"WHY THE F*** AM I SINGLE BRO" - Attractive woman loses it.
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Why do ladies keep saying “I make my own money, I have a car and a place!”….yes you’re a functioning adult…like everyone else.
lol reminds me on Kevin samuels when he told a girl that who thought she was hot shit cuz she has a job and place
💯
😅
isn't that funny.
it's like me saying.
I do my own shopping, do my own laundry and cooking.
Yes !!
Not knowing why you're single, is why you're single.
Girls be like: I'm single because I want to be 🤨😂💀💯 cap
Facts “I’m too pretty to be single” tells me all I need to know 🤡
No cap if you talk like you're a finished work you need a psychiatrist cuz you tripping balls, there's always something to improve on yourself, ALWAYS.
omg facts!
Dont worry..we're just "intimidated" by them 🙄
"sometimes I get a little physical, but I'm not abusive." That had me rolling so hard. she claims to have self-awareness,
I think she has slapped a couple people with full force in the past but who knows I could be wrong that's just the kind of person she reminds me of that I've seen in my own life
She hasn’t had “an official boyfriend “ in four years . But she’s definitely been dating and hooking up in between that.
I heard that right away too!
@@eddy3same, it was the first thing I noticed. Guys know she is recreational use only.
Chola getting passed around by cholos.
How do you know that?
@@iki12737 no one except her “knows” that, but we can infer meaning.
"Maybe I'm not my type's type."
That is some sage-like advice.
True but it feels like common sense
Not really most people just don’t hear it or believe it until they go through it.
definitely on that Sage level. Its a simple concept, but its super-easy to overlook.
I learned this when I was younger. Might be better to try to explore and like the type of people that like you.
@@fightingblindly Big Facts
She looks like the type who thinks she’s too attractive for regular guys but the guys at a certain level don’t want to deal with her attitude.
Which is correct because most women aim to date/marry the top10% of men. And these top 10% don't intend to settle because 90% of women are throwing themselves at them. That's the reality especially when "some" women say "all men cheat" when in reality it's the top 10% that exercise options because they can.
"THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU'RE AT THE TOP"
Objective reality doesn't care about anyone's feelings.
@@Ultimascale4 the top 10% of men make $150k annually, that’s not that hard to find and as someone who lives in a large city, I find that most women don’t throw themselves at the IT directors of the world making 150k. Typically women start throwing themselves at the men in the 1% realm and THAT is the realm I believe she’s most interested in. She’s likely most interested in a high profile 1 percent-er
Or her bad Tela Novela acting.
@@gabyjoe1100 They aren't just talking about money, they are talking looks, personality, and fitness also.
True
She's exactly the type of girl that you would take on a date and have to sit there and listen to them talk about themselves and other things they find interesting because fundamentally they are too narcissistic to care about what interests you or what you desire in life. They talk AT you not WITH you.
I am an average looking woman and get more male interest than she seems to. Your personality has a lot to do with how attractive men find you. I have a pretty calm, approachable, fun loving personality which makes up for not standing out in a crowd. That girl has all the red flags for psycho and there ain't a single man attracted to that.
I think the look standard is the big problem. I bet at one point there was a guy that would have treated her like a queen completely loyal and go to any length for her....But he probably got friend zoned. I mean I can understand some physical attraction is a given but....Looks fade. If you build your relationship off pretty much just looks well...
There are definitely men attracted to that but that’s because they’re damaged
@@LynetteTheMadScientistbut there's a difference between attractive and worthy of commitment
No offence, but the more average and unassuming you are, the more likely guys are to approach you, because you don't seem to be that difficult of a target. Rejection is tough, so I think men try to go for girls they have more of a chance with.
I'm sorry if it sounds condescending, it's not my intention and I'm not some rare beauty either, it's just what I've noticed. I think if you were a 10 with the same personality, men would approach you less and you'd get more attention from the creepy guys.
Yeah, attractive people are intimidating sometimes. I think its better to be slightly above average, cause you'll be more approachable. That's honestly great.
I don’t understand why “some” women find having an attitude as something to be proud of. That’s childish behavior you should’ve grown out of. YOU’RE AN ADULT NOW.
Answer: western culture. STRONG INDEPENDENT MASCULINE WOMEN
Exactlyy! Issa freaking turn off lol
Some people wear their toxic behavior as a badge of honor. Who really wants to deal with that? Smh
@@yuukimasamura5143 1000% my wife is from south east Asia (well educated, good family) and feminine .. I’m not dating a “bad bitch “
I agree. To much masculine energy today
"I'm not trying to sound egoistic"
Well let's start with that problem.
Right lol
it's spanish for egotistical.
🤣🤣😂
Well tbh, she does seem physically attractive by society's standards
@@MostlyCloudy "ególatra"
"I think I'm not my type's type" That one sentence just described my entire love life XDDD
It’s not about the looks or anything material 😭 is about your heart, the way you carry yourself and most importantly how you care for others!! The world needs caring kind hearted and emotionally intelligent men and women. let’s be it!
"Sometimes your type is why you're alone."
-Preach
"Sometimes you're alone is why you type"
-Preetch
My type is woman, preferable looking like a woman and acting like a woman before the whole woke stuff happened.
Also, must have a vagina
@@xayaphile3834 made me laugh
Wise words
@@bluesinrhythm5922 lol all i did was swap 2 nouns but, for a shitpost, it's surprisingly accurate.
A (female)friend of mine once said: "appearance brings people together, character keeps people together" (or something like that, idk, my english sucks)
Your English is very good 👍
@@davidpost3412 thanks, didn't know if it makes sense how I translated it
This is very true
@Fabi Fires
Nah it makes perfect sense, and by the way its a common famous quote, but still glad that your female friend believes in it.
Lol, your English is better than 99% native speakers.
That Bro dub over was dope bro
She ain't single. She married TO THE STREETS.
hahaha so true
Lasting relationships require genuine humility sometimes. As a wife of 17 years I can say looks get you in but character KEEPS you there.
or maybe cuz you a blond/redhead hot French woman who whispers *omelette du fromage* in his ear when he sleeps
@@bironjames9948 🤣🤣🤣 that works too. Bacon is my go to but I might try the cheese omelette next time I need to score a few points with my hubby.
So true. My husband and I were both fit, young and hot when we met... 15 years later, we're less fit, more wrinkly and not as hot. 😂 But that isn't what a marriage is based on. We have 3 children and a different life than we once did. If your relationship is built solely on external, superficial things, it's not going to last.
@@FrauMase bacon et bifteck?
As a wife for 3 years (and 6 years as a girlfriend) I can confirm this
Gotta bring more than just "beauty" to the table
You know what they say…
“I am the table”
@Flow :0 obviously u say no
You’re a wise man 🙏🏽
@Flow :0 what?
As a girl, I’ve learned 80% of the time your personality means more than your looks. And you may think well that’s obvious but with social media these days it’s easy for girls to think “well if I look like this and have a nice butt and boobs it will be easy”.
For any girls struggling with dating reading this. As long as you take care of yourself and have a good personality and a good heart, you’ll find the one. Don’t trip like this girl. Just do you, youre beautiful ❤️
" I think I'm not my type's type"
Words of wisdom right there.
How many people are struggling with this like myself because of not realizing this?
I hate that so many people think of settling down as a negative thing to do as if you just accept anyone no matter if y’all are compatible or not. You do that just to not be alone. And you must just accept any life even if it’s not anything you want and/or deserve.
When you settle with someone it means you love, care about, like, and want to be with this person that wants a similar future as you and agrees on how to get there plus y’all have similar values and y’all are compatible emotionally, physically, and mentally.
She doesn't need to settle down based on her looks.. She needs to be less neurotic and less of a skank
She fits perfectly in the “internet people” category the ones that are only in this world for other people to share their content quoting “this is so me 💁🏻♀️”
She advertises herself online. Like a hooker if you ask me. Not my type. Internet ruins relationships.
Omg!! “Internet people” I never thought I’d use that term.
Sensei!!🤣
and they get thousands of likes for quoting “this is so me” 🗿 bruh
The emoji made it better 😂
Aba’s “why am I single bro?” while flexing and posing is fucking hilarious. I laugh so hard it brings tears to my eyes every time.
It needs to be on extra repeat!!!!😂🤣😂🤣😂
i still wait for the comedy roadmovie 🤪
If I saw a man do that, I's husbanding his ass on site😤🤣
And with her voice on it XD
0:38 lool
Glad that you know RE ! Love from Greece!
There are many factors that determine weather or not you are single. Physical attractiveness (more important for women BUT there is more), skills/wealth/independence/status/strength (more important for men BUT there is more), personality, values (good ones), intelligence, confidence, social skills, humility, and finally not having unrealistic standards for your partner are the main ones I can think of. If you don't have the right amount of these things to please most people then that is why you have problems.
Boy bye
My dad told me once as a teenager, "If you see an attractive woman and she is still single, there is a reason why." Didn't understand at the time but he was right. RIP Dad, I miss you.
what about ugly women who are not single lol
So just never date an attractive woman?
@@Cenatcenat902 no thats a generalization. Theres alot of different personalities regardless of how pretty they are
He was a WISE man. RIP SIR
Yes he was very wise. Rip to that man
It’s funny bc she herself admitted there are a lot of guys pursuing her she’s just not interested. So it’s exactly the not my types type thing.
She probably told those guys she just wants to be friends lol because they don't look like Chad
@@comsicartisan7700 she need pookie and ray ray to set her straight
Bitches nowadays say they're "single" while they got FWBs and hookups. This shit is never serious. They just haven't found the right sucker yet to "settle" with.
The very ones they disqualified are the very ones that were ideal for their lives. Then when they get older and alone and see someone they rejected living a great life with someone else then it hits them how foolish their choice was in the past. It’s gonna be a funny sight to see 🍿🍿🍿
It's better to be single knowing what you want than just dating any person for the sake of not being single. Maybe she has the wrong expectations? Maybe she needs to relax and just date casually? I seriously don't get people who think being single is a tragedy. It's nice to wake up knowing that someone is not cheating on you or using you. I think she is one of those women who only care about having kids.
2:50 to that I have to say, after 2 years of intense working of myself (of course it was many years, but at one point i focused on this issue specifically), i became my types type. I am sure everyone can. Self-awareness and not beeing too afraid of the work it takes to do it. It took a long time to even be ready to start changing.
Loved the song at the end ❤
She hasn't "officially" been in a relationship. Let's not pretend she's isn't the one turning down and ghosting dudes to find the next best thing. Often times people who wonder why they're single for so long are the ones sabotaging themselves
Not just that but she keeps saying I’m single but most likely she is messing around with multiple guys playing the line, “I’m not ready I have no time to be in a relationship, I’m an independent woman” then complaint about “being single” lol
Yea, absolutely two-faced
Exactly my friend is so preety and she literally have so many options but she always complains why she is single… I’m like sis you’re ignoring them that’s whyyyy
My pops told I’m still single because I’m not trying not 1%
There's always better options...Also looking the way she does, she definitely gets guys attention. She just can't keep it.
Haven't had a "boyfriend officially", she still slayin' bodies.....no cap.
Exactly what I was thinking 💯
Man you caught that too? She really tried it.
@@luckyMrrpProduction yea she thought she was slick lol
Ye there's no way she's an in*el xD
Keep it 💯 Kings!
the reason is me,me,me, case closed.
You guys are adorable. Thanks for the content. Most of people in my life settled and that's what it is. Women want 100 when they only give 50. Just being beautiful isn't it. Plus women who are so beautiful act like they're not worth worth to be courted and respected. They give it up and usually get left hanging
She’s the type of woman that has ridiculously high standards and wonders why nobody will never commit their time to her.
It’s not the high standards for the men that are her problem. It’s the low standard on her side of the relationship that’s the problem. She doesn’t know the counterpart to the men’s high standards.
@@ekkotey wut?
I recently met this girl who was decently pretty, like a 6,7 without makeup and a 9 with it on, but soon after talking i noticed she had 0 personality, 0 hobbies, and she was crazy af. She was super sweet but totally wants a dude to act like their married for years when they just met her.
thats not it.. she is a man wrapped up in a female body.
100% repulsive to hetero men.
@moko being Bruce wayne essentially.
Her saying "Bro" over and over is a clear sign that she friendzoned a ton of people and she has a lot of "guy friends".
Good observation lol
It's also a sign of being too masculine minded as well, only dudes be saying bro
@@justjayy85 not that deep
It just seems more like a general lack of emotional maturity, but that's me
@@camillap10101 it actually is that deep. Feminine woman don't constantly say bro or act like her. She's bought the feminism lie, she makes her own money own place and has male traits aggressive, unagreeable etc. Which men don't find attractive. Men don't care about how much money a woman makes. It's not that she can't find a man, I'll bet anything she gets hit on everywhere she goes. Basic rule of thumb for women attractive like this is satanic 666. 6 ft tall, 6 figures a year and 6 inch flesh rocket
Being in a relationship doesn't make you happy, what makes you happy is your state of mind.
I've lost my father at the age of 12, had a divorce, lost many pets (one of them died in front of me), and lost countless of friends and dates over the years. I am seriously at the point I don't care anymore.
😢
I can feel you ❤
❤I'm so sorry. ...praying Nam Myoho Renge Kyo...I hope you can find the right person and fulfill your dreams. Dating is even harder now with social media and texting. The older generation had it so much easier. As young people we have to figure out the solution to this issue.
there's a large population of single people that both think they're too good for each other.
"I have my own place, I make my own money". We have heard that too often! That's called being an adult! It doesn't make her more attractive!
Its women mirroring their desires on men.
A man having his own place and a job is something women look for in a man as one of many desirable traits.
Neither of those two options is something men factor in when looking to be in a relationship - the adult woman could be unemployed and living with her parents and not working and men will find her desirable if she has feminine traits they find attractive
I make my own money translation OF
I put the fertility app I use into HIS PHONE, that way he has full control of knowing which days of the month that I can become pregnant. Fertility cycles change from woman to woman....now that what makes me unique and attractive.
@@WrathofFenrir99 to be slightly fair though, lots of guys find being able to cook makes a girl more attractive compared to not.
@@MrsNicolas Sounds like you both have a good relationship. 👍Good to know you're not weaponizing that against him. The worst case scenario is that the woman somehow "baby traps" their man. It's extremely important to be open about menstrual cycles and pregnancy chances so you don't have a child unless you're ABSOLUTELY sure.
"Sometimes I critically hit my boyfriends for like 95% of their health bar and send them to the infirmary, but like I don't do it that often bro I swear". - This girl 2021
I mean, they shouldn't try the boss fight right after the tutorial 😜
Exactly! Like WTF?! 🤦♂️
So it's not just me, she 100% has that energy..
😂😂😂 this killed me
She would be in Sens fortress if they made a bro remake
Honesty, patience, integrity, courage, conviction. It's hard to find.
Yo, you guys should talk about your experiences around the world more often. I like hearing about how people are in places I haven't been
"Is it THAT hard to find a good, genuine person?"
Yes. Yes it is. And you're not gonna find anyone genuine with those standards, miss.
Yes she got prideful childish annoying attitude and so simply no man cares about her, when they dont care about her looks, if she got so annoying personality where she always belive she is right in everything and so I now belive she will be single rest of her life, that is great for society, so her annoying behaviour is not enforced forward, that stupid simps in first point long ago made so.
I would put up with her just long enough to get my nut and then never call her again honestly.
@@Alvin-xs7db buddy I'm sure a lot of guys have beat us to it and a lot of guys will be there after us. Kind of like a rental car you know
"not with that attitude"
@@robertstone9988 this seems like something shes familiar with lol
The fact she filmed what she filmed is a deal breaker. And most of everything she said.
In one word, her attitude.
Sad part is theres probably so many "men" who were there in her vids comment section to inflate her ego even more...
Facts.
people film their freakouts a lot lmao
@@MaddesG1 like imflating a balloon with air and then blow it up. It's just funny to see.
"re mavro" had my greek ass laughing for approximately 10 minutes
It really pisses me off cuz men who are actual gentlemen get called creepy or incels and get bunched up with those types. It’s so annoying. And then people wonder why those types happen.
People can be genuinely kind without wanting something.
"I think Im not my type's type"
Claudia is a real one for the honesty, self-reflection, and self-awareness 99% of women lack today. Shouts out to her.
Most people in general
@@oz_jones this a reality for most men who weren't attractive in high school. It's clear as day if you're your types type. It was for me and for my friends at least.
I can imagine a stoner like thinking real hard for an hour and then go: "woaaah, dude, bro, bruh, you know what? I just think I'm not my type's type bro."
goddamn "you're not your type's type" is a hella efficient way to put it. I spent half an hour trying to explain this to someone once and all i needed was 5 words.
But the thing is, will they do something about. Either A, better themselves or B, try something different.
There are a lot of physically attractive women out there that can't seem to understand that their beauty doesn't make up for their bad personality and, frankly, lack of anything to offer beyond their appearance. This class of person believes that their appearance gives them a license to be a bad person, and that they do not need to bring anything else to the table. Like, there's that classic clip of the, honestly, average looking woman saying, "I _am_ the table."
License to be a bad person?? Lol. You don't even know them to label them as that "class of person"🤦🏽♂️
@@trujiebeats7190 read the original comment again 🤦🏾♂️
@@Saulgoodmane so that wasn't specifically for them. Got it.
She only inspired your paragraph on those particular type of women 🙄
facts.. physical attraction matters, especially at first, but if the personality isn't there, or if two people don't vibe, even.. that physical attraction actually deteriorates. these days if I see someone hot, but get to know them and they got a shitty personality, they become instantly ugly.
the opposite is also true though: where you might meet an average girl, but if she's awesome and you vibe with her, she might start to look more attractive as time passes.
Attractive people are overrated period; it's a running theory in my head that people only want the pretty ones for their looks, not their personality, if they have one. It's nature evening the odds by giving people with okay looks better personalities
I’m so proud of how long yall have been together it can be a struggle at times but this Chanel being based off your friendship is so good because of you ever stray away you can look at your Chanel and remember why you love each other
Everyone will always have something to say you are adults who are making it with or with out yt your working hard paying them bills and taking care of each other while at the same time having fun with each other with mutual hobbies congratulations 🎉
I have friends who are single and been single and live single and they are completely dedicated to their life journey and they are content.... absolutely in their vibes.
She never "officially" had a boyfriend for 4 years. The key word "officially" meaning it's not on record. She got that person she calls when she needs that action. I'm sure she has no problem fulfilling those's late night appointments. The problem is, those d-appointments are not fulfilling cause you don't get to share your innermost feelings after. Once it's over, it's over cut and dry.
Women can be single for decades and still get their bed numbers into 500.
Lol, exactly. I'd rather be with a woman who has had a few long term, monogamous relationships in that time span, rather than a woman who was "single" that whole time. Single and celibate?? No way that's the case.
The bitch got a body count like Jason Voorhees
translation- bitch ran thru aint nobody want pre owned 😭😭😭
Or... She kept finding guys & they never stuck around. Doesnt have to mean she slept around ( not denying she could) but just no guy wanted to stick around once they got to know her
I haven’t made a whole minute into the video yet. I paused because of “bro”. Poured a fresh cup of coffee, came back and started wheezing at Aba’s poses with her “bro” dub. Literal Preach old uncle wheezing LMAO
Okay, carry on
it's the way she says bro and tastes herself all the time loool
@@dark3rthanshadows That part nearly made me choke on my coffee!
Was funny af. Tru tru
😂 💪🏾
Get outta my kitchen Bro...I did the same thing.
Every man knew from the first 5 seconds why bro is single
"I am not my type's type". I really felt that. I attract the polar opposite of myself, which I don't like. I wished I could meet someone who shares the values and vision that I have. But that is not what I attract. I don't give these men my time neither so it is no a: picking wrong partner scenario.
I just keep getting approached by wrong people.
She says "I got a little bit of an attitude, but I'm not crazy"
Reminds me of "I wasn't punching you, I was hitting you"
On point comparison.
You Heard!
hahaha, bro.
"It's Fine, I'm Fine, I'm like Fine as hell! He hee hee haa haa HAAAA, I'm NoT CraZy You'Re CraZY!!!!!"
I thought the same thing when I heard her say that.
"Sometimes i get little physical but am Not abusive" - I CANT 😂😂😂😂
I want to be able to say that to a chick. "I get a lil physical but not abusive."
How do you think that would sound? lol
@@jesterarts734 lol, just dont 😂🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@@jesterarts734 you will be in jail before even ending the sentence.
they like to use those long nails to abuse
I like how she starts the video in proper fashion nova sleeve dress 🙏🏾✌🏾
You are so spot on, if you lack self awareness...
I ask a guy why no one wants to date me once, he said u don't put off the energy that your looking for a boyfriend. That hit me hard and made perfect sense. I got a boyfriend shortly after because I change how I approached men and how I allowed them to approach me.
Dont be shy! Tell us shy few how you made the change!
This is exactly what I told my female friend when she asked me for advice.
It takes a lot of courage to ask out a woman, and it makes it so much easier to approach a woman that looks agreeable and approachable. Body language, posture, wording, attitude. These are the things men look at before approaching a woman. A woman could look killer but if she is a negative nancy who slouches and complains all the time, a guy will get an idea that she is not looking for a partner regardless if that's the situation or not.
Nail on the head. This is it exactly, its an internal decision to be open and not put up a wall.
Hi. Can I ask how you were previously? I'm looking to reverse everything you did and make myself even more repulsive to people seeking relationships. Not that it's a lot of work.
@@thunderouswanderer7753 The secret is "Always be the hunted, never be the hunter". If no one is seeking to capture, tag and keep you - then you gotta look inside and change. You fat? Gotta lose weight. You whine too much? Learn to be grateful. You too quiet? Learn to speak up. The phrase "It's who I am" is a crutch for those who don't want to change to what they want to be. Nothing wrong with being comfortable with who you are, but now you gotta find someone else who is. People don't ask for much really - Be nice, Be loving and Be Genuine.
I cant believe she was able to make that vídeo, show her bumbum, probably watch it and think “yes that is a great way to present myself and get a bf” and she didnt cringe one little bit ? My face burned of embarasssment just from watching it 😳😳😳😳😳 She needs a friend to talk to her
🇧🇷 in here and talking some facts! 😀👏
When you have no self esteem that's what you do. Offer yourself to lots of men sexually. They have imprinted on her and she has taken on their traits. She can no longer pair bond and is for the streets. Women like this are cum rags. Notice she didn't say I havnt had sex in 4 years. She said she hasn't been in a relationship. She's still charming all the alphas cobras. They spit at her and leave
Nigerian?
My Boyfriend and I are not eachothers types at all, but when we first met each other there way a mutual attraction and as we got to know each other we reached a point where who a person is overcame physical appearance. Lol I still think it's so funny how he wasn't my type at the time but he's a great kisser and I'm so comfortable around him💯
These two are sooooo funny!!! Love it!!
The true character of a person always comes out eventually.
Right immediately î was like something is off that people are not self-aware enough to notice other people noticing it's an energy breaux lol. What Erykah Badu said "when they see you comin n**gas take off runnin" bout releasing the baggage + the anger of the past to be open.
I am single and i have it all, I still prefer to be alone then with unwanted company.
I find her entertaining honestly, but she is obviously just looking for a good-looking atm machine boyfriend, just like all women who make these types of videos...
It's been my first hand experience that girls who overuse the terms "bitch" and/or "bro" are not girlfriend material. Anyways, ima go cry.
Hahahahh so true!
Hahahahaha ima go cry hahahahahga
Solid first sentence, weak second sentence.
@@the80386 It’s called callback humor. 👍🏻
Why? This pathetic bitch has you pressed?
at the second she opened her mouth i totally understand why`s she single!
Well being self aware to your situation goes a long way. I wondered to myself one day, why am i able to get them but not able to keep them, it can’t be the fault of all these guys am attracting, surely i am the common denominator. I have taken steps to change my ways and perspective ever since.
There's two reasons an attractive woman is moaning she's single.
1. She's an absolute nightmare to the point her being hot means it still isn't worth it.
2. She has such ridiculous standards like being 6ft 3 plus, earning this much and so on that the minuscule amount of guys who tick those boxes aren't interested.
She doesn't seem like someone who is a good companion, or is willing to change herself to please someone else. Most people will say you should never change yourself to please others, but if you're never willing to accommodate someone in your life, taketime to learn their interests, or do small things just to make them happy, the good looks won't keep someone committed to you.
@@cthulhusmom I don't think it's that she has to change to please someone else. That reason wouldn't equate to lasting change. She needs to change for something more powerful than just acquiring an intimate relationship; then the change will be solidified and in turn, attract a lasting relationship with the man she's looking for because he sees that the character she portrays accurately represents who she truly is when no one is watching (usually observable through visible habits).
Yep simple math, her hotness factor is not high enough to deal with her craziness factor.
@@michaelfrock2473 Never dip in crazy sauce men!
@@michaelfrock2473 she has crossed the Louise Mendoza diagonal on the wrong side of the hot crazy scale.
People who actually know this girl, know why she is single. There are a lot of mysteries in this life, but this ain't one of them.
These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women for a while now. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind or just curious, this could be worth a read:
1. Long (fake) nails
2. Fake hair (~long and/or bright colored)
3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup)
4. Provocative clothing
5. Big earrings
6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content; thirst trap antics, etc.)
7. Questionable.. questions (e.g. "Babe, would you date me if I were a worm", "babe do you think I'm pretty"..)
8. Tattoos/body mods/piercings (especially in weird places)
9. Most/all of her friends are male.
10. Promiscuous or Using se>< as a proxy for feeling loved and adored (this can be especially true for people who struggle with attachment issues/daddy issues)
11. S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Never being wrong)
12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism (follows beauty standards, fashion trends, body ideals, bad friends or other trends without questioning or reflecting on their reason[s] for doing so) [often correlates with No. 2, 3 & 4]
13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e.g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches", claim to have "very high standards" or are "high maintenance" ) [often correlates with No. 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5]
14. Materialistic [often correlates with No. 12 & 13]
15. Their actions don't follow their words (cognitive dissonance)
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels.
18. Clingy, jealous or possessive (e.g. not being allowed to have any female friends)
19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things--it seems some people think toxicity makes relationships more 'fun or exciting' (or even straight up admit they enjoy toxicity in relationships)
20. Habit of lying (shouldn't be ignored [along with No. 7, 14 & 16] as it could escalate over time [often correlates with No. 10, 11, 13 & 15. Possibly with No. 6] )
21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice (possibly due to trauma or abuse at a young age [Reference: Dr. Drew Pinsky - Loveline] )
22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'---"Some women absolutely do this. In fact, some believe that men should be able to read their minds and then use the fact that men can't read their minds as an excuse to accuse the men of not loving them enough.
Not very many women do this, however. If you are in a relationship with a woman who does this, and you don't like it, break it off. Be sure, however, that you are not contributing to her bad behavior by attempting to anticipate her needs and doing things for her to prove your love. In other words, don't attempt to appear as if you can read her mind." - Alison Bennett (Quora; Do women expect men to be mind-readers?)
*Their mentality of dependence and expectations is so high they use emotions to smoke screen this shameful behaviour. [Shouldn't be ignored. Could correlate with No. 19]
23. Sh*t Tests---"used to determine your frame. Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.” (shouldn't be ignored; usually continues indefinitely, may escalate over time [Often correlates with No. 11, 16 & 19. Possibly with No. 7 & 17] )
24. Ultimatums (could correlate with No. 13, 16 & 18)
25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer (Strongly correlates with No. 16, possibly with No. 11 & 18 [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] )
26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure(s). (Often correlates with No. 4, 6, 8, 10, 16, 19, 20 [compulsive or pathological lying] & 21)
27. They're often passive aggressive (Could correlate with No. 22. Possibly with No. 7, 11, 19 & 25)
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@@Dickson_ bro
@@Dickson_ this is common sense mate.
Normal girls know this
And yet men still seem to aim for a combination of these attributes in reality. It’s mad
@@Dickson_ like your list, would you be so kind to write the male version too???
🙂 pretty please
I don't know for women specifically but apparently recent studies show highest complaint amongst single men regarding finding someone was not the more sensationally talked about reasons like "social anxiety" or "gender crisis" etc, (although they all have different levels of contribution); but is "lack of occasion/opportunity"
In other words, the biggest reason why fellas out there single is because they dont meet enough women on their social circles. It could be that many women who are considered conventionally attractive are otherwise not able find their type of man because of their lack of men's social circles.
Poor HYNAAA there are probably no Edgars in her town
My guess is that her standards are high and the guys who meet them don't fw her like that. Make note that she said she hasn't had a BOYFRIEND in 4 years, not that she hasn't HOOKED UP with anyone in 4 years.
She getting pump and dumped.
@@KaiserReb Every night and twice per day.
"I got a good personality."
She reminds me of Skippy.
lol lol Nooo lol
😆🤣😂 Imagine if she recorded her dates.
Her saying bro is the equivalent of the like like like girls you know
I've encountered gorgeous women like her who are fit yet the nightmare stories I hear make me ask the same questions this woman is asking about herself...why is she struggling to get a single guy to take her seriously
the more weight look has on a woman, the more men will go after her just for the looks. bad men will see her as a temporary sex object, good men will fear of rejection because of her look, and many of both kind of men would question if she’s a whore because of the attention they assume she’d get for her looks. at the end, no one would be looking into her character.
Beauty isn't enough for everyone to stick around. The person I love is automatically the most beautiful person to exist anyway. There has to be more.
This comment 👌 💕🥰
Beauty fades as we age. Some are very lucky enough to keep that beauty and still look youthful, if they really take care of themselves. Yes, beauty is not enough to stick around for, and it's not everything.
Aaaaaaaaaamen, brother.
There are millions of beautiful women but attitude and personality separates women who are worth dating from women who are a booty call
yep
Makes me appreciate my relationship even more. My boyfriend isn’t perfect but he is respectful to me, supportive, my best friend and I am attracted to him. I couldn’t ask for better.
I dare you to call him Bro!!!!
Me tooooo❤️🥺
"My boyfriend isn't perfect but..."
No human being on earth is perfect, don't use this kind of language as an "introductory" sentence!
But I'm glad you are both happy with each other.
Are couples allowed to call eachother there best friend? That must feel like the best feeling in the world. I
@@Kniffel101 no need to sound smart, you know what they meant.
Do not assume if a woman is physically attractive and single it is only because of her personality or high standard. Maybe due to the situation. For example, I’ve been studying and working in 5 different countries in the past 10 years. For someone who’s constantly moving around, it is difficult to establish a long-term stable relationship.
Well I mean in this case it's pretty obvious it has to do with her personality. She's acting entitled to the fact that she somehow deserves a boyfriend without doing any self reflection on why she's single. She obviously wants a boyfriend but she wonders why she doesn't have one yet when she can't see the fact that she is a massive egotistical red flag. Apparently in her eyes because she's attractive men should crawl all up her alleyway and she should be the center of attention.
That could also be an issue though because it means that she’s prioritizing other things over building a future with someone
Sometimes you're just not their person, too. Everyone is looking for THEIR person, and good looks are just a veneer.
You look very young. Also your pfp signals to me "modern American woman" which is not positive. I would say you are objectively attractive so the number of people interested in pursuing you is probably fairly high but most don't approach you because you are attractive. Also dating while moving frequently or semi frequently would make it harder as you say.
Your point Is correct however that is the outlier/minority of women and aba and preach mostly speak in general.
@@LynetteTheMadScientist yes, I prioritize my career goals more than other aspects of my life at this moment, I sometimes had doubts because it is certainly not easy to be single and alone in a foreign country. But now I’ve had a very very nice boyfriend, after being single for almost 3 years 😂and I founded my own company this year doing what makes me happy. So… i guess sometimes it all worths it, just keep doing the right things and waiting for the right moment.
I was intrigued by this “supreme gentleman” and l was not disappointed. It would be nice if you review this sensitive subject of mass shootings in North America
When I was in Okinawa, I knew this dude who sold trinket stuff like jerseys and blankets and stuff Marines would buy to send back home as souvenirs. I saw him one time and I’m like, “Yo, what up, homie.” And he says, “no no no, no homie.” And I’m like, “sure we are, man, we homies, ain’t we?” And he was like, “no no, I no homie.” Then he explains, “you cannot say homie to okinawa people, it is very rude.” And I’m like, “…ok… why is it rude?” He says, “in okinawa language, homie is bad word.” I’m like, “oh shit, for real? What’s it mean?”
He looks around and then leans in close and says, “Pussy!”
That's funny, Homie!
Black marines being stationed in oki need to know this.
Oooooooooooo lmao
Bro...
American military needs to gtfo of Okinawa. Keep r*ping and kidnapping locals
Just by hearing her talk we see her why she's single.
She looks like a 9 but her personality brings it to a 3
@@oz_jones
That's not a 9 my guy, that's a 7, an 8 at best. . . If you think that's a 9 go to a beach or go to the coastlines. 9s and 10s trying to get the rich dudes are always there.
yea, she's annoying, arrogant, and narcissistic
@@ohdahngboi_2237 BRO!
Ikr, take a look "ok a bit try hardy but still pretty. 'bro bro bro why am I single'....oh"
_Ah YES!!_ So refreshing to hear a choice of music for a video with some actual personality!!
First time I've seen non-greek youtubers acknowledge our usage of "re." Love the greek shoutout, your knowledge of other cultures is impressive!
Some women: "Stop approaching women, we do not want to talk to you."
Those same women: "WHY AM I SINGLE."
Amen!
Nah we don’t want creeps to approach us, there’s a difference.
@@user-ki8nn5rx6r bullshit
@@user-ki8nn5rx6r but your definition of a creep is based on if you find them attractive or not....
@@Hexis17 nope, it depends in how they act
“Why am I single?!”
“Hi, how are you?”
“Ew. Not my type bye”
Literally then they contradict themselves later being like I want a man 👨🤨😂🤦
Legit
@@gregkareem9824 *Literally then they contradict themselves later being like I want a man*
Not really a contradiction. They want a certain type of man but that man doesn't want them because they have options.
@@StoicBehavioR simp why u so mad bro? Nigga gets no buns bro 😭💀 go touch sum grass my boy
@@StoicBehavioR sound like a goofy
Thank God I UA-cam algorithm recommended yall! I've been losing my osh laughing the past 3 days!
Preach had some one-liners in this one, man...had me rolling!
Simple:
Smart men rent pretty but buy reliable
If pretty is all you're producing for a relationship, it's a pretty weak sales pitch for long term investors. Especially when you're difficult to work with.
Epic…. Bro
BROO
nothing buts facts and logic
Absolutely what makes us stay in a relationship isn't sex and beauty nonono give us a hug when were stressed , sad . Having good times together and we mary in 1years or two
Agreed. A depreciating asset (beauty) is always a bad long term investment.
2000s : You should be attracted to my personality not my looks.
2020s: Look at me, aren't I hot? Why am I single?
Aye I didn't know JSG was here.
Social media have us hyper focus on image.
she doesnt want the guy who is already interested in her, she wants the guy who isnt and then have them change their mind and want to make her their girlfriend
Aww you guy rid of the mustache pic :(
You forget all the women in the 2000s are in their 30s+. All the 2020s women were barely in kindergarten in 2000.
Thank you for that African Tune at the end.
Cause so many people think looks and material things bring value to a relationship.
They don't.
They can be nice bonuses with someone that's compassionate and loving
Notice how she didn't say "I haven't had sex in 4 years". It's "I haven't had a boyfriend in 4 years". Chad is still smashing, he just isn't committing.
Exactly
Eeeeueyup
You know she's capping!
Fax
You know she's getting the train ran on her
9 seconds in and I already have a headache. Im just going to answer her question now. I have allot of stress in my life, If the first thing that comes to mind when I see you is stress Im not going to want to date you. In fact I wont even want to look at you cause Im probably trying to figure out how to handle the other stress factors I have cause thats a better use of my time than inviting further chaos.
You can't complain about being single if you're rejecting 99% of men who approach you.
I get depressed sometimes too that I don't have anybody, but then I remind myself that I have "high "standards".
The world is what it is, either accept what's on offer or accept being alone.
Yha girls don't know that like they said there are more girls then guys and when you realize every little bit of guy is taking she's done unless the world come to terms about letting 3 person in the marriage group.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 you can take your advice, and try out polygamy...
@@mysticstrikeforce5957
Had a stroke trying to read that.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 yeah a 3 in one nah I know what you mean but lmao.
@@comancheclub3449 xD
People aren't entitled to a partner. This is such incel attitude, thinking you are owed a significant other. On the other hand, people actually ARE entitled not to be interested in you.
I find people like this even worse than Incels. Incels are often not very attractive physically and have rough childhoods, then they fall into a trap of self pity and apathy. Women like this are voluntarily pricing themselves out the dating market their shitty choice in partners and not having any self awareness. They have endless options but self sabotage.
Someone like her can never be taught the lessons she will need for proper introspection, she has to learn the hard way.
@@theperfectbeing honestly I agree a lot of incels have trama like getting bullied at an early age
this is so true. well put
I don’t understand this weird desire to associate her with incels. She did her entire rant without disparaging men once.
@@hatchibyebye She is EXACTLY the type of woman who disparages men. She may not have done it in this video, but since she clearly doesn't think SHE is the reason she is single, it is highly likely that she blames men and holds contempt towards them.
Her attitude, sense of entitlement, & narcissistic mentality are repulsive. She’s viewing things through a transactional lens which is more appropriate for a sugar baby or escort, rather than a partnership. Complaining about other people not wanting you while ruthlessly enforcing how great you are is a delusional mindset. If you were as great as you think that you are then people would probably notice that and pursue you. I’m this day and age men are increasingly more interested in substance, character, personality, success, etc. Thanks to casual sex culture men are able to get that gratification at the touch of a button.
We warned you that puttin yo 🐱 on live for $20 and that women giving it up en masse to any dude who makes 6 figures and takes you out to dinner would hurt women in the long run.
i can tell its an aba and preach video in the backround just from the squeaky ass floor they are always
BECAUSE.......When guys see your tirade, they realize what it will be like to live with you and see this "show" everyday of their lives.
whaaat, you dont like "keeping up with the drama"😅
My girl is mexican and half the family is colombian, definitely not a hispanic thing but no man finna put up with that ego 😂
As a half Puerto Rican and half African, I come from a family that has attitude at the right time and place and get smacked when not to, definitely not putting up with that attitude
Facts
@@emmanuelkeister1643 Big facts
love the Broformance at the start
Thanks for the song "BRO" 😎
My 4 year old was cracking up dying when Aba was saying bro and showing his muscle poses. Thank you lol
I'm 34 & was cracking up too
@@NotAnotherKuromi me at 29 too 😂😂😂😂🤣😭
Imma steal that gag when I talk to someone that says bro too much.
Using it the next time my 25 year old niece who says "bro" a lot to me.
Lol ima be using it on my kids.. "why you doing that bro? (Flex) why bro?! (Flex) BRO?!"
We all know that if this was a dude, twitter and tiktok would've immediately gone viral with threads and responses about how "this is an incel/entitled male/e. rogers" comparisons, before veering off into threads about male toxicity and women sharing stories. But when it's a woman......."ehhhh she's just joking and venting", "I feel you girl lmaooo". I wish I could go back to when I was ignorant of this ish. Sigh.
Welcome to the age of madness!!!! It's in South Africa too now, it's not just an American thing anymore
There is a whole bunch of subreddits like legbeards, nice girls...
@@mojalefamalahlela3291 what south African women are feminist too ???
@@angryblackman857 It’s taking over, bro. Feminism is the true epidemic.
Why you think I'm still a virgin? I'd rather follow the words of St. Paul and spend my life in serene contemplation, pleasing Jah, than follow my dick and wind up miserable, trying to please an insatiable, perpetually dissatisfied woman.