Before You Chase Women. WATCH THIS. Chase Excellence, NOT Women.

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  • Stop chasing women, and chase excellence within yourself first. Become a top shelf man first and foremost, for yourself. Women should be a complement, not the focus.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 887

  • @chasethesun_5045
    @chasethesun_5045 3 роки тому +962

    One time I was getting my haircut and the lady cutting my hair was telling me how she thought she was better off leaving her husband who she'd been with for 20 years and had 3 kids, youngest being 11. I told her congrats on at least a long marriage, and she goes "People always tell me that, but congrats for what? Hanging on for so long?" Then she started asking me about what I do for a living, if i had my own place etc. You think it's gonna last forever with these women, it's not. While you think everything is peachy, shes at work shopping for your replacement. Invest in YOURSELF.

    • @timster382
      @timster382 3 роки тому +28

      @Wilfrid Joseph Holy shit bang on brother.

    • @jeffreypryor4549
      @jeffreypryor4549 3 роки тому +18

      Yep, you're right. Been there, done that.

    • @northernguy8860
      @northernguy8860 3 роки тому +87

      She was measuring you for a branch swing in the middle of your haircut? No shame.

    • @charliedallachie3539
      @charliedallachie3539 3 роки тому +46

      Sadly a lot of guys would try to get her over, home wreckers. If only there was a way to give the husband a heads up that she’s shopping around....not our business though.

    • @charliedallachie3539
      @charliedallachie3539 3 роки тому +5

      @Jonathan F is that your own perception or everything

  • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
    @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 роки тому +655

    The most authentic, and blunt advise for men any age. Do the work".

    • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
      @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 роки тому

      @Lee Dawson it is what has pushed humanity up the time scale of evolution, and developed reason and morality in men. As peterson puts it, feminine like masculinity has both and probably, and certainly multi varied facets of behaviour. So, you do your work at hand, and stick to the truth. Rest let God and fate do for you.

    • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
      @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 роки тому

      @Lee Dawson for both genders. So we can't really predict all feminine manifestations to be eccentric.

    • @fhowland
      @fhowland 3 роки тому

      What work? It’s so vague

    • @foreverred105
      @foreverred105 2 роки тому +1

      Do the work and stay motivated.

    • @SKBottom
      @SKBottom 6 місяців тому

      ​@@fhowlandread his book and watch his videos.

  • @teo108
    @teo108 3 роки тому +135

    This basically what my dad told me"the better you are, the better woman will show up in your life"

  • @scottyb.8710
    @scottyb.8710 3 роки тому +861

    To you younger guys who haven’t been down the path us older guys have been down already: Listen to Rich. You never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever chase women. You risk losing too much that’s important in your life and it will bite you in the ass in the long run. If you want to be with a woman, fine... but you let her come to you as you work on becoming the better version of yourself.

    • @dattepo7534
      @dattepo7534 3 роки тому +13

      I second that

    • @Mammel248
      @Mammel248 3 роки тому +55

      There's some nuance to it. You can be as excellent as can be, if you don't put yourself out there no woman is going to come at you. I'm a great example: I have a very nice wage as a software engineer, so the monetary aspect is taken care of. I'm 1.9m tall, broad shoulders and work out a lot (strongman training). Don't have the most handsome face but a manly face (strong jaw, pronounced brow ridge, big nose), so I would say the physical aspect is taken care of. Yet I'm having a hard time getting any dates. Why? Because my job is behind the computer, my side projects are also software related. I won't date women from work and I won't date women from the gym (when I go to the gym, I go to work out, not to hit on women). So where am I supposed to get dates from then? I don't meet any women outside of the gym and work, because none of my hobbies have any women in them. Online dating is a waste of time, might be lucky with 10 matches a week, and if 2 of those actually reply.
      The solution would be to at least do something where I could meet women, such as take up a yoga class or whatever. But that would be "chasing women", but if I don't do something like that I just don't have any dates. So in my opinion, "generally chase excellence, but sometimes chase women" is better advice, it depends on your situation.

    • @anishtheodore5010
      @anishtheodore5010 3 роки тому +16

      @@Mammel248 yeah there should be a balance..atleast we guys have to advertise ourselves

    • @sjuan07
      @sjuan07 3 роки тому +34

      @@Mammel248 agree. work on yourself, focus on your goals, and do women on the side. not saying to chase them on the side, but have some "passive marketing"- nice social media, go out and do activities where there are women atleast once a week, but NEVER chase them. just put yourself out there but focus and work on your goals.

    • @lyesaitouamara8766
      @lyesaitouamara8766 3 роки тому +10

      @@Mammel248 yeah I second that but you don't have to pick up a "feminine" hobby just to meet girls, you can go out with friends or build some kind of social media presence (not as hard as people think, not as easy either). With covid it's kinda hard to go out it's true but there's always a way to meet women without chasing them.

  • @RecreationalUseOnly
    @RecreationalUseOnly 3 роки тому +683

    You’ll lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing money.

    • @seetsamolapo5600
      @seetsamolapo5600 3 роки тому +7

      Simple

    • @SerginhoSM9151
      @SerginhoSM9151 3 роки тому +7

      Yeah, but chasing money doesn't mean making money.

    • @MichaelBrown-zg9wc
      @MichaelBrown-zg9wc 3 роки тому +2

      And the rest of life will follow

    • @RecreationalUseOnly
      @RecreationalUseOnly 3 роки тому +19

      @@SerginhoSM9151 no shit, it’s a figure of speech, that goes for chasing anything. Thank you for the gaslighting.

    • @mabd7340
      @mabd7340 3 роки тому +3

      Can u give an advice how to start chasing money

  • @carlospinasalazar5237
    @carlospinasalazar5237 3 роки тому +277

    I wish you existed in 2010, I grew without a father figure and my older brother passed away in 1999, I’m just barely learning all this stuff and I’m 32 years old

    • @fife84
      @fife84 3 роки тому +21

      @@roastme2079 ^ fantastic comment. Everyone should take the time to read this. Stepping outside your comfort zone is the only place growth occurs.

    • @ryanmclaughlin587
      @ryanmclaughlin587 3 роки тому +11

      Better late than never my friend.

    • @atwajesper9434
      @atwajesper9434 3 роки тому +8

      They say there's always someone in a worse position than us. Well, I'm 38 and just learning this stuff now.

    • @dexterbarnes5249
      @dexterbarnes5249 3 роки тому +2

      Glad you're here dog

    • @Aldo7899
      @Aldo7899 3 роки тому +2

      @@roastme2079 Enthusiasm is key. I like to read books on the subject. There’s one by dale Carnegie that got me started on this road.
      Sensitivity is also important. Toxic masculinity, as they like to call it, is all about being the type of man that you think society wants you to be. You must be sensitive to changes to adapt to them properly and decisively.
      Above all, the brain can constantly be rewired. This is not a one-time deal. Complacency and comfort zones are to be avoided at all costs. One has to strive to keep moving forward and not lingering on the “coulda, shoulda, would a”s.
      Spot on, btw. I like the way you think.

  • @grahamashe9715
    @grahamashe9715 3 роки тому +1183

    Unless you're a mafia boss, being fat is never acceptable to women.

    • @CeeZee001
      @CeeZee001 3 роки тому +66

      Which is crazy cause there's plenty of slampigs out here with regular shaped dudes. It boggles my mind. But dudes don't complain. At this point the body positive movement was for women not to work out and be accepted as "beautiful"

    • @Avrelivs_Gold
      @Avrelivs_Gold 3 роки тому +11

      Not true, perfectly acceptable.

    • @cornerbandit
      @cornerbandit 3 роки тому +4

      Yous' guys chasing schifosas'...blahahaa!

    • @fallenfreak828
      @fallenfreak828 3 роки тому +9

      Or rich.

    • @Midge-xn9tp
      @Midge-xn9tp 3 роки тому +14

      Amen, Trump had to be a rich man to get his

  • @jakebailey9884
    @jakebailey9884 3 роки тому +268

    I've always had success with women. 6'3, 240 lbs and in very good shape. Military vet, sales, entrepreneur. I didn't take the red pill until this year. The one time in my life where I hit a "rut" aka went broke from business I met "the one". Just like Rich has said "She waits for the winners and DOES not care about your struggles. " After I went through this and her starting to flake I left her and ultimately realized that they already want a man who is complete and not having any struggles and can provide everything. I love women but have learned to be careful and do not get emotionally attached especially if you are going through some struggles. I learned from my mistakes and got a huge drive to better myself. Good luck gents! life is good. Live and learn. Be better than the dude you were yesterday. Shoutout to Rich. These videos are killer

    • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
      @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 роки тому +2

      @@chad5617 ye, I feel that too.
      There's this natural urge I get to take responsibility and share my pain and happiness.

    • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
      @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 роки тому +6

      @@chad5617 it's better to let go of such a woman and not be in love with her at all man.

    • @jakebailey9884
      @jakebailey9884 3 роки тому +1

      @@chad5617 very true! learned this the hard way haha

    • @raresabraleaks8216
      @raresabraleaks8216 3 роки тому +1

      @@chad5617 obviously for sex and toying around with. Watching them do crazy things for u thinking it’ll earn ur love will give u life long laughs 🤷‍♂️

    • @raresabraleaks8216
      @raresabraleaks8216 3 роки тому +7

      It really depends on the girl. A girl with experience will tend to want a guy who’s accomplished. A young girl that still thinks love pays the bills will pick fixer uppers, granted he doesn’t dump all his problems on her every chance he gets. She’ll leave both eventually for whatever reason.

  • @ToddBaldwin
    @ToddBaldwin 3 роки тому +98

    "Chase excellence not women." Genius.

  • @MarcRebilletClips
    @MarcRebilletClips 3 роки тому +147

    A lot of new red pill channels have opened in the past 12 months... This channel stays the realest. No fear mongering, real advice. Respect

    • @metalxner5411
      @metalxner5411 3 роки тому +2

      What does red pill mean

    • @jaleunbound8498
      @jaleunbound8498 3 роки тому +1

      @@metalxner5411 means that your aware and eyes wide open to the realities of the world and dating

    • @metalxner5411
      @metalxner5411 3 роки тому +1

      @@jaleunbound8498 ahh ok, that makes sense. Thank u

    • @CEA9234
      @CEA9234 3 роки тому

      Yes direct honest advice no bullshit and the hard route which yields results.

  • @Aires_Nhambi
    @Aires_Nhambi 3 роки тому +69

    "Women don´t chase 4s"! Spot on Mr. Cooper. keep blessing us with your knowledge.

  • @Ardante11
    @Ardante11 3 роки тому +170

    Make sure you’re chasing Excellence as in the betterment of yourself and not the Stripper named Excellence at Pink Pony.

    • @samkurosaki9151
      @samkurosaki9151 3 роки тому +3

      😄😄

    • @darkxridah
      @darkxridah 3 роки тому +2

      💀

    • @bassioelmucho
      @bassioelmucho 3 роки тому +2

      most of these young dweeb out there are into My Little Poney anyways!😀

    • @richierich4078
      @richierich4078 3 роки тому +2

      Wish I read this before I chased Mercedes 😔

  • @spectator6964
    @spectator6964 3 роки тому +288

    Spot on! A woman should NEVER be the sun that your world revolves around.....more like an asteroid containing rare earth metals, it has its uses, but it is not needed to hold your solar system together.

    • @MichaelBrown-zg9wc
      @MichaelBrown-zg9wc 3 роки тому +11

      This one is straight from the space program 🤣

    • @TheVoided666
      @TheVoided666 3 роки тому +6

      Great analogy.

    • @frankonolfi1966
      @frankonolfi1966 3 роки тому +2

      When I live this way She says Im selfish

    • @flybobbie1449
      @flybobbie1449 3 роки тому +5

      Don't let a woman become a supernova..consumes everything.

    • @KenchiOMO
      @KenchiOMO 3 роки тому +4

      Fun Fact: the Sun is a male celestial being. The same sun that earth & all other planets revolve around. Men should never revolve around anyone!

  • @CaptainLeftHook
    @CaptainLeftHook 3 роки тому +128

    Spot on. The hell with Bobby Rio and his text message tricks.

    • @stevieG.
      @stevieG. 3 роки тому +1

      Ha ha..yeah 'do this one thing when she pull's away' etc, etc..

    • @ggrthemostgodless8713
      @ggrthemostgodless8713 3 роки тому +1

      But those are the ads showing up as I see these videos of Rich and Rollo!! LOL

    • @daveh9803
      @daveh9803 3 роки тому +1

      LOL!!! I bought one of his $10 programs 2-3 years ago. It couldn’t be downloaded except to some Dropbox cloud clone service, that crashed a lot or just didn’t work right. I also had to create an account I didn’t want there, so then I got hit up to upgrade to more storage. Total WASTE!!!

    • @stevieG.
      @stevieG. 3 роки тому

      @Peter Jordanson ..and eventually the ladies will start chasing you..!

  • @rogeliolopez7537
    @rogeliolopez7537 3 роки тому +48

    You're my mentor! I'm 27 yrs and I need a lot to learn. Always learn from the experience.

  • @essentialoilsme
    @essentialoilsme 3 роки тому +82

    I found a page from the Woman’s Playbook: “It’s men’s fault, I am the prize, I am the table”

    • @jasonb5890
      @jasonb5890 3 роки тому +4

      Sounds like a frustrated woman for me

  • @ej2much
    @ej2much 3 роки тому +65

    Richard Cooper needs his own marvel hero movie.

  • @charlesivy1
    @charlesivy1 3 роки тому +31

    Newly divorced, (5 months) I like to think I am a 7. With that said, I checked out the dating sites briefly. Good god... What a shit show of options out there for men. The women on those sites are wounded birds. One woman seemed cool, attractive but she had more red flags than the Chinese Army. We never meet, but shortly after a few conversations she was automatically saying I miss you, I love you and said she had baby fever. Ding ding ding....that was my cue to dissolve the situation and back away from that woman who was clearly a level 10 clinger. Listen to Rich guys.

    • @aboveaveragejoe6795
      @aboveaveragejoe6795 3 роки тому +1

      Charles Ivy . I agree, completely removed my self off online sites. Most women there made me want to puke. Ijust daygame at the coffee shops in my city while working on my business.

  • @Solo-gx2xc
    @Solo-gx2xc 3 роки тому +72

    THE V10 is back baby!

  • @lifthvy7263
    @lifthvy7263 3 роки тому +44

    That's right brother I'm 5'4 and my bed hates me 😂 nonstop action. I have a great build I travel the world. I'm confident and maintain masculine frame . Never have a problem.

  • @Bradjh10
    @Bradjh10 3 роки тому +269

    Ok, after getting muscles, bank, and lethality: why bother with women at all?

    • @gistfilm
      @gistfilm 3 роки тому +141

      Don't. But they will bother with you.

    • @albertcruz3232
      @albertcruz3232 3 роки тому +42

      @@gistfilm jesus christ, this is the best answer I've heard in years

    • @halcyon6098
      @halcyon6098 3 роки тому +55

      Cuz they soft and smell nice

    •  3 роки тому +19

      because your libido is a thing

    • @Bradjh10
      @Bradjh10 3 роки тому +11

      @ Not so much post divorce

  • @angelbeast8863
    @angelbeast8863 3 роки тому +145

    I'm 5'8" and I've never had height issues with women. Albeit I don't really date women my height or taller.🤣
    Gentlemen, go do fun shit! Enjoy your life, spend money on yourself and building your "tribe". Women will gravitate towards you naturally. You'll attract the ones that really want you.

    • @mabd7340
      @mabd7340 3 роки тому +2

      Do women care about penis size

    • @calebbroege1333
      @calebbroege1333 3 роки тому +1

      @@mabd7340 only if youre rly small or rly big

    • @mabd7340
      @mabd7340 3 роки тому +2

      @@calebbroege1333 can u specify which size is considered rly small and which one is considered rly big?

    • @kostam.1113
      @kostam.1113 3 роки тому +2

      @@mabd7340 Answer is mostly NO
      Although they do
      But only of you really have a small one
      But you need to get her in bed in order for her to care in the first place

    • @calebbroege1333
      @calebbroege1333 3 роки тому

      @@mabd7340 under 4 i would think they would notice its small and over 6 or 7 is probably considered large

  • @RickbladeX
    @RickbladeX 3 роки тому +72

    The same golden advice that I listened to years ago that changed my life and is the best advice. Always be the best version of yourself and work towards being better! It's such a waste of time to chase women!

  • @andreflavell2689
    @andreflavell2689 3 роки тому +8

    I dated a single mum 48 with 2 boys 11 and 13 . I did I gave I paid all the way . She had me at arms length over the 2 years . I did so much for her . After 2 years she dumped me . Yes given I am 57 it has taken me a long time to get over her . I did sell my house and bought a yacht and moved away . She stuck in a small town and I am free . I will never make the mistake of falling for these women again .

  • @trevorcopeland6379
    @trevorcopeland6379 3 роки тому +69

    Whenever rich is in the r8 he has additional wisdom some how

    • @dimitrijemarkovic3410
      @dimitrijemarkovic3410 3 роки тому +9

      You would too if you were riding in one, driving one makes you feel like a king.

  • @SzymonCelticSlav
    @SzymonCelticSlav 3 роки тому +15

    Hahaha my grandmother literally confirms exactly what Rich says, last time I simped she told me I’m meant to be King not the woman. Thanks for the content man!

  • @bugsy007
    @bugsy007 3 роки тому +33

    "It's not the beard on the outside, it's the beard on the inside."

  • @davidson46100
    @davidson46100 3 роки тому +23

    So, I like what I hear you saying. Having been married 38 years to a woman who like myself is interested in making our relationship work and is doing the work. My take on LTRs is that it is important to always do the work on one's internal relationship with one's self. If you are not maintaining a healthy relationship with your self, it is difficult to maintain healthy relationships with other people. My opinion is that in US society we are encouraged to be mental children, gullible and needy. This keeps us weak and dependent, and compliant to those in power. Women want men who they can trust to have the inner and outer strength they need to be there for them.

    • @joeroot9142
      @joeroot9142 3 роки тому +1

      Please you shouldn’t be here, you will poison your life. GET OUT.

  • @lightingrod5907
    @lightingrod5907 3 роки тому +51

    Needless to say, but excellence is subjective to the individual man

    • @pantsenfuego9986
      @pantsenfuego9986 3 роки тому +8

      Objective excellence markers include character health, wealth.

    • @dolanduk8419
      @dolanduk8419 3 роки тому +19

      If excellence for me is to sit on my ass and compete in videogames then i cant complain about woman not wanting to smash

    • @forwardpaunganwa4135
      @forwardpaunganwa4135 3 роки тому

      Let the women you want be the judge of that.

    • @lightingrod5907
      @lightingrod5907 3 роки тому +2

      @@forwardpaunganwa4135 lol why? All that’s doing is putting her wants and expectations over yours

    • @kyleelam7829
      @kyleelam7829 3 роки тому +1

      What a cope of a comment.

  • @thomasalskens9813
    @thomasalskens9813 3 роки тому +4

    Only child, absent father, single mother-background, certified Nice Guy for the better part of my life. You are waking me up with some much needed information, what younger me would refer to as the secret I never got to get in on, or understand. Thank you man, subbed and subbed.

  • @WD-mv1rm
    @WD-mv1rm 3 роки тому +4

    This brother is straight money ! I lost 57 pounds at 50 years old. Running 6-7 miles a day. 6’3” and now 230. Bringing it. When I walk into a room with a suit. Fire. Before I was insecure when I walked into a room. Just got divorced and focusing on the next 10 years. Not a woman. preach it ..

  • @MrHav1k
    @MrHav1k 3 роки тому +13

    Blunt and to the point. THIS is the advice men need. Actual Tinder data shows it's more like the top 10% than the top 20% though lol. The point remains. Excellent stuff Rich.

  • @yusufj.k4336
    @yusufj.k4336 3 роки тому +2

    who else feels like unsubscribing to all the other channels and come here to watch all the videos. this is the most real staff i have listened to. thanks man.

  • @amberotl5276
    @amberotl5276 3 роки тому +1

    He is right. My dad does a lot of handyman stuff (fixing cars and appliances, some electrical, plumbing, AC, gardening, he cooks, he can clean (sometimes.. though he's not the best) and has been in the trucking business for more than 30 years. My dad is about 5'6.
    My dad looks rough after his last marriage, but he is really extroverted, he's always willing to lend a hand without asking for anything in return, he can do a lot for anyone, and everyone loves him for that. Women are attracted to how much he can do. He has been told "They dont make them like you anymore."
    My parents divorced in 2010. My dad married a nasty, foreign, single mom that opened credit cards in his name, took his money, and racked up cards that he didn't know about. He was too busy and too blind, as well as didn't have a spine to get rid of her as soon as he realized it was a BIG problem (that turned into a bigger problem) . She had a nasty personality and didn't want my dad to be around his kids or other family members. She worked at a Walmart 20+ miles away and had affairs with men who worked with her. My dad told her to gtfo in 2018 after catching her talking on the phone to a man. When she was moving out she even brought that old man to move her. my dad was there, but had no idea it was the guy she was talking to.. she thought old man had assets that she could obtain, but I hear the he was too smart and put everything of value in his son's name. He got married to her a month after the divorce was finalized (he had no feelings for her so idk why).
    I had a grudge against my dads ex, there were too many secrets and it drove my dad nuts.. she probably thought nobody would ever know what she was doing.. We got the old man's first name from our neighbor that delivers liquor to her walmart (he got the gossip). I began searching, popped it in on white pages, singled him out by age, found his ex-wife (they were together but divorced, because his wife didn't trust him) ..my dad went to her place, they talked, and he found out she was being a hoe. They all worked together (my dad's ex, old man, and his ex-wife) at Walmart so everyone found out about my dads ex and the old man. She has to live with the embarrassment of being a cheater and gold digging, life destroyer. She's a whole 🤡 because she had shit made when she was with my dad. He paid all the bills and had a decent car that he was paying for..
    ive heard she became obese and looks way older as well. My dad is friends with the old man's ex wife now, they go to eat, my dad goes to her house parties. Im sure it upsets his Ex. Karma is a bitch.

  • @rodneymathews6775
    @rodneymathews6775 3 роки тому +6

    It's like what Chris Rock's boss said in the movie, I Think I Love My Wife, "You'll always lose money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money." Words for all of us men to live by, especially in these times.

  • @colmcronin9560
    @colmcronin9560 2 роки тому +1

    When the flower blooms the bees come uninvited

  • @justtony21
    @justtony21 3 роки тому +177

    Chase God
    Chase Health
    Chase Excellence
    Chase Craft
    Chase Prosperity
    Chase Knowledge
    Men if you do these things your lives will be much better for the long haul. Look down the road. Not at her because she isn't looking at you. She is looking at your wallet, your resources and what you can do for her. You're better than that. You're above that. Do good. Be better.

    • @Poker-is8dt
      @Poker-is8dt 3 роки тому +15

      Sounds like you need the religion red pill lol. Chasing fictional characters is cringe worthy in 2020

    • @Grumpyoldtwit
      @Grumpyoldtwit 3 роки тому +1

      justtony21, best I can do is 5 out of 6.

    • @Poker-is8dt
      @Poker-is8dt 3 роки тому +10

      @Jim Hook religion is a scam that preys on people who can't accept reality. I was brought up religious before seeing things objectively. Can't believe I use to think noah's ark and all of the other silly ridiculousness like Jonah and the whale occurred.

    • @OfficialSeth
      @OfficialSeth 3 роки тому +2

      @Jim Hook People say holy crap/shit a lot so do you think that they really believe that feces is holy? No, it's just a common phrase.

    • @vijabeveritas5990
      @vijabeveritas5990 3 роки тому +7

      @@Poker-is8dt You are correct, religion IS a scam, which is precisely why Jesus attacked it. Jesus hates religion. It was the Religious Structure he attacked that had him crucified, via Roman authorities. Religion prays on the weak, and seeks to control you. Jesus died for your weaknesses so that you can be free.
      And before you go attacking Jesus, trust me, there is a long list of people more brilliant than you who set out to prove Jesus a lie, only to end up accepting Jesus as their personal Lord and Savior. 2000+ years and counting and no one has succeeded yet in proving Jesus false. Know the Truth and the Truth will set you free. I am speaking as a former anti-God, atheist who is exceptionally intelligent, who ended up giving his life to Christ. BEST decision I ever made. Twenty-one years of freedom and counting, through good times and bad, and my Faith in Jesus only gets stronger.
      I pray you are willing to humble yourself enough to be open to seeing the Truth. Ask God/Jesus to reveal himself to you - in humility and sincerity, not with pride and arrogance, and God will meet you where you are. If you are not willing to be open to it, that's fine, your call. Cheers -

  • @g-man2507
    @g-man2507 9 місяців тому +1

    Sage advice.

  • @miguelv.8737
    @miguelv.8737 3 роки тому +2

    I look at it like this. When you don't focus on making a ton of money in whatever field you are in but instead focus on just being the best at what you do money just becomes a by product of that. The same goes with being a better man doing what is necessary to improve your resume in life, women will simply come along. The more you focus your energy on the very thing you wish and desperately crave the further you will get from having it. This is my perspective.

  • @ryguy108
    @ryguy108 3 роки тому +6

    I 100 percent agree with this video, I used to be very overweight and the typical nice dude. I had to put soo much effort into getting chicks and they never lasted more then a month. As soon as I started to focus on myself, lose weight, workout, not over eat anymore (cutting out sugars), and take care of myself. Woman started to throw themselves at me. Honestly men when you hit that 20% it becomes effortless. Woman will put themselves in your orbit. For the amount of effort I had to put in before, It was way more efficient and worth while to work out myself and reap the benefits. Before this lock down started, I would go to a club and woman would approach me.... A couple months ago I went to a house party and there was this attractive blonde girl there, I checked her out and like 30 minutes later her friend comes up to me and says "are you single? My friend over there is into you", we ended up hooking up that night. I don't mean to sound way to much of a douche, but it's true.

  • @lueymeteora1410
    @lueymeteora1410 3 роки тому +4

    You're absolutely right. I know I'm a 5 on my best self - and I don't chase women at all. I've taken myself out of the game entirely until such time as I can get off medications and get in shape. And carve out a career rather than just a string of crappy jobs.

  • @truenorthaffirmations7049
    @truenorthaffirmations7049 3 роки тому +5

    Excellent men live excellent lives!!! FRAME YOUR MINDSET MEN 🔥🔥

  • @lydiakusimba7266
    @lydiakusimba7266 3 роки тому +3

    I'm 33 yrs old mother of 3 not educated I have no.problem with dating men because they need someone who has money and not burden that's why I'm single now for 8 yrs but I stay more peaceful with no stress just working in Lebanon as a nanny earning small money but I'm happy with it and life goes on.muck love from 🇰🇪

  • @situationalawarenes
    @situationalawarenes 5 місяців тому

    Life is a school and we are students.
    However, good teachers are hard to find.

  • @epgmonky
    @epgmonky 3 роки тому +5

    Found you a week ago. Definitely enjoy the content. Looking forward to the future 43, two years single, once divorced. You're definitely a positive UA-cam influencer. Thanks for your hard work.

  • @caseyjames5412
    @caseyjames5412 2 місяці тому

    5'8 170 lbs 30 year old here. I have always picked up women and instantly won their favor with ease, and id like to attribute the initial interest in my V taper I've had my entire adult life. Stated lightly weight training at age 15 and never stopped, now i dead lift 405, squat and bench 315. Fitness absolutely matters and if you think otherwise you're a fool. If you want options or more attractive ones at that you will hit the gym 5 days a week for the rest of your life. Don't make life harder for yourself.

  • @peterharvey4151
    @peterharvey4151 3 роки тому

    Chase excellence, work on yourself, a No BS Zone, Level Up Live your best life..Masculine

  • @ravipeiris4388
    @ravipeiris4388 2 роки тому

    The Audi R8 was a 10 cylinder but was changed to a 8 cylinder twin turbo. So, being able to adapt (or reset) one's thinking is critical.

  • @jrb_jr_13
    @jrb_jr_13 3 роки тому +3

    Uncle Rich delivering the truth! My favorite quote, “can you make it rain?”. Great content

    • @knowbodiesfull5768
      @knowbodiesfull5768 3 роки тому

      Make it rain? Like Melvin Franklin of the Temptations? Make it rain?

  • @td6448
    @td6448 3 роки тому +1

    Pocket Hercules lmfao, you know their boy was a legend.

  • @jmmichael188
    @jmmichael188 3 роки тому +2

    Yep, this is the video I've been looking for! I'm watching this every morning for motivation.

  • @josephmusabyimana3557
    @josephmusabyimana3557 3 роки тому +2

    Even tough succes is a lonely path i'dd still choose growth over company.

  • @jz1160
    @jz1160 3 роки тому +1

    Believe it guys - i am almost 30 and it took me this long to figure it out - never too late to start! Put the work in!

  • @nicknorth7360
    @nicknorth7360 3 роки тому +13

    Rich, I really appreciate content like this, where you focus on the self-improvement aspect of Red Pill philosophy, rather than what's wrong with women. Our gender needs to realize that we're biologically driven to hyper-focus on female attention. We can all do better by stop chasing them period. Do the work, make a good life for yourself, and you can have fun with women when they come after you. Good stuff, keep it coming 👍🏻

  • @bodhi2363
    @bodhi2363 3 роки тому +5

    Before I had a stroke, I would always feel bad or feel like I effed up if I didn’t workout everyday or every other day. It just felt wrong. I’ve heard other people say they feel this way too. Good vid!👍

  • @mountainmanchuck
    @mountainmanchuck 3 роки тому +84

    Yo, what do you think of this variation on a theme:
    You're not hers, it's just her turn.

    • @citydrums7525
      @citydrums7525 3 роки тому +10

      You're the prize...

    • @pantsenfuego9986
      @pantsenfuego9986 3 роки тому +3

      Rooster Carousel

    • @truenorthaffirmations7049
      @truenorthaffirmations7049 3 роки тому

      We change our mindset and quit with a defeated mindset....establish your code men

    • @frant1cOne
      @frant1cOne 3 роки тому

      You are making yourself property or an object.

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 3 роки тому +1

      all successful people have 50+ women they have fucked before that they can hook up with.... Why do ya'll act like this is some new concept?? Keep incelling it boys!!

  • @tacopapii
    @tacopapii 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you, Rich needed to hear this, I moved from a small town to San Diego two weeks ago, and I haven't gone out and put myself out there for this exact reason, I have been working out 6 days a week and cleaned up my eating, cut my alcohol consumption and I am looking for a decent paying job (I'm 24). Until I feel confident in my skin and walk around chin up chest out, I will stay inside and do the work, women come after and only then-- remember fellas we are the prize not them, women are like the seasons, they come and go, a dime a dozen!
    ps: if anyone wants to link up for a gym sesh or have a beer let me know I don't know anyone out here
    Cheers!

  • @chefboiardeeznutz9881
    @chefboiardeeznutz9881 3 роки тому +4

    This is what I need in my life. I've been trying my best to focus on ME and most of my life so far, I have had a hard time to doing so. I just turned 26 and I realize that I NEED to change. Always been afraid of it.

  • @mokhan8cfk
    @mokhan8cfk 3 роки тому +2

    This is a very good template. I have had a number of red pill moments but resisted the lessons. The final straw has me awake. Blue pill tells you to take her seriously, but not yourself. The ability to walk away is essential.

  • @johnbrown4936
    @johnbrown4936 3 роки тому

    Chase excellence not woman. Indeed

  • @cheekymonkeygirl3378
    @cheekymonkeygirl3378 Рік тому

    This video just shows how much men must try to have a date with us! We are so valuable. 😤🥰

  • @hiddentruthchannel3121
    @hiddentruthchannel3121 3 роки тому +1

    All facts ... listen to this man 💯

  • @graemef6852
    @graemef6852 3 роки тому +1

    It is quite true. I would also refer people to your other video about changing your belief system, make better choices, get better results. Great input in this video too.

  • @rajsel8761
    @rajsel8761 3 роки тому

    Competing in video games rather than competing in the real world!! FACTS!

  • @launchpadmcquack4971
    @launchpadmcquack4971 3 роки тому +2

    I’m 42. I’ve been through the divorce grinder and came out the other side a better, stronger man. I don’t know why but this simple truth took me forever to learn...and I learned it the hard way. But once I did the world opened up for me. All fathers should have this talk with their sons. Thank you Rich.

  • @roolyfe
    @roolyfe 3 роки тому +1

    Be the best version of yourself! Wise words Coach Cooper

  • @evanscott9473
    @evanscott9473 2 роки тому

    Team 5'5" here. I need to lose this belly fat and get shredded. I used to at least be in decent shape at one point. Been studying martial arts for almost 30 years.

  • @jstar3387
    @jstar3387 2 роки тому

    Rich I wish your videos and book was around when I was in High School in 1999…my life would have changed drastically for the better!!!

  • @michaelreinhold9350
    @michaelreinhold9350 2 роки тому

    This guy ! Hey, thanks Rich

  • @tomcondon6169
    @tomcondon6169 2 роки тому

    What is meant by, "Make bank," not money, because the 3 principles were 'Make Money, Muscles, Bank.'

  • @aaronUK2006
    @aaronUK2006 3 роки тому +7

    Just started reading No More Mr Nice Guy this evening from you recommending it in a previous video. The first chapter already indicates that men must work and prioritise on oneself first. Keep up the advice.

    • @JoMama123451234
      @JoMama123451234 3 роки тому

      That book changed my life! Its so vital for every man to read it

    • @aaronUK2006
      @aaronUK2006 3 роки тому

      @@JoMama123451234 👍🏻 wish I had heard of it 10 years ago, been out nearly 20 years.

  • @jakez162
    @jakez162 3 роки тому

    That Snatch reference was fantastic. Thanks for the content. Red pill's hard to swallow, but worth it everyday.

  • @shogun1204
    @shogun1204 2 роки тому +1

    Rich speaks 100% the truth! I am 42 year old divorce father of two. I have made all the mistakes Rich has spoken about and I wish I had this knowledge when I was younger. I would have saved so much of my time and resources. If you are in your 20s and watching his stuff please take notes and follow it to the LETTER! His youtube channel should be a required course for all men to watch. I guarantee my Son will learn these lessons and he will have a much more successful path in his life than I did. I recommended his channel and book to all men that I know.

  • @flo_ridaa7074
    @flo_ridaa7074 3 роки тому

    I love true authentic people that genuinely care for others the world needs more mentors like this

  • @skykn1ght78
    @skykn1ght78 3 роки тому +1

    Spot on! I chased women and had no success. As soon as I stopped caring and focused on myself and my business, not only did those improve, I started having more dates and now got a great girl. But if you aren’t ok with yourself, a girl ain’t gonna fix that.

  • @luisquinteros5332
    @luisquinteros5332 Місяць тому

    Do
    The
    Work

  • @kamdynb.5940
    @kamdynb.5940 2 роки тому

    im 18 and can benefit so you know i had to drop a sub.

  • @StasKlev
    @StasKlev 3 роки тому +2

    Best advice I ever gotten. The exact words. Opened my eyes

  • @FredNStillman
    @FredNStillman 2 роки тому

    Watch this, pay attention and watch it again. 100% honest truth.

  • @mohdyazid2520
    @mohdyazid2520 3 роки тому +1

    I got to admit, ive been slacking and forget how to be a better version of myself. Thanks for reminding me that

  • @MrGchiasson
    @MrGchiasson 3 роки тому

    Women or no women ..
    This is golden advice...from. teenager to your 60's...like me.
    Preach it!

  • @otisthebunny
    @otisthebunny 3 роки тому +2

    So true, i'm going through a situation where i'm fit, good looking, and understand pickup, but the number 1 thing standing in my way from nailing 10s on a regular is the fact that i'm not balling and making 6 figures. It's not worth spending all this time understanding pickup and not working on your career. Work on yourself and the women will come and you won't have to deal with nearly as much BS on the way.

    • @MrOnlineHelper
      @MrOnlineHelper 3 роки тому

      Instagram game is probably weak, update your i.g

  • @friedookiehil
    @friedookiehil 3 роки тому

    Audi sounding SWEEEET again! Besides your advice ...that is obviously spot on

  • @keetgames
    @keetgames 3 роки тому +1

    Realest channel out there, keep killing it!

  • @KennyRusso77
    @KennyRusso77 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Rich for all of the blunt advice! You have been a consistent advocate for men's rights in this world of out of control feminism. As a side note, I love it when you use the phrase "Zee Germans", from my favorite movie "Snatch"!

  • @TheMultiGunMan
    @TheMultiGunMan 3 роки тому +1

    What you're saying in this video is the vest advice a person could every give or receive.

  • @Thor32158
    @Thor32158 3 роки тому

    He said women don't care about the struggle they are just waiting at the finishing line to pick the winner 🏆 man this is realest shit I ever heard about women

  • @LawrenceDuffy477
    @LawrenceDuffy477 3 роки тому +1

    Chase Excellence not women. I need that printed on a Tee Shirt.

  • @ravibhai1292
    @ravibhai1292 2 роки тому

    You are the type of dad i never got

  • @NsIX3
    @NsIX3 3 роки тому +18

    "Are you a strong masculine looking dude?" Nope.
    A chrome dome with a full beard is what peak male performance looks like. Sadly, I won't be able to get the beard part but going bald may be something to look forward to in the future.

    • @ColKlink-yh1ro
      @ColKlink-yh1ro 3 роки тому +1

      chasing_gh0sts 😂. I always shave my dome

  • @Kalmworld1
    @Kalmworld1 3 роки тому +2

    I went through some legal issues and was down in the dumps so my girl at the time left me. Now she won’t stop blowing me up because I rebuilt myself with a six figure job and now car shopping for a luxury car

  • @bass7810
    @bass7810 3 роки тому

    100% correct

  • @wesleywright7322
    @wesleywright7322 3 роки тому

    That’s not what I learned from every movie and every TV show that ever existed. Finally someone tells the truth.

  • @KWRic
    @KWRic 3 роки тому

    Gold!

  • @jamesgreen4448
    @jamesgreen4448 3 роки тому

    What a G

  • @GQ-jv9uw
    @GQ-jv9uw 3 роки тому

    Yep keep becoming the best version of yourself and everything else will fall into place no shortcuts take the stairs

  • @emmour9288
    @emmour9288 2 роки тому

    Thanx Rich.

  • @donniehubleythebrokenartis7544
    @donniehubleythebrokenartis7544 2 роки тому +1

    Great video..as well as all of your content. Thanks for all the work you do and bringing to light of the hidden blindspots around this difficult subject hidden from many men. Much appreceited.:)

  • @karamojo5618
    @karamojo5618 Рік тому

    I love your videos man... you talk the way the father i never had...
    Thanks a lot from Rome
    ciao

  • @jaredbills72
    @jaredbills72 3 роки тому +2

    Another important point on chasing excellence and not women is why are you doing it? Are you chasing excellence because you want to make a difference in the world and live the life you want, or are you doing it because you want a girl?
    Thanks for the vid Rich.