Conceived through Rape | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 59 | Season 3
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- Опубліковано 9 гру 2021
- Guests share their stories on how they became products of rape and how the experience has affected them
Studio Guests: Scelo Mncube
Zoom Guests: Nikita Pieterse
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My elder brother was conceived through rape. My mom was 20 years old in 1971 and a virgin. To hide the shame, my grandfather forced the rapist (the monster from Wattville) to marry my mother. My mother was abused and ran away with my brother in 1973. She raised my brother and met our father. Mom loved my brother, we had no idea that he was conceived through rape. We thought that he was our full sibling. Mom said that she could never hate part of her and that it was not my brother's fault what happened to her. I love and trust my brother with all my heart.
Power ✊
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yr 8
Beautiful 🥰♥️
Mens thought processes are so strange. How they think it is okay to marry you off to a rapist is so bizarre. Bible says the same thing as in your rapist must marry you
Naturally, I am an introvert. It is in our nature to talk to ourselves rather than airing our thoughts or being transparent to other people. I'm crying Sicelo as I listen to your story without being led by the interviewer. Sorry bhuti for all the beatings by your mother and especially at school. Your crying there sent a message to the principal and another teacher. I thank your mom for writing you a letter informing you about your existence on this earth. But, there is one thing that is not alignment with every thing. Your name. It's a good name. I wonder who named you Sicelo!! Thank you so much for your story. It hurts me and I don't want to listen to it until the end. Let me wipe my tears and say, "Be strong Sicelo. God loves you."
I teared up hard when he said each father came and took what belonged to them and nobody came for him 😥
😭💔really heartbreaking!
Heartbreaking😢😭💔💔
Very paining💔💔💔😥
I wish I could hug their moms and the children version of the guests. Listening to these testimonies breaks my heart. The monsters who sexually assaulted these women have long moved on, they got what they wanted and life went on for them.. but the pain they inflicted stretches generations on. I pray for their healing and I’m incredibly proud of them for being brave enough to share their stories.
I couldn’t have said it better myself.🥺
The "monsters" you are talking about are not monsters, they are men.
Oh Sicelo.... even typing your name is giving me goosebumps because your name carries significance for both you and your mom- I believe she hoped for something when you came into the world. If only she could see the man you became.
You are so strong!
Niqita, thank you for coming out better on the other side. You get to become the mother you needed to your own children and stop those generational attacks.
Let's unpack from Kenya 🇰🇪
I love lynn Ngugi show too🇿🇦
I realy appreciate Relebogile and the Unpacked team. You unpack stories that are hardly considered. Every person from different walks of life, with this show, has a voice 👏
We are a product of our childhood and environment. I hope and wish they both find healing
Love & light 🌻
This episode really moved me to the core 😢 😪 😕 😩 😫
What I can only say to our beautiful guests is that IT'S DOESN'T MATTER THE CIRCONSTANCES OF YOUR BIRTH, GOD KNEW YOU AND GOT A PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE. ♥️😊♥️😊
This is the hardest episode ever on Unpacked for me and I am not sure how I feel about this or how I would cope with this.
Nikita is such an inspiration ❤️❤️
This has taught me to know how to treat everyone we encounter right, because those people we meet are from various backgrounds that may influence different behaviours. May your stories continue ministering to lives. I'm loving you.
I salute yr mum for giving you the name "Scelo" I hope you have forgiven her, she was also a victim.
This is by far the most painful story I have watched on this show. But anyway the greatest Father one can have is God. May you find peace and joy that comes from the Almighty 🥰
yoooooooo I am lost for words, thank you for unpacking such stories for us...
Scelo your soul is so beautiful fly high sky is not the limit
Some wounds never heal 💔time ⏲️will teach you how to live with the pain. Sending you 💓❤love and light
I'm so sorry, Sicelo you absolutely right when I hear your stories it's so painful. I'm even thinking my story isn't close on what you two went through. I'm so sorry 🥺🥺🥺
Nikita girl I love you so much 💗 💓 💖 remain strong 💪
This is so heartbreaking 💔 thank you for sharing your story❤️ May the Lord shine his light 💡 in your lives🙏🏽
Resilient survivors. You are heros!
This episode is so emotionally taxing! 💔😢
This is heartbreaking fellow Africans. But thank God you are alive and able to talk about it. God is still a God of the better even in such situations.
I'm so triggered by this episode it cuts deep being molested by family relative, unavailable mother ,it's so difficult 💔
Sorry Zizi 🤗🤗
Thank you♥️
Please get help Zizipho
This story makes me cry all the entire episodes, lm sorry nikita, and scelo eishhh kunzima kubuhlungu yaz
Why is it the African community even Asian, mostly, think the best thing to do is sweep issues under the rug? Alot of people are hurting, damaged even killed themselves. It's time to have open dialogue which should not be misunderstood for disrespect or challenging the elders who happen to be so hypocritical. I really want to understand why our communities are like, yet the younger generation falls into the same traps or issues? Why don't we talk? Why? This really broke my heart. But God our Father is a father to all. I'm sorry for all we've been put through because of absent parents and predators who were supposed to protect us. I pray everyone finds healing including those who were before us.
The darker side. 😢😢😢😢
Thank you guys am sending my hugs to you
💔💔💔😭😭😭 this episode broke my heart
I'm just here crying 😭😭😭😭
People are going through a LOT! 😭😭😭
Yhooo!! Me too.
Let's unpack 👏
I'm so sorry. People can be so cruel. Lord can you help our society 🙏
Only hurt people, hurt people 💔
From my view, this man needed a platform to vent out his frustration, it's like he was silenced for so long
True that is what I notice he had no one to talk to platforms like this it helped him a lot 💞💞
Thought so too
He has a book though and he’s been talking about this
If you were in the same shoes maybe you'd do the same..do not judge what you haven't endured. Kindly.
Ohhhh Scelo I can relate 😢😢😢😢may God keep strengthening you
Most black parents needs therapy
Everyone in the world needs some few sessions
Oh guys are stories are so painful I'm so sorry guys may God bless nd heal ur hearts 🥰🥰🫂🫂🙏🙏
This is so heartbreaking ooor my god
God loves you guys. I'm so sorry for all u went through. Nikita I wish all could be reversed. I love u
Much love to you beautiful souls💖💝God is the true and good Father and He never fails🙏
😭😭😭 my heart goes to them it was not their fault to be in this world mothers please if you raped go to the hospital to get cleaned so you don't conceive for strangers I love this 2 may the lord protect them sending healing vibration much love
Why do men think it’s okay to rape. It’s wrong and needs to stop 🛑. What is even worse is family members trying to cover it and protecting the perpetrator.
The pain I feel,💔💔this guy shame went through a lot😥
They both councelling
This is so deep
Where can I buy the book
I’m so triggered 😤 😭😭😭😭😭
WOW!!!😢
This was so painful to watch
Omg 😭😭
Sad sad stories.
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Sicelo and Nikita!! Ohh guys 😥😥😢😰😰
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Ooh my God Nikita I lost your contacts numbers we were both pregnant in 2014 and be both gave birth to boys, your son Ethan and my boy Ndaloenhle. It's me Ayanda. Oh I see you still healthy and well love you mommy.
Yhooo shem sisi
Sending so much love to these guests.
Life 💔
Most painful episode! Hang on guys there is God in heaven
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Hi Relebogile. I can't comment on this one because I haven't listened to it yet...I'm busy with school work. But I saw this clip and thought I would love to watch the story being unpacked sometime next year when the lady has gotten to know her real family:
ua-cam.com/video/Wm5iZv4GT-o/v-deo.html
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Number 22
Is this for lotto? 😅
@@YLMSTUNNA nope, number 22 to view the video
@@YLMSTUNNA 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, try your luck maybe you will win
This guy is a scammer. Bought his book years ago and I am still waiting...
Askies 💔
LOL why do you think it is him? You do know Post Office and other delivery services in our country don't do the job. Have you tried contacting him; emailing him? Come on now.
@@92Kandee I have tried to communicate with him several times. I even gave up
@@123smc Oh I'm sorry to hear that. It has happened to me too but I had won a book which never reached my door. It is unfortunate that you spent money though. I don't think it is good that he hasn't responded to you. Apologies.
@@92Kandee sorry cc. I guess we win some and we loose some... 😁😁😁😁