PRETTY PRIVILEGE. These women get very honest about how awesome it is.
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On point 💀
I love her!!
Reminds me of the Boss troll from Goblin Slayer.
I love you guys!!! Aba I also have sleep apnea so we can be friends!!!!!!😃😃😃😃😃
Haha...the nerd within Aba is a 4. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That second girl might not be the most attractive, but she has a tremendous sense of humour that most people don’t and that’s more valuable in a lot of ways.
Says the guy with the best screen name on UA-cam. Well done.
A like just for that name.
Yes definitely. But will you approach her and try to date her? This is what we are talking about. You can talk all day about her personality and how cool she is, but would you date her?
@Vesta "large" lmao
@@veronicaana Agreed ,do what you want but in the end ,sexual desir do matter in relationship
Let's not forget about girls fawning over and fighting for a mass murderer to be set free because he's attractive.
He got sentenced to 24 years lmaooooo
Not all girls, just the ones with low self worth
This happened way too often, which one u talkin bout specifically tho?
Eg . Ted Bundy
Those girls are not cute, I promise.
I learned pretty privilege existed when I was the ugly girl with glasses growing up, until one day in the 5th grade my cousin did my hair, gave me a cute headband, took off my glasses and put me in a genuinely cute and trendy outfit and everyone thought I was the prettiest girl in school.
And on a regular basis when I take off my glasses. People get so stunned.
Life really is generally nicer for attractive people.
And its still very difficult to accept to this day, growing up as someone who got literally bullied for being ugly.
Legit so true with the glasses thing, I have even had my relatives say wow you are actually so beautiful without your glasses😂😂😂. Which is Also why I wear them. Because in my field of work being pretty makes people think you are dumb and dont have much to add. And you can be overlooked 🥵
Do you exist in the Disney Channel Universe by any chance?
😂😂😂😂 And next on other things that never happened...
I thought this was a thing that only happened in cartoons/anime
The "pretty privilege" starts for girls already in kindergarden which is quite frankly really scary. The pretty girls get all the leading roles in school plays and are always picked over the less pretty ones to participate in social activities. Even when they lack skills to do it, their beauty compensates for it. As a 5-6 year old, I could never figure out why I was never picked to be Cinderella or even her Godmother even though I was a pretty good actress, could read flawlessly, memorise my role and speak very well. Every time I suggested to my teachers that I really want that role, they downplayed me or laughted at my attempt, then gave me a minor role where I only talked one sentence and was supposed to dress up or paint my face. Then I stopped asking, stopped trying to get picked, became really shy and timid, not wanting to participate in anything at all anymore.
Starts earlier than that ..
Hugs
Same shit happened in my school. The pretty popular girl who couldnt sing worth SHIT was picked to play Belle and the girl who had the best voice in the choir was cast as Mrs pots. Why? Because she wasnt as pretty and wasnt as petite. They even removed all the singing from the dialogue (cuz our Belle couldnt hold a tune). Made for a pretty awful play production. It would have been way better to just have a tone deaf Belle. Same girl got the leading role for every play. The rest of us just stopped trying out and dropped drama club.
Cheers, this actually ruined me in so many level. After knowing I would never receive the same kind of treatment, I just decided to stop doing stuff altogether and, honestly, I regret that. So now, not only I hate myself for being ugly, I also hate myself for having "stop doing anything" mindset back when I was younger.
same
"Attract a woman with cheese and you'll get a rat" "these women in the club are like furniture.... Or French fries"
God damn it preach 🤣.... Plantin those bars lately!
😂
All because of fresh. He triggered the inner animal of preach.🥊🥊
Where there is cheese, there are rats,
Wherever there are rats there are cats,
Wherever there are cats, there are dogs.
If you got them dogs, you've got b1tches,
B1tches always trynna get their hands on your riches.
If you've got riches, you've got snitches; computer glitches in your life....
Andre 3000
"Millionaire" by Kelis
Preach laying down some scripture
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Pretty privilege applies in relationships as well, both men and women are willing to put up with waaaaay more bull 💩 from an attractive person than they would if their partner isn’t as attractive.
I love ittttt 👌
This is so true!
Absolutely. As a recovering crazy woman I promise you men used to let me get away with a lot of bullshit
@@ABTHEYAPPER “Recovering crazy woman”. 😂 😂 😂 I died
Facts
It's harder to be ugly. Well managed pretty privilege sets up lives.
Yes of course but that means you can work on other things and build depth in your character which mainly people that look good don’t have.
Thats bullshit. Its that "if you wanna be successful just work hard" crap that keeps you trapped. Everyone has neg and pos qualities. But not everyone gets blatantly and consistently ignored. "Working" on your character may change how you interact with the world but it certainly does not do anything for how the world interacts with you. We've made some good gains as a global society in terms of how we treat people who are differ from ourselves . But somethings will never go away. Beauty standards have always been a thing but its super exacerbated in modern times because of how much we've managed to monetize beauty. And how we make a moral debate of every single thing. Like i hope its not like this forever. I hope people can go back to having smaller simpler lives when we can appreciate every individual in a homogeneous and kind way. But ya soz babes. Like the chances are soo fxuking minute. It often feels like Nobody out here tryna fxuk with anybody personality. Men or women. Its looks first. And honestly its not even about sex. Its about people not treating you as sub human because you dont confirm to beauty standards. But ya keep working yourself. Even tho there's nothing wrong with you.
My half sister who, not gonna lie, is breathtakingly beautiful has had stuff handed to her pretty much since she turned fifteen. Bit parts in movies, cars, her ex boyfriend gave her a small boutique store. She now has three houses and a real estate business. As for me, my pretty privilege story is a girl working at Burger King once slipped me an apple pie on the side cause she thought I was cute.
This reminded me of the dude who's mugshot went viral. He went from being locked up to a modeling career because women went ape shit over how he looked. Pretty privalge absolutely exist.
Yes!! he was just in movie I saw on Amazon.
@@Sc-dd6hb that's not what he is saying. He sais that the guys mugshot went viral because of his looks, and when he got out of jail he got a job and a lot of money, just because of his looks. Other people have it hard to find a job because they were inmates, while he, just cause he is pretty, has a mansion. I think that was his point.
@@XsK5 Yes that was exactly my point 👏🏾
@@a7md69 It's naive to only think that this one instance is the only time it's happened to a man. And to assume I had some deeper meaning by mentioning a guy is a bit presumptuous of you. Pretty privilege is just that. No one put a sex to it. I wasn't even knocking the guy, more power to him. I never said it was equal, I was merely pointing out that I agree with the video and it exist for males too. It may or may not be to such extremes as it is for some women but it could be for some.
@@TheBlackshear I wouldn't even actually consider your example to fall under pretty privilege. His situation is already an anomaly, and on top of that he still had to work hard for it. Its hard to even find examples of it happening to men. Since there's no official definition for pretty privilege, we're gonna keep getting these type of view points. If there is a definition, I'll find it and post it here to share. There's honestly no point debating it until it's defined.
We need a term for industries supported by male horniness: The Thirst Economy.
Simp economy
Clever.
Both "Thirst Economy" and "Simp Economy" work. They're two different levels. Some guys will spend to a point amd walk away, others will drop it all just for the hopes of a taste.
thot-economics
Thirst World countries
The privilege is definitely real, I’ve gotten free stuff since I was 12, especially not having to pay for things….then I put on 25 kgs, became depressed and didn’t look after my appearance and boy did I notice the difference in respect / treatment from ppl it was SHOCKING. Anyway I got over my depression and lost all the excess weight, started dressing like I normally did and it’s back to how it’s always been.
That experience really opened my eyes though.
Been through this same process but trying to loose the weight. It's astounding
@@Thing-vx4fg yup!!!!!
Being a 'wrong' race is like your being fat but permanently.
I...can somewhat really hahaha
Yup, when I was single I rarely paid my own tab because I could usually get someone else to pay it without asking or saying anything at all (now I just don't pay because my fiancé covers it lmao). All I would do is look across the bar and make eye contact once, be coy about it for a while, _maybe_ do it again after a few minutes, and my tab would often get paid. Literally no words exchanged. I would most certainly classify that as "pretty privilege" 😅
I was in Japan in 2003 and I was getting ready to fly back home. My lounge was well over weight and had to pay an extra fee. My friend that took me to the airport was a beautiful woman. She smiled at the attendant and asked if it was ok. The attendant that was a man said yes it’s fine. You don’t have to pay a fee and I got away with it. Until I got back home and had a connecting flight and had to pay the fee since she wasn’t with me. Pretty privileged is a thing
Pretty privilege helps with everything. You're more likely to get hired or have more friends if you're good looking too. Everything really and both in men and women.
Yep
Very true. I’ve had people just look at me and based off of that offer me jobs lol
Sadly you’ll get a lot of jealous friends that cause trouble
True. Let's be honest tho, u can be the hottest dude in the world and u still won't get half the opportunities an average looking girl will get
Have more friends ? LOL people who want to be friends with you because you're hot are trash human beings, end of story. Find yourself better friends
Anybody who doesn't understand pretty privilege just realize a lot of youtubers and Instagram influences aren't fun or interesting they're just pretty enough that people follow them.
But I also think it's important to state that there are a loooot of pretty people who don't have a lot of followers. I think looks *definitely* can play a role when it comes to people who gain followers, but there so many people doing the same thing and because of that not everyone is actually "benefitting" automatically just because of their looks.
Id say this is 100% true for ig models and like 60% true for youtubers. On youtube you still need to hop on whatever's popular to gain huge success quickly.
@@sebaschan-uwu that's true. A lot of Instagram influences move to UA-cam and still have nothing interesting to say or do except be pretty and end up making millions off it. I will say youtube is a lot harder to gain success on based off just looks and that goes for any gender.
Thank god I ain't one of them ( *CLOSET WEEB INTENSIFIED* -> rapidly breathing)
@@Hello-qf3fd Yeah but social competence plays a huge role as well.
As a person who became more attractive over the years I noticed the way people started treating me differently. People who didn't acknowledge me before started hanging around me. It actually made me sick that people respect you more if you are prettier, but that's how it is. And also both sides have their downsides and upsides too.
Can I please hear the upside to being ugly because I haven’t experienced it yet? 😂 I’m kidding I have anxiety anyways so it’s better if ppl don’t notice me.
@@Las645 that's one of them, i have anxiety too , next is not being bothered by men constantly and not knowing if they wanna be friends or use you and sleep with you
@@Las645 you develop a personality
@@gena5270 It's ALWAYS ALWAYS because they want to sleep with you. Even the good men who want to be your friend and go about things the right way want to sleep with you. Good guys vs bad guys is more about self-control and maturity than it is about their desires.
@@richardzazanis4764 Yeah, I learned that the hard way. That's why I no longer have male friends except my bf. At least I wanna sleep with him too.
When I started going to the gym and saw some real gains I noticed a shift in how women treated me. Way more small talk going out to the grocery store or out in public in general and even flirting. Major confidence boost as someone that was depressed for years and took up working out to improve my own self perception.
Well done! Enjoy! 😁
The attention is overwhelming at first but i just had to come out of my shell bc ppl expect me to be extroverted when they meet me
That feeling when Recruit difficulty is locked instead of Hardcore mode..
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I look like a milk dud. A cashew on a good day
sounds like dark souls
Hardcore mode comes with its advantages tho, that 2.5x EXP comes in handy when upgrading stats
Remind me again how opressed females are in the west?
I have to admit, 95% of the reason I watch this channel is because I love watching Preach crack up laughing.
Right! I love hearing him laugh! Makes me laugh, too! ☺️
He really is the joy behind the channel
It's good for the soul.
Exact opposite for me. Abas critical thinking.
These guys are horrible…Lol….I watch them every chance I get.
I have "cute" priviledge. Pretty enough for people to be nice to me (cut in line/opening doors/offered help/invited out/ taken seriously when I cry) but not hot enough to get free drinks on demand or constantly being asked out (not saying it's never just not a n every day occurrence) . But my friends say that's because I smile too much. Apparently the difference between cute and pretty privilege depends on how much disdain you carry on your face.
It's true, resting bitch face can make you not so cute
I 💯 agree. I'm "cute" and people will be nice or compliment my smile. But growing up my friend was beautiful and I never got upset with her, but sometimes I was like...how come guys don't want me like her or buying a drink for me or special privileges. But I learned it's just part of how society is
Yep, I have cute privilege too. Wish I had pretty privilege though...
I have cute privilege also ‼️
I have ugly privilege where people leave me the f alone at all times and I don't have to make small talk.
I owned a legitimate model house. I had to hire security to keep men away because once people figured out the location, they would constantly drive up to the front door in hopes of meeting models. There’s a misconception though. The models weren’t used as eye candy in clubs, it was where they were housed when they arrived from another country while they modelled in this country. If those girls in the video were used to lure men into clubs, that’s sadly a whole other profession.
Hello I am an experienced model thought i would comment on your comment to try a shot for modelling with your agency please
Well men like women so it makes sense lol 😂
@@87883 *men* *like* *women*
Never knew before 😁
@@MsAtieno if you where an experienced model you wouldnt be looking for a job in the comments on youtube
Wrong. I had a friend who was a barmaid for years at happening clubs downtown Montreal, in the 90s, and pretty girls are used like furniture to attract male big spenders, who like Preach stated, buy bottles and spend $$$. The men arent told these girls are paid or asked to be there, they think this is the regular clientele. Duh! My friend once asked me to go to a function they were having for a music group and I turned it down because I didnt like the group's music. 😂😂
Although women generally benefit, pretty privilege isn’t limited to women lol. Jeremy Meeks is a great example. He came up on his mugshot alone 🙃
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Yeah, shut up
@@elijahdeluna9187 i mean she kinda right though
you have a point, but nobody is offering guys to live rent free in exchange for looking good. Chances are those guys are the ones paying for the less attractive female to live there
Very true
I really appreciate that you guys recognized the 2nd girl was being funny and enjoyed it. I know other channels are going to run her same video, pretend it's not a joke, and be like "See? See guys? This is how women are."
Yeah that's why i love this channel
I actually almost fell for it cuz I found her cute 😅😅..... But her acting gave it away, she was awesome!
I dunno, it seems pretty obvious she's being a sport about it.
But then again, it IS 2021, so... you're probably right.
But sometimes it's NOT a joke.
Some women do end up thinking they're 10x hotter than they actually are, just because men choose to flirt with/date them.
For the guy, he's just making certain he doesn't get rejected by talking to an average/ugly woman. I know because more than one has told me this.
But the woman ends up thinking that she really IS "hot stuff'.
Oh damn. Once again I'm commenting on things that don't _personally_ concern me.
I'm done.
@@dustinmaxwell259 yeah agree but not everything should be taken seriously
That girl looked fine so yeah
My niece is native American and she got a modeling contact and in less than a year she's done two different Vogue covers. It's 100% because she's an incredible beautiful and native
Name ?
Uh..maybe because she's beautiful but native people do not get privilage for being native
@@cheikhnadesri2989 Quannah Chasinghorse I'm pretty sure
@@babyvanderwoodsen shes not bad looking. Cute
My pretty privilege story: in a Burger King drive through, I got my order faster than usual. Take that nerds, aspire to be like me.
Sigma male grindset
@@jeezyj6697 you can bet your left nut that I am
She had a level of confidence that is astronomical. God bless. I think we also need to acknowledge that body size plays a part too. Some big girls are pretty in the face but their bodies aren't generally accepted. I've seen big girls lose weight and gain "pretty privilege" being skinny doesn't always equal pretty privilege but it can add points.
And it's likewise sad that we keep on shaming people for having preferences and being honest about it. Why should I accept as an intimate partner someone who is -in most cases with fat and obese people- unhealthy by choice and lifestyle?
Even as friends you know they will not be able to share many aspects of your life and hobbies and some of their habits will be incompatible. You ever gone hiking with fat/obese people? It's not pleasant for an in shape person. Even just having a stroll in the city centre becomes dramatic.
Indeed, I think being thin is probably more important in our society than almost anything. Although some girls seem too get away with just having a pretty face, its rarer.
I really don't like the terms skinny and/or thin to describe people who are plus sized. Thin/skinny is unhealthy. Being within a healthy weight range is not unhealthy. All this said, you're absolutely right
@@yoogeo1 wait, could you explain more with the skinny is unhealthy. I’m skinny and healthy. Or do you mean like underweight?
@@lauravergot9995 I've gone on a hike with both skinny and fat people and you'd be surprised that the skinny person wanted to give up walking way before the fat person did. Just cause they are skinny doesn't mean they are in shape.
Tis' true my friends. I went from being considered plain to being relatively attractive in my early adult years. The way people interact with you changes. You're no longer invisible. People notice you. They want to be around you, they assume you're extroverted, they are nicer and more willing to help. At first it was a true horror story for a anxious wreck like me. lmao
It actually takes a concious effort and a certain amount of willpower for a man to ignore a woman he finds attractive. Soo uh yeah. It's certainly true for me.
@@moonknight4053 growing up 🙄
Your a baddie for sure
"They're basically furniture." lmao I'm dead. And it didn't even feel disrespectful. lol
I remember that when in my twenties and thirties I thought people in general were so nice...I was always smiled at, had doors opened, etc. Fast forward...after life hit me hard....walking to a door to go into target with my overweight, makeup free, horribly clothed body and a guy who just held the door for his wife looked back at me and looked me up and down and then let the door go to shut in my face.
I hope that event didn't make u hate all men afterwards lol
you could just be insecure
@@adrianramirez6848 no, that's just one of quite a few things that I observed were quite different after my looks changed. When someone else acts like that they are the ones with a problem not me. Legitimate possibility though.
@@cindyleastorch194 ok fair enough.
@Top Lobster men always like to look at muscular men regardless
As much as there is a pretty privilege, there is also an "ugly" curse.
People who get picked on, judged, dismissed for their presence or opinion simply or mostly due to the fact of being "ugly" or physically unattractive.
Often times when a woman gets approched by an unattractive man, all of a sudden he is labeled as "creepy" in her eyes, even when his approach, confidence and body language are similar to an attractive person.
If this approach happens at work, it becomes sexual harrasment.
If you are ugly and you smile at a very young kid or baby you become a suspected pedo lol
Or you do not get a job for the fact of being unatractive as well, this can happen too, and the list goes on...
Obviously when all these things happen that's how some people lose confidence, and look indeed "creepy" or "weird" by way of being socially awkward.
Not telling a personal story here, i happen to be average looking (for the most part lol ) but simply based on my personal observation around me and of people i know, looks matter guys, it is your responsability to appear at your best possible in certain set ups to get what you want.
I think it's worth making a video on its own as a next topic.
Keep up the great work la famille. Peace !
Great points. The curse is far worse than you described it tho. Thinly veiled hostility from the other gender is par for the course. Or, overtly being utterly ignored when a
@@theorganicway2go It can be worse for some indeed, i tried to keep it a little bit conservative. I just didn't want my post to appear as a call for self pity to people who do not have their way in life or with the ladies.
Obviously nature can be cruel to some regarding physical attributes, but at the same time, i've seen some unattractive people not making a single effort to better their appearance or work on their social skills as a way of balancing things out. A lot of unattractive people can also on top of their "curse" dress poorly, be overweight, as if the juice is not worth the squeeze to work on themselves, and they wonder why they do not attract anyone around them, except for people of similar condition.
@@mindfulnessnow3094 Quite true. As for myself, I have achieved a pretty high level of bodymaxxing and fitness. Heres the fun part: I ll be running at the beach, and I know well that I look great from a distance. The ladies will sidle their way toward me quite obviously on an intercept course to check me out. It is when I reach 10 feet away from them that they turn away suddenly and wont respond to my "hey". Little do they know and never will I tell that Im quite well off too. Peace and freedom from that pretty trash does bear the price of ostracization.
Interesting and I can definitely see that. Can unattractive women be considered creepy too if they show interest in a man? Or are men flattered none the less?
@@veronicaana I am not sure, i guess so. But conventionally speaking, men show interest by approaching women which is riskier in terms of potential rejection, while it is rarely the opposite. Women show interest for men differently in more subtle ways like their body language which makes them less prone to look "creepy". Just a guess.
Pretty privilege intrigues me the most when people who are pretty AND interesting are seen as more interesting and if you're not as pretty you have to work twice as hard to capture the same amount of attention. Like an attractive person who paints is basically a winner and if they weren't attractive they'd need to paint waaaaaaaaaay better than they do to get the same amount of attention.
EDIT: For those missing the larger point I'm making. Good looking people can generally can get away with less effort than others. I remember in elementary school teacher after teacher picked me to star in acting roles without even asking if I was better than other kids. It was automatic for them. They just saw me and went "perfect." The same goes for people we consider "cool". An actor like say Emilia Clarke is liked and gets accolades, media views and mentions just for smiling while another say Seal (the UK singer) most definitely wouldn't be able to charm most with just a smile. Mind you, humans also pick what food to eat based on how good it looks. Or what charities to donate too depending on how cute their cancer patients are. The instinct to be attracted by Google looking things, transcends art or people etc.
Sure. People support who they want to sleep with. It’s nature
@@vanderumd11
This is why as humans we need to either collectively leave this raw deal, or find ways to modify and oppose nature as much as we can.
Otherwise we continue to be a failure as a species and allow needless suffering to occur.
@@PuertoRicanGrinderX what?! 🤣🤣🤣 Fucking goof
@@Buflo_Red "hahaha xd lol dude omg hahahaha lmao!!!!"
I can tell your intelligence is super low.
+This Sucks. Not going to happen. That is literally hard wired into humanity
The way the second girl just got on TikTok to troll the pretty privilege phenomenon 🤣🤣🤣
Points for the sense of humour 😄😄🤣. I like her.🤣🤣
Especially the breathing thing she does at the end🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️
It's never being photographed. It's classmates and colleagues being chosen to speak at public events, even when you are objectively more qualified. It's having to choose your words and mannerisms with surgical precision, just so that people will tolerate you. It's having to accept that the best it's going to get is private acknowledgment. It's being forgotten.
Girl with over weight physique: breathes heavily and laughs
Aba: finally a worthy opponent our battle will be legendary!!!
It is true that the world treats you differently for simply having a nice face, specially if you’re a woman. People automatically assume you’re a good person so you make friends easily, men are willing to do favours for you and you’re offered more opportunities in careers and you’re most likely to have empathisers after committing a crime because society thinks that people with pretty faces are not capable of evil.
The last part played out in my country. This pretty girl killed her billionaire sugar daddy and the public was torn between condemning her and feeling sorry for her cause she was pretty and looked innocent in the face. Until recently, people started talking about how she had dupes people and put others in trouble in the past. She's probably part of a syndicate and worse than we thought.
Interesting point, I think it's called The Halo Effect. Its basically where we see a pretty face and assume they can't do anything wrong cause they look like a "good person".
@@greenkittyaqua we associate beauty with innocence and visa versa.
that last one is pretty galling but true, or they assume you are a *victim* like that canadian woman who killed her sister and other teenagers with her husband got a deal then the police found the tapes of her doing that horrible stuff after the deal and shes been a free woman for over a decade protected with 3 children.
@@alexandratavares6612you cute, lemme get yo number.
Pretty privilege exists.
I had this most amazing penpal who told me all sorts of caring nice things ...
But a few times I posted not soo flattering images of myself and he didn't even respond to me ...
I witnessed one just today. A nursing mum (who's pretty) asked a female security guard to help with her bags, the guard ignored but about 4 men almost fell over each other trying to help her with her 2 bags. It was so funny and obvious that an entire line of us that witnessed it basically started laughing at the men. It was so funny. And real
And that's probably the flip side to pretty privilege, you start to feel the envy of other members of your gender who are not considered pretty. It's like; worship from the opposite sex and jealousy/envy from same sex
Ha ha. That’s one reason why I like how men behave. They are often easy to read. They like something, they show it. Ha ha
@@empressu7134 yh, but it was more funny tho. Mostly because they looked like animals when called for food....😂
@@smpiano6605 loool. First of all, calm down. Both males and females laughed at the situation. Secondly, the point isn't that they tried to help her, the funny point was the lot of them almost fell over themselves trying to help her. That was the funny bit. As for all those pick up artists, they can calm themselves down. You can teach not to be a simp but to teach a man not to help a woman who's obviously in need of help? Really? I am female too and I've helped both males and females that have needed help before. People have helped me as well, no big deal. Kindness makes the world go round, man
The security guard sounds like a douche and I am glad those men were tripping over themselves trying to help her.
"Being an ugly woman is like being a man. You're gonna have to work" ~ Tosh.0
Haaa that's such a good one.
@neilorourke71 not really. There's always a man that is willing to sleep with a woman that is not good lookin. I always felt like woman have it easier rather they look good or not. There are some men that don't care about looks when it comes to sex. As long as they getting some. Some guys sleeping with a beautiful woman is the prize; but, I actually know some men that having sex with a woman period is the prize; rather she looks good or not. For them its not about sex with beautiful woman; its about enjoying sex period. Thats why I said they have it easier than men because; the average woman don't think like that. I remember the older guys in my neighborhood was young would have a phrase they would quote about a woman's vagina;" (blank) don't have no face".
@Eric Nunya I got to edited it; I didn't articulate what I meant right lol. Thanks for bringing it to my awareness.
@@OjukwuIsaac okay but a woman's priority is not to have sex with whatever man she wants so what are you saying? The OG comment was along the lines like you have to work harder in life if you're not attractive
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They don't call it "winning the genetic lottery" for nothing. Enjoy it while you can, because physical beauty doesn't last forever.
Some results from that privilege can last a lifetime. Just ask a beautiful woman who married well or was able to utilize her looks to gain that money through opportunities as a result (as well as other factors) of that beauty.
@@CZnLB There's a reason that rich people have an overwhelmingly high divorce rate. Once the age kicks in and the looks disappear the pretty people get dumped, though with the millions/billions that they get from divorce if they were smart enough to lock the rich person in.
They're still benefiting in life immensely. Just the social interaction you get from being pretty is enough to get the ball rolling for you. Someone who was ugly throughout their whole life will have way less social contacts and self confidence than the opposite.
@@ferdtheterd3897 Kim k is a good example. Her looks are decline but she has already benefited.
@@yaz2928 still benefit in a divorce.
I’ve got “pretty privilege” and I’m a dude. Girls hit on me growing up, I didn’t have to know them, didn’t have to try. I got asked to homecoming my freshman year by a girl I literally didn’t know and I’d just moved to that city. It’s weird.
I'm a dude too, but not that attractive and my pretty bros keep blaming my non self confidence for being less lucky. I wish they realized more my non self confidence is actually a consequence and not a cause. And when I'm actually self confident (which happens too quite often but is never remembered) and women still treat me as a creep my "bros" agree with them not knowing they sometimes do/say exactly the same things and being valued for it. I've learned mw not to be around such toxic bros or women. But the world suddenly became so much smaller.
And I'm glad to see one pretty dude comment on this too for once and is in the know about it.
PS This is not only with women, but pretty strong and obvious when so.
It’s a weird thing like I said. As a guy especially, I expected to have to try. Babysitter hit on me, “dated” a high school girl in middle school, friends sisters would hit on me; got used to it.
Not sure how old you are, but I assume older women will be less shallow. Good luck.
I'm in my fourties now..and though you would expect that from older women, don't count on it. I think, except for maybe getting even more toxic with escaping beauty, age is weirdly enough not always an insight eye opener..But then again, I have met very old women who talk about this weakness. So maybe they have to get completely past their (standard) prettyness or maybe those old women were never (standard) pretty and always knew... Treading slippery slopes now.. Anyway..I hope you can find a ..euh rock.. between the pearls.. (if that purposeful violation of saying makes sense..🤣)
PS I am not looking anymore. I focus on being happy without a partner and the occasional romantic escapade..(very occasional..😜)..but thanks.
Ugh. I witnessed pretty privilege in highschool. These 2 girls auditioned to be in the school band and I thought the far more talented one only made it as a understudy because she was not as pretty as the other candidate 😥. I hated hearing the main girl sing when I knew the understudy had far better singing talent
Most of the time I feel pretty attractive. And then I hear stories like this. Granted, I'm a man. But still...
😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Just think the people who own the mansion the girls stay at are probably the rich club owners who let them stay there. Pretty privilege exists because of the high pedestal men put on attractive women. It's not the ladies fault imo
Yeah there aren't that many women willing to pay to see pretty men at clubs.
There’s feeling attractive and then there’s “just is” attractive.
Pretty privilege is real for men too, all of the relationships that i had, the girl dms and chased me first
"At that club, the girls are fries. Consistent" When Preach said that I lost it 😂
People will go way the hell out of their way to help if you're pretty and people are way nicer in general.
My daughter is a stunner and charismatic as sin, she's been getting free shit since before she can remember; free plushies, sunglasses, cash, clothes... people rain down their goodness on the attractive and the charismatic.
I normally wouldn't complain about nature but it's the domino effect of all this that gets me. Being rewarded early on will make people care more about their appearance and act more confidently, which makes them even more attractive, while the opposite is also true. People need to be more aware of this and tone down their attractiveness biases because it's negatively affecting people, especially children.
@@richardzazanis4764 I have seen this argument used to damn achievement quite a few times, setting the bar as low as possible so that effort itself is abhorrent. We should always chase the best within ourselves and encourage the best efforts of children regardless of their physical beauty or charm.
@@stephanies9689 Especially since true value isn't as important as perceived value. We don't have to change we have to change what people think. There are a billion ways to take advantage of this and I wish those who are perceived by others as having low value would realize how subjective it is and how much they can change it. But it's almost unnatural to chase a reward that seems out of reach. I wish more people understood how obtainable it really is if you work for it, besides those constantly rewarded without much effort.
I guess I never thought of it as privledge. There is always fine print. I learned real quick that people don't do things in order to be nice to you. They do it and expect some type of exchange. No, it's not always sex, but it's something. You are not seen as a person, but as someone who can provide something for them. And when he said "a piece of furniture" he hit the nail on the head. I don't care how much money you get, that is all you are, and this honey didn't play that. I know my self worth and it's certainly more than a chair.
A man success is as equal as a woman's beauty
Men treat beautiful girls better
Girls treat rich men better
very shallow worldview of reality
@@OwnGrid the key word is reality. In western culture, what she said is absolutely true to a high extent.
Yup, pretty much
A girl's beauty expires and mans success doesn't. After a while that beautiful girl gets boring if she has no character or anything else to offer.
And they both are always miserable, unhappy, unsatisfied and disappointed with their lives regardless cuz none of those things can fully satisfy their wants nor needs at all. And no matter the cash or the looks you can still get abused and mistreated the same way as anyone else can, so they both are meaningless
"They're basically furniture"
This reminded me of the movie Soylent Green, where there are women actually called that.
Yeah but in SG the girl actually came with the apartment. She was part of the decor.
You're the GOAT
Ahhhhhh, men of culture.
Pretty privilege is a double edge sword. While it has benefits it has few bad benefit but the few bad ones can be worst and blow out of proportion . Just like they said in the video. You will get all types of attention and some don’t come with good intentions. All it takes is one crazy person and now see these stories more and more.. I’ve always thought of survival when society fall I would not travel with an attractive woman. (Succeed where book of Eli failed at) Attention sometimes bring trouble .
Exactly! Stalkers, crazy jealous boyfriends, being used for sex/making their ex jealous, constant sexual harassment since I was 12. When tf are these things worth it for freebies?? I feel safest and the most comfortable when I gain weight and don’t dress up. Yes! I have intentionally gained weight not to be attractive to men. Then when I meet a guy I like I loose it start attracting him physically.
Of course it has downsides, but statistically, you will live longer and happier life as an attractive person. You are not immune to acts of violence as an unattractive person either, but your day-to-day life is guaranteed to be harder.
Pretty privilege is unfortunately real :( As much as I am ashamed that I would rather have sexual relations with an attractive person rather than a subjectively unattractive person, I can't help it. Its called natural selection. We shouldn't treat anyone differently based on how they look, but we do it anyways. I'm 16 so I've never had a bf, but I do read alot of romance novels, and I always imagine prince charming to be handsome, not ugly. That's just the way it is :(
very wise of you to recognize that in yourself!
You don’t even have to look like a supermodel for you to experience pretty privilege sometimes. If you dress nice, smell nice, and have an ideal body type oh and are youthful, you’ll get treated differently. This applies to both men and women.
Women much more than men
Yeah, a lot of women that I went to graduate school with were pretty average and they still had men buying them things and got free things. Being a woman is such a privilege.
Doesn’t get applied to men. Men don’t get anything really for free. Older or rich women don’t pay the same because they think their presence is good enough as payment versus older or rich men.
Yup. It's true.
@@krissysherrell6625 This couldnt be farther from true, very attractive men absolutely have pretty privilege. Women will say F it and approach you, a complete stranger will pay for ur food and so on. Men absolutely have pretty privilege
See how Aba and Preach both acknowledge both sides of being pretty. Brings affluence, brings annoyance. This is what we need. More people willing to admit that with privilege, or advantage, or luck, comes a downside.
Some pretty girls from romania were offered a similar deal
They spent the summer in a ship's cargo hold, crowded like sardines and then they had to "work off" their debt
@@hardplans2366 I think, (I hope), we’re in agreement here. Beautiful women, strong men. Both have privileges, both will be able to tell you the pitfalls. That said, despite me not often agreeing with modern feminists, I absolutely think that when exploitation targets women, it hurts them much more.
but the downside does not outweigh the upside
It was refreshing to hear. as someone who has been told I’m attractive, I don’t receive much of any kind of privilege that comes along with it. mostly just being harassed or followed home
@@Symora I too have had stray cats and dogs follow me home as well
I can't keep them all
Someone mentioned how it starts young. Reminds me of this interview from many years ago when Megan Fox was the "it" girl. She said that when she was in like middle school or highschool or something her teacher always placed her in the center + front of her school choir performances (and I think also getting solos) despite not even being a good singer. These are her words. Yeah, it starts young. And even way younger than that. Idk but that interview always stuck with me for some reason. Now I know why: it proved that pretty privilege does exist despite so many people gaslighting you about it.
Very true. Also, I think it’s worth mentioning, because it has been my experience that men like a variety of “types,” that working in a club or just being paid or compensated to be there and look cute is something that can typically happen for any young woman with a pretty face and a feminine body (small, medium, or big bodies).
It's just the way things are. Similar to how people have an advantage being born in a very wealthy family. The connections, the capital, the environment, it's not what common folks have. It's not wise to compare because there's no point. Just focus on bettering your situation with what you have and average can become above-average, and it's good enough.
Yes bro. 💯 Agree.
best answer ever, just better yourself instead of looking at other people's life
Wealth can be a bit different as it depends on how it was acquired
@@suzygirl1843 but their lives are still way better
@@suzygirl1843 Behave like a normal person, you will get treated like one. Act 'black' and people will let you know.
The second girl is popular on TikTok and she cracks me up with her trolling 😂😂😂😂😂
The bigger girl who claims guys are intimidated?
what is her name on tiktok?
TikTok name please.
Tik Tok Name Please
lust4lyfe101 its literally in the video are yall okay
Yes. Thank you! Communication is vital for the health of a relationship. Not all conversations are going to be pleasant, but isn't it better to know than be in the dark? You can't expect a person to want to stay with you if all you want to do is suffer alone. Good communication requires trust. Not communicating, not opening up, not sharing your struggles and pain with your partner, to me, is the same as saying "I don't trust you.". Good on him for taking the step to open up and trust his wife. I can only hope that she decided to trust him in the end.
I definitely benefited from pretty privilege when I was in high school and the beginning of college. I had lots of guys who did many things for me but once I converted to Islam and started dressing modestly and wearing hijab everything changed. I dont mind because I was never superficial anyway. I really value people who are kind, honest, loyal and funny. My husband is not super good looking (but he's not butt ugly either) but he is the nicest sweetest most romantic man I've ever met. He is very religious and he honors God. Thats what matters to me.
hey sis
That was cute. God willing, may our creator continue to bless you and all of his creations.
Mashallah
I wear hijaab but I feel cheated when I get pretty priveledge.I want to earn a place in the world because of my good qualities, my skills ,intelligence and integrity.
@@tayseerar-rahmaan3973 it's the face
Had a dream that preached was addressing a crowd of break dancers in Canada while standing on a ledge outside of his window on the third floor. He could have easily fallen but for some psychotic reason he was just chilling addressing the crowd like he was black Jesus or something. Very disturbing
It's a sign.
What??? 😂😂😂
you weird bro
'Kaaaay🤔
Lol
This occurs in the court rooms also btw, I watched a documentary on it. people with less aesthetically pleasing faces received significantly longer jail time for the identical crime. when a privilege can circumvent law its a pretty powerful privilege.
It's also why Ted Bundy kept getting away too, the cops literally thought he looked to good to be a serial killer. People accused him and the police just went, no only ugly creeps are serial killers he is to handsome and charming.
I wonder if they were the same race tho
@@bman21000 wow.
@@alicia_nicole Statistically speaking, from a demographics analysis of the USA during the time of his murders (the 1970's), I would assume they were... because the USA was roughly 85% white-American... it would be silly to bet against odds where 85% of the variable is of one group.
Look up “the theory of atavism”
I like how you guys addressed that being attractive has its downsides, it can be bad both ways.
I'm glad to be slightly above average in attractiveness. I have never had trouble finding dates. But I also don't have to worry about someone wanting to be with me *just* because of my looks.
It allows me to have deeper relationships with a decent dating pool to select from.
It's real...when I was younger my dentist offered to pay for my tuition. Declined it. My mom taught me that a guy never does something just out of the goodness of his heart.
That's such a horrible lesson to teach someone. Regardless of what that dentist did, it's really unfair to most guys when you paint all of us with such a broad brush.
Your dentist? This is so creepy! OMG
@@stockyzeus I think she meant if the guy is way older, since most of them do have an agenda (I've experienced it and it's really disgusting). But if you're in a relationship with a guy then that's not an issue. Personally, I never accept gifts from men I'm not interested in just in case they think it could be a way to 'buy' me.
Shit if I could of slung dick to pay my tuition I’d have to really consider it.
@@stockyzeus we live in the real world. She was gonna have to give some up.
This goes both ways for men and women.. Ashton Kutcher is a prime example.. He was discovered sitting in a bar just because he was tall and attractive.. while his twin brother with CP has to bust his ass working for Transamerica.. very different lives all based on looks...
What do you mean CP???
whats cp
@@cloyyster778 cerebral palsy
Cerebal palsey
@@migueljuarez6788 Cerebral Palsy
I literally just clicked on this video by chance & you both are so well spoken and funny !!!! New sub
That joint by "Ghen" is pure heat! I appreciate the plug in!
Watch the movie Soylent Green and then the furniture statement takes on deeper meaning.
Oh hey Kevin
@@haimoo7757 Oh Hi Mark
Doesn't Clockwork Orange have human furniture in it.
@@jmann9232 lmao
My boyyyy!!!!!!!! The man!!!!
Women: We are not objects
Rich guy: Want to stand around at a club and look pretty?
Women: 💃🏾💁🏼♀️💅
Exactly 🤣
Women aren't some uniform united entity, just like men aren't. There are certainly women who think that way, but there also a good chunk of women who don't.
@@yan7655 bullshit. Ever been on Instagram?
@@2345ronaldinho Some women who think that way are on Instagram. Not every girl that is on that platform is like that
there's a difference b/w being objectified and getting paid to stand around and look pretty for money
Didn't know Aba could do such a good impression of Fresh.
The music at the end is GORGEOUS 😍😍
Pretty privilege is real in both genders. I remember the prisoner with the amazing jawline, and the murderer who looks like a TikToker girls want released for no other reason other than he's cute (he took out a kid too but whatever)
the mugshot guy literally ended up having a kid with a billionaire heiress lol
Exactly!! And also, how do you think people like Bundy and Dahmer were able to get so many people, they weren’t “pretty” in my opinion but many thought they were handsome, esp. Bundy, and they helped him get more victims.
yeah, he was street racing and accidentally hit a mother and daughter. But he was handsome so people were like "But he's young, it was an accident, pleanty of people street race, he didn't mean to kill them, his whole life shouldn't be ruined because of it, etc etc." Anyway I think he was sentenced for 3rd degree murder.
Ted Bundy was able to "get" most of his victims b.cuz he was handsome. He became ever more popular & desirable After he was caught
it is far different for girls and guys.
I feel honestly its easier to get ahead w beauty than education alot of times
Beauty + education and the world is yours
it has always been that way, for women especially. in our times its astronomically truer because of modern culture, media and global reach
Of course.
But only for the first two maybe three decades of a lifetime. Beauty, particularly beauty in women start decreasing in their late twenties. That's when education (academic and politeness) kick in, and dedication, hard work or a career starts paying off.
@@JorgeTorrespluspage 🌼Kim Kardashian is in her 40’s now. She has pretty privilege. She still gets men trying to date her. Who want to do things for her.🌼
Hey guy, I like listening to your reactions, it definitely adds a bit of sense to several topics on the internet. I wonder if you ever talked about the contrasting messages in social media (hypocrisy) about body positivity while being bombarded with "glow ups" and template bodies/faces?
Absolutely LOVE the song at the end!! ❣️
Yo Aba is killing me with this interpretation he's doing of this girl.
That’s a character he does all the time bro
Yeah, it's not interpretation of that particular girl. He's not making fun of her. It's just his ugly face he makes. It just represents a caricature of an ugly girl or anyone.
I didn't even say he was making fun of her. I mostly just said it was interpretation because right after he saw her making that noise he did it. Just chill out guys it's all fun.
i'm tellin you bruh
It is his character from his own channel 🤣
I've never heard of furniture girls, but it makes total sense. That's worse than lady's night where the drinks are half off only for them. It makes me even more glad I don't ever go to clubs.
Read and watch Soylent Green.
Half of? When I was growing up in my country it was free!
Big facts
I mean it just makes sense from a business standpoint. People are going to use whatever methods they can to make their business as profitable as they can.
Or free entry for women or you have to bring a girl to get in💀
Love your music selection!
Love watching your channel. Speaking on facts and touching base on the bad that comes with the good! Keep it coming because I live for the side notes! 😂🙌🏽😂🙌🏽
The downsides of being attractive are like the downsides of being rich
Right .. you are harassed very often
I'd disagree
So true.
There are no down sides.
I put that on the same par as "first world problems"
A pretty colleagues of mine had her entire mortgage paid for by the CEO just because.
A guy paid off a 4 year computer science degree for a girl and she didn't even smash or give him hugs in public
That is nuts. Had to be a transaction there.
There is always a transaction.
Feet pics.
Underwear.
Etc.
@@everyone1liesd459 it’s nice when they don’t have to do anything grubby but I’d worry about needing to pay back one day 😂
Well damm sounds like a Me3 in the future.
Just found your channel an its amazing thank you both, been stuck at home with kidney stones killing me so been watching all the vids.
So happy you told women to be mindful. Nothing is ever completely free
Duuude. You know you're a 5 when you get treated like you're invisible. I can't count the number of times I've been in a group of my friends and guys would approach us and I would be COMPLETELY ignored. I got so used to it after a while that once I would see a group of guys approach, I would just be like, "Well, it's my cue. G'night! Have a great time!" Then I'd go home and play my games. lol But I've had guys completely fall for me afterward once they get to know me, but they completely ruined it because they exposed just how shallow they are by chasing after all of my other friends because they are really gorgeous girls. I'm not going to hold that against them. The thing I hate is once these guys finally do talk to me they say shit like "Wow, you actually really cool." It's like they finally wake up and realize that you can connect with a woman on a different level than just a physical one. 5:22 Sister from another mister lol
Honestly, if you consider yourself a 5, you can probably improve your makeup game to the point of bumping yourself up to a 7. Anything 7 and over is considered pretty privilege. If you have that opportunity, why not go for it? You only live once. If people are going to be horrible human beings anyway, might as well take advantage of the situation.
I get you, most of my friends are damn handsome and I'd just be average looking, am I taller than them? Yes, but people forget they're other factors to being physically attractive as well. For me, I was obese, had acne, and looked like I haven't slept in days (depression is a bitch) I would say I'm a solid 5, but when I changed everything I mentioned, I got bumped into a 8.
You know when women say men are not entitled to their attention? I agree.
But it works the other way around. Women are not entitled to mens attention, love, etc.
Looks are the first thing we get to see from someone. It's not about being shallow...
As a man, I had to put A LOT of work to succeed with women.... Game, gym, etc...
Question is: why didn't you put up the work and tried to hit on men who you are interested in? Why this expectation for men hitting on you and when they don't, you call them "shallow"?
shallow? they have to keep trying to til they find the right one. if one girl rejects, we move on to the next one.
@@CapitiStudios I don't think I am entitled to their attention. If they don't want to pay attention to me, then that's fine with me. I could care less. You do you boo boo, I'll take care of me. I just don't care to be disrespected and treated like I'm invisible. What you saw at 5:22 and after. That's what you call being comfortable with who you are and being able to laugh at yourself. :)
You guys are hilarious. Hands down my favorite channel right now!
Jealousy is a terrible thing..
It rots the soul..
Bless her heart! That’s what I call “not waiting on anyone to build her up”!!! Awesome
I was watching Batman: Year One the other day. At one point Bruce Wayne legit pays a woman to keep him company while Comissioner Gordon questions him. Even Batman knew what's up.
🦇🚶
To be fair Bruce wants to maintain the image of being a billionaire playboy that spends his time and money on hot women.
Gotta have an obvious reason for all those money going out of Bruce's bank account.. Only the Batfam can know about the Batcave.
That's how big boys role sometimes lol
On today's episode of what object are we, we are furniture and paintings! Whooooo!! Hahah. Love you guys though.
Aba be having me rollin with these smirks dawg 😂😂😂
I worked as a model (back when I was young), and I always approached every job with the mentality, "I am a walking hanger."
Now you say it and feminists get all pissy 🤷♀️🤦♀️
Well that's true. You weren't a frikken naked model, you were selling products whether clothing, jewelry, handbags etc. If people don't want to buy the stuff you are advertising then you didn't the job very well. Feminists need to chill. And I doubt most of these ladies giving you a hard time had fugly, short, obese boyfriends.
5:21 . Buy this girl a 🍺. You know that it's the right thing to do.😉
I think it really depends on the age of the feminist. As a former security guard at a college I can tell you that the feminist organizations on campus vehemently recruit pretty girls as influencers. There are so many "influencers" on UA-cam and the internet who are backed by non-profit woke/feminist organizations.
The same way that the “hot singles in your area” ads have existed for years, the pretty club girls are just the living embodiment of that
Ive noticed that based on how my personality is at the time, I either receive very bad comments or actions, or very good ones. I have gotten many gifts from people online as a kid, and man just based on my personality (even from cod players, teachers, the principe... One of them bought my PS4 5 years ago that I still use to this day).
The thing is, it's not just "prettiness", it's "radiance" to. Radiant, attractive beauty? Apply those concepts to personality and you will reap the "Similar" benefits.
Being nice or decent is an ok, standard trait, not a good one. It's just that it's not common among many people that make people believe it is "good". Now what's "good"/gold standard is radiant personalities. Nice people may get nothing, maybe worse. A radiant personality that is nice gets it all.
A girl being treated like she is invisible is the biggest blessing ever. She is safe from douches and heartbreaks which are a given. And ends up with the one mate whom she is meant for. The end.
Loooool no that's not how it works, you have the down bad guys that will only use you for sex but act like they like you because they know you aren't used to male attention and thus you can never really tell if a guy genuinely likes you, also the general anxiety associated with being in a relationship where the guy will leave you for someone prettier or be ashamed of being with you
Agree 100% with OP
@@tyeecehensley4282 that's so true
Yes that's me I wanna stay in the back now-a-days 💌
Makes me think of Juvenal writings. Well said.
High School me used to hate. Adult me is just jealous.
Lmao 🤣
2 days ago impossible while they just posted the video
@@carljephteanisjean1560 Patreon supporters get to see stuff early, my guy.
[Read a chicken soup story once in HS where a hot chick got in a terrible car accident and was horribly disfigured resultantly, she only grew a personality after she lost her vanity. She took time away to heal but returned to finish her education like any normal coma patient, but when she was asked to speak to at graduation she was so transformed by the loss of her pretty-privilege that she inspired many to treat with life less about looks and more about value. As for myself, not even on that scale but it did help me focus on what truly is important in life. Sorry for the text-wall, hope more hearts are touched enough to return to humanity! Be well y'all!✌🏼💊]
😂😂😂
Ghen has such an ethereal voice. I think she sang in "Mi Morena" too🥺
Same thing for me. And I'm a dude. Junior school I wasn't pretty attractive and my teeth had issues. Got braces to sort my teeth out and puberty kicked in upon joining high school. The drastic change in the way girls were talking to me and the attention they sought from me was very pleasantly surprising yet made me want to know myself more. I had to convince myself that I'm not just what they see. Learnt a lot on how respect can be so superficial.
6:58 if you can laugh at yourself for being ugly, that's good. Have the confidence to know what you are, and be confident in it. Don't let anyone use it against you.
Self-Confidence can go a long way.
Shes not ugly, she just wasnt exceptionally beautiful nor did she embody society's beauty standards.
@linkone89 ikr
@@TomikaKelly so that means she's ugly.
@@TomikaKelly WE are the society and therefore we make the standards... Simple test, do you want to look like her or let's say the blonde at the beginning of the video ? Stop fooling yourself..
@@TomikaKelly don't mince words.
Looking to be friends with someone not because of their character or they make you laugh or they have similar interests but because they are attractive…
I heard this one girl say that she loves being friends with “baddies” so they can be “baddies together” and that was it…
Wow smh that's not a real friendship. In my opinion. 🤷🏾♀
😐 smh ...the messed up thing is ..they'll probably end up hating each other ....trying to compete with each other
A “baddie” Are you sure she was looking for an attractive friend or partner in crime?
I believe men do this too, they just aren't as blatant with it. Also, some men won't be friends with "unattractive" women. I never met a dude with a girl best friend that wasn't physically attractive.
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 LOL she did mean she wanted to be friends with pretty people. “Pretty people” because everyone has their own standards and views on what’s attractive. But it was weird the way she explained it. They wanted to be friends with attractive people, so they can lift each other up and be hot together.
That reminded me of the tier list of privileges you guys did. I loved that video.
It's definitely a thing. I've gotten out of multiple speeding tickets because of my looks. There was one point where I had to talk with the local sheriff for a class project and he would not stop talking about how he thought I was attractive. He gave me a literal "get out of jail free" card that had his phone number on it.
Look. I ain't even mad at her. I don't know anyone that wouldn't take that deal. I'd be furniture twice a week for a few hours if I got to live rent free in a mansion in LA.
Yea, can't knock her. Can't say I don't have jus a shred of jealousy in me when I hear stories like this tho lol. Especially as a dude, we don't get half the social opportunities ur average looking woman gets. But it is what it is, jus gotta accept how the game is n keep pushin
There’s are some girls who don’t need that deal lol.
ua-cam.com/video/5dxmXA6m89k/v-deo.html🤣
LA is trash
@@thetruthsayer8347 Most girls don't need it, but any sane person would accept to live with their friend in a mansion rent free if you'd only have to go to the club every night for it.