How High Value Men Act Around Girls

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  • Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
  • Here are 3 more rules that high value men live by, and if you desire to increase your perceived and REAL value, it might be a good idea to follow The Code, which basically means you do things a little bit differently than most men. .

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  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 роки тому +2872

    Things About Women I Wish I Knew In My 20’s
    1. Rejection is a part of life never, take it seriously. When one bus leaves another comes in 5 minutes. Abundance mindset
    2. Never play the nice guy buddy buddy role with women. When a women friend zones you, she’s rejecting you. But she still wants you around so she could use you for free attention.
    3. Never Chase A Women After Being dumper or FriendZone
    4. Quiet/Shy Nerdy girls are the BEST girls to date.
    5. Female Hypergamy Does not care about you.
    6. Never make a women your whole life. A women should only be complimentary to your life
    7. Men at the age of 18-25 will have the most difficult time dating
    8. A woman can never love you, she only loves you on how you make her feel
    9. Women at the ages 18-25 are not looking to settle down they just want TO have fun
    10. Never let a women walk all over you or manipulate you just because she’s pretty always stand your ground & follow your principles as a man.

    • @cheese7781
      @cheese7781 3 роки тому +146

      Yeah, well some of these are true but some are not. Women can actually love you of course and it can be true love, the myth that women only care about men for their value and that they are always looking for better is just a myth. Of course value attracts women, but in a marriage or in a serious relationship that attraction turns into love attraction which can last for life. Please never think that women can’t love, they can, life would be so stupid if Only Men could love, but the life is in fact perfect, think about this... ;)

    • @amarcorreia1726
      @amarcorreia1726 3 роки тому +26

      You are absoluty rigth. We are the gift.

    • @byronroberts2720
      @byronroberts2720 3 роки тому +17

      People like you I value.

    • @rotemplatino91
      @rotemplatino91 3 роки тому +135

      @@cheese7781 in my experience. Only your mom and probably your sisters can love you without conditions. The rest of them, no.

    • @larryrubin5150
      @larryrubin5150 3 роки тому +17

      @@rotemplatino91 💯 spot on

  • @yvtctc5161
    @yvtctc5161 3 роки тому +1009

    Once I asked a woman ,” what should I do to impress woman”.
    She replied,” Focus on yourself and build career”.

    • @Teglamen
      @Teglamen 3 роки тому +102

      Only your mom would say that. Or your father. All the others would say 'just be yourself' 😂

    • @jeffreyfahie1502
      @jeffreyfahie1502 3 роки тому +41

      Yeahhhhh this didn't happen unless it was a family member.

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 3 роки тому +52

      Were you in a noisy room? She might've said "fuck yourself and drink a beer....."

    • @thekifantasy
      @thekifantasy 3 роки тому +7

      @@nelsonhibbert5267 😂😂🤣

    • @wingsnad
      @wingsnad 3 роки тому +20

      Dont impress them. Impress yourself dude. When the right girl comes, locked her down at all cost.

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 роки тому +3335

    A man who lacks purpose, distracts himself with pleasure.

  • @mr.authentic2505
    @mr.authentic2505 3 роки тому +1103

    Control your lust that's the first rule.

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 3 роки тому +52

      Will do. I'll put an elastic band around it.

    • @driver3025
      @driver3025 3 роки тому +14

      If I did that, the impact on the population would be devastating..... It would be AnArChY...

    • @sparkyreadss
      @sparkyreadss 3 роки тому

      How?

    • @mr.authentic2505
      @mr.authentic2505 3 роки тому

      @@sparkyreadss yield to it

    • @xchalibur77
      @xchalibur77 3 роки тому +2

      @@sparkyreadss You wanna know, really, really wanna know ?

  • @bigsexy8688
    @bigsexy8688 3 роки тому +2608

    Don't be a simp and don't chase women, chase your passion and dreams and become the best version of yourself, if you do this the girls will chase you.

  • @Flips44
    @Flips44 3 роки тому +578

    They don’t chase, they don’t try to act cool. They are focused on real things

    • @AutistenKick
      @AutistenKick 3 роки тому +7

      99% Money 😂😂 wow

    • @Flips44
      @Flips44 3 роки тому +31

      @@AutistenKick they are focused on whatever is important to them. Morals money whatever it is. Just stay focused on the task at hand and study your ass off. No one is well respected without work ethic no one. Your work ethic speaks, so be known for something & that’s it. The women will follow

    • @lucasrenard1538
      @lucasrenard1538 3 роки тому

      Yep

    • @888records
      @888records 3 роки тому

      Exactly, they are focussed on what is important to them so their time becomes valuable making certain women want a part of it. But high value men seem to be the ones that self improve themselves as well. Those that are caught up with just their goal especially if it is money then they aren’t as attractive either.

    • @Flips44
      @Flips44 3 роки тому +4

      @@888records Let me explain what a high value man is. A high value man is NOT based on looks or chains or none of that stupid shit. A High value man is based on characteristics and principles. How you handle yourself and the outside world. How you handle power, how you handle losses, how you handle victories. What are you capable of. What type of person you are ultimately

  • @WATDC
    @WATDC 3 роки тому +1087

    Be the man who attracts, not the one who gets attracted.😉

  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind997 3 роки тому +415

    If you're doing cold approach your ideal mindset walking over to a girl is "I hope she impresses me", not the other way around.

  • @edge3220
    @edge3220 3 роки тому +326

    The majority of women who has ever showed interest in me were never my type, and dare I say even ugly. I never understood why for a long time, and it all came down to how I acted around them. Because I wasn't attracted to them my behavior was totally different. It's hard to act what feels counter-intuitive, but treating a hot woman as no big thing puts you at a greater advantage than anything else. Knowing when to flirt a little and when to play cold is a skill, but worth playing around with.

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 3 роки тому +28

      I just play around with my willy. Same result in the end.

    • @aninova5597
      @aninova5597 3 роки тому +17

      @@nelsonhibbert5267 stop that shit

    • @alexphilip8732
      @alexphilip8732 3 роки тому +1

      so true

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 3 роки тому +3

      @@aninova5597 I would but it's rolling down a hill faster than I can run.

    • @ChazzZimmermanMedia
      @ChazzZimmermanMedia 3 роки тому +1

      @@nelsonhibbert5267 quit it man..not worth it

  • @deviousj5868
    @deviousj5868 3 роки тому +164

    I have some advice. Whenever I want a woman to leave me tf alone I act genuinely invested and impressed by them.They ghost and I can continue chilling and having a good time.

    • @emmanuelrambaran3935
      @emmanuelrambaran3935 3 роки тому +13

      My name should be casper since I get ghosted a lot

    • @MinDreK88
      @MinDreK88 3 роки тому +5

      I act shy and weird to get them to leave me alone 😂

    • @lecomtedeneuch9994
      @lecomtedeneuch9994 3 роки тому +9

      I have one rule for that : Tell her you love her, watch her run for the hills and y'all never hear from her again

    • @Chloregy
      @Chloregy 2 роки тому

      @@lecomtedeneuch9994 yup i do the same when she starts ratcheting up my stress levels over nothing burgers and i've concluded she's a bat shit crazy liability to my finances. works like magic baby lol

    • @RANDOM_CLIPS_BY_OLDg
      @RANDOM_CLIPS_BY_OLDg 2 роки тому +6

      @@lecomtedeneuch9994 yeah untill they actually accept it and you're stuck with her.....

  • @trexx987
    @trexx987 3 роки тому +98

    The point is, Chase your dreams and live your life at the finest first...
    Because mostly true love come unexpected and you didn't even search for it..
    It just comes

    • @s.mendez7160
      @s.mendez7160 3 роки тому +9

      That is called a Karmic Relationship. It will be nothing but a rocket ride of personal growth, and the woman being nothing more than a mirror of your own stuff.

    • @preston009
      @preston009 2 роки тому

      @@s.mendez7160 never heard it put that way. Nice.

    • @izzylandyt
      @izzylandyt 2 роки тому +1

      More like free sex. True love is there with you since day 1. True love adds substance into your life. It's not some liability that munches off of you when you become successful.

  • @agee7777
    @agee7777 3 роки тому +99

    when you stop caring you have more choice.

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 3 роки тому

      I'm like that with a tin of quality street. I no longer leave the toffee pennies until the end.

    • @agee7777
      @agee7777 3 роки тому

      @Mithilesh M wow thats zen level shit

    • @TheeMostDangerousOne
      @TheeMostDangerousOne Рік тому

      when i stop caring i aint gon want em

  • @MyThoughtzAndOpinionz
    @MyThoughtzAndOpinionz 3 роки тому +239

    High-value men do not label themselves as high -value...Everybody around him does. 😂

  • @wagwanbennydj6003
    @wagwanbennydj6003 3 роки тому +83

    You are not the man you used to be. You are stronger and wiser and freer than you ever used to be. And now you have come at the crossroads of destiny. It’s time for you to choose. It’s time for you to choose good

  • @supercarstalkermiami6035
    @supercarstalkermiami6035 3 роки тому +115

    Inhale confidence exhale toxic women from your life’s, love yourself & be urself.

  • @HereIAm247
    @HereIAm247 2 роки тому +87

    Let me tell you what makes a man high value. Being confident, and being the best version of himself, on a physical, mental and emotional level. Confidence is self explanatory; regardless of your gender, people will give you the value you the them you have. This is a general instinct; if you don't believe in your own value, few other people will, even if they will still be nice to you. But let me explain the other things:
    1) On a physical level. Most men don't realise how much effort women put into their appearance, because subconsciously they know it is important to their perceived value in society. I am not talking about caked on makeup, extentions and a dress two sizes too small. I am talking about general hygiene and grooming, finding clothing and hairstyles that help them appear more feminine, skincare, eating healthy, keeping a good posture, working out and other things. They do a lot to maintain and improve the beauty they were born with. If you notice, most men who are perceived high value generally take very good care of their appearance as well. Overcompensating and going extreme is not attractive in either gender; but a high level of attention to health, hygiene/grooming, and appearance tend to show higher value. That is because it first of enhance your physical attractiveness, but it also shows some good character traits (such as making an effort, and being confident), but also having a high mental capacity.
    2) On a mental level. Generally speaking, being skilled in areas you are passionate about gives an impression of who you are as a person, and helps you feel confident. The more skilled you are, the more confident you will feel, and the higher value you will be perceived. It shows good genes and intelligence/ability to learn, or physical fitness (depending on the skill). You are someone who have something positive to contribute with.
    3) On an emotional level. This one is super important! Many men think that an 'alpha' is some loud, obnoxious asshole. This could not be further from the truth. Being emotionally stable, means you are able to enjoy the full emotional spectrum. You are not bound by fear, so you are better able to engage with other people. And do you know why the high value men often have more success? Because they are actually interested in the girls they engage with, at least on some level. about 95% of men who chase a women, are not truly interested in her as a person; they are mostly interested in sex. And most women can smell this 10 miles away. The high value men may also be mostly interested in sex; but they also show some genuine interest in her as a person. They are more emotionally receptive. They don't need to play games, or manipulate, because they are confident in what they have to offer her (on a personal level), not just what he might be able to get from her. If you show her no interest, she will probably think you are not interested, and move her attention elsewhere.
    Unfortunately, the modern way of thinking do not teach these values. Modern lifestyle to a very high degree teach both genders to be a worse version of themselves, although girls to a higher degree are raised to meet certain standards. This is why so many men struggle. You need to focus on becoming a better version of yourself, inside and out, if you want to improve your 'value'. Regardless of your gender, you have to actually be valuable to be perceived as high value. To be able to contribute with something. If every man lived up to these things, all men would be high value. It is not always about being 'better' than others, it is about being the best version of your authentic self. :)

    • @ellboy3574
      @ellboy3574 2 роки тому +1

      I love the fact that you know what you’re saying…

    • @Bcharns
      @Bcharns Рік тому +1

      This is Spot On!

    • @zZDavidHD
      @zZDavidHD Рік тому

      Ur also a goat, best regards

  • @thelegacyofgaming2928
    @thelegacyofgaming2928 3 роки тому +192

    This video didn't really say what high value men do, it simply said what they DON'T do.

    • @NamelessUsers
      @NamelessUsers 3 роки тому +41

      I'll tell you a little about a high value man. First and foremost, you've got to mature into a man. Many young folks male or female ain't never grown-up. You do not become a high value person once you reach a magic age or you pay yours bills on time. The main step in becoming a high value man, is know your worth; your value as person; what you bring to the table. When you reach that point, you will be a high value man, and you will be a man. It looks like confidence that comes from the inside. The integrity of his resolve. It changes the way you carry yourself and women and men both will see.

    • @fk8495
      @fk8495 3 роки тому +17

      That’s like all his videos lol, he just explains and over explains and gives examples. I’m not hating, but he talks way too much

    • @TOXICRAVEN123
      @TOXICRAVEN123 3 роки тому +4

      @@fk8495 watch many, take snippets, see what patterns you find and compare it to what youve seen in reality. Just comes down to self improvement, motive, work and a lot of other stuff 😂

    • @s.mendez7160
      @s.mendez7160 3 роки тому +1

      It's not supposed to. The video is to generate more viewers, and if channel owner has enough, they will have residual income from Google Ads.

    • @s.mendez7160
      @s.mendez7160 3 роки тому

      @@NamelessUsers Ancient Eastern Secret - There is no table...

  • @johnnyblaze2257
    @johnnyblaze2257 3 роки тому +46

    A man who lacks purpose, distracts himself with pleasure.-Cory Wayne

  • @romeoxx9721
    @romeoxx9721 3 роки тому +44

    I was that one guy who never told a girl how beautiful she was and when i told a girl she was beautiful she was so happy,not like I was the first guy to tell her, girls really want what they can't have

    • @romeoxx9721
      @romeoxx9721 2 роки тому +2

      @Ruebiks cuber my message is literally saying, when you tell a girl she looks beautiful too often then it doesn't seem special to her anymore

    • @ibnebatuta4868
      @ibnebatuta4868 2 роки тому

      @@romeoxx9721 lol, its the same for every human, if they hear too much of something, that something gradually starts to loose its value
      İts the same in economy too

  • @ats4670
    @ats4670 3 роки тому +104

    Gotta put in the work to be stand out, otherwise you are just another person in a sea of people.

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart 3 роки тому +6

      All people are just part of the sea of people, including women hot or otherwise. Actually, you can standout doing very simple stuff like not looking at them if they're hot. Once you see she's hot you don't need to ogle at her, just don't. After a while she WILL notice that you're not looking at her like the others. She will even start doing silly things to try to "catch" you looking at her lol. For some reason, even the hottests of girls just can't stand a random dude not looking at them like they're the second coming of Jesus. In short no, you don't really have to put in that much work to stand out.

    • @emmanuelrambaran3935
      @emmanuelrambaran3935 3 роки тому +1

      @@ShaferHart facts bro

    • @gabem6863
      @gabem6863 3 роки тому +1

      Nope. All you got to do is ignore them, no matter how good looking they are and give off the vibe of having something better to do other than drool at them. Then she will be the one bending over backwards just to get you to look at her and give her a compliment. Just remember to compliment her ONLY if she actually done something to deserve it-looking cute is not enough. Making you a meal is!

  • @OLUNATION
    @OLUNATION 3 роки тому +314

    Showed my Cat this video, now he's a lion 😬😬
    With lotsa love form Kenya, Africa

    • @paulmuyali5918
      @paulmuyali5918 3 роки тому +14

      Kumbe wakenya wako apa pia😂

    • @Mylo.Kingara
      @Mylo.Kingara 3 роки тому +9

      @@paulmuyali5918 tukose?😂😂

    • @OLUNATION
      @OLUNATION 3 роки тому +6

      @@paulmuyali5918 representing bro
      We are the few ones who when we apply these skills we win in life man 💪🏿💪🏿

    • @alisaporter7845
      @alisaporter7845 3 роки тому +8

      Don't be nice
      Don't give her none of your time
      And Don't ever give a hoe your resources. If you can't get go on to the next one and have an abundance then scarcity mindset
      Live your life not hers kings.

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 3 роки тому +1

      Yup, good cat humor because this video is literally nonsensical myth.

  • @tonym9369
    @tonym9369 3 роки тому +114

    These are principles that I generally follow but I feel that it comes at a price. For example, I'm tall, muscular and attractive and when I go to the gym I constantly get people staring at me since I never engage with anyone, avoid staring at other women and focused on my workout. Over time I noticed that people even the gym staff pick up on it and give me the looks as if they think something is off about me like I'm some serial killer.. so I try to smile and greet certain people when I can to establish that I can be friendly. The more you try to avoid attention the more you receive it...
    Its because PEOPLE WANT AND EXPECT YOU TO BE A BETA. I noticed that when you walk with a confident swagger yet remain silent, you may attract more women but you will also get a lot of those "stares" from other men and older women because just as you and I are able to watch these videos.. well, so can they and some of them are on game and are aware that girls are attracted to this and will paint you as a player, other guys will find you intimidating or threatening when they bring their girlfriends (because they know she's attracted), you get mean mugged all the time
    It has gotten to the point where a lot of people just want YOU to be BETA and stay BETA. If you aren't they will criticize you as if something is wrong with you for being more MASCULINE and COLDER.. So be ready to handle the haters, its one of the hardest parts at first because certain people will challenge your masculinity when you apply it and try to make you feel like you are being arrogant, toxic and unapproachable.

    • @tonym9369
      @tonym9369 3 роки тому

      @Mithilesh M Yeah like bringing a balance to everything.. i get it. I try to come off as a gentle giant at times but ultimately it gets exhausting to care what others think, so I just decided to just hell with them and be happy with being me while treating others how im treated.. im an ex marine so my confident swagger is pretty much brain washed into me.. if they think im arrogant or a serial killer for always maintaining my distance at the gym, theyre stupid because im just a humble dude focused on my own goals..
      So i share this for anyone else experiencing the same.. Just do you bro
      IF ppl hate on you, for men its a reflection of their own insecurities and for women its a reflection of them knowing they cant control or manipulate you which could also turn them off instead of attracting them

    • @sharonmicahsilvestre3626
      @sharonmicahsilvestre3626 2 роки тому +1

      Lol those Men who feel threatened or intimidated are just Insecure 😂😂😂🙌 more power to U 👏👏👏

    • @ProjectAlphaPrimetime
      @ProjectAlphaPrimetime 2 роки тому

      working on the smiling part. The whole "serial killer" vibe used to be the story of my life lmfao following the way you experienced it that is

    • @belalfatwa6969
      @belalfatwa6969 Рік тому +2

      What you have said is really true I’m an attractive man and the same thing happen to me

  • @Oggre
    @Oggre 3 роки тому +38

    Thanks for sharing man so basically its all about self control and making our lives a priority over every girl

  • @KV--gj6ig
    @KV--gj6ig 2 роки тому +10

    This video proves that our self-esteem, confidence and life experience defines what we earn in life, either in dating or career opportunities or life style

  • @alexnecesany7479
    @alexnecesany7479 3 роки тому +46

    When he said “yes alex, iam talking to you”

    • @alexgore4509
      @alexgore4509 3 роки тому +9

      broo that messed me up!

    • @Deliccino
      @Deliccino 3 роки тому +6

      Fr fr 😳

    • @stuntbroz
      @stuntbroz 3 роки тому +4

      That got me paying attention 😂

    • @Mihawk07
      @Mihawk07 3 роки тому +3

      hahaha i know, mate!

  • @spartan5816
    @spartan5816 3 роки тому +56

    Wow,this guy is a gem on youtube. Yet still underrated,underdog. Keep the good work man. I appreciate it.

  • @FinesseNTechniq
    @FinesseNTechniq 3 роки тому +210

    Short Version: Stop Simping and man up.

    • @kiwi9065
      @kiwi9065 3 роки тому +3

      Short version consequences: I know I know but How!?

    • @FinesseNTechniq
      @FinesseNTechniq 3 роки тому +7

      @@kiwi9065 you just have to "Do You". Everything else will fall into place. Spent a great chunk of my time wondering if/when my special lady will find me, but I finally broke free and started doing my thing (getting priorities straight, working on myself mentally and emotionally, gaming to fill in the blanks, etc.).

    • @kiwi9065
      @kiwi9065 3 роки тому +11

      @@FinesseNTechniq that's nice👍
      If you're happy on your own you don't need anyone to make you happy

    • @FinesseNTechniq
      @FinesseNTechniq 3 роки тому +2

      @@kiwi9065 that's the thing I had to learn though. Happiness comes from within and radiates outward around us. The key is to be happy and at peace with yourself first, that way you attract more peace and happiness. Everything begins with YOU.

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 3 роки тому +4

      Frothy psychobabble and wishful thinking. You can't catch a fish without putting a line in the water. The ones that jump into your boat are not going to be the ones you want. You are NOT likely to get the woman you want without some kind of pursuit. If you go into a club and sit by yourself, never approach any woman, just wait for them to come to you, no matter how much you love yourself, you go home alone. There IS competition for quality women. If you don't engage her/them in some way, you fail.
      This video is largely myth and so is the notion of Sigma. It is a convenient excuse for men who for whatever reason are fearful of approaching and schmoozing women to be OK with being Beta. Instead of being just another shy guy/Beta, you get to pretend you are above it all and wait for them to come to you. How convenient. Even if they did come to you, what makes you think you'd want them? Do you seriously think this will work?
      How blessed are men to be able to choose which women they engage vs sitting and waiting for them to come to you. Sure, it COULD happen, you Could win the lottery or Publisher's Clearing House too BUT I prefer to up my odds.
      An Alpha pursues HIS choice, not wait on women to come to him. There are NO REAL SIGMA's. It is a myth. Guy's who are frozen with fear are the "Simp's", guy's who sit and wait for women to choose them are the Simps. Guys who believe in nonsensical notions of "Sigma" are Simps. Simps are guys who don't do well with women because of fear of some version of "NO".
      So yes, man up. Make your desire for her known. It is better to try and fail than to sit and wait. People get what they want by pursuing it, not by waiting for it to come to them. Don't be a fool.

  • @David-lx4yb
    @David-lx4yb 2 роки тому +13

    True High Value Men do not think about what makes them "high value,: nor do they even care. Their character and persona are real and always showing without him needing to turn anything on-and-off.

  • @shadshads7933
    @shadshads7933 3 роки тому +140

    true highest value men don't give a f. they act how they want, they can be a female pleaser just for fun cuz they live in abundance and really don't care what others think. it's all about vibe not behavior.

    • @Fuabaa
      @Fuabaa 3 роки тому +5

      Yeah, exactly. It seems that a lot of people think that if they just imitate the behavior of someone successful, they can just instantly become just as successful. The reason why men like these are attractive is because they are confident, the behavior itself is just product of that. Imitating their behavior is not really gonna make you suddenly attractive to every woman out there.

    • @javierortega7645
      @javierortega7645 3 роки тому +1

      Damn right, expert status

    • @stt7566
      @stt7566 3 роки тому +1

      That's not a high value man that's just a beta male faking acting like an alpha. A true alpha understands that all it takes is a knife or gun and stepping on the wrong feelings and your "I do as I please" schtick will result in you getting killed and or hurt badly.
      True alphas understand the power of making friends/allies.

    • @javierortega7645
      @javierortega7645 3 роки тому +4

      @@stt7566 you dont even know what your talking about lil boy

    • @stt7566
      @stt7566 3 роки тому

      @@javierortega7645 no rebuttal, no review of facts, not even acknowledging that I wasn't talking to you. You're a joke

  • @sadepearce7675
    @sadepearce7675 3 роки тому +24

    I believe it's a balance. Men should try to attract but at the same time be ready to advance when their the ones obviously being attracted. A lot of women have low confidence and your lack of attention can come off as disinterest. Show her you're interested but at the same time; not easily won.

    • @faygoman5467
      @faygoman5467 Рік тому

      And going if what they said it also applies to certain people if she’s loud and showing more narcissistic traits be cold if shes shy and like u said maybe seeming a little insecure you approach and advance.

    • @TheeMostDangerousOne
      @TheeMostDangerousOne Рік тому

      im interested in my hustle not women

  • @MoistDelta.
    @MoistDelta. 3 роки тому +10

    I'm glad I'm learning at 19 that it's way easier to get girls when you don't chase them. Just better yourself and achieve your goals and the girls will line up.

  • @freakhaha1564
    @freakhaha1564 Рік тому +4

    Rule 230: Stand your ground and stay firm in what you believe in. If a girl finds that you are malleable she will try and manipulate you into what she wants you to be, and she will try to turn you into a puppet. Show her that you are what you said you are from day 1.

  • @thismisunderstoodlonerguy
    @thismisunderstoodlonerguy 3 роки тому +12

    The thing is - is that I’m looking for happiness too. Not to only cater to the women/woman’s interest, but to myself as well.

    • @Drell-en7yo
      @Drell-en7yo 3 роки тому +6

      Facts bro .. I was dealing with this in relationship . I’m about to 25 and was with her for almost 2 years . It started to bother me that her happiness meant more to me then mine meant to her . I lost track of myself and started to regret my decisions everyday and we ended pretty messy .

    • @god1284
      @god1284 2 роки тому +3

      This the trap that's hard not to fall into. You gotta put yourself before anyone else on the planet. Your happiness and health comes before anything. Don't forget that when going after a girl.

  • @robinelpablo1276
    @robinelpablo1276 3 роки тому +29

    Stay high value men and be smart 💯in your mind

  • @mukabamukabajr8274
    @mukabamukabajr8274 3 роки тому +19

    Clearly these days relationships are about power and not love

    • @djkeith9315
      @djkeith9315 2 роки тому +1

      Love don't exist in this generation because everything is about lust you build a marriage and a relationship off love and it all depends on what type of Wemon you choose

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 3 роки тому +37

    Chase success, not women. A woman is not supposed to be your whole life, but rather a compliment to it.
    And only give the gift of your time, which you can never get back, to women, or even just people in general, who show by their actions that they are genuinely worthy of your time.

  • @dennisshulz3678
    @dennisshulz3678 3 роки тому +6

    As usual, super high level, broad, general, common sense information. Thanks for wasting 10 minutes of my life that I'll never get back

  • @AllPaperTaker-KingG
    @AllPaperTaker-KingG 3 роки тому +9

    My man Kevin Samuels coined the term "High value man" it's getting spread far and wide I'm proud to see that men are able to get on the same page 💯

    • @AllPaperTaker-KingG
      @AllPaperTaker-KingG 3 роки тому

      Now we gotta get some laws passed to protect us.
      Stuff like
      Child support
      Divorces/alimony
      Laws to protect heterosexual men
      Birth certificates

  • @ario2019
    @ario2019 3 роки тому +2

    Many thanks my friend. Keep up with the good work.

  • @hakeemrohmed5436
    @hakeemrohmed5436 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for all these teachings...u are life changers

  • @bashstashcash
    @bashstashcash 3 роки тому +59

    I love viewing these videos & becoming one with these videos

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 3 роки тому +1

      Careful now. Look what happened in Tron.

    • @bashstashcash
      @bashstashcash 3 роки тому +1

      @@nelsonhibbert5267 oh I know wat u mean lol, I became a little obsessed back in November then I calmed down

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 3 роки тому

      @@bashstashcash That's understandable, what with Christmas coming up and all the shopping to do......

  • @blueCS
    @blueCS 3 роки тому +16

    DEAR STRANGER,
    Have this mindset:
    - What does a girl give you in life?
    Yeah. Not much.
    - What can you give yourself?
    Yes.. alot!
    Focus on your goals, The girls will come.
    You have to love yourself to get others to love you.
    I WISH YOU THE BEST IN LIFE AND GOALS!

  • @GoldenMushroom64
    @GoldenMushroom64 2 роки тому +1

    Very straightforward and true! Great video

  • @johnsonschannel720
    @johnsonschannel720 3 роки тому +1

    Love the videos keep up the good work bro

  • @memeinc.2036
    @memeinc.2036 3 роки тому +15

    This was an Instant like

  • @alexg.5781
    @alexg.5781 3 роки тому +5

    When he said “ yes Alex I’m talking to you” I was shocked😳

  • @Andre-gh5yk
    @Andre-gh5yk Рік тому

    This is such a good video, when I stop paying too much attention to women and put myself on a pedestal, I feel great and feel I have better chances

  • @kirdomz6107
    @kirdomz6107 3 роки тому

    thanks for teaching us how to value ourselves and get back our power and not being weak

  • @cristinaliberto3575
    @cristinaliberto3575 3 роки тому +16

    As a woman, this video could have easily been transferred to what high value women do. In my opinion, men are naturally the pursuers. I am not saying you should simp or forget about your career and make temporary people your life, but if your seeking a high-value woman, she has the same mentality of not chasing but attracting.

  • @86canes
    @86canes 3 роки тому +44

    Truer words have NEVER been spoken.

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 3 роки тому +2

      I just farted and it smells like cabbage. True dat.

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 3 роки тому

      OK, you go to a club where nobody knows you and sit in a corner and just be your awesome self. Then at closing time you go home alone. This video is pure bullsh*t.

  • @subashchandru6424
    @subashchandru6424 3 роки тому +1

    Categories them into your playlists brother, I'm following that...

  • @JA-ko2ds
    @JA-ko2ds 3 роки тому

    Great videos man.
    And your voice pretty cool i dig it

  • @MarvinListerTV
    @MarvinListerTV 3 роки тому +21

    Never chase the cats. Feed them and they will chase you

    • @johnfurlong457
      @johnfurlong457 3 роки тому

      That sounds pretty beta. You say “don’t chase women,” yet you sound like you care too much about impressing women. Maybe you should try being yourself, instead of worrying what others think, then you might have more success with women.

    • @ThatShitGood
      @ThatShitGood 2 роки тому +3

      @@johnfurlong457 i think he meant show a little of your worth and interested and sit back watch if they gonna jump in your wagon or not if they do, good for em, if they don't, only them are missing.

    • @TheeMostDangerousOne
      @TheeMostDangerousOne Рік тому

      @@johnfurlong457 you sound beta, not what he was stating by his comment at all. Being yourself isnt attractive to women

    • @TheeMostDangerousOne
      @TheeMostDangerousOne Рік тому

      @@ThatShitGood at least you gotta brain unlike this bozo

  • @civokjaf7809
    @civokjaf7809 3 роки тому +6

    I believe all men use rule no.1 and 2 depending on the girl if its someone they want doesnt matter how high valued they play themselves girls will sometimes have this value to and the only way to get to them is to have alot of money. Some of the prettiest girls you cant even talk to unless you have money because they already have 100s of guys after them who might have good looks but one with good looks and money will score.

  • @randydavis7718
    @randydavis7718 3 роки тому

    Logically stated, and makes good sense. Thanks!

  • @C-R0D88
    @C-R0D88 3 роки тому

    Thank you for the help, wish you more success and happiness in trade for this information

  • @LogicAtItsFinest
    @LogicAtItsFinest 3 роки тому +8

    If you are trying to appear high value to a woman it's because you see yourself as low value. Stop trying to be something. Just be the best version of yourself.

  • @latter-daysaintbatman2679
    @latter-daysaintbatman2679 2 роки тому +4

    *Once a man stops caring, he gets all the love & attention he deserves.*

  • @medicinekeysformrcps5025
    @medicinekeysformrcps5025 3 роки тому

    Iam really in deep love with this channel.

  • @leratosword6594
    @leratosword6594 3 роки тому

    This was a great video. Better understanding

  • @saileshkonsam
    @saileshkonsam 2 роки тому +4

    Well I gotta say. The comment section give me more lesson than the content.
    "Respect yourself Respect woman. Don't chase them"

  • @gustavopedroso6407
    @gustavopedroso6407 3 роки тому +11

    Picturing high value man with sleeve tattoos is absolute lunacy, these are sheeple with no personality and an immense ego.

    • @captainpinky8307
      @captainpinky8307 3 роки тому

      tattoo's are beta look at ed Shereen a rich and famous singer but soooo beta

  • @Joriszx
    @Joriszx 3 роки тому

    i understand so much now, i am quite a attractive man but i was chasing girls all the time. Thank you so much!

  • @TuanRyuJin
    @TuanRyuJin 2 роки тому

    Very nice examples to understand it easy and fast! Play the game different strategy and win in life.

  • @toddlehman928
    @toddlehman928 3 роки тому +10

    My friend and I call this the principal of least interest. Whoever is least interested and ask aloof gets the attention of females. It's the same as in a power dynamic in a couple. Whoever cares the least has the most power. If one person in a relationship is ready to walk away in the blink of an eye, the nine times out of 10 the other person is the least dominant and has the least power in that relationship.

  • @alexbachtel2265
    @alexbachtel2265 3 роки тому +22

    I knew you were talking to me when talking about apollo lol

  • @aveepoudel2341
    @aveepoudel2341 2 роки тому +2

    A high value man never wants attention

  • @mutungiedmund2355
    @mutungiedmund2355 2 роки тому

    Thanks 😊 for sharing

  • @Newgrist
    @Newgrist 3 роки тому +59

    Don't discount the power of effective "friend making" with women to whom you are attracted. The dread of the "friend zone" that these dating coaches and gurus are trying to instill in you allows them to keep propagating content that leaves their followers asking for more about that elusive "alpha male" or now "high value man" which keeps them hooked. These are constructs that correspond more to the goals of effective marketing than to anything that exists in IRL. Believe me, to one woman, you are a "high value man" while to another you are a "beta male," whom she will ignore. These constructs, if they are to mean anything at all, (which is probably asking too much from them) are deeply dependent on context and therefore relative. So realize that these videos are largely for entertainment purposes. Enjoy them, but take their content with a grain of salt.

    • @pdavizs
      @pdavizs 3 роки тому +4

      EPIC WIN

    • @bryana1041
      @bryana1041 3 роки тому +8

      I think you misunderstood the point. The video is not saying you cannot be friends with a female, it says your strategy for getting a girl you desire should not be to befriend her.
      If you like a girl and approach / interact with her as platonic friend you are not just lying to yourself, but also to the woman you supposedly like. It would be a relationship based on a lie and ulterior motives.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor 2 роки тому

      You've OBVIOUSLY NEVER BEEN friend zoned

  • @Timefades1
    @Timefades1 3 роки тому +12

    your content changed my life bro
    from simp to sigma.
    finding my true potential now and living life like everyday is my last

  • @naradax2364
    @naradax2364 2 роки тому

    Great vid.

  • @janvercojeda5272
    @janvercojeda5272 3 роки тому +1

    Alright thanks for the info

  • @VILLEGAS76able
    @VILLEGAS76able 3 роки тому +75

    All the information is great but your missing the most important of them all, take care of your physical appearance and health!

    • @dasdestomic1636
      @dasdestomic1636 3 роки тому +10

      Physical Appearance, Health, etc. improves self-esteem and makes you feel more confident in yaself, that's some big brain shit chief

    • @SkylerDouglas
      @SkylerDouglas 3 роки тому +1

      The video is about Alpha Mental not physical.

    • @god1284
      @god1284 2 роки тому +1

      This. Good posture, working out, eating well, getting a good physique, having good hygiene and high self confidence and carrying yourself in a confident and attractive way absolutely destroys any 'mental tricks'. If you're the smoothest talker but look like a saggy testicle you're going nowhere.

  • @ongito29
    @ongito29 3 роки тому +34

    You didn't actually explain anything lmao

  • @ibrahimkasim6041
    @ibrahimkasim6041 3 роки тому

    Learned alot...thnx man

  • @xJaiirey
    @xJaiirey 2 роки тому

    Such a great video

  • @stevesachs6215
    @stevesachs6215 3 роки тому +8

    Honda and Toyota make actually also freaking nice cars

    • @Perry_Neum
      @Perry_Neum 3 роки тому

      Women don't like Toyota or Honda men because they are low maintenance, reliable, and not flashy. Aka, "He's a nice guy."

    • @stevesachs6215
      @stevesachs6215 3 роки тому +2

      @@Perry_Neum what???

  • @marlonious7650
    @marlonious7650 3 роки тому +3

    Ignore them and create your own world.

  • @chewiesof
    @chewiesof Рік тому

    You violated Alex 😂

  • @omniking3479
    @omniking3479 3 роки тому

    You have done your homework. 👏👏👏

  • @Solo_kims
    @Solo_kims 3 роки тому +8

    This guy never goes straight to the point 😂😂😂

  • @donkndave7811
    @donkndave7811 3 роки тому +7

    Dump the video games and learn, learn, learn finance. Learn to trade and make money. In 5, 10, 20 years video games will not matter. How you spent your time to make money will. Set a goal. Pursue it with passion. Never let up. Let the girl know that is your passion. She will respect it and you for it.

    • @BiohazardPuppy
      @BiohazardPuppy 3 роки тому

      What if making video games is your passion?

    • @donkndave7811
      @donkndave7811 3 роки тому +2

      @@BiohazardPuppy , making or playing? If you can make bank doing either, great. My point is don't waste your time playing video games, eating cheetos and beating off. That is a wasted life. Learn. MANY have made $$$ by dropping the video games and pursuing trading. Good luck out there.

    • @nelsonhibbert5267
      @nelsonhibbert5267 3 роки тому +2

      @@donkndave7811 Yeah! Then once you've made a ton of money, spend it all on whores. Or sheds. It's nice to have a shed.

    • @deez994
      @deez994 3 роки тому +1

      @@donkndave7811 u realize all day traders are broke bud

    • @donkndave7811
      @donkndave7811 3 роки тому

      @@deez994 , did I say daytraders? Bud? You obviously don't know about swingtrading, cash covered puts, covered calls, or trading the wheel strategy. Like I said, LEARN to trade. Since you are on UA-cam, have you investigated the many trading educational videos? Even Fidelity, Think or Swim and the other brokers have tutorial videos on here. My guess is you haven't.

  • @millos0116
    @millos0116 12 днів тому

    This is so true... Just value yourself, your attention and heart. That does not mean that you have to act like you are higher or superior being than others, but simply as this guy says, be hard to obtain.
    I stopped chasing, I learned 8 languages, built up my body, learned to speak and 90% of girls I speak with, after my first audio message to them, they are 99% conquered by it... All of them say how sexy my voice is and how confident I sound. Be there, but do not show them how impressed you are by their photos, videos or etc... Have a delay between messages sometimes, enter their head. And later, I promise you will enter "deeeep inside" - Hodge Twins haahhaha

  • @adofficial869
    @adofficial869 3 роки тому +2

    thanks for the video !!!

  • @GCP25
    @GCP25 3 роки тому +3

    Lol the Alex Costa reference

  • @simphiwebling9092
    @simphiwebling9092 3 роки тому +28

    I'm one of those guys who always watch but never changes 😭

    • @tonystark_2017
      @tonystark_2017 3 роки тому +5

      Just take small action . •

    • @blueeyes6852
      @blueeyes6852 3 роки тому +4

      You'll change if it's important to you. 💋

    • @simpleman3458
      @simpleman3458 3 роки тому +1

      Small steps man
      It one small step a day but a GIANT step for your life keep going .

    • @sepzillahd1894
      @sepzillahd1894 3 роки тому

      @@blueeyes6852 Nah not true

    • @amanqz901
      @amanqz901 3 роки тому

      It's very easy

  • @ranikalakaar
    @ranikalakaar 3 роки тому +1

    Great information

  • @malachi5813
    @malachi5813 2 роки тому

    Wow great stuff man

  • @jjbearbeast
    @jjbearbeast 3 роки тому +9

    These videos have changed my mindset completely and for the better.

  • @breakdown323
    @breakdown323 3 роки тому +27

    "Yes Alex, I'm talking to you" - bruh you threw me for a loop there

  • @kbrianspeaks1101
    @kbrianspeaks1101 2 роки тому

    Awesome stuff

  • @glennmariacher4525
    @glennmariacher4525 3 роки тому +1

    Do you do your own art work or have it done?; it is very impressive. Thanks for the input, Glenn

  • @MrEccentricities
    @MrEccentricities 3 роки тому +5

    My strategy is if it's obvs we'll be together I don't pursue I let my prey come to me :) I'm not competing with anyone and no one can impress me and I stay clean away from pretty people lol

    • @smokeyMike1
      @smokeyMike1 2 роки тому

      It be the pretty ones who do you dogshit dirty

  • @sigmametroid2630
    @sigmametroid2630 3 роки тому +3

    "And 95 out of 100 girls will choose the Mercedes because they simply don't know"
    JDM babe. JDM!!!

  • @elvinokoro408
    @elvinokoro408 Рік тому

    Bro ur channel is high value 💯👌

  • @KD-mz5xv
    @KD-mz5xv 3 роки тому

    great info thanks

  • @chadweissert5853
    @chadweissert5853 3 роки тому +8

    “The words of King Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him:
    ‘What, my son? And what, the son of my womb? And what, the son of my vows?
    Give not your strength unto women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.’ “
    Proverbs 31:1-3

  • @djiyza4607
    @djiyza4607 3 роки тому +6

    it's funny watching these videos knowing that i actually used to be like that i have found that framing every interaction with anyone as a way to strengthen conversational skills actually takes the attention off trying to attract girls. purpose before girls honestly that is the secret to life focus on disciplining yourself to do the things you know deep down need to be done for your future each and every day of your life that is the magnetic field that draws them to you when your purpose in life becomes more of a focus than your desire for girls

  • @kennybrown7485
    @kennybrown7485 Рік тому

    Wow wonderful advice bro

  • @vanpenguin22
    @vanpenguin22 3 роки тому +1

    Talk about spot on,
    Moved into the same building as, we'll just call her suzie for purposes of illustration, 3 years out of a divorce, admired her but it stopped there, as I was gaining migtow momentum, and was sold on the idea that a man doesn't need a "better half".
    We always seemed to come home at the same time, strike up a conversation, but I showed no interest.
    She was interested.
    One day, when I had had a particularly crappy day, I guess, according to her, I looked right at her and looked away angrily.
    she left me a note asking if she or the guy she was dating at the time did something to upset me.
    Left her a note explaining the circumstances and apologizing for my behavior,
    probably wasn't prudent, but I left contact information.
    Had many exchanges to follow,
    Then, one lonely Thanksgiving spent alone, out of boredom, I READ THROUGH OUR ENTIRE TEXT THREAD, START TO FINISH,
    and fell HARD for her.
    I'm still there.
    But I had no idea NOT TO SHOW IT.
    Went with the Billy Joel song,
    "Tell her about it"
    Died in the frend zone.
    No idea about female nature.
    Discovered all the psychology resources after the fact.