If she flirts with other guys in front of you then she is disrespecting you, that´s more than a red flag, if she does that she is not testing you she just belongs to the streets.
That's a major red flag. If a girl you're serious about doesn't even respect you and has the audacity to flirt with other men in front of you, just make her your side bitch/booty call and find yourself a real woman.
It's about faith. If you have faith in your value against others, you'd really know that whatever happens she cannot leave you. When this happens, you become more carefree and not try to restrict your girl. It's like how a caged pigeon suddenly becomes more loving and faithful when you let it go on its own.
I can handle almost all of these just fine. The jealousy "test" will piss me right off, though. Not because I'm jealous, but because it's disrespectful in the extreme and I won't tolerate it. I've broken off relationships in the middle of dinners, parties, etc because I got fed up with being disrespected to my face. Never got verbally or visibly aggravated though, just told them that since she's so interested in the other guy that she can't even wait until I'm not around, I'll give them some space, and her things that I have at my place will be ready to be picked up the next day at noon.
@@beasthaven1571 A couple girls I've 'dated' have flirted with other men in front of me and I left them for it, but only one of them ended up with the guy afterward. They're now married and have a kid, so I'm happy for them. The rest I guess just wanted attention and it didn't matter who they got it from.
@@user-zr6pl6nb6z I'm not actually 'happy', it's just a term. I'm indifferent because it doesn't affect me at all. It was irritating in the beginning, but after years passed there's no reason to care at all, so in the spirit of being 'neighborly' I'm happy for them, in so far as being cordial is concerned. Kinda like telling someone their kid is so cute when they show you a picture. I don't give a single shit about the kid or how they look, but it's common courtesy.
@@forkme3165 I see. I'm the kind of guy who probably wouldn't even think of her anymore. I've had more than my share of manipulative women and they only get the chance to annoy me once.
See this actually happened to me. My girlfriend insulted me, and I did get upset because I thought she shouldn't be trying to hurt me if we are together. I always tried to make her feel good about herself so I expected the same in return...but...that caused me to fail this test and that was the end of the relationship. It was odd because honestly in retrospect I should have been the one to walk away from it, however she got there first. Growing up I didn't realize that women these days actually aren't on the level of maturity as women who came before them. Since the relationship failed I have had the opportunity to meet and be with even more beautiful women then her and to meet and be with women who treated me better as well. Oh well. What do we call? blessing in disguise? I dunno
Arthur Schopenhauer was right, women will always be children at heart. Those childish tests/mind games are exhausting and that's exactly why i stopped dating. I almost feel manipulated and i genuinely hate it. I don't want to drain myself by analysing everything, i have better things to do.
If she does these things, then guys, she isn't worth your time. She's gonna drain more energy out of you than anyone else. It's an indication that you should probably reconsider the relationship with her and if needed, go to better things and people in life. Honest and clear communication and intentions are basis of a good and healthy relationship. Anybody, whether boy or girl, starts getting manipulative or starts playing dirty games like these is gonna cause major problems for you and your career. Just don't give anyone so much control to decide for you!
Well said my man. Search for girls who have clear intentions and pure at heart, those are worth it, anything else can go fuck herself. Girls who play games like these are the pettiest people ever
Insults are a red flag. People do not insult people if they are interested. This is the behavior of an insecure person who would most likely be either abusive or co-dependant in the relationship
*"She went from being warm and kind to acting like I ate her last chicken wing"* That could very well not have been a 'test' but rather she forgot to take her psychotropic meds again. Seriously.
I would definitely take the last chicken wing, but if there was a drumstick, I would take that instead. I like a woman who likes to watch me eat and offers me more when I've finished.
insults are a cruel way to test us. I'm 48yrs old so I can pick that up pretty quickly. I simply stay in my frame as an older mature dude....but it doesn't mean I have time for it. I just gracefully smile, finish the date , be a gentleman and walk away afterwards....with grace and class boys. Never kick and scream.
"Five ways toxic women manipulate and abuse you." If you try to even win someone who plays this kinds of games, you are a fool, and asking for disaster.
As a woman, I don’t know about others but I’m not out to “test” people and be sly. Literally all I (and probably many other women) want is someone to put as much effort into a relationship as I do and to be honest and straightforward with their feelings rather than beat around the bush.
Thats truee, but! Dont u use those tests in the begining? Its appauling but most women, (from my own and friends and facebook group of men talking about intimacy and relatioms) do use those..
@@avivolah9401 no, at no point to I (nor probably most other women) do any sort of tests like that. Not unless they’re manipulative and toxic but normal women don’t pull those kinds of stunts because we wouldn’t want someone to do that to us. Simple golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated.
Never heard of women consciously testing men. To me it seems just disrespectful. Also pretending like you don't care rather than being honest like it is suggested in the video is the worst advice for a relationship in the long term.
@@johnarcher6150 I’m not saying nobody does it, there’s 7 billion people of course there’s gonna be people that do it, but I’m just saying, NORMAL people don’t do stuff like that. Only a woman who’s toxic and manipulative would actually do that
@@rezag8369 You brought up the key term: "women". Womenchildren on the other hand love these and stick with equally inmature Menchildren. Finally, men aim higher than silly mindgames and walk away from people who only have that to offer.
I never let a woman disresepect me. when a woman disrespects you, it's not a test to see how confident you are. it's her way to test your boundaries and to find out how much sh*t you're willing to tolerate from her just to keep her around. If a guy just lets her insults slide, it's not a sign of him having healthy self-esteem, it's a sign of him being a pushover. if she can say something insulting to the guy and still get away with it, she won't see him as confident. she'll see him as desparate, somebody who's probably got no options so he puts her on a pedestal. never ever let anyone walk all over you. if you don't nip that behaviour in the bud, you'll never have a satisfying relationship with that person.
These “tests” are insanely unattractive. If she can’t do these tests in a respectful manner, she doesn’t deserve your respect either. Doing things in sneaky fashion already puts a sense of distrust, since she doesn’t want to be upfront. Ontop of that, acting indifferent and letting them disrespect you is a sure fire way that if you end up with them, they will most likely use it against you again. Shouldn’t have to take disrespect to “be in love”. And these sound like all the beginning traits of an lopsided and potentially controlling or mentally abusive relationship.
@@makegainz4218 very well said, very well said. The test are ways for them to mentally convince themselves they are justify. Eventually you fail at something we all do.
Long story short, no words once she insults you and play the card game act sad on the outside and she well feel bad and that's when she'll make it up in the bedroom. I used this several times. Don't get mad but make it seem she was wrong by NOT telling her and mentally she will give in and give you some you know what.
@@bela5054 that's a good thing. Unless a man is low value, no man wants an unfulfilling casual sex night. They seek out relationships. I don't know if you realise this but real life is not a nightclub
This comment is for Michael Mirin… Yeah brother that would be one hell of a test if it were one, but it’s not… It’s called “she passed on you, probably Friendzoned You if she still speaks to you, either way she shouldn’t still be an option in the same way”Further, Wise people would say once a girl has messed up her first Chance, sometimes it considered a really bad precedent Welcoming her back with open arms.
We all had awkward ways on social interactions. Similar, to this video, a woman initially posted interest on my profile. We chatted. And then when I brought up the question about a date, she deflected and made an excuse about her priorities. I simply posted back if she was ever interested to post me back. And I'll be honest from my end, I most likely wasn't going to be super interested in a long term relationship anyway. Another moment in which I met a woman at a supermarket simply approached me first and told me I was cute. I was flattered since I don't consider myself that. We exchanged numbers. We had a nice first date. However, the 2nd date was awkward. We set up a date hours in advance. Upon the time, I was left hanging. When I told her what happened? She simply responded and giggled that she decided to paint her room. Surprisingly, I wasn't all that steamed although that did indeed throw me off. A few days later, she told me she has this invisible bubble around her (we all have heard of this...lol). I simply listened and was sympathetic about her personal ordeals. A few months later she called me and asked me how I was doing? I simply responded that I'm on a date with another woman. She was silent for around 10-to-15 seconds. And then she told me that I was hoping I was having a good time. A few months later, the same woman who stiffed me on that second date tells me I'm the guy she's always envisioned and she wants to be with me. I simply told her that although I was extremely flattered, I was still with the same woman I had mentioned to her when we spoke a few months ago. To a degree, she may have been a bit hurt. But, I didn't create that situation. I simply respected her decisions at that time. It sort of seemed as if she wanted to almost ruin the positive relationship I had established with this incredible woman I'm still with to this day. It was awkward because in one aspect, I felt a bit guilty about her sort of unhappiness. But I couldn't deny my own affections I found with another woman I'm fond of to this day. In the end, there is a special someone for any of us if we simply allow ourselves to drop our own personal barriers. And stop listening to so-called social experts.
If i was you i would have told her that "ok i am never going to ask you out on a date again" the moment she said that she said she decided to paint her room and stood you up. Don't even give them a chance to give the invisible bubble excuse as she broke a promise for something non important such as painting a room the paint and the room would have been there when she got back
I'm so stupid, the girl I sit with at school is always doing these tests on me and I'm not really good at them, thank you for telling me what to do to pass
Well, I agree about having a high self esteem and not being bothered by small things. But jealousy induced by flirting with other guys to make one insecure ? I think that's a lil fcked up. Bcoz if a guy does d same then that wud be outright wrong in everyones view but same passes as a girl's way of testing ? I wud rather be with a girl who doesn't play such mind games but focusses on making a true meaningful relationship. ✌️
@@whatfffd Bro all girls will do this if you fuck up and sense weakness to see if you are beta and if they were wrong about you being a real man etc. Some who have low attraction will do this as a pre-qualification to weed you out if they have 8 other guys blowing up their phone from bumble, okc, etc. It sucks but is reality today. She will only not do this if she has high attraction and it won't always be the case. ALL WOMEN this applies
good advice . we were taught this by the men in the family over 50 years ago and we still pass it on to this day,. Women are very important and should be treated as equal but at the same time they do not dictate plans, movements, decisions, actions, thoughts , or beliefs , they stand beside us but are also subserviant at the same time . we will die protecting and taking care of them and serving them as a man should but they do not test us or rule us ever
What a modern way to start relationship by insulting each other :-) IMHO these advices are geared to online dating where narcissists dominate and these advices are mostly geared to these types, avoid both :D
It’s important to understand that most of the time women don’t do shit tests consciously. But their interpretation of your response is the same regardless.
Dont agree with the first point, if someone insults you and is threating you like trash, u are in all your rights to defend yourself and demand respect from others, dont give a shit if its a girl or boy u like, you deserve to be respect
Ever since I was a little kid I always thought that getting into a relationship was all about being loyal to one another, sharing the good and bad things in life and love each other. Now the more I grow up the more I realize that relationships especially for us men are a constant challenge. Like you have to constantly be above competition in all terms, weather that's wealth, good looks, intelligence, everything. We are tested and compared with others 24/7. The moment I realized that I completely stopped caring about any "serious relationships" as no such thing can exist when girls offer so SO little and yet always seek the perfect human being. Invest and Pay attention to yourselves my dudes. Girlfriends ain't worth your time.
These tests indicate her interest level. The more tests, the more she doesn't really like you. Never talk to just one woman if you can help it. They like a guy who has options anyways...
If a girl is testing you I call it playing games I walk away she isnt worth it because it tells me she is insecure and immature and this will continue throughout off and on in the relationship it is a total mind game.
Yea good point . Have a spine and say no to disrespect Edit: maybe is she sounds like she's saying a playful insult . you can joke around and do the same to her
Its good advise, you just have to read the situation. Some guys are good at it, and some are bad. If you dont approach these types of situations with a certain mindset, your true nature will shine, and depending on the type of person you are, it could either be good or bad. I've seen guys in college get politely turned down by a girl then start calling her out of her name....straight ego problems. On the other hand, I've seen a acquaintance of mine get told by a woman he was crazy (not in a good way) for his enjoyment of spelunking. He turned it around into a joke about fitting in deep tight places and made her laugh. 2 minutes later he asked her out. Last I heard he was still in them guts lol (pre-covid). Keep in mind, I know there is a fine line between blatant disrespect and criticism that can be turned around in your favor. Read the situation, be confident, witty, and think on your feet. You can have any girl you want.
Only low value women "test" men. If she tests you -- run! High value women observe you in normal situations, and will vet you, just a high value man will do. If you're low value or simply not her type, a high value woman wants you out of her life ASAP! Just like the high value man, she values her time and she does not want to waste it on someone who is not her type.
There’s a difference between flirting with another guy, boundaries, and respect. Yeah, I’m ok with flirting here and there. I do the same and don’t care. Is she touching and getting numbers??? What’s your level of what you won’t put up with??
I’m a girl and this is simply not true. Most girls don’t plan tests for you,... and... if they do, she’s conniving and you need to nope out. If you follow this advice , a non-conniving girl will conclude that you don’t show any care or concern for her and she will nope out and find someone who does. It’s true we aren’t looking for a pushover puppy dog, but we do want someone who shows care and concern.
You are right, these tests are 100% not planned in advance, they are done completely subconsciously. Every single woman will be testing a man this way, usually within the first week after they started flirting. I've yet to see a woman that was flirting with a man, and didn't test him in the way this video describes. But like you said, women themselves are not aware of this behavior.
Some girls do, some girls don't. Generally the more genuine nice girls don't play such games. They can tell by your demeanour, by your talk, how dynamic and strong you are.
Guys do all these things as well. They just have a different layouts, terms, and agendas, e.g. hese aren't tests for women this is a guy running game on women. Still the same thing. 1. Insulting you. Guys emotionally manipulate women and compare them to others, hitting at their self esteem for what they lack mainly guys poke at a woman's appearance. 2. Playing hard to get. Guys put women in a category of being too easy and desperate. Guys act self righteous and entitled as if its a privilege to be with them. Real men are alphas and enjoy the chase, it's what shows dominance and gives off male masculinity, if you don't chase you will be seen as lazy and boring and women will look elsewhere. 3. Going cold. Guys use the push pull method or just straight up ghost a woman especially when sex is out of the question or after they do get it and it's either not good or not enough. Don't let this video fool you if you don't chase like an alpha male the woman will NOT be back. 4. Jealousy. Guys look at other women or act differently with their friends girlfriends and even flirt in front of their girlfriend or wife with other women and blame it on the alcohol later. 5. Getting you to betray your own values. Guys go for the gaslighting method to swing things in their favor with women all the time. Confuse them to make them question their sanity, knowledge, beliefs, and values. Use their personal losts experiences against them that was told in confidence.
@@lionessbynature8007 There is nothing wrong with gaming a woman, like you said yourself, men enjoy the chase, and there is simply no chase without mastering the game first. No man is magically good at this, every single man needed to learn game from other men. It's like math, you can't be good at it without studying first. Being self righteous and entitled, gaslighting, infidelity etc. has nothing to do with game, these men were damaged and confused themselves. It sounds like lack of proper male leadership and role models in their life.
If any girl does the jealousy test to me I don't think the relationship will work. Because if my girlfriend is flirting with other men then It would make me think she isn't loyal.
The jealousy test isn't always her flirting with other dudes she could just start a conversation with somebody else. A girl did that test to me so I just caught up to my friend and talked to him instead and it worked.
One of the coolest channels ever Guys keep up the great the content is very useful and has helped in more ways than one, and I just think that's really solid especially when somebody else may have done this for a dollar or two
@@PeoplePleaser578 yes. But the fact that this video is teaching men how to 'pass' a woman's test? Why should men be tested but not vice versa? Double standard?
This is honestly true I've noticed this with most women. This is a typical mentality not of everyone but the majority. so here's your cheat sheet if you're looking for one I've known this for a while. But I don't want a typical woman I want a woman who knows my value and sees it without having test it. And honestly only one woman has ever had these games work on me. But ultimately it's a sign she doesn't respect you or value you that's why she has to gauge it. I just simply watch the more of these signs that she has the more that I know. For example some of these signs is natural instinct. But if you have a girl that you're interested in and she's displaying all of these signs. There is 100% chance and it hasn't feld so far that she is romantically involved with another man. that is a sign that you must leave no matter how attached you are to this person regardless. Cuz it will not be the last time. And it's a miracle if you are actually able to satisfy a woman like that without totally being miserable all the time. I have only been romantically involved with one girl who didn't display any of these signs. And honestly she's the only one of my ex's who hasn't cheated on me. If you find a woman like that she's something that's extremely valuable you won't find another one. That kind of girl wasn't playing a game or testing my value therefore she never had to lie and she could always be honest with me. But I have only been in a real relationship where we was actually dating with six different woman. But I think it's because each one of these signs naturally deters me. And I'll slowly start losing interest piece by piece tell there is no romantic value left. But I'm done watching because I think I've learned all I want to. Now that I know how to spot a good woman. I can actually start using these traits to sort through and put my time and effort and money my love and general emotional investment towards the right person. Without continuing to repeat this cycle and going in blind without knowing anyting.
F@&$ those test! If she’s always testing you then leave her be. That’s the best way to see them come back to you and that’s by ignoring her stupid tests. It’s always worked for me. Then I also test them to see if they’re really into you. If you have a hobby or interest in certain things, talk about them vividly to friends around her or better yet another girl/woman who has more knowledge than you know she does about the subject. She’ll instantly get jealous because she’ll feel the two of you have more in common even if the other woman is much less attractive than she is!
@@davidpeters8821 😉 Sigmas dont care for this. Whats amusing is that Alpha males think their in charge yet their quest is literally females. They control your actions! How is this in any way Alpha? Your the leader of the simps , lol pathetic.
I usually agree with 90% of ur vids. But when a female insults me I go in on them, I'll make fun of her 10x harder. And I'm definitely high value and and secure with who I am. Just how I was raised. Example... " Oh you can't lift as much as him, well if you had an ass like his girlfriend I could lift a car, so step it up" maybe that works for insecure guys I can't speak for them.
Had this happen even among platonic friends, which is a shame since it limits how close I can get to a female. Real friends don't deliberately try to hurt you to see how you respond. Even close platonic female friends can lose interest in that way... does it mean the platonic relationship was based around their attraction to me? I do not know.
Talking down to you seems to be a new one I've experienced. Now don't get it twisted , yes there are females who talk down to a man for her own ego's sake , but an average lady who's just interested in you will do it sarcastically 🤭
This is 100%. Wish I can show my text history. Also why are all the girls getting dating advice from memes which 90% of them say leave him bc you can do better.
Girls that do things like this I ended up ghosting, because I thought they were just conceded jerks, and that wasn't what I was looking in a marriage partner... 🤣🤣🤣
"It might seem like she is insulting you, but what she is actually doing is testing you" Uhm, no. What she is actually doing is insulting you, and her justification for it is irrelevant.
On the flip side, those "tests" can backfire. Some of us lose all respect and interest when we see signs of manipulation and games like this being played. It's a huge turn off. The man who is just as comfortable being alone as they are in a relationship neither has time for that crap, nor will they put up with it.
Women who use these tests get manipulated by players who know their game. To get a real high value man or woman, you have to be a high value man or woman yourself. Manipulative games aren't going to make up for your lack of value.
But this would cause you to not have any empathy which would make you unrelatable and unreliable especially for reproduction, to have standards is completely different than not giving a shit
Having been around the block a couple times, I can tell you that all this "act indifferent" response is basically a band-aid for a much deeper issue. If you REALLY know what is right and wrong, if you REALLY know your particular values and beliefs, you don't have to "act indifferent", you will BE indifferent. And that is because any woman testing you in this manner is being immature and disingenuous. Once I hit 30, I just noticed what seemed to be irrational behavior of this sort from women, and I just tuned it out and let them know that I was not playing their game. The key is, it was not because I actually WANTED them to accept me, but because I really didn't want to deal with shit in my life. That's where these kind of videos lose the plot. When he says, "act indifferent, she'll actually like you because of it". Yeah, maybe, but do YOU want a girl who plays games like these in YOUR life? Ask yourself that question.
Completely agree...my 2 sisters are watching this too...have been 53 years with their husbands between them...5 kids between them...have had lots of disagreements and arguments...but never tested them....must be a modern thing...guys if ur tested, walk away...life is too short
Absolutely. 100% manipulation. And while I get there is an evolutionary purpose to testing there very much is a line and it speaks to their character. Videos like this try to show how to pass all their tests but fail to show you that they are not the only ones that should be testing. And to much testing is definitely a red flag. If a woman needs constant reassurance that you are high value that is a clear indicator that she is disloyal and out for herself and will always have her options open no matter what you do. If you really do value yourself you would not put up with that. And this is where it falls off. What this is is a game and ultimately a way to fake something. And eventually if you are faking it will allways come out in your actions anyway. What they should be teaching is how to value ourselves so that these self beliefs are genuine and part of that is being selective on what you invest in. We are not here to be slaves to woman who over value themselves. Only desperate men would jump through all these hoops for a woman in the first place. If she wants a guy who does not value her opinion then she will get it. But it's a sign of a toxic relationship either way. These woman are playing silly games and they will win silly prizes. They just cause damage and should largely be avoided. A little testing is ok and natural but flirting with other men is disrespect and should never be tolerated period.
Mercedes has more value too and if you buy a old one it last`s too :) thinking am going todo it to, and if i want or need sex its more easy to buy a escort"Girl-Frend Pack deal" after having money hehe :D
Not exactly to dont care because easiest and most stupid way for boooth gendres is to stop care for thing. Reject before they reject you or being cold and playing tough guy/female from the beginning of meeting and not even started so its not so correct to dont give a damn.
not carring subconsiously works it means you are high value and any woman will want you she wants you even more but if u do it to pass the tests she can see it and leave you
@@bozhidarpetrov I believe he means the mentality you have to have...DGAF! It works. Many women have skipped over romantic guys because they take it as a sign of weakness or that she already has you ...it was too easy. Somewhat depends on circumstances but If you have a date with a girl that backs out ....ok no problem....go out with one of her friends or acquaintances that you may also be interested in and don't initiate any further communication with her.
@@jowoo45 it is less common to find a woman that likes the romance, but i feel like once you do find it you should stick to it . Im a guy who usually didnt give af for a couple years and now i got this one girl who is romantic gives attention and treats me good
Wow, what a fascinating yet logical perspective you have. I love it XD And who could or would argue with the mighty universe? Only a fool would do that. Just like my great grandpa always used to say: "There are many fishy octopussies in the dripping wet sea of kum island". lololol....
So true. also if a woman..oops wrong word "Small-minded little immature girl" is directing your pain to where you feel like you are being played with, then leave...Work on yourself, learn more new skills from what was already naturally Given to you, it could be, painting, Learning how to build things, or play an instrument, learn a new language. Learn how to spend more time with your self and you will uncover so many awesome things about yourself that you never knew was possible. Remember: You hold the key to your life so shine bright because Your Soul is Colourful and Your Story is Still being made every second. You do not have to impress a woman for her to like you but what you can do is share your new skills/knowledge and You will attract the right partner that was your Destiny the whole time. Where ever you are, when you are not looking for a life long female partner it will be as if she appeared out of thin air 🤝👌🙏❤💞💯
1. Insults you 2. Playing hard to get 3. Going cold 4. If you mow your lawn 5. Just kidding on number 4 Here’s the rest ....jealousy test....and getting you to betray what your values are! Gentlemen Good Luck out there!!
If you mow your lawn she says: "Not again this is so noisy." But if you wait: " Your lawn looks horrible, don't you have any pride." BOTH are shit tests BTW :D
1. "Same to you, thanks!" 2. Don't you ever double text or otherwise persue her. 3. Go cold on her back. 4. Ignore her attempts to make you jealous. 5. Stay true to your values. IN SUMMARY: Stay true to yourself, and ignore all her wimpy attempts to throw you off. Whatever she does, do not ever let her get away with disrespecting you or with making you do something against your values, beliefs, or whatever you consider important.
in other words, literally deprive all sense of emotion or any care in the relation ship, "as long as you give 0 f's. she will love you." WHAT LOGIC IS THAT!! SHOWING THAT YOU DO NOT CARE ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP MEANS EXACTLY THAT TO HER AND SHE WILL LEAVE THIS DUDE IS STUPID!
2 rules: 1) Don't ever get angry with a woman. When it's done, acknowledge it and just leave. If the test happens in the middle of a date, you end that date. Right then, right there. The person who values the relationship least is the one in control of it. If you show her you'll leave if things arent the way you want them, she's less likely to test you. This is the hardest lesson to learn as compromise is normally considered a reasonable alternative when two parties disagree. The problem with that here is if you show you'll bend when pushed, she loses respect and is going to keep pushing, if she sticks around. 2) When you recognize she's playing games, don't play. Almost universally the best answer to a woman's games is walking away, and remembering to not get angry. The one thing that woman will always be searching for is acknowledgement and attention, her games are designed to get her both. Give her neither, understand she is trying to control and manipulate you and do not allow it.
@@ItsCamaro3 when they go cold I'd lose interest. Going cold for a period of time is a red flag of cheating. If you give them less attention, and they do nothing to get it back (attention is currency with them), they are very likely cheating on you and like the reduced pressure on them. Just an opinion of course, but sadly it's supported by my past experience.
So to summerize the first 4 points, if she insulted you, ignored your messages, got cold on you and flirted with other men ... that doesnt mean she doesnt like you or she's not interested , she s actually testing you... can this get any more ridiculous ?
if she really didnt like you, she wouldnt waste time trying to assess your personality. girls have a lot of options, they have to weed some out so they can attract the highest quality mate they are able to
@@magicseventh9746 If she has to do these tests instead of having honest, open, adult conversations or some other healthy way to get to know you, maybe she is the one that needs to be weeded out from the guy's list of options.
This is crazy A girls doing this to me And its f*cking me up Lately I've been distracted because of these stupid tests... She acts like this and still have the guts to look at me with a smile all the time... Women are something else
Yeah but age matters, Idt a girl would look to settle with children when she's at the age of 20. I'd say typically >26 y.o. would be a mature woman age, unless you're looking at bad woman then we all know she's not in for something awesome, on the other hand, there are quality woman
Yes and no. Yes to the games no to not caring about these specific things. I know I care about a man I'm interested in sticking to their morals and values.
As for your girl flirting with other guys while you're around it is also a warning sign but she may not be very good for you and want attention of other men. I've experienced this. Don't tie your life and your money up with one of these.
To me it indicates that she's incapable of asserting her preferences in front of me, if you have a strong mind and personality, you don't try to play tricks like that on people, you know what you want and if you wanna be poly, you just say so, you see the other person opening up to you, you do the same, you talk about your needs and wants and how you see the world and assume your mentalities and actions, if you need to half ass schemes like this to test someone, it indicates that you have emotional problems, you may perhaps be narcissistic and, thus, egoistic as well, if you are strong, you don't see all of this and ignore it, you call her out for it, confront her with the facts, let her make the choice on the question of, do you want to know thyself? do you want to learn, to grow and to improve, and thus be a better version of yourself? and if she rejects all of that and prefers to play dumb tricks, you let her go, there's that special someone for you, waiting for you at the end of the tunnel so to speak, don't make compromises, assert your dominance in intellect by being true to yourself and to your values, and by expressing what you feel in a ballanced, healthy and confident way, don't act like a cold douchebag, as for the video, I can say that it works, but for getting it on with nasty girls who will not provide much if anything to your growth and life so, do as I told you, and try to be the best version of yourself.
Funny most women whom “test” men with these games would fail them. If a woman does these things to you, they will always create tension in your life. Find someone whom respects you & wants to build your lives up.
I don't test people (its unnecesary), but instead evaluate their behaviour and their actions on the real life as it shows their real value. A person who treats others badly as a test (witch means they are manipulative and don't care for your feelings), are not worth anyones time. There is no excuse for this lack of respect, as it is a red flag. You treat me badly as a way of testing me, you ❌don't pass for me. Playing with people lives is not a joke to me.
I don’t maybe it’s my age but honestly at 34 I don’t have time for these games. If you like someone you like them and if they play hot and cold then it’s next. I think if I found out that a woman was doing this stuff on purpose to test me I would be so turned off like how old are you 12? Honestly these tests don’t sound like someone healthy is carrying them out. If you find a woman is doing a jealousy test then that’s a test for you right there that she’s got issues and you need a more stable person never mind how big her yams are
You are right,it's better to be straight forward with each other right off the bat straight from the get-go than try to send each other these mixed signals like some sort of alians
These “tests” should be viewed as positive because they’re giving them to establish if you have attractive qualities like confidence, desirability and humour etc. We just see the big yams as you say and we’re attracted but women need a little more before they invest.
@@johnnyblaze9158 I get where you coming from but these tests should be rare not constant,cuz u know not everyone excels at everything,no one is perfect and before trying to find faults in men,women should evaluate themselves to see if they're perfect and are deficit in flaws
If she starts doing any of these, I show her the door and never welcome her back. Life is too short to waste my time on these types of miserable human beings. I have a family to love and protect, including my friends. I have work to do, resources to gather. I don't have time for energy and time wasting female "tests".
Guys lemme tell u one thing if a woman test u or speak logical that means she not into u and she has no attraction.Bcoz attraction has no test of confidence,if she's into u she will never test your confidence level.Looks matter my brother's. (I'm experienced).
The sad reality is that most men don’t expect much from a woman, and females know this. Look OK, be halfway nice, show that you care about us a little bit, don’t act like you belong in a straight jacket, etc. Really simple stuff
@@rezag8369 Let me know when you find this mysterious woman? Eventually they will pull one. I bet you money past girls pulled them on you and you never even know it. Women pull this shit subtlety. Have you had a girl who was all over you then set the date and she blows you off or seems uninterested? You failed a test she pulled out of the hat and decided you're beta and out
A girl that I've been talking to pulled away for about 5 years now and even got a boyfriend. This is one hell of a test
😭😭😭I feel you
Stay💪🏽💪🏽 my Brother you're wearing her down give it a couple more years she'll be back
LoL
@@arthursutton2492 the WALL always wins !
Looool
If she flirts with other guys in front of you then she is disrespecting you, that´s more than a red flag, if she does that she is not testing you she just belongs to the streets.
That's a major red flag. If a girl you're serious about doesn't even respect you and has the audacity to flirt with other men in front of you, just make her your side bitch/booty call and find yourself a real woman.
💯
Amen
@@Aeniva s girl was trying to do that test on me cut her off real fadt
Fax
If a female ever tried me in front of a bunch of people we would no longer be a couple. This is more about respect.
Exactly!
It's about faith. If you have faith in your value against others, you'd really know that whatever happens she cannot leave you. When this happens, you become more carefree and not try to restrict your girl. It's like how a caged pigeon suddenly becomes more loving and faithful when you let it go on its own.
@@MarswaggerOG you’re childishly naive
@@Aden_III what about your rebuttal? Can't just label the guy without sharing your own opinion bruh
@@archwaldo Ah, an intellectual. 👀
I can handle almost all of these just fine. The jealousy "test" will piss me right off, though. Not because I'm jealous, but because it's disrespectful in the extreme and I won't tolerate it. I've broken off relationships in the middle of dinners, parties, etc because I got fed up with being disrespected to my face. Never got verbally or visibly aggravated though, just told them that since she's so interested in the other guy that she can't even wait until I'm not around, I'll give them some space, and her things that I have at my place will be ready to be picked up the next day at noon.
Did they really go for other guy what was outcome
@@beasthaven1571 A couple girls I've 'dated' have flirted with other men in front of me and I left them for it, but only one of them ended up with the guy afterward. They're now married and have a kid, so I'm happy for them. The rest I guess just wanted attention and it didn't matter who they got it from.
@@forkme3165 Why would you be happy for them? What does it benefit you?
@@user-zr6pl6nb6z I'm not actually 'happy', it's just a term. I'm indifferent because it doesn't affect me at all. It was irritating in the beginning, but after years passed there's no reason to care at all, so in the spirit of being 'neighborly' I'm happy for them, in so far as being cordial is concerned. Kinda like telling someone their kid is so cute when they show you a picture. I don't give a single shit about the kid or how they look, but it's common courtesy.
@@forkme3165 I see. I'm the kind of guy who probably wouldn't even think of her anymore. I've had more than my share of manipulative women and they only get the chance to annoy me once.
See this actually happened to me. My girlfriend insulted me, and I did get upset because I thought she shouldn't be trying to hurt me if we are together. I always tried to make her feel good about herself so I expected the same in return...but...that caused me to fail this test and that was the end of the relationship. It was odd because honestly in retrospect I should have been the one to walk away from it, however she got there first. Growing up I didn't realize that women these days actually aren't on the level of maturity as women who came before them. Since the relationship failed I have had the opportunity to meet and be with even more beautiful women then her and to meet and be with women who treated me better as well. Oh well. What do we call? blessing in disguise? I dunno
You did the right thing. Don't let them insult you, know your worth. Acting indifferent isn't always the answer.
they've been this way
My ex insulted me and I insulted her back by telling her she wasn’t as tight as my previous girl. Maybe too far 😂
Arthur Schopenhauer was right, women will always be children at heart. Those childish tests/mind games are exhausting and that's exactly why i stopped dating. I almost feel manipulated and i genuinely hate it. I don't want to drain myself by analysing everything, i have better things to do.
If she does these things, then guys, she isn't worth your time. She's gonna drain more energy out of you than anyone else. It's an indication that you should probably reconsider the relationship with her and if needed, go to better things and people in life.
Honest and clear communication and intentions are basis of a good and healthy relationship. Anybody, whether boy or girl, starts getting manipulative or starts playing dirty games like these is gonna cause major problems for you and your career. Just don't give anyone so much control to decide for you!
damn homie FACTS
Exactly right . I was going out with one like that . It turned fucking nightmare 💀
Well said my man. Search for girls who have clear intentions and pure at heart, those are worth it, anything else can go fuck herself. Girls who play games like these are the pettiest people ever
some of these tests are red flags, run the fuck away!
@@skdfdjkdfjkd absolutely true
Insults are a red flag. People do not insult people if they are interested. This is the behavior of an insecure person who would most likely be either abusive or co-dependant in the relationship
*"She went from being warm and kind to acting like I ate her last chicken wing"*
That could very well not have been a 'test' but rather she forgot to take her psychotropic meds again. Seriously.
I would definitely take the last chicken wing, but if there was a drumstick, I would take that instead. I like a woman who likes to watch me eat and offers me more when I've finished.
True about the RX- most are on some prescription that alters the mind/ mental processes.
Psychotropic doesn't mean what you think it means. Weed is psychotropic. Shrooms and acid are psychotropic. E is psychotropic.
Lmao 🤣
@@AlexGreeneHypnotist You're thinking of psychedelic.
insults are a cruel way to test us. I'm 48yrs old so I can pick that up pretty quickly. I simply stay in my frame as an older mature dude....but it doesn't mean I have time for it. I just gracefully smile, finish the date , be a gentleman and walk away afterwards....with grace and class boys. Never kick and scream.
Does it work and teach em a lesson any other social nuggets you have to share?
I have a test. The test is to not give me a test because life isn't a game. You just failed my test.
Life is indeed a game, fellow stranger.
Try to enjoy it!
You failed your own test just the same.
@@Nubbletech
lol
@@Nubbletech Life isn't about how many times you fall. Life is about how many times you get back up again.
@@hide_and_go_sikh Guess I'm just bad at life then. But will you ever get up from failing your own test.🤔 I would just give up if I were you.
"Five ways toxic women manipulate and abuse you."
If you try to even win someone who plays this kinds of games, you are a fool, and asking for disaster.
As a woman, I don’t know about others but I’m not out to “test” people and be sly. Literally all I (and probably many other women) want is someone to put as much effort into a relationship as I do and to be honest and straightforward with their feelings rather than beat around the bush.
Thats truee, but! Dont u use those tests in the begining?
Its appauling but most women, (from my own and friends and facebook group of men talking about intimacy and relatioms) do use those..
@@avivolah9401 no, at no point to I (nor probably most other women) do any sort of tests like that. Not unless they’re manipulative and toxic but normal women don’t pull those kinds of stunts because we wouldn’t want someone to do that to us. Simple golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated.
Never heard of women consciously testing men. To me it seems just disrespectful. Also pretending like you don't care rather than being honest like it is suggested in the video is the worst advice for a relationship in the long term.
F to doubt
@@johnarcher6150 I’m not saying nobody does it, there’s 7 billion people of course there’s gonna be people that do it, but I’m just saying, NORMAL people don’t do stuff like that. Only a woman who’s toxic and manipulative would actually do that
"I don't care" is the magical answer to everything 😂
True.
But sometimes its hard not to care,if this girl is what you've been looking for...
Then she does these tests
@Billy B When she says that you can say, I didn't ask for your opinion.
DNC
Tbh I'd leave her the second she does any of this
Then she'll be like "where have all the good men gone?"
@@JESUS_Is_KING573 indeed😅😂😂
Any self-respecting guy would. Honestly, quality women don't pull this shit.
@@rezag8369 You brought up the key term: "women". Womenchildren on the other hand love these and stick with equally inmature Menchildren. Finally, men aim higher than silly mindgames and walk away from people who only have that to offer.
@@JESUS_Is_KING573 lmao
I never let a woman disresepect me. when a woman disrespects you, it's not a test to see how confident you are. it's her way to test your boundaries and to find out how much sh*t you're willing to tolerate from her just to keep her around. If a guy just lets her insults slide, it's not a sign of him having healthy self-esteem, it's a sign of him being a pushover. if she can say something insulting to the guy and still get away with it, she won't see him as confident. she'll see him as desparate, somebody who's probably got no options so he puts her on a pedestal. never ever let anyone walk all over you. if you don't nip that behaviour in the bud, you'll never have a satisfying relationship with that person.
These “tests” are insanely unattractive.
If she can’t do these tests in a respectful manner, she doesn’t deserve your respect either. Doing things in sneaky fashion already puts a sense of distrust, since she doesn’t want to be upfront. Ontop of that, acting indifferent and letting them disrespect you is a sure fire way that if you end up with them, they will most likely use it against you again.
Shouldn’t have to take disrespect to “be in love”. And these sound like all the beginning traits of an lopsided and potentially controlling or mentally abusive relationship.
the jealousy test is the woman's best excuse to cheat, either you react or not.
That's all tests are. Disqualifiers to back up excuses to back up immoral actions.
@@makegainz4218 very well said, very well said. The test are ways for them to mentally convince themselves they are justify. Eventually you fail at something we all do.
Long story short, no words once she insults you and play the card game act sad on the outside and she well feel bad and that's when she'll make it up in the bedroom. I used this several times. Don't get mad but make it seem she was wrong by NOT telling her and mentally she will give in and give you some you know what.
I failed some girl test, she was honest and told me that I lack confidence and so on, and that we should stay friends...
I just walk away no matter how beautiful she is I will not be a test sample
Same
Thats why u wont get laid...😅
@@bela5054 Women like you are the reason men don’t want to get laid lol
@@bela5054 that's a good thing. Unless a man is low value, no man wants an unfulfilling casual sex night. They seek out relationships. I don't know if you realise this but real life is not a nightclub
We're truly very lucky to have guys like him making such content on UA-cam...
This comment is for Michael Mirin… Yeah brother that would be one hell of a test if it were one, but it’s not… It’s called “she passed on you, probably Friendzoned You if she still speaks to you, either way she shouldn’t still be an option in the same way”Further, Wise people would say once a girl has messed up her first Chance, sometimes it considered a really bad precedent Welcoming her back with open arms.
I'll save you some time.
1. Insults
2. Hard To Get
3. Going Cold
4. The Jealousy Test
5. Getting you to betray your own value.
We all had awkward ways on social interactions. Similar, to this video, a woman initially posted interest on my profile. We chatted. And then when I brought up the question about a date, she deflected and made an excuse about her priorities. I simply posted back if she was ever interested to post me back. And I'll be honest from my end, I most likely wasn't going to be super interested in a long term relationship anyway.
Another moment in which I met a woman at a supermarket simply approached me first and told me I was cute. I was flattered since I don't consider myself that. We exchanged numbers. We had a nice first date. However, the 2nd date was awkward. We set up a date hours in advance. Upon the time, I was left hanging. When I told her what happened? She simply responded and giggled that she decided to paint her room. Surprisingly, I wasn't all that steamed although that did indeed throw me off. A few days later, she told me she has this invisible bubble around her (we all have heard of this...lol). I simply listened and was sympathetic about her personal ordeals. A few months later she called me and asked me how I was doing? I simply responded that I'm on a date with another woman. She was silent for around 10-to-15 seconds. And then she told me that I was hoping I was having a good time. A few months later, the same woman who stiffed me on that second date tells me I'm the guy she's always envisioned and she wants to be with me. I simply told her that although I was extremely flattered, I was still with the same woman I had mentioned to her when we spoke a few months ago.
To a degree, she may have been a bit hurt. But, I didn't create that situation. I simply respected her decisions at that time. It sort of seemed as if she wanted to almost ruin the positive relationship I had established with this incredible woman I'm still with to this day. It was awkward because in one aspect, I felt a bit guilty about her sort of unhappiness. But I couldn't deny my own affections I found with another woman I'm fond of to this day. In the end, there is a special someone for any of us if we simply allow ourselves to drop our own personal barriers. And stop listening to so-called social experts.
If i was you i would have told her that "ok i am never going to ask you out on a date again" the moment she said that she said she decided to paint her room and stood you up. Don't even give them a chance to give the invisible bubble excuse as she broke a promise for something non important such as painting a room the paint and the room would have been there when she got back
I'm so stupid, the girl I sit with at school is always doing these tests on me and I'm not really good at them, thank you for telling me what to do to pass
Well, I agree about having a high self esteem and not being bothered by small things. But jealousy induced by flirting with other guys to make one insecure ? I think that's a lil fcked up.
Bcoz if a guy does d same then that wud be outright wrong in everyones view but same passes as a girl's way of testing ?
I wud rather be with a girl who doesn't play such mind games but focusses on making a true meaningful relationship. ✌️
AMEN
Absolutely right. Girls who do this regularly tend to be low value , so move along.
You’re applying your rational thinking to a women so you might be wrong. Ya never truly know
@@whatfffd Bro all girls will do this if you fuck up and sense weakness to see if you are beta and if they were wrong about you being a real man etc. Some who have low attraction will do this as a pre-qualification to weed you out if they have 8 other guys blowing up their phone from bumble, okc, etc. It sucks but is reality today. She will only not do this if she has high attraction and it won't always be the case. ALL WOMEN this applies
good advice . we were taught this by the men in the family over 50 years ago and we still pass it on to this day,. Women are very important and should be treated as equal but at the same time they do not dictate plans, movements, decisions, actions, thoughts , or beliefs , they stand beside us but are also subserviant at the same time . we will die protecting and taking care of them and serving them as a man should but they do not test us or rule us ever
What a modern way to start relationship by insulting each other :-) IMHO these advices are geared to online dating where narcissists dominate and these advices are mostly geared to these types, avoid both :D
This is less about girls and more about bettering yourself
Life is already complex as it is and I dont want tests to see me worthy and i dont want to ruin my masculinity as well.
It’s important to understand that most of the time women don’t do shit tests consciously. But their interpretation of your response is the same regardless.
Guys if y’all want ah little girl than follow these steps but if u want a real women then she won’t play little games like this
Dont agree with the first point, if someone insults you and is threating you like trash, u are in all your rights to defend yourself and demand respect from others, dont give a shit if its a girl or boy u like, you deserve to be respect
The flirting "test" is a fast way to get ghosted.
Ever since I was a little kid I always thought that getting into a relationship was all about being loyal to one another, sharing the good and bad things in life and love each other. Now the more I grow up the more I realize that relationships especially for us men are a constant challenge. Like you have to constantly be above competition in all terms, weather that's wealth, good looks, intelligence, everything. We are tested and compared with others 24/7. The moment I realized that I completely stopped caring about any "serious relationships" as no such thing can exist when girls offer so SO little and yet always seek the perfect human being.
Invest and Pay attention to yourselves my dudes. Girlfriends ain't worth your time.
Dude get better... it's simple, Know the rules and u will have the relationship Uve always dreamed of,
@@bela5054 "Know the rules"?. That line in itself sounded so cringy, my dude. Bela, more like, Beta. Am I right?
@@correctthatfilthygrammar nah
@@correctthatfilthygrammar what exactly is wrong with knowing what it's about?
@@correctthatfilthygrammar might just be an answer to your question
If a woman insults you, do not tolerate it, simply point it out one time. If she continues… leave.
These tests indicate her interest level. The more tests, the more she doesn't really like you. Never talk to just one woman if you can help it. They like a guy who has options anyways...
If a girl is testing you I call it playing games I walk away she isnt worth it because it tells me she is insecure and immature and this will continue throughout off and on in the relationship it is a total mind game.
Not the best advice. Sounds like beta training. You cannot always allow people to insult you.
Seriously bad theory
Yea good point . Have a spine and say no to disrespect
Edit: maybe is she sounds like she's saying a playful insult . you can joke around and do the same to her
Y’all missed the point lol 😂..
Its good advise, you just have to read the situation. Some guys are good at it, and some are bad. If you dont approach these types of situations with a certain mindset, your true nature will shine, and depending on the type of person you are, it could either be good or bad.
I've seen guys in college get politely turned down by a girl then start calling her out of her name....straight ego problems.
On the other hand, I've seen a acquaintance of mine get told by a woman he was crazy (not in a good way) for his enjoyment of spelunking. He turned it around into a joke about fitting in deep tight places and made her laugh. 2 minutes later he asked her out. Last I heard he was still in them guts lol (pre-covid).
Keep in mind, I know there is a fine line between blatant disrespect and criticism that can be turned around in your favor.
Read the situation, be confident, witty, and think on your feet. You can have any girl you want.
@@anothergalaxy1418 if you try that then she’ll pull the “y can’t you take a joke” card and then you arguing about will only make you fail the test
Only low value women "test" men. If she tests you -- run! High value women observe you in normal situations, and will vet you, just a high value man will do. If you're low value or simply not her type, a high value woman wants you out of her life ASAP! Just like the high value man, she values her time and she does not want to waste it on someone who is not her type.
If a girl think she can test you....she failed. Speaks volumes about her personality. Free game. Don't need 10 minutes.
There’s a difference between flirting with another guy, boundaries, and respect. Yeah, I’m ok with flirting here and there. I do the same and don’t care. Is she touching and getting numbers???
What’s your level of what you won’t put up with??
I’m a girl and this is simply not true. Most girls don’t plan tests for you,... and... if they do, she’s conniving and you need to nope out. If you follow this advice , a non-conniving girl will conclude that you don’t show any care or concern for her and she will nope out and find someone who does. It’s true we aren’t looking for a pushover puppy dog, but we do want someone who shows care and concern.
You are right, these tests are 100% not planned in advance, they are done completely subconsciously. Every single woman will be testing a man this way, usually within the first week after they started flirting. I've yet to see a woman that was flirting with a man, and didn't test him in the way this video describes. But like you said, women themselves are not aware of this behavior.
@@independentthought3390 Nah, girls who liked me never did any of these things.
Some girls do, some girls don't. Generally the more genuine nice girls don't play such games. They can tell by your demeanour, by your talk, how dynamic and strong you are.
Guys do all these things as well. They just have a different layouts, terms, and agendas, e.g. hese aren't tests for women this is a guy running game on women. Still the same thing. 1. Insulting you. Guys emotionally manipulate women and compare them to others, hitting at their self esteem for what they lack mainly guys poke at a woman's appearance. 2. Playing hard to get. Guys put women in a category of being too easy and desperate. Guys act self righteous and entitled as if its a privilege to be with them. Real men are alphas and enjoy the chase, it's what shows dominance and gives off male masculinity, if you don't chase you will be seen as lazy and boring and women will look elsewhere. 3. Going cold. Guys use the push pull method or just straight up ghost a woman especially when sex is out of the question or after they do get it and it's either not good or not enough. Don't let this video fool you if you don't chase like an alpha male the woman will NOT be back. 4. Jealousy. Guys look at other women or act differently with their friends girlfriends and even flirt in front of their girlfriend or wife with other women and blame it on the alcohol later. 5. Getting you to betray your own values. Guys go for the gaslighting method to swing things in their favor with women all the time. Confuse them to make them question their sanity, knowledge, beliefs, and values. Use their personal losts experiences against them that was told in confidence.
@@lionessbynature8007 There is nothing wrong with gaming a woman, like you said yourself, men enjoy the chase, and there is simply no chase without mastering the game first. No man is magically good at this, every single man needed to learn game from other men. It's like math, you can't be good at it without studying first. Being self righteous and entitled, gaslighting, infidelity etc. has nothing to do with game, these men were damaged and confused themselves. It sounds like lack of proper male leadership and role models in their life.
If any girl does the jealousy test to me I don't think the relationship will work. Because if my girlfriend is flirting with other men then It would make me think she isn't loyal.
So like my brain gotta be working around 4.5 THz, 6 TB/s, huh? 😂😂😂😂
True men never simp.
If you give her faithfulness but she doesn't, leave her.
Works on the way around too.
The jealousy test isn't always her flirting with other dudes she could just start a conversation with somebody else. A girl did that test to me so I just caught up to my friend and talked to him instead and it worked.
"Girls are like boomerangs," awesome
Thanks for the video. I just wanted to say how bad I failed all the tests with my wife of 17years. Needless to say we are getting divorced now.
Listen to your inner vibes. Confident men don't get tricked by women or men.
At this point I take insults by just sighing and just ignoring it or laughing along
*But don't take my indifference as weakness*
-Master oogway
One of the coolest channels ever Guys keep up the great the content is very useful and has helped in more ways than one, and I just think that's really solid especially when somebody else may have done this for a dollar or two
Yes
Somethings you say are true put women don't really test you, it's more simple than that, they like you or they don't period.
A couple of girls disliked your video bro💀
Sigma Rule: Never allow yourself to be tested by a woman, you are the prize, not her
Or you realise nobody is a prize and that going into your relationship thinking you are better than your partner is an unhealthy relationship dynamic.
@@PeoplePleaser578 yes. But the fact that this video is teaching men how to 'pass' a woman's test? Why should men be tested but not vice versa? Double standard?
This is honestly true I've noticed this with most women. This is a typical mentality not of everyone but the majority. so here's your cheat sheet if you're looking for one I've known this for a while. But I don't want a typical woman I want a woman who knows my value and sees it without having test it. And honestly only one woman has ever had these games work on me. But ultimately it's a sign she doesn't respect you or value you that's why she has to gauge it. I just simply watch the more of these signs that she has the more that I know. For example some of these signs is natural instinct. But if you have a girl that you're interested in and she's displaying all of these signs. There is 100% chance and it hasn't feld so far that she is romantically involved with another man. that is a sign that you must leave no matter how attached you are to this person regardless. Cuz it will not be the last time. And it's a miracle if you are actually able to satisfy a woman like that without totally being miserable all the time. I have only been romantically involved with one girl who didn't display any of these signs. And honestly she's the only one of my ex's who hasn't cheated on me. If you find a woman like that she's something that's extremely valuable you won't find another one. That kind of girl wasn't playing a game or testing my value therefore she never had to lie and she could always be honest with me. But I have only been in a real relationship where we was actually dating with six different woman. But I think it's because each one of these signs naturally deters me. And I'll slowly start losing interest piece by piece tell there is no romantic value left. But I'm done watching because I think I've learned all I want to. Now that I know how to spot a good woman. I can actually start using these traits to sort through and put my time and effort and money my love and general emotional investment towards the right person. Without continuing to repeat this cycle and going in blind without knowing anyting.
F@&$ those test! If she’s always testing you then leave her be. That’s the best way to see them come back to you and that’s by ignoring her stupid tests. It’s always worked for me. Then I also test them to see if they’re really into you. If you have a hobby or interest in certain things, talk about them vividly to friends around her or better yet another girl/woman who has more knowledge than you know she does about the subject. She’ll instantly get jealous because she’ll feel the two of you have more in common even if the other woman is much less attractive than she is!
Beta males: how do I pass women's tests?
Alpha males: how do I test women?
Sigmas: WTF is a girl?
@@davidpeters8821 😉 Sigmas dont care for this.
Whats amusing is that Alpha males think their in charge yet their quest is literally females. They control your actions!
How is this in any way Alpha? Your the leader of the simps , lol pathetic.
@@whatfffd I wouldn't say it is their goal, but they do pay attention to getting women... Idgaf, yet they're always around me
I usually agree with 90% of ur vids. But when a female insults me I go in on them, I'll make fun of her 10x harder. And I'm definitely high value and and secure with who I am. Just how I was raised. Example... " Oh you can't lift as much as him, well if you had an ass like his girlfriend I could lift a car, so step it up" maybe that works for insecure guys I can't speak for them.
Had this happen even among platonic friends, which is a shame since it limits how close I can get to a female. Real friends don't deliberately try to hurt you to see how you respond. Even close platonic female friends can lose interest in that way... does it mean the platonic relationship was based around their attraction to me? I do not know.
Counter test by keeping cool & not be bothered. Lots of fish in the ocean. Let"s wait & see what she'll be up to next ...
Talking down to you seems to be a new one I've experienced. Now don't get it twisted , yes there are females who talk down to a man for her own ego's sake , but an average lady who's just interested in you will do it sarcastically 🤭
so if she's insulting you, "playing hard to get", or going cold on you, it's not that she's interested - it's that she's testing you!
what a joke lol.
This is 100%. Wish I can show my text history. Also why are all the girls getting dating advice from memes which 90% of them say leave him bc you can do better.
Ok, try to do her the jealousy test and try to explain her she should show indifference
basically , the girl from 10 reasons why i hate you's reaction to heath ledger
Women OVER STEP BOUNDARIES on purpose to see how you respond if you don't enforce she will break them more.
Girls that do things like this I ended up ghosting, because I thought they were just conceded jerks, and that wasn't what I was looking in a marriage partner... 🤣🤣🤣
Doesn't This Mean Women Play MindGames? After all the tests are they even worth it?
What does actually sounds like is that you were a victim of domestic abuse
it goes to show how much girls will complicate a nice laidback man’s life
Just be oblivious.
Brother, I wish I'd listened to this months ago.
"It might seem like she is insulting you, but what she is actually doing is testing you"
Uhm, no. What she is actually doing is insulting you, and her justification for it is irrelevant.
Precisely!
Damn straight!
Sensitive much?
For real i was like this guy is stupid af
@@miniaturejayhawk8702 simp alert
On the flip side, those "tests" can backfire. Some of us lose all respect and interest when we see signs of manipulation and games like this being played. It's a huge turn off. The man who is just as comfortable being alone as they are in a relationship neither has time for that crap, nor will they put up with it.
Well said
BIG FACTS
Women who use these tests get manipulated by players who know their game. To get a real high value man or woman, you have to be a high value man or woman yourself. Manipulative games aren't going to make up for your lack of value.
except they use it as a filter, they might regret later but in the end they're going to forget about the whole thing
Well said wes brother, bilkul sahi kaha apne bhai, greetings from india 🇮🇳
The only way to pass all the test without even trying is to not give a shit.
If she insults me I am gone. Only a guy with low self esteem will accept a insult. This video is very off, most of your videos are good.
But this would cause you to not have any empathy which would make you unrelatable and unreliable especially for reproduction, to have standards is completely different than not giving a shit
Lol I don't give a fuck and still seem to fail...
@@Isaac-kk8yz yes it is good to have empathy, but that doesn't mean you tolerate disrespect and insults.
my man
Having been around the block a couple times, I can tell you that all this "act indifferent" response is basically a band-aid for a much deeper issue. If you REALLY know what is right and wrong, if you REALLY know your particular values and beliefs, you don't have to "act indifferent", you will BE indifferent. And that is because any woman testing you in this manner is being immature and disingenuous. Once I hit 30, I just noticed what seemed to be irrational behavior of this sort from women, and I just tuned it out and let them know that I was not playing their game. The key is, it was not because I actually WANTED them to accept me, but because I really didn't want to deal with shit in my life. That's where these kind of videos lose the plot. When he says, "act indifferent, she'll actually like you because of it". Yeah, maybe, but do YOU want a girl who plays games like these in YOUR life? Ask yourself that question.
Completely agree...my 2 sisters are watching this too...have been 53 years with their husbands between them...5 kids between them...have had lots of disagreements and arguments...but never tested them....must be a modern thing...guys if ur tested, walk away...life is too short
We’ll said !
Real shit
So they what should you doo????
Absolutely. 100% manipulation. And while I get there is an evolutionary purpose to testing there very much is a line and it speaks to their character. Videos like this try to show how to pass all their tests but fail to show you that they are not the only ones that should be testing. And to much testing is definitely a red flag. If a woman needs constant reassurance that you are high value that is a clear indicator that she is disloyal and out for herself and will always have her options open no matter what you do. If you really do value yourself you would not put up with that. And this is where it falls off. What this is is a game and ultimately a way to fake something. And eventually if you are faking it will allways come out in your actions anyway. What they should be teaching is how to value ourselves so that these self beliefs are genuine and part of that is being selective on what you invest in. We are not here to be slaves to woman who over value themselves. Only desperate men would jump through all these hoops for a woman in the first place. If she wants a guy who does not value her opinion then she will get it. But it's a sign of a toxic relationship either way. These woman are playing silly games and they will win silly prizes. They just cause damage and should largely be avoided. A little testing is ok and natural but flirting with other men is disrespect and should never be tolerated period.
Now it seems like getting a Mercedes is easier than getting a girlfriend.
Don't strive for a Girlfriend. Just work on ur game.
That's the whole point. Working on yourself is much easier. When you do that, it'll be much easier to "get a girlfriend."
It is.
Mercedes has more value too and if you buy a old one it last`s too :) thinking am going todo it to, and if i want or need sex its more easy to buy a escort"Girl-Frend Pack deal" after having money hehe :D
You get neither🤡
“ A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her” - Oscar Wilde
Man this quote is gold, I gave my heart once, I was surprised at how many values i betrayed. It's sad but love doesn't belong in the real world
Was Oscar Wilde gay thought?
Great quote 👌
Lol yeah he was gay
@Ralph Furley This isn't entirely true, if it were, it would've applied to lesbians.
Long story short, don’t give af and you’ll succeed
This is facts.
Not exactly to dont care because easiest and most stupid way for boooth gendres is to stop care for thing. Reject before they reject you or being cold and playing tough guy/female from the beginning of meeting and not even started so its not so correct to dont give a damn.
not carring subconsiously works it means you are high value and any woman will want you she wants you even more but if u do it to pass the tests she can see it and leave you
@@bozhidarpetrov I believe he means the mentality you have to have...DGAF! It works. Many women have skipped over romantic guys because they take it as a sign of weakness or that she already has you ...it was too easy. Somewhat depends on circumstances but If you have a date with a girl that backs out ....ok no problem....go out with one of her friends or acquaintances that you may also be interested in and don't initiate any further communication with her.
@@jowoo45 it is less common to find a woman that likes the romance, but i feel like once you do find it you should stick to it . Im a guy who usually didnt give af for a couple years and now i got this one girl who is romantic gives attention and treats me good
You're not losing her, the universe is moving her out of your way!
Best comment ever 😂😂😂😂😂🔥
Wow, what a fascinating yet logical perspective you have. I love it XD
And who could or would argue with the mighty universe? Only a fool would do that.
Just like my great grandpa always used to say: "There are many fishy octopussies in the dripping wet sea of kum island". lololol....
@@creamygoodness3828 damn, did he really used to say that
If you have this mindset you will not succeed
So true. also if a woman..oops wrong word "Small-minded little immature girl" is directing your pain to where you feel like you are being played with, then leave...Work on yourself, learn more new skills from what was already naturally Given to you, it could be, painting, Learning how to build things, or play an instrument, learn a new language. Learn how to spend more time with your self and you will uncover so many awesome things about yourself that you never knew was possible. Remember: You hold the key to your life so shine bright because Your Soul is Colourful and Your Story is Still being made every second. You do not have to impress a woman for her to like you but what you can do is share your new skills/knowledge and You will attract the right partner that was your Destiny the whole time. Where ever you are, when you are not looking for a life long female partner it will be as if she appeared out of thin air 🤝👌🙏❤💞💯
Girl: *tests you
You: *indifferent
Girl: you passed
You: sorry I'm not interested in you
Girl: ...
Then The girl Chase you and you don't him
Imagine at the part when she flirt with your friend and you step right in: “Bro that’s my bf”
*levitate*
@@Diego20081 golden
you: you belong to the streets
“How dare you use my own spells against me”
Ignore them.
Avoid them.
Evade them.
You have more important things in life than this petty misery.
@Multorum Unum Shaming tactics? Really? Learn a new trick.
@Multorum Unum you didn't offend you just showed simpness
Sounds like he's bitter you hit the nail on the head but it's just better to not say anything if you care about other people's feelings
@@commentainment6811 immature
Also: Never eat the chipotle!
I wonder how many girls could pass these tests themselves.
One in 20.
None of them.
@@malakbrood667 +1
Nun
none
I've had a girl do the jealousy test on me and I did it back to her simultaneously, then she gave me a disgusted look and I smiled.
Legend
Give her a Trump smile
In reality, we are "tested" all the time by everyone!
Amen.
Unfortunately true. It makes direct communication almost impossible
Every single step of the way. 😉 Excellence is a habit.
stop caring start living!
Judged right word here not tested
If she’s flirting with other men around you, she’s for the streets. She’s not worthy of you
1. Insults you
2. Playing hard to get
3. Going cold
4. If you mow your lawn
5. Just kidding on number 4
Here’s the rest ....jealousy test....and getting you to betray what your values are! Gentlemen Good Luck out there!!
Thank you
If you mow your lawn she says: "Not again this is so noisy."
But if you wait: " Your lawn looks horrible, don't you have any pride."
BOTH are shit tests BTW :D
Thanks 🙏
@@Cratossama these are toxic tests means you are dealing with toxic women. The moment she starts doing this you need to get rid of her right away .
Is this what they call sh*t test?
1. "Same to you, thanks!"
2. Don't you ever double text or otherwise persue her.
3. Go cold on her back.
4. Ignore her attempts to make you jealous.
5. Stay true to your values.
IN SUMMARY:
Stay true to yourself, and ignore all her wimpy attempts to throw you off. Whatever she does, do not ever let her get away with disrespecting you or with making you do something against your values, beliefs, or whatever you consider important.
Yaman
in other words, literally deprive all sense of emotion or any care in the relation ship, "as long as you give 0 f's. she will love you." WHAT LOGIC IS THAT!! SHOWING THAT YOU DO NOT CARE ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP MEANS EXACTLY THAT TO HER AND SHE WILL LEAVE THIS DUDE IS STUPID!
2 rules:
1) Don't ever get angry with a woman. When it's done, acknowledge it and just leave. If the test happens in the middle of a date, you end that date. Right then, right there. The person who values the relationship least is the one in control of it. If you show her you'll leave if things arent the way you want them, she's less likely to test you. This is the hardest lesson to learn as compromise is normally considered a reasonable alternative when two parties disagree. The problem with that here is if you show you'll bend when pushed, she loses respect and is going to keep pushing, if she sticks around.
2) When you recognize she's playing games, don't play. Almost universally the best answer to a woman's games is walking away, and remembering to not get angry.
The one thing that woman will always be searching for is acknowledgement and attention, her games are designed to get her both. Give her neither, understand she is trying to control and manipulate you and do not allow it.
So when they go cold do nothing? That never works for me…
@@ItsCamaro3 when they go cold I'd lose interest. Going cold for a period of time is a red flag of cheating. If you give them less attention, and they do nothing to get it back (attention is currency with them), they are very likely cheating on you and like the reduced pressure on them.
Just an opinion of course, but sadly it's supported by my past experience.
@@fubarace1027 dude just make fun of them. Girls are pretty dumb in general, don't be serious it will eat you
People seek what they can never have.
I would say that the 2 rules are:
1) Don't get angry with a woman
2) Don't get angry over a woman
So to summerize the first 4 points, if she insulted you, ignored your messages, got cold on you and flirted with other men ... that doesnt mean she doesnt like you or she's not interested , she s actually testing you... can this get any more ridiculous ?
if she really didnt like you, she wouldnt waste time trying to assess your personality. girls have a lot of options, they have to weed some out so they can attract the highest quality mate they are able to
@@magicseventh9746 If she has to do these tests instead of having honest, open, adult conversations or some other healthy way to get to know you, maybe she is the one that needs to be weeded out from the guy's list of options.
@@DavidFelipe03 exactly drop her
@@magicseventh9746 lol, most of these women ain't high quality themselves. Good luck to them.
This is crazy
A girls doing this to me
And its f*cking me up
Lately I've been distracted because of these stupid tests...
She acts like this and still have the guts to look at me with a smile all the time...
Women are something else
This is what a narcissist does, an emotionally mature woman who is looking for something serious doesnt give a shit about these neurotic things.
Totally!
Honestly.
Yeah but age matters, Idt a girl would look to settle with children when she's at the age of 20. I'd say typically >26 y.o. would be a mature woman age, unless you're looking at bad woman then we all know she's not in for something awesome, on the other hand, there are quality woman
Facts!
Yes and no. Yes to the games no to not caring about these specific things. I know I care about a man I'm interested in sticking to their morals and values.
As for your girl flirting with other guys while you're around it is also a warning sign but she may not be very good for you and want attention of other men. I've experienced this. Don't tie your life and your money up with one of these.
Dealbreaker. The highest of disrespect
That’s literally not your girl anymore
To me it indicates that she's incapable of asserting her preferences in front of me, if you have a strong mind and personality, you don't try to play tricks like that on people, you know what you want and if you wanna be poly, you just say so, you see the other person opening up to you, you do the same, you talk about your needs and wants and how you see the world and assume your mentalities and actions, if you need to half ass schemes like this to test someone, it indicates that you have emotional problems, you may perhaps be narcissistic and, thus, egoistic as well, if you are strong, you don't see all of this and ignore it, you call her out for it, confront her with the facts, let her make the choice on the question of, do you want to know thyself? do you want to learn, to grow and to improve, and thus be a better version of yourself? and if she rejects all of that and prefers to play dumb tricks, you let her go, there's that special someone for you, waiting for you at the end of the tunnel so to speak, don't make compromises, assert your dominance in intellect by being true to yourself and to your values, and by expressing what you feel in a ballanced, healthy and confident way, don't act like a cold douchebag, as for the video, I can say that it works, but for getting it on with nasty girls who will not provide much if anything to your growth and life so, do as I told you, and try to be the best version of yourself.
Just dont take her seriously either then
Haha I'd be gone before she could turn around.
Funny most women whom “test” men with these games would fail them. If a woman does these things to you, they will always create tension in your life. Find someone whom respects you & wants to build your lives up.
I don't test people (its unnecesary), but instead evaluate their behaviour and their actions on the real life as it shows their real value.
A person who treats others badly as a test (witch means they are manipulative and don't care for your feelings), are not worth anyones time. There is no excuse for this lack of respect, as it is a red flag.
You treat me badly as a way of testing me, you ❌don't pass for me. Playing with people lives is not a joke to me.
I can confirm that . We need honest moment with our selves and make that mindsit changing and i'm proudly saying i did it ✌️
Misuse of 'whom'.
I don’t maybe it’s my age but honestly at 34 I don’t have time for these games. If you like someone you like them and if they play hot and cold then it’s next. I think if I found out that a woman was doing this stuff on purpose to test me I would be so turned off like how old are you 12?
Honestly these tests don’t sound like someone healthy is carrying them out. If you find a woman is doing a jealousy test then that’s a test for you right there that she’s got issues and you need a more stable person never mind how big her yams are
That is how they are. They are grown children.
@@dw4897 Lmao
You are right,it's better to be straight forward with each other right off the bat straight from the get-go than try to send each other these mixed signals like some sort of alians
These “tests” should be viewed as positive because they’re giving them to establish if you have attractive qualities like confidence, desirability and humour etc. We just see the big yams as you say and we’re attracted but women need a little more before they invest.
@@johnnyblaze9158 I get where you coming from but these tests should be rare not constant,cuz u know not everyone excels at everything,no one is perfect and before trying to find faults in men,women should evaluate themselves to see if they're perfect and are deficit in flaws
If she starts doing any of these, I show her the door and never welcome her back. Life is too short to waste my time on these types of miserable human beings. I have a family to love and protect, including my friends. I have work to do, resources to gather. I don't have time for energy and time wasting female "tests".
I like someone like you
I'm 17 I just had my first ever girlfriend the one who cares about me,but she's always acting like that give me some advice pls :(
Respect G 💪
Guys lemme tell u one thing if a woman test u or speak logical that means she not into u and she has no attraction.Bcoz attraction has no test of confidence,if she's into u she will never test your confidence level.Looks matter my brother's.
(I'm experienced).
@@pillogoian9309 did things work out between you guys
Put downs are a huge red flag for me in a relationship. There is no true love if she puts you down.
I agree. I don't want to be with a girl who plays games. That's probably why I'm single.
Facts 💯
Is Thanos your real name?
@Joseph Hitler real love definitely exist its just rare especially these days
@Joseph Hitler god damn you’re a fucking loser hahaha
Next video . How to test a woman to see if she is worth your time
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Forget wallet or say u lost job 😂 u will automatically get rid of her simple
The sad reality is that most men don’t expect much from a woman, and females know this. Look OK, be halfway nice, show that you care about us a little bit, don’t act like you belong in a straight jacket, etc. Really simple stuff
"How to test a woman to see if she is worth your time"
The answer: She doesn't pull any of the shit mentioned in this video.
@@rezag8369 Let me know when you find this mysterious woman? Eventually they will pull one. I bet you money past girls pulled them on you and you never even know it. Women pull this shit subtlety. Have you had a girl who was all over you then set the date and she blows you off or seems uninterested? You failed a test she pulled out of the hat and decided you're beta and out