my hair journey - I didn’t know my hair was curly / wavy

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  • @taylaios
    @taylaios  4 роки тому +2743

    If you guys would watch the video before commenting, you could see I used the term “wavy” throughout the entire video. I personally think my hair is a mixture of mostly wavy and a few curly pieces! And for the title, I used “curly” because it is a broader term and wavy hair is still a curl pattern. 😊 thank you to those who have actually had something nice to say/sharing their own experience! I made this video so people can embrace their natural hair and take care of it differently, whether it be wavy, curly, or both.
    *other curly / wavy videos:* including my hair routine and what products I use!!
    ua-cam.com/play/PLd6It5U5PkZoUnO3dymLSW32abVa8UXSd.html

    • @nessadrake
      @nessadrake 4 роки тому +182

      Taylor Laios I hate how butthurt people get because of a damn word, it’s ridiculous

    • @Marina-xd7gp
      @Marina-xd7gp 4 роки тому +93

      People are so toxic. We can clearly see what your hair looks like from the thumbnail. If it doesn't help them they can choose to not click on it.

    • @1cakesz
      @1cakesz 4 роки тому +20

      Nessa Drake I get where you’re coming from. But instead of getting defensive maybe you can try to understand why people get “butthurt” over this certain word? There is a much deeper meaning behind it than you may be aware. Not trying to start anything but wanted to point it out in case you were interested because I think I understand the underlying message you’re saying. Anyways, her hair is gorgeous and thank you for sharing the video!

    • @Kris_Si2
      @Kris_Si2 4 роки тому +97

      1cakesz lol girl, it’s not that deep. People out here literally looking for a reason to be offended. And my hair is natural and curly, my blood pressure didn’t go up cause this girl with wavy hair said curly 🤣

    • @milekmalik8368
      @milekmalik8368 4 роки тому +12

      Posted this already under another comment: I can explain to you guys (and Taylor) why these people want others to use correct terms for their hair. People with really curly or coily hair usually go through years of severe bullying by peers and sadly also family members/ care takers and teachers. We are pressured to straighten our hair and constantly reminded that we are less beautiful. I have become a victim of even physical attacks simply because of my curly hair. Media (especially films and ADS) always presents natural curly hair as ugly, frizzy and problematic while fake curls (so models with straight hair or wavy hair who were styled to have fake curls) are presented as beautiful. Even in relationships curl shaming is a real thing (my ex mentally and verbally abused me everyday over my curls reminding me how ugly natural curls are). This is something curly and coily girls go through a lot while people who fake their curls or who have straight/wavy hair do not go through all of this. At least not in that extend. Now when someone who does not have curly hair calls their hair curly it represend the media and our natural curly hair is directly compared to the "more beautiful" wavy/fake curly hair of others. It is dismissing our problems. All hair is beautiful but natural curls are not treated as such. Your wavy hair is beautiful and stunning, you can be proudly name it wavy. Wavy is not less or more beautiful than curly hair. Another comparisation: it is completely ok to draw fake freckles on your face! Just do not call them natural freckles. Do not lie, just label it as it is.

  • @lisabaron9467
    @lisabaron9467 4 роки тому +16381

    can we just take a moment to appreciate how naturally gorg she is

    • @haclynjill362
      @haclynjill362 4 роки тому +25

      Lisa Baron literally

    • @InshasChoice
      @InshasChoice 4 роки тому +47

      Honestly. So youthful and fresh 😘

    • @belle5653
      @belle5653 4 роки тому +27

      She’s so pretty like what

    • @elizabethtaification
      @elizabethtaification 4 роки тому +6

      I was just coming to the comments to say that 😂😍

    • @amber-gg5nh
      @amber-gg5nh 4 роки тому +6

      Elle Hax oh yeah THAT American teenager show lol🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿

  • @Salma.Salma.Salma.
    @Salma.Salma.Salma. 4 роки тому +6715

    Your mom and grandma? You mean your older sisters?

  • @chocolatebubbles6426
    @chocolatebubbles6426 4 роки тому +1173

    How can y’all get offended over HAIR?? Is there some sort of competition for who’s hair is the curliest? She shouldn’t be afraid to call her hair curly!! Please support her instead of tearing her down!!

    • @urmom.97
      @urmom.97 4 роки тому +45

      I agree she has curly hair but it's not the curliest I dont see why people are so mad that she calls her hair curly when it is. Yall should be mad at people who take your hair type and let people compliment their perm when another curly heads hair isnt appreciated.

    • @nadia-sr8bs
      @nadia-sr8bs 4 роки тому +90

      Briana Morales You’re not stating facts lmao. Curly hair is not just one traditional ringlet. It’s on a “spectrum,” and 2a-2c is wavy hair and 3a-3c is the traditional ringlet we see and 4a-4c is kinky/coily hair. But they’re all CURLY hair, waves are the loosest curls and the ringlets are just tighter, and the coils are hella mf tight. You guys are complaining and telling this girl what her hair is. It’s her hair and it’s clearly curly, to be more SPECIFIC, she has wavy hair which is in the sub-unit of curly. Just leave her alone, it’s just hair.

    • @sun_flower2164
      @sun_flower2164 4 роки тому +2

      Thank you!

    • @Adasweeettt
      @Adasweeettt 4 роки тому +2

      Briana dude hers isn’t an s shape, it’s a C meaning it’s under the category of curly

    • @ViridianSkull
      @ViridianSkull 2 роки тому +1

      I heard from a video wavy hair just have looser curls

  • @amarisbelghiti94
    @amarisbelghiti94 4 роки тому +3882

    🙄 people are really trying it. Her hair is definitely curly/wavy. The straight hair era hit us all pretty hard lol. When I want my hair straight I pop on a wig now. I found out I have 3b/3C hair which is now past my shoulder blades. It took a lot of care and trims to get it to where it is. I used to get relaxers and ugh...my hair was so bad. So glad to see everyone taking better care of their crowns.

    • @_bewitchedbyyaz
      @_bewitchedbyyaz 4 роки тому +30

      Amaris Belghiti I was forced to get relaxers until I was like 16. I’m 22 now and realized when I truly stopped using heat and dying it my hair is 4A. When I was natural but still dyed it and flat ironed often I thought my hair was 3B. I still get pushed to straighten my crown. Nope 🙅‍♀️

    • @aanhongx9065
      @aanhongx9065 4 роки тому +3

      Amaris Belghiti yeah i feel the same. Wtf the said she did not know her hair was curly

    • @syel2219
      @syel2219 4 роки тому +3

      Wavy.

    • @yasmeenomar9950
      @yasmeenomar9950 4 роки тому +2

      You're so beautiful

    • @Kiya.The.Artist
      @Kiya.The.Artist 4 роки тому +1

      @@_bewitchedbyyaz keep ur pretty curlssss

  • @Rosedamenace
    @Rosedamenace 4 роки тому +3734

    I can see that shes so hesitant to call her hair curly. But it is, just because your curls aren’t as tight don’t let any negative comments get to you, on you just trying to share your story. I have tighter curls then you and i have my back story with it as well, but your hair is gorgeous, I’m glad you found your natural pattern now!

    • @ashleyjimenez6624
      @ashleyjimenez6624 4 роки тому +19

      MisfortunateRose it's wavy hair. Her hair is not curly. Her hair is wavy around 2/A or 2B not curly

    • @kileymckinney455
      @kileymckinney455 4 роки тому +91

      Ashley Jimenez it’s probably in the Cs not A it is curly just because it isn’t a flipping Afro doesn’t mean it isn’t curly hair it is her mom and grandma is probably in the As so shush cause who cares if she doesn’t have a Afro I have curly hair but it is floppy and not a Afro but my hair is like in the Cs

    • @angelskisses540
      @angelskisses540 4 роки тому +7

      The-pastel-peach nobody said anything about an Afro

    • @crimson3sky
      @crimson3sky 4 роки тому +39

      Why is this a thing people care about? Wtf, people really want to feel so offended don’t they? They so deserately want to get any chance they can to wild out on stupid things. Wow, we’re really so spoiled, seriously.

    • @Rosedamenace
      @Rosedamenace 4 роки тому +16

      Its not a negative comments to say someone hair is wavy, correct. But when you’ve been struggling with your hair for years and you’ve finally come to that point where your comfortable with your hair and how it looks naturally, it definitely hits home when people are sitting there with so many opinions on something thats not even on their head. Her hair is curly she has a combinations of textures. But no its not about being “sensitive”. Theres always been a huge divide between straight and textured hair, even when you’re in the textured hair community theres a divide about what curl patterns are the best ect.... when for years curly hair has been looked at as something that always needs to be “tamed” or put up to be seen as “put together” or even “professional” , there are much deeper roots to this then what u guys are just observing through a camera. In reality hair really means nothing but to our society it’s pivotal. PS: yo I’m mad late I didn’t even know this got a response eeeek🤣

  • @swan9721
    @swan9721 4 роки тому +2025

    seems like wanting to have straight hair in middle school is a universal experience

    • @naomi-vk9ro
      @naomi-vk9ro 4 роки тому +18

      ikr I’m in middle school (7th) and every girl wants it even I wanted it a few months ago I started this.

    • @Lousea14
      @Lousea14 4 роки тому +6

      Love the Louis Tomlinson profile picture🥰💙

    • @swan9721
      @swan9721 4 роки тому +1

      Cherry Anne omg 🥺💙

    • @rishisamhitakodali9661
      @rishisamhitakodali9661 4 роки тому +1

      Lou babe!

    • @sophiadeniella1469
      @sophiadeniella1469 3 роки тому +5

      Omg true and now im regretting it. I wish i had just loved my natural curls

  • @mariareminskaya4600
    @mariareminskaya4600 4 роки тому +2568

    It’s a bit petty for those who want to call you out on your “curly” or “wavy” hair, I don’t care what you call it, it looks so healthy and thank you for sharing! I’d love to see what you do on second, third, fourth, etc. day hair!

    • @taylaios
      @taylaios  4 роки тому +91

      ugh it’s so annoying!! I don’t even know why it matters to people 🙄 but thank you!! I will def film a hair refreshing video :)

    • @aylanilopez7683
      @aylanilopez7683 4 роки тому +6

      Taylor Laios ur hair looks so good and healthy and if u ask me it is pretty curly (everyone has different curl patterns) so just try to ignore the haters bc they obviously don’t know how hair works 🤣

    • @milekmalik8368
      @milekmalik8368 4 роки тому +8

      I can explain to you (and Taylor) why these people want others to use correct terms for their hair. People with really curly or coily hair usually go through years of severe bullying by peers and sadly also family members. We are pressured to straighten our hair and constantly reminded that we are less beautiful. I have become a victim of even physical attacks simply because of my curly hair. Media (especially films and ADS) always presents natural curly hair as ugly, frizzy and problematic while fake curls (so models with straight hair or wavy hair who were styled to have fake curls) are presented as beautiful. Even in relationships curl shaming is a real thing (my ex mentally and verbally abused me everyday over my curls reminding me how ugly natural curls are). This is something curly and coily girls go through a lot while people who fake their curls or who have straight/wavy hair do not go through all of this. At least not in that extend. Now when someone who does not have curly hair calls their hair curly it represend the media and our natural curly hair is directly compared to the "more beautiful" wavy/fake curly hair of others. It is dismissing our problems. All hair is beautiful but natural curls are not treated as such. Your wavy hair is beautiful and stunning, you can be proudly name it wavy. Wavy is not less or more beautiful than curly hair. Another comparisation: it is completely ok to draw fake freckles on your face! Just do not call them natural freckles. Do not lie, just label it as it is.

    • @AnneliesvanOverbeek
      @AnneliesvanOverbeek 4 роки тому +60

      @@milekmalik8368 This girl has straight up curly hair, I have wavy hair myself and would never call that curly, but it's petty to say that she can't call her hair curly (even though it is) because other people have been mistreated for having (a different type) of curly hair.

    • @katrina374
      @katrina374 4 роки тому +52

      Milek Malik It’s not like she described her hair as kinky and coily. She described it as curly. Curly hair is not exclusive to black people.

  • @allyma3
    @allyma3 4 роки тому +2830

    That is CURLS, yall just mad.

    • @user-mc9hp6il4r
      @user-mc9hp6il4r 4 роки тому +14

      Ally :3 mad about what?

    • @davidanddaniellerosales9974
      @davidanddaniellerosales9974 4 роки тому +67

      @@user-mc9hp6il4r I guess a lot of comments are saying that her hair isn't actually curly. When it totally is

    • @user-mc9hp6il4r
      @user-mc9hp6il4r 4 роки тому +13

      David and Danielle Rosales oh, well I still don’t understand why somebody would be mad about that lol😂

    • @caitlyngordon4397
      @caitlyngordon4397 4 роки тому +42

      Yeah it’s like curl is a blanket term which can mean wavy, curly, coily/kinky. In this case she has a beautiful wave with some spirals but no one should hate on her for saying she has curls, because curls means so many different types of hair

    • @saarinenj1
      @saarinenj1 4 роки тому +7

      @@caitlyngordon4397 yeah she definitely has a mix of curls like 2B and 2C.

  • @sunkissednae1985
    @sunkissednae1985 4 роки тому +2512

    I always see girls with “FRIZZY hair” and it’s sad you can tell they just DONT KNOW they have curly hair and/or how to care for it! I want to help them learn to care for their curls so bad 😩💕

    • @kpopggfan2524
      @kpopggfan2524 4 роки тому +77

      i think i have frizzy hair but now i think maybe i dont how can i tell for sure, and what do i do? I've always hated my hair for how poofy it was and try to tie it back as much as possible.

    • @nastyveeti7695
      @nastyveeti7695 4 роки тому +27

      Like im a boy but i had long hair. It was always very frizzy, poofy and thick until i bleached it. It was so damaged that i shaved all off and now i want to try if my hair has natural curls as my hair grow out xdd

    • @kellyann2858
      @kellyann2858 4 роки тому +27

      I’m 36 and I’m just now learning this

    • @jcrawford5674
      @jcrawford5674 4 роки тому +16

      This was my childhood. My mom had "Big, frizzy, and unmanageable" hair. Now learning how to take care of my hair type and embrace it's natural beauty 💞

    • @daawesome166
      @daawesome166 4 роки тому +11

      My mom has curls, and I have my moms hair. It’s wavy and I know that it could be curly but I don’t know how to encourage it. Could you help?

  • @NaomiTCOOKIES
    @NaomiTCOOKIES 4 роки тому +3382

    I totally relate with the straight hairpocalypse period. Everyone around me had naturally silky straight hair while mine was a bushy mess. I used to get bullied for it and get asked if I even brush my hair (which I would do and make it worse). I begged my mom for a flat iron so I could conform to the straight hair beauty standard, but now I regret using it and damaging my hair. Now everyone including the same classmates who bullied me for my messy curls are curling their hair 🙄

    • @sparksfly6149
      @sparksfly6149 4 роки тому +35

      Same here. I straightened my hair for a full year. I would brush it out. I showered nearly every day. I had completely forgotten I had curly hair, which is stupid because as a kid, I had curly 3b hair. Then I realised that I’m an idiot!

    • @NaomiTCOOKIES
      @NaomiTCOOKIES 4 роки тому +5

      @@sparksfly6149 Have you tried the curly girl method thing to restore your curls? I've just started a month ago.

    • @sparksfly6149
      @sparksfly6149 4 роки тому

      Naomi
      I have, sort of. I don’t invest in too many curly girl products, but I do have some good, silicon-sulphate free highly moisturising conditioner and some curly hair gel. I follow some of the curly girl rules as well. I’m just a little lazy. I’m assuming you’re following a stricter schedule than me, so how’s your hair going? Probably better than my uneven 2b-3c hair lol

    • @NaomiTCOOKIES
      @NaomiTCOOKIES 4 роки тому +4

      @@sparksfly6149 For now I'm following the CGM strictly as a guideline before I fully figure out what my hair needs specifically. My hair is really damaged from heat/chemicals but so far it's been going pretty good; got nice waves and some ringlets but the results are a lil different each time. I've got 2b/2c and currently trying to transition to full 2c. I hope to get back my 3a curls and plan to give myself a year to see how far I can transition. I totally get what you mean by feeling lazy though. And it makes sense not investing in too many products because the work is tedious and pricey.

    • @sparksfly6149
      @sparksfly6149 4 роки тому +1

      Naomi
      That’s a pretty smart idea. Find what works for you. Yeah, my hair was pretty damaged too. Even now it’s definitely not completely healthy. I straightened it, dry-brushed it, did everything you’re not supposed to. It’s nice to hear that your hair is going well then. 2b-2c is definitely a good start, keep going. A year sounds like a good amount of time to wait for your hair to become a bit healthier. Have you considered cutting it?
      And yeah products are so expensive, it’s not even funny. So right now, my routine is 1. Shower, shampoo + conditioner 2. Scrunch with a bit of conditioner, and then gel 3. Let dry, scrunch every now and then.

  • @mlkywrites
    @mlkywrites 4 роки тому +3372

    Is nobody gonna talk about how she literally has a picture next to Ariana Grande?

  • @charc4728
    @charc4728 4 роки тому +1530

    so you're telling me.. that my frizzy hair that looks like hers did.. could be wavy..?

    • @taylaios
      @taylaios  4 роки тому +214

      yesss!! watch my routine videos and try it out!

    • @mmlovesbeauty3529
      @mmlovesbeauty3529 4 роки тому +21

      Same...now I'm like I need to know what to do!!

    • @Zeldafitz24
      @Zeldafitz24 4 роки тому +11

      I have a really similar hair journey. Try extra hydration

    • @jenn667
      @jenn667 4 роки тому +1

      Fr tho

    • @raima6877
      @raima6877 4 роки тому +4

      Same I really want to know what to do so it can be like this

  • @disgustednatalie7029
    @disgustednatalie7029 4 роки тому +3888

    Damn people really acting like it’s a damn competition who has the tighter curls😂

    • @albatros6679
      @albatros6679 4 роки тому +97

      Lmao literally like chill out it's just hair

    • @Em-sd8zm
      @Em-sd8zm 4 роки тому +24

      For real 🙄

    • @selflove6755
      @selflove6755 4 роки тому +29

      Lmaoo black people 😂😂

    • @genesislmao6487
      @genesislmao6487 4 роки тому +84

      self love oh no sweetie don’t say that...💀💀

    • @brittanycatlett825
      @brittanycatlett825 4 роки тому +55

      self love... well that was unnecessary

  • @iForeverVip
    @iForeverVip 4 роки тому +1487

    I have Asian straight hair, idk why I watched this video but it was interesting lol

    • @zadarose4352
      @zadarose4352 4 роки тому +19

      Queenie Vlogs I don’t have Asian hair but I do have pin straight hair. The only time my hair curls is when I put it in a bun and leave it like that until it’s dry.

    • @LS-we6ji
      @LS-we6ji 4 роки тому +16

      @@zadarose4352 that's not curls lol tf

    • @Cherry.pie1
      @Cherry.pie1 4 роки тому

      Zada Rose same.. and now that perms and such are in style, it can be a bit boring having pin straight hair :/

    • @meili9980
      @meili9980 4 роки тому +9

      I have Asian frizzy, wavy, crazy hair...

    • @Ren-kp4tz
      @Ren-kp4tz 4 роки тому +6

      I have 2a hair but I usually brush the waves out so it’s like straight-ish and frizzy because my natural hair is weird. It’s not like evenly wavy if that makes sense. Like some spots it’ll be really wavy and other spots it’ll be straight and it just doesn’t look good so I always just get frustrated and try to brush it all straight but then it’s just frizzy and weird. Lowkey hate my hair

  • @Chiroptera22
    @Chiroptera22 4 роки тому +691

    3:15 casually throws in a picture with Ariana Grande, yeah, why not

  • @nohasaleh1215
    @nohasaleh1215 4 роки тому +1422

    You kind of look like shailene Woodley

    • @annamae4775
      @annamae4775 4 роки тому +26

      I WAS HOPING SOMEONE AGREED WITH ME ON THIS

    • @zak3172
      @zak3172 4 роки тому +22

      I was thing this...but like a prettier version (no offense)
      She has a more squared jawline

    • @DaiizR
      @DaiizR 4 роки тому +2

      I was thinking about that !!!!

    • @nickineath6369
      @nickineath6369 4 роки тому +4

      I literally trolled the comments looking for someone who noticed this too!!!

    • @annas5407
      @annas5407 4 роки тому

      i thought she looked like raegan revord (missy) from young sheldon in her childhood photos

  • @tofana0
    @tofana0 4 роки тому +3361

    Ima be honest a lot of white girls don’t know their hair is curly hair

    • @yn728
      @yn728 4 роки тому +78

      Welp.. I'm not white nor black. •-•

    • @kelskachels
      @kelskachels 4 роки тому +282

      I agree with you. Honestly, my hair was straight as a child. But when I was about 7, it started getting frizzy. I now have 2b, 3a curly hair after I was old enough to properly take care of it.

    • @nicoleseal5869
      @nicoleseal5869 4 роки тому +82

      I’m white and my hair varies between a 3b and 3c. I’ve been trying to take care of it for almost two years however it’s still not he healthiest and I am in desperate need of a trim but all the hairdressers are shut :(

    • @danielledougal7078
      @danielledougal7078 4 роки тому +99

      I’m white and a trained hairstylist and I had no idea my hair was curly 😂 I think I need a refund for those years I spent in college

    • @SkittSkat
      @SkittSkat 4 роки тому +31

      True for me lol. I always had straight hair down to my waist growing up, always brushed it when it was wet then went to bed. Senior year of high school I decided to do a big chop and cut off over a foot of hair (to just above my shoulders). After showering and letting it air dry without brushing it, I woke up the next day with crazy frizzy and curly hair (probably about as curly as this vid, but very thin fine hair). My hair never holds a curl when I use a curling iron so I was hella confused! I’ve switched to sulfate free shampoo and such and have started using some oils and gels to help keep my frizz under control and I’m so happy with my curls now 3 years later.

  • @MissLollilol222
    @MissLollilol222 4 роки тому +331

    Having thin hair is such a struggle, my hair is one of the thinnest ever. Luckily my hair is wavy/curly so it looks thicker but there’s so many hairstyles I can’t do, my ponytails look so sad, and braids in general look kind of bad so yeah. Please think hair girls, appreciate your hair thickness 🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @Gaby-fb7gh
      @Gaby-fb7gh 4 роки тому +6

      Saaaame. My hair is 3a/3b but it's pretty thin.

    • @josie7429
      @josie7429 4 роки тому +3

      Yall have it so easy lucky! I considered thinning out my hair but ima grow it... But lucky thick hair takes the LONGEST to style

    • @MissLollilol222
      @MissLollilol222 4 роки тому +22

      @@josie7429 yeah but I can't even style it properly, like when i do a braid it's literally as thick as the diameter of a bottle cap and also, when I tie my hair some people think i'm balding because of how thin my hair is, even my mom used to say that my hair looked like rat fur

    • @AB-gj4ml
      @AB-gj4ml 4 роки тому +7

      Me too! My ponytails look like rats tails 😭 even with my curly hair

    • @laziir6308
      @laziir6308 4 роки тому +8

      @@josie7429 I'd rather the thick hair I had before than my pcos thinning out one. Thick hair girls are luckyy

  • @mothman69
    @mothman69 4 роки тому +1456

    me with stick straight hair that wont even hold a heated curl: hm what if my hair is wavy and i dont realise??

    • @blinkandrhcp
      @blinkandrhcp 4 роки тому +96

      YUP. I'm like, "Hmm, I need to try scrunching"

    • @maricruzvillanueva4544
      @maricruzvillanueva4544 4 роки тому +15

      I was thinking the same thing as I read your comment!!

    • @Danny-ii6jn
      @Danny-ii6jn 4 роки тому +1

      Brooke Holland lmfao

    • @LS-we6ji
      @LS-we6ji 4 роки тому +8

      You lot are clearly stupid its obvious If someone has curly hair without knowing their hair would never be pin straight it would look like a Bush after brushing it just like hers.
      You lot wish doe lmaaooo

    • @mothman69
      @mothman69 4 роки тому +110

      @@LS-we6ji yeah bud thats the joke :)

  • @Toutouche
    @Toutouche 4 роки тому +2240

    YOUR MOM LOOK LIKE A LION OMG HER HAIR SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL
    WOW ALL THOSE LIKES 😰😱 ty

    • @dawnlaios9034
      @dawnlaios9034 4 роки тому +24

      Taissyr You are too sweet! Thank you!! 😘😘

    • @Toutouche
      @Toutouche 4 роки тому +3

      Wow i didnt expect 990 likes! 😰😱

    • @Toutouche
      @Toutouche 4 роки тому +4

      @@dawnlaios9034 😍😘

    • @dawnlaios9034
      @dawnlaios9034 4 роки тому +3

      Taissyr I know right! 😳

    • @Toutouche
      @Toutouche 4 роки тому +2

      @@dawnlaios9034 Yeeesss 😍

  • @amandatarka3897
    @amandatarka3897 4 роки тому +218

    i cant believe how naturally beautiful this girl is omg-

  • @adelaviera1932
    @adelaviera1932 4 роки тому +746

    Our parents didn't know any better. They grew up on hairspray, we just needed some moisture and less brushing.

    • @remasalhawari8077
      @remasalhawari8077 4 роки тому +13

      My mum is obsessed with straightening her hair..ugh

    • @fizzfizzbang
      @fizzfizzbang 3 роки тому +3

      If that is you in your profile pic, you are stunning!

  • @rachellemonbeck5419
    @rachellemonbeck5419 4 роки тому +1429

    We all wanted thin straight hair and no eyebrows in middle school 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @kerenesmith6819
      @kerenesmith6819 4 роки тому +46

      No eyebrows?!

    • @rachellemonbeck5419
      @rachellemonbeck5419 4 роки тому +80

      Kerene Smith 🤣😂😂 not literally we all just wanted the thinnest line of an eyebrow. An arched line the width of a single brow hair. There are some variation but like the basic idea.

    • @kerenesmith6819
      @kerenesmith6819 4 роки тому +8

      @@rachellemonbeck5419 I get ya!

    • @carissahope6203
      @carissahope6203 4 роки тому +41

      This is why I am SO glad that my grandmother did not let me straight my hair or pluck my eyebrows. She knew what was coming 🤣🤣

    • @user-bl3fl7cu7p
      @user-bl3fl7cu7p 4 роки тому +5

      Omg that was so me

  • @Anna-rb5pc
    @Anna-rb5pc 4 роки тому +133

    7:35 THIS Haircolor😱😍 dark hair fits you the best

  • @diamondlincoln5215
    @diamondlincoln5215 4 роки тому +962

    I had no idea some caucasian people struggled with wanting pin straight hair too. I didn't know you guys used keratin as well. Smh every curly girl had struggled from 2c to 4c 😭💔 your hair looks so much better now and fits your face well.

    • @TKR-rp4xv
      @TKR-rp4xv 4 роки тому +21

      Diamond Lincoln I’m telling you! I’m not fully white (mom is Native American and Hispanic. Dad is white). I was adopted by my dads parents so I grew up in a white household that releases my hair every month or so. I didn’t know I had curly hair until a few months ago when I was going to get a cut and the hairstylists mentioned that my roots were curling up. I’m in the process of getting my curls back to how they were when I was a baby! Right now I’m stuck in the wavy/stringy straight hair stage 😭

    • @lizr4076
      @lizr4076 4 роки тому +29

      I feel like only recently I've found this curly community and it's changed my whole life. I grew up with a mama who knows NOTHING about how to treat curls, so only recently learned how to start treating my hair by watching black hairstylists. Most black women I've encountered have been super encouraging and helpful!! I'm so appreciative.
      I'm grateful that UA-cam has a community of curly girls now! I always felt like the only white girl who struggled with "bad" hair, and now at almost 30 I'm learning how to do my hair for the first time😳. My baby is 9 months old and I can already tell she's gonna be curly! I'm excited to be able to teach her what I've learned, and to love her curls😍

    • @Xristosanestii
      @Xristosanestii 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah like a lot. Like people wanna bounce the spirals and you get called a sheep, a poodle, etc That’s why boys with curly hair shave lightly and girls straighten.
      It has to do with ur personality like a lot of people embrace it and have a pride in it. But if u are shy or awkward u will be made fun of by jerks or bullies.

    • @serenar8772
      @serenar8772 4 роки тому +1

      I’m Puerto Rican but my race is white. I have really curly hair though and I’ve never really known what to do with it. I’ve always been jealous of girls with straight hair because it just seems so easy to manage.

    • @bente1695
      @bente1695 4 роки тому

      Diamond Lincoln girl I would literally spend HOURS brushing my wet hair straight, then using heat to get it to stay straight, I even took my flat iron to school sometimes if I didn’t tie it up to hide the frizzy mess😭

  • @janieceivorymckinney4344
    @janieceivorymckinney4344 4 роки тому +4807

    “Don’t attack me.” 😂😂 poor girl. She definitely has CURLS.

    • @janieceivorymckinney4344
      @janieceivorymckinney4344 4 роки тому +88

      @@yuhrely No honey, you have waves. She has CURLS. Don't speak on what you don't know.

    • @DreamDear
      @DreamDear 4 роки тому +75

      Yuhrely I’d say she has loose curls

    • @alex-hh6ly
      @alex-hh6ly 4 роки тому +94

      @Yuhrely you know there are different types of curls right? lmfao

    • @natalielungay1139
      @natalielungay1139 4 роки тому +42

      Why are we arguing over here about if someone has curls or not

    • @shawnamitchell4787
      @shawnamitchell4787 4 роки тому +14

      Janiece Ivory she has waves

  • @user-uy7fy6ey3o
    @user-uy7fy6ey3o 3 роки тому +686

    I didn’t realize my hair was curly until quarantine hit and I stopped “caring” for it. Finally got out of bed after like 5 days of leaving it alone and I looked in the mirror like 👁👄👁 “wait a damn minute”

    • @isla4853
      @isla4853 3 роки тому +9

      same gurl same

    • @유키-g7d
      @유키-g7d 3 роки тому +1

      @@isla4853 me 2

    • @inhalesbleach3071
      @inhalesbleach3071 3 роки тому +32

      Wanna year my story? I was pretty dumb actually but I thought frizzy was a hair type until I searched up how to change from frizzy to sTrAiGhT and after scrolling for a bit there was a video with a before and after like mine. So yeah that’s basically how my journey started. Fiy I have curly hair like 3a

    • @coloradorose8559
      @coloradorose8559 3 роки тому +8

      Legit same here. I'm finding more and more of my hair just curling naturally and it's so weird especially since no one in my family has curly hair.

    • @유키-g7d
      @유키-g7d 3 роки тому +4

      @@coloradorose8559 me too!!! I had straight hair but now I have curly one!

  • @violet8929
    @violet8929 4 роки тому +210

    Yes I agree you don’t have to follow the curly girl method. There are a lot of rules and some of them might not work for everyone’s hair what you should do is what works for your hair and makes it feel and look good not what others are telling you to do.

  • @nyliacam
    @nyliacam 4 роки тому +411

    Wavy is most definitely a curl type. The same way tighter or more “uniform” curly,coily, and kinky haired individuals appreciated seeing videos that they can recognize themselves in, others with similar experiences to Taylor’s appreciate her telling her story!! I remember finding out I had curly kinky hair. I’d only ever had my hair in stretched styles that I had no clue. I’m glad you discovered yours too, your hair looks beautiful 🥰🙏🏾.

  • @chelseaozanic92
    @chelseaozanic92 4 роки тому +78

    I think MOST girls wanted their hair to be super straight in middle/high school... at least that’s how it was when I was still in school haha. (I went to 16 different schools because we moved every year, sometimes multiple times in a year). Seriously, almost every single girl in my yearbooks had long, straight hair. 😂 Now that I’m older, I’ll be 28 in October, I want my curly hair back! 😩 I’ve been dyeing and styling my hair with straighteners and curling irons since I was 12-13. I’m glad I found this video!

    • @ChowingChow
      @ChowingChow 3 роки тому

      Wow 16 different schools?????

  • @madelinereyes3631
    @madelinereyes3631 4 роки тому +821

    Beautiful hair! But GIRL, YOUR FACIAL STRUCTURE 😭 you're gorgeous!

  • @juliaarnold1078
    @juliaarnold1078 4 роки тому +1625

    I don’t think people realise that curly is a synonym for wavy. People commenting on your video saying “your hair is actually wavy, not curly” would be like commenting on a video of someone with type 4 hair and saying “your hair is actually kinky, not curly”....

    • @nonkululekotembo1652
      @nonkululekotembo1652 4 роки тому +135

      Wavy hair has an S type pattern and is normally almost straight looking. Curly hair has a spring like pattern. Kinky hair has a tighter curl, it's normally categorised as 'Type 4' hair. Saying her hair is not curly isn't a bad thing. It's BEAUTIFUL. Saying someone's hair is kinky also isn't a bad thing. But there is a difference between curly and wavy

    • @hate9486
      @hate9486 4 роки тому +94

      It’s not a synonym but ok. Curly is tight or quite loose ringlets. Wavy is just a S pattern.

    • @Dude-dx5ns
      @Dude-dx5ns 4 роки тому +67

      I have 4c hair. I know it's kinky, not curly. Her hair is wavy, not curly. They're not synonymous. You're wrong but okay

    • @Jessicurrrrrrrrr
      @Jessicurrrrrrrrr 4 роки тому +9

      @You Mad? hate is correct

    • @Jessicurrrrrrrrr
      @Jessicurrrrrrrrr 4 роки тому +17

      @You Mad? you think I'm the one obsessed? You told someone to stfu because you disagreed with something they said which was correct, just admit you're wrong and move on child

  • @marti7014
    @marti7014 4 роки тому +506

    Okay but can we talk about how she won the gene lottery like wow her grandmother and mother are so pretty and she looks like a doll. I could *NEVER* with my potato looking self

    • @anarup916
      @anarup916 4 роки тому +8

      I am sure you are beautiful

    • @fullmoon325
      @fullmoon325 4 роки тому +2

      @@anarup916 Preach 💖

    • @noriyyo5908
      @noriyyo5908 4 роки тому +4

      Same. On moments like this I get like: "God, why did you forget about me?"

    • @michi8386
      @michi8386 3 роки тому +3

      Please don’t put yourself down

    • @Kil3y.A
      @Kil3y.A 3 роки тому

      Same lol

  • @allisongutama8110
    @allisongutama8110 4 роки тому +533

    “she has enough hair for three heads of people” girl I can’t relate w that. I’m gonna cry ☹️

    • @LivvyAlexW
      @LivvyAlexW 4 роки тому +9

      Allison Gutama Same. I’ve been told I have a lot of hair, but its soooooooo fine. I hate it. I wish it was thicker

    • @-DesertRose-X
      @-DesertRose-X 4 роки тому +5

      I have enough hair for three heads of people and trust me, you don’t want this!

    • @alyssamorris31212
      @alyssamorris31212 4 роки тому +1

      Right I'll take some lol. I've been loosing my hair for 3 years now. It's so thin 😭

    • @Fuckpedorapist
      @Fuckpedorapist 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@-DesertRose-Xabsolutely want that. Anything is better than seeing my hair thinning out like crazy and slowly getting bald spots

  • @caitlinpugliese2287
    @caitlinpugliese2287 4 роки тому +188

    I love how you used so many pictures throughout this vid so we could rlly see that progress and end result 🙌🏼

  • @zuzia9179
    @zuzia9179 4 роки тому +617

    everyone: “everyone’s getting triggered about her hair not being curly”
    me: where?????👀

    • @_sadgirl_8730
      @_sadgirl_8730 4 роки тому +14

      they are, just further down the comment section

    • @kaylee.3300
      @kaylee.3300 4 роки тому +1

      look at recent comments

  • @laurenhylander9085
    @laurenhylander9085 4 роки тому +456

    wavy, curly, coily, kinky- all makes for 2,3,4 type curl patterns. They’re all still classified as curly hair:) also, her hair most definitely has a curl pattern- it’s not just straight with bends- her curl pattern just happens to be looser (and beautiful!)

    • @laurenhuq
      @laurenhuq 4 роки тому +2

      So are you saying that all hair that is not straight is curly?

    • @MORBmb
      @MORBmb 4 роки тому +11

      Lauren she literally said wavy, curly, coily and kinky those are types of curls. So yes kinda? But she isn’t wrong.

    • @laurenhuq
      @laurenhuq 4 роки тому +5

      Racheal.m Banjoko I understand what your saying but I’m just confused as to how wavy hair is curly. I’m not tryna be rude. I’m just asking. I get that it’s a pattern of hair but doesn’t wavy fall under its own category and not curly?

    • @jillianjacques4190
      @jillianjacques4190 4 роки тому +14

      Lauren no, wavy hair is a degree of curl. Curly is an umbrella term. Personally I think wavy not curly starts at waves you’d see in sleek pin straight type hair, the kind you get from braiding said hair texture, some girls have that braided wave look naturally but that’s just the only way I can describe the waved. There’s a stark difference between braid waves and this girls hair texture.

    • @mcnattmc
      @mcnattmc 4 роки тому +2

      @@laurenhuq but this girl has curls!!

  • @Bl4k3.
    @Bl4k3. 4 роки тому +419

    GIRLLL i think every girl with textured hair can relate to wanting the silky thin straight hair. i REALLY abused my hair growing up, as in showering and flat ironed my hair nearly EVERY DAY from 6th grade-12 grade!!! in between daily regimen of flat ironing, i would box dye my hair occasionally. i even cut it all off to a pixie and was still abusive AF to my hair! all i wanted was straight hair and that's exactly how i treated mine. so far, it's been about a year of finally just letting my hair do its thing and trying out different methods and so far i am loving it. probably going to get a big chop for the summer tho because the ends are still somewhat damaged. i would love to see what my hair can do super short!

    • @Beaneabean
      @Beaneabean 4 роки тому +1

      blake Thin? I can understand wanting silky and straight hair but I cant recall anyone ever wanting thin hair

    • @Djauntywanker
      @Djauntywanker 4 роки тому +1

      Nah i have always been very happy with my wavy curly hair. Girls with straight hair are boring.

    • @Beaneabean
      @Beaneabean 4 роки тому +3

      My deaf cat max and other forms of creative fun Who knew that the texture of your hair affected someones personality? People with non-straight hair seem to always have to insult people with straight hair to feel good about themselves and its sad.

    • @Djauntywanker
      @Djauntywanker 4 роки тому

      Karynna Hill ok take it how you will. Get offended by some random on the internet. Must be so bored . 🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼🍼

    • @zadarose4352
      @zadarose4352 4 роки тому

      blake it’s crazy how differently people view things based on what they have. I have pin straight hair that absolutely will not curl ever and all I’ve ever wanted is to be able to curl my hair and have it stick for the whole day. Or even a few hours. But I do understand that I’m very fortunate for the hair I have. It’s straight and silky natural and I think it’s all due to not using heat on my hair because there is literally no point, nothing ever happens.

  • @ditzyrose700
    @ditzyrose700 4 роки тому +97

    I just discovered my wavy hair today, so I want to say THANK YOU for making this video! My mom has waves too, but her solution is to flat iron her hair into submission. It'll be such a treat to see where mine goes with a little TLC!

    • @AESmith-bw1fy
      @AESmith-bw1fy 4 роки тому +1

      I just discovered my waves a week ago....and I’m fortydamnthree years old! 🤦🏻‍♀️😂 I just thought I had weird hair.

    • @ivy23173
      @ivy23173 4 роки тому +1

      wats TLC?

    • @labornurse
      @labornurse 3 роки тому +1

      Tender loving care

    • @doraaaa0613
      @doraaaa0613 3 роки тому

      my mom's solution is to get her hair keratin treated (she's been doing this for years now, and also flat ironed my hair when i was a kid sometimes) and my grandma hates her curls and wrestles it in neat braids. sigh, it's no wonder it took me until now to figure out what my hair type is!!! i just thought my hair sucked majorly, and even now my mom doubted that my 2b/2c waves are natural waves when i showed em to her the first time. 😂 mannn

  • @andrewv8472
    @andrewv8472 4 роки тому +591

    Basically: don’t brush your hair unless it’s wet *biggest key*

    • @taylaios
      @taylaios  4 роки тому +104

      Andrew V and avoid using heat!! *bigger key*

    • @faithfultotheKing
      @faithfultotheKing 4 роки тому +52

      Wait? Don't brush it UNLESS it's wet? I thought you weren't supposed to brush it wet?

    • @abbymee6413
      @abbymee6413 4 роки тому +96

      it can be damaging but with curly hair brushing it dry is a lot worse so get a wet hair hairbrush

    • @faithfultotheKing
      @faithfultotheKing 4 роки тому +1

      Abby Mee oh ok thank you!

    • @amasion2882
      @amasion2882 4 роки тому +15

      The type of brush used is also important.

  • @Strawberrymatcha10
    @Strawberrymatcha10 4 роки тому +617

    When your grandma was younger she looked exactly like Zooey Deschanel!

    • @haclynjill362
      @haclynjill362 4 роки тому +2

      Simcha Heiser that is so true

    • @oh4539
      @oh4539 4 роки тому +4

      OMG SHE DOES I'M SCARED

  • @saggguy7
    @saggguy7 4 роки тому +114

    GIRL. Thank you so much for this video!!! I’ve hated my “frizzy straight” hair my whole life. It’s been such a source of insecurity for me. and when I saw your before and after in the thumbnail I realized that your before pic looks so much like my hair. Today I washed it for the first time without brushing or towel drying it, and I gave it a little bit of scrunch with a curl cream and BOOM. Nice, shiny 2a hair. Holy shit, my hair is wavy! So today starts my journey to learn to work with+embrace it. :)

    • @sve_tiko
      @sve_tiko 4 роки тому +3

      OMG I am 30 years old, and TODAY I found out my hair is wavy !!! Whaaaaat🤯

  • @riharose6328
    @riharose6328 4 роки тому +549

    I AM GOING TO SEND THIS TO MY FRIEND WHO CONSTANTLY BRUSHES OUT HER LUSCIOUS CURLS

  • @sarahb4104
    @sarahb4104 4 роки тому +1142

    Curly haired people get so pressed. Like calm down. Wavy is a type of curl. Also her hair looks curly to me.

    • @Krriistinnee
      @Krriistinnee 4 роки тому +17

      Sarah B it’s really never that serious

    • @ocinidolegna
      @ocinidolegna 4 роки тому +35

      Kristine Godoy it IS that serious for a lot of people bullied for curly or kinky hair and pressured to straighten it (not only black people, hispanics and whites as well). but i agree her hair is curly even if it It's not as tight as others would consider curls. it's like when you stretch out your slinky

    • @jaydenlacaille2071
      @jaydenlacaille2071 4 роки тому +1

      Ok sure

    • @Hop3stR
      @Hop3stR 4 роки тому +3

      Sis... I literally just said she had curly hair in my comment “So pressed” right...

    • @jaydenlacaille2071
      @jaydenlacaille2071 4 роки тому

      Bailey Boo and I said ok

  • @jillianleduff8704
    @jillianleduff8704 4 роки тому +37

    the fact that she was standing next to ariana grande and I didn't even notice because of how beautiful she is -

  • @Zero-cw4qj
    @Zero-cw4qj 4 роки тому +231

    When I was young my hair was naturally straight but as I went through puberty it became like your curls. I never used heat but I would brush it like you and would end up with nasty frizzy hair. Finally, I realized that if I didn’t brush it, scrunched it, and used really lightweight and moisturizing products my hair would be smooth and curly. Unfourtunetly I dyed my hair last year which ruined my curl pattern so I had to cut it to my shoulders. It’s getting there...

    • @Mainlymoemonkey
      @Mainlymoemonkey 4 роки тому +3

      Coloring curls damage them? Well there goes my only life plans-

    • @faithgarcia9213
      @faithgarcia9213 4 роки тому +2

      Blacktea Shots only for some. I’ve dyed my hair 3 or 4 times in the last year and it’s still pretty healthy and has kept its pattern. I’ve got 3a/3b

    • @Zero-cw4qj
      @Zero-cw4qj 4 роки тому +2

      Blackmae MM my hair is really prone to damage and gets split ends easily so your hair could be totally fine if you dye it

    • @Zero-cw4qj
      @Zero-cw4qj 4 роки тому +1

      Burnt Potato yeah my hair is damaged easily

    • @arianna9855
      @arianna9855 4 роки тому

      It was the opposite for me ooof

  • @juliasanders9155
    @juliasanders9155 4 роки тому +353

    "Yes, I literally wanted thin, straight hair when I was in middle school." Yup. I'm the same age as you, and I remember that straight hair rave. I remember asking my hairdresser at the time to make my hair "wispy." Ugh!!!

    • @goodiegoodygumdrops
      @goodiegoodygumdrops 4 роки тому +4

      julia sanders
      Me too! I straightened the HELL out of my hair in HS. GUYS not even girls would bully me about my hair.
      Assholes 😒

    • @rishamayoux5212
      @rishamayoux5212 4 роки тому +2

      Meanwhile as a straight haired girl i would go to the hairdresser to perm mine curly. Never worked. After one wash my hair was as straight as an uncooked spaghetti again...

    • @dodobird9975
      @dodobird9975 4 роки тому +4

      ok thanks for making people with naturally straight and thin hair feel bad

    • @juliasanders9155
      @juliasanders9155 4 роки тому +3

      @@dodobird9975 No problem.

    • @MadHikikomori
      @MadHikikomori 4 роки тому +2

      I dont blame you cause straight hair is beautiful, no wonder even black women wear straight hair wigs

  • @jennapurvins7717
    @jennapurvins7717 4 роки тому +50

    GIRLLLL WE HAVE LIKE THE SAME HAIR JOURNEY! I remember straight hair being the thing in middle school and me wanting it! I am so mad at myself for waking up EVERY MORNING using heat to straighten my hair! I also got my hair messed up with bleach and it was like all yellow so bad! I paid multiple times to get toner in it and it always faded out :(

  • @onenessesor9017
    @onenessesor9017 4 роки тому +55

    As an 18 y/o black girl who just discovered her real curl pattern (4b/c) just 3 years ago after years of hair processing, I'm so proud of girls like you. Happy for this new revelation that us curly/coily girls are getting. Keep doing what you do b! 💕🙌🏽👏🏽

  • @nicole-eh5lo
    @nicole-eh5lo 4 роки тому +193

    You're my hair idol! I'm 13, and im currently going through a crisis with my hair. I brush my hair out after showering at night, and of course every time it becomes frizzy. I know I have natural curl, but when I scrunch my hair I end up with messy frizzy curls. I hope to find products to fix it, but I'm currently in a financial situation where I can't buy anything. For now, I'm stuck with this mess!

    • @Norwaycat91
      @Norwaycat91 4 роки тому +21

      Try combing your hair only before going into the shower never after! That helps a lot!!!

    • @jaiceybowers6795
      @jaiceybowers6795 4 роки тому +9

      If you're looking for curly girl approved shampoo/conditioners I use Suave Essentials Tropical Coconut. A family sized bottle is $2.
      Also using a regular cotton tshirt as a hair towel helps too!

    • @athulyasurendran7639
      @athulyasurendran7639 4 роки тому +8

      If you can't buy anything just buy some coconut oil or she butter and moisturize those curls

    • @taylaios
      @taylaios  4 роки тому +9

      aw you’re too sweet!! theres a lot of curl products at the drug store that are really affordable and great too! You just have to find what works for you. Also your curl pattern will probably change

    • @nicole-eh5lo
      @nicole-eh5lo 4 роки тому

      @@Norwaycat91 I do try, but then its this whole frizzy mess of uneven curls!

  • @monamour4310
    @monamour4310 4 роки тому +6

    I cant get over how amazing your moms hair is even after years of damage it's still so thick !

  • @isadoranobre4276
    @isadoranobre4276 4 роки тому +86

    I’m right at that transition stage you’ve mentioned but i’m having a really rough time managing it and finding my curl pattern which is pretty similar to yours. i’d love to see a video on why you don’t like the curly girl method and what products and treatments you use in your hair instead. love you xx

  • @carolinatrigueiro7074
    @carolinatrigueiro7074 4 роки тому +41

    I went through EVERY single thing you told in this video, I am amazed, and I never met no one like me before. The only difference is that I have thin hair. Even the half blond hair experience I had. Glad we are in this stage right now :) I may have my hair flattened not even once per year and I get ancious the next day to wash it off and have my natural waves back.

  • @cocome1997
    @cocome1997 4 роки тому +13

    Even I felt the same way!!!! My hair texture started to changing when I was in my teens and one point I was soo frustrated because I shouldn’t understand what was going on with it but eventually I learned how to accept it and I am still learning a lot about my hair and how to take care of it

  • @getterere4594
    @getterere4594 4 роки тому +223

    So you’re telling me Hermione Granger could have been curly/wavy haired? 👀

  • @newyorkdollsxx
    @newyorkdollsxx 4 роки тому +27

    I’ve never met anyone in my life with the same amount of hair on my head. Now seeing this video knowing you and your mom do makes me feel a little more normal! Every stylist would makes the “3 heads of hair” comment. I’ve always assumed my hair could be curly but I’ve spent all my life straightening that I’m not sure. I’m hoping to discover what my hair’s potential is now that I’ve embraced its thickness.

  • @lolaz2556
    @lolaz2556 4 роки тому +3

    this and your hair care video have helped me so much. i noticed my hair was drying curly about 8 months ago (i’ve always had pin straight hair) and didn’t do anything about it, but now it’s getting longer and curlier (and frizzier), and i want to take care of it the right way and see what my hair is supposed to look like. my dad also noticed his hair develop a curl pattern around the age i am so i’m not surprised, but and his hair is so curly so i’m excited to see what my hair will look like if i take care of it right ! thank u so much for making these ♡

  • @mirnaewes6203
    @mirnaewes6203 4 роки тому +71

    Can we like take a moment to talk about how pretty she is

  • @Hello-rx5rj
    @Hello-rx5rj 4 роки тому +25

    bro i thought i has a lot of hair but your mom literally has the most beautiful, thick, full hair ive ever seen 🥺

  • @captainhaley3012
    @captainhaley3012 4 роки тому +29

    Girl! I'm 23 and I needed this video!! I'll update you on my journey.

  • @xMomentforlife3
    @xMomentforlife3 4 роки тому +15

    I relate to this so much! I also used to brush my hair like crazy and never knew/wanted to recognise I had curls until after high school. Now I’m trying to find ways for it to be healthy again, but the years of brushing and straightening really took its toll. It’s such a shame that I didn’t realise the beauty of curls back then as people made fun of my wild, frizzy hair, but now I’m embracing them more than ever ☺️ thanks for sharing your story! Your hair looks amazing ♥️

  • @ericagraham4100
    @ericagraham4100 4 роки тому +43

    This made me smile. I am in my 30s now, but your story was exactly like mine. I didn't know why my hair was poofy and the girls in my school had this thin straight hair. I love that you made this video! I wish UA-cam had existed back when I was in school just for this ha ha. Your hair is beautiful :)

  • @TashaFierce111
    @TashaFierce111 4 роки тому +3

    Straight hair is nice every once in a while but there is nothing like some hair with a wave, curl, frizzle, frazzle, razzle and dazzle. It’s so pretty. Good for you!

  • @Nosybob
    @Nosybob 4 роки тому +37

    omg I went through almost the e x a c t same thing - middle school straightening, crying over bad frizzy buns, and having no idea that my grandma, aunts, and mom ALL have lots of fine, curly hair like mine! now i'm lowkey horrified that they purposely blow-fried away the curl pattern (and always acted like that was a GOOD thing (and was what I was destined to do)! I'm so glad to finally be learning how to properly care for and wear my natural texture. it's crazy that it took me this long, but it's even crazier that my aunt is just finally coming to love her natural curls in her 60s - fun to exchange ideas/products/etc. with her though!

    • @Almapp
      @Almapp 4 роки тому

      How do u look after ur hair now?

  • @katzchenschatzchen6751
    @katzchenschatzchen6751 4 роки тому +25

    Honestly your hair is like the prettiest how could you ever be jealous of straight hair

    • @bonniesensai
      @bonniesensai 4 роки тому +2

      She wasnt taking care of it so didnt see it

  • @melaniebellucci9096
    @melaniebellucci9096 4 роки тому +2

    I am literally so thankful she posted this. I am in high school and my mom did the same thing hers does. She always just straightened my hair and the curl pattern was bad on my hair. I just recently learned how to take care of my hair and I am still trying to figure it out because I just recently learned how to actually defined my curls.

  • @billiestaten8527
    @billiestaten8527 4 роки тому +33

    Beauty standards since we are young no matter what ethnicity broadcast that sraight long hair is idolized. Media also widely portrays that with lack of representation for differences.
    Most people are guilty of generalization thinking curls and or waves only happen for people that look a certain way.
    Society brainwashes and shames those who begin to embrace their hair. Their comes a time when you begin to love yourself and better yourself for who you are and not attempt to assimilate to the norm and are still judged and scrutinized.
    For instance those blatantly trying to prove her wrong in this video or twisting her words.
    I think her embracing her curl pattern is beautiful it goes to show that she is embracing who she is without conforming. Her curls represent confidence and self love.

  • @kwa4034
    @kwa4034 4 роки тому +33

    i’m so glad i found this channel because i never had any friends that had this type of hair. I have the same hair as you and it was always super frizzy and i would just always put it in buns becuase i didn’t know what to do with it. the only friends that had curly hair had like 4c hair and couldn’t really help me with my exact type. but i’m so glad i found a youtubed with the same hair ❤️❤️❤️💕💕

  • @autumnjackson7959
    @autumnjackson7959 4 роки тому +16

    Ok so as a kid I had *STRAIGHT THIN* hair and as I got old it got *CURLY AND THICK* me and my mom didn't know how but now I have thic curly hair that idk how to take care of it since I do brush my curls out idk why but it make it look bad and wavy so ty for all the info cause I did NOT know how t take care of this *mess* !

  • @kelseygibbs9758
    @kelseygibbs9758 4 роки тому +478

    “My hair wasn’t at a level that you could tone” girl she lied to you 😂 their are toners for every hair level, and you were about a 7, so she DEFINITELY could’ve toned it smh

    • @justanotherhuman3668
      @justanotherhuman3668 4 роки тому +2

      Kel G 💯%

    • @alliedionisi4672
      @alliedionisi4672 4 роки тому +7

      She just clearly knew/knows nothing about hair and it makes me very sad lol

    • @TheEmmaVee
      @TheEmmaVee 4 роки тому +8

      A lot of the times it's just envy and they ruin your hair on purpose.☕

    • @zuzia9179
      @zuzia9179 4 роки тому

      the hairdresser shouldve left it on for a bit longer, then tone, her hair wasnt at the right level to tone to the kind of way she wanted it, theres definitely not a toner for each level of hair

  • @imengr
    @imengr 4 роки тому +31

    It happened to me too. I didn't know I had curly hair and I always brushed it used the wrong products an my hair was thick and frizzy just like yours, I hated them but then a couple of months ago I let my hair air dry and I didn't brush them and they were wavy😮. Now I use the right products and they look sooo much better
    Thanks for sharing your story I thought I was the only one😊😘

  • @margoatfinch
    @margoatfinch 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this video 😭😭😭 I somewhat always know I have wavy hair, but because everyone around me taught me to take care of my hair by dry brushing it, that's what I've been doing my whole 20-ish years of life. I literally just found of about wavy/curly hair routines a few weeks ago and started it right away but got sooo frustrated because my hair still looks all frizzy and unkempt and nothing like beautiful curls I watched on youtubers videos although I've done all the exact same routines. This video of yours make me realize that I need to be patient, that it's normal because I'm just starting, that my hair needs time to be healthy and grow curl patterns naturally again, that it's gonna take months and years of care until I can hopefully grow curls as beautiful as yours. 💛💛💛

  • @imanaandurnot3858
    @imanaandurnot3858 4 роки тому +1090

    Her: don’t use heat!
    Me: *uses heat throughout the whole video*

    • @delani655
      @delani655 4 роки тому +5

      As long as you are using a protectant spray then your all good🤣

    • @delani655
      @delani655 4 роки тому +4

      Lotte well duh ur still using heat but asking as your not using it daily your fine.

    • @aaliyahfeacher5427
      @aaliyahfeacher5427 4 роки тому +6

      Back To Da Lobby Heat protectant isn’t gonna stop you from getting heat damage💀

    • @delani655
      @delani655 4 роки тому +1

      Aaliyah Feacher I know. But it’ll help

    • @lindokmohammed9132
      @lindokmohammed9132 4 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kimp.8724
    @kimp.8724 4 роки тому +325

    I think we all wanted thin, straight hair.😂😂

    • @mared8000
      @mared8000 4 роки тому +16

      Yes until i started loving my thick curly hair 🥰

    • @littlesadeo
      @littlesadeo 4 роки тому +9

      mare_x
      *Me who LITERALLY has 4b hair:* _lucky bastards_

    • @sophiacontinues
      @sophiacontinues 4 роки тому

      would*

    • @sadbtch1827
      @sadbtch1827 4 роки тому +5

      mare_x / not me, that’s how my natural is is and I hate it!! I want thick, curly hair! It’s sooooo much more beautiful than boring straight thin hair!

    • @sadbtch1827
      @sadbtch1827 4 роки тому

      Little Sade / lets switch!!!

  • @Mary-rq3cn
    @Mary-rq3cn 2 роки тому +1

    Wow it's really encouraging to see that your hair at some point had very loose waves to it. I assumed that most people with beautiful waves like you always had the same curl pattern you have now just maybe a bit looser. My hair looks exactly like yours when you note that you just had figured out that you had a curl pattern; I thought that I was doomed to always have weak waves! You are so so beautiful by the way- just breathtaking!

  • @celineamilhat151
    @celineamilhat151 4 роки тому +50

    Wahoo! You have the same "problem" as for me, I have a lot of hair = big volume and my hair was when I was young curly like English curls and then until I was in high school, they were straight/smooth, and now they are curly but I don't know yet how to give them a good look healthier. But I'm gonna follow your advice and see what it does 😊 so thank you to share your hair journey

  • @caroline__0148
    @caroline__0148 4 роки тому +256

    Anyone else’s hair do that thing where it has barely any wave and looks low-key straight but outta nowhere it gets much wavier like Taylor’s without having to do much?? No.. just me? Ok

  • @crystalsetree
    @crystalsetree Рік тому

    I just wanted you to let you know thank you so much. I am 39 years old and I just realized I have curly/wavy hair. I really appreciate this video. It makes me feel so much better I thought for years that I had just frizzy hair that it was terrible. Thank you.

  • @seohyunkim39
    @seohyunkim39 4 роки тому +354

    Dear triggered people in the comment section. Curly and Coily are 2 different things. Please stop being offended

    • @seohyunkim39
      @seohyunkim39 4 роки тому +9

      @The Ballad Of The Queen you can have curly and wavy mixed texture.

    • @seohyunkim39
      @seohyunkim39 4 роки тому +1

      @Avery Charlton different curl patterns means what exactly. what makes something similar or different ?

    • @zoesee9109
      @zoesee9109 4 роки тому +11

      @@seohyunkim39 its easier to identify the different categories of hair so people can take care of their hair. Back in the day everyone called hair that wasnt straight curly but as we evolved we added more names to better classify the different hair textures, like wavy for example. That's why the Andre Walker hair typing system was created, it was made to better classify the hair (straight, wavy, curly, kinky) type 1 being straight, type 2 wavy, type 3 curly and type 4 kinky, then in each type it goes from a b c which categorizes the severity of how straight/wavy/curly/kinky their hair is. For example I have curly hair (3b to be exact) and if I was looking on UA-cam for a video on how to take care of curly hair and a bunch of people with wavy hair pop up, that routine wouldnt work or help me cause my hair is curler and likewise with every other hair type. It just makes everything a whole lot easier, especially for people that dont know how to take care of their hair type. Hopefully that was easy to understand

    • @amasion2882
      @amasion2882 4 роки тому +6

      Zoe See : I’m sorry to disagree with you but my experience with “Curl Types” has been unhelpful in my CHJ. The visual presentation of hair varies (as does strand thickness, strand textures, overall volume, hair length, style products and techniques used, porosity, etc.). Even bad cuts can “spoil” Curl pattern or make it less obvious.
      According to the “Curl Type Chart” my hair is probably 2B/2C-ish, but I also have obvious, well defined ringlets characteristic of type 3 hair in the back of my head. My hair is long right now and it’s curlier when it’s shorter if it’s cut well. I have high porosity hair, very “thirsty” and I routinely use products intended for types 3 and 4 hair. Type 2 products leave my hair dry, frizzy and “rough” to the touch.
      The “Curl Typists” probably mean well but their system doesn’t hold water. It also appears like some are a bit “snobby” about their “Curl privilege” and want to exclude curly girls who don’t meet their pretended “standards” for “real” curls.

    • @maxinemiraculous2616
      @maxinemiraculous2616 4 роки тому +8

      Coils are a type of curls.

  • @stinakri9
    @stinakri9 4 роки тому +5

    Girl, I haven't related to anyones hairstory as much as yours, we have the exact same hair type, and to see that someone else has struggled with the same puffy thick hair problem, while all your friends has straight sleek beautiful hair, it's so annoying, but I have also come to a stage where I have figured out my hair, I wash it once a week, I never brush it, use all the good stuff, hair mask, good conditioner, oils, and my hair has never been better, so sis, so glad to hear your story! Your hair is soo beautiful❤

  • @cassie8316
    @cassie8316 4 роки тому

    I just wanted to thank you for your videos about your hair! It’s such a relief to find someone with similar curl pattern. I had straight thin hair up until I hit puberty then my hair got thick and really wavy and I was totally clueless on what to do with my hair. I’d just brush it dry and it would end up like yours. I eventually learned to just start brushing my hair in the shower and it would still get some curls but it was still overall messy looking. Since discovering your channel nearly two months I’ve started my curly hair journey and my hair looks so much better and defined. Thank youuu 🥺💛

  • @anastasiablazhenova3692
    @anastasiablazhenova3692 4 роки тому +8

    Finally a video from someone who has hair similar to mine (but I am more 2a-2b, but I have just started my journey, so maybe it'll become better)
    I also realized that I like my waves 100500 times more than any other style, and feel so lucky to be able to wear them every day with no need to use a curling iron or other time consuming techniques

  • @roosvanwilligen3778
    @roosvanwilligen3778 4 роки тому +10

    You should totally do more hair videos!! As a fellow curly girl, I looove seeing them! ♥

  • @robynv3175
    @robynv3175 3 роки тому +2

    I totally have the same experience! I always thought my hair was straight and just wonky in back and frizzy when I dried it. And now I've figured out I'm wavy and I'm excited now that I've started a journey to care for my hair right and enhance my natural wave. Thanks for your video ☺️

    • @carrot8875
      @carrot8875 2 роки тому

      Can you tell me how to or which products you use because I just figured out a bit ago and have no idea on what to do

  • @hannahpeterson7572
    @hannahpeterson7572 4 роки тому +8

    Ok, she’s literally so beautiful and her hair is my goals! I’ve only ever had straight hair my whole life and would literally LOVE to have hair like hers! It’s so thick and beautiful😭😍😍

  • @theMermaidRhonda
    @theMermaidRhonda 4 роки тому +85

    Your curl pattern is pretty much exactly the same as mine. I didn't know I had curly hair, either..lol Like you, I spent years using the flatiron and felt like I was always fighting a losing battle. When I started doing research on how to get my hair to grow and stopped using heat, that's when I realized I have curly hair! What products do you use? Most of the curl creams I have tried are too heavy for my hair. Your hair is beautiful!

    • @taylaios
      @taylaios  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you!! I have a full routine with all my products already on my channel 🥰ua-cam.com/video/wb_KykAIqvQ/v-deo.html

  • @ShipwreckSamantha
    @ShipwreckSamantha 4 роки тому +1

    My mind is blown. I shaved my head at 15 years old because my hair was just like yours. I've kept a buzz cut for 6 years and have been growing it out for the past year (almost to my shoulders now). My hair was just as fluffy and frizzy and I hated it. As my hair has been growing out I noticed some natural curl (because it was so short I wasn't brushing it). So I started using some curling mousse and saw improvement. I accidentally discovered my curly hair kind of like you did. Now I'm learning how to actually take care of my hair and I think/hope it'll end up like yours now that I actually know how to manage my "Merida" hair. I'm so excited!

  • @lostsoulxo8994
    @lostsoulxo8994 4 роки тому +9

    Giirl!! I can totally relate. I am not a fan of the curly girl method either. And I'd recommend to anyone to please try different products, try silicones, figure out the best routine for your hair, on your own. Every hair type is different and me having 3b to 3c hair, I've grown up with curly hair, I had it all my life so I had a couple more years to try out what really helps my hair instead of following a questionable routine someone came up with, that suddenly blew up.

  • @rociogobea2285
    @rociogobea2285 4 роки тому +8

    My 13yr old babygirl has beautiful natural curls. She gets fustrated because one side is very less curly.
    I'm glad you mentioned the brushing, I have constantly and constantly told her NOT to brush hair, to use the big comb for curly hair & also when hair was beyond the most natural beautiful curliest was when she didnt even brush it nor comb it. She also desires straight hair, but I told her to embrace her natural beautiful hair& i also mentioned to her that most of us gals just want the opposite of what we have, lol! I have straight fine boring hair, curls don't last on my hair more than past 15mins, even perm dont stay after 2weeks, and hairspray wont even hold my hair... but I have learned a few tricks here and there to give some volume naturally. I luuuv natural curly hair♡ but I have learned all of us gals have our own hair beauty& just have to figure out the right touches to naturally bring out that beauty shine out🥰💖 your hair is so beautiful & amazing, luv your volume& curls💖💖💖🌺🍃

  • @miacat4402
    @miacat4402 4 роки тому +21

    So are we going to talk about how she is in a picture with Ariana Grande!?

  • @ymn5201
    @ymn5201 4 роки тому +8

    You’re absolutely lovely❤️ thick hair is a blessing

  • @jada_gainz
    @jada_gainz 4 роки тому +35

    aw, this made me so happy. i LOVE seeing girls find & appreciate their curls. i was a lil skeptical at first by the title, with the word “curl” in there. only because a lot, not all, white girls *I* know have zero curl & will just scrunch their hair with mouse & call it curly. but after watching.. wow, you have for sure always had curly hair & the thought of you brushing your curls when younger makes me cringe ngl. my heart hurts for those curls😹 you & your hair are beautiful! 😻

  • @SunshineBerry987
    @SunshineBerry987 4 роки тому +12

    That's EXACTLY how I felt for the longest. Now I finally found out how to take care on my naturally curly hair...glad I found someone with the same curl pattern as me :)

  • @cayetanagarcia3313
    @cayetanagarcia3313 4 роки тому +197

    Can somebody see that she has a photo w Ariana Grande?!

  • @Amorazula
    @Amorazula 4 роки тому +683

    y’all are literally putting so much effort into deciding wether she has “curly” or “wavy” like sis -.- let her be 😂 regardless it LOOKS GOODT. those are most definitely, curls. idk who looks at that and says *oh wow! look at your waves today they look so pretty* because it’s not ringlets? it’s not considered curls? what the fuck 😂

    • @Toppdash
      @Toppdash 4 роки тому +9

      Curls are curls, waves are waves. Theres a reason why they are 2 different words. Nothing wrong with wavy hair, it's just misleading for the curly girls coming to this video expecting to see somebody with their hairtype.

    • @Amorazula
      @Amorazula 4 роки тому +16

      Sone Foreva I get what you mean but based off her thumbnail you would see the *type* of curl she is referring too so it wouldn’t be misleading. at the end of the day her hair does curl. these are curls. look up waves and curls and she is considered to have curly hair, it doesn’t have to be “ringlets” “tight curls” “curls at the roots” etc to be considered a curl. now we have a bunch of girls with her hair type hesitant to call their hair curly because someone on the internets going to tell them it’s not curly. the logic i see down this video is compelling af.

    • @Toppdash
      @Toppdash 4 роки тому +4

      @@Amorazula the definiton of curl is:
      noun
      1.
      something in the shape of a spiral or coil, especially a lock of hair.
      "her blonde hair was a mass of tangled curls"
      So yeah no, its not curly because those aren't spirals or coils. If it's not a spiral or coil it's not a curl. Even if is not that misleading, people will start being confused about their hairtype if we keep spreading misinformation like this. I don't get why people get so defensive either when we explain that their hair is wavy and not curly, like curls are not superior to waves or anything. If anyone is hesitant about their hairtype then just look up the hair type chart and defintions and thats it. It's not like anoyone is suffering because their hair is wavy and not curly, it's not that dramatic lol.

    • @Amorazula
      @Amorazula 4 роки тому +7

      Sone Foreva wavy is still considered from the curl family though... as a 2B diagram would show. it seems odd for people to get so meticulous on a curl or wave. she isn’t misleading anyone. when she put both “curl and wave” because everyone clearly has their own opinion on her hair. no ones being dramatic lol except for the people knit picking her hair. when she’s just explaining her personal hair journey story.

    • @Toppdash
      @Toppdash 4 роки тому +4

      @@Amorazula Where did you get that information from? A curl is a spiral. If it's not then it's not a curl or from some "curl family" that literally makes no sense, sorry. It's not a species, it's literally a hair shape and texture. Look at the defintion of curl. If it is anything besides the defintion then it is not that. You can't just listen to what some curl blogger tells you and look at that as a fact. Her hair is clearly wavy and not going into spiral so yeah it is misleading to put "curly" in the title since her hair is not that, even if she added in "wavy". The people "knit picking" are just saying facts it's not an attack in anyway.

  • @destinycarlton2844
    @destinycarlton2844 2 роки тому

    It’s like looking into a mirror if only I had realized it sooner I’m happy to have your videos to help me on my wavy/curly hair journey

  • @cheshireerlinberts5806
    @cheshireerlinberts5806 4 роки тому +332

    imagine if you did not accidentally fall asleep😂

  • @kirin7409
    @kirin7409 4 роки тому +49

    We need more love for wavy hair

  • @idealist9735
    @idealist9735 4 роки тому +81

    Korean girl passing by: Her natural waves are gorgeous..and you're sayin this isn't curly hair..? (hair literally looks like silk)