I Lost My Child In A Hit And Run | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 119 | Season 3

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  • @xolingwane4070
    @xolingwane4070 2 роки тому +108

    To think I got a call last week Tuesday that my daughter had an accident but she came out without scratch 😭😭😥😥😢 Lord Jesus Christ thank you... may God heal you aus Candy 🤗🤗😭😥😢

    • @kellyalexander7347
      @kellyalexander7347 2 роки тому

      Thank you Jesus 😊 there is nothing more painful than losing your child

  • @lindih111
    @lindih111 2 роки тому +66

    I like that you speak with her in her native Sepedi,especially in a sensitive matter as this...💜😓🙏🏾

  • @TK-in4ix
    @TK-in4ix 2 роки тому +44

    I cannot fathom Relebogile's strength to hold a space for someone's raw grief and allowing silences while Candi goes through this. Much respect 🙏🏽. May Candi find peace 💕

  • @nwakhubayi
    @nwakhubayi 2 роки тому +48

    My brother died in a hit and run in 2012 , he has his skull open I was in denial and remember fainting on the day of night vigil, I saw him on suturday and denied because it didn’t look like him , he was soo swollen .
    I am still in denial even now 10 years later , it hurst so much to think about it , for parents it’s worse .
    Came across an accident 2 weeks ago at home , stoped and helped unfortunately I was with my mom . She was triggered it pained me to see her like that , she said she remembered her child (my brother) .
    Indeed it’s painful to bury your child . May God give you and all of us who is going through such pain strength to live with it .
    Sending much love ❤️

  • @tammialevisnus4259
    @tammialevisnus4259 2 роки тому +42

    She's a true mother and definately not a mother by chance, so loving, kind heartwarming lady❤

  • @kagisoletsolo
    @kagisoletsolo 2 роки тому +39

    One thing about accidental death is that you never heal from it, the trauma lives forever , I still remember the day I lost my brother to a car accident like it was yesterday

  • @Sunshine26
    @Sunshine26 2 роки тому +53

    As a young mother this hurts to watch, our babies are literally our first and only true loves.
    To lose your son in such a gruesome manner, it hurts, praying for your healing Ma❤️

  • @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz
    @Thoughtsbyme-ts4jz 2 роки тому +63

    She is a great person. The way she treats his widow and grand daughter. She is a very good person

    • @jozimashego1699
      @jozimashego1699 2 роки тому +2

      I wish all in-law will b like Sesi Candy🙏

  • @bellasetona
    @bellasetona 2 роки тому +52

    No parent should go through this😭Her emotions are so raw. I hope one day she finds closure.

    • @zizimagadla7216
      @zizimagadla7216 2 роки тому

      It will take time shem.. Just when u think u've recovered, there are always triggers.. May she find strength to endure the pain.

  • @mahlatsemasha2308
    @mahlatsemasha2308 2 роки тому +23

    Yoh I can’t even begin to imagine how hard this job is for sis Relebohile🥺
    Mama Candy🥺❤️I pray for your healing. I hope God grants you all the strength you need to heal from this.

  • @mmalehumo378
    @mmalehumo378 2 роки тому +24

    Candy is a very good speaker and a story teller. Condolences to our sister, we love you.

  • @nompumelelomahlangu360
    @nompumelelomahlangu360 2 роки тому +12

    My lil bro died in a car accident last year September, the wound is still raw. Worst experience ever. Thank u for sharing your story mmeCandy. Be well.

  • @thembisaodendaal
    @thembisaodendaal 2 роки тому +20

    My heart breaks for this gorgeous woman the way she lights up when she speaks of her son..my son was famous

  • @kelello-liau
    @kelello-liau 2 роки тому +23

    I am seating here watching ausi Candy and just mesmerized by her beauty and very stylish...I pray for her healing...🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @innocentiamanokolediga8489
    @innocentiamanokolediga8489 2 роки тому +31

    Okay this is sad. I lost my older brother in a car accident too in 2017. We still don’t know what happened. He was 27, he was like a father to me and we were super close. I have not healed!

    • @nommyhairbeauty_products2267
      @nommyhairbeauty_products2267 2 роки тому

      i dont think will ever heal love, i can see the pain in my fathers eyes we also lost our brother last year through hit and run

  • @fatijoannpeu1938
    @fatijoannpeu1938 2 роки тому +17

    I'm literally heart broken. I can feel her pain in her voice and see it in her eyes. This is too heart breaking.
    She can never forget but I pray she finds the peace, closure and strength to overcome this pain

  • @sizakelediya3872
    @sizakelediya3872 2 роки тому +14

    I lost my brother in car accident worst thing that ever happened in my life. He was by himself in a car and flied pass the big tree and stopped by the river luckily the hunters in the morning there were curious enough to find him. Because he fallen down in the bridge it hard to take from. What break my heart my mother saw him in that state. My mother was never the same, I struggled with her and I still am because she never the same person. I miss that beautiful soul every single day, there space in my family that will never be closed by no one.

  • @nozisamela3083
    @nozisamela3083 2 роки тому +21

    This pain I know all too well. I was 23 when my first born was run over by a car. That week after the accident I was operating on autopilot. I went to identify his three year old body (it was two weeks before his 4th birthday), did all the funeral arrangements, chose the coffin.
    But, came the day after the funeral, people had gone home, I was supposed to go back to work, reality kicked in.
    Yhooo, to this day I don't know how I did not end up killing myself or end up permanently living in a psychiatric hospital.

  • @thembisaodendaal
    @thembisaodendaal 2 роки тому +32

    I love how proud she is of her son's achievements it's so beautiful

  • @pointa2b388
    @pointa2b388 2 роки тому +10

    Oh wow, I love how you love your daughter in law, you are not limiting her, the fact that you will be having other grand children,

  • @deekaym
    @deekaym 2 роки тому +8

    No parent deserves to loose their child…this is so heartbreaking 💔
    May his souls continue to rest in peace 🤍

  • @ingelosikazi
    @ingelosikazi 2 роки тому +12

    This broke my heart. I hope you find healing aus Candy 🥺💛

  • @TheBonnza
    @TheBonnza 2 роки тому +8

    My condolences to aus Candy,my son was in an accident 3 years ago,I thank God every day for his survival,but from that day,I am struggling to let him off my sight,even went on depression I am so sorry Candy

    • @tintswalombekwa2214
      @tintswalombekwa2214 2 роки тому +1

      From the day I gave birth to my princess ( first born child) I have been struggling with accepting that death will come ... I can relate to u not wanting him out of your sight but I find comfort in the word of God. Because truly we can't control what happens to us and bad happen to Good people... The Burden God has laid on man kind is too heavy.

  • @montysibanyoni9027
    @montysibanyoni9027 2 роки тому +5

    It's been 9years i lost my younger brother but still when. I think about him or look at pictures of him i just cry feels like am dreaming

  • @tendaimashingaidze7823
    @tendaimashingaidze7823 2 роки тому +8

    Phew l watched through to the end
    The mum's emotions are still so raw....some wounds surely don't heal.. they just stop bleeding and we live with the scars😒

  • @zizimagadla7216
    @zizimagadla7216 2 роки тому +7

    This is such a hardest and painful experience a mom can go through 😭😭. May you find strength to endure the pain.

  • @theeelephantbeauty
    @theeelephantbeauty 2 роки тому +8

    This was so emotional to watch, mama Candy love and light to you and the family, hopefully that person one day meet up with his doing. God is for us all

  • @PopCultureSa
    @PopCultureSa 2 роки тому +10

    Big ups to Sister Relebogile😭😭😭😭 May you continue to do your Wonderful work❤️

  • @loleahmamabolo6914
    @loleahmamabolo6914 2 роки тому +2

    It's nearing a month since the death of my niece. I'm truly heartbroken by mam candy's story. I see her pain through my sister's eyes who lost her precious angel. It saddens me because this pain doesn't fade. Prayers to all who lost their children. No parent deserves to bury his child. Ke kotlo ebohloko.

  • @cherylcarrelson5830
    @cherylcarrelson5830 2 роки тому +2

    Mme Candy is such a well spoken woman...Am in love with the language shes speaking.. wow 🥰

  • @BridgetteMokwena01
    @BridgetteMokwena01 2 роки тому +13

    You can see that it still hurts her,wishing her much more healing Aus Candy ❤

    • @chiefer1325
      @chiefer1325 2 роки тому +1

      It's hurting her deeply...like it happened yesterday. Sad

  • @kheylam
    @kheylam 2 роки тому +2

    Wow...imagine taking care of Lucy ..rare gem..God bless you maa

  • @phumimanqabashe42
    @phumimanqabashe42 2 роки тому +3

    " A child should bury his parent, not the other way around" sending love, strength and light to ausi Candy

  • @nompumelelomasango3880
    @nompumelelomasango3880 2 роки тому +13

    Losing a child it's very painful in every way,l so wish l can share my sister's son story 1 day washona kabubuhlungu that child

    • @thusimphahlele5085
      @thusimphahlele5085 2 роки тому

      So sorry to you and your family. I can sense you are still in pain. 🌸Deepest condolences 💐

    • @nompumelelomasango3880
      @nompumelelomasango3880 2 роки тому

      @@thusimphahlele5085 Yoh it's very painful, such a sweet child killed by a hand grenade ekhaya cabanga ukuthi yabuyaphi till today we don't know

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. 2 роки тому

      @@nompumelelomasango3880 haiibo sisi 😭😭😭 the trauma yoh. I'm so sorry

  • @raesetjemuroa3767
    @raesetjemuroa3767 2 роки тому +6

    Sorry sisters,Is painful. May God heal you..You are very stylish nd beautiful

  • @winnietakalani8186
    @winnietakalani8186 2 роки тому +1

    Its painfull, you remaind me of my grandmother who lost her child (my mom), i grew up without knowing my mom, my father was not part of my life, but by Gods grace i grew up, im now 50 somethimg years,, when it comes to people they are the omes who told me that my grandmother is my mom

  • @tendanipelaelo6293
    @tendanipelaelo6293 2 роки тому +42

    Some life stories are just too painful. How do you hit a human being with a car and run away? Some people just don't have a conscience

  • @annahmanone9565
    @annahmanone9565 2 роки тому +5

    Sis Candy you are so sweet my dear 😍😍😍 sis Lebo you handled this story very very well thanks sesi ❤️

  • @yozareason1803
    @yozareason1803 2 роки тому +9

    I cried like a baby 🙆even though I don't have a baby, somehow I felt her pain🤗😭

  • @Skhonza
    @Skhonza 2 роки тому +4

    😥😢😭😥😢😭💔💔💔
    Phephisa my dear!! This is soo sad. I understand the love she is talking about, our kids are everything to us.

  • @thandokaay797
    @thandokaay797 2 роки тому +2

    My baby sister also passed on years back,they always told my other younger brother the same when he asked where is Mabongi.They’d say “She’s in Joburg,she will be back soon”. Strength to you mama❤️🌺🙏🏽

  • @thembisaodendaal
    @thembisaodendaal 2 роки тому +3

    What an amazing story. Beautiful woman I'm in awe

  • @mjngope
    @mjngope 2 роки тому +2

    I think Relebogile is strong, I've binge watched a lot of shows in the past couple of weeks and I would've relapsed.

  • @witnessramatsetseramatsets3671
    @witnessramatsetseramatsets3671 2 роки тому +1

    I did experienced the same pain for two kids the pain of a husband and your childrens are not the same.

  • @pointa2b388
    @pointa2b388 2 роки тому +5

    The story hurts. Aus Candy is looking so beautiful

  • @kerlymanera1033
    @kerlymanera1033 2 роки тому +1

    Ausi Relebogile how do u deal with 3rdparty trauma? , u arevery strong in these interviews.

  • @linahletsoalo8943
    @linahletsoalo8943 2 роки тому +8

    Lehu Lea bhora hle. Time doesn't even heal.
    Can the team pleace interview those that lost their kids in the pools at home?
    May we all find healing as we have lost loved ones at some point in our lives... ❤️&🕯️

    • @quelquun2018
      @quelquun2018 2 роки тому

      People have pools but yet they can’t swim or teach those in the house, how to swim🙄

    • @tryphinah
      @tryphinah 2 роки тому +2

      The is an episode about losing a child through drowning.. Check the episodes from 7 months ago

    • @thusimphahlele5085
      @thusimphahlele5085 2 роки тому +1

      The interview is there. Check the page.

  • @mandszwane7544
    @mandszwane7544 2 роки тому +6

    People who commit this kind of crime should also suffer the same fate. I mean, how do you sleep at night knowing that you killed or injured another person and did not stop to help them? 😭💔

  • @chiccoponela3688
    @chiccoponela3688 2 роки тому +9

    A beautiful woman with a beautiful heart.

    • @femimasinga6346
      @femimasinga6346 2 роки тому

      My sister nd her two daughters died in a horrific accident in January even today Im still numb I still feel like they goin to call me or watsapp, I knw ur pain mommy, healing nd strengths🙏🙏

  • @tendaimashingaidze7823
    @tendaimashingaidze7823 2 роки тому +6

    I am a very emotional person, the introduction and title alone makes me wonder if l will be able to watch the whole episode 🤔🤔....let me unpack and see how far l will go 🇿🇼🇿🇼

  • @sanelisiwebhengu9403
    @sanelisiwebhengu9403 2 роки тому +3

    I lost my mother to a hit and run & the guy is out there living his best life! Bribed the investigating officer and that was that.

  • @boledielizabethmaake8369
    @boledielizabethmaake8369 2 роки тому +1

    May she continue to find strength from God always, Sesi Candi you are a very nice person. Relebogile you are excellent with what you are doing. may God continue to use you more and more , great show

  • @gofaoneelizabethmallege903
    @gofaoneelizabethmallege903 2 роки тому

    I love her strength 🙏To just be able to talk about her son go le botlhoko yaana.It is well mama May God heal your heart.Your story is healing to some of us who are just 5 months into mourning the loss of my 2 year old nephew 😢

  • @Eunice139
    @Eunice139 2 роки тому +4

    No pain can be compared to a pain of loosing a child 🥺😭😭😭💔I lost my son two years back 💔💔it still feels like a dream 😭😭💔

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. 2 роки тому

      Oh Nkosiyami. Take heart ❤. I am so sorry.

  • @leepilemantjane8391
    @leepilemantjane8391 2 роки тому +1

    This is so sad to watch !Sis Candy💔.Strength to everyone who has lost a family member to a car accident

  • @Bonangish
    @Bonangish 2 роки тому +3

    Sending love to you and all those lost their loved ones. 😍😍

  • @marientalphysiotherapy3325
    @marientalphysiotherapy3325 2 роки тому +4

    Eishhhhhhhhhh 😭😭😭 how do you even comfort such a pain, sjoeeeeee 😔😔😔😔

  • @phumlailoveuzozibininatura9852
    @phumlailoveuzozibininatura9852 2 роки тому +2

    It's too much painful this story 💔 let's hope she's healing cc 🙏 I'm watching from saudi arabic 🇸🇦

  • @mogaumampa1195
    @mogaumampa1195 2 роки тому

    Mama Candy im so sorry for your loss, may God give you strength to carry on every day

  • @kellyalexander7347
    @kellyalexander7347 2 роки тому

    To lose a child in anyway is painful you never get over it till the day u die ,there is nothing in this world that can take that pain away 💔 bless you ma sorry for your loss

  • @kudzienicolle
    @kudzienicolle 2 роки тому +2

    Oh my goodness...this was heartbreaking to watch 🥺🥺🥺

  • @FinancesByLulu
    @FinancesByLulu 2 роки тому +3

    I couldn't stop my tears from rolling 😔😔😔

  • @sihlesithole9254
    @sihlesithole9254 2 роки тому +3

    Still bubble namanje so sorry about what happened to her.

  • @thembisaodendaal
    @thembisaodendaal 2 роки тому +2

    Omg it's like its happening now.the woman is traumatized.prayers for you mama

  • @tresornkinsikuaku2992
    @tresornkinsikuaku2992 2 роки тому

    I can never ever imagine the pain of losing a child, she is still crying like a it happened today, yho may God help you to heal sister

  • @gladysmkhize4085
    @gladysmkhize4085 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Lebo

  • @gugungcobo3480
    @gugungcobo3480 2 роки тому +3

    Ooh no sorry mummy
    This is heart breaking 💔

  • @tebogorailo498
    @tebogorailo498 2 роки тому +1

    ebotloko thata no parent should bury their child , may she find healing hle..

  • @mohauwamorena
    @mohauwamorena 2 роки тому +6

    Mama o bua ha monate hle. It's just unfortunate that this time around she was talking about an unpleasant occurrence.
    Lebo handled this extremely well...as always. I expect nothing less from this show♥️🍃🙏

  • @selaelojacqueline233
    @selaelojacqueline233 2 роки тому +1

    U are a brilliant mom rakgadi bana ba Limpopo ,it's painful to watch

  • @beniesmatsetse2202
    @beniesmatsetse2202 2 роки тому

    This show will drive me crazy one day

  • @dephine8815
    @dephine8815 2 роки тому

    Someone recently posted a pic of aus Candy on Facebook and I was thinking she had lost weight and admiring how beautiful and young she looked.Little did I know that she lost her son in a hit and run and she is diabetic.May the Lord continue to comfort her and family🙏🙏🙏❤

  • @asandambebe5201
    @asandambebe5201 2 роки тому

    I can fell your pain Mama💔💔💔💔💔💔I am crying as I am listening to you it is not easy 😭😭😭may the lord bless you with your grandchildren 🙏

  • @msm5887
    @msm5887 2 роки тому +3

    The pain of a mother 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @Dizzy12346
    @Dizzy12346 2 роки тому +2

    Sis Candy , we love you mama 😭❤️

  • @palesapearlkgarimetsa8140
    @palesapearlkgarimetsa8140 2 роки тому

    Love and light to Candi,losing a child unexpectantly is devastating and I also share my story about this on my channel

  • @missp3186
    @missp3186 2 роки тому +5

    In life we all go through the most!

  • @simphiwemabuza3229
    @simphiwemabuza3229 2 роки тому +1

    Ohh nkosi yami 💔💔💔 yaze yephuka inhlitiyo yami... No parent deserves this, it hurts to me also 🥺🥺. God's will hurts sometimes 😔

  • @muswa3805
    @muswa3805 2 роки тому +4

    Speechless💔💔

  • @sihlendwandwe5777
    @sihlendwandwe5777 Рік тому +1

    😢😢😢😢😢 it's very painful to loose a child

  • @tshiamom5977
    @tshiamom5977 2 роки тому +3

    Eish this is hard… Yoh just hearing her cry.

  • @matlaleniannah6208
    @matlaleniannah6208 2 роки тому +2

    Sesi Sikedi,find it in your heart to forgive urself so dat you can find peace and comfort

  • @sibulelengwenze3783
    @sibulelengwenze3783 2 роки тому +1

    Grand daughter shares a birthday with me 15 March 🥰🥰♥️ very touching story 🥺👏🏾

  • @lucynapwaro5725
    @lucynapwaro5725 2 роки тому

    Some one wrote” u can bury , your parents ,friends, husband ,wife , but not easy to bury your child” no parent should bury they own child, Sisi Candy thank u for sharing yo story, the more share , you will find yo healing 🙏♥️.

  • @TheLadyInAcademia
    @TheLadyInAcademia 2 роки тому

    🥺❤May God continue to give her all the strength and comfort.

  • @KhumiNongTravelingandLifestyle
    @KhumiNongTravelingandLifestyle 2 роки тому +1

    Much grace; love and strength to sis Candy 🙏🏾💙.

  • @motlagomangmankgomelaphela1051

    I was crying while watching this, its so painful

  • @motheorantho9422
    @motheorantho9422 2 роки тому +3

    So touching

  • @Liz-jw9rf
    @Liz-jw9rf 2 роки тому

    oh mommy, I am truly sorry for your loss, may God grant you strength

  • @moitoimotloung3946
    @moitoimotloung3946 2 роки тому

    Sesi Candy please be strong and pray for a healing 😢We love you

  • @bonnitasabella1100
    @bonnitasabella1100 2 роки тому +1

    Such a painful story to tel as a mother😔😔😟💔💔

  • @patriciathandi4493
    @patriciathandi4493 2 роки тому +2

    She's a humble and great person ❤️💕❤️

  • @mohauwamorena
    @mohauwamorena 2 роки тому +5

    I see you Alude Arts earrings 🔥🎉🌈
    Let's unpack!

    • @mbasamaqekeza
      @mbasamaqekeza 2 роки тому +1

      Yes Alude Arts! I also buy from them! 🔥❤

    • @mohauwamorena
      @mohauwamorena 2 роки тому

      They are amazing hle 🔥♥️
      Hopefully more people will go check them out

  • @mahlatsilehlokwa1509
    @mahlatsilehlokwa1509 2 роки тому

    She is still so broken about it 😭💔may she find healing.

  • @mantelekhitsane8935
    @mantelekhitsane8935 2 роки тому

    Awo mama the pain is still new 😭😭💔🕯may God heal you 🙏 but I'm clad he left u a grandchild

  • @kamogelolive
    @kamogelolive 2 роки тому

    Love and Strength to her 🥺🤍

  • @masiyamothwanga
    @masiyamothwanga Рік тому +1

    Loosing a child is one of the reasons why I dont want children, I'd never heal from such, it doesn't make sense and its unfair.

  • @lungisamsutu8353
    @lungisamsutu8353 Рік тому

    Such a good soul

  • @nomathamsanqamatai7549
    @nomathamsanqamatai7549 2 роки тому +1

    I'm so sorry 😞 😔 😟

  • @xolingwane4070
    @xolingwane4070 2 роки тому +1

    Sooo sad to watch, very... very 😭😭😭😢😥