I really don't like that Dr. Phil dismissed him when he said, "they coddled me my whole life." This is a real issue that is ignored, and I was a victim of it too for the first 25 years of my life. My mom coddled me and as a result, I grew up feeling apathetic towards the idea that 'hard work pays off.' Even when I worked hard, it didn't make me feel any better. It even made me feel worse knowing that it wasn't making me feel better. It takes a long time to recondition the brain into appreciating that hard work does pay off.
@That dude there's alot of people that are and alot of parents that don't want there kids to do nothing go nowhere then complain that they don't have any social skills and have no skill
I was like Justin, being coddled by my mom and a basement dweller until I started working and making money and doing some side hustles off the clock. Still live with family but it's better than doing nothing at home and letting life pass by.
@handlin That's what I am about to do down the line. Living with my mom close to 30 years is enough for me because I want to do my own thing when I get my first apartment and continuing to stay there with my family is going to stunt my growth and potential. I'm not blaming her for my current situation. I appreciate the advice by the way.
Same here friend. My mom spoiled me. I didn't know any better. It takes more effort than people realize to become a contributing member of society and actually feel good about it. The good news is that with enough effort, that feeling of apathy can be overcome.
Bro you are just 23 ! Thats the point grab this and move on ! Tension will cause you age so skip tension and do something for yourself its not over everything can be started from end also ❤ best of luck 🎉
I kinda feel in the same boat. My mother really tried hiding me from the world not letting me go anywhere, her monitoring every move I make but never really teaching me anything about life. Then I turned 18 and was expected to be better than my brother who makes over 100k a year, graduated top of his class from an Ivy League school and is in tv every week. Yet I don't even know what I like because I never went anywhere or did anything
There's nothing wrong with a minimum wage job. I work one that pays my bills and also comes with benefits which is important in the USA. I also do ride share. You do what needs to be done to make ends meet.
@@joker2or you see I got kicked out of my mom's house so you know I had to learn the hard way I hope you don't have to be smart you don't want to be homeless the worst experience I've ever had
Im 23, still living at home and cant afford to go back to school. HOWEVER, I spend everyday planing a solution so mommy isnt caring for me forever. i work and now im in the process of joining the military. I want to give back to ppl and do a good service, just like my grandfather. I dont understand how this guy is fine with doing nothing. Dont u want to make a positive impact in the world?
Dude he does look so much older than 23 even if he had hair. This is why things look so much more shocking in reality. At 23, he’s only a few years out of college if not just right out of college.
I think Dr.Phil is trying to save his butt cause years pass by extremely quickly and in the blink of an eye he could suddenly be 30 and still have the same problem
Me, a 24-year-old who lives with family and smokes weed everyday: *reads title* 😬 Also me: *works full time pursuant to improving my skills and runs my family farm*
@@nextbigthing2917 I don’t care what the majority of people do. You become an adult at 18. Why live with your parents past 20 if you don’t have to? If you need to save money and you’re struggling with bills, I get it for a temporary period. But otherwise, get an apartment near your parents if you want to be close to them.
@@thehuntgray Give me some sources saying 18 is the finalized age to move out when literally everyone is broke at this point and either starting college or finding their way. Like I said whether you care or not most move out past 24 and this is the pace its gonna continue to be, YOUR standard isn't anyone else's standard.
I’m not going to lie 23 is pretty young still has a lot of learning to do and to grow and get life on track I’m 23 myself and I’m not exactly where i want to be but hopefully I can clear things up with legal troubles and stuff
Thanks bud. Ur right. This episode is 8 years old. Not only that. Most of it was either meet up or overexaggerated. Either way. Life’s amazing now. U got a lot ahead of u. U gunna be alright homie
@@takeovermusic874 yeah compared to 37 or 40 years old they see a 23 years old very young but if you talking about a 26 or 27 years old they see a 23 years old as their age because the age difference is extremely small only 3-4 years apart between 23 and 26-27 yr old
@@MinecraftDezhusmam yeah but still 23 is considered young as a whole to all other adults and 26-27 ain’t even really that old still in your 20s your 20s is your first years of being an adult you got a lot more years to go so you saying oh a 23 year old has been an adult for 5 years is nothing compared to people who have been adults for 22 years damn near their age or longer
I couldn’t stand the way that guy seemed to have rationale for whatever he did. He even initially said he hadn’t stolen $40k because it was over the course of 5 years. Not much to help that way of thinking or take him out of denial from the other actions and thoughts.
Wow, so unfortunately this doesn't seem to be uncommon. Does your mom want him out of the house? She should put her foot down and tell him to get a job.
Dr Phil i was wondering why this whole session was so entertaining presented not 4 us but 4 him. And then i was wondering whether u could have ask him a ? like' thinking back over the last 23yrs of ur life how will the list look like that u can make of ALL the things ur parents did right in ur life' and also ' if u can change anything in ur life right now to not be at the same place as ur parents are with u, in 20yrs 4rom now what will that be'
That dude 43
This dude is my uncle he’s like 43 and lives with his mom
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Dr Phil you mean?
He looks older then 23
More like 36
@@sigigil1299 Absolutely. Nobody would bat an eye when he would say "I'm pushing 40".
I really don't like that Dr. Phil dismissed him when he said, "they coddled me my whole life." This is a real issue that is ignored, and I was a victim of it too for the first 25 years of my life. My mom coddled me and as a result, I grew up feeling apathetic towards the idea that 'hard work pays off.' Even when I worked hard, it didn't make me feel any better. It even made me feel worse knowing that it wasn't making me feel better. It takes a long time to recondition the brain into appreciating that hard work does pay off.
I was coddled
Didn’t turn me into a lazy freeloader
same with my brother,he is 24 a complete free loader and yet mom still coddle him. i am 17 i hope i don't end up like him
@That dude there's alot of people that are and alot of parents that don't want there kids to do nothing go nowhere then complain that they don't have any social skills and have no skill
I was like Justin, being coddled by my mom and a basement dweller until I started working and making money and doing some side hustles off the clock.
Still live with family but it's better than doing nothing at home and letting life pass by.
Eww stop living with them
@@PawsAndToeBeansSituation Just biding my time until I depart.
@handlin That's what I am about to do down the line. Living with my mom close to 30 years is enough for me because I want to do my own thing when I get my first apartment and continuing to stay there with my family is going to stunt my growth and potential. I'm not blaming her for my current situation.
I appreciate the advice by the way.
Same here friend. My mom spoiled me. I didn't know any better. It takes more effort than people realize to become a contributing member of society and actually feel good about it. The good news is that with enough effort, that feeling of apathy can be overcome.
@@PelonMusk How'd you manage to do that? What was the down payment, your income, and the mortgage?
He looks like he’s in his 40s
I think that’s what makes it worse is he looks so old for a 23 year old
Well, I might be 25 and still living at home but at least I have a job.
What do you do as a job
So
Bro you are just 23 ! Thats the point grab this and move on ! Tension will cause you age so skip tension and do something for yourself its not over everything can be started from end also ❤ best of luck 🎉
I kinda feel in the same boat. My mother really tried hiding me from the world not letting me go anywhere, her monitoring every move I make but never really teaching me anything about life. Then I turned 18 and was expected to be better than my brother who makes over 100k a year, graduated top of his class from an Ivy League school and is in tv every week. Yet I don't even know what I like because I never went anywhere or did anything
Oldest looking 23 year old ive seen
True lol
That's scary since I'm 18 and I'm not even done high school. I don't want to look like this guy in 5 years 😂
There's nothing wrong with a minimum wage job. I work one that pays my bills and also comes with benefits which is important in the USA. I also do ride share. You do what needs to be done to make ends meet.
Amen bro
He's 23???
Stay with your parents forever! Trust me
no, i want to move out and experience the world
@@joker2or go ahead and find out
@@ryanadams85ra i ain't scared, even if i don't move out my parents would kick me out anyway
@@joker2or you see I got kicked out of my mom's house so you know I had to learn the hard way I hope you don't have to be smart you don't want to be homeless the worst experience I've ever had
@@ryanadams85ra oh, you learn the hard way. i hope you're living a better life now
Im 23, still living at home and cant afford to go back to school. HOWEVER, I spend everyday planing a solution so mommy isnt caring for me forever. i work and now im in the process of joining the military. I want to give back to ppl and do a good service, just like my grandfather. I dont understand how this guy is fine with doing nothing. Dont u want to make a positive impact in the world?
if i don't get a job by 23, i am joining the military. thanks for the idea
please god tell me thats not normal 23, no way I'm too young for that
LMAO
Dude he does look so much older than 23 even if he had hair. This is why things look so much more shocking in reality. At 23, he’s only a few years out of college if not just right out of college.
I think Dr.Phil is trying to save his butt cause years pass by extremely quickly and in the blink of an eye he could suddenly be 30 and still have the same problem
College seniors are 23-24
At 23, you're not even supposed to be aging yet, you're not even fully developed or in your prime yet.
I think he is lowkey stressed ab it cuz he 23 n his head say 40
My man, get a trade. Work for yourself. It seems you need to be your own boss, and that’s fair enough.
I didnt know big show was this young
Is it just me, or does the 23-year-old look kind of like Billy Joel today?
Me, a 24-year-old who lives with family and smokes weed everyday: *reads title* 😬
Also me: *works full time pursuant to improving my skills and runs my family farm*
26, finishing to build my house, working 12 hours a day + freelas and still living with my parents. also graduated.
Nobody asked
Time to move out was 4 years ago. The rationale doesn’t matter
@@thehuntgrayWell your gonna be shocked that majority of people move out around 24-27.
@@nextbigthing2917 I don’t care what the majority of people do. You become an adult at 18. Why live with your parents past 20 if you don’t have to? If you need to save money and you’re struggling with bills, I get it for a temporary period. But otherwise, get an apartment near your parents if you want to be close to them.
@@thehuntgray Give me some sources saying 18 is the finalized age to move out when literally everyone is broke at this point and either starting college or finding their way. Like I said whether you care or not most move out past 24 and this is the pace its gonna continue to be, YOUR standard isn't anyone else's standard.
Me too. That was toxic. Not anymore. I am now 37.
At least I don’t smoke weed
nobody asked
Better than alcohol buddy by far
Wtf rather smoke pot then be a bum and living with my parents haha your a creep for even thinking like that ;)
This guy needs to get his act together and get a job at the very least.
I’m not going to lie 23 is pretty young still has a lot of learning to do and to grow and get life on track I’m 23 myself and I’m not exactly where i want to be but hopefully I can clear things up with legal troubles and stuff
Thanks bud. Ur right. This episode is 8 years old. Not only that. Most of it was either meet up or overexaggerated. Either way. Life’s amazing now. U got a lot ahead of u. U gunna be alright homie
23 years old is a fully developed human being 23 years old is being adult for like 5 years what are talking about
@@MinecraftDezhusmam but as an adult that’s not that long as you think that’s not even a decade of being grown
@@takeovermusic874 yeah compared to 37 or 40 years old they see a 23 years old very young but if you talking about a 26 or 27 years old they see a 23 years old as their age because the age difference is extremely small only 3-4 years apart between 23 and 26-27 yr old
@@MinecraftDezhusmam yeah but still 23 is considered young as a whole to all other adults and 26-27 ain’t even really that old still in your 20s your 20s is your first years of being an adult you got a lot more years to go so you saying oh a 23 year old has been an adult for 5 years is nothing compared to people who have been adults for 22 years damn near their age or longer
The way dr Phil wrote h3lp gave me a stroke
…he’s not 23
maybe 33
and the sick part is instead of teaching them how to live life, they sent them to doctor phil, which is insane.
I couldn’t stand the way that guy seemed to have rationale for whatever he did. He even initially said he hadn’t stolen $40k because it was over the course of 5 years. Not much to help that way of thinking or take him out of denial from the other actions and thoughts.
My brother 49 is unemployed since college, 17 years he finished and lives in my mother house.
Wow, so unfortunately this doesn't seem to be uncommon. Does your mom want him out of the house? She should put her foot down and tell him to get a job.
I'm also 23 and he looks way older than me.
23 and looks like he could have a 23 year old son lmao
Anyone know this guy? Did he get it together?
OMG... Yall that's my cousin
He wouldn’t survive in my family.
It’s either military or college after h.s; because they don’t want anyone home 24/7 like him.
He's 23? He looks like he could be 43.
Caillou grew up!
Certainly did from an 8 year old episode. (That was actually kind of funny tho.)😂
This guy is a Tom Segura joke!
Phil despises this guy for also being bald.
Dr Phil i was wondering why this whole session was so entertaining presented not 4 us but 4 him. And then i was wondering whether u could have ask him a ? like' thinking back over the last 23yrs of ur life how will the list look like that u can make of ALL the things ur parents did right in ur life' and also ' if u can change anything in ur life right now to not be at the same place as ur parents are with u, in 20yrs 4rom now what will that be'
Day a person begins to become an adult is the day the move out of their parents home .