I Was R*ped By A Woman - Benjamin

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 77

  • @Maneomosala
    @Maneomosala 2 години тому +5

    This interview triggered my emotions so much.....I found myself crying

  • @Shantz-rw1xi
    @Shantz-rw1xi 5 годин тому +19

    He speaks so well, I can listen to his voice all day long❤ My brother I wish you healing, thanks for sharing your story...your story is helping a husband/brother out there that went through the same.

  • @tebogomaphephe3470
    @tebogomaphephe3470 4 години тому +21

    Women get away with such things all the time it gets swept under the rug....even when a woman falsely accuses a man of rape nothing happens to her no punishment whatsoever. I'm glad this gentlemen is talking about this because theres alot of men out there who experienced similar things and are dyin in silence because of fear of being Judged , clowned upon and embarrassment.

  • @Tshepo22
    @Tshepo22 2 години тому +7

    We need to be careful as parents some predators are people we trust, we must pay careful attention to our kids

  • @AndileMkhize-i5c
    @AndileMkhize-i5c 5 годин тому +10

    Thank you for sharing, i wish to confront the source of my trauma someday most of all heal from it, be better for it

  • @bhekikhayamabizela
    @bhekikhayamabizela 3 години тому +3

    Iv been watching this podcast for a while but this episode was one of the most informative and thought provoking episodes iv come accross.Iv never learnt this much watching this podcast. Best episode by far.

  • @User08882
    @User08882 Годину тому +5

    Almost all guys i know actually lost their virginity to older women (an aunt, family friend, helpers etc) . This is sooo problematic. Women are just as dangerous as men so i hope this raises awareness for many. Boys must be protected

    • @IamBarati
      @IamBarati Годину тому

      Yes, most guys I met lost their virginity at a very young age to older women too. They don't seem to see a problem. I wonder what type old 16yr old girl finds a 13yr old boy interesting

  • @astrochild1575
    @astrochild1575 3 години тому +4

    This was hard and uncomfortable but necessary to hear. What you've gone through is a lot but choosing to be a voice for positivity and God is amazing.

  • @ZionVibesofficial
    @ZionVibesofficial 2 години тому +5

    This testimony is an eye opener, some old women are predators...Many of them even bath naked with their boy child.

  • @ncebamvula3356
    @ncebamvula3356 2 години тому +3

    Sorry brother i can fit your shoes verry well and i am a true reflection of the same dis functional background i thank God who found me 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @kgothatsomodisane
    @kgothatsomodisane 6 годин тому +19

    It's mostly men who make fun of other men for saying such. Us women we'd never,if it's so it's only a few mentally disturbed ones. Honestly no one deserves to go through such. I wish him lifelong healing

    • @leonardkagiso6014
      @leonardkagiso6014 5 годин тому

      Yeah I get your mentality that conforms to our society everything wrong is a man

    • @Kusanagi7618
      @Kusanagi7618 4 години тому

      You just displayed the problem with you as women when it comes to these matter. You guys are more than happy to insert yourselves in the centre when a woman is victimised. You want men to only be the perpetrators. No man laughs at a man for getting raped, they think you are lucky and that is equally fucked up. Men will make fun of you if you get raped by a man, and thats fucked up too. We get it, there's a lot of men who are a problem, but I notice that when men ra'hpe other men, women remove themeselves from the equation by saying, "He was ra'hped by a man, you men deal with it coz this proves us right that you are always the problem', but when its women who rah'pe men women still wanna shirk responsibility by bringing the light back to men like "Men are the ones who usually laugh at other men for getting rah'ped" Yekani lonto. Acknowledge the wrong that a fellow woman has done without trying to shine the light back on men being the problem once again. I promise you won't die.

    • @hawed19
      @hawed19 3 години тому +3

      speak for yourself I am a man and would never make fun of man being raped by a woman

    • @madimetjapoto7075
      @madimetjapoto7075 Годину тому

      ​@@hawed19The operative word being "mostly" although I don't support her assertion. She can't extrapolate the negative comments made by few men on social media media and infer them to the population of men. Social media commentators are too small a sampling size to draw an inference on.

  • @xuffler
    @xuffler 5 годин тому +65

    All those who believe him gathered here ✍️

  • @ChwayitaMboxela
    @ChwayitaMboxela 4 години тому +2

    Your story is painful Pastor but you're so resilient and God is good at the end thanks for sharing your histoy🙌🏿🙏

  • @peachberrypie
    @peachberrypie 4 години тому +8

    Men get r@ped too, especially as teens, this man was groomed, what a sh!t woman, sies! Hoping for healing for this brother. Don't allow anybody to shame you.

    • @Kusanagi7618
      @Kusanagi7618 4 години тому

      Omnye on a different show said she's looking for a young boy and "If una 18 sekamdala" and no one batted an eye, BATHONG I was shook more at peoples lack of acknowledgement of what she had just said phambi kwa everyone!

  • @jaylem6291
    @jaylem6291 2 години тому +3

    23:43 great episode. We always learn from these things. Just an advise to not include that trading app ad. A lot of people have lost money when they try to withdraw and got blocked with funds still there. A lot. But great content still.

  • @KhupeAmija6405
    @KhupeAmija6405 Годину тому +3

    Who will cry for this young boy?

  • @assurancemagaya7477
    @assurancemagaya7477 5 годин тому +2

    God preserves his people through trials and He is Faithful.His name is Faithful.

  • @SiphoMosea-df5hz
    @SiphoMosea-df5hz 3 години тому +3

    Sorry to hear that.
    Anyway its time to accept Jesus Christ by saying this word Lord Jesus Christ come into my heart be my Lord and my savoir amen Romans 10:9-10

  • @yvonnemdaka3125
    @yvonnemdaka3125 Годину тому +2

    His life story is touching,especially when after losing all family members ,he got into sex slavery,to all women let's try to look for men of our age because both of us women and men daily , rapist and criminals are produced by the bad conduct to young children, this is bad😭💔

    • @SelloLebea-yd2pq
      @SelloLebea-yd2pq 55 хвилин тому +1

      Women should be younger than men, I cannot date someone of my age,, imagine me as a 35yrs old dating a 35yrs old women, that will be a disgrace

    • @yvonnemdaka3125
      @yvonnemdaka3125 48 хвилин тому

      @@SelloLebea-yd2pq exactly 💯 we have to respect the younger ones

  • @nyikosnizz9130
    @nyikosnizz9130 3 години тому

    My brother you need to work hard on your interviewing skills because you have the best guest telling the most amazing, inspiring n enlightened stories. That's the main reason y I'm still subscribed to your channel

  • @genuinejay7696
    @genuinejay7696 4 години тому +3

    This is going to be an interesting episode.

  • @Keitumetsemulaudzi
    @Keitumetsemulaudzi 6 годин тому +11

    Watch ppl make fun of him

  • @NomsaMkwali
    @NomsaMkwali 4 години тому +1

    This is sad but God is faithful all the time

  • @MkhuseliXaki
    @MkhuseliXaki 4 години тому +1

    man in this country are going through a lot

  • @mrx3mohls703
    @mrx3mohls703 2 години тому +1

    this is sad indeed.... it sticks

  • @liboyengwa88
    @liboyengwa88 2 години тому +1

    Great episode please time stamp your videos

  • @Bruzconversations
    @Bruzconversations 5 годин тому +1

    Been waiting for a new episode since Monday 😅

  • @sakhiebhaja4004
    @sakhiebhaja4004 2 години тому +1

    Iza ngamasoso uyayiyeka bro💔

  • @Teetee-hed
    @Teetee-hed 6 годин тому +5

    This is sad😢!

  • @GlenNgoanethole
    @GlenNgoanethole 2 години тому +1

    Thathiikhekhe lakho mfana 9:09

  • @bazookamedia1
    @bazookamedia1 4 години тому

    Lets not just comment please like, subscribe and don't skip ads

  • @chinakatracy187
    @chinakatracy187 6 годин тому

    Notification pple

  • @MarciaRabothata
    @MarciaRabothata 4 години тому

    😮😮😮😮 hebana

  • @MinisterPretty28
    @MinisterPretty28 6 годин тому

    😢

  • @MarsonMpungose-zg9zd
    @MarsonMpungose-zg9zd 4 години тому +1

    Shuu this can only be God.. God knows why. 😢

  • @leemo3583
    @leemo3583 Годину тому

    It’s sickening how a lot of men i’ve met were preyed on by older woman and they brush it off as an achievement of sorts😢😢😢

  • @kotswanithekingpin9469
    @kotswanithekingpin9469 6 годин тому

    😮😮😮

  • @lastVersion26
    @lastVersion26 6 годин тому +1

    First

    • @beatzofthegodz1210
      @beatzofthegodz1210 5 годин тому

      @lastVersion26 @NontleMathoba both yall not first tf💀

  • @treyngwenya258
    @treyngwenya258 5 годин тому +1

    Bungeke nje uyeke ukukhala udle ikhekhe olilethelwayo

  • @tebogomahapa1633
    @tebogomahapa1633 5 годин тому +2

    No... something is off here

  • @XoloNgomane
    @XoloNgomane 5 годин тому +3

    Bheba mfana bhebha 😂😂

    • @lwazimemela7123
      @lwazimemela7123 4 години тому

      😂😂😂 Hayi maan wena.

    • @peachberrypie
      @peachberrypie 4 години тому +8

      So insensitive, nx

    • @Kusanagi7618
      @Kusanagi7618 4 години тому

      Yini enisimoshela igama as men. Women, this is the kinda guy you wanna direct all your hate for the rah'pes that happen. He is the exact kind of guy to think rah'pe is good.

    • @sibongilenatashamshibe9728
      @sibongilenatashamshibe9728 3 години тому +4

      Such mentalities are the reason why men's trauma is taken lightly😭😫Saddening

    • @Kusanagi7618
      @Kusanagi7618 Годину тому

      @@sibongilenatashamshibe9728 This person disgusts me so much

  • @iquitmolly
    @iquitmolly 4 години тому +1

    My guy is suffering from success

    • @Kusanagi7618
      @Kusanagi7618 4 години тому

      You are part of the problem.