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God is surely trying to say something to me because all your recent videos have been sooo relevant 🤣🤣🤣 I feel attacked, but in a good way. Thank you for this
I think for me I’ve subconsciously been sucked into the phase of wanting to be married or in a relationship. A few reasons… #1 When I was in the world I didn’t have those “desperate” desires because I was always in a atmosphere to where male attention or presence wasn’t lacking. #2 Everywhere you turn relationships or relationship content are being pushed. I try to escape it but it’s inevitable. #3 Being saved now…. I always be around women 24/7 because church and every event in the church culture be 90% women & I feel deprived if that makes sense. It’s starting to feel weird. #4 Being Christian, I don’t think God is concerned or worried about us having somebody other than whoever will be our spouse. So with that and also walking in purpose…. It do feel like a waiting process because now we can’t just entertain something just because we feel like it… it have to be intentional and the right season.
Things I notice others doing: Posting about them on social media but the other person never posts about them, initiating conversations with their crushes but the other person never even acknowledges them, always walking up to them in church, etc. It's just so sad. There are way too many people getting a divorce for me to be that desperate to be in a relationship 🤦🏾♀️
I am 48 and I will keep waiting for the lord to bring the right man in my life, He knows what I want and need, It will all come together when the time is right!! Thanks for the message
I was doing this by chasing every beautiful woman I had seen. I'm now focusing on things above so once I do get into that relationship I won't stop or start serving God.
This video was spot on I pray that myself included in everyone reading that we really have a strong relationship with Christ and be with the person God has for us in his set time and season that we're not falling into comparison that we're praying fasting and working on ourselves and asking God to that we are securing Our identity in Christ removing ugly treats so we can glorify him and that we marry partners that bring us closer to God closer to righteousness closer to wisdom We can be rooted in marriages based on laughter love longevity in Christ being at the center of it all patience is key and in a single season be sure to not get desperate and have fun righteously though
And you are correct about people being desperate it's so unattractive and I also agree that if we are single it's our time to work on ourselves/issue's so that we can be a better person. You Spoke a whole lot of truth in this podcast!
I loved this so much! It’s confirmation that I’m on the right track in my walk with God. I used to do many of the things you listed but over the last year I’ve become secure in God & don’t feel the need to take “seductive” or “suggestive” pictures/post them. I’m very content in my wait for my future spouse & I do put myself in position to be seen but I refuse to try to purse a man or do extra to get attention from anyone. Great message!
I’m through with trying to build a relationship or chasing people for a connection. I know where it stems from and I’m remedying the root of it. Thank you for being obedient! and keeping it biblical.
You've hit every point on the head for with this podcast video. I've been in a season of waiting patiently in singleness over the last few years. Even on my 40th birthday today God is still showing me areas my life that need correction.
I’m at the age of my life where clarity and being responsible with [my time] and the time [of others] matters more than anything. God knows the desires of my heart and I know that if it’s according to His perfect will for my life, than thy will be done. In the meantime, I’m going to pray for others, read my scriptures, fast as needed, and get after what God has assigned me to do in this dark world: be a Light and the hands and feet of Christ Jesus. To God be the glory 🙌🏾
God revealed to me tht I shouldn't be thinking of one specific guy tht I know will watch my content. but I should commit everything I do unto the Lord and not for man
Congrats to 50k!!! I just do too much in my mind than in real life because of pride. I’ll obsess over them but I won’t say anything to them and wait for them to come to me. This has helped me in some cases. For my “avoidant attachment style brothers and sisters” think about it, when you first start talking to someone you really start to chase them in your mind as well if you’re wondering why they aren’t working for you or you’re talking to someone and you anticipate that dopamine hit you get off of getting their text messages and attention, etc…it’s very hard to control without the holy spirit 🤙🙏🏿
I think God is tying to tell me I’m doing too much because I see this right after I try to get back into connecting with others. Your content is always super encouraging and convicting, God is working through your ministry Tavares! I’d like to ask you Tavares, am I trying too hard if I use dating app and check it often?
I’m anti dating apps, but I won’t 100% call them sinful. The frequency you use them or how low your standards are on them may determine that answer though.
@@GodlyDating101 I think I have my answer! Your Godly wisdom is always super helpful and convicting! Your ministry has been a blessing in my life and I’m sure in the lives of many many others! God bless you and your family Tavares!
“If the word of God promised you something hold on to that promise” that’s it, that’s the video 😂💯 and this speaks to me although I’m not intentionally trying the waiting season is so real but proverbs 3:5 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding”
the mantle you and your wife/family have is even greater than your current platform. there are different demographics you’re also anointed to reach. i pray that God will continue to bless, strengthen, encourage, and lead you guys in His plans and purposes for you step by step.
Heyyy I was afraid to watch this video at first but I chose to listen anyways …. I thought I was doing too much, but after listening nothing I did was too much., I let God lead I pray and watch.
I'm intentionally not looking for a relationship... lol I've been intentionally not for years then(never been in a real relationship) It's all on Gods hands.
Can you please show me where it promises us in the Word of God that we will get a relationship, because it sounds like you are implying that at around the 2:10 mark. Thanks
@@GodlyDating101 no not at all, I could’ve asked it a little better myself honestly. Don’t mean to put words in your mouth. I totally agree. We all have different gifts. Some will. Some won’t. While I have your attention…I do have another question for you if you don’t mind…I noticed you mentioned how God didn’t “plan” for something to happen…another chance to correct me if im misinterpreting but does this mean that you believe that things can happen outside of God’s control? Full disclosure…I’m in the predestination camp. Like I’m Polish. I had a lot of family die in WW2…however…if that didn’t happen…I wouldn’t be alive today. This leads me to believe that God creates evil & good and that it’s all predestined. ALA story of Joseph & brothers and the story of Job (Job says “God giveth, God taketh away” rather than blaming Satan for the harm done…cause Satan needed God’s permission) Would love to hear ur thoughts
How do you know the difference between someone doing too much or simply having an outgoing personality?
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It's not a purnishment from God if he makes us wait, IT'S A BLESSING.
God is surely trying to say something to me because all your recent videos have been sooo relevant 🤣🤣🤣 I feel attacked, but in a good way. Thank you for this
Lol blessings fam
I think for me I’ve subconsciously been sucked into the phase of wanting to be married or in a relationship. A few reasons…
#1 When I was in the world I didn’t have those “desperate” desires because I was always in a atmosphere to where male attention or presence wasn’t lacking.
#2 Everywhere you turn relationships or relationship content are being pushed. I try to escape it but it’s inevitable.
#3 Being saved now…. I always be around women 24/7 because church and every event in the church culture be 90% women & I feel deprived if that makes sense. It’s starting to feel weird.
#4 Being Christian, I don’t think God is concerned or worried about us having somebody other than whoever will be our spouse. So with that and also walking in purpose…. It do feel like a waiting process because now we can’t just entertain something just because we feel like it… it have to be intentional and the right season.
#4 THAT PART 👏🏽✨
Things I notice others doing:
Posting about them on social media but the other person never posts about them, initiating conversations with their crushes but the other person never even acknowledges them, always walking up to them in church, etc. It's just so sad.
There are way too many people getting a divorce for me to be that desperate to be in a relationship 🤦🏾♀️
Facts
I am 48 and I will keep waiting for the lord to bring the right man in my life, He knows what I want and need, It will all come together when the time is right!! Thanks for the message
“Putting a Bible Verse under them tight pants” facts bro lol
Tovares is hilarious mannn😂😂😂🤦🏾♂️
@@anestfrancois I was dying laughing bruh
Completely agree about the thirst traps! Smh 🤦🏾♀️
You can be attractive and holy... stylish and covered... I agree with you
I was doing this by chasing every beautiful woman I had seen. I'm now focusing on things above so once I do get into that relationship I won't stop or start serving God.
This video was spot on I pray that myself included in everyone reading that we really have a strong relationship with Christ and be with the person God has for us in his set time and season that we're not falling into comparison that we're praying fasting and working on ourselves and asking God to that we are securing Our identity in Christ removing ugly treats so we can glorify him and that we marry partners that bring us closer to God closer to righteousness closer to wisdom We can be rooted in marriages based on laughter love longevity in Christ being at the center of it all patience is key and in a single season be sure to not get desperate and have fun righteously though
And you are correct about people being desperate it's so unattractive and I also agree that if we are single it's our time to work on ourselves/issue's so that we can be a better person. You Spoke a whole lot of truth in this podcast!
I loved this so much! It’s confirmation that I’m on the right track in my walk with God. I used to do many of the things you listed but over the last year I’ve become secure in God & don’t feel the need to take “seductive” or “suggestive” pictures/post them. I’m very content in my wait for my future spouse & I do put myself in position to be seen but I refuse to try to purse a man or do extra to get attention from anyone. Great message!
Need to avoid chasing and displaying emotional affection to multiple women.
I’m through with trying to build a relationship or chasing people for a connection. I know where it stems from and I’m remedying the root of it. Thank you for being obedient! and keeping it biblical.
You've hit every point on the head for with this podcast video.
I've been in a season of waiting patiently in singleness over the last few years. Even on my 40th birthday today God is still showing me areas my life that need correction.
I’m at the age of my life where clarity and being responsible with [my time] and the time [of others] matters more than anything. God knows the desires of my heart and I know that if it’s according to His perfect will for my life, than thy will be done. In the meantime, I’m going to pray for others, read my scriptures, fast as needed, and get after what God has assigned me to do in this dark world: be a Light and the hands and feet of Christ Jesus. To God be the glory 🙌🏾
God revealed to me tht I shouldn't be thinking of one specific guy tht I know will watch my content. but I should commit everything I do unto the Lord and not for man
👏 🙌🏾 Soo much wisdom, God bless you abundantly.
Effort is a reflection of interest...
Congrats to 50k!!!
I just do too much in my mind than in real life because of pride. I’ll obsess over them but I won’t say anything to them and wait for them to come to me. This has helped me in some cases.
For my “avoidant attachment style brothers and sisters” think about it, when you first start talking to someone you really start to chase them in your mind as well if you’re wondering why they aren’t working for you or you’re talking to someone and you anticipate that dopamine hit you get off of getting their text messages and attention, etc…it’s very hard to control without the holy spirit 🤙🙏🏿
please keep preaching the truth, we need conviction!!!
Thank you Sir Tovares
Thank God I met you on UA-cam
I think God is tying to tell me I’m doing too much because I see this right after I try to get back into connecting with others. Your content is always super encouraging and convicting, God is working through your ministry Tavares!
I’d like to ask you Tavares, am I trying too hard if I use dating app and check it often?
I’m anti dating apps, but I won’t 100% call them sinful. The frequency you use them or how low your standards are on them may determine that answer though.
@@GodlyDating101 I think I have my answer! Your Godly wisdom is always super helpful and convicting! Your ministry has been a blessing in my life and I’m sure in the lives of many many others! God bless you and your family Tavares!
i needed to hear this ! God bless you brother
You are speaking a whole lot of Truth!!!👏🏾 ! I enjoyed this podcast!
Awesome teaching. To God be the glory. Holiness is everything 😎
Oooooo THIS PIERCES LIKE A SWORD!! You just got another subscriber.
Welcome to the family
This video comes at the right moment! Surely, God wanted to speak to me through you
“If the word of God promised you something hold on to that promise” that’s it, that’s the video 😂💯 and this speaks to me although I’m not intentionally trying the waiting season is so real but proverbs 3:5 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding”
the mantle you and your wife/family have is even greater than your current platform. there are different demographics you’re also anointed to reach. i pray that God will continue to bless, strengthen, encourage, and lead you guys in His plans and purposes for you step by step.
Great message! Definitely touched my spirit, may the Lord continue to bless and use you to keep spreading wisdom🙌🙏🏻
Your videos are always on time, God be the glory. Bless you brother, thanks for the wisdom 💪🏾
If I start overthinking about the friendship or relationship then I know it’s fine to scale back
PREACH!!!!!!!!!! Thank Jesus for your understanding and honesty regarding this issue.
I was definitely guilty of the first point that you made. I've since scaled back and am doing better
Same.
Put yourself in position to be pursued
Heyyy I was afraid to watch this video at first but I chose to listen anyways …. I thought I was doing too much, but after listening nothing I did was too much., I let God lead I pray and watch.
All points in my opinion are valid and practical. Worth introspecting on. Thanks. 🙏
I needed to hear this because as much as I desire a Godly relationship I will not chase no man. I am not Nikki Parker lol
😂😂😂
Took the words right out of my mouth. I may desire marriage but Lord knows I ain’t chasing no man cause I ain’t getting no divorce
I'm intentionally not looking for a relationship... lol I've been intentionally not for years then(never been in a real relationship) It's all on Gods hands.
I can respect that.
Thank you so much for this message bro!
Attractive vs. Seductive
No reciprocity
Cultural but not biblical. Too many times we choose what is uncomfortable to be comfortable
God bless you to bro
Trying to justify certain clothes, it's a constant course correction
Matthew 7:21
Amen❤️
Amen 👆🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Can you please show me where it promises us in the Word of God that we will get a relationship, because it sounds like you are implying that at around the 2:10 mark. Thanks
At no point did I give that impression and no bible verse says that. God bless
@@GodlyDating101 appreciate the clarity brother. God bless
@@pawlygon929 no problem, and I hope I don’t sound snappy. I simply hate when people manipulate people into thinking a spouse is mandated by God.
@@GodlyDating101 no not at all, I could’ve asked it a little better myself honestly. Don’t mean to put words in your mouth. I totally agree. We all have different gifts. Some will. Some won’t.
While I have your attention…I do have another question for you if you don’t mind…I noticed you mentioned how God didn’t “plan” for something to happen…another chance to correct me if im misinterpreting but does this mean that you believe that things can happen outside of God’s control?
Full disclosure…I’m in the predestination camp.
Like I’m Polish. I had a lot of family die in WW2…however…if that didn’t happen…I wouldn’t be alive today.
This leads me to believe that God creates evil & good and that it’s all predestined. ALA story of Joseph & brothers and the story of Job (Job says “God giveth, God taketh away” rather than blaming Satan for the harm done…cause Satan needed God’s permission)
Would love to hear ur thoughts
Who cares honestly . Have a relationship with Jesus
Amen in Jesus name