We're afraid of the truth, understandably... true emptiness is very rare (Clip June 2023)
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We're afraid of the truth, understandably... true emptiness is very rare (Clip)
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Unexpressed emotions will eventually be spontaneously expressed, but it will be life itself doing it, you will not feel bad for this because you won't have any other choice, just like you mentioned in the video. I also expressed quite a lot of anger here and there in the past months and I felt no shame of that and things turned out perfectly fine for me and the people around me.
I have learned to absolutely love the simplicity of this...an eternal dream. Two dreams! At night I go to sleep and go to Dreamworlds Land, then I wake up and a more familiar dream continues...and I don't have to do anything except watch which ever part(s) of the movie I find mySelf paying attention to. I was in 'Thoughts-Hell' in 2019 until I recognized it was all my doing...and a couple years later here I am in "The Kingdom of Heaven" (as Jesus called this)...and, ya, I absolutely love it...even though it's almost too simple to live this way...had I of pre-awakening seen this person walking around like a ghost every day I would have assumed he was lost, crazy, perhaps schizophrenic. Enlightenment can seem weird! 😆
Yup, shifting dreams. It's all thats going on. We don't even return to the dream of old when you awake in you bed. Some characters were born while you were "asleep" in another world that weren't around in this dream before you left it to sleep...some that were "alive" before you went to sleep are dead and gone while you slept so you "return" to a dream that is similar, but not the same.
Suzanne, you are just....the business....
Beautiful Suzanne.Its more like writing in water!!..Nothing sticks.
Nothing is held on to.
Everything is free and full.
Suzanne, what is your social life like? What kind of people are you drawn to in your current state?
What a process. Ugh, so intense and uncomfortable, this unravelling. Thank you for the insightful words.
It doesn’t have to be soooo complicated
this will also pass into ease and just simply being
@@Foxbrother90you don't have a say in that
but isn't it uncomfortable to not let go? to hang on to stories that are only stories, going around suffering with no real answers, probably maybe because there were no real problems, it is uncomfortable for the egoic mind that truth can obliterate it's story lines, but it is comforting to the soul because we can be free of needing to explain ourselves all the damn time, we can be free from being "right and wrong" as those were just made up ideas, it is understandable how uncomfortable this is because the world has been so so programmed, try to enjoy the process of letting go and becoming more free one little step at a time,
@@chadweiler5506 true but there is often a process of letting go too. It has to get painful sometimes before there is a release of all that turmoil. Then it presents itself very simply, like a jumping off point into surrender
Yes, like the title of Alan Watts book, "This Is It"; it is so HERE-NOW that we can't really even say it.
Your videos are such beautiful reminders. Thank you for sharing your experience, Suzanne ❤️
For me this boiled down to pure seeing. When the seeing was realized the me was seen and then everything just drops. And yet life goes on but this is also seen, constantly. Probably a gentle reminder and its immediately just seen for what it is that is currently happening. We are still alive after all...conditioning is still kicking and yet this is with you, constantly, just seeing.
I am not the mind, I am not even the body.
Finally video where you aren't having a conversation with a random person, thank you!
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Zen inquirie clear talk❤Its all a Selfdellusion...we r nothing and make out it something...that just happens in the different dream realms. The body also is just a thought...monitored by thoughts...ideas...u always can go deeper and deeper.
just right, as always.
how do I explain to others this is happening.
I'm out here on my own because I can't relate any more.
Same here
My process was to not bother explaining or caring to relate. Once I stopped trying to explain or relate and just allowed myself to be open to experience I found that not only was there no explanation possible, but that no explanation was necessary. Eventually I discovered there was no difference between myself or anyone else, that I could just open my heart and see myself in everyone. The boundaries and distinctions kind of melt away. It boiled down to learning how to feel, allowing things to arise and be carried away, accepting myself and others.
You're already on the other shore.
@@ediapolaris2148 that makes sense.
thanks.
We don't really have to explain anything because once we go there we are already thinking in terms of an intellectual concept. But we don't need one. "This-ness" is just what is showing up in any given now moment. So when you are with people, redirect your thoughts from "I wish I could explain this to you" toward the REAL immediate physical sensations of the body, the emotions present and perhaps the thoughts you "catch". And your ENERGY will send volumes to those around you and you will never feel isolated or some kind of outlier ever again. 😁
This can get better! says who? the mind! This is what it is, and it is the truth! says who? again the mind! 🙂
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There isn't a truth
@@ravanti5780 says who? your mind!
A solid thing to be fixed! It's so hard when others define you.
Others definition of you is really none of your beeswax 😁 That is their journey. And if your personality is wired to take on others stories about you (as I once did) you will suffer because again, what they think about you is none of your business.
there’s “nowhere to stand” - Ram Dass
In a dream, I didn't know how old I was. In an attempt to figure it out, I realized I didn't know what numbers were. Listening to this talk, I see the dream as an introduction to emptiness. Or alzheimers. : )
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Alzheimers seems to be a disconnect from the current ambiance. Non-duality isn't forgetful.
Yes, it wasn't like I had forgotten what age was.I just didn't have any relationship to it. Like so many things about non duality, that explanation doesn't seem to make any sense.@@ADJ-jk8op
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In Mahayana we talk a lot about emptiness. It’s not a void!
It’s seeing that we are empty of a unique separate ego “me”. It means all one. All things return to one. It’s very interesting to hit this suchness. Before thinking mind
Hapchang sister
Been watching Frank Yang videos lately and getting great reminders. Had I not Awakened, I would be getting pointers. Yes, Being is beyond the mind and that Being is reflected in the lake of the mind.
Same lol
Thank you 🙏
Could you male a video on the practical side of life, like earning a living., etc?
i evolved from 'emptiness' to 'entering the dao' which is just reality streaming and this body-mind is just flowing with it without any impediments (psychic knots and stuff)
Beautiful!!!!!!
🍑💨🎶👃🏽💕🏃🏽♂️...🧎🏽♂️ 🦽👨🏽🦽 ... umm Suzanne's non duality heals me ummm.
Shokingly disturbing 😂
This was helpful. The untangling can be difficult to maneuver at times. Thank you 🙏🏾
Yes, I'm afraid of the impermanence of everything
Thank you for your directness ☮♥🙏
I'm not trying to predict the future anymore the more I trust myself and my abilities but these things have to be taught.
beautiful, lovely to hear thanks for sharing
Thanks for your teaching Suzanne.
Shockingly distrubing....❤ yes....beautiful ❤
On point living truth ❤ that last sentence too
You seem very wise Suzanne and I’m 55
9:52 Wow❕💯
Thanks!
I'd replace "seeking" with curiosity,
Nobody is afraid. Nobody is understanding anything. Nothing is not rare. Nothing is what this is. Everything is nothing.
lol! thank you, Suzanne!
That landed this time," it just is what it is, which it always is, we just think it isn't it, and therefore we searc h for something other than this, never more clear, thank you
There is no self.
That's it, easy!😊
But the apparent me does not listen to this message, and that is OK.😂😂
What a spot to end the video! Don't stop there people.
I am not the SELF.
I= organism alive and aware.
SELF = Image organism creates of itself in relation to it's environment.
i do agree most say that we are not the labels that it's made up because that's exactly how apart of me i always feel deep about it too
Sweetheart blossom into the positive😎
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Have you ever painted a canvas with acrylic paints
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It is rather amusing to realize that we're in a flesh body suit looking out into the world through two spherical lenses, and making sounds through a hole below two other holes where air moves in and out of the body.
Yeah kinda crazy and also WTF amazing.
2024 will be end of cope. Reality hits like a truck.
I don’t even know how I made it through 2004! But I’m still here!
Yes life is meaningless and we give meaning to it, as you, I and everyone else is doing.
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It feels that what is coming up a lot lately is that part that you mentioned where “everything is empty and inherently has no meaning” yet it feels a terribly lonely place to be where no one else seems to be able to grasp that. Seeing the drama people make and the unnecessary heartache pain and destruction they create for themselves and others. It feels like being the only one awake in the dream. Fascinating to observe including the terrible sadness and other emotions that come up.
"I" have experienced this as well. And then of course we realize this is just a thought. But I hear ya!
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Thank you for your sharing! I’m just wondering, based on my own experiences, how does your awakening effect the relationship with your parents (and brothers, sisters, or other family members)? I feel that the deeper this process takes me, the more difficulties I experience in contact with my family. Would you like to share something about your family dynamics around your awakening?❤
I DONT wanna be fucking empty anymore. I hate this shit so bad.
"The Artificial Breakdown " No AI can do it ❤
Some suffering should be run from, but you are talking about the existential self worth question, which is probably wise.
i think it is opening a sense. can't be attain with or through the mind, which would be like seeing with your ears. we're just cultivating this sense and 'waking up'. ... I don't know if I am empathizing with you or if you are emitting shakti...
I felt it this truth appeared in a clear way. I have a lot of dreams in my head while sleeping that are happening in the outside world. I always feel like this was the same moment it feels like everything is mixing past future and in that the only real thing is the present moment in an always new evolving subtle way but not so different after all. I always find it difficult to express it with words because my mind can not fully understands this, just a part. So when I see the dream happening it is just a sort of evidence that there is nothing but the present moment. The experience in this body likes to see the evidences like a detective it is really fun because if you are aware of everything, everything is literally an evidence that there is only this moment and this makes me laugh a lot :) So the future is always now and the past is always now. Wa can not predict the future, it is just how clear you see the things now that make the believe that you can predict what could be. For example you met someone with bad habits and you are extremely aware of their heavy breath, how they stand and you feel that there is something like a disease for example and later the person find out it had a disease. It is not a prediction it is only how clear you see the subtle things in the present moment
You can tell the asleep characters how to wake up and it not being arrogant or they are still part of the dream, cause it's truth telling them, or trying to destroy more untruth. There's still no "you." Problem is, they will never wake up because you can't actually teach them enlightenment and they won't accept what the path is anyway, Some characters would proclaim "I'm" arrogant as "I'll" have no problem blasting peoples egos. If that was what Fate planned for my apparent character to do, so be it. "I" have no say in the matter. It's not about "me."
life is meaningless, thats the truth and only one
Do we have to suffer to be awake??
5-6=18 and other correct things can be yours for the cost of a single thought.
But what is the truth of who we really are
Belphegor
when you say seeking what do you mean exactly?
not knowing how to act or behave has definitely been cropping up here. anger for example just expresses itself and then its gone. it feels like there is still the playing out of mind stuff and its like i'm watching it happen at times
btw towards the end are you referring newman/parsons etc and radical non dual teachers? because they say that no-self can't be known by definition. it does come across as arrogant at times maybe, but i've found their direct pointing really helpful at times - cutting through the bs of the separate self. they usually don't talk about escaping seeking either. so i'm curious as to who you are referencing
much love
despite the 'non-dualism', unequalled in spurring liberation, I am still actually dualist: Nature and Spirit. ... now, have you come to believe that Nature is inherently suffering, ... or do you think perhaps it is only in respect the bliss of Spirit that Nature 'becomes' suffering...? (because, Nature can be many other things than just suffering, no...?)
For me it is easy to live in the moment alone, but it’s hard when surrounded by loved ones. Does anybody know why?
Because they’re not all living in the moment/in sink with your flow
@@koalaed ah yes, that feels right to me. Is there something you do in these occasions?
@@vincentfnisolation. It's absolutely impossible for me to experience Oneness or Non-duality with other humans around me.
@@vincentfn you accept the moment, as it is, irrespective of weather, you are alone or with loved ones.
Can you, somtimes, be ok with not living in the moment.
@@injoyinmyself2018 There is a knowing that the only thing that exist is the moment. With humans or loved ones around, there must be some kind of defense mechanism triggering. Something to work on. It's quite hard to truly be oneself with people around, don't you think?
Can you please describe your non-duality practice (how much time you spend focusing on it,) in terms of: how long you've been practicing, how much you practice daily, ... how much of that practice is truly sit-down dedicated-into-dao practice, (not just in-and-out 'breathing' like I do I guess,) and whether or not you received any transmission? (PS do you think you can receive shakti through youtube videos?) ... and do you have any siddhis manifest, (such as, say, telepathy?) ... you know, just for more 'scientific' understanding
What is a “who”?
You have the look of "enlightenment" and you can probably instantly go into samadhi or at least you try to do so in worldly situations.
Why would she need to go anywhere? Why do you need to go anywhere? This is about the end of the running
What to do with that recognition of all that emptiness? 😮 Or that's not the point either... 🤔
Who's to do anything if all is empty?
watch the NDE stories and think about them as well.
Just don't start asking for money for your time and your experience.
Why not?
My pheasant has diarrhoea
*"LIFE The Real Self" is Non-Dimensional, and in NO WAY represents nor even remotely looks anything like any species, including the human species... "LIFE The Real Self" is "AWARENESS" and "SELF-AWARENESS" of NOTHING which is SOMETHING, or we would NOT be able to refer to it !*
She’s cute
No! She's MY crush.
@@DanielRamirez-iq3wv She's definitely is cute, I wonder how old she is. As I am in my early twenty
@@logic109 I was kinda kidding/playing along. I appreciate her insight and clarity.
@@DanielRamirez-iq3wv Sure, I think you follow her for being your crush too
It's easy to sit and talk about this outside the realm of actually living life. You talk about past and future, but what about when now is unbearable? I'm about to lose my car, probably my house, alone, broke, nowhere to go, and hopeless. Where is everything is okay in that? Am I supposed to rest as presence and ignore the fact that I'm losing my whole life here? All the action I could take did nothing. I give up.
My heart goes out to you my friend. Ill be praying for you and I hope everything turns around for you as well ❤
Suzanne, how much money are you making from these videos?
How rude
@@Foxbrother90 wasn’t my intention to be rude. I’m just asking, no ego here.
You looking for a job?
@@DougMotel A good one, yeah.
14:00 All stories are seen as false. There is no hierarchy anywhere. No one is an authority, we are all making this shit up. Some people like to play as God, like they have the answer, telling you what life is. Super arrogance.
your vid sent me a 'manifesting' advertisement i watched half of and I had to write this down: I think I manifested my wife but after 8 years she divorced me and turned into a massive horrible bitch. so be careful what you wish for. ... but here is what I will manifest: buy gold, bide my time in spiritual practice, work my part-time english teaching job, get laid, finish my book (again), and then wait for the economic apocalypse and my gold will make me wealthy and I can live quietly in peace. I see a lot of tropical beach hut living, probably around thailand. ... I guess that's not the path to RICH .... the gold should do pretty good... I think it should net an easy million when time comes, probably more than that. then I can just invest in other things. .... business is not a good idea right now anyways....................
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What are you always talking about? Do you believe you are enlightened or something?
Seems to me that Suzanne is only expressing her-Self on her channel that she created as an outlet for creative thoughts.... To be enlightened or enlightenment means en-light-en-ment (Into-Light-Into-Mind) Light into or enters the mind, Pineal and Pituitary to SEE within one-self in order to SEE outwardly into the Darkness of this 3rd dimensional realm (3rd rock from the Sun) which is on the lower spectrum of light and frequency/vibration oscillating at a slower and denser rate.
shes said in many videos she understands using words to try to describe this(life) is inherently contradictory and could never actually "describe" "this" but that there still seems to be lots of energy that wants to come out in this way, based on how her personal thoughts are deconstructing for her. shes not telling anyone to do anything. shes just thinking.
@@ashleyzito5414 we must re-member that some people can only respond with the depths in which they've reached within themselves, some shallow and some deep.
I’m not sure about enlightenment fella but there’s definitely something behind what’s being spoken here
You say "always" as if you have watched more than one of her videos. Just keep watching and stay open.
Why do you always make a , we", story out of it
the comments on your videos are always so funny.
so many ridiculous people.
you should go be a munk.
Shockingly disturbing 🥲
wow this phase of life has been KICKING MY ASS!!!! but just surrendering to it and knowing i can learn from it all bc it’s benefiting my highest good… it tough when it’s family conflict ❤️🩹