Thank you so much for sharing Effie's story. My "Effie" was called Coco. Coco was rescued from a man who had so many dogs and would abuse them. She was tied to a tree, he would hit and starve her. When the rescue organization came back with a warrant to rescue the dogs, he shot half of them and Coco was the last one he shot. Lucky for me, her wound was superficial but it took the rescue organization 1 week to find and catch her. When I our dog Fanny passed, I told my family I am going to adopt another dog. When that came I asked the rescue organization to give me the most unadaptable dog they had and I would rescue her. You guessed it, it was Coco. It was a journey not doing to lie but without a doubt, was the most affectionate, loyal and would give her life to protect me and my family. It took about 7 years to be a "normal" dog but I didn't care if she would never be a normal dog, I just took her where she was at and I think that's what made her who she became. Coco passed 5 years ago. I was blessed to have her 12 years.
I remember when you first got Effie and all you went through. She is so lucky to have you as her mom. I hope you will do more Effie videos - can't get enough of that gorgeous girl❤❤❤❤
Think i cried a little when you shared photos of effie at the doggy daycare 😭💕 it’s as though she doesn’t have anxiety, confident in her super smiles 🥹 so cute of duke and effie hanging out together and learning how to sit! 😂 I miss reggie forever and always ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for promoting adoption and for detailing your rescue journey!!! Been following your dog journey since Reggie, and have loved seeing the new struggles and victories with Effie! I work with dog rescues in California, and we have a extremely bad shelter crisis. People abandoning dogs left-and-right, backyard breeders looking to make a quick buck and dumping dogs that don't serve them in this way, hundreds (and i mean HUNDREDS) getting euthanized every day. If there are any Californian dog lovers reading this, please support your local rescues and shelters, foster and adopt if you can, so that we can save many more just like Effie!
Thank you for sharing her story. Mine is exactly the same. She is almost 12 and it’s been a long road. Not food motivated, terrified of everything, super sensitive to change, among many other quirks. Sometimes you just need to realize they are who they are. Supporting their well-being is most important to their happiness. Effie is a beautiful soul.
Oh how I remember Reggie! and Duke! I also remember when you got Effie. I have crate trained my two corgis. My previous dog, I did not. My two, LOVE their crate. It is their safe space and because they are so low to the ground, when I am not with them, they are crated. Love Miss Effie and all that you have done to make her a confident dog. By the way, you look gorgeous! Hugs from me, Khloe and Ethan the corgis.
You are such an amazing and dedicated dog-mom Estee. I'm Greek and Coconi is one of the sweetest Greek breeds. I'm so happy Effie found her family in your arms.
Girl the amount you just gush and glow in this video makes me SO happy. You’re such an amazing dog mom! I remember a video you share maybe a few years ago and you were brought to tears with frustration about Effie, and any pet owner could tell that you were in the breakthrough phase of dealing with a nervous pet. That kind of strength makes such a bond between you and your pet, and I love seeing how well you both are doing now!!!! Lots of love from TN xoxo
I had a rescue dog for 13 years. She was afraid of dogs and people. If you weren’t part of our family you were not welcome in our home. We did tons of training. She improved but could not be 100% trusted around other dogs and people. I walked her/ ran her daily for about 15 miles unleashed in the woods. It was her happy place. Unrestricted and able to flee if necessary. She was the best girl in the world. She loved her people unconditionally and faithfully. It was very hard but I wouldn’t change a thing. She passed away this past October. We were blessed with her presence. Your pup and you are so lucky to have found each other.
I love that you are such a dog mom!! I am a new dog mom & I feel like I've only become weirder & unapologetic about accepting this new role! I fostered dogs for 2 years before I ended up adopting a puppy. I think it's so important & I want to thank you for supporting the beauty & goodness in adopting. So many people in my circles have designer dogs, but every puppy deserves love no matter what breed or mix. Thanks for gushing about Efiie; makes me feel more normal about the exponential love my pup, Carmine has to give & all the silly yet infinite affection I give back. Thank you, Estee!!
Effie is such a gorgeous girl. Our little girl Dixie (we have miniature schnauzers) came to us as an extremely anxious ex-breeding girl and she was so timid and scared that it was heartbreaking. When I look at our darling girl now it's hard to remember her being so afraid. It does take a lot of effort and a lot of love but, wow, aren't they so worth it. Our two mini schnauzers, Dixie and Darcy, completely fill my heart. Big hugs to your girl, the beautiful Miss Effie ❤
After you adopted Effie you inspired me to adopt a dog from abroad. Luna looks very similar to Effie, but she's black. She is from Romania, I got her at 10 months old, she's now 5 years. She was also a street dog. I was so lucky with her - she's been the perfect dog. No anxiety, no food aggression/protectiveness, no resource guarding, no prey drive, nothing. She's best friends with my cats and guinea pigs, she's got perfect recall. Her literal only vice is that she barks when she's happy and she's the world's happiest dog so she barks a lot 😂 she was scared of doorways for about 6 months after I got her so I had to carry her through them, and she's still scared of brooms. She was scared of children but is now wonderful with them, especially my 2 year old daughter! Adopting a random street dog from abroad found me the world's best pup and I'm so grateful to you for introducing me to the idea because while id always have rescued (even my horses are rescues!) I hadn't considered from abroad before.
The photos of Effie at doggie daycare made my heart melt, she looks so joyful 🥺 Have you ever considered joining dog walk groups with her in London maybe ? I don't know if I recall correctly but I remember some of your older vlogs where you used to go to the park with Reggie and some other fellow greyhounds 🥰
Thank you for your kindness and compassion. You bring so much good to the world. And you look so beautiful. Wishing you the best for an even more wonderful future.
I just want you to know --- your early adoption videos when Effiee came into your life was the last little push I needed to go out and rescue a dog myself. I ended up with my best friend, Winnie, who oddly looks so so so much life Effie. Hello from your soul sisters in LA
Estee I have the same dog which I rescued from a shelter in Cyprus . Watching effie was like watching my own dog . Coconi dogs are the best loving dogs ever . ❤
Your thoughtful, sensitive, kind approach with Effie is refreshing to hear. This may sound strange but I have a similar approach with my son who is on the autism spectrum. When you have this deep respect and understanding for their sensitivities the bond that grows is unmatched. These beautiful souls are our teachers. So blessed ✨
My dog is from Romania and she has anxiety issues, but she is the quirkiest dog I have ever had. She is just adorable and I am her advocate and guardian. I know her like no other, so it definitley doesn't sound strange when you say you know how she is feeling just by looking at her. That is a bond! I remember when Effie was on Lily's Kitchen as a pup, then you also tried her on Butternut Box. I also remember Reggie ❤
I have a rescue from Poland and when I first got her I kept on rewatching your vlog where you lose it over being alone with a terrified Effie, having no one to help and I remember it was exactly how I felt with my dog at the time, feeling like my dog hates me and is scared of me and that I am doing everything wrong. Your vlog helped me a lot in the tough times!
Effie is your heart and it’s abundantly clear that she’s your sweet fur baby that you bring comfort and love to 🐾💖. She’s very fortunate to have you as her mama.
What a beautiful dog and a beautiful story! I have a very difficult dog myself, with very unique health issues, so I understand how much love and work it takes to keep them safe, happy, and healthy. You’re a great dog mom ❤
Effie’s story fills my heart and you are a Queen who I respect so much because you did not take the path of least resistance. Your journey together and you sharing it with the masses helps to spread the very important message to “adopt don’t shop”, something I am personally very passionate about. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! 💗🐾💝😘🥰
I have a Spanish rescue Dog and he is the same. He is the sweetest, gentle special soul. Very noise sensitive like Effie. He does all the same things you describe. He is a proper mummies boy. It was hard to let go of all the things that less sensitive dog can do but he’s the best boy ever and he’s adapted and grown. He will never be able to cope in certain situations but he makes my life better he gives so much. He’s my total love and the love he gives me makes every little challenge worth it. Ive adapted so has he and we have the best life together xxx like all beings myself included he’s perfectly imperfect and that’s beautiful ❤ xx ps he hates the oven, the toaster, people shouting, strangers, kids shouting, traffic noise, he’s always hyper vigilant. But he’s the most Velcro dog ever, and he enjoys life xxx hurrah for rescue dogs xxx
Awe, Effie ❤ it was meant to be! You found each other. You took on the huge responsibility of being a pet owner, but that’s because you have a huge ♥️ and loads of compassion. If only they can tell us their issues and problems so we can make it better. I think it does take animals quite a while if ever to be trusting. I brought two dogs in need into my home one I saved just before they were going to put her down because she had a severe case of kennel cough so I took three days off work took her to an emergency 24 hour vet and stroked her esophagus for three days just to try and keep the coughing down which didn’t do much but she knew I was trying to help, the other dog was almost a year old and he was quite jumpy and super skittish but I loved him so much. He was a challenge just like your toaster ordeal. That was my Charlie. He was the same way with every teeny tiny noise and would just do this really fast run through the house so I learned to get down on the floor. Call him over and give him a few bits of Cheerios cereal that worked, but I would always have to get on the floor at his level. It’s almost like having a toddler. Lol it’s great you found a brand you like. Thanks for the rundown. 👍
Thank you so much for sharing this! I also have a 4 kilo Kokoni and they are the biggest sweetheartsa and the most loyal dogs but she's also incredibly anxious. We are currently working with a canine psychologist and it helps a lot to understand her. Besides being anxious she is also hypersensitive to any impulses. My dog Lola is the same age and I have rescued her in Cyprus in 2019. By now Lola did a huge progress from being afraid of all the people now she's having her first dog friends and she loves all of my friends as well. She is still quit suspescious of all the strangers but she's not paying any attention to them now versus attacking everyone when we started. Thank you for sharing your story! I was crying watching this video as my baby Lola is just the same and there were times when I felt like it's not gonna get better but now I'm so proud of my baby KOKONI
🥰 I remember the day you uploaded the vlog of the night you went to get beautiful Effie, I was crying happy tears with you - and I now started crying happy tears again as soon as I started watching your update on her !! 🥲🥲🥲 I love the photo of her in the middle at 13:23 where she is smiling with her daycare doggie friends, just so endearing. 🥰 Thank you for never giving up on her and taking such amazing care of her special needs as a stray rescue dog; she is your baby and you are her mum. 🥰 Thank you for updating us on her, Estée, please give Effie cuddles from all of us !! 🙂
its fascinating how dogs who have suffered trauma remain the same throughout their lives to some degree. so heartbreaking how cruel humans can be. so happy she has a lovely life now
I’ve been petting my own doggy during this whole video. I remember when Reggie passed and I remember when you got Effie and how scared she was. I’m so happy she’s doing better! Dogs are the best companions and I love them all dearly
I remember so clearly when you went to pick her up 😭 I can’t believe she’s 5 already. You were both chosen for each other, everything you’ve gone through together to see where she’s at now is a testament to all your effort. I remember just getting her to wee outside when you lived in your flat was such a huge milestone. The doggie daycare pics 🥹 You are an amazing dog mom 🥰
Having an anxious fearful pup I so agree with all of this. She manages it so well now that she’s 3 but man oh man. Taking her to a brewery would fill her sink and overflow it in like 5 seconds. I wonder if there is a correlation between fearful dogs and not being food motivated. My dog couldn’t care less to have a treat when she’s battling an anxiety attack on a walk. Usually she’s fearful of other dogs and not people.
I remember Effie couldn’t pee outside and here she is now! Proud both of you, girlies❤️. And it’s been 5 years oh my goodness. P.S. Estée, you look amazing! Hope you are doing well
My Flynn was gonna be put down in Wales 7 days after he was found as a stray if unclaimed. A dog’s home charity rescued him where we got him and had him for another 11 years. Please rescue! He was always a little scared but was wonderful to see him happy and healthy and grow old.
Hi Estee. I have been following you for a long time and remember the video that you uploaded the time you got Effie and what you have gone through. I am incredibly happy for you and all the success you have achieved. You are truly inspiring to many. Thank you for showing the world how beautiful it is to adopt a dog. Currently in Turkey the parliament passed a law to kill all the stray dogs despite all the protests of civilians to prevent this massacre. My mum has been looking after 50 stray dogs for 20 years. She and her friends are trying to find solution to protect the dogs and cats from the horrible end. Please kindly bring the world’s attention to this horrible event and maybe there would be some good hearted people who can help and adopt these beautiful dogs. Any stray dogs adopted from Turkey at the moment would be saved from the governments horrible solution to end stray animals. ❤ lots of love
Thank you very much for answering mu question ! My Marty is also a stray from Serbia and je was sooo fearful when he came but it is an amazing journey to watch him open himself and gain comfidance. It’s been a year and a half now and he came from so far ❤
I had a similar rescue experience! Totally agree that things get better with time + them having more positive experiences. So worth it to see their confidence grow though ❤
Lovely update! When I got my Patsy Girl 3 years ago, she reminded me so much of Effie. She was and still is, full of anxiety. Her confidence has grown & I am so proud of her! Thank you for the sink analogy, what a brilliant way to think of how she's feeling!
So glad to hear both of you are doing better and have grown to be such a good team! As a mum of a rescue dog myself I share a lot of your struggles and agree with your tips. My dog was 10.5 when I adopted him from Spain. Not much is known about his previous life other than that he had a (bad) home for 8 years and spent 2 at the shelter. I knew he wouldn’t be an ‘easy’ dog as the shelter already figured out that he wasn’t socialized with other dogs prior to coming there and that he was afraid of big dogs, didn’t like children and cats. And he had medical issues with his heart and kidneys. I still felt like I was up for the task because I grew up in a family that always had multiple stray dogs/dogs from shelters that were behaving difficult for a long time and I could handle all of them very well. Guess I was wrong :D All of his (behavioral) issues turned out to be true but there was so much more. He was so scared when he arrived that he tried biting everything and every one that was getting close to touching him and managed to bite me as well as other people. I was an overwhelmed wreck, my anxiety (that I had had under control for years after many years of therapy) came back full force and didn’t know how to handle him at all. Every time I had to put the leash on him I was so scared and no one besides myself was allowed to get even close to him (is still a thing with every one he doesn’t know for a very long time). Visits with the vet were an absolute nightmare and I’m still traumatized to this day from some of those visits and also scared sometimes that I’m not able to get him medical help easily in case of an emergency because of his behavior. And I had to realize that my insecurities and anxiousness provoked his behavior even more cause he was in desperate need of someone to be secure and show him the way and I just wasn’t that leader for him. That was a hard pill to swallow and it was the toughest time for at least a 6 months for him and I before things slowly started to get a little better. And after a year it was already so much better and now, after 4 years with me I couldn’t love him more and we are such a great team. Will we sit comfortably in crowded places? Will we comfortably meet other dogs? Will we go on holiday easily? No. But that’s fine with me now that I have accepted the dog I have (not the one I ‘wanted’). What helped most? Patience, a lot of it, faith, love and time. And not just working on him and with him but myself as well. In the end it was all worth it and I’m so grateful for everything I had to learn through him and how he changed me as a person. To everyone going through a similar experience: get yourself and your animal appropriate help and stick through it if possible! They deserve for us to be patient and loving with them, especially if they didn’t have an easy start in life❤
Thank you this was very helpfull Estee. I’ve adopted my dog 9 months ago, she was pregnant and after that she started beeing very scared and territorial. And the only thing that I can do is to be pacient and give her time. To Let go of what I thought it will be to have a dog and be present.
I adopted my first rescue dog from overseas (Qatar) 3 years ago and have since fostered other international street dogs (including a foster-fail because she would have been too hard to place with another family -- she didn't trust ANY humans and couldn't stand being even 10 feet away from one). Both of my dogs came with a fun-pack of fears, triggers, quirks... but are also WAY better behaved than most dogs from breeders. (They never jump up on counters or tables, never steal food even if it's easily within reach, never leap onto people, etc.) One advantage of rescuing a dog is better than getting one from a breeder because you have a better idea of what their personality and needs are, and oftentimes they're at least partially potty-trained. On the other hand, rescue dogs (specifically coming from overseas, and/or if they've been on the street or abusive homes for any amount of time) require ** patience **. My biggest advice for when people first pick up the dog is to be as calm and still as possible -- no sudden movements because it can easily scare them and it communicates that you're unpredictable which will only increase their anxiety. When I picked up my first dog from the airport, he was too terrified of being within 5 feet of anyone standing up, and even though he was on leash he tried to run into speeding traffic just to get away. We quickly realized he wouldn't go even 2 steps anywhere with us (let alone into the car to drive home), so I took him to an empty patch of grass at the airport and sat down and stayed still... for 3 hours. The first hour, he kept pulling on the leash trying to get as far away from me as possible (everyone else left). The second hour he lay down at the end of the leash. Throughout the third hour, he kept sliding closer until he was laying against my leg. We stayed like that position for a bit and when I saw he was okay with me doing some small, slow movements, I got up and see how that was for him (he was afraid of people who were standing up). Etc. etc. Everything in baby steps, everything gradual. He's still a scaredy cat (he'll jump at sounds around the house, he's afraid of the night), but he's SO much better now and such a little angel. 🥰I wouldn't trade him for the world! And would never go back to dogs form breeders. Rescue dogs are the sweetest, and seeing their growth is beyond fulfilling and heartwarming. It isn't for everybody and shouldn't be done on a whim, but if you do your research and figure out if you have the temperament, time, patience, money, and space for them... do it!!
Hey! I always wondered how life was going with Effie. I even tried to find some info (in form of posts) on instagram. So I am really happy that you made this video and gave us all the updates. It's lovely to see that you are such a good dog mom thats not shying away from giving Effie the best life.
A young kitty would be a godsend for Effie. Carefully chosen, not purebred, with boundless character. Animals crave the co- companionship all to themselves, we are not enough as heart wrenching as it seems. It will drain her sink beyond imagination.
I have always loved animals and I started thinking about adopting a Greyhound when you adopted Reggie. This year I finally fulfilled my dream of adopting a Greyhound, he comes from a hunter who mistreated him. Many dogs (and unfortunately many Greyhounds) have stories of abuse by hunters, people who keep them for racing and so on. Please please adopt if you are going to get a pet. No need to buy when there are so many animals in need of a home ❤
Awww Effie ❤ I remember watching video when you got her, was crying with you! Me and my partner have a 8 year old rescue spaniel girl, she’s so nervous around people she doesn’t know and doesn’t like kids touching her. And the sounds!! Just like your Effie.
I have an anxious dog and getting a 2nd dog really improved his quality of life. Having a companion when I have to leave the house, a sleeping buddy at night, a playmate that loves to sniff around, and just another constant presence by his side, really made a difference in lowering the anxiety level of my 1st dog. And it's not that much more work as I'm already doing the same things for the first one. It's a lot more $$$ though and the double grooming and teeth brushing is annoying but the rest, walking, playing, feeding doesn't add more work at all. I find it really worth the trouble to see such an improvement in my 1st dog's wellbeing ♥ (But in your situation though, I would get an adult dog with a confident calm personality. Because a puppy is crazy work and adult dogs find puppies really annoying. It took 12-18 months to reap the benefits of having that second dog because at first she was a crazy energetic puppy and my first dog really wasn't impressed. Now they adore each other and it made him a lot calmer. So for Effie, an adult dog pal would probably be much better suited if ever you change your mind about a second fur baby) ♥
I adopted my dog 4 months ago. She’s terrified to leave the yard or to ride in a car. It’s getting better. Effie is adorable!! It feels like I have a toddler but she’s so worth it 🐶
I get it. I am mom to my dog. She looks to me for everything. I also have a dog that’s sensitive, but shes deceptive in her sensitivity bc she can be super friendly. It took me a while to learn what her triggers were and how to manage situations, but with some help, it’s getting better all the time
I loved the philosophy of Tails and my dog loved the free bag, as soon as I bought the next one she refused to go near it (like literally didn’t eat for a week, we thought she was sick!) and now you can get it in Sainsbury’s so it doesn’t seem a genuine brand to me as they’ve prioritised expansion and money over their original brand mission 🤷🏼♀️ love little Effie though and glad she’s improving little by little!
OMG I am Effie 🥹 Effie girl!!! I can totally resonate with you. I moved closer to the beach last year and our local beach is almost empty most of the time and yesss I need my decompressed beach walk every day 🥹 with my hyper extroverted dog 😂
Hi Estee, I am a viewer from Singapore and I have been following you for ages. I’ve watched all your videos especially the ones where Effie makes an appearance, and truth be told, Effie is sometimes the reason why I watch your videos 😂 Anyway I just want to say that Effie looks almost identical to my dog Bailey which is a golden retriever (and this is part of the reason why I love Effie so much). Even their colour is exactly the same! So Effie is definitely part golden retriever. Bailey even zoomies like Effie - it is almost uncanny 😱 Wish I could send you pics of Bailey so that you can see for yourself how much she resembles Effie. Anyway please keep sharing videos of Effie - I honestly love her so much!
I remember when you couldn't even put her on a leash or take her for a walk because she'd freak out. Then I saw your video of a walk in the country and Effie was just plowing on through. I knew you would bring her out of her shell!
Effie is so lucky to have you omg. My family is from Greece. She is a Greek girl like me. I am also almost like Effie What do you do since you travel ? Do u have ppl helping you ? Oh she goes to daycare.
girl your eye colour is like ocean blue eyes!! I can't believe Effie is turning 5!!! my dog have a similar fur as Effie, can I ask if Effie sheds a lot? how do you deal with it?
Estee, have you heard of term highly sensitive? Elaine Aron has written about the highly sensitive person that makes up about 20% of population and it happens for animals too! Might be worth reading in to! Effie is beautiful! x
Thanks for sharing your story. Do you get nervous walking her at night? I use to live in Marlybone and in the wee hours of the morning, no one was around! If you don’t take her out in middle of the night, what do you do if she has an emergency?
Thank you so much for sharing Effie's story. My "Effie" was called Coco. Coco was rescued from a man who had so many dogs and would abuse them. She was tied to a tree, he would hit and starve her. When the rescue organization came back with a warrant to rescue the dogs, he shot half of them and Coco was the last one he shot. Lucky for me, her wound was superficial but it took the rescue organization 1 week to find and catch her. When I our dog Fanny passed, I told my family I am going to adopt another dog. When that came I asked the rescue organization to give me the most unadaptable dog they had and I would rescue her. You guessed it, it was Coco. It was a journey not doing to lie but without a doubt, was the most affectionate, loyal and would give her life to protect me and my family. It took about 7 years to be a "normal" dog but I didn't care if she would never be a normal dog, I just took her where she was at and I think that's what made her who she became. Coco passed 5 years ago. I was blessed to have her 12 years.
This is so beautiful! God bless you.
@@ncnishachaudhary Thank you but Coco blessed me❤
I love that duke taught Effie to sit it another way that duke lives on
I remember when you first got Effie and all you went through. She is so lucky to have you as her mom. I hope you will do more Effie videos - can't get enough of that gorgeous girl❤❤❤❤
Think i cried a little when you shared photos of effie at the doggy daycare 😭💕 it’s as though she doesn’t have anxiety, confident in her super smiles 🥹 so cute of duke and effie hanging out together and learning how to sit! 😂 I miss reggie forever and always ❤️❤️❤️
You were clearly always destined to be Effie’s mum, I’m so glad you found each other 😊, Effie is absolutely precious ❤
Thank you for promoting adoption and for detailing your rescue journey!!! Been following your dog journey since Reggie, and have loved seeing the new struggles and victories with Effie! I work with dog rescues in California, and we have a extremely bad shelter crisis. People abandoning dogs left-and-right, backyard breeders looking to make a quick buck and dumping dogs that don't serve them in this way, hundreds (and i mean HUNDREDS) getting euthanized every day. If there are any Californian dog lovers reading this, please support your local rescues and shelters, foster and adopt if you can, so that we can save many more just like Effie!
The photos of Effie at doggy daycare are TOO MUCH ❤❤❤
As a fearful human I feel very seen by Effie
Thank you for sharing her story. Mine is exactly the same. She is almost 12 and it’s been a long road. Not food motivated, terrified of everything, super sensitive to change, among many other quirks. Sometimes you just need to realize they are who they are. Supporting their well-being is most important to their happiness. Effie is a beautiful soul.
Oh how I remember Reggie! and Duke! I also remember when you got Effie. I have crate trained my two corgis. My previous dog, I did not. My two, LOVE their crate. It is their safe space and because they are so low to the ground, when I am not with them, they are crated. Love Miss Effie and all that you have done to make her a confident dog. By the way, you look gorgeous! Hugs from me, Khloe and Ethan the corgis.
Estée, you give her an amazing life 💛
You are such an amazing and dedicated dog-mom Estee. I'm Greek and Coconi is one of the sweetest Greek breeds. I'm so happy Effie found her family in your arms.
You're an amazing dog mom❤ I'm sure Effie is grateful that you take so much care of her
Girl the amount you just gush and glow in this video makes me SO happy. You’re such an amazing dog mom! I remember a video you share maybe a few years ago and you were brought to tears with frustration about Effie, and any pet owner could tell that you were in the breakthrough phase of dealing with a nervous pet. That kind of strength makes such a bond between you and your pet, and I love seeing how well you both are doing now!!!! Lots of love from TN xoxo
I had a rescue dog for 13 years. She was afraid of dogs and people. If you weren’t part of our family you were not welcome in our home. We did tons of training. She improved but could not be 100% trusted around other dogs and people. I walked her/ ran her daily for about 15 miles unleashed in the woods. It was her happy place. Unrestricted and able to flee if necessary. She was the best girl in the world. She loved her people unconditionally and faithfully. It was very hard but I wouldn’t change a thing. She passed away this past October. We were blessed with her presence. Your pup and you are so lucky to have found each other.
I love that you are such a dog mom!! I am a new dog mom & I feel like I've only become weirder & unapologetic about accepting this new role! I fostered dogs for 2 years before I ended up adopting a puppy. I think it's so important & I want to thank you for supporting the beauty & goodness in adopting. So many people in my circles have designer dogs, but every puppy deserves love no matter what breed or mix. Thanks for gushing about Efiie; makes me feel more normal about the exponential love my pup, Carmine has to give & all the silly yet infinite affection I give back. Thank you, Estee!!
she is the cutest little lady!!
isn't she!
Effie is such a gorgeous girl. Our little girl Dixie (we have miniature schnauzers) came to us as an extremely anxious ex-breeding girl and she was so timid and scared that it was heartbreaking. When I look at our darling girl now it's hard to remember her being so afraid. It does take a lot of effort and a lot of love but, wow, aren't they so worth it. Our two mini schnauzers, Dixie and Darcy, completely fill my heart. Big hugs to your girl, the beautiful Miss Effie ❤
After you adopted Effie you inspired me to adopt a dog from abroad. Luna looks very similar to Effie, but she's black. She is from Romania, I got her at 10 months old, she's now 5 years. She was also a street dog. I was so lucky with her - she's been the perfect dog. No anxiety, no food aggression/protectiveness, no resource guarding, no prey drive, nothing. She's best friends with my cats and guinea pigs, she's got perfect recall. Her literal only vice is that she barks when she's happy and she's the world's happiest dog so she barks a lot 😂 she was scared of doorways for about 6 months after I got her so I had to carry her through them, and she's still scared of brooms. She was scared of children but is now wonderful with them, especially my 2 year old daughter! Adopting a random street dog from abroad found me the world's best pup and I'm so grateful to you for introducing me to the idea because while id always have rescued (even my horses are rescues!) I hadn't considered from abroad before.
The photos of Effie at doggie daycare made my heart melt, she looks so joyful 🥺 Have you ever considered joining dog walk groups with her in London maybe ? I don't know if I recall correctly but I remember some of your older vlogs where you used to go to the park with Reggie and some other fellow greyhounds 🥰
Thank you for your kindness and compassion. You bring so much good to the world. And you look so beautiful. Wishing you the best for an even more wonderful future.
I just want you to know --- your early adoption videos when Effiee came into your life was the last little push I needed to go out and rescue a dog myself. I ended up with my best friend, Winnie, who oddly looks so so so much life Effie. Hello from your soul sisters in LA
Estee I have the same dog which I rescued from a shelter in Cyprus . Watching effie was like watching my own dog . Coconi dogs are the best loving dogs ever . ❤
Your thoughtful, sensitive, kind approach with Effie is refreshing to hear. This may sound strange but I have a similar approach with my son who is on the autism spectrum. When you have this deep respect and understanding for their sensitivities the bond that grows is unmatched. These beautiful souls are our teachers. So blessed ✨
Effie is such a sweetheart! And lovely to see Reggie! ❤
Oh Sir Reggie, was such a cool dog, loved Reggie cam. Miss Effie is just the sweetest. ❤
lol at me an Effie on the same meds ✌🏻😂
My dog is from Romania and she has anxiety issues, but she is the quirkiest dog I have ever had. She is just adorable and I am her advocate and guardian. I know her like no other, so it definitley doesn't sound strange when you say you know how she is feeling just by looking at her. That is a bond!
I remember when Effie was on Lily's Kitchen as a pup, then you also tried her on Butternut Box.
I also remember Reggie ❤
I have a rescue from Poland and when I first got her I kept on rewatching your vlog where you lose it over being alone with a terrified Effie, having no one to help and I remember it was exactly how I felt with my dog at the time, feeling like my dog hates me and is scared of me and that I am doing everything wrong. Your vlog helped me a lot in the tough times!
Effie is your heart and it’s abundantly clear that she’s your sweet fur baby that you bring comfort and love to 🐾💖. She’s very fortunate to have you as her mama.
What a beautiful dog and a beautiful story! I have a very difficult dog myself, with very unique health issues, so I understand how much love and work it takes to keep them safe, happy, and healthy. You’re a great dog mom ❤
Effie’s story fills my heart and you are a Queen who I respect so much because you did not take the path of least resistance. Your journey together and you sharing it with the masses helps to spread the very important message to “adopt don’t shop”, something I am personally very passionate about. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! 💗🐾💝😘🥰
I love, love, love the way you talk about your pet children and your love for them. It's exactly how I feel -- the loves of my life! IYKYK. 💗
Effie 😍Her dinner jumps are so cute
I have a Spanish rescue Dog and he is the same. He is the sweetest, gentle special soul. Very noise sensitive like Effie. He does all the same things you describe. He is a proper mummies boy. It was hard to let go of all the things that less sensitive dog can do but he’s the best boy ever and he’s adapted and grown. He will never be able to cope in certain situations but he makes my life better he gives so much. He’s my total love and the love he gives me makes every little challenge worth it. Ive adapted so has he and we have the best life together xxx like all beings myself included he’s perfectly imperfect and that’s beautiful ❤ xx ps he hates the oven, the toaster, people shouting, strangers, kids shouting, traffic noise, he’s always hyper vigilant. But he’s the most Velcro dog ever, and he enjoys life xxx hurrah for rescue dogs xxx
You always look so radiant
Thank you
She does.
how crazy, 5 years now!
Effie is the luckiest dog...really some people don't put such effort in their kids today unfortunately! bravo Estee
Awe, Effie ❤ it was meant to be! You found each other. You took on the huge responsibility of being a pet owner, but that’s because you have a huge ♥️ and loads of compassion. If only they can tell us their issues and problems so we can make it better. I think it does take animals quite a while if ever to be trusting. I brought two dogs in need into my home one I saved just before they were going to put her down because she had a severe case of kennel cough so I took three days off work took her to an emergency 24 hour vet and stroked her esophagus for three days just to try and keep the coughing down which didn’t do much but she knew I was trying to help, the other dog was almost a year old and he was quite jumpy and super skittish but I loved him so much. He was a challenge just like your toaster ordeal. That was my Charlie. He was the same way with every teeny tiny noise and would just do this really fast run through the house so I learned to get down on the floor. Call him over and give him a few bits of Cheerios cereal that worked, but I would always have to get on the floor at his level. It’s almost like having a toddler. Lol it’s great you found a brand you like. Thanks for the rundown. 👍
Thank you so much for sharing this! I also have a 4 kilo Kokoni and they are the biggest sweetheartsa and the most loyal dogs but she's also incredibly anxious. We are currently working with a canine psychologist and it helps a lot to understand her. Besides being anxious she is also hypersensitive to any impulses. My dog Lola is the same age and I have rescued her in Cyprus in 2019.
By now Lola did a huge progress from being afraid of all the people now she's having her first dog friends and she loves all of my friends as well. She is still quit suspescious of all the strangers but she's not paying any attention to them now versus attacking everyone when we started.
Thank you for sharing your story! I was crying watching this video as my baby Lola is just the same and there were times when I felt like it's not gonna get better but now I'm so proud of my baby KOKONI
🥰 I remember the day you uploaded the vlog of the night you went to get beautiful Effie, I was crying happy tears with you - and I now started crying happy tears again as soon as I started watching your update on her !! 🥲🥲🥲 I love the photo of her in the middle at 13:23 where she is smiling with her daycare doggie friends, just so endearing. 🥰 Thank you for never giving up on her and taking such amazing care of her special needs as a stray rescue dog; she is your baby and you are her mum. 🥰 Thank you for updating us on her, Estée, please give Effie cuddles from all of us !! 🙂
its fascinating how dogs who have suffered trauma remain the same throughout their lives to some degree. so heartbreaking how cruel humans can be. so happy she has a lovely life now
Effie i doggy daycare is the cutest thing 🥹🥹🥹
I’ve been petting my own doggy during this whole video. I remember when Reggie passed and I remember when you got Effie and how scared she was. I’m so happy she’s doing better! Dogs are the best companions and I love them all dearly
I remember so clearly when you went to pick her up 😭 I can’t believe she’s 5 already. You were both chosen for each other, everything you’ve gone through together to see where she’s at now is a testament to all your effort. I remember just getting her to wee outside when you lived in your flat was such a huge milestone. The doggie daycare pics 🥹 You are an amazing dog mom 🥰
Having an anxious fearful pup I so agree with all of this. She manages it so well now that she’s 3 but man oh man. Taking her to a brewery would fill her sink and overflow it in like 5 seconds. I wonder if there is a correlation between fearful dogs and not being food motivated. My dog couldn’t care less to have a treat when she’s battling an anxiety attack on a walk. Usually she’s fearful of other dogs and not people.
I needed that serotonin boost with seeing reggies face again 😭 but also effie is effing cute
I remember Effie couldn’t pee outside and here she is now! Proud both of you, girlies❤️. And it’s been 5 years oh my goodness.
P.S. Estée, you look amazing! Hope you are doing well
also the photos of effie at doggy daycare I STARTED CRYING
My Flynn was gonna be put down in Wales 7 days after he was found as a stray if unclaimed. A dog’s home charity rescued him where we got him and had him for another 11 years. Please rescue! He was always a little scared but was wonderful to see him happy and healthy and grow old.
Hi Estee. I have been following you for a long time and remember the video that you uploaded the time you got Effie and what you have gone through. I am incredibly happy for you and all the success you have achieved. You are truly inspiring to many.
Thank you for showing the world how beautiful it is to adopt a dog. Currently in Turkey the parliament passed a law to kill all the stray dogs despite all the protests of civilians to prevent this massacre. My mum has been looking after 50 stray dogs for 20 years. She and her friends are trying to find solution to protect the dogs and cats from the horrible end. Please kindly bring the world’s attention to this horrible event and maybe there would be some good hearted people who can help and adopt these beautiful dogs. Any stray dogs adopted from Turkey at the moment would be saved from the governments horrible solution to end stray animals. ❤ lots of love
Why Effie is so cute?!
Thank you very much for answering mu question ! My Marty is also a stray from Serbia and je was sooo fearful when he came but it is an amazing journey to watch him open himself and gain comfidance. It’s been a year and a half now and he came from so far ❤
What a beautiful soulmate ❤🐕
I had a similar rescue experience! Totally agree that things get better with time + them having more positive experiences. So worth it to see their confidence grow though ❤
Effie is so lucky to have you!🥲
Lovely update! When I got my Patsy Girl 3 years ago, she reminded me so much of Effie. She was and still is, full of anxiety. Her confidence has grown & I am so proud of her! Thank you for the sink analogy, what a brilliant way to think of how she's feeling!
So glad to hear both of you are doing better and have grown to be such a good team!
As a mum of a rescue dog myself I share a lot of your struggles and agree with your tips.
My dog was 10.5 when I adopted him from Spain. Not much is known about his previous life other than that he had a (bad) home for 8 years and spent 2 at the shelter. I knew he wouldn’t be an ‘easy’ dog as the shelter already figured out that he wasn’t socialized with other dogs prior to coming there and that he was afraid of big dogs, didn’t like children and cats. And he had medical issues with his heart and kidneys.
I still felt like I was up for the task because I grew up in a family that always had multiple stray dogs/dogs from shelters that were behaving difficult for a long time and I could handle all of them very well. Guess I was wrong :D
All of his (behavioral) issues turned out to be true but there was so much more. He was so scared when he arrived that he tried biting everything and every one that was getting close to touching him and managed to bite me as well as other people. I was an overwhelmed wreck, my anxiety (that I had had under control for years after many years of therapy) came back full force and didn’t know how to handle him at all. Every time I had to put the leash on him I was so scared and no one besides myself was allowed to get even close to him (is still a thing with every one he doesn’t know for a very long time). Visits with the vet were an absolute nightmare and I’m still traumatized to this day from some of those visits and also scared sometimes that I’m not able to get him medical help easily in case of an emergency because of his behavior.
And I had to realize that my insecurities and anxiousness provoked his behavior even more cause he was in desperate need of someone to be secure and show him the way and I just wasn’t that leader for him. That was a hard pill to swallow and it was the toughest time for at least a 6 months for him and I before things slowly started to get a little better. And after a year it was already so much better and now, after 4 years with me I couldn’t love him more and we are such a great team.
Will we sit comfortably in crowded places? Will we comfortably meet other dogs? Will we go on holiday easily? No. But that’s fine with me now that I have accepted the dog I have (not the one I ‘wanted’).
What helped most? Patience, a lot of it, faith, love and time. And not just working on him and with him but myself as well. In the end it was all worth it and I’m so grateful for everything I had to learn through him and how he changed me as a person.
To everyone going through a similar experience: get yourself and your animal appropriate help and stick through it if possible! They deserve for us to be patient and loving with them, especially if they didn’t have an easy start in life❤
i remember the way you started crying when you got her in your arms!!!! so glad she's way better
Gorgeous video ❤ Aww the pic of Reggie
I LOVE EFFIE! ❤
Thank you this was very helpfull Estee. I’ve adopted my dog 9 months ago, she was pregnant and after that she started beeing very scared and territorial. And the only thing that I can do is to be pacient and give her time. To Let go of what I thought it will be to have a dog and be present.
I can’t believe you got Effie in 2019! My goodness! She’s ‘older’ than Covid 😂 Loved this update! 🥰
I adopted my first rescue dog from overseas (Qatar) 3 years ago and have since fostered other international street dogs (including a foster-fail because she would have been too hard to place with another family -- she didn't trust ANY humans and couldn't stand being even 10 feet away from one). Both of my dogs came with a fun-pack of fears, triggers, quirks... but are also WAY better behaved than most dogs from breeders. (They never jump up on counters or tables, never steal food even if it's easily within reach, never leap onto people, etc.)
One advantage of rescuing a dog is better than getting one from a breeder because you have a better idea of what their personality and needs are, and oftentimes they're at least partially potty-trained.
On the other hand, rescue dogs (specifically coming from overseas, and/or if they've been on the street or abusive homes for any amount of time) require ** patience **. My biggest advice for when people first pick up the dog is to be as calm and still as possible -- no sudden movements because it can easily scare them and it communicates that you're unpredictable which will only increase their anxiety. When I picked up my first dog from the airport, he was too terrified of being within 5 feet of anyone standing up, and even though he was on leash he tried to run into speeding traffic just to get away. We quickly realized he wouldn't go even 2 steps anywhere with us (let alone into the car to drive home), so I took him to an empty patch of grass at the airport and sat down and stayed still... for 3 hours. The first hour, he kept pulling on the leash trying to get as far away from me as possible (everyone else left). The second hour he lay down at the end of the leash. Throughout the third hour, he kept sliding closer until he was laying against my leg. We stayed like that position for a bit and when I saw he was okay with me doing some small, slow movements, I got up and see how that was for him (he was afraid of people who were standing up). Etc. etc. Everything in baby steps, everything gradual.
He's still a scaredy cat (he'll jump at sounds around the house, he's afraid of the night), but he's SO much better now and such a little angel. 🥰I wouldn't trade him for the world! And would never go back to dogs form breeders. Rescue dogs are the sweetest, and seeing their growth is beyond fulfilling and heartwarming. It isn't for everybody and shouldn't be done on a whim, but if you do your research and figure out if you have the temperament, time, patience, money, and space for them... do it!!
Hey! I always wondered how life was going with Effie. I even tried to find some info (in form of posts) on instagram. So I am really happy that you made this video and gave us all the updates. It's lovely to see that you are such a good dog mom thats not shying away from giving Effie the best life.
A young kitty would be a godsend for Effie. Carefully chosen, not purebred, with boundless character. Animals crave the co- companionship all to themselves, we are not enough as heart wrenching as it seems. It will drain her sink beyond imagination.
Estee What a Wonderful Story.Xx 😊
It was meant to be 😘 You're the best person to be Effie's mumma🧡
I am also a mum to 14 yrs old black labrador Karlos,he is just love of my (our) lif
I have always loved animals and I started thinking about adopting a Greyhound when you adopted Reggie. This year I finally fulfilled my dream of adopting a Greyhound, he comes from a hunter who mistreated him. Many dogs (and unfortunately many Greyhounds) have stories of abuse by hunters, people who keep them for racing and so on.
Please please adopt if you are going to get a pet. No need to buy when there are so many animals in need of a home ❤
Awww Effie ❤ I remember watching video when you got her, was crying with you! Me and my partner have a 8 year old rescue spaniel girl, she’s so nervous around people she doesn’t know and doesn’t like kids touching her. And the sounds!! Just like your Effie.
omg that happy jumping around moment just made my day! 🥰
I have an anxious dog and getting a 2nd dog really improved his quality of life. Having a companion when I have to leave the house, a sleeping buddy at night, a playmate that loves to sniff around, and just another constant presence by his side, really made a difference in lowering the anxiety level of my 1st dog. And it's not that much more work as I'm already doing the same things for the first one. It's a lot more $$$ though and the double grooming and teeth brushing is annoying but the rest, walking, playing, feeding doesn't add more work at all. I find it really worth the trouble to see such an improvement in my 1st dog's wellbeing ♥ (But in your situation though, I would get an adult dog with a confident calm personality. Because a puppy is crazy work and adult dogs find puppies really annoying. It took 12-18 months to reap the benefits of having that second dog because at first she was a crazy energetic puppy and my first dog really wasn't impressed. Now they adore each other and it made him a lot calmer. So for Effie, an adult dog pal would probably be much better suited if ever you change your mind about a second fur baby) ♥
I adopted my dog 4 months ago. She’s terrified to leave the yard or to ride in a car. It’s getting better. Effie is adorable!! It feels like I have a toddler but she’s so worth it 🐶
I forgot how smol the little lady was when she first arrived 🥹
love the sink analogy...thank you for sharing
I get it. I am mom to my dog. She looks to me for everything. I also have a dog that’s sensitive, but shes deceptive in her sensitivity bc she can be super friendly. It took me a while to learn what her triggers were and how to manage situations, but with some help, it’s getting better all the time
Awww I remember that video of you bawling! 😅❤ So happy for you two to have found one another.
I miss Reggie sometimes (as I loved that dog), but love seeing Effie in your pics and videos!
For those interested, the sink analogy is also known as "trigger stacking"!
I loved the philosophy of Tails and my dog loved the free bag, as soon as I bought the next one she refused to go near it (like literally didn’t eat for a week, we thought she was sick!) and now you can get it in Sainsbury’s so it doesn’t seem a genuine brand to me as they’ve prioritised expansion and money over their original brand mission 🤷🏼♀️ love little Effie though and glad she’s improving little by little!
Effie is cute
OMG I am Effie 🥹 Effie girl!!! I can totally resonate with you. I moved closer to the beach last year and our local beach is almost empty most of the time and yesss I need my decompressed beach walk every day 🥹 with my hyper extroverted dog 😂
Hi Estee, I am a viewer from Singapore and I have been following you for ages. I’ve watched all your videos especially the ones where Effie makes an appearance, and truth be told, Effie is sometimes the reason why I watch your videos 😂 Anyway I just want to say that Effie looks almost identical to my dog Bailey which is a golden retriever (and this is part of the reason why I love Effie so much). Even their colour is exactly the same! So Effie is definitely part golden retriever. Bailey even zoomies like Effie - it is almost uncanny 😱 Wish I could send you pics of Bailey so that you can see for yourself how much she resembles Effie. Anyway please keep sharing videos of Effie - I honestly love her so much!
Effie is such a gorgeous pup :)
loved this
When a dog has been tested cruelty no wonder she is afraid❤
I remember when you couldn't even put her on a leash or take her for a walk because she'd freak out. Then I saw your video of a walk in the country and Effie was just plowing on through. I knew you would bring her out of her shell!
I have been waiting for this story 😮😮😮 for agessss
i really like the sink analogy
Wonderful you Estée!
Great video!
Effie is so lucky to have you omg. My family is from Greece. She is a Greek girl like me. I am also almost like Effie What do you do since you travel ? Do u have ppl helping you ? Oh she goes to daycare.
beautiful video and beautiful dog and human
oh, it's been a long time since i've seen reggie's face 🥺
girl your eye colour is like ocean blue eyes!! I can't believe Effie is turning 5!!! my dog have a similar fur as Effie, can I ask if Effie sheds a lot? how do you deal with it?
Estee, have you heard of term highly sensitive? Elaine Aron has written about the highly sensitive person that makes up about 20% of population and it happens for animals too! Might be worth reading in to! Effie is beautiful! x
Thanks for sharing your story. Do you get nervous walking her at night? I use to live in Marlybone and in the wee hours of the morning, no one was around! If you don’t take her out in middle of the night, what do you do if she has an emergency?
Love your lipstick 💄 please tell me what you used.
Beautiful woman, sweet doggie.