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    Body language trick that makes you more attractive to guys and body language of attraction.
    This video is about a body language trick that makes women more attractive to guys. Some women know some very attractive body language tricks to make guys more attracted to them and you can learn them too. People often search for body language of attraction tips but find a bunch of stuff that they aren’t capable of doing. This trick to instantly be attractive to men will make you more sexy and get you more attention from guys.
    There are a lot if ways to make a guy like you this is just one of many. Guys are attracted to women who appear to be connected to their sexuality. This body language trick provokes guys think you’re more attractive.

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  • @KevHick
    @KevHick  3 роки тому +79

    Business owners and entrepreneurs click the link in the comment section.

    • @yumyumeatemuppp
      @yumyumeatemuppp 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you. Will do.

    • @tonjarichardson1983
      @tonjarichardson1983 3 роки тому +2

      I didn't know this was a thing .. but I tend to touch myself.. and I've noticed reactions from men when I do.. Wow you learn something new everyday!

    • @charlottetheartist327
      @charlottetheartist327 3 роки тому

      Gah your so DARLIN DARLIN. ATL. 2020 and thank you so much good vibes and peace

    • @charlottetheartist327
      @charlottetheartist327 3 роки тому +1

      I wish you peace and strength

  • @702danigirl
    @702danigirl 3 роки тому +871

    Married men make the most eye contact...I wish they would stop it's annoying😒 go home Roger!

    • @Mia-sp8jc
      @Mia-sp8jc 3 роки тому +44

      Married men are always in a hurry, as well.

    • @shieldoffaith7099
      @shieldoffaith7099 3 роки тому +32

      @@Mia-sp8jc Number One tell tale sign especially when they are lying and trying to get you hooked before their cover is blown🙄

    • @yumyumeatemuppp
      @yumyumeatemuppp 3 роки тому +5

      Not the ones I know.

    • @Mia-sp8jc
      @Mia-sp8jc 3 роки тому +2

      @@shieldoffaith7099 - that part.

    • @Mia-sp8jc
      @Mia-sp8jc 3 роки тому +2

      @@shieldoffaith7099 that part.

  • @Lovelifleur
    @Lovelifleur 3 роки тому +600

    Just because a man desires you, doesn't mean he should have you.. Making a man grow in his mental and emotional connections with you as he waits to fulfill his desire is how love is grown ❤ 🤯 💡

    • @kettanistar
      @kettanistar 3 роки тому +17

      Yes...Kev always sums it up so well...this is the take away!

    • @KK-bq3ns
      @KK-bq3ns 3 роки тому +4

      @@kettanistar 💯

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +3

      need to remember that also...lol.

    • @BluDrop5
      @BluDrop5 3 роки тому +4

      So deep yet so true...

    • @camaelyonzm.9601
      @camaelyonzm.9601 3 роки тому +3

      This makes sense. I will be adapting this principal bc it explains a lot.

  • @vanessasmith3081
    @vanessasmith3081 3 роки тому +526

    To sum up what Kevin is saying in one word: sensuality.

  • @memoir02
    @memoir02 3 роки тому +578

    COVID needs to hurry up and end so I can go out and practice all these great tips! 😣

  • @yumyumeatemuppp
    @yumyumeatemuppp 3 роки тому +412

    You’re the brother I’ve always deserved. You get me.

  • @far6311
    @far6311 3 роки тому +205

    Ive always been scared to truly be "the sexy girl" because i would feel like boys only want one thing and thats it, girls wont ever like me, etc.

    • @lovelyred30
      @lovelyred30 3 роки тому +38

      be sexy without being overly sexual...

    • @far6311
      @far6311 3 роки тому +4

      @@lovelyred30 and i oop

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +22

      if you have a creepy neighbor that likes to spy on you, you get tired of being the sexy girl real quick....lol. then you get used to being the frumpy bum girl lol...*womp womp* :/

    • @danakarloz5845
      @danakarloz5845 3 роки тому +2

      Same...I’m sad again now 😔

    • @charlottetheartist327
      @charlottetheartist327 3 роки тому +14

      Girls don't like you either way. Do what is pleasing and gives glory up above. Being beautiful attracts beautiful friends with similar issues, horny curios cops pulling you over BC they think your hot

  • @_anon_4532
    @_anon_4532 3 роки тому +150

    If you feel awkward touching yourself, just accessorize. Wear a necklace and play with it so touching your neck is more natural. Wear a bracelet and do the same thing. Or my personal favorite, wear jeans with holes up on the thighs and act like you’re messing with the fringes... everytime I’ve done this, no matter how shy the guy was... they’ve all reached over and touched my thigh & then commented on how soft my skin is😜

  • @emeraldeyes8688
    @emeraldeyes8688 3 роки тому +42

    Many today assume that if you aren’t touching them within minutes during the first date, then you give off “friend” vibes. SMH. Instant gratification and having your ego validated immediately is ridiculous when you have just met someone. Dating is going to sh*t, with or without Covid lol.

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +9

      true. and impatience and no self control...lol.

  • @diva-nicole9089
    @diva-nicole9089 3 роки тому +138

    I get so shy most of the time it's hard to make eye contact

    • @JeannideV
      @JeannideV 3 роки тому +10

      SAME SIS!

    • @LauraJeanBabbitt
      @LauraJeanBabbitt 3 роки тому +26

      I feel you. I practiced making eye contact with strangers walking down the street, and smiling or nodding. It helped, it's natural now, and not uncomfortable. You can do it, too. Good luck!

    • @diva-nicole9089
      @diva-nicole9089 3 роки тому +12

      @@LauraJeanBabbitt thank you it's the opposite sex most of the time if the man that I find myself attracted to or when I don't want to lead a man on avoid eye contact

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +5

      @@diva-nicole9089 me too...like I was waiting to cross the street one time and the guy across just starts staring...lol. got kinda nervous so just started looking pissed off lol...

    • @diva-nicole9089
      @diva-nicole9089 3 роки тому +1

      @@angelataylor7799 right

  • @SianaRepmad
    @SianaRepmad 3 роки тому +37

    When you said “Damn, she is kinda think though.” I almost threw my phone! You are a FOOL! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sianaaltiise5260
      @sianaaltiise5260 3 роки тому +1

      it’s nice to see that there are other Siana’s in the world!

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 3 роки тому +93

    Next Topic Suggestion:
    "How to make eye contact to promote your also sexually intrested , but not gonna go to bed too soon"
    "How to eat sexy in front of a guy" .

    • @astridkate5328
      @astridkate5328 3 роки тому +24

      How about “be seductive but actually don’t go to bed with the dude” ? It doesn’t matter what you say or do, if you will not go to bed easily with a dude.
      He can assume you’re a ho, a freak, that he can bang you in 2 hours or 21 minutes- let him ! What he thinks is irrelevant as long as you never confirm that assumption!
      That’s even better when it happens - women who are sensual and know how to flirt + will not go to bed with a guy just because he’s good looking/rich/popular , i.e. smart women, THOSE are the ones driving men crazy and sleeping like babies, because they get to understand the power of female sexuality and become so unbothered by random guys.
      Try this, and see what happens.
      There’s no timeframe, no “game”, no “technique”. Just give a guy a shot of your personality, let him get to know you, and be sexy.

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому

      @@astridkate5328 I need to remember that, lol.

    • @actheonyt7055
      @actheonyt7055 3 роки тому +1

      Guys probably love girl who eat a lot. That's not sexy it's just cute but I think that's way more better.

  • @chrysanthemum3464
    @chrysanthemum3464 3 роки тому +219

    “‘What are you saying Kevin? Get to the point.’ “Sure.”” And cue commercial! 😒😒😒

  • @myishacherry7242
    @myishacherry7242 3 роки тому +43

    I'm in my early 40's, was a shy homeschooled girl, raised in a loving but very strict Christian home and I only in recent years have started t ok become comfortable in my own skin and understanding there is nothing wrong with sensuality/confidence, and that it does not have to equal being a loose ho lol I didn't even start to date until quite late compared to most folks..did not sleep around only been w one man and praying the next will will my last I have always only wanted one lifelong king but felt that meant I was supposed to be all bundled up and kept under wraps except for him....we can be alluring without being loose.....

    • @sk3440
      @sk3440 3 роки тому +5

      I'm very similar to you. 40s and led a very sheltered life. Now am finding my confidence after getting out of a toxic marriage. Good luck xx

  • @magnolia2
    @magnolia2 3 роки тому +114

    Yup this is all true. If you don’t know how to do it, practice it in the mirror. Self-soothe, deep eye contact, rest “thinking hand” daintly below chin when intrigued in conversation and then caress your collar bone, chest, opposite shoulder up and down the arm stopping at the elbow, and a slight smirk? Thank me later!😼 But be careful because if you’re like me and subconsciously do these things, you will attract unwanted creeps. So I have to remind myself to tone it down or not do these things depending on the environment or person.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  3 роки тому +16

      For the win🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @theothesir
      @theothesir 3 роки тому +9

      This.
      The fact that you're aware of it makes me tip my hat to you miss.

    • @hippydippytrippy9804
      @hippydippytrippy9804 3 роки тому +6

      Haha, this made me think of the drop & pop scene in Legally Blonde. Except, your story sounds all warm & cozy, like a coffee shop chat at a bistro table, or at a nice dinner, in the booth. I invite my dates to sit next to me, instead of squaring off across from each other, and make sure to touch myself, and his arm or thigh. Lightly and absentmindedly, to emphasize a point in the conversation.

  • @chocolatedreamdoll8444
    @chocolatedreamdoll8444 3 роки тому +41

    I will never forget, I guy I was dating told me I looked liked sex. He made it seem different than being "sexy" or attractive. I even asked him like, "you mean I'm sexy", he responded yeah but that's not what I'm saying, you look like sex. I still cannot figure out what he meant to this day. Idk what that has to do with this video but yeah, that's my comment.

    • @enuphsayd9746
      @enuphsayd9746 3 роки тому +6

      It sounds like he meant your energy/vibe, and this is unintentionally from your part, is lustrous. In his mind, the way you look and move is quite sensual.

    • @enuphsayd9746
      @enuphsayd9746 3 роки тому

      It sounds like he meant your energy/vibe, and this is unintentionally from your part, is lustrous. In his mind, the way you look and move is quite sensual.

  • @Mmmmkaaay
    @Mmmmkaaay 3 роки тому +102

    I'd also like to add: stretching...
    Ladies, men love to watch a woman doing nice, big stretch.

    • @missme9650
      @missme9650 3 роки тому +4

      Really?!?

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay 3 роки тому +4

      @@missme9650 Yes! Really. Do it next time you're around a cute guy. Bet he watches.

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +10

      it would always annoy me in school when someone in front of me started sretching....like get your arms away from me...lol. *personal space*

    • @Cami9325
      @Cami9325 3 роки тому +1

      @lavidavi stretching is exciting for a man, especially when you curve the end of your back while stretching...

    • @Cami9325
      @Cami9325 3 роки тому +6

      @lavidavi when I'm cold, i rub my thighs and arms lol so it can happen and it's not weird. Even in the workplace i stretch sometimes... I rubbed my thighs on the first date with my boyfriend unconsciously cause i was a little bit cold and he told me after that i was very sensual and feminine lol

  • @Sofia-bl9cb
    @Sofia-bl9cb 3 роки тому +108

    kev, do you have any idea how much you've impacted my life?

  • @kristinesliwa2221
    @kristinesliwa2221 3 роки тому +63

    Every time I watch one of these videos from you Kev, I learn something no one else has said 😳
    Damn lol

  • @7Tiffany
    @7Tiffany 3 роки тому +64

    Omg..this is so hard😩..I can't be sexy if I really really tried. I'm goofy as hell and clumsy. But I am definitely sensual with myself..lol. There's no problem in that area! Lol, thanks for the tips!

    • @Lovelifleur
      @Lovelifleur 3 роки тому +9

      You can be both and still be Sexy. I used to be Overly sexual & Overly goofy at the same time.
      Just don't be nervous to be you.

    • @velasquezcarter2963
      @velasquezcarter2963 3 роки тому

      Fr 😂

    • @weekendnomad5038
      @weekendnomad5038 3 роки тому +2

      Me too sis me too! Lol and probably talk to damn much 😂🤣 I’m like I’ll be someone’s shot of whisky eventually fck it lol

    • @TheModernAlchemix
      @TheModernAlchemix 2 роки тому

      Beginner move: lotion your hands and wrists… really take your time with it and work it in. It’ll get you effortlessly practicing ♥️

  • @glo5463
    @glo5463 3 роки тому +22

    I wasn't ready for the model picture 😩😍

  • @cartersmom0629
    @cartersmom0629 3 роки тому +70

    Kev you didn't rant too long this video was so refreshing. I never thought about body language in that way. You just taught me something!

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 3 роки тому +9

      He never rants. I learn from him.

    • @lauriepeifer7297
      @lauriepeifer7297 3 роки тому +3

      I agree. He nevet rants. One of my many things I love about his videos. He's one of my favorites and I listen to A LOT of different relationship coaches!

    • @cartersmom0629
      @cartersmom0629 3 роки тому +1

      @Romanticide Me too!

    • @mspennyisaac
      @mspennyisaac 3 роки тому

      I agree. He takes really long to get to the point 😂

    • @cartersmom0629
      @cartersmom0629 3 роки тому

      @@mspennyisaac No he doesn't. In addition to teaching us the body language trick, he teaches us lots of other things. I love it.

  • @rociozagone
    @rociozagone Рік тому +1

    By waching this video I realized that I do this all.the.time, and it's not on purpose, but because I'm a really anxious person (mostly in social situations) so I'm always touching myself (like rubbing my arms, legs or hands, touching my hair, caressing my neck or jawline, etc.). It kind of comforts me and helps me relax a little when I'm in public.

  • @FreedomUninterrupted
    @FreedomUninterrupted 3 роки тому +72

    BTW. . . Casual Self Soothing Ex:
    Fixing your bra strap,
    gently scratching/rubbing your chest,
    rubbing your shoulders,
    rubbing your neck/collarbone,
    and the like.
    I unintentionally do all of these! I guess I have no etiquette.🤦🏾‍♀️ Lol I'm gonna have to refrain from at least half of these if I don't want the guy to think that I want him. This explains so much in my life! 🙄but🤣

    • @evolvinglove7786
      @evolvinglove7786 3 роки тому +6

      I attracted lots of men and wondered why... lol I am a soother naturally. I can relate

    • @JD-dz9lx
      @JD-dz9lx 3 роки тому +2

      I these things this week on Zoom! It was actually a “professional” kind of call. I am shy and was stressed and nervous. He was SUPER handsome and I inadvertently started squeezing my shoulders and traps, rubbing neck to soothe! Is playing with hair on the list too?

    • @allieloulou85
      @allieloulou85 3 роки тому +2

      @@JD-dz9lx probably....

  • @veralisahunter5013
    @veralisahunter5013 3 роки тому +53

    Now this is content with originality. I learned something new today. Thanks, Kev!

  • @Phillychic
    @Phillychic 3 роки тому +39

    Powerful message!! And to think I turn mines off, to be respected for my brain first!! That truly makes sense!!

  • @Indigolily80
    @Indigolily80 3 роки тому +27

    I'm finna spend this whole weekend playing Tweet's song "Oops (Oh My)" and practicing my sensuality. You have answered my perpetual question that I ask myself, "Why am I invisible to men?" As a church girl, sexuality was preached against. I feel like I have been cheated my entire 20 yrs of adult life.

    • @thankyou7852
      @thankyou7852 3 роки тому +4

      I’m 24 and feel like I’m setting myself up for failure trying to follow the Christian model of dating .

    • @hippydippytrippy9804
      @hippydippytrippy9804 3 роки тому +3

      Wow! ❤️ I am thrilled for you! Waking up to your own sensuality, What an exciting and empowering time for you 🤗 Best wishes on your journey of Self actualization 🙏

    • @roznichols371
      @roznichols371 3 роки тому +7

      You can be feminine with just a hint of sensual and save super sensual or sexual for "him". But, truthfully, the more feminine you are, you're going to be attractive anyway and then you'll have to beat the tenor section and the deacons off with a stick. Lol. Play with your "look", too. (Hair, lips, threads, heels and smile!)

  • @kitthecat6543
    @kitthecat6543 3 роки тому +1

    Kev and alex give the best advice on UA-cam, they're underrated because they're honest and dont lie to women about always being right. Women like being lied too

  • @liadanryan-gerhardt7189
    @liadanryan-gerhardt7189 3 роки тому +21

    I love the depth & quality of analysis and intelligent information that goes into these videos, Kevin. So rare to find these days on UA-cam. Really appreciate it. Keep it up, man!

  • @gretchencarterdpm8903
    @gretchencarterdpm8903 3 роки тому +52

    All due respect to wifey.. absolutely gorgeous picture Kev... thanks for sharing such great info!

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  3 роки тому +7

      ☺️my pleasure

  • @Mariah_678
    @Mariah_678 3 роки тому +41

    I love it when men slightly rub they chin or jaw omg lol

  • @TheAmaraHorton
    @TheAmaraHorton 3 роки тому +11

    Thank you. Self-soothe, give myself the power of my own touch. If he imagines whatever he imagines, then that’s a bonus. But I’m going to start giving myself the soothing touch I need and deserve. 🙏🏾💗

  • @tormentorchick1755
    @tormentorchick1755 3 роки тому +40

    Sometimes, when I make eye contact with a guy, especially if he comes up to me, he seems nervous or even look like a deer in headlights.👁👄👁

    • @khadijaking711
      @khadijaking711 3 роки тому +3

      Are you a Scorpio ♏️ by chance?

    • @tormentorchick1755
      @tormentorchick1755 3 роки тому +7

      @@khadijaking711 My moon sign (emotions and thoughts) is Scorpio, rising is Virgo (what I seem to be), and my sun sign is Libra.

    • @destinyb1293
      @destinyb1293 3 роки тому +1

      @@khadijaking711 I'm an scorpio this is me to a T

    • @tormentorchick1755
      @tormentorchick1755 3 роки тому +5

      @lavidavi I've been told that I either look like I'm ready to kill someone or are done with everyone's shit. I could actually be happy or calm XD.

    • @CosmicHomegirl
      @CosmicHomegirl 3 роки тому +1

      @@tormentorchick1755 that Scorpio death stare lol even if it’s your moon sign 👀 I’m a Scorpio rising and get the same reaction smh 🙄

  • @immob3247
    @immob3247 3 роки тому +13

    Kev, this makes so much sense… especially considering the psychology of: 'no one wants someone that no one wants, and vica versa we usually appear more attractive to someone else, once it's clear that we are attractive period… (which means to others too) our ability to touch, soothe, and love on ourselves is obliviously an indication that it might be an investment you too might want to consider worthy of making. 🤣 I get it. I love it. 🤦🏾‍♀️ gotta B mo' careful... lmao again

  • @tonjarichardson1983
    @tonjarichardson1983 3 роки тому +9

    I didn't know this was a thing .. but I tend to touch myself.. and I've noticed reactions from men when I do.. Wow you learn something new everyday!

  • @ang_ro
    @ang_ro 3 роки тому +19

    OMG this is the truth!! It works when men do it too. A hot guy at my work sometimes rubs his abs while he is talking with me, and his shirt lifts up a little bit. And I lose all focus on what he is saying, I'm just like 🤤🤤🤤

  • @S.Lee8
    @S.Lee8 3 роки тому +62

    How do I turn down my seductiveness. I often find men call me sexy and only want to sleep with me. I'm not sure how I'm giving off "just sex" energy. Hell I honestly wear sweat pants and leggings most of the time and I still get this. I hate being called sexy because it seems like it's only about my body, like they truly aren't attracted to me or even think I'm worth more than sex

    • @bnav414
      @bnav414 3 роки тому +8

      I agree. Please do this as a topic Kev.

    • @KK-bq3ns
      @KK-bq3ns 3 роки тому +26

      Fart a few times 🤷🏽‍♀️ it might turn em on though, depending on who it is.

    • @sherryb1083
      @sherryb1083 3 роки тому +12

      I feel the same girl. There is more to a woman than tits and ass.

    • @key_aria3475
      @key_aria3475 3 роки тому +2

      Story of my lide

    • @key_aria3475
      @key_aria3475 3 роки тому

      Life

  • @newnimprovesT3
    @newnimprovesT3 3 роки тому +31

    Pls do a video on strategic eye contact plsss!!

  • @angiehitch6807
    @angiehitch6807 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! I have been watching other people's dating advice videos for months and no one explains things the way Kevin does, or even talks about the things Kevin does! This guy is real, and a real genius! Thank you Kev!

  • @yabe1496
    @yabe1496 3 роки тому +8

    Thanks for talking about details like these that no one mentions. I have been doing this my entire life without knowing the impact on men until recently. Do your nails on red, dont have to be long neither blinging, and the sex appeal grows exponentially. Men will stare your hands all the time and where you move your hands to.

    • @yogigoyi
      @yogigoyi 3 роки тому +2

      You need to have pretty hands for this.i find red always looks appealing on lighter skin,even lighter shade of brown,and the hands abit fleshy and not boney .i feel my hands are too brown and I dislike my veins showing.

    • @yabe1496
      @yabe1496 3 роки тому +3

      @@yogigoyi there are different undertones of red (from orange to blue) and sure one matchs perfectly for you. Look for what type of season you are (its not the color of your skin but the undertone). The right undertone will optically dismish spots, color of the vein, etc., just like make up. Im winter, sheer and pale colors make me look yellow/green and my hands look dirty.

  • @peacefulparadise8713
    @peacefulparadise8713 3 роки тому +32

    Clicked immediately!

  • @hippydippytrippy9804
    @hippydippytrippy9804 3 роки тому +4

    Wow, this was powerful, potent, ancient magic! And pure, primate science ⚗️🧬 It’s why women must cover themselves in some cultures. Lest they provoke male desire... Thank you for sharing this wisdom, and your story. I have a deeper understanding of why you are such a compelling personality now. Driven to understand how to achieve the life of your desires, you studied and practiced, presence & persuasion. Now sharing the benefit of your experience with the public, for free! Thank you 🙏

  • @kettanistar
    @kettanistar 3 роки тому +8

    It all makes sense, it's a visual que for those that are visually stimulated. Also included is women playing with or flipping their hair. Great video!

  • @lynnpechtorres6992
    @lynnpechtorres6992 3 роки тому +29

    This explains alot! I have a bad back and i will put my hands on my hips and push my chest out or lean over and rub my back and also just rub my arms when im cold which is often haha. At work customer's are always coming on to me or saying nasty things to me or what they wanna do to me. I think im attractive but damn they act like im a model or something lol I always think damn i just dont get it, now i understand.

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +1

      true...I dont even wanna stretch in public, lol...mom would say guys call her a hooker cuz shes always stretching when walking

  • @aquarius1507
    @aquarius1507 3 роки тому +54

    Just learned a distinct and general rule for being seductive: act natural and don’t stifle your body language and attraction so strongly
    Thanks Kev!

  • @melodyross9601
    @melodyross9601 3 роки тому +8

    Kev... you taught me something this evening! Thank you for bridging the gap for us. Now on to a video for strategic eye movements. 😉

  • @barbaramcintyre427
    @barbaramcintyre427 3 роки тому +6

    Well done, very astute! And you're right, this subject isn't talked about! Thank you!

  • @CamilaSaurus
    @CamilaSaurus 3 роки тому +11

    I think I’ve always subconsciously known this and done it. I do notice guys have paid attention or even mimicked what I did to myself back on me (if they were that ballsy/forward). Thank you for confirming this! No one has said it in a video before. Always love how direct you are.

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +1

      yeah I always wondered why guys seem to think I'm hot lol, guess now I know! ;)

  • @pennycandyys
    @pennycandyys 3 роки тому +4

    I think this is one of your most amazing videos Kev, thanks for dropping those pearls of wisdom on us! 🤗

  • @ActressAyannaTene
    @ActressAyannaTene 3 роки тому +16

    Definitely in touch with my sensual side but oddly modest about my sex appeal
    at the same time.

    • @myishacherry7242
      @myishacherry7242 3 роки тому

      Ayanna T Same lol

    • @myishacherry7242
      @myishacherry7242 3 роки тому

      My profile pic is from earlier this year; I'm 43 and took two hours going back and forth about posting it on Facebook...chickened out and used it for UA-cam instead🤣 Worried about what my parents and church fam would say🤦‍♀️ But I am learning there's nothing wrong with sensuality; big difference between sensuality/confidence, and being overtly sexual l/vulgar/crass

  • @memoir02
    @memoir02 3 роки тому +9

    Kev has been churning out content catered just for me these last 2 weeks! 👏👏👏 Thank you for helping me try to upgrade my attractiveness and love life!

  • @misol4337
    @misol4337 3 роки тому +9

    It works for guys as well. I think they do it unconsciously too sometimes. Some of my crushes often stretched, flexed or rubbed their muscles, even touch and adjust their belts. I always notice, it does start some thoughts. Body language is powerful, thank you Kev

  • @minaturalbeauty1763
    @minaturalbeauty1763 3 роки тому +5

    KEVINNNNNNNN I LOVE THIS VIDEO COS YOU ARE GIVING WOMEN GAMEEEE! but please do a part 2 of this video and dramatise what you are teaching thanks in advance

  • @theothesir
    @theothesir 3 роки тому +136

    It's something about a woman's subtle sensuality drives me wild.

    • @KevHick
      @KevHick  3 роки тому +8

      Right🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @derica818
      @derica818 3 роки тому +9

      Give me examples pls sir

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +7

      @@derica818 like putting up hair or taking down, or putting on lipstick/gloss...maybe? lol

    • @shayshay15ism
      @shayshay15ism 3 роки тому +5

      People been calling me quirky for years😭😭personality

    • @jessicabeca1234
      @jessicabeca1234 3 роки тому +1

      Please tell me if sexual attraction means that a man loves a woman for real. This will help me. Thank you

  • @iambloopy
    @iambloopy 3 роки тому +20

    Had no idea I was sensual this whole time lmao 😂

  • @LisaGemini
    @LisaGemini 3 роки тому +3

    Funny and informative, too. I'm definitely going to try self-soothing motions. I definitely have difficulty getting guys to notice me. THANK YOU, you rock!

  • @olgaharris1103
    @olgaharris1103 2 роки тому +1

    Go head Kev‼️🤗. I’m an old bird - but learning!🤔😉

  • @Thessaloniaworsley
    @Thessaloniaworsley 3 роки тому +9

    Ladies, watch video and read books about feminine energy. You can learn plenty getting in touch with your feminine energy.

  • @stararbouin192
    @stararbouin192 3 роки тому +10

    You said that! Imma do it and give you feedback on this chat!

    • @simpsonut1297
      @simpsonut1297 3 роки тому +2

      I also do this subconsciously! Touch is a huge self soothing thing for me.
      Kev you’re amazing, thank you for what you do! And you’re definitely also providing eye candy 😍

  • @neicylove820
    @neicylove820 3 роки тому +3

    Sold!! Touch me in the mornin'! I'm all in. Thanks, Kev.

  • @aurieamoore5823
    @aurieamoore5823 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for that. One of the biggest things I'm working on right now is how to get in tune with my natural sensuality and sexuality. I feel like regardless of the attraction point of view, being more comfortable with my body will help me become a happier person. I've heard the benefits of platonic touch but for some reason it had never occured to me that i could give it to myself. I'm happy i came across this video.

  • @AmberSumerall
    @AmberSumerall 3 роки тому +3

    Yeah I was wondering about this. I’m an attractive woman that used to get approached all the time and now, men don’t even approach me anymore. I’m like wth is going on? I’m a single woman. I want love too. Guess I need to wait and let the Lord handle it.

  • @LifeisAisha
    @LifeisAisha 3 роки тому +4

    This makes so much sense, and has never been explained in this way. Good info. Thank you for sharing.

  • @cynthialeonards155
    @cynthialeonards155 3 роки тому +5

    I love it! I do this often without even realizing it. I will definitely be aware of what I’m doing and do it more in front of my BF. 😉 Side note- He’s good abt holding my hand and cuddling in private but doesn’t like PDA. The Concern- when cuddling or sitting close before or after some kisses (in private) I try to look him in the eyes and want to just stare and connect; he won’t, he’ll squint or close his eyes. I know he’s on the shy side but I want him to look at me passionately with desire. What can I do to build his confidence?

  • @theseniorbarbershopcollett2108
    @theseniorbarbershopcollett2108 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you this was really good information I’m a barber/stylist. I’ve cut men’s hair for 20 years and I am always wondering what they’re thinking while I’m concentrating on the haircut and they’re staring at me in the mirror. I’m very thorough at what I do and make sure I get everything just right for them. Very interesting I’ll remember this from now on☺️

  • @tywanbrown3034
    @tywanbrown3034 3 роки тому

    You are so correct in this. Some women do it attentionally to try and attract attention and some women (like myself) do it unconsciously.

  • @shannonroberson168
    @shannonroberson168 3 роки тому +7

    Gosh Kevin... You are so handsome. Thank you for the tips

  • @Giftedtarot7
    @Giftedtarot7 3 роки тому +3

    Why do men get intimidated by me they’re so scared to talk to me but when they finally do they say I was afraid to talk to you and I’m like what I’m super nice

  • @flixbix11211
    @flixbix11211 3 роки тому +11

    This is HILARIOUS! So if I am stretching out my arthritic knees or the crick in my neck or rubbing hy headachy temples...🤣

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 Рік тому

    Casual self soothing, multiplies desire in the masculines. It displays a sensual relationship, with one self. Sheesh, the shit you learn.

  • @MsSunshine1908
    @MsSunshine1908 3 роки тому +5

    I was watching boyz n the hood last night like oh shit Kev looks like the guy who shot Ricky!! Rickyyyyyy! 🤣🤣 tfs great video as always 👍🏾

  • @WeareCustomerService
    @WeareCustomerService 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! This is exciting! Im happy to put this into practice ....thanks, K. Hick

  • @yvonnewalker1393
    @yvonnewalker1393 3 роки тому +6

    I wish my daughter would just listen Kevin!!

  • @djpotpourre10
    @djpotpourre10 3 роки тому

    This is soooo true! I never realized that I do this! It’s such a natural thing to me and lots of guys have said that I’m sexy and have very seductive energy because of how I carry myself and I wonder if my self-soothing is a part of that now. I’m going to be more aware if it!

  • @Toozip09
    @Toozip09 3 роки тому +6

    This is true😊 I do it naturally

  • @immob3247
    @immob3247 3 роки тому +2

    This explains SO MUCH... thank you Kev. I clearly needs STOP this shit... lmao
    I don't feel like I do it alot... but, clearly I do it more than I pay attention to 😬

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz1647 3 роки тому +7

    🤔 hmm.... got me to thinking, I do this unconsciously: to self-sooth, at home.

  • @cobeemint93
    @cobeemint93 3 роки тому +1

    My first response was oh great another one of these videos lol but I thought it was pretty insightful even when I thought I couldn’t learn anymore Kev did not and never disappoints!

  • @ladidodi8912
    @ladidodi8912 3 роки тому +3

    If you wear a necklace, cross one arm while the other arm is upright with your hand playing with your necklace. Gently glide your fingers back and forth grazing your collar bone.
    If you don't wear necklaces, twiddle your earlobes.
    Cross your arms and gently rub your forearms.
    Cross your legs and wear shoes that you can dangle over your toes as you sway your legs back and forth. Not in a crazy frantic way. More in a smooth soothing way. Doesn't have to be long drawn out leg swings. It could be gentle, short swings or just your ankles twirling. If your at a table doing this, have a pen or pencil between your lips while you are reading or while you appear to be deep in thought.
    One last one that I can think of. If its a bit chilly, cross your legs and place both hands, while pressed together, in between your thighs to make it seem like you are trying to get warm.

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +1

      like in clueless....lol. and I do that one w/putting hands between legs too

  • @MsBabygirl1920
    @MsBabygirl1920 3 роки тому

    Dayum Kev that pic was fire!! LOL If you ever get tired of helping us go for it!!!

  • @hollyj2925
    @hollyj2925 3 роки тому +4

    I really like this definitely going to do this! Thank you Kevin!☺️

  • @Natashea
    @Natashea 3 роки тому +2

    ✍🏾 self ✍🏾soothe✍🏾by✍🏾touching✍🏾myself 😍

  • @rondashw
    @rondashw 2 роки тому

    DANG BRO!!! THAT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE AND EXPLAINS SO MUCH! 🤯🤯

  • @dawn2205
    @dawn2205 3 роки тому +2

    Kev breaks it down ❤️❤️ you have made my day.

    • @dawn2205
      @dawn2205 3 роки тому

      Touching yourself will
      Always be considered a sexy pic.

  • @mahaalotaibi8352
    @mahaalotaibi8352 3 роки тому +17

    Another very easy way to get his attention play very shy 🤭 😉 believe me it works all the time! Men dont like aggressive overly flirty girls or women that come off desperate and turn off masculine men.

    • @musicmaker1311
      @musicmaker1311 3 роки тому

      FACTS MAAM

    • @paleriedove3333
      @paleriedove3333 3 роки тому +4

      I don't have to act shy my as* is painfully shy!!! I've been shy all my life and no matter how much I try to shake that shy shadow!! But I've always done well in my love life it hasn't stopped me ever from finding love!!!

  • @ButterflyBree
    @ButterflyBree 3 роки тому +4

    Kev thank you for sharing this tip. I don't think I exude sexy, in general. It's interesting that you found touching yourself in your modeling class. I always thought men didn't struggle with subtly exuding sexuality.

  • @nagmastergeneral948
    @nagmastergeneral948 3 роки тому

    What an excellent speaker you are Ken Hicks. Your advice is great also!

  • @artemisthehuntress1076
    @artemisthehuntress1076 3 роки тому +4

    Loved this. Definitely gonna give this a try

  • @chocolatemilkhotel96
    @chocolatemilkhotel96 3 роки тому

    My best frisnd used to be naturally flirty. She would get us free drinks, snacks, ice cream, you name it! She was always in and out of relationships. All the while I was the single chick who couldn't understand why no guy liked me 😝 its because I literally didn't know about these subtle signs to prop myself up/feel attractive! Thank you for taking the time to.make these videos!

  • @sasharealone
    @sasharealone 3 роки тому

    Makes so much sense now. I have always done this, and never thought about it.

  • @Aujedi
    @Aujedi 3 роки тому

    Wow. I’ve been told I’m very sensual and I never knew how so. Thanks Kev

  • @MagikForTheMAsses
    @MagikForTheMAsses 3 роки тому +1

    You're brilliant, well spoken, and thorough. I would like to know about your astrology placements. I'm more impressed with your presentation, intelligence, and insight than your incredibly helpful advice. *subscribed*

  • @lessonswithdelmi4495
    @lessonswithdelmi4495 2 роки тому

    I never knew about the sensually awareness with my own self body language. Thanks! ☺🦁

  • @leesteal4458
    @leesteal4458 3 роки тому +21

    I mute my sexuality purposefully. I just can't be bothered sometimes.

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +5

      lol! so true....sick of all the attention...lol.

    • @cutegirllovesuuu
      @cutegirllovesuuu 3 роки тому +3

      @@angelataylor7799 so true stuff can get weird fast with the wrong people lol😂😂

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +1

      @@cutegirllovesuuu amen!! like when I'm leaving the grocery store w/all my bags and some guy offers me $100...lol.

    • @cutegirllovesuuu
      @cutegirllovesuuu 3 роки тому +1

      @@angelataylor7799 lol only if he has the money up front 🤣🤣 then he go where he came from

    • @angelataylor7799
      @angelataylor7799 3 роки тому +1

      @@cutegirllovesuuu lol, right...shoulda been like "where the money then!?" snatch it then byeeeee. lol

  • @camaelyonzm.9601
    @camaelyonzm.9601 3 роки тому +5

    This is so true. I dropped my friend off to work and while walking away I rubbed my hands over my butt, not with intention, just to straighten out my pants and he said OMG, how can you do that to me! I was confused and didn't get it but now I do lol.

  • @Salt594
    @Salt594 2 роки тому

    I love listening to this guy talk

  • @newyorkdiva3
    @newyorkdiva3 3 роки тому +2

    Awesome video Kev!

  • @Cami9325
    @Cami9325 3 роки тому +2

    I do it unconsciously lol and my boyfriend told me the first date that i was very sensual and feminine, i think that's why 😂😂

  • @tortillataylor
    @tortillataylor 3 роки тому

    I’m a new sub and just wanna say I love your channel! You’re doing a great thing :)

  • @chinuzi371
    @chinuzi371 3 роки тому

    This is really great information kevin.
    It'll be really nice if you added some visual examples. I am willing to do some roleplay short movie../photoshoot