my life? I mean everything that is new is fun at first. But when it fades, what is left? I take this approach with almost everything in my life. I know this might sound oppressive and misogynist but I do look at a girl as part of my kingdom. But I take pride in my kingdom. I protect my kingdom. I take care of my kingdom. And a girl that's just fun for the first 2 months, well, you're not part of my kingdom.
@@hardrock9199 in general for bringing novelty in a relationship people should be a little bit creative., start going to dating again, dress up and have a romantic dinner once in a while, go dance tango together or ask her to put different lingerie (u can buy some expensive ones u like) u can play with different role playing, or go to a luxury hotel one night just to have fun together without the kids ect.. I mean sexuality needs work and creativity it makes the relationship fun again
If you want a virtuous woman you need to be a virtuous man. I'm so glad she touched on this.
Exactly a man needs to have the trait to attract.
Seems all the virtuous women have UGLY faces, and out of shape.
Any girl with an ounce of pretty privilege gets love bombed by the algorithm, and eventually chooses to become a 304 for the least virtuous men in every community
a virtual man
There are tons of virtuous men out there but women don't want them. They all want the same few guys then complain when he won't choose them alone. Lmao.
@@venividivici6418 we don't want virtuous women... we want beautiful and sexy women. She spoke on this in the video.
Your relationship should not be your primary source of excitement.. Your own life should be the primary source of excitement.. You can't put that on your partner.. That is your own responsibility to keep your life existing
@Devils' Advocate Completely agree.
What does that mean? What from your life should give you your excitement?
That's what 304s tell themselves when they cheat?
@@EV-EV-EV Hobbies. Goals you are pursuing. Perhaps a fulfilling career. Things you are learning. Experiences you are having. If you can't come up with exciting things outside of a romantic partner, you are suffering from a serious lack of perspective, friend.
🙂👌
“When a relationship loses its excitement we assume its lost its love but really it’s lost its novelty, and Novelty is only available in new relationships so what happens is.. people are craving the feeling in new relationships rather than enjoying the stability of existing relationships”
Big facts 😮👏🏾
Maybe you don’t need a relationship. Maybe you need a circus or an entertainment show.
@@tacorevenge87people misunderstand the function of a relationship. It is companionship. It is sharing life with another person, highs and lows. For that to be enjoyable you must love the person to the extent that their happiness and contentment is your own. I see that with my own parents and grandparents. My mothers smile means the world to my father. He values her as his equal in all regards and greater in many. Young people do not value companionship, they do not want it, they want a drama filled adrenaline rush. Young girls joke online about picking fights for the sake of it. Men cheat endlessly and justify it by their biology. So I suggest all stay on tinder and rot away in dysfunction.
Why is novelty exciting? There is nothing more exciting that being reciprocated in love and having that deep connection… even sx is just ecstasy. Like people seriously need to stop fking around and actually set to find a partner in crime for everything in life, there is no better feeling and nothing beyond that. Seems that experiencing true love is a very rare thing
@@user-yd4nk4lm6s agree. However women cheat more.
@@user-yd4nk4lm6s Funny how you mention that men are cheating. Since over 60% on men in the US from 16 to 35 are single. Who are they cheating on? Can you elaborate?
"Saving it for marriage" used to be a thing for both men and women. Having enough self control used to be traits of strong men and women. We're living in a weak society today where sleeping around, cheating and hypergamy has become normal. Somehow sex has become a symbol of freedom and being independent. We're makers of our own doom.
Hypergamy and a select few men sleeping around is not a new thing ….it has always been around and do you know how degenerate and deviant the old world used to be
It has always been around it’s just that it’s now everywhere for everybody to see
The new thing is women sleeping around that’s what’s crazy 😂😂😂😂
@@ernestbruce263 same can be said about women too then cuz who were these men sleeping with??
@@StriveforJannah2 women but the average woman was with the average man and saw the average man as a catch cos back then making money or food was extremely difficult so the average man used to be cherished and the women used to see the horrors and carnage men used to go through so they respected men and their hypergamy was satisfied
Although they still wanted the knights and top guys back then
They weren’t delusional and unaware of what they can attract and keep
It has been like this throughout tne abundance phase of any civilization. A) We didnt have social media for the whole world to see, know and comment. B) women for pleasure was a different category than wife and mother of children; and were kept as such. Now all women have cheapened themselves by sleeping around. C) the government or ruling organization in the past did not support poor behaviour, now they encourage it and take from tax payers to support poor behavior such as single mom with 4 kids from 4 different fathers getting $$$ for bad choices.
People used to sleep around as well but it was more secretive. Nothing has changed. People did not start feeling more lust all of a sudden. Wake up!
If you compare work and relationships, you'll often find similarities. Just like a job interview (first date), then getting together (getting the job) spending 2-5 years in that job, getting a promotion (marriage) spending another 5 years promoted, of course things will get boring and monotonous eventually. That's just routine. The first day on a job is always more exciting than day 458 on a job. Sometimes it's good to just appreciate what is. There's ways to fall in love all over again by spicing things up for sure but it can't always be like that.
'Craving the feeling of new relationships rather than enjoying the stability of existing relationships' is so true in today's society. As Sadia said, we must recognize that marriage or long term relationships and habituating together by nature will be become boring and it is about accepting that stability, predictability rather than reaching for constant excitement and novelty.
Rich men choose the top level girl by looks but they often forget that other men too wants her. So now she has even more options and there's a high chance that she'll be cheating. It's as simple as that
Very few men have the balls to approach women to begin wtih let alone good looking women.
There is a big difference between men and hunters ! Taxidermist you don't want but deep down want a little more.
Wrong, rich men are choosing these girls just for sex, he has no intention of actually marrying her he knows this type of girl is just with him for money. You think he hasn't got other girls aswell?😂 This Sadia girl is delusional, ive never seen someone be so confident in being so wrong 😂
@@zsheikh1234 idk why people keep saying this shit. you obviously don't have any female friends
@@zsheikh1234 Yeah but it s about RICH MEN, they just approach beautiful women and women accept them right away because he is rich
Feel bad for high value men who make horrible choices on women? I’m so glad Sadia said to not feel bad because they choose this life. 1000000% correct!
He isn't high value if he can't choose right. Men and women BOTH choose a reflection of themselves. Especially after the age of 25.
High value man should just be a man of integrity; not $$.
For real. Talk about not knowing your worth.
The more I Watch woke librals the more I appreciate and value my Indian Culture. Great Podcast
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Tu C agar hai agar tujhe lagta hai DeGenerency india nhi aayi hai women in india cheats very much it's just that men don't open it in front of everyone and most men accept their fate because of judges like chandrachur trust me you don't even know what's going on in india specially related to marriage women are giving divorces to men so easily getting alimony, child support even after cheating on their husbands more than 350 men commit suicide in a month in india. Even the cuckold lifestyle is here in india where the man watches his wife getting railed by other men checkout clubs in Bangalore, Mumbai, Delhi, gurgaon bahar nikla Karo raat mai sab pata lag jayega kya hora hai
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I think you didnt really talked to Indian women. Indian women are more woke then the real wokes.
lmao same
This lady is a treasure! Protect her at all costs. Raising a teenage daughter is a true challenge in this day and age and women who speak such wisdom are vital to the preservation of a sane society.
Love that point at 21:58 about how society trickles down to relationships and our tendency to get everything faster, cheaper better also makes us want to dispose of relationships. Very interesting observation. I wonder what are some tips to help with this.
I knew 2 chicks that were with rich dudes and they both cheated on their men, like ALL THE TIME. One was even sleeping with men her husband knew and hangout with 😳
That makes sense, I guess.
He probably knew. Men get off like this. 😊
Yeah don't listen to Sadia. I lived in Dubai and she definitely ain't speaking for everyone. The men and women she hangs with are probably toxic. So that's what she sees constantly.
I am so grateful. This podcast has opened my eyes and made me realise how lucky I am to have found my wife. No point delving in to the reasons, but thank you to the host and Sadia.
I am glad you enjoyed it ❤️
As a white westerner, so much of this conversation was uncomfortable listening. I can't even begin to unravel some of the horrifying beliefs (a child bride is okay because a man is investing in her?! WTF) like the focus on 'high level' people (whatever that means) and how transactional you think relationships are/should be. I'm one of those left leaning liberals who just happen to wander into this podcast - I'll happily wander away never to return. Wow.
i hope you never expect a man to pay for your date bills ecc otherwise you are a full hypocrite.
It's really fascinating and horrifying to find how women really think and behave. Liberals and feminists are living in a dream world concerning the authentic nature of women.
Thank you for having me! Such a great host and amazing questions ❤
Found you 👍
You give bad advise, it's not so different for what passes as "red pill" today with it's touch of feminist ideology. No wonder your "about that life" because if you knew better then you wouldn't be.
Thank you Sadia! I love listening to you, I feel lucky to have the possibility to gain so much wisdom and insights 🙂
everyone is born Alpha/Khalifah(cute, kharismatic, funny, cheerful, attractive, adorable, fearless, smart etc) but because of addicted to bad trait they became beta
11:38,,, that is the damn truth,💯 that it depends on what men reward, give their attention to. If men in my society reward big nyash, the nails, and bleached complexions, you will find women rushing to that & changing themselves!
Tate, Alpha... what a joke.
I love what Sadia said at the 33min mark about how women can find a good man. Growing up with divorced parents I watched my dad have the worst toxic arguments with whoever he's dating or married to after my mom. Watching all of that made me terrified of facing conflict in a relationship so whenever I had fights with my exes, I would dump them after the first fight :(
But then I met my boyfriend and he's very calm and fair during our fights. Even if he's mad at me he would still give me time to explain my view of the conflict, we rarely raise our voice at eachother(and if we do, we apologize within 24 hours), and since technically I'm living under his roof, he still offers to take the couch if we can't find a solution before bed. No immature silent treatment or trying to get "revenge" just to piss me off in the moment. No broken glasses. He makes the inevitable conflicts in any long term relationship a safe space to disagree. I feel so loved and feel so good for finding someone emotionally healthier than my parents.
LOL DUBAI IS A BROTHEL
"The men set the tone." Exactly. Unfortunately, many Western men are starting to migrate to foreign dating pools and bringing their Western values with them, and diluting the traditional values of other countries, rewarding bad behavior everywhere they go.
Ha! This is the most tone deaf comment ive read all day.
@@GangusBong1 I'm in total agreement with the overall discussion, just pointing out an unfortunate glaring contradiction in the behavior of some (not all) passport bros. perhaps you haven't seen the videos of some passport bros in other countries partying with scantily clad women. Between the music, the alcohol, the clothes, and the exhibitionism, you would think they were right here in the good 'ol usa. Can't tell the difference between the values of the women here and the values of some of the women in so-called traditional cultures. I'm not the one who is tone-deaf, or rude.
Yes, the wrong to tone it is. People are abusing facts and opinions for their own benefits. But that's nothing new😅
@@sef4610 youre literally just looking for a reason to complain and yes, BE RUDE. Like if a man so much as takes a breath, yall have something to say about it
I heard that if a person doesn't fair well with friends from their gender, it's usually something they are doing wrong.
You all lost me when you started talking about Andrew Tate.
Their perspective is unabashedly Miami Dubai gold- digger-slanted
@@nolifey hmmm, maybe that's what it is. 🤔
"if you choose the simple girl working starbucks of course she's gonna be loyal"
ENTER STEPH CURRY'S WIFE: "i want men other than my husband to give me attention"
Obviously not all.
She never cheated on him though.
@@Aieshoo depends on how you define cheating
@@Aieshoo being an attention whore is a type of whore
I love Sadia, she articulates herself so well. Can really resonate with what she says, great podcast. Enjoyed watching it, well done both of you x
Glad you enjoyed it!
100% agree with how many men feel. I lost a part of my wife when we had our son but I had to put it in perspective that she’s protecting my legacy..Also, toxicity is a form of attention for men. Men want excitement and attention some times NOT all the time or everyday.
This lady really knows men and relationships! I agreed with just about everything she said. The only part is that when men express, we get the exact thing she mentioned, "Get over it". I've heard a number of women use that phrase in reference to their men's concerns. And it really is a downhill slope.
Shes basically a bimbo, with matching mentality. She knows men who use prostitutes, and what they want
No woman knows men besides what we tell them
Those countries where women arent allowed to even show ankle isn't about not rewarding, those women are threatened...
Great interview, I love scrolling through the comments. It’s amazing how easy it is to focus on the negative and not see the good. In the times we are living men should be respected by woman. Sad reality is so many have lost their identity. Simplicity is a sign of authenticity. We need masculine men. It’s a pity Dubai is a city of pleasure seeking, shows that soon peace will become rare few will be able to tap into it. It’s like trying to take an addict off drugs.
Really good video. I love Sadia valuing balance so much. I also like her point that men allow certain behavior to thrive in society if they reward it. You're a great host, Sadia loved most of your questions and enjoyed her time. UA-cam needs more of these balanced, feminine, unbiased conversations. I want to mention that as a Christian, the product of Islam can bear a lot of good fruit, and I commend that. Cheers.
wise ladies, rare in the modern times. enjoyed listening you and very beautiful, truly i am jealous of your husbands.
Thank you so much!
Simp
Love this insight: maybe life gets boring and you need to accept that
Great conversation, many uncomfortable truths shared, which is so needed at this time. I grew up in Dubai and it was both surprising and refreshing to hear some criticisms being made about the place on a public platform by people currently living there, because during my time there it felt like you couldn't voice even the smallest criticism of Dubai in public without getting into trouble. Also, I watched this during the Libra Full Moon, and it tickled me that there was SO much Aphrodite energy radiating from Sadia, to me she seemed like such a fabulous embodiment of Aphrodite: beauty, brains, humor, charm, balance, way with words, confidence, etc. I also liked that she gives credit to her Creator! 💖💖💖💖💖
Sadia has a good understanding of male and female dynamics. As a clinical psychologist myself her lack of self awareness is stunning. It’s because she’s intelligent, very attractive, and has a British accent. “I don’t like to work hard”. That’s because of pretty privilege. If she wants a stable relationship why is she living in Dubai? It’s because she is probably a sugar baby:gold digger herself. I wish she just owned that instead of all of this nonsense virtue signaling they are doing to one another. No wonder women don’t like her. She’s not “keeping it real”.
Something is really fishy about her. I saw her insta, and posts there clearly have an agenda. She's red-pilled to the core as well. Her posts seem to imply that she's trying to save naive "high value men." In many of her posts related to promiscuity, he tells them that they might impregnate a "low-quality" woman. Is this how naive he thinks these men are? Especially the playboys of dubai. Sure, it's a possibility. But this language is more empathic towards men who have to face consequences of their own actions.
She's heavily focused on cheating than any other aspect of relationship. Sus
She's probably trying to secure one for her. These type of women portray themselves to be hyper-feminine in order to lure men. She instructs women to be submissive and as feminine as they can be.
What a wonderful discussion. Very spot on I learned so many things. Sadia explained so many topics so clearly, She concisely explained why Hollywood marriages fail, the current state of relationships, and how one has to really decide what one wants out of their relationship and choose accordingly. Sadia is brilliant and seems like such a good soul.
Im sorry I disagree that women in Dubai dont pay for their surgery.
ITs super cheap to go to surgery in Turkey, women from the most poor arab countries get their body, face and teeth done there for a cheap price.
I disagree that you need novelty by creating other relationships. You can have X amount of activities with your spouse and dates to create new experiences.
I agree with people like people that have boundaries. The reason we dont value the opposite sex with no boundaries is because it signals that it is a weak person to create a long term relationship where children are evolved, emotional and financial investment. We need someone that protects it with boundries.
This is an amazing podcast, keep it up ladies you both dilivered relevant information so gracefully. I can't wait for the next podcast.
@@ambiamiah8178 Thank you love your support xx
men aren't conditioned to sleep around its in their biology 😂😂😂😂stop talking nonsense
“we have been conditioned to know men sleep around”
Thank you for this!!!! I’ve been seeing so many of those alpha males and feminist podcasts and videos that lean way to far on one side that it makes me sad. This talk was definitely is more realistic and balanced
Love this podcast, been saying so much of what she’s saying; glad her education and wisdom is being broadcast bc she speaks the truth.
Thank you for this wonderful interview! Many things about this I could relate to especially about women who become jealous or mean. I’ve struggled to work around other women even tho I am the youngest of 5 daughters and my sisters are my best friends, for some reason women whom I’m not related to always saw me as competition. I come from a conservative background and traditional background, focusing on care for each other and serving each other.
I think one of the biggest compliments I get is when someone tells me how thoughtful I am! That to me supersedes whatever superficial thing people think I am! Huge compliment! 🥰
Thanks again for bringing Sadia on! 🌹 🌹
I am so glad you liked it ❤️
Same here. It was refreshing to hear two other women say this. The worst behaviour I've faced has always come from women.
Men are not babies women are we don't cry about it how many times women divorces men just coz there husband don't give them time what ee want we work for it and we gets it
That was scintillating! Incredible Chemistry, Wonderful production - perfect camera work. Two very accomplished and polished Women. Utterly refreshing. Sadia Khan is intoxicating, refined and presidential. This video will become a reference point and stand the test of time. Thankyou both. London, UK
I am very glad you enjoyed this podcast 🙏🏾
NEVER in my entire life has expressing my needs in a relationship, EVER resulted in those needs being addressed in any way that isn’t directly negative.
Literally never.
Ya.....
I have read your comment like 5 times and because of the double negative I honestly don't know what you mean
@@mackprime6975 ok, i mean that every time i bring up my needs its a negative experience. Happy?
I know. Men can be deaf, dumb, blind, uncaring and egoistic. The speaker doesn't say this. She is quite biased. Plays to the Galleries and probably gets her clients this way. Yuks.
!!! Who are u choosing for partners??? women who actually love u, LOVE finally hearing a man attempt to express his actual needs - as opposed to just acting them out. A true partner will hold your vulnerability as precious. If u are getting bad reactions/defensiveness, u need to look at the maturity of your partner and own HOW u are expressing yourself as well.
True, when I’m taking care of kids and house all day, the last thing I feel like to do after all that work is having sex when I haven’t even had a time to shower or take care of myself. I don’t feel sexy or anything. Wish husband would help out sometimes, just so that I could get time off to pamper myself sometimes.
He will happily help out, you just need to humble yourself and ask him to help. Who cares that you "have to" ask. If he's too tired to help out, hire a babysitter.
@@Sisterlisk like I have the money for that. And I’ve asked and even cried.
@@Sisterlisk You made nothing but assumptions about her post. She said nothing about not asking her husband or having an issue with asking for help. Moreover, are you going to be the one paying for her babysitter? I'm sure she'll take the money just fine.
@@JustSherries If getting the father to pull his weight is so impossible, she needs to put less on her plate. Simplify everything.
She knows a little bit about our behavior I'll give her that🤣
When Sadia talks she fills the room with such energy as if she is a good friend of yours and you have known each other for years
She’s in a bubble. Maybe in Dubai the men are all alpha Macho Top G whateverbros but in normie life, top earners have to work for it. One of my friends is a flight engineer who makes great money. His wife ain’t stepping out on him. I even know a guy who pulls in six figures as a bar tender and i can’t imagine his wife cheating either. Most of the cheating that I know that happens is from low income people cheating on other low income people. It’s less about the actual dollars they make and more about the behaviors they act out. In essence, the values that keep you poor, also keep you in crap relationships over and over again. The high earners I know aren’t at the bars and clubs, so less chance to cheat and meet people. They’re also more emotionally stable. They push themselves through higher education or hold themselves to financial discipline that others don’t. One of my college football coaches told me once “how you show up to one place is how you show up every place.” Just my two pennies
It’s not about always trying to fix boredom with more excitement. ACCEPT that life/marriage gets boring and that feeling is okay. When you go through life avoiding boredom/stillness and searching for the next exciting/active thing you’ll constantly do that forever. And never feel fulfilled. Chasing constantly is far more miserable than stillness if you ask me.
Untrue. Novelty is a key component of the human existence. There’s nothing more destructive than familiarity and complacency.
@@Mrjunkyarddog44how about a balance?
I am an Italian multimillionaire moving to Dubai. My old school boring monogamy thank you for this enlighting video. I will definitely stay away from the flashy girls.
You are welcome good luck with your move
@@hamedanassiri May prosperity and health always be with you.
They will find you. Pretend for the start. Be careful.
Italian girls in the rural area are lovely.
@@zamar2158 Unfortunately, only our mothers and sisters were "rural". Instagram and Onlyfans arrived here too. The young generation is more interested in my Lambos and Rolls, instead of just " due cuori e una capanna" as we describe true and uncoditioned love here. In Dubai, I will definitely looking for some High Value and astonishing beauty as Sadia. I hope she will introduce me to her female friends. ☺
01:05 At the moment, I've just been doing a lot of men!! "That's what she said!!" I like this intro already!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂
It is sooo stupid to think “ only men cheat”….who are they sleeping with?!?..WOMEN!!!!!
Cheating, or any wrong-doing for that matter, erodes the soul of a normal person.
Sadia is the best. Classy Woman with a lot of wisdom
I'm a guy and was enjoying your stuff until you defended tate.... he's said and done some pretty outrageous stuff. The fact that you defend him makes me wonder about your courage to go against the current. It seems like you don't want to alienate your audience.
Everyone has an opinion if you don’t like it then that’s fine we can agree to disagree 🙏🏾
@@hamedanassiri thank you for replying. Overall this video was great. I got here thanks to Aba and Preach's reaction to your video. Would be interesting to see your reaction to their video and what they say about Tate.
Sadia, while obviously a very beautiful and educated woman seems to live in a small bubble of the 1.5%. She may resonate with the most wealthy and glamorous of people. But like Matthew Hussey, nothing she says resonates with me as a matchmaker and dating coach in Chicago.
I am fairly certain that my small following of 10,000 subscribers would also be unable to relate to any of her elite and jaded theories and viewpoints on love and relationships. It’s seriously feels to me like she is speaking another language.
Lol deep down she's hurt because a promiscuous woman has been chosen over her, the nice girl
Oh shut up y’all men contradict and lie about ur nature all the time
“Men set the tone” - “Men dont choose the simple girl”
Well, lady, did you choose a “simple” guy or he is “low value” to you?
If only every married woman out there listened to these two wise women... thank you, this was a really good podcast!
A lot of us know this though… just hard to find the other half
31:38 why do simple nice women only make themselves available to the top 10 percent of men?
Same reason you like tits and ass. Biology
Because they see right through the 90% scumbags it's unattractive and unappealing AF
We don’t ur delusional. Chronically online
Stop watching the Kardashians
@@maryamdiao1509 women swipe right to 5% of men on dating apps, mic drop.
There's really no such thing as a alpha man.
While I'm at it, I'll add that the way we definite a high value person is wrong as well.
Right from the start .. "Women want investment , Men want loyalty .. or WHATEVER it is " . Really ? I tuned out, see ya.
she`s absolutely gorgeous !
I can see why she likes Andrew so much, they are so alike. Both of them say some smart things, but half od the time they contradict themselves because of the generalizations.
First she said there is nothing wrong with women just wanting money from men and being ok with their men cheating and those who judge are poor or ugly. Then she says that actually women who are with rich men are cheating all of the time. It's contradicting her statement that money and security are all those women need. Then she says men cheat because they need attention. And she said that the poor girl will be loyal to a rich guy because she is miserable (she has no options) but a rich and hot woman will cheat because she has options. I can see a little bit of a self projecting here, honestly, it's no coincidence that she lives in Dubai because "she loves the lifestyle". She is just able to analyse other people.
One thing she and Andrew forgot is moral code and that moral people exist. No, i choose not to cheat not because of the options or money or boredom, but because I was raised right and I have morals. No, people are not robots and you cannot choose a woman that only needs money and not love. Them calling money - love and care, I was in shock. For centuries we are saying love cannot be bought, but here they are calling it love... Delusional. In the end, everyone, men and women, need attention and love and emotional care, it does not evolve around trauma. Yes we are different, someone needs less and someone more, but i know many women whose husbands are working 24/7 and they are rich and MISERABLE. If you have wife that is happy she has money and is not seeing you all day, that women doesn't love you and will leave you the moment you loose the money.
I can see that she hasn't thought this through and is speaking from head.
Emotional needs = Trauma Lol
@@tiagoandraderp you really haven't thought this through
@@buusteed99 actually i have. I disagree with her. I just found very funny that she said something like that like it was true.
@@tiagoandraderp ooooh sorry, i didn't understand
Came here from tiktok..she really gave me new insights.
Great interview. I wish it was longer. So you'll have to have Sadia back for another interview
I meant wow, as in the most stupid toxic way possible. Because I never met a woman that is so intelligent that I admit my inferiority to her, but still, her beauty still surpasses her intelligence. Maybe that sounds bad, but I already said the stupid wow and I meant that in the best way possible. Genius level of understanding and intelligence, galactic beauty though!
A simple woman does have options that's where I disagree. But she's spot on the rich guy shes there for the cash and what you represent only. The mythical story of the wife cheating with the poor but handsome pool guy while the rich man is away exists for a reason. Human attraction trumps all!
Finally, someone gets it. No one cares about an ugly old midget.... people should marry early and within their attractiveness and height level; otherwise expect to be cheated on.
Agree and have a level of dissatisfaction.
I know this may come across as offensive but its not common to hear attractive women who are also socially intelligent yet not entitled and trying to manipulate and cheat their way through life.
Don't sugarcoat it. Women want financial and emotional investment. Damn!
"Female Diary of A CEO"
Lets be rich and choose 4 simple women..inshallah
Man, Islam makes a lot of sense now , can a convert get 4 simple women as well ?
@@BogalaSawundiris of course
@@BogalaSawundirisare u a covert
Bruh there is a lot of flaws in Sadia’s points and takes but hey at least a cordial and good conversation between two women
What kind of flaws did you spotted, in Sadia's points?
Rich Simps ALWAYS get played.. Pimp hands gotta tighten up on these 304's
Sadia be speaking facts
52:25 as a woman who also experienced jealousy and have jealous female friends as well, I find one of the best effective way to suppress that envy in you is to provoke the mother instinct so to speak.
I don’t know, I feel bad for these women, it’s like they are in pain. So I always try my best to show sympathy and empathy for them as well as guidance, but it has to come from an equal and mutual stand of course.
If you give a price tag, you aren’t wife material. That’s it.
Relationships are difficult to maintain, and people tend to take the path of least resistance, so naturally it serves to reason that people with a high sexual marketplace value are likely to choose a lifestyle of luxury and meaningless flings as opposed to a life of toiling and stability.
🤦🏾♂️ people wonder why people are lost.. anyone can have a UA-cam and say anything and influence masses of people 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
no one is forcing you to watch.
Woow she said "people are craving the feeling in new relationship rather than enjoying the stability of existing relationship" that's what'sup ❤
How lovely, two gold diggers sharing their gold diggers traits awwwww. ❤
😂😂😂😂 who hurt you boo
@@hamedanassiri Just another day in your 304 life, quit doing this useless podcast🤮🤮🤮
Why is she single and not married?
They said they do not need compliments on their looks, but they both would be considered at the very least as pretty. They would feel differently if they were considered less attractive.
So glad to see this psychologist again in a podcast :)
Wow, this is the most sane thing I have heard in a while. The messaging is quite balanced. Keep it up. First time seeing your video, I am happy that I did.
Hmmm interesting dialogue it still comes from being direct or being indirect as a person male or female.
When ever a man speaks to a woman it is always about sex and women know this right away how direct he is will say what is going on.
Most guys are indirect in the approach.
In Dubai money is the language that is used to find sex or a relationship of some sort.
Money can be a drug used to fulfill there desires and most men will use this,oh don't worry women do the same as well.
It's hard for people to understand what Love is when we use different things to achieve it.
Dubai is not really a place to create a relationship or a situation that one
Can grow a family very few can from what I can see or tell.
Solomon had 7000 wives and 300 concubines do we think that all his wives stayed loyal to him so you think that they all had kids with him.
Do you think they truly loved him just because he was a King.
Times are no different than they were back then.
I can only reference this because of what I have read for myself.
People use money for power and they get used in the process and don't realize it at times or should say most times.
The word love is used for different things and reasons in their own minds to feel comfortable with their feelings but in the process will hurt others in their quest to achieve it.
Mr Tate has probably 6 to 10 kids with 4 to 6 ladies in his haram if the ladies want this then it's on them but if he thinks that they don't cheat on him he is delusional.
So is that love ha who knows.
The sun will rise up for another day again
❤❤❤❤ Absolutely Sadia is Super beautiful , intelligent and Talented
The only female pod cast I've subscribed to
I am so glad thank you 😊
Came here from Aba and preaches video
These people are so sad and egotistical
I love Sadia totally! I like her personality and the psychologist in her..lol 🫶
Here come the grifter chameleons.
Imagine taking redpill advice from a woman😂😂 Like Patrice O’Neal once said “Never ask the fish, how to fish.”
If you are dating fish that will work.
Never.
she considers 15-16 yeard girl who has a bf a girl without value, but 15-16 year girl , sold out to a husband, to have value. this woman is sick. 15-16yeard schoolgirl chose her bf via emotional connection, and sold-out girl is a piece of furniture in her husband's home.
What are an incredible discussion between two very beautiful women
Thank you so much 🥰
High value men do not cheat! LOL SMH!
If you were to reference a "wealthy man" as a high value man, then you are misguided, and flat out wrong!
My husband is well to do, extremely handsome, but he does not "step out" of our relationship!
High value men have respect and are serious about their lives.
They are typically in great shape, physically and mentally. They are serious about their families, their kids, and their wives.
They are in bed early, and get up early.
They have priorities, they are a man of their word, they have respect for people, they help others without expectation in return.
Most importantly, they are secure about who they are.
Insercure men cheat. Secure men don't.
If youre a woman and you think that once you meet the great looking rich man, yet his character is not in alignment with those qualities, you better re assess your choice in a man as a partner! Money is not everything!
If my husband did not have those attributes, we would not be married.
There are men out there , be selective, I admit they are few and far in between, but they are out there!
Loved this, Sadia is a beauty and a great model for girls today
31:32 "I feel bad for men now"
"No don't feel bad for them bcz they choose this life" 😂😂😂😂🤣💯💯 sooo fckin true! Don't feel bad for them, they dig their own graves n lie in it...
Great conversation, Sadia spitting the truth as always. I like how she talks calmly. Keep it up
Glad you enjoyed it
@@hamedanassiri I think Sadia is wrong on so many levels....as a Kashmiri Pakistani Muslim she is a terrible example for the sisters.
@@geeShahGee724 She is a perfect example. She is truly liberated but not cheapened. All women should aspire to be her. Men these days want women either sheltered or those that don’t value their bodies and honor.
@ 33:09 BAD ADVICE, absolutely terrible advice.
You are encouraging women not to heal their past traumas and unload them instead onto the nice guy that they find - NOT FAIR and NOT ON.
Men have been used as emotional tampons for the longest and many of them deserve much better than that.
Avoid the women with baggage, they will crush your spirit and bring you down to their level.
Some will even use you emotionally and then go and sleep with the very guy who caused them the trauma they've complained to you about in the first place.
The podcast was going so well until you said that.
Dangerous advice, you should be encouraging women to sort themselves out before getting into any relationship!