My Holes Are On The Internet & MEN INSECURE ABOUT IT
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Look if you are “disgusted” with the idea of dating a porn star then you’re seeing things with a mysoginistic lens. Look, I BET most of y’all in the comments wouldn’t be so harsh on a male porn star if they were saying the same shit as her. Some of y’all love Andrew Tate and prefer going out with inexperienced girls because of your insecurities, and the idea of a woman with experience and past relationships is intimidating. Those don’t affect me, but dating a porn star goes one step past that I feel for a lot of guys, which is why they are “disgusted”. I wouldn’t categorized my personal disinterest with dating porn stars as disgust, that’s her job, I respect that. I don’t care how many, or how big she’s taken, my problem comes from the most intimate parts of the relationship being so trivial to her, and that wouldn’t be appealing to me. I don’t blame her as an individual, her job requires that and that’s her prerogative. I think most of the negative feelings that come out of the idea of dating a porn star is a little jealousy, and also being inconvenienced/annoyed by the stipulations of that potential relationship. Things that are unconventional make a lot of people uncomfortable, and this is SO unconventional that it turns a lot of people off, including myself. The terms of service do not make the service tolerable.
Pin of shame smh
If you think anyone here likes Andrew Tate then I don't think you know Aba and Preach's fan base. 😂
Edit: I may have been wrong 😅 but I don't think listening to and putting to practice advice given by someone makes you necessarily a fan of them. You can dislike the nature of someone but still see value in their advice.
Im slimy and obese poochie poochie poo
Dude, there's experience and porn. 4 people versus hundreds of people. Not the same!
bro stfu lol nothing but blatant assumptions in this comment
Her: These are my conditions for a man that should love me unconditionally. Men that date me need to get over their insecurities but I won’t date a man in my industry because I get insecure, jealous and toxic.
A relationship with this woman would be hell on earth.
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts..
there's a reason she's in that industry
For strictly educational purposes; I decided to delve into what grade of material this lady could handle. Gentlemen - she is not a novice and nor is she swimming in the shallow end of the pool.
@@butters-vs-chaos Valuable information indeed. Thank you for your service kind stranger.
@@butters-vs-chaos thank you for your service
What she calls insecurity is essentially men being either disgusted or disinterested. But these gals don’t want to say that. The reality is, plenty of guys will mess with her, most don’t want to take her seriously. She labels that insecurity. That is a perfectly valid choice. Most men don’t want a future wife and mother of kids all over the internet getting Bukkake’d, I don’t think that’s controversial. Calling it insecurity absolves her of responsibly and makes it a deficiency on the other person.
Funny part is, a woman like this would be ashamed of anyone knowing she worked a 9-5 job. Wouldn't matter if she was an admin assistant, a cashier, a manager, or whatever - they're more ashamed of having an honest job than they are about showing off their goods for the entire world to see. Talk about backwards thinking.
Welcome to the mantra of women. "Everyone is responsible except for me."
So then it goes the same way otherwise right? A women should also have every right to be disgusted or disinterested in a guy who’s slept with a bunch of women right? I work with reasonably attractive women regularly (I’m a videographer) and it’s led to my partners being insecure or jealous 🤷🏽♂️ thus why I prefer to date in the industry in some form
I believe she’s married and lives in a very nice place, so I don’t think she cares that much.
@@mariopadilla1445 yes a women has right to be disgusted by that.
Women overusing the “insecure” argument makes us all look bad. People are allowed to like what they like and have boundaries. That just makes you a well-adjusted human being.
Correct, but women will always resort to shaming tactics on men to justify their actions, because ya know feminism.
She's talking about the guys she has dated. Those guys knew she did porn and chose to date her anyway. It has nothing to do with boundaries.
I guarantee you that all of you simps in the comments would marry her😂🤦♂️
@@openranks4519 Hell no. Sleep with her for one night, sure. But date or marry her, absolutely not.
When will women stop outsourcing all of their downfalls onto men? It's why us men are simply done. Everything seems to be our fault no matter what. Best option is to totally rid our lives of women.
Men can literally live a happy life alone and single. Women simply cannot. But since women don't wanna listen or at the VERY LEAST stop blaming men. They don't need men around.
Women today are simply grown children. I work with children 5 days a week, disabled children mostly and children are more adjusted than grown women now. It's just, disappointing to us men.
Women dug this hole, men told them not to and got called sexist for it.
Metoo was just a bunch of wrong women shooting themselves in the foot then trippling down on men pulling the trigger. Like tf.
I used to be a stripper. Yes, there are men that won’t date you for doing that work and that’s okay. People are allowed to have their own set of boundaries and make their own choices on what they are comfortable in a relationship. People are allowed to reject you for any reason. No one owes anyone a date. This girl needs to understand this instead of whining about it.
Finally a real woman in the replies with experience. took me a few dozen.. hundreds
Do you think she is thinking that way as some sort of defence mechanism? As in she won’t be admitting that they are the right to refuse her because then she needs to face the real reason of why they refuse to date her.
@@BurriedTruth that is not the case. I just believe purely that no one owes anyone a date. If someone doesn’t want to date a sex worker, that’s their choice. People reject people for weird reasons sometimes and I don’t take it personally if things don’t work out. I’m not going to throw a pity party because someone won’t date me for once being a stripper. It’s a waste of time and won’t help me. And anyways, demanding a date is incel shit. Fuck all that.
@@BurriedTruth girls like that dont have a dad usually in their life to see that a young girl is shamed by all the people around if your daughter is used like a throwaway napkin or piece of toilet paper just to make her income. Sleeping with a lot of people is learned from men who sleep around.. yet women settling down like men who sleep around? Totally they do not.. birth control also made a lot of women realize they get to trick and use more men, when their body is half way turned off and can go from one income earner to the next, just by sleeping around and doing quick films for random dudes money, with no risk
i gotta say i agree
She literally lists off all of these problems dating a “civilian” as insecure. Then goes on to list the same problems when dating another performer in her field. Yet doesn’t label it the same & does mental gymnastics to justify it. When you let people talk for long enough you will realize what they are projecting!!!🗣💯
Is she in the military? why is she referring to people as civilians?
@@NoCommie ikr
Exactly. Anyone making their own definition of something DUMB asf😍😍
what she calls insecurity's she realy means people who think diffirently then her,her body languedge says so much she thinks she is better then allot of other people.
@@NoCommie no she is not. She looks & sounds stupid ass hell saying it. Like I know this first hand.🤣
When women have preferences:
"Yas girl you're a queen!" "You deserve nothing less!" "These guys can't handle you!"
When men have preferences:
"You're insecure!" "That's sexist!" "You're intimidated!"
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You forgot "misogynistic", their favorite one
@@dondiego1141 muh sojiny
Don't forget "small d energy".
Ain’t you dead?
its just gas lighting. What you don't like eating shit? thats just because you're weak 🙄🙄. hahahahaha
As a bald white man I'm disgusted at the insinuation that we're all cucks 😡
As soon as my wife gets back from her daily tennis lesson with her coach Enrique she'll be able to tell you herself how this is a ridiculous statement
Exactly! I'm sure your wife's boyfriend is a cool dude.
Ironically her husband is a bald white dude
Hahahaaa.. dope sense of humor, needed that.
😂😂😂 nice
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When a woman calls a man "insecure" more often than not it means the man has decency and self-respect. It is just that his stance creates insecurity in her.
I couldn’t have said it better 👏.
She’s calling men “insecure”, yet she cares so much about what these people think. Sounds pretty “insecure” to me.
Projection
"I understand it. I'm compassionate of it. It's very hard to date someone who has sex every single day with other people."
She's not calling men insecure to be mean or to say women aren't. She's doing it because she's talking about the difficulties with dating when being in her line of work. Context matters.
She is trying to normalize a behaviour that most people are against. Only because she fucked up herself and is irredeemable. Now she wants to drag all of society down to her level, because misery loves company. She should just date another porn star and be done with it, instead of doing all this complaining about "civilians" not wanting to date her for one reason or another.
But dating other adult co-stars in the same industry is extremely limiting, well whose fault is that? Forcing this "preference" and "insecurities" down people's throats when they have a certain level of standards for themselves, is projecting at its finest.
Honestly, you kinda have to care what your sig other thinks in a relationship lol... however, she has some nerve calling someone else insecure when she and many other porn stars can't even handle dating inside the industry
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Being a decent human being and looking to be with another decent human being is insecurity for some reason these days...
The part of decency is honesty, and you cant as a pornstar honestly say that you are satisfied with someone that dont make you make the new lexicon sounds.
It's insecurity for some people because the ones who didn't partake in promiscuity show a promise of a good life they can never have, so they sabotage them to feel better. Keep your head up with your principles, folks. Just because everyone does, doesn't mean it's "the life".
Asking your girl not be blowned out by 100s of guys on camara is too much to ask nowadays. 🤣
You said it best.
@@gussneh selling your body for easy money is the opposite of being a decent human being.
dani daniels: "dating civilian men is a struggle because they're insecure."
also dani daniels: "dating industry men is a struggle because i'm insecure."
it's not insecurity. it's your job.
That part
You can't make that shit up, women logic is fucked up xD
I wouldn't even say its her job. Her job is just a symptom. She's an idiot.
Thanks for her name 😏
Edit: Nvm, she is soo ran thru. Would be impossible to get hard to her Arby's meat Supreme
everyones insecure except her bro 😂
A relationship, to me, is built on exclusivity, trust, and respect. If a woman does any kind of sex work, I don't see myself getting any of that with her.
Not to mention, many types of jobs are legally binded to "mortality clauses", any person who does any sort of corn content will be automatically prohibited from EVER working with children or in the medical field......both fields that women tend to enjoy, love, want and do the most. Daycare, babysitting, all types of schools, retirement home, nursing, EMT/ambulance/firefighting, Doctor, therapy psychology etc.
Then there is also the fact the jobs can refuse to hire you for any reason, even buisniesses/jobs that are not legally binded to a morality clause can STILL REFUSE TO HIRE YOU! For whatever reason they want regardless of race, religion or sex/gender.
Anybody who is reading this that is thinking about doing corn, just REMEMBER you will NEVER EVER be allowed to legally work ANY of these jobs I listed for your ENTIRE LIFE! NEVER EVER AGAIN!
You need to ask yourself: Is it really worth it? Is this what I want to do? Do I want to do it so bad that I willing to PERMANENTLY throw away all these other career opportunities. Do I really want to commit to this for almost the rest of my life and not be allowed the opportunity to work in the typical career fields most commonly sought after by women and even many men? Most likely, it is NOT worth it! Not even OnlyFans, as the legally binding morality clause makes it ILLEGAL for schools, daycares, babysitting, hospitals, ambulance/firefighting, nursing homes, doctors offices, dentists offices, therapy offices, psychology offices to hire you after you do OnlyFans. Once you do it, all those opportunities are gone FOREVER!
I rule out people who have casual sex.
well said
if MILLIONS of men have already seen that POOCHIE? then whats makes my experience any more special? not very, that why women HOLD their own value and some RUIN it for themselves
@@theshanamasterthis goes both ways. A woman would be perfectly right to think to herself "my boyfriend has watched a lot of porn in his life. Seen hundreds, maybe even thousands of naked women, and felt enough lust for her to bust a nut. There's no way our sexual experiences are special to him"
Men aren't insecure, they're disgusted. That word, "insecure", has been taken over by rabid, feminist-minded women who want an easy reason to "explain" why they can't keep a man. A bit sad that nobody explicitly told her that 90-99% of men won't want a partner that's been banged by literally hundreds of other dudes.
It’s the same for women. We don’t like used, passed around toys either.
@@marleighsyoutube 🧢 🧢
@@fenyx2558 believe it not it's not cap. Alot women don't sleep with men who sleep around.
@@marleighsyoutube Then why da fuck do you love em so much.
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“Men are intimidated by dating an adult star “
Also this woman: “Dating an adult star is a nightmare”
You can’t make this up
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
100 %
Apparently you can, just need a small dose of cognitive dissonance.
intimidated for what exactly?
KEVIN SAMUELS!
I hate how adult stars like her try to label normal “civilian” men as insecure to absolve them of accountability for their own actions. There’s nothing insecure about a man not wanting to date a women who gets her cheeks clapped like a standing ovation on a consistent basis for millions to see on the internet. It just means he respects himself and has standards/boundaries.
Cant name a single women who willingly goes for men that change relationships every 2 weeks, and expects to have a normal fruitfull relationship with that lasts to mairrage.
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I don't know, as long as I know the sex isn't real and it's porn sex, I would let my girl do porn honestly. Having fake sex with someone else on camera doesn't count as cheating imo, because sex can be work, too. And if she's got the body for it and can get legit work, I'd say good for her, man! Who cares?? If she's not enjoying the sex as if it's real, even if she enjoys the work, I can get past the idea that another dude is banging her in a porno as long as everyone is tested and it's safe. I can just not watch it if I don't wanna see it. And what if sex work is her only realistic line of work? Idk I don't see anything so wrong with someone who has fake sex on camera for money. I can still date somebody who does porn.
@@honkhonk8009 Yeah but that's different than porn though. Sex can be potrayed as fantasy and not necessarily be about pleasure. You can have sex acts on a screen for arousal purposes but that doesn't make it intumate. Dudes who fake bang(fake as in non intimate) chicks on camera for money doesn't mean they're in relationships with them They're ACTING!🤣 And yes it's very easy to act like you're enjoying fake sex, just like how it's easy to write music about sex and love, but that doesn't make it real and 95%+ of porn is fake. Now, if the dude who worked with my girl banged her for REAL after a shoot, that would be a problem for me and I'd call that cheating. Cause to me there's a difference between sex and sex WORK. As long as it's consenual both ways I can get over the fact that he's banging my girl, because it's not real when it's on camera. Anyway I'm just talking in circles at this point 🤣👍🏻
There's a difference between sex work and sex. I already explained all this in a reply but thought I'd say it to you too, commenter. If it's all consenual I can get over the fact that my girl is getting fucked on camera as long as it's not intimate sex, and sex can be potrayed that way, it's called porn! Yes, it's sex, but it's sex that's make to look and sound good for the arousal of the viewer and to create fantasies, but that doesn't make it real sex. Real sex is about the pleasure of your partner and figuring out what they like being done on them, which is a LOT different than porn sex. If the guy fucked her for real after the shoot, that's cheating to me, but if it's on camera, you're doing/selling it for the audience 95% of the time unless it's a sex tape or something, which is different than porn. it's not for y'alls pleasure. So sex work isn't a big deal in my world and I acknowledge that there's a big difference.
omg I love how you guys said most people shouldn't date in the military because you are 100% are correct, most people cannot handle that. Same for serious musicians because of the tours and attention they get from fans. You have to be so secure and have solid trust in your partner, plus be able to really communicate and hold it together when you are really missing them! I would never date a military guy because I know I couldn't handle that.
Word, I think a lot of military men/women would do much better having more casual relationships. Because a lot of things that come with the job are not conducive to a happy family.
Same I was sad when my bf went to the military, I could never love from afar
Imagine living a abnormal life, but trying to have a normal relationship. That's wild.
lol she separated herself from the group. it's her problem
It's one of the oldest professions in the world it's not abnormal
She’s actually been married for a lil minute
@@SuperTruthful it’s abnormal to morality.
@@SuperTruthful Just because it’s ancient, doesn’t mean it’s normal.
Flipping burgers for your first job, or just in general, is normal.
Working construction, or retail, is normal.
Prostitution, OF, P*rn, is not NORMAL.
HOWEVER, I will say that at the rate todays women are getting into it, it’s definitely about to be the normal standard. 🤣🤣🤣
Most people who say their partners are insecure for not accepting certain things tend to not understand what respect is. Which is not surprising, most people are disrespectful these days, they dont even respect themselves
Couldn’t have said it better myself. The actions and low morality of people today disgust me. People want to do whatever they want and have no consequences for their actions.
Well put !
Who is this ninja speaking bars?
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"Insecure" is just another one of those deflective terms they use to take attention away from their negative and inappropriate actions. "Intimidating" is another all-time favorite.
Also shaming someone to do something isn't smart. Unless you want to ruin something out of malice, I guess it works. But why would you want to shame someone to date you? That's just asking problems.
Yes. Intimidating. We're not intimidated by women.
It's gaslighting. Actually is explosivelighting
Yes, any man with any problem with any female behavior is always just insecure and intimidated. "He just can't handle how amazing you are, he doesn't deserve you. "Yass queen" - women
Never really understood that, why try and shame someone that dosent want to be with you n not just move on
one thing that will always stick to me is “women can make no sense and get away with it.”
It is ruining dating.
I find it hard to imagine women love the idea of their male pornstar coming home complaining about their work like its a blue collar job.
'Yo my back is killing me I had to spend the whole day folding some 18 year old in half like a cheap deck chair'
This.
Imagine your girlfriend coming home and saying "man I'm so sore, I had not 1 but 2 fists in me today"
@@LeeEverett1 at the very least you can be damn sure you ain't gettin any that night, nor should you really c'mon now it's unreasonable to be expectin her to get home from work and do more work 🤣🤣
@@cptsteele91 the "should you really be" bit got me fucked up, cuse if you're in a relationship her (or his) work is not work for YOU, it is pleasure and bond building not a damn chore lmao
Yup 👍
Most males aren’t valued for their bodies but their resources.
"I'm compassionate..."
Proceeds to dismiss tons of legitimate problems that "civilians" have with her. So compassionate.
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
I don’t think she was dismissive, rather there’s nothing she can do about it at this point. Not like she can unsuck a cock. She even goes on to point out that kind of jealousy exists even if you date someone else in the industry.
Best I can figure she’s just not experiencing any remorse or guilt about it at this point. Sure she’s forfeited any chance of having a healthy relationship, but she’s still tight and pretty, so it’s not like she really has to deal with those consequences yet.
Word
There's a golden rule in writing: "Show, don't tell." In many ways you can apply it to life. People can tell you all sorts of ways they are funny, smart or compassionate but never present any evidence. Deeds not words, folks.
Where was she dismissive of these problems? It sounded to me like she was acknowledging them as real issues.
She says she wouldn't date someone in her position, but calls you insecure if you don't wanna date someone in her position. Bruh...
Yup female logic for you
shes a narcissist. obviously zero shame in this creature
Women ☕
She has trust issues...
@@kly826 everyone does
Most guys (myself included) wouldn't want their girlfriend or wife having sex with anyone else; likewise, most women wouldn't want their boyfriend or husband having sex with anyone else. The fact it's a "job" might alleviate some concerns on an intellectual level, but psychologically and emotionally it'd be virtually impossible to not get jealous, insecure, or angry.
I think some porn actresses have tried to mitigate this concern by switching to girl-girl scenes when in a relationship or married.
It being a job alleviates nothing, as prostitution is unethical. Any real "intellectual" would look into the logic of it. It devalues yourself as all objects are defined by their relation to others(and quantifying yourself in that way makes you into a literal sex object- no longer equal to your felllow people). Hence why crime exists and morality
That statement 'insecure' has been used so much to coerce people into following what they want. Trying to poke at ego.
Ikr the first time I heard it, it sounded like how dudes call women
cock teases to try and justify making them do sleazy things
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
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I like how when she’s describing civilians dating porn stars she uses demeaning words like “they’re insecure, they’re intimidated” as their excuse for not wanting to date a porn star but when she talks about herself dating other porn stars she cites the same problems but uses better more respectable terms and reasons. They are both literally the same thing but she can’t accept that because now she can blame civilians for her dating problems instead of herself
The cognitive dissonance is heavy with this one.
She should have said, "it's fucked up that I feel the same way about other porn stars" or "I understand why civilians feel that way about dating a porn star". It makes her look stupid not to relate to either in that situation.
@@123612100 Or she's just communicating like the average human being and the average human being doesn't rewrite every sentence in their head to be perfectly accurate before saying it. The average human being also doesn't mention every little thing they think or believe about a situation in one conversation about it. You guys are just being unreasonable.
Also... she did expressly say that she understands that it's hard for a "civilian" to date someone in her line of work. Someone must have not been paying attention. Too busy making wild assumptions about someone based on very little information.
@@Haylla2008 cope
@@Haylla2008 the average human being does think before they speak, you Americans are just chronically slow
@@benjones5610 Just remember that when you have nothing worth saying... not saying anything is always an option.
When men have standards, they’re insecure?
Just find someone that agrees with your stance.
Just dare another p star. Simple
A lot of ladies would agree, not all, but the majority would.
@@Diamondr11Blue but she can’t because then she’s now displaying the same behaviour she described as « insecure »
yea date someone who into open relationships
and not be scum who says he cant go around with people
but i can cause i get paid for it like it makes any differance
When men have standards - you're insecure
When Women have standards - You go girl! Get it!
Well that's the state of this world
Notice how when civilian men are uncomfortable, they're insecure.
If she gets jealous that her PS boyfriend is gazing into another woman's eyes while he rails her, she's justified in her jealousy. It's not described as insecurity and it's framed as justified.
“Insecure about”. It’s always women covering up their internal shame by trying to down men who don’t like dating sex workers.
Sorry dude. Most of you are just str8 up insecure unironically. Shes still a goofy thot but youre still an insecure lil boy. Get smacked
But you’d smash thooooooooo
Your being too nice. You mean prostitutes
You mean whore's. Men don't like dating whore's
Can't see the replies...
Accusing people of insecurity is just a cop-out to not take responsibilities of their flaws
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
All of them
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@@ItzMalick if your content was eve. half good you would not need to run bots all night on Aba and other content .. go outside kid
To all men out there, don’t EVER let a woman play to your ego by using words like “jealousy”, or “insecure”, or “controlling”. There is nothing controlling about setting boundaries OFF THE JUMP. Too many men let women define to them what a man is, and, surprise surprise, it somehow always ends up being whatever let’s them get away with as much as they want. A man doesn’t give a shit what people think of their values, they simply have them, keep them, and don’t tolerate anyone unwilling to accept them.
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Realized this with my ex
A masculine man is secure in himself and his emotion and won't be easily manipulated. Those who are... isn't the sort of man she even wants LOL.
Yep it's also insulting to people who are actually with insecure people who are in very controlling relationships, which boarders on abuse.
@@ashleyalexander7388 Exactly 💯🎯
I know a guy that married an ex performer from back in the day (she did scenes with guys like Peter north and Ron Jeremy) and he thought she was great until she became a fundamentalist and was enormously ashamed of her past but at the same time couldn't deal with living a normal retired life and always missed doing scenes and making tons of money easily. She eventually ran off back to LA and he never heard from her again. He just filed for divorce assuming she went back to that or turning tricks.
I noticed she never used the term "insecure" when describing her own experiences with dating a "performer". On the other hand, when describing her experiences with dating a "civilian", she worn that term tf OUT. Shaming much?? 🤨
Yeah the term "civilian" just gives these sluts a way to feel special. Same way as they aren't "prostitutes" they are "performers" or "actresses."
It's as though she looks down upon "civilians" and believes people in her industry are more enlightened, only to admit the same insecurity exists.
she cant shame anyone. it;'s her who should be ashamed. anyone who dates this kind of trash has no self respect
Facts. She doesn't realize that men don't wanna date her because she is literally a black hole.
The journalists didn't event point that out!! Very interesting
In my opinion it is the sacrifice people make when they choose to do porn. They give up privacy and monogamy. I hope they can reclaim those at one point, but should not be expected.
You cannot have it all. If you share with the world that is considered intimate, you simply cannot expect people to value it when you share it with them in a relationship.
I’m pretty sure she’s married. I don’t think she cares that much.
There's no excuses there's documentaries of ex pornstars talking about the struggles they face in dating and marriage
These girls willingly made this choice but they never wanna acknowledge that there are also consequences.
Like, babe you like the 5 long blac-c0ks in you and film it for all to see, what do you think people will think of you now?You are desecrated, you are disrespected, you were used simply as meat and you live on a male fluid diet.
The men that you would want now,they are disgusted by you, to them you are just a fleshlight, they would finish in you and then throw you in a corner for nobody to see because that is what you are now.
@@NewBlueTrue Even if she is married, she will divorce soon. These marriages don't last. So yes she cares.
Someone who does intimate acts with non intimate reason has no respect for the intimacy so the person they end up with will not respect them for being a hallway
This show should be called, “A series of unfortunate contradictions.” I want to burst her bubble and tell her, “If civilians are a pain because they get jealous, then why are you being a pain and also getting jealous?” so badly but that’s unnecessary.
She's a living multiple Spidermen pointing at each other meme.
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To be fair she said, that's exactly why she "doesn't date." It's too complicated.
I only just realized that she said that her relationship affects her job, meaning that she would probably still be doing pron even after a relationship gets fruitful. I would have a sucky childhood if all my friends were fully knowledgeable about my mom's holes
@@NieR042 would you Still be embarrassed if it was your dads genitals online instead? Just curious.
I agree 100% on the military thing. I lost track of how many people I saw go through basic and AIT who were engaged/married but then ended up cheating on their SO at the first chance (both guys and girls).
Men having boundaries = "insecure"
Women having boundaries = "Yas Queen slayyyy"
Why can't people understand actions have consequences also we don't claim her. And it's common sense that in order for you to have a relationship don't be in a profession like this. Her ignorance will be her downfall.
@@divineang3l541 Because people are told 24/7 now that actions don't have consequences here in the west.
yay queen slay has to be the most commented line on the gram
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
@@mememachine5244 Yeah, your right. This country is falling apart and I'm slowing losing faith in it :(
"We call them civilians when they not in our line of work." In other words you describe yourselves as something more than what we actually are to help ourselves feel better about what we do.
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
Yep!!!!
The only time you get to call the general populace a civilian in comparison to your job field is when your job field involves killing people in some way.
All I have to say is… focus on Self Improvement, and forget the rest!
Personal Development is one of the best things you can do for yourhself - because, we as human beings, we’re supposed to embrace growth!
So make sure you find your Purpose in life - whatever it might be, and work on it daily, and continue to make progress, because progress is - really the key to happiness.
But don’t do it for any girl or guy, make sure you’re doing it for yourself - and just be happy!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
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Bitch lost me once she referred to everyone else as civilians. Like this stink ass really thinks she’s levitating above the rest of us.
Imagine if a 4”8 fat dude that has no ambition and lives with his mom tells a girl she’s insecure if she doesn’t date him, self awareness is non-existent with this one
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Lmao EXACTLY. You could go the other way with it too, Imagine a 6’2 dude who’s rich and prestigious, and he tells a girl he wants to be involved with multiple women and when she doesn’t like that he says “oh you’re just insecure”
Self awareness is non existent with the great majority of women.
thats not really a fair comparison
She's not wrong though. There are a ton of dudes who would feel insecure about themselves because she sleeps with porn dudes.
i think it is funny that she makes her "boy toy" get tested even though they are more likely to catch something from her🙃
pornstars get tested every couple weeks...
what are you, insecure? smh
@@wetnoodlexwhy are they insecure?
@@ImDimiko it was sarcasm 😂
KS coined the acronym "SIGN" language. (Shame, Insults, Gult, Need to be right)
"Men are insecure about me posting steamy stuff on the internet" pretty much hits on all the SIGNs...
Its interesting that the first 3 words are already the first 3 words of the SIGN so by my deducing and rational thinking. It must be true
Who's KS?
@@Aaron-kj8dv Kevin Samuels
Damn I like that. Noted ✅ 👌🏼
T B Kevin samuels was sassy and had a online gossip channel no one took him seriously he was a femine man
Just because individuals are disgusted by pron stars does not mean they’re looking at the situation through “a misogynistic lens”. They are selling their body for money. Individuals have a different moral compass, no one HAS to be/should be guilt ripped into being okay with it.
This! 👏👍
Ironically women who think it’s empowering to sell their body are the first to complain that women are overly sexualized and objectified 🤦🏻♀️
Thank you, lol. In what world should I be okay that my spouse has reduced himself to flesh with a price tag on it?
Petition to start calling them prawn stars 🦐
To be fair, we're all selling our minds or bodies for money. Nobody really wants to work. But we do it to survive. And let's be honest, if you were an attractive guy with a huge dong, you'd join the porn industry too. Most men's insecurity comes from not being good enough to have a "fun job" like that. Unless you're wholly religious or have certain standards, most men watching porn would do porn if they had the chance.
And what men don't realize when they're dating a porn star is that she could date a Chad, but she's dating average Joe you. She's giving you her love. Nobody really gives all their love to a job. So if you're watching porn and dating a porn star, but get jealous, realize the issue is not with her. It's you. Same goes for women.
If I brought a woman like this to my grandma's table I don't think "insecure" would best describe how she would feel about that lol
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
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Grandma :"Hey you look familiar?"
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@@richards1708 lmfao
Didn't see her roll her eyes, she looked up when she said "feels amazing." It seems like the same look people give when describing a positive experience.
Also maybe I'm missing it but I don't remember her saying she would only engage in a monogamous relationship with non-industry peeps.
"My holes on the internet", what any man really wants to hear from their girlfriend! The attempt to normalize this, and shame men, is just incredible.
For real, man, I am active on reddit and oh my goodness the amount of male shaming they do for having this preference is insane, it feels like a whole different world on that website, I can't figure out how it went from being a dude heavy website to this hyper feminist male hating cesspool.
For strictly educational purposes; I decided to delve into what grade of material this lady could handle. Gentlemen - she is not a novice and nor is she swimming in the shallow end of the pool.
Also, what on earth is wrong with Reddit mods? The vast majority seem like the worst collection of people I can remember since high school.
@@luciusnoom says it at the start of the video. Dani Daniels. When her own personal website has topics like "stretching" and "pain" among many similar topics, you have to assume the worst.
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@@thereader6371 mate, it's a fucking nightmare on reddit. Its basically liberals on steroids!
I don’t understand why people use the word “insecure” when the other person is simply not okay with something, feels disrespected by it, feels uncomfortable, off limits to them, doesn’t make sense to them … etc. If something doesn’t work for me for any obvious and understandable reason, don’t twist words and call me “insecure”!
To make them self feel better, and to act like their action is “normal”
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts..
It's a defensive reflex. They're the one insecure because they fear being rejected. Women like her think they can do anything they want. When they want stability they want to control that person.
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Her dating a performer: "it's hard."
Other people dating her: "They're insecure."
shes low iq, i actually stopped watching at this point.
Truth is shes damaged and not fit to date anyone
Broski said "that's college....for some people" I cried
Let me get this straight, she calls regular people outside the industry "civilians" in a very condescending way and then, rolls her eyes because men or women (she mentions girlfriends as well) can't put up with her being sexually engaged with other people, but when she's dated men from her industry, she's jealous because that day he was with one or two other women and she can't put up with it. Make it make sense. 🤷
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Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
Why lesbian chicks want to date fcin men and why western men put up with that sh*t , what toxic is the western media influences men accross the world .
Yall habe big ego but zero self respect so stop blaming women , coz yall have absolutely zero standards .
Yelling 'youre insecure' is like calling someone a 'chicken', its often deployed as the cheapest form of reverse psychology, some people are so insecure that they will do things they dont want to do just to not come off as insecure (like getting into a fight they wanted to avoid to not seem cowardly)
Whose yelling?
Gob chicken dance
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
Yeah it's kind of toxic to randomly claim these things when the actually insecure people might do things they don't actually want to.
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My problem with all of this is that she has that tone "he's in the wrong if he's not comfortable".
Like once you decide to be an adult star, every single relationship after that decision will be affected by it, that's just fact. This attitude of 'have the cake and eat it too" doesn't work, you either choose the dough that comes with being a female performer or chose to have a chance of finding your life partner.
There's a reason it's much easier for women to sell their body than it is for men, and if you choose that route you gotta be aware of the drawbacks.
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Yes, literally every relationship will be effected, even buisness relationships. Certain career fields and jobs have a legally binding "morality clause" that says any person who has done corn like OnlyFans can NEVER BE ALLOWED to work with Children or in the Medical field.
If a woman does OnlyFans these businesses/jobs can be sued for hiring her: Babysitting, Daycare, all schools, nursing homes, Nurses, Doctors, Dentists, Dentist assistant, Therapist, Psychologist, EMT, Paramedic, Ambulance, Firefighting, ANYTHING to do or related to kids or the medical field you will NEVER EVER BE ALLOWED to work there EVER AGAIN! Your ENTIRE LIFE!
And last time I checked, all the jobs I listed in those 2 career fields just happen to be the most sought after, desirable, common and loved jobs that women choose as a career field or job. I would imagine many women who became a corn star originally planned on doing one of those jobs until they became legally prohibited from doing then after starting a OnlyFans.
It is NOT WORTH IT for 99% of men and women! Don't fool yourself at 18-21 years old thinking that YOU are the 1% because there is a 99% chance you are NOT the 1%
Yea, its rather similar to regular people who get with a celebrity.
Your life and its most intimate parts become public knowledge, and public property, and that's not something everyone can deal with.
I think she was spot on when she said that the couples that work have similar goals. You don't have to be in porn for this to apply to you. Hopefully, you and your partner have the same short/long-term goals and can grow together, regardless of the industry.
Do not miss 7:30... Her dad is very involved.
I lost it at that point 🤣🤣🤣 she need to costar hellknight Ingrid
When y’all said that shit I immediately thought of Jack Murphy 🤣🤣🤣 ‘bald white dudes are cucks’ 🤣🤣
I think you guys exploit stereotypes in such an artistic and humorous fashion.
👀 jack Murphey 👀
Is it her dad ... or bf? I gotta know😭😭
A little unrelated to your comment, but do you think its insecure for a guy to not want his girl to have male friends?
Soon as she rolled her eyes, i knew that THIS is the woman who will GASLIGHT TF out of you as a civilian. She made it out as if it is being "insecure" that she sleeps with other men, moving the goalposts. But then her admission that entertainers get jealous as well just showed that it not a little insecurity, but downright just not doable for almost EVERYBODY but the few exceptions she provided. Imagine what else she will gaslight you about "It's just a 100k ring I want, it's not that big a deal"
That's a lot of assumptions to make for one eye movement (that could literally mean at least several things).
She’s trash and trying to convince herself that she has some high value because she’s been with ‘more alpha’/bigger d1ck men (than you). It’s more likely that her beginnings are from the gutter…mental scarring from a bad family life, etc.
@@Haylla2008 then he must have experience dealing with people like her then huh? His description of her behavior is mild to what she probably puts her boyfriends through behind closed doors
@@catra195 He probably has negative experiences with women. Whether those experiences apply to her is a different matter altogether. Rolling your eyes is often a sign of frustration. As Preach implied, she's probably fed up with having to tell men that there's nothing wrong with an average penis size.
You guys are just looking for an excuse to hate women (even if you're not doing it intentionally) because you've had bad experiences with them and people in her profession are an easy target. It's blatantly obvious. Just like "not all men", "not all women".
@@Haylla2008 guess what, ALOT of men have negative experiences ( just look up "crazy ex" on UA-cam tell me what the Gender ratio is)
But attempting to tell men what they should and shouldn't be disgusted by is laughable. No self respecting Man is gonna be some desperate, beggar cuck because of any slogan or rhetoric or a weak attempt at reverse psychology.
Yall assume Men are as suggestible to social pressures as yall. Used up is used up.
She got to see both perspectives and still understands only her own feelings
Sounds like you are never going to be happy 😂😂
When I was woke, I started dating an “empowered feminist” and early on I messed up and asked her body count. She was 20 and it was 3x her age. My instinct is disgust and shock, but I was so into the woke mindset and think ohhh well that’s fineee I’m not gonna be insecure about that allllll…..
She also did sex work because she found it “empowering.” This was rich girl who went to an elite private university in NYC. She’s as privileged as it gets, yet found it empowering to sell her body.
Let’s just say, those 2 years of that relationship has scarred me immensely. Mostly resentful at myself for allowing myself to be continuously stepped on and humiliated. I was in a bad place (the gripping heroin addiction I had certainly didn’t help things).
I’m all for women and men to be as promiscuous as you want. But we also gotta be allowed to find it disgusting or sleazy to do so.
Choose love my brother. Open your heart to love.
Remember to love yourself & That will protect you from disrespecting yourself like you did
I hope you're doing a lot better now than before! All the love, and cheers to steering clear of anything harmful to you!
@@LubulaChikwekwe That's probably the most salient and useful advice I've ever seen online. Shame so many people will never follow it.
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
@@x8jason8x thanks my brother. I wish more love, joy & peace within
"The negative consequences of everything I do are always someone else's fault."
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
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I find it weird how she can understand a performer being jealous but a “civilian” is insecure 🤨
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@@ItzMalick Stop
@@justsomewhitedude8349 people dont flag the copypaster bots enough..
@@ItzMalick bot.. reported
@@dertythegrower it's not a bot, he's just a shitty youtuber that no one likes who spams for the few hate clicks he can get, dude is pathetic. almost as bad as that axxl wanker
When it comes to relationships, my biggest problem wouldn't even be the fact that they're pornstars, whether currently or former. It's the attitude that some of them have because their career choice probably had a negative effect on their relationships. The denial and the copium of "it's entirely the other person's fault for not liking me", "it solely because of their insecurities" and "they're just not enlightened enough to be with me".
Sure, on the one hand those people chose to date pornstars, so they knew what they were getting into. On the other hand, you chose to become a pornstar. If that’s what you want to be then more power to you, but when you choose a career that requires a radically different view on one of the most fundamental parts of relationships, you're signing up to have a lot of compatibility issues. That's not a problem with everybody else, and it's not even a problem with them, it's simply the choice that they made.
We should’ve never bought into this “you’re insecure” trope anyway
You know what a secure person does? Whatever the hell they want, regardless of puchback - It’s been a self defeating phrase since day 0!
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
exactly, Just like a woman is not obligated to give a guy a chance, a man does not have to do the same. Anyone in your life calling you insecure for that should be removed from your life as soon as possible. Nothing but adult peer pressure at this point.
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"I can't deal with the repercussions of my actions, therefore you're the culprit for not having accountibility for Me"
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Yes I am insecure because I don't like that my friends and family are able to find your "work" online
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7:37 Brush!
You had me fooled.
I legit thought that was her dad.😂😂😂😂😂😂
I thought you saying she porked her dad.😭😭😭😭
This is literally the equivalent of incels calling a women whore for not sleeping with them. Ladies, just like how you don't owe guys sex, guys don't owe you relationship either. You have to work for that. Sex objects shouldn't be entitled about men's commitment and involvement for a relationship.
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
This here and this is why i get hypercritical of women more so than men. The incels get rightfully called out for their behavior, while the same type of women get praised.
That's EXACTLY what they are. This is incel mentality, but worse cause they chose this. Them and the fat acceptance bitches, and older women in general.
@@zibix4562 cause when it comes to women, its not about whether right or not. Its always about did it offend them. If it offends women, then its automatically wrong.
That’s not even the same thing.
I don't understand why so many women have problems with men with standards when they literally carry checkmarks and lists for judging men.
Because they think and expect men to be as dense and hard as bricks and that they're the only ones with feelings and the only one's who's matters.
@@citrusbutter7718 that's messed up.
@@citrusbutter7718 naaa man i just think ppl tend to lack perspective about the other sex, i don't wanna be a simp but making it about girls being bad or some shit is mad sussy
@@red2theelectricboogaloo961 Then why do they laugh at sensitive men but then claim guys aren't sensitive enough as a way to compare them to unfeeling cavepeople? I'm a woman, I've heard it all before already. Truth be told, there's quite a lot of them who do expect men to be accepting of the double standards and claim they're emotionless by default to justify why society should only regard their feelings. In their perfect world they're supposed to be the only ones allowed to be nitpicky but men shouldn't be allowed to have standards because that's "sexist".
@@citrusbutter7718 probably becuz of the fact that right now in society with a lot of these conversations there's a tendency to overcorrect, which is part of the point aba&preach are making, but yeah i think part of the issue is they are only seeing it from their perspective and they think that all the difficulties are only on their side when it goes both ways. just like a lot of redpill dudes do with men. so to them the double standard would be justified by all the difficulties they have in comparison to men, or what they think they go through in comparison to men. not saying it's a correct idea or that i agree, just saying i don't think it's as simple as women just want to hold a double standard over men just because. i mean, to be fair to you, i'm a guy, so i can't get into the heads of these women, i'm just trying to understand it maybe more than you are. no offense intended by that of course... regulars don't really want or need to understand deep political shit like i'm trying to.
Interesting how she doesn't categorize her issues with dating an adult entertainer as "insecurities"
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They are incapable of accountability
@@deantebritton she is incapable of accountability don't put women in a bubble bro.
Exactly
@@dimitrescucrncevic9746 just the militant and now common pretend equality feminist.. mostly single and on ssri for "anxiety and stress" (eye roll)
Intimacy to a lot of people is private and between a couple, not the whole world.
It's not insecurity for me, for me it's about professionalism, can't embarrass my friends and family with someone with online rep
Agreed can you imagine that family dinner "so what do you do for living"
@@trustme7660 "I suck cock and occasionally take it up the butt, it's hard work but I enjoy it"
agree. your mom would disown you if you bring dani daniels to home lol
@@trustme7660 "I ram things in my coochie online"
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts..
Usually when doing stuff like porn you gotta understand people are gonna perceive you in a specific way and people are gonna feel uncomfortable when trying to date you too, dont expect people to automatically accept you just cause you want them to smh.
problem is that porn got so huge over the years that everyone just taking these people like normal and accepting it. I would never in my life wanted someone with history of porn or onlyfans or shit like that. Even if its a woman with high body count. As a man thats a red flag. doesnt matter how pretty you are. once you belong to streets you will stay there. period. Woman can control who they spread their legs to. Its not a mans fault
@Alligator Loki I mean, is it wrong to perceive the undignified as being without dignity?
It's unnatural, that's what it is. Do their parents brag about how their child is such a famous "performer" in the porn industry? It will never be accepted in the society how they want it to be. They've failed at their mission. And in life.
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts..
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This is a woman that has a great head on the shoulders and on other people's laps
More like gives head on her shoulders...
great head on her shoulders she just signed her single for life contract no self-respecting man is going to get near that and if they do they're just using her for sex
Lol
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
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I would encourage folks to look at any documentary or interview with adult stars who have left the industry. All that glitters isn’t gold and when you hear about the stuff they went through in the industry behind closed doors, in relationships (sexual and non sexual), and how they are living now it is eye opening. Everyone thinks it’s fun and games but really a lot of these people are lonely, have addiction problems, or really just needed therapy and they would have never entered the industry. Look at the Curse of the Chippendales, the guy whose persona was Mr. Perfect Man said he had insecurities and being a Chip made him feel desired as well as gave him access to women he normally wouldn’t cross in his neighborhood. He eventually married a Chip groupie, they had a son, and they moved to NY. Who he was and who Mr. Perfect was were 2 different people but they started merging changing him for the worse. He was cheating on his wife, doing drugs, and lost who he was because of this job. Marriage eventually ended in divorce and if you look at his ex wife now I bet she got some plastic surgery during their marriage to stay young to keep him after having the baby. And that is light compared to others a lot of them unlived themselves or turned to other things.
"Excuse me?"
Men aren’t insecure, they are territorial when it comes to sharing in a relationship. Why is that such a difficult concept to grasp?
It's literally in our genetics.
Women don't want to accept responsibility for their actions so they hand wave the blame away as men being insecure.
I wouldn’t even say territorial. It’s deeper then that. A relationship is between 2 people. 3 people if you count god when you get married
But the men she dated knew what she did before getting in a relationship with her. They knew what they were getting into.
@@JELIFISH19 we dont know that and since they changed their mind then they felt that disgust aswell
Anytime a man doesn't find something appealing about a woman he "insecure" 🙄
Spoken like a true incel XD
@@ChillAssTurtle Spoken like a true simp
@@ChillAssTurtle Bro how is he an incel? He made a genuine statement that is true.
@@ChillAssTurtle Spoken like a true simp, yeah i can use stupid words too.
Keson Alcee no you chill because you are using incel talking points to try to judge. This beautiful woman in the video do you have a girlfriend I bet you live with your mother
We need to stop telling people relationships are something that come and go and can always be picked up later on if you feel like it. If you nurture promiscuity, you nurture a lack of attachment to one man. If you nurture independence, you nurture a lack of relational competency. What we do matters, because the outcomes don't live in a vacuum any more than the actions.
Indeed
If you push yourself to be able to have sex with ymother people without developing feelings, don't be surprised when you don't develop strong feelings when you actually want to be with someone.
And don't be surprised when everyone else isn't a complete rube, and knows what's up, and puts themselves above it.
Men might envy other men who get to sleep around, and look up to them. But that doesn't mean we see them as ideal partners. Or "catches" for women. Id give the exact same advice to my sister or daughter as I would give my son or brother. If he can go easily get laid, and he values the chase so much that he's taught himself such a difficult skill, and used it, then how on earth do you expect him to put up with 30-50 years of monogamy, when opportunities to cheat are literally everywhere for him?
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Imagine someone who does porn calling someone else a civilian. Imagine a chick who does porn being jealous about her boyfriend who does porn, but calling men, "civilians", insecure for for literally the exact same thing. This is just one of the plethora of reasons why we shouldn't and can't afford to take people like her seriously. And she really doesn't hear herself or think nothing is wrong with what she's saying. That's a different type of dense.
It’s a way to cope
Just like trans people call others “cis-gendered”
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@aaa bbb then whites should go back to Europe
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imagine a woman this damaged not making sense... this is actually pretty normal in our society now.
The "Insecurity" line is just a massive cope and she shows that here. Yes, there is a level of insecurity to this but it's mainly that the person refuses to willingly PUT THEMSELVES in a life filled with insecurity that will be a natural theme in their relationship because how could it possibly not be? She knows that her decisions have led her down this path and she's trying to convince others that they shouldn't be insecure but she knows that they have every right to be which is why men refuse to put that torture upon themselves so they don't give her the chance, and for good reason.
She made the trade. She traded in her body for money. It's a damn shame but she made her bed...On set. *Badum tsst*
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every body requires you to trade your body/ health for money. the only down side to this job is literally the constant exposure to stds. but even outside this job people are intimate with partners who cheat or will eventually or they themselves fuck around. all jobs require you to trade your body for money, theres no other way around it unless your a robot. sit your ass down for 10 hours or stand and work machines for 10 hours or bend over & get pounded orr do the pounding. if your a monogamous person whos not ready to settle and messex around you cant date while doing this job cause it compromises your belief. there is nothing to argue about, if someone is trying to date while working in xxxstar industry it makes sense that they arent monogamous. they are "open" or non-monogamous. its so simple. theres monogamous people and then theres non-monogamous people. its like the ladies that say the want a man who can support them/ atm. if you have your wits, and arnt a playing the lazy pathetic puzzy victim of your circumstances you can see bullshit lies and wannbe manipulative persuading tactics. but if your playing the victim of your 'traumas" your going to have issue with everything in life including the simple stupid topic.
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We would be like drones if we all agreed, sometimes a civil disagreement makes for good conversation.
Then ur wrong on some things
@@TheJoethud22 lmaoo not necessarily
@Alligator Loki because u r an alligator trickster from another universe.
If you “always agree” with anyone, know you’re being played.
Flashback to one of your previous videos...... "HORRRRRRRRR* (roll the 'R') 😆
No way she said she’s worried about her bf giving her an STD…
The bf not the one getting a train ran on him tho 💀💀
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
@@Diamondr11Blue She’s got to look after her boys
To be fair they all get tested very frequently and they're very clean, it's a requirement. I think it's every 2 weeks and based on how often they "work"
Can't say the same for their pH balances though
Yeah because he's probably a rich simp. Lol. The guy she really wants she'll never get.
"It doesn't work unless you have the same goals"
That's a big part of the recipe for any relationship.
50 iq statement
Ironically she is so pissy about people not accepting for a relationship because of her profession, but military servicemen, oil rig workers, businessmen, and many others are also dealbreakers for many. These are types of professions that will have a person seeing their partner only sometimes. These are all reasonable things too.
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Her: “Guys get jealous and insecure because I do porn”
Or they have dating preferences and they have every right to think your choice of career is gross. That’s not being insecure, that’s *their* preference.
You have sex with various people for our career so don’t act like men having a problem with it is because they’re “insecure”.
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts.
And I bet there are lots of women who wouldn't like to date a guy who is a pornstar.
@@DrPeterLankton381 Hell i knew some women who would refuse to be with a man that was not a virgin. I mean obviously she had other standards, but nothing fatfetched. Things like not fat, not have a criminal record, and a few reasonable things like it.
Many women won't date a guy that's his job involves any kind of dirt (plumber, construction worker, car mechanic), and that's their preference, and supposedly we're suppose to respect. So why can't they respect it when we don't want privileged girl who had choices but decided getting rammed on camera for the world and have bodily fluids cover their face. Why is it their preference ,"our" "InSeCuRiTy" . Seriously just cause your lonely doesn't mean you're owed anything. Every decision even "Good" has its consequences.
@@monkeykingyo6359 I agree. I hate the double standards here. Women like her like to shame or call men names just because they don’t want to date them due to their life choices and expect their preferences to be respected. They weed themselves out but it’s nonetheless a shitty double standard in the dating world.
Yo yall didnt have to say that was her dad...........😂💀...you ain't s***😂😂. Had me crying
Any woman that starts calling men "insecure" over men literally having a preferences/standards that's when you she's for the streets! Great for one night stand but horrible for a lifetime!
The main issue is trying to tell some of these women(not all i know) that most guys give value to a woman on relationship vs hookup differently. Thing is guys will admit that. Women do it, to an extent, as well, but cannot admit it.
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@@zibix4562 Facts!
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@@zibix4562neither men nor women should have different standards between who they fuck and who they date. Just because a lot of people do that doesn't mean it's a good thing to do.
“It makes men uncomfortable.” Well yes, STDs are generally uncomfortable
Porn stars are tested very frequently compared to people who don’t do porn. So I would say having sex with a porn star is generally safer.
@@BlueOwlsFly I sincerely doubt that.
@@icedcoffee9937 even though the porn industry can be seedy one thing the industry gets right is having their performers get tested at least every 14 days and they use a system like PASS to keep track. They have to be very open about their status and also bring their test results to the shoot. So they at least get tested 24 times a year which is probably at least 23 times more than the average person considering if they get their yearly exam done.
Honestly STD wise, It might be safer to date a professional porn actress rather than a stranger at a bar..... given how often they are tested. They take that incredibly seriously.....otherwise its gonna mess up a LOT
@@BlueOwlsFly lol yeah sure. Clearly you dont know the scandals with porn studios taking the performers to fake clinics that cleared up to act people with seriously contagious stds and even aids!!!! Its immoral in all ways. Period.
When it comes to pron stars and strippers, guys tend to have 2 reactions: 1) They either prefer traditional stuff and they find the sex stuff to be disgusting and undesireable. 2) They know that pron stars and strippers are generally damaged and crazy... so in addition to whatever issue you have with her job, she's also going to be a problem in a relationship even if you could overlook the sex work.
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LMAOO the "Her nd her dad" is still funny half a year later🤣🤣💀
She's a hypocrite if I've ever seen one.
Wants a Civilian but is a Civilian in the industry cause of Jealousy
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I love how “Sexual Freedom” in the west means: have as much sex as you can, and be as sexual as you can. Everything in America is about sex.
Okay so you said the west and then you said America. European countries, Canada, Mexico, South American countries, and plenty of others are also considered part of the west.
@@zibix4562 The obsession with sex is most certainly an American thing but the whole world is super Americanized these days so everybody else also tries to obsess over sex to seem as cool as the youngins of America, I am from a third world country and this shitty trend is blaringly clear in my society, and in the societies of people I have met from other countries as well.
@@zibix4562 the connotation for “the west” isn’t México or Venezuela, surely you must know that.
It’s just sex, people r mostly closed minded and insecure with selfishness
@@zibix4562 your right, but what’s your point? I don’t change what I said.
I said the WEST, is all about sex.
Then, since I live in America, I used America as a example.
GYAAAAT DAAAMMMNNNN. I feel sorry if she ever decided to have children, they're gonna be so bullied.
might hear a few "your mum" jokes?
@Elliot Ward 💀
@Elliot Ward They can fall out when shes taking a dump.
@Elliot Ward That was cold Blooded :D
@Elliot Ward loosey goosey
She's saying these things like they arent , like, A serious deal breakers for a majority of the population.
This is like when a woman with a bad attitude says that men aren't strong enough to handle her.
You're either in a monogamous relationship or you're not. This woman doesn't even want to quit the industry.
How much value can your kitty bring if a bit of cash is all it takes to get it?
Find a guy who likes to watch I guess.
dicks are free in this world, kitty always comes with a price tag
@@maineman5757 cuckcity how may I help you?
@@maineman5757 yeah, I think that secure and confident guys won't really have trouble finding women who don't work in that industry and given the choice will choose girls who aren't getting railed daily by other dudes
And she's been at it for a decade now at least. So not only is it a decade of constant dicks everyday all day but she's also in her 30s by now.
“Civilians” like they’re f*cking war hero’s or something 🤣
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I like how she rolls her eyes to any concerns others might have about dating her it’s just they’re insecure but then proceeds to explain why she wouldn’t date somebody also in her industry because she’s insecure
There is nothing wrong with having standards, preferences, and holding your line. There are people out there who are fine sharing. That's okay. Just like it's okay that someone doesn't want to share. Just like there are people who like exhibitionism. Cool. Others don't.
It isn't an insecurity to know what you want. Dismissing that is kind of up there with kink shaming.
It’s so funny how quick she deflects her problems and insecurities on “civilians” like we are the problem. Where is the accountability of choosing to go this path? Whoever chooses to be with her, god bless. That lifestyle she lives would cause nothing but trouble. Y’all be safe out here 🙏🏾💯
Basically a man being insecure about his woman showing her ass on the Internet is the same as women saying they wear makeup only for themselves. The insecurity comes from other men looking at your girl and potentially snatching her from you and women wear makeup to boost their confidence by getting male validation. Both genders won't admit these truths of their respective counterparts..
All she's doing is talking about the problems with dating when she's in her industry. Not every conversation someone has needs to encompass every single subject. If you asked her directly, she might very well say that she holds some, if not all, responsibility for her problems. That's like me saying you're a woman-hater based off this one sentence I've seen of yours. It could be true... but I'd really only be making assumptions and putting words in your mouth.
Can't turn a wh**e into a house wife.
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When I was in the army I had a desk job and rarely went to the field, and I was stationed on an artillery base. The arty guys would go out all the time, 30 day exercises. Us desk pukes would watch them driving out the south gate and if you looked north, there's the wives. Streaming in the north gate to the E-mans club. Next morning walk of shame out of our barracks was horrifying. Tons of em, all disheveled and hung over, headed back home. And that was just the ones that stayed over til morning, it was actually an all night thing, wives leaving our barracks in ones and twos. Our hallways were a mess on those nights with half-naked wives and moans coming from rooms. I once come out of my room to bump into several sweaty dudes leading a very drunk half-naked wife out, and she's complaining she shouldn't have to go yet, because she'd only done 4 guys and was promised 5. Mind you, this wasn't after their husbands had been gone for ages, this was the FIRST NIGHT. They waited for it eagerly. Complete depravity.
What tha actual f*ck
Please explain some more. I've never heard of this and I want to understand. Why are they called "wives" if they sleep with everyone? Where are their husbands? Who were they sleeping with after the husbands left?
@@checkmattee222 I'm sorry it was such a long post and probably hard to follow. These were the wives of artillery soldiers. They'd do this when their husbands went out on field exercises. And these were just the apex sluts, the ones wanting to go to the club and get taken to the bachelor barracks. Add to their number the ones that pick up a guy at the club and take him home, and then the ones that have a sneaky link already and don't need to pick up a new guy. With rare exception, I know not all are like this, but for the most part military wives get RUN THROUGH.
My goodness, gracious... What???
If I wasnt a vet I wouldn't have believed you. We had a bunch of dorm 304s. There was a girl on her first week, walked down to the mens level of the dorms and knocked on everyones door introducing herself. Allegedly there was a train ran on her by friday.
The mental gymnastics she goes through to make it seem like she's got it all together and the problem is other people not having it together is worthy of a gold medal.
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