Why You Need Discernment In Your Relationships
Вставка
- Опубліковано 9 бер 2022
- Enjoyed this video? Consider subscribing!
1. Merch - shop.godlydating101.com/
2. If you would like to financially support our ministry and help us reach more people with the message of purity, love and godliness, partner with us here: Paypal.me/GodlyDating or CashApp: $GodlyDating101
3. Our Patreon: Patreon.com/GodlyDating101
4. Social media:
GodlyDating101
Tovares'- TovaresGrey
Safa's- SafaGrey
Facebook.com/GodlyDating101
GodlyDating101
5. Check out The Godly Dating 101 Podcast - New Episodes EVERY Thursday: wavve.link/jGU61WIPW
6. Our website for email list, prayers and updates: www.GodlyDating101.com
7. Our Mailbox:
Godly Dating 101
5608 State Road 674, #632
Wimauma, FL 33598 - Розваги
Discernment is knowing what’s good and what’s God. Wow 🥺
Discernment is in knowing not only good from bad, but good from better.
I'm 60 years old I was married most of my adult life. I have always had a very high sex drive and communicated love through intimate touch. It's all I ever knew. My wife died a year-and-a-half ago. Being single as a Christian man is hard for me. I am extremely lonely especially at night when I'm in bed. So of course everyone around me is telling me it's too soon it's too soon. Against their better judgment I have already started dating. I have been with two different girls intimately. Trying to fill that emptiness. I'm so sorry for this. It did not fill any emptiness at all. It only separated me further from God. Leaving me even more alone. But now I want God's grace to give me the strength in my weakness. When I trust in the Lord he fills my emptiness. It's a battle I will win because God will give me his strength.
Fast and pray my friend
Will pray that the fullness of God fills every space in your heart and soul and that you heal from the inside out
I’m in the same situation but I keep holding unto God and it helps for real. Keep the faith my brother, be encouraged.God bless
@@ThisCrazyForReal thank you God bless you
@@tracyakinade thank you God bless you
“Equally yoked” goes far beyond dating another Christian. Dating is not about getting involved with someone who make you “feel good” or mislead by physical attraction. CORE VALUES are foundational to finding the right person. (Spiritually, relationally, emotionally, physically and financially) The key to finding the spouse who is walking in godly character is to work on yourself FIRST. You need to become the person you desire to attract. If you find the “perfect spouse” yet don’t take responsibility for your own growth. You will not have a healthy , fulfilling and happy marriage.
Money is the biggest conflict in marriage and reason for divorce. If you are not on the same page in this area. Look out!
Discernment is also about observation…when you are lead by the Holy Spirit and you use the word of God to guide you, you can make better decisions. The Spirit is always speaking to us, but often times we don’t listen. I pray for more discernment daily in all my relationships..I need the Lord to direct my path and order my steps.🙏🏾
A woman's intuition is never wrong. Confirmation and sound counsel is needed. When you don't know the word of God, you won't know what is for you or against you.
A Human's Intuition is never wrong(Not Women)...You guys must stop acting like women are supernatural Beings.
@@tshegopadi2014 Everyone has intuition, but it's often called "female intuition" (by men generally).
This ISN'T a good thing btw, it's often a put down because what is labelled "female" or "feminine" is seen as lesser than "male" or "masculine".
I don't know about women being seen as supernatural beings, that's a new one for me. However, in the WEIRD world which venerates logic and reason, this isn't a compliment either.
Intuition is not end all be all. The heart is deceitful above all things. Trusting oneself too much is a trap. In good counsel there is wisdom and safety.
While that may sound good, that is not a biblical truth but a worldly idea. Mixing the things of God with worldly doctrine doesn't promote proper discernment no matter how good it sounds or makes you feel. Rely on His word sister and let everything else fall away. Be blessed.
Worship is way more than music. Worship is a lifestyle.
I feel like God did bless me with a Gift of discernment. Truly, I can count on 1 hand how many times I have missed the mark on someone's character.
However, I think when you are dealing with loneliness in dating its pretty easy to quiet that discernment because it's not easy Waiting. I'm in prayer that one day he will bless my daughter and I with the family I have always hoped for as a small child. 🙏🏾
Word, truth in love. Yeah "distractions come to make us question our purpose". I like the part about finding someone pushing us into purpose.
I asked God to give me discernment on when to let things go . Many times when the season came for me to let something go I hung on and because of that I inflicted pain and heartache on myself . I asked God to help in this so that I may be able to walk into the season when he ordained and to let them go when he tells me too .
Thanks for this message💛. Discernment. Asking God before we move into any relationship. I reconnected with a guy from my past. He was a Christian who attended church regularly. I thought he was a good man. Nope! After trying to rush intimacy he realized it wasn’t going to happen. He disappeared.
Could you do a video about how to linger in God presence? As someone who has a mind that goes 1000miles per minute all the time, could you give some practical tips we could use? (And another video about learning how to practice discernment)
“Woe to you , when all men speak well of you, for Their fathers did the same thing to the false prophets” Luke 6:26 We are called to speak the truth in love. A lot of people unfortunately look at it like judgement.
We are for sure living in the last days. Even the very elect could be deceive. Brother thanks you for taking a stand for God.
I absolutely loved this!!!! Living a holy life and keeping God the center of my life is important and has changed me for the better and I want a spouse that seeks the same. Dating now as a godly woman is hard but i refuse to compromise the importance of God in my relationship just to be with someone
Amen brother discernment is key because I used to follow all these relationship channels that did not bring out the word of God. All what I thought is good was Godly when in reality I should've used discernment to know what is right according to the will of God
Philippians 4:8 (KJV) Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
A lot of points throughout this video make me thankful I keep to myself and Gods word. I can only take social media in small bits, because the craziness going on around the world can be overwhelming. If Gods not telling me to be somewhere, or do something, or say something I’m not doing it. Life is such a joy when the Holy Spirit is your guide for everything in this world. He really is a comforter. After hearing all the deception you spoke about it’s not wonder so many fall astray. Thankfully there’s mighty power in prayer, I definitely have to do my part and intercede for my brothers and sisters who are having confusion sent their way. It’s essential we as believers guard what enters our mind… hold every thought captive to the word.
“We want someone so bad that we’re blinded by the fact that they aren’t even interested.” Your podcast is full of truth.
One time God gave me discernment was when I was deciding on a church to become a member of. Through prayer and The Word, God revealed to me that it was not a mature Biblical church and I’m so thankful for that bc the church I attend now has been such a light for me!
And has given me the opportunity to be a light to others :)
Thank God for that!!
I am currently asking God for discernment when meeting new people. Whether they be friends, acquaintances or men who may ask me out. I've always classified myself as an introvert but with God's healing hand I am slowly aspiring to meet new people. I am depending solely on God for guidance since this is very new to me☺
Yes the way to grow in your relationship with God and everything else in life is to spend time. I even need to work on this, but it is so true. And discernment is so important.
I had to learn the roughest way, listening to the Bible tho, I saw the Bible verse said that we all fall short from the Glory of God. That breaks me down everytime. It just puts me back at the feet of Jesus because 1 day in His courts is better than a thousands elsewhere.
I didn't discern that the minister I was supposed to help heal wasn't my husband. I learned the hard way! But a lesson I needed. This is a GREAT message!! Especially your reference to 2 Timothy. He drew me into an argument with him about that, until God told me to shut up because I was being a fool.
I use The Word of God for discernment ...ppl would literally say the Bible says this and the Bible never said it...it's frustrating because even tho I know what the Bible says ppl around are taking it in and I truly grown to realize not everything is yes and amen
Discernment is knowing good from God...excellent definition!!
My brother, SOLID word! I’m very proud of you. Continue to be a beacon of TRUTH ✊🏾💙
Amen 🙏 thank you for this word, being single for nine years, I find this word so beneficial, God bless you, I have subscribed and will share this🙏🙏
So he must of known what God really said. The enemy will come back in different ways man. Keep that same energy. Thanks for sharing.
Amen 🙏🏽💕🙏🏽 this was powerful!!there's a quote I am paraphrasing here ..." Descernment is the ability to see what's right or almost right"
I was just praying about this, the Lord is good🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing the Truth of God’s Word with such wisdom.
Amen this was an awesome word. Discernment is crucial coz Hearing the voice of God is no longer an option.
At point 31:00 man you started dropping that real truth for me! I learned this the hard way. I even knew it spiritually but my flesh was like nah, you can handle it! Got burned big time.
I’m just looking to get closer to God and to truly trust what he says when he speaks to me because it’s easy to question his word or if I actually heard from him or am I just thinking too deep .
It is a choice to be holy. 👌🏾 Be intentional.
Amen, this is perfect timing!🙏🏾
Nothing but truth here!!! ✨
Let the Lord use you! Amen! I was never a good judge when it came to people. I was always too nice and accepted things I shouldn’t. I have learned the hard way, when the Lord was telling me NO, I kept trying to give the benefit of the doubt. I was definitely distracted and spiritually attacked.
Excellent teaching!!
Extremely powerful message.
Needed this word so much
Excellent, excellent teaching!!!
Definitely brought clarity
This was so good.
Thank you for being willing to speak up about this with respect and care.
Love that t-shirt. 🌸 God bless you and your family. 🙏🏾 Great Podcast.👍🏼
All I can say is AMEN!!!!
Your content is solid. I could see you connecting with Allen sparr and speaking more about Christian dating and marriage. 💯
He has a pretty dope channel. Praying I can keep helping the body in like manner.
@@GodlyDating101 You are doing well bro🙏🏾.
Wow, this is soooo good !
I set down for lunch and found your Podcast to listen to. But, spent an hour rewinding and writting: Excellent on many levels and applies to a variety of relationships.
THANK YOU, I LEARN A LOT, GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. AND MAY HE BLESS YOU TO REACH MORE PEOPLE
Amen I need God's direction in my life when making a certain decision.
Indeed it's a choice to live holy!! 🙏 🙏
Discernment has allowed me to quickly detach myself from potential dating partners because God would reveal their hearts/motives rather early in the process. However, I also realized that not only is discernment vital but obedience when God provides you with discernment is key. As for many many years I had discernment about relationships yet I chose not to be obedient and listen to God.
Good episode! Discernment can save us from a lot of relationship heartache and generational strongholds - it's an important part of our walk with God.
Power and control without accountability......... wow 😲🙌🏽👍🏽blessings my brother
This portion of scripture in Kings is what I've just gone through with my Blble study group, wow✝❤🙏
This is one of your best teaching! Thank you, for yielding to the voice of God to educate us with our walk with our father!
Thank you so much brother Tovares. Spending time with God's word is so important to discern His leading.
So grateful The Lord led me to this message..is restoring my hope for this new generation! Keep up the good work and may our Lord bless every one of your steps for you have been called for such a time like this. Shalom🙏😊
Just to add to the experience you shared with the young lady you ended up dating. Sometimes we aren't necessarily the direct person to help someone but we can lead them to someone who can. If you realize that you have a selfish intent to help someone maybe leading them to a sister in Christ or a brother in Christ is the least selfish thing you can do in that situation. Dealing with the opposite sex is tricky and even if intentionally we want to have good intentions it can easily turn into a stumbling block. Stay vigilante brothers and sisters
That’s great wisdom. I learned that one later on in life.
Wow 🔥🔥 He who dwells, not he who visits
God bless you brother I love the word watching from Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬
This prophet teaching was great
So glad I found this channel ugh
I need discernment with people and my calling in my life
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
I recently started dating my best friend, everyone saw that we had feelings for each other except us, but when we started dating it wasn’t like anything changed just the title. Yet still I love her but I just want to ensure I’m not walking by emotions, a chemical reaction and not God.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
🙏
It help me to grow
Godly council
Most people want an echo chamber 🤣🤣 We have a lot of motivational speakers l.
Just an observation not a critique you are very OT heavy.